How to Connect With Someone on a Deeper Level Through Curiosity and Authenticity
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- čas přidán 15. 03. 2021
- How to Connect With Someone on a Deeper Level Through Curiosity and Authenticity
What to do when you are talking with someone, but it just stays on the surface and soon gets boring? A lot of people are used to having small talk but have difficulty going deeper and don’t know how to connect with the other person authentically. Connecting deeply in a conversation really comes down to the following communication skills: child-like curiosity, being authentic, listening deeply and being present. By being curious, really listening and wanting to know and understand what the other person really thinks and feels we naturally build a human connection. Because actually being curious about someone without an agenda makes the other person feel appreciated and really wanting to share with you. Real curiosity is like a present to the other person and helps to naturally connect with people. When you then start to talk about the things you really care about and are authentic and real in the conversation the other person feels like you actually care and don’t just talk with them out of politeness or with a hidden agenda. Adding to that by listening deeply and being fully present with the other person you will naturally feel connected and have found the key on how to have deep conversations. Watch the video to fully understand how to apply those new communication skills in your conversations today.
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These are truly great advice. Having a child like curiosity in a conversation while truly shoeing that you are present with the other person allows you to connect at a greater and deeper level. I have been applying this method and it really works. Great video!
Thank you for letting me know! I'm so happy to hear that you are applying this method and it works for you! 🙏❤
Comment below what happens when you apply those tips to have deeper connections and conversations, I'm curious! ;)
What if the other person is doesnt want to open up and puts a barriee😔
Such a soothing voice! Loved the advice, thank you!
Thank you very much. Love the comment about my voice. And I'm really to hear you got something out of the video!
Thank-you very much:)
I can't wait to apply this!
So happy to hear that! Love to see you're getting something out of the video. What happened when you applied it?
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A lot of love for the other person:) It's quite wonderful. Thank-you!
This is wonderful to hear! Thanks for sharing 🙏
I have a question. How do I possibly rekindle my curiosity about people in general? For a few months now I have almost had the feeling that I am getting to know people out of a need for social contact. There are actually people I find very interesting but something is blocking me from making that contact. I have realized that I have been following small-talk scripts that I am afraid to step out of.
Any suggestions?
Hey Ivan! Thanks for your question. So from what you write there are a couple of layers I would look at. First, look at the feeling that comes up (that blocks you) when you get in contact with people. How does it feel like? Can you allow yourself to feel it and relax a bit more into it? Allowing it instead of trying to push it away? (Which often happens automatically). You can do that through releasing and feeling. I would start with that video: czcams.com/video/81c7na2rTo8/video.html
It is probably some fear or similar that is showing itself in form of that blockage.
Then, the thing about curiosity: It is almost like a muscle you train by asking yourself what do I genuinely find interesting about that person? What would I really like to know about the person?
You can also do like a "curiosity walk" in your city looking at things and people and just asking yourself what would you genuinely want to know about those things and those people? And try to let yourself be guided more by your feeling... where do naturally feel a feeling of curiosity about some thing or some person or something about a person?
And then see if you can start following that feeling of curiosity a bit more every day. E.g. make a commitment that you follow at least once this natural feeling of curiosity when it comes up...
Let me know if and how that helps!
There are also a lot more things you could do. In case you want to explore it more sign up for a free half an hour coaching and evaluation call (link in the description).
Cheers!
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Hey, great to see you commenting on my channel. Let me know if you have any questions or need support in that topic :)