4 Easy Ways One Spouse Can Transform A Bad Marriage And Prevent Divorce

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  • čas přidán 24. 07. 2024
  • People say one person can't change a relationship. Although, we have indicated and demonstrated over about three decades now that that's just not true. There are 4 easy ways one spouse can transform a bad marriage and prevent divorce.
    One person can change a marriage.
    Now, the other person does at some point have to reciprocate, so whether you're in trouble wanting to learn how to save your marriage or just make your marriage better, let's concentrate on you for a few minutes.
    That's atypical to begin with because most folks want to concentrate on the spouse.
    "Hey how can I get my spouse to do this how can I make my spouse do that"
    We don't teach you how to change other people. We teach you how to change you.
    When you change for the better it will definitely have an effect on those people around you even to the point where hopeless marriages have been saved because of the spouse who wanted to save the marriage learned how to change himself or herself and that started the process that eventually healed the marriage.
    Today, we reveal the 4 easy ways you can transform your marriage and prevent divorce.
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Komentáře • 37

  • @MarriageHelper
    @MarriageHelper  Před rokem +3

    Pick from our list of unbiased, Marriage Helper Certified Coaches by visiting this link and booking a session today:
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    We look forward to guiding you through this difficult time.
    There is ALWAYS hope!

  • @jsf54
    @jsf54 Před rokem +17

    It is nice to see my coach on a video today. Jared is great and has been a big help on my ongoing marriage issues.

    • @raymondgerardcarls4741
      @raymondgerardcarls4741 Před rokem

      how are you now? I hope things are better.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      We're so glad that Jared has been helping you! He's a great member of our team. Thanks for commenting and let us know if there's anything else we can do for you Jesse!

  • @lancsideconstructioncoachi1533

    Great stuff as Always Marriage Helper. I can personally say that Jared is great to work with and I’m super glad to see him on the program. Thanks so much!!

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem +1

      That's amazing! Thank you so much for the kind words. We will be sure to let Jared know! Blessings,

  • @JordanNHoule
    @JordanNHoule Před rokem +2

    2:10 I went through that season as well… almost spiteful but that eventually passed and I just wanted to be my best self knowing it was best for everyone including my currently separated spouse.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      We are glad that you are continuing to work on becoming your best self Jordan! Thanks for sharing this comment. Please let us know if there's anything we can do to help you.

  • @aleccapel472
    @aleccapel472 Před rokem +2

    Really enjoyed this video! I think Jared did a great job, obviously a little nervous to be on with the boss lol. He has great camera charisma, would love to see him in the future!

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      Thanks for the comment Alec! We appreciate your feedback and we will definitely have Jared on more videos in the future! Blessings,

  • @MCKVX1
    @MCKVX1 Před rokem +5

    In 2016 I paid $500 for the marriage helper course my wife said she didn't want to know about any course I did it myself but became dispondent I gave up after a year and dated somebody else my wife divorced me in 2022
    I still think that marriages should be saved as it's the break up and divorce of a family which crushes everything including the children's belief in what marriage should be

  • @neohermitist
    @neohermitist Před rokem +5

    This is only true if mostly one spouse is the "problem" spouse and is the one that changes for the better.

  • @Triple_eightss
    @Triple_eightss Před rokem

    Needed this

  • @SS-in1ts
    @SS-in1ts Před rokem +2

    PIES- areas of attraction:
    1.PHYSICAL
    2.INTELLECTUAL
    3.EMOTIONAL
    4.SPIRITUAL

  • @jdunkmann
    @jdunkmann Před rokem +1

    What if we have had multiple times where our marriage was in a bad spot and I did change and got things better and now she thinks my changes won’t last. She doesn’t trust that I will change permanently. I didn’t have support like I do now with Marriage Helper. I blamed her in the past and now I know I was a big part of our issues. Will or can she ever start trusting me again. She is so cold to my attempts because of the wall she has built.

  • @jrdaz44
    @jrdaz44 Před rokem +2

    Great info but Jarod’s walk decor has been puzzled. Why a knife and ax on the wall? Reason for that ? Thanks just wondering .

    • @JaredVonJared
      @JaredVonJared Před rokem +2

      These are gifts from a dear friend of mine. The axe is just decoration. The sword is a replica of the blade from the Book of Eli with Denzel Washington, one of my favorite movies!

  • @donnasmith6978
    @donnasmith6978 Před rokem +1

    Love this!

