Couples Therapy With Dr. Drew - Frenemies #7

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  • @VultureVlogger
    @VultureVlogger Před 3 lety +11714

    Putting themselves in each others shoes while being dressed as each other is truly iconic and symbolic

  • @JennRighter
    @JennRighter Před 3 lety +2373

    When Trisha starts crying and Ethan is looking at her, even through the costume you can see how it hits him. Honestly, seeing Ethan with Trisha changes everything about how I ever perceived him.

    • @Bansheeea
      @Bansheeea Před 3 lety +151

      Completely agree. I used to dislike Ethan but I’m really happy I was put my ego aside and took the L. I’ve learned about myself from this series and I think a lot of other commenters have too.
      I hope they ignore the hate comments, especially on IG/Twitter. They just *hate* on Trisha hard, but I understand why. I’m bias to her, I have high functioning BPD myself so I know exactly what she’s talking about when she starts crying. I know she feels terrible, her entire identity is shattered by the idea she’s an “abuser” because she herself has been heavily abused. I think if she comes to term with the fact that, “yes, I have been abusive, it’s inexcusable and I want to change my behaviour and help repair the things I’ve damaged.”
      That’s how I’ve been healing myself and healed my relationships/friendships.
      She deserves a redemption arc, but she has to be willing to do the work.

    • @janelle9652
      @janelle9652 Před 3 lety +89

      It changed the way I perceived both of them tbh

    • @EmoRiverGirl
      @EmoRiverGirl Před 3 lety +28

      @@janelle9652 same, its really changing how i view them... this podcast was a really good idea, i am happy they did it and followed through with these issues.

    • @psychobratt
      @psychobratt Před 3 lety +75

      @@chashmal10 Please shut up.

    • @zeebee6370
      @zeebee6370 Před 3 lety +25

      Ethan reminds me of Michael Scott. He seems like a douche but in reality he’s got a big heart. He just has a different way of expressing himself. But I love it in a way, he’s hilarious.

  • @jessicaouellette884
    @jessicaouellette884 Před rokem +906

    Imagine showing this podcast to a Victorian child

    • @kennedyvince9272
      @kennedyvince9272 Před rokem +8

      LMAO

    • @emilywestheimer7409
      @emilywestheimer7409 Před 7 měsíci +6

      It might be rough for a Victorian child but throughout history, men have worn tons of makeup, dresses, wigs, etc.

    • @carmendeanda7249
      @carmendeanda7249 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@emilywestheimer7409it’s not even about the dressing up

    • @lindseyitamoto
      @lindseyitamoto Před 6 dny +1

      This comment is oddly specific

  • @hogkan
    @hogkan Před 3 lety +816

    Trish: I love pegging
    Dr Drew: Ethan, you okay?
    Ethan: It's a lot to take in...while she's dressed like me

  • @caitlingotswagg
    @caitlingotswagg Před 3 lety +9765

    Why has no one mentioned how Ethan looks exactly like the bar woman in shrek

  • @divinasi0n
    @divinasi0n Před 3 lety +9608

    The symbolism of the pair taking on one another's identities as they empathise with each other this episode is powerful.

    • @falllee1887
      @falllee1887 Před 3 lety +28

      Well said

    • @divinasi0n
      @divinasi0n Před 3 lety +91

      I would be interested to know if it was subliminal coincidence or intentional.

    • @saucyjitty3244
      @saucyjitty3244 Před 3 lety +51

      You sound like my English teacher

    • @luluc2204
      @luluc2204 Před 3 lety +2

      It's so true!

    • @katgrose7735
      @katgrose7735 Před 3 lety +2

      Literally stole the words out of my mouth - well said

  • @kikidoyle4105
    @kikidoyle4105 Před 2 lety +4044

    The fact that Ethan was constantly trying to explain himself and the therapist just kept interrupting him made me sooo upset

    • @whitestguyuknow
      @whitestguyuknow Před 2 lety +505

      Clarification, this dude is not licensed. He only works with celebrities in order to gain clout and reap in the money. Real professionals have a lot of issues with the man and I'd rather trust the genuine therapists if they say he's harmful then I'll go with that first.

    • @adh3247
      @adh3247 Před 2 lety +233

      ikr he was sucking up to trisha

    • @camirish2315
      @camirish2315 Před 2 lety +109

      “Dr” drew is far from a therapist. He makes me sooooo angry 😭

    • @belfonsecaa1801
      @belfonsecaa1801 Před 2 lety +21

      @@whitestguyuknow omg that is soo not good that he is not licensed

    • @baleine
      @baleine Před 2 lety +41

      @@whitestguyuknow yeah my mom said in the therapist world he’s really frowned upon

  • @erin2192
    @erin2192 Před 3 lety +1939

    I feel like Dr. Drew was so dismissive of Ethan's feelings in this video. It's like he wouldn't allow Ethan to express his feelings to say how Trisha hurt him but rather would just cut him off mid-sentence and make an excuse for Trisha's actions. Meanwhile, Trisha got 5 minutes uninterrupted each time to flip Ethan's pov of the issue with full support from Dr. Drew. Just sucked not being able to hear Ethan's side of the story

    • @CrityCrit
      @CrityCrit Před 2 lety +86

      Well yeah because she’s the one who needs help. It’s a tactic so she feels comfortable talking to him. Really common especially with Therapists.

