How FORGIVENESS Can Help Rescue Your Marriage

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  • čas přidán 9. 07. 2024
  • If you're trying to rescue your marriage and get back to the marriage you used to have, or even make it better than before, you might feel stuck. That's why we have created the 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage (And Yourself.) In the previous episode, we walked through the first three steps of this process, and today we walk through Step 4... Forgiving and Reconciling
    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Introduction to today’s episode.
    1:27 - The second part of the fourth step.
    2:22 - Forgiveness is an important part of reconciliation.
    4:44 - How forgiving sets you free.
    7:55 - What does it take to reconcile?
    8:56 - Exploring Reconciliation.
    11:37 - Steps to help you heal.
    14:01 - The importance of the first four steps to reconciliation.
    16:32 - The process of reconciling.
    Click here to watch the Step 1-3!
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Komentáře • 26

  • @caymenbrown2465
    @caymenbrown2465 Před 4 měsíci +2

    By far the hardest thing I’m struggling with. Totally know better and unable to do better and I’m trying but I can’t get past it

  • @kimberlycole297
    @kimberlycole297 Před rokem +8

    My prayer that your marriage can be Redeemed and Restored

  • @littlebigband2010
    @littlebigband2010 Před rokem +18

    What does forgiveness look like from a day to day basis. How do we ourselves know for certain that we have forgiven a spouse? It’s one thing to say I forgive but a totally separate thing to actually forgive. Can we fake it till we make it? Forcing oneself to be kind civil and generous with no malice in the heart? Until it becomes a reality. Can faking it with an intentional eye for the future of the peace that comes from forgiving actually take place? Can one forgive and just turn a leaf and it is done? This I feel, is a fair question of questions!

    • @tweedjohnny8740
      @tweedjohnny8740 Před rokem +7

      Sad to say but I agree with you. I just can't find it in my heart and I know in my heart it's destroying my walk with God.

    • @martindeleon9863
      @martindeleon9863 Před rokem +4

      Follow what Jesus says for forgiveness.

    • @j.s.3203
      @j.s.3203 Před rokem +2

      I am currently reading the book "Forgive" by Tim Keller. True Biblical forgiveness is a process and includes certain elements. I highly recommend this book.

    • @volleyballjerry
      @volleyballjerry Před rokem +3

      @@j.s.3203 I will check it out, J.S. Obviously I am someone who needs to read it.

    • @oak68
      @oak68 Před rokem +4

      Love them like God loves them. Forgive them like He forgives them. See them like He sees them. See them as the flawed person that they are (we all are) and understand that God knows their heart and why this happened. We don't but He wants us to trust Him. I have done this the past year and my entire perspective has changed. 💜

  • @lisachristinaconfirmed5067
    @lisachristinaconfirmed5067 Před 10 měsíci +1

    These steps are going to be very hard with a spouse who’s moved out and mentally and completely done with the relationship YEARS ago

  • @lolliisabusdriver.4447
    @lolliisabusdriver.4447 Před 4 měsíci

    You guys have helped me so much. Ty

  • @davidrowe5437
    @davidrowe5437 Před rokem +4

    Great content as always. I'm very thankful for what you all are doing for so many. God bless.

  • @LiA-ud4cg
    @LiA-ud4cg Před rokem +4

    What if you tried to forgive and you just can't?

  • @everett8610
    @everett8610 Před rokem

    I really like the comment about there not being an emergency because thats exactly what it feels like an emergency.
    I'm turned off by the constant workshop this workshop that trying to sell your wares but thats my problem if its a problem.

  • @martindeleon9863
    @martindeleon9863 Před rokem +1

    Weird question, but is Kimberly’s pinky broken? Might be the angle but it looks slightly bent.
    My wife had her pink cut off when she was a child but they were able to re-attach and now its slightly bent.
    Lol totally nothing to do with the topic. Just something I noticed

  • @garyzornow9084
    @garyzornow9084 Před rokem +1

    What if I can’t forgive myself? I realize that I don’t know what it feels like to be in love. I feel sorry for her and us, because of the years wasted. Is there a way to recover from this?
    Gary

  • @alfredoapelacio924
    @alfredoapelacio924 Před rokem +1

    how will u forgive ur spouse if she/he don't ask for it,& still doesn't look like remorseful of his/her act?

    • @dsxa918
      @dsxa918 Před 8 měsíci

      I'd say base your ability to reconcile on their willingness to maintain the relationship. It's a total "proceed at your own caution" situation but it's possible they don't have the communication skill and you may be stronger, who knows. I'd base it off their willingness to work hard to maintain a standard between yall.

  • @ikeitarajee5364
    @ikeitarajee5364 Před rokem +1

    I'm giving up on life because I don't have money to save my marriage I don't have anything I'm in another state where I don't know anybody I just want my family or ending everything I do mean everything

    • @royrodgers567
      @royrodgers567 Před rokem +10

      Don't give up. I'm not gonna give some "I saved my marriage" story but what I have is hope. You are worth every second you are alive. You are good enough. You have to believe that because it's true no matter what others think, say, or do. Do not give up. You can save your marriage without money.

    • @oak68
      @oak68 Před rokem +7

      I agree, don't give up. Reach out to God, He will carry you. You are a child of God with divine worth. You take care of you, and you will change which can bring about change in your marriage. I did and it has. With your Heavenly Father's help, you can do and overcome all things! Hang in there!!!💜

  • @thecaptain4184
    @thecaptain4184 Před rokem +3

    Forgive if someone is living with you. That means the person will do the same thing over and over

  • @thecaptain4184
    @thecaptain4184 Před rokem +1

    It Seems That You Are just Creating work for persons who have Passes in. Psychology