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      Thanks Donna! Just out of curiosity, have you subscribed to our channel? We'd love to have you! Blessings,

  • @Sandra-jx7jl
    @Sandra-jx7jl Před 5 měsíci

    Excellent

  • @mjperfume1523
    @mjperfume1523 Před rokem +1

    How much do the coaches charge? I dont have alof of money, im a senior citizen living on a very small pension

  • @eci1163
    @eci1163 Před rokem +3

    I suffer from depression and anxiety and have been on disability since 2004. I know that has affected my relationship. My husband (we are divorced) had been cheating on me since 2018 and left in 2021 and moved in with her. I know that I was not available or comforting with him. I know he is now happy but we have been together since 1987. I love him, always will. He has told me that he doesn’t love me and that she is a happy person. I’m stuck, in pain, so many feelings. I have asked him if he is ever coming back and he said no. He will not get divorced because he covers my health insurance. I’m dying inside but don’t have the money to participate in marriage helper. I wish I could but I’m living on my disability check. Do you have any suggestions for me? Is it too late to get him back? How would I be able to to trust him?

    • @jilly8372
      @jilly8372 Před rokem

      Watch the videos you can and get on the It Starts with Attraction podcast. Start with looking up their videos on Smart Contact.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem +2

      Hey eliana carrillo, so so sorry to hear you are going through this. Just out of curiosity, have you taken advantage of our free mini course? We know times are tough and want to provide as much as we can to you free of charge. That's why we created this free mini course. It will teach you how to get your spouse back and give you a plan moving forward! You can get access to it directly by following this link:
      your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-course
      ALSO
      We actually offer scholarships to those that apply! If you are facing financial difficulties, we may be able to offer you certain online courses, toolkits and even can help you attend a workshop if you are struggling right now! Please ask one of our client reps on the phone about it! We would really love to help you in any way we can my friend. Blessings,
      Call us at 1 866 903 0990 and ask about our scholarships!

    • @derickmls14
      @derickmls14 Před rokem

      Sweet heart, let him go. The fact that he left you over that says that you actually dodged a bullet ! He showed his true colors. You deserve better. What goes around comes around. That new girl is going to do him the Same way or worse than he did you. You need to focus and work on you and move forward.

    • @De-tw7by
      @De-tw7by Před rokem

      ​​@@derickmls14 All divorced people love to see more breakup and follow thier path. So don't believe everyone's advising to move away from him.

  • @Alice-ie9zv
    @Alice-ie9zv Před rokem

    You really Great

  • @diedrichrempel4919
    @diedrichrempel4919 Před rokem +1

    What happens if she takes it to her family and it gets hot ? What are the chances long term ?
    I think I saw a a title about that but can't find it .

    • @dilligaff1979
      @dilligaff1979 Před rokem

      And what happens when she never took her problems to you during your whole marriage and instead to her best friend who was constantly telling, "You could do better"?

  • @sunshinemackay3907
    @sunshinemackay3907 Před rokem

    My husband cares more about everyone and everything else except me?

  • @sunshinemackay3907
    @sunshinemackay3907 Před rokem

    If they are not paying attention they don't notice anything. That's where I'm at . I can't get what I need 😢 it's heart breaking

  • @mjperfume1523
    @mjperfume1523 Před rokem

    So im just supposed watch my husband walk down hall and sneak into our bedroom, im suppose to have forgiveness for him as he berates me everyday and im supposed just let him have his way and humiliate me by listening to whats going on across the hall from me😡He’s fk her and i hear it all and im suppised to forgive him???

  • @AustinKloud
    @AustinKloud Před rokem +1

    Save your money -

  • @tomstulc9143
    @tomstulc9143 Před rokem

    Holy mother Church teachers exactly what a marriage is and how it is structured. Some secular doctor windbaging doesn't know beans

  • @davidm4566
    @davidm4566 Před rokem +1

    How can you save a marriage when one spouse walked out and has a closed, hard heart?
    I've been open to God showing me where I was wrong, doing devos, started going ti church in person, joined a men's Bible group, and have grown much closer to God.

    • @MarriageHelper
      @MarriageHelper  Před rokem

      Hey David M, Just out of curiosity, have you taken advantage of our free mini course? We know times are tough and want to provide as much as we can to you free of charge. That's why we created this free mini course. It will teach you how to get your spouse back and give you a plan moving forward! You can get access to it directly by following this link:
      your.marriagehelper.com/how-to-get-your-spouse-back-mini-course

  • @user-mj1ht1tw2w
    @user-mj1ht1tw2w Před rokem

    Je suis honnêtement convaincu à toutes vos expressions