    • @DeeAnn97
      @DeeAnn97 Před 2 lety +37

      Trisha was allowed to act a fool towards Ethan but if he does ANYTHING... lord

    • @CrityCrit
      @CrityCrit Před 2 lety +31

      @@DeeAnn97 yeah I know exactly she’s crazy that’s why Dr.Drew is treating her like taped together glass she’s about to break any second 24/7. Ethan never truly understood it but they needed to keep the show interesting so I understand that’s a hard rope to walk. Also he has a big ego Ethan that’s why he couldn’t take Dr.Drews jokes cause just like Trisha thought she was getting picked on he was doing it to him, there’s a podcast where Dr. Drew discusses the whole thing it’s really interesting because he got it down to a T the first 15 minutes of the podcast. I saw everybody saying how he’s ignoring Ethan‘s feelings it’s so wrong and they don’t understand he’s trying to understand Trisha while listening to what the problem is which is Ethan is bullying her but in reality Ethan is just joking, they both are two people with major egos who can’t handle massive criticism.

    • @breeannaedwards801
      @breeannaedwards801 Před 2 lety +25

      @@CrityCrit he isn’t a licensed therapist and that practice is stupid. If you’re seeing two people in a paired therapy and you dismiss one you need your license revoked.

    • @CrityCrit
      @CrityCrit Před 2 lety +14

      @@breeannaedwards801 What do you think Addiction therapy is? He’s extremely qualified more than any normal therapist you would see through regular insurance. He knows what he’s doing and when you see a therapist worth there salt they cut through the bullshit unless you painfully sensitive which is what he’s know for. I do not like Trisha but she’s so fragile and clearly also an addict, Ethan is a stable person not saying he has no issues but he can handle it have you seen one episode of the show lmaooo. Drew knows what he’s doing and people seem to forget it worked it took 6 episodes for a crash and Ethan followed his advice and it worked for almost 30 episodes. Like Drew said there needs to be clear boundaries and it’s what destroyed the show and money.

  • @rickydlp
    @rickydlp Před 3 lety +21607

    The more ridiculous they look, the deeper the conversations get.

    • @kenziecrosby2117
      @kenziecrosby2117 Před 3 lety +253

      You’re not wrong

    • @universe3331
      @universe3331 Před 3 lety +196

      I'll miss those costumes

    • @kevindube7096
      @kevindube7096 Před 3 lety +306

      They should definitely have Dr. Drew back, and both wear Dr. Drew costumes

    • @yourloveriswild7533
      @yourloveriswild7533 Před 3 lety +15

      Lmfaoooo fr

    • @tennesseewarminster8591
      @tennesseewarminster8591 Před 3 lety +114

      Watch them have a Christmas episode and come in dressed like a steamed ham and a fully decorated tree and then have a philosophical talk about the materialistic nature of Black Friday.

  • @ashleybates1495
    @ashleybates1495 Před 3 lety +1689

    I think Ethan was the best thing that happen to Trisha. She needed someone that wouldn’t be afraid to call her on her shit but also emphasized and acknowledge why she acts the way she does. You can honestly see how much concern for her he shows as soon as she started to cry. Am really starting to love this friendship

    • @EmmaAus
      @EmmaAus Před 3 lety +49

      I was going to contest that & say that Moses was actually probably the best thing to have come into her life... But then I realised that she wouldn't of met him if it wasn't for Ethan, so it just further proves your point :-p

    • @sharondianneb
      @sharondianneb Před 3 lety +43

      Agreed. But I would add that I think Trish came into his life to teach him as well.

    • @wngdhssr
      @wngdhssr Před 3 lety +5

      @@sharondianneb teach him how to deal with idiots.

    • @Madkalibyr
      @Madkalibyr Před 3 lety +9

      Totally agree! I think this is so good for her and I want Trisha to feel loved

    • @brendansdelaney
      @brendansdelaney Před 3 lety +23

      @@EmmaAus also the fact that Moses apparently rejects therapy is...disheartening

  • @dantewhirlpool2227
    @dantewhirlpool2227 Před 2 lety +1938

    “Should I worry about my brother in law who has been assaulted by his partner?” “Uh it’s not really your business” stfu dr drew

    • @feebsz384
      @feebsz384 Před 2 lety +254

      THANK YOU. They have every right to be worried about Moses.

    • @jennifermeissner6063
      @jennifermeissner6063 Před 2 lety +38

      Isn’t Moses a full grown person? A relationship is between two people. If he is concerned he should talk to Moses and not to Trish

    • @briyarose5815
      @briyarose5815 Před 2 lety +228

      @@jennifermeissner6063 you wouldn’t be saying the same if it was a man who hit his girlfriend

    • @Alexandra_Wolf
      @Alexandra_Wolf Před 2 lety +132

      No real doctor would say this. If someone is a danger to themselves or others you have to seek outside help. Does Trisha have something on dr drew!?????

    • @feebsz384
      @feebsz384 Před 2 lety +79

      @@Alexandra_Wolf something weird must be going on because it was so bizarre that Dr Drew dismissed that so quickly. He would of been 1000% cancelled if it was a male that left a bruise that size on his girlfriend and we all know it.

  • @SheIsntReal94
    @SheIsntReal94 Před 2 lety +675

    Trisha literally admits 'i said it to be a bitch' and one minute later she says 'i was confused I thought I could say anything because of you'

    • @Yo-sj2fp
      @Yo-sj2fp Před rokem +2

      Literally

    • @Sweetmomma3
      @Sweetmomma3 Před rokem

      Gross ish

    • @sarahlore7964
      @sarahlore7964 Před měsícem

      Ya but both can be true… Ethan exposed that shit about her relationship to just be a bitch

    • @SK-iu2uf
      @SK-iu2uf Před 6 dny

      Yes to be a bitch but she didn’t expect his reaction, so that’s why she got confused. She literally begged him to not talk about those text messages, but he did it anyway, so that set the tone for her.

  • @laurrlong
    @laurrlong Před 3 lety +575

    As someone with Borderline Personality Disorder this ep. was very cathartic for me. I very much identify with a lot of trisha's emotions and I totally understand why ethan sees her behaviors as attacks, but I think Dr. Drew did a really good job explaining the uncontrollable nature of BPD symptoms and how hard it is to see boundaries from trisha's perspective. Good job Doc!
    And to Trisha- Thank you for being so open about your mental health issues and the struggles they permit. You have really helped me feel like I'm not alone in my own path to symptom remission. It's easy to not show everything on the internet, but your openness reminds me that i'm not crazy, my suffering is valid, and even though this is a serious mental health issue, I'm not the only one. You have no idea how much positivity you bring to my life. Love you both

    • @HiddenLeafNinja97
      @HiddenLeafNinja97 Před 3 lety +4

      Same! I feel less alone tbh. I really resonated a lot with her in this episode and her past actions tbh.

    • @ashleysartattack5600
      @ashleysartattack5600 Před 3 lety +7

      Yes to all of this! I also have BPD and I always understand exactly how Trisha is feeling and behaving. And it was so nice to see Drew not treat her the same way a lot of her viewers do. To just be like, oh she’s crazy and attention seeking. No, she’s a real person with real struggles. And her brain functions a little differently than others. Especially during arguments. Coupled with boundary issues or lack there of.

    • @wytpny557
      @wytpny557 Před 3 lety +9

      Trisha is so misunderstood she's been through a lot even though she's problematic I still respect her

  • @user-tl3sl2tu7e
    @user-tl3sl2tu7e Před 3 lety +3808

    Trisha looked visibly relieved when Dr Drew was able to explain what is happening inside her head

    • @jjjguliiich
      @jjjguliiich Před 3 lety +337

      how wonderful to be understood, really

    • @r.i.petika829
      @r.i.petika829 Před 3 lety +173

      @@jjjguliiich It's sad but some people live their entire lives without that.

    • @peachyaf
      @peachyaf Před 3 lety +27

      I thought the same shit

    • @sarahtheegemini
      @sarahtheegemini Před 3 lety +71

      Therapy helps us communicate 🙌🏻✌🏻

    • @addoul99
      @addoul99 Před 3 lety +15

      Time stamp?

  • @rockysow6274
    @rockysow6274 Před 2 lety +764

    dr. drew BLEW my shit what type of therapist is he. he legit sided with trisha on absolutely everything when she was in the wrong as well.

    • @honeymoon6039
      @honeymoon6039 Před 2 lety +88

      this + he also interrupted Ethan every time he tried to make a point.

    • @lilbigplanet4170
      @lilbigplanet4170 Před 2 lety +26

      Professional Dr gives his professional insight, but honestly all these youtube commenters probably know more than him. ya. that sounds right.

    • @audreymorgan2305
      @audreymorgan2305 Před 2 lety +30

      @@lilbigplanet4170 he's not a professional therapist

    • @lilbigplanet4170
      @lilbigplanet4170 Před 2 lety +6

      @@audreymorgan2305 his degree and certifications are at the bottom of that website

    • @audreymorgan2305
      @audreymorgan2305 Před 2 lety +33

      @@lilbigplanet4170 yes he works w meds and addiction. Not therapy

  • @almostfiction
    @almostfiction Před 3 lety +315

    “We have this soulmate connection but at the same time he irritates the shit out of me, I don’t get it. “ -Trisha realizing her & Ethan are brother and sister now lol

    • @ranao7219
      @ranao7219 Před 3 lety +3

      😂😂

    • @cassandra811
      @cassandra811 Před rokem +5

      No I think she wanted him n obviously jealous of his happy marriage that has all these beautiful things while she forced it w Moses just so she could be IN by any means necessary.... I mean glad shes had a healthy baby now but I know she was lying about going to dbt she was not taking meds nothing she admitted to it eventually too so I just pray she does something for the sake of her new family now

  • @personallstrrcks
    @personallstrrcks Před 3 lety +2454

    THE WAY THE DOCTOR LITERALLY KEEPS TRACK OF THE CONVERSATION AND POINTS OUT IF THEIR TALKING PAST EACH OTHER AND SHT WOW

    • @A.J.805
      @A.J.805 Před 3 lety +4

      Lmao right

    • @jmk0574
      @jmk0574 Před 3 lety +91

      He’s been doing this a looong time, and he’s great at it! 😊

    • @bubbyberry
      @bubbyberry Před 3 lety +24

      you should watch his other stuff. he is actually famous btw lmao

    • @A.J.805
      @A.J.805 Před 3 lety +6

      @@bubbyberry even if you have he’s got the personality to multitask it and it remains impressive lol

    • @bubbyberry
      @bubbyberry Před 3 lety +4

      @@A.J.805 thanks for agreeing with me i guess?

  • @JW-be6sf
    @JW-be6sf Před 3 lety +8158

    trisha crying while dressed as a man and ethan speechless dressed as the woman from shrek is not something u see everyday lol

    • @traumaqueen8820
      @traumaqueen8820 Před 3 lety +820

      he's.....he's dressed as trisha not the woman from shrek lmfaooo

    • @supernaut7946
      @supernaut7946 Před 3 lety +229

      Yeah I was getting a little emotional when Trisha was opening up and I had to laugh in the middle of it cause of how ridiculous the costumes were lol

    • @melissapadilla5120
      @melissapadilla5120 Před 3 lety +41

      omf this is so funnnnny omggggggg

    • @shell9403
      @shell9403 Před 3 lety +185

      I SCREAMED, THAT WOMAN FROM SHREK, YES

    • @dropppitlikeitshott
      @dropppitlikeitshott Před 3 lety +54

      The woman from Shrek 😂

  • @general._.kenobi7919
    @general._.kenobi7919 Před 2 lety +445

    I kind of feel like dr drew was on trisha’s side the whole time. Am I wrong

    • @MoonZenn
      @MoonZenn Před 2 lety +22

      Ethan is so cute trying to make her laugh after she was doing her forced crying smh

    • @heyymeghan
      @heyymeghan Před 2 lety +38

      Dr drew has admitted that he tends to coddle and side with the most mentally unstable person.

    • @outaugust
      @outaugust Před 2 lety +31

      You are not wrong at all Dr. Drew isn't a licensed therapist he's a psychiatrist and completely is the inappropriate option for these kinds of conversations

    • @usernotfound1022
      @usernotfound1022 Před 2 lety +30

      It’s super inappropriate. He’s only hurting her and the people around her by giving her this eternal pass for her toxic behavior. he’s a hack.

    • @lukewarmape603
      @lukewarmape603 Před 2 lety +18

      100%
      Trisha did use something extremely personal against Ethan (the pill "addiction") and he somehow spun it so Ethan is the bad guy? That because Trisha is upset about the fact he called her out on it, Ethan is in the wrong? Fuck this guy honestly, he should have been kicked after that

  • @Liz-nq9rc
    @Liz-nq9rc Před 2 lety +1658

    Its crazy that there is such a double standard with domestic abuse. I cannot see people being okay with accepting a man's excuse for hitting his gf as him 'dissociating' and it being 'just a one time thing.'

    • @christinaaa_xo
      @christinaaa_xo Před 2 lety +238

      Right?! And the fact that Dr. Drew just simply skipped over it and went after Ethan for exposing it. This was ridiculous to watch. If Ethan had abused Hila or Moses Trisha, Dr. Drew wouldn't have glazed over it

    • @danie9596
      @danie9596 Před 2 lety +64

      Agreed!!!! This is alarming. I can’t stand Dr. Drew

    • @longpigpie3584
      @longpigpie3584 Před 2 lety +49

      I get that. But that does happen though. Speaking from experience. I’ve been in a relationship with someone with ptsd and there is a distinct difference between someone’s mental health and straight up domestic violence. And there is also a big issue mainly in low income households and stuff where there partner may be one of the few people in there support network. And if they get seen with as much as a bruise they’re not aloud to be around them for a set period of time. But now there’s this poor girl with ptsd scared of all the noises outside and now she’s lost one of her only supporters. Idk I know my opinion is very bias and dumb. But that’s my experience anyway

    • @andri4lolacs
      @andri4lolacs Před 2 lety +8

      That's exactly what I thought! She thinks that because it has been kept a secret all this time, hitting her boyfriend is correct

    • @thatfishguy4991
      @thatfishguy4991 Před 2 lety +14

      And yet everyone in the H3 audience was accepting it up until trisha quit the show.

  • @SuddenlyPaulP
    @SuddenlyPaulP Před 3 lety +751

    Trisha having a vulnerable and authentic moment and Ethan being understanding and coming to terms with how he's contributed to all this is genuinely heartwarming to watch.
    Watching them do this while dressed like THAT is absolutely batshit bonkers and destroying my brain

  • @loofah8290
    @loofah8290 Před 3 lety +1418

    This has secured the fact that I NEED Frenemies Merch, but not just the colorblock shit, like I need options. This episode was groundbreaking.
    like I don’t want just frenemies on it, maybe some infamous quotes made by either of them or some inside joke type shit. I don’t want it to be ✨basic ✨

  • @kylie2460
    @kylie2460 Před 2 lety +282

    These conversations are so confusing. 1, a therapist isn’t supposed to have an opinion about your situation, but help you think about different perspectives and mindsets so you can fully understand a situation apart from personal feelings. 2, Ethans responsible for setting boundaries or withholding information from Trisha since they can’t differentiate but Trish is not responsible for respecting others as well? Ethan stopped a few times to apologize and let Trish know how important they are to him and his life but Trish never reciprocates with anything encouraging or positive to Ethan. None of this has to do with mental illness but more with respect and caring for their relationship. But going back to boundaries, it seems especially in the beginning Trish would just say anything they wanted about Ethan regardless of if they triggered him or made him uncomfortable and upset but there has to be a therapy session for Trish? Idk this all seems very one sided. This was an episode I avoided watching for a while because I don’t care for this environment on the internet.

    • @abnerjap
      @abnerjap Před 2 lety +9

      I definitely agree with this feeling one sided.

    • @nooberr881
      @nooberr881 Před 2 lety +5

      Agreeeeee 10000000%%%%%

    • @toltorg
      @toltorg Před 2 lety +2

      I couldn’t have said this better.

    • @bridgetwhite2112
      @bridgetwhite2112 Před 2 lety +2

      This is couples therapy though. Couples therapists do take sides. That's part of the therapeutic process.

    • @SarahPikachu
      @SarahPikachu Před 2 lety +1

      i agree with that as its very one sided here. although i think that some people aren't great at vocal love affirmation all the time; they express it in other ways. this convo is abt both of them but mainly trish's fragile mental health and how ethan can work with her, and so trish can work with him too, but i think trish is in the spotlight because they're the one who is having problems. and the therapist seems to favour her which is unfair

  • @kaylachappell154
    @kaylachappell154 Před 2 lety +1463

    “Everyone thinks I’m a man beater because of you”-Trisha.
    No everyone thinks this because you hit you partner 🙄

    • @feebsz384
      @feebsz384 Před 2 lety +12

      THIS

    • @moonchild8422
      @moonchild8422 Před 2 lety +5

      👏👏👏

    • @christinaaa_xo
      @christinaaa_xo Před 2 lety +46

      The way she spun it to Dr. Drew is so beyond fucked up.

    • @briannavann1
      @briannavann1 Před 2 lety +5

      THIS 👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @rainbowfox1314
      @rainbowfox1314 Před 2 lety +23

      Ethan brought up the hitting and ngl it sounded like a one time (possible) accident (I’ve also been passively listening so I may have missed something) - but SHES the one who said she left BRUISES - PLURAL.

  • @brileyjohnson725
    @brileyjohnson725 Před 3 lety +4574

    I think trish was pretending to be someone else for so long that now she’s expressing who she is and accepting it and nobody is believing it

    • @mar6940
      @mar6940 Před 3 lety +48

      🎯

    • @opera_gangster
      @opera_gangster Před 3 lety +145

      Hard agree. You can tell just how comfortable she is presenting more masculinely in this video. As someone who has been a loooong time follower of Trish, I feel like it’s easier to tell when she’s trolling or hyperfocused on something versus being genuine. Oftentimes I find she has trouble putting into words her feelings, but feels genuine about it, so it may come across as ignorance or insulting when in reality she’s just struggling to clarify something she’s only just learning about herself as well

    • @loganbradford2343
      @loganbradford2343 Před 3 lety +21

      Trisha was Ethan all along

    • @moonshine814
      @moonshine814 Před 3 lety

      🎯🎯

    • @iguessitsokyungrichbaby2813
      @iguessitsokyungrichbaby2813 Před 3 lety

      @@opera_gangster 🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @1chick1camera
    @1chick1camera Před 3 lety +2446

    “I understand why Trisha’s upset” is something I feel like she or other people definitely doesn’t hear enough.

    • @twilit
      @twilit Před 3 lety +49

      True - the worst thing anyone can hear when they’re upset is that they have no reason to be upset.

    • @Feelin.Kinda.Breezy
      @Feelin.Kinda.Breezy Před 3 lety +106

      Yes. Dr. Drew validating her feelings (the ones people deem crazy) made Trish instantly light up and look relieved. Dr. Drew absolutely helped her in such a short period of time, impressive!

    • @lunarqi
      @lunarqi Před 3 lety +22

      as someone who's schizophrenic, hearing people validate your feelings when almost everyone just calls you insane is one of the best feelings ever :)

    • @rigs5223
      @rigs5223 Před 3 lety +6

      I feel like she really needed this :)

    • @cailleauxheartsnbf
      @cailleauxheartsnbf Před 3 lety +10

      why did this break my heart ,,,

  • @AshLoRo
    @AshLoRo Před 2 lety +117

    Dr. Drew caused so much more trouble in the long run.

  • @fabRJ723
    @fabRJ723 Před 2 lety +560

    I feel like trisha manipulated this whole situation by victimizing herself and crying meanwhile Ethan couldn't even get a word in the whole episode. Dr.Drew isn't even a real therapist so I'm not surprised he couldn't really actually help these two.

    • @fabRJ723
      @fabRJ723 Před 2 lety +5

      @@fdexter6255 but you also have to admit that the things they did or said on the podcast affected their relationship so that includes this episode

    • @Lin.Stone.
      @Lin.Stone. Před 2 lety +2

      Absolutely right

    • @sanaatayyan8632
      @sanaatayyan8632 Před rokem +5

      Not defending Trisha bc of everything she did, but how is she victimising? She literally talked about her feelings. The only problem was that Ethan couldn’t talk and that’s the “therapist” fault not Trisha’s.

    • @fabRJ723
      @fabRJ723 Před rokem +3

      @@sanaatayyan8632 she is victimizing herself every video she makes. She says statements that are so exaggerated or she is very cruel to others that no one with a right mind believes her. Plus Dr.Drew doesn’t specialize on treating people with bpd so he didn’t know how to handle this situation.

  • @faithlynnnieto8188
    @faithlynnnieto8188 Před 3 lety +4511

    This episode alone was way better than the Shane Dawson documentaries. No pushed narrative, just raw emotion

  • @gloopgalore
    @gloopgalore Před 3 lety +13868

    Ethan looks like Ariana Grande in a different universe

    • @yoon7253
      @yoon7253 Před 3 lety +61

      @Harkeen15 AAAAH OMFG YES

    • @shorkelili
      @shorkelili Před 3 lety +148

      Ariana if she went on drugs after victorious

    • @bellamescudi6901
      @bellamescudi6901 Před 3 lety +8

      @Harkeen15 jababahahaha dead

    • @hypnotoad28
      @hypnotoad28 Před 3 lety +11

      @@shorkelili lmao but if she was on drugs she'd be even skinnier

    • @bigballz5503
      @bigballz5503 Před 3 lety +14

      Ariana wrongay

  • @gvshe996
    @gvshe996 Před 10 měsíci +61

    They should have made Ethan sit on the pink side of the set😂

  • @rottecavia1625
    @rottecavia1625 Před 3 lety +692

    dr drew was lowkey rude to ethan lmao

    • @belfonsecaa1801
      @belfonsecaa1801 Před 2 lety +27

      SUPER RUDE

    • @kou2553
      @kou2553 Před 2 lety +7

      I only saw him rude at the beginning when he saw the ig vs reality vid but he's been pretty good throughout

    • @rottecavia1625
      @rottecavia1625 Před 2 lety +23

      @@kou2553 a ‘mental health specialist’ should know better tho

    • @kou2553
      @kou2553 Před 2 lety +1

      @@rottecavia1625 true haha he slipped up

  • @no3ll388
    @no3ll388 Před 3 lety +4085

    Dr. Drew needs to be a guest every 5 episodes so we can keep this podcast going! Trisha actually explained her issue so much better in this episode and why she was upset. She still needs a lot of therapy but I understand her feelings more. They both have an issue with saying “I wasn’t upset” or “I’m totally fine” when they really aren’t.

  • @vs71597
    @vs71597 Před 3 lety +2261

    *MAKE THIS A COSTUME ONLY PODCAST*

  • @miascott8945
    @miascott8945 Před 2 lety +1229

    Dr. Drew clearly had a bias here. He barely even let Ethan speak, and when he did, Dr. Drew pretty much either shot it down or interrupted him. I get that Trisha obviously has way more issues to work with, but still. It's a mediation, not Trisha's personal therapy session!

    • @JennSarracenia
      @JennSarracenia Před 2 lety +30

      I think that men usually get babied and women get demonized. Dr drew ensured he wasn’t doing that, and the perception is that Ethan and Trish weren’t being treated equally

    • @hollytree3379
      @hollytree3379 Před rokem +22

      I'm an Ethan fan, but I think Dr. Drew did a pretty good job here. He had a very human approach. Like he didn't focus too much on jokes, even saying "I'm with Ethan here, it is a funny joke," and got Trisha back to focus several times.

    • @adh3247
      @adh3247 Před rokem +1

      I totally agree. I’m glad someone noticed this too instead of praising him

    • @beegyoshi4218
      @beegyoshi4218 Před rokem

      He's not a therapist moron

    • @blockmonster2812
      @blockmonster2812 Před rokem

      I think his bias is more him attempting to have Ethan understand that trisha has serious mental illness that he needs to be mindful of. I think trishas mental illness was the root of the issue, and it was kinds prefaced with "trisha has this issue and we need to solve it"

  • @spilledsalt4862
    @spilledsalt4862 Před rokem +166

    The way Trisha’s upper lip didn’t move the whole time is hilarious.

  • @Christina.N.
    @Christina.N. Před 3 lety +1325

    HOLY CRAP. This episode was intense. I've always liked Trisha and seen she was a good person and not what people made her out to be. But Trisha- you've finally got everyone else to at least UNDERSTAND your issues. You can clearly see in Ethan's reactions he didn't understand before and now he does. I really hope you guys can make a good friendship. I'm rootin' for you Trish. You deserve happiness. And you've been a rolemodel for a lot of girl/young women/ women who didn't really see anyone "real" in the media. I'm actually just so happy your and Ethan's relationship has led to this point of openness and honesty, that lets THE WORLD see Trisha as a person and not just the butt of a joke. Because there is loads of other people out there just like Trisha and we're all seeking some form of resolution for our past trauma.

    • @deliasmith6506
      @deliasmith6506 Před 3 lety +48

      ugh yes! I feel like this episode was so needed. Trisha is so hurt and never heard. people always assume and want to hate her, but they never allow her to explain herself.

    • @b14ker14
      @b14ker14 Před 3 lety +7

      Did you get paid to write this for her lol she might be a good person but that's still up for debate. Playing the victim card 24/7 isn't cool and you trying to manipulate the truth isn't cool either. She has alot of work to do so it's best to save judgment for later.

    • @instantlybroken
      @instantlybroken Před 3 lety +5

      This is my favorite episodes so far hands down

    • @JennRighter
      @JennRighter Před 3 lety +18

      @@b14ker14 did you watch the episode and do you know what comment you’re replying to?! Come on man, don’t be that person.

    • @madimaclean
      @madimaclean Před 3 lety +11

      This is exactly it. I always followed Trisha and felt this weird connection to her even though I didn't condone a lot of her actions. It's because I could relate to the feelings that drove them and the struggle of that dissociative state she goes to. I suffer with what is most likely, but not fully diagnosed as, BPD and I finally got on medication to manage it, but it took YEARS to reach that point - and that's without having my whole disordered life on display and the exasperated issues that must come with it. It makes me so happy to see a support system like Ethan and his family willing to be there instead of just playing into the circus that gravitates to her vulnerabilities.

  • @ericxpenner
    @ericxpenner Před 3 lety +7916

    Ethan giving me Peter Griffin-in-drag vibes.

  • @donnamorgan525
    @donnamorgan525 Před 2 lety +304

    dr drew is not professional at all. ethan told her that in confidence and she aired it out there and had no room to share that. ethan protecting his brother in law, was not ill intended. her saying he took pills was said with evil intentions.

    • @donnamorgan525
      @donnamorgan525 Před 2 lety +17

      33:49 she says herself him calling her crazy wasn’t triggering, what bothered her was him saying he was open. she was simply trying to bring him down by exposing that to make herself feel better.

    • @alisha4635
      @alisha4635 Před 2 lety +3

      @@donnamorgan525 calling her crazy does bother her and she did ask him to stop.

    • @janelm3145
      @janelm3145 Před 2 lety +16

      @@alisha4635 him unintentionally upsetting her by calling her crazy is so lighthearted in comparison . She did it with malice and it’s undeniable

    • @alisha4635
      @alisha4635 Před 2 lety +3

      @@janelm3145 but not to her and that's clear.. calling some crazy who clearly has issues is messed up when she's asking him to stop. They don't jive well together

    • @noodle3851
      @noodle3851 Před 2 lety +2

      Omg ethan is just evil he has said so many personal stuff about her and in that podcast he was constantly telling her why her relationships don’t work and why she shouldn’t be a mom and what not y’all are just crazy for defending him and even before that he has always exposed personal stuff about her hats off to her for even sticking around for as long as she did

  • @DandyyPlays
    @DandyyPlays Před 3 lety +424

    The fact that in this episode Trisha was defending Nikita and now on Twitter they’re going for each other’s necks LOL

    • @prosimpaudios4007
      @prosimpaudios4007 Před 3 lety +38

      that’s because Nikita loves victimizing herself she’s a full on weirdo omg

    • @vanessalikesapples
      @vanessalikesapples Před 3 lety +31

      No one was attacking Nikita for being trans it’s just she’s irresponsible as hell during this pandemic

    • @clmoss1
      @clmoss1 Před 3 lety +11

      Trisha is right to defend Nikita here from misogyny but Nikitia wasnt all open about her surgery she tried to say she built like that naturally cause shes ethnic but was exposed by a close friend

    • @DandyyPlays
      @DandyyPlays Před 3 lety +3

      @@clmoss1 I agree that Trisha should definitely defend her in this case, it’s just funny now to see how the tables have turned 😅 especially when nikita waited until trans day to call trishas tweets out to make her seem transphobic, it’s all a messy situation

  • @parkerhuseby
    @parkerhuseby Před 3 lety +1529

    How will anything ever top this episode??? The Drew, the looks, the real emotion, the tenderness, AGAIN THE LOOKS... 😫What a time to be alive

    • @emme6055
      @emme6055 Před 3 lety +7

      Fr

    • @SamTheCrazyOne
      @SamTheCrazyOne Před 3 lety +4

      The new Belle Delphine interview kinda tops it off, but in another direction
      EDIT: now I understand you mean on future Frenemies episodes

    • @lilsaam
      @lilsaam Před 3 lety +7

      The Drew really helped The Ethan and The Trisha

    • @MrPresto555
      @MrPresto555 Před 3 lety

      how can you get so much joy from such a thing, reveal your secret

    • @ruthieer4015
      @ruthieer4015 Před 3 lety +2

      This is the only interesting thing on CZcams I wish it came out twice a week.

  • @leahdaniels6472
    @leahdaniels6472 Před 3 lety +7129

    y’all remember on certain David Dobrik vlog where Jason was wearing one of Trisha’s outfits? (I think it was a cheerleader one) and she said that she started crying because it fit him the same way it fit her and Jason and David just started laughing at her which I think resulted in her crying more, well she pretty much said the same thing in the beginning of this episode about the dress Ethan is wearing and instead of him just laughing he told her it fit him more like a shirt than a dress to make her feel better. See this is why she needs to except Ethan and Hila as good friends. Because I know she’d say the same dumb stuff for them too.

    • @musikluv6
      @musikluv6 Před 3 lety +88

      omg that's such shit, do you know what video it was??

    • @paroxysm8588
      @paroxysm8588 Před 3 lety +378

      I love this little connection you just made here, it actually pinpoints specific instances that make a friend "toxic." Now that's not to say they are toxic friends, but the chemistry and level of understanding is what separates a good friend from a "toxic" friend. Some friends can take the giggles and unintentional, or intentional, hazing; while some people would prefer or need friends who are more mindful of their feelings and values. Yanno?

    • @JordynMariah979
      @JordynMariah979 Před 3 lety +24

      @@musikluv6 idk I think she was pretty on point.

    • @dolphinbot
      @dolphinbot Před 3 lety +183

      I feel like David and Jason used her as an accessory and this podcast actually goes into what she's going through. She loves being in the spotlight and doing outlandish things but I think this format is good for her???

    • @AnaaLilyy
      @AnaaLilyy Před 3 lety

      @@musikluv6 lobbpnpnpno pn m m no p me nbbn
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  • @ariannagonzalez8934
    @ariannagonzalez8934 Před 2 lety +354

    Trisha: im too narcissistic to kill myself
    Trisha: Im not narcissistic. Im to empathetic

    • @whereveriam
      @whereveriam Před 11 měsíci +5

      HELP I NOTICED THIS TOO

    • @Shortlover59x
      @Shortlover59x Před 11 měsíci +28

      I mean you can have a inflated sense of self but have empathy for others. Those are not either or. Both can be true.

    • @bowtieboy6348
      @bowtieboy6348 Před 9 měsíci +4

      I think everyone thinks like this 💀

    • @zoe-zi5fx
      @zoe-zi5fx Před 8 měsíci

      ​@matteakarels1274 trisha is no where near empathetic unfortunately. she shows it a lot in the way she speaks about moses and his family.

    • @hannahsachernegg362
      @hannahsachernegg362 Před měsícem

      this might be weird for most people but, i can very much relate to it, just consider that for some people both can be true, one can feel like a narcissist while being overly empathetic as well, the brain is a weird thing ,mental health is hard,

  • @_JaneDoe000
    @_JaneDoe000 Před 2 lety +52

    Dr Drew clearly an enabler..

  • @TianaYoung
    @TianaYoung Před 3 lety +635

    Huge credit to Trisha for her honesty and communication in this episode. I feel like these moments are super raw and real and it blows my mind sometimes that this is all public, which can’t be easy. I think the help from Dr Drew could seriously help some people with their communication and maybe even encourage people to try therapy. Despite how chaotic this all may be as a viewer, I think there’s a lot of quality life lessons in here!

    • @chelsealynn2681
      @chelsealynn2681 Před 3 lety +4

      Dr. Drew needs to join the show and sit in the middle ☺️

  • @thelastdadonearth
    @thelastdadonearth Před 3 lety +3500

    Ethan should have sat on Trisha's side and Trisha should have sat on Ethan's side.

    • @ashtonrosee
      @ashtonrosee Před 3 lety +176

      missed opportunity honestly

    • @videospielesindkunst
      @videospielesindkunst Před 3 lety +30

      Ethan has a different mic that is especially for him. Don't know why, but that might be the reason

    • @lmaemac
      @lmaemac Před 3 lety +21

      Could’ve swapped the curtains at LEAST

    • @charlotte_stevens
      @charlotte_stevens Před 3 lety +3

      Yes!!! Totally agree! 💖

    • @llacey
      @llacey Před 3 lety +1

      HAHAA YESSS

  • @mstuckerify
    @mstuckerify Před 2 lety +468

    Love watching Dr Drew be an enabler. Love that for him.

    • @adh3247
      @adh3247 Před rokem +57

      “Trisha hitting Moses is none of your business”

    • @Tina-et9ne
      @Tina-et9ne Před 2 měsíci

      He's just excusing her actions 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ as someone with BPD it's very hard to watch someone just accept "this is how they are" instead of trying to get better and a "doctor" telling her that it's ok

  • @catherinebennett3948
    @catherinebennett3948 Před 2 lety +136

    nothing was said during this episode.... period. Trish manipulated the whole conversation and talked in circles the whole time and her behavior was validated by a "Doctor". Love to see it

    • @elsaslefttoe4145
      @elsaslefttoe4145 Před rokem +4

      catherine be quiet.

    • @joshadams8473
      @joshadams8473 Před rokem +2

      EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING! He coddled her and didn’t even acknowledge Ethan’s feelings in this. Not everything has to be about Trisha, he’s “supposed” to be a mediator but instead he’s just kissing her ass while gaslighting Ethan making him feel like he was in the wrong for being worried about his brother. Like if my brother in law was in a relationship with someone like Trisha I’d be extremely concerned especially when she turned physical. The whole white or red out he was talking about is such a cop out response to Trisha being an absolute monster. Like she is so controlling and manipulative over Moses and she is so open about it! And the worse part dr drew labels himself as a real doctor when he can’t see something so clear. This episode really disgusted me

  • @jonathanscott907
    @jonathanscott907 Před 3 lety +852

    Dude the more episodes I see of this the more I GENUINELY UNDERSTAND TRISHA, which is weird. I think maybe its valuable, like I feel like I'm kinda wasting my time listening to her, but I'm learning and empathizing at the same time. Tbh I feel like I'm getting some insights that might really help me figure some things out with my family. The most amazing thing about this series is that you don't often get people so opposed to each other willing to hash things out.

    • @sarvaise
      @sarvaise Před 3 lety +12

      honestly i don't know what mental health issues she faces but i totally get her, i've never seen a therapist but i deal with a lot she does and even troll when i know nobody gets it lol and i like her

    • @neekygerdthe1st
      @neekygerdthe1st Před 3 lety +3

      Well said, like these episodes sort of... humanize her. While I disagree with her points of view on most things and her way of navigating conflicts, I get where she's coming from.

    • @nikkiellery759
      @nikkiellery759 Před 3 lety +1

      This is an interesting thing that happens when people spend more time with individuals they believed was an 'other'. If one feels empathy with the other, suddenly there's a connection and a humanizing that happens. This can sometimes feel uncomfortable but it's excellent to practice and recognise. Others aren't really others, there's just a barrier somehow to understanding. This podcast started out as a dramatic goof and it's showing viewers who seem to me as if they'd not usually go out of their way to understand a polarizing personality that empathy is never far behind interactions like this.

    • @zandie12
      @zandie12 Před 3 lety

      Same man I find her really likeable

    • @jonathanscott907
      @jonathanscott907 Před 3 lety

      @@nikkiellery759 just curious, what do you mean exactly by 'other'? My opinion of her mainly changed because I realized she was actually a very genuine person rather than deceptive. Her initial introduction to h3h3 podcast and a lot of people was her transgender video which literally made no sense and came across extremely insensitive, also it seemed to take advantage of a good cause(transgender awareness) and using it for monetary gain by making up a bullshit story about herself. However, when more information came out and she LITERALLY dated a gay guy and pegged him and that's part of who she is, like for one I was surprised but I could immediately validate why she made that weird video and wasnt acting. Also I thought she was a bitch because of the drama with nickacado avacado, but since then I can see why she ignored him, the nature of their interaction seemed creepy, but she might still be in the wrong there because he was a fan and she agreed to meet up with him allegedly. I do t think I ever saw Trisha as 'other' I just thought she was a mean lying bitch who only looked presentable with a cake of makeup on so I picked on her for that, but that's super mean of me, but I dont mean that lol especially not anymore, I was throwing hate at hate, not a good habit though.

  • @vdb000
    @vdb000 Před 3 lety +2394

    Trisha saying Ethan and her are like best friends and feel connected but he still irritates her ........that’s called being siblings 💀

    • @igkgigoh
      @igkgigoh Před 3 lety +14

      I think they are close to renaming the podcast then.

    • @rachaelstubes
      @rachaelstubes Před 3 lety +7

      I think she was saying he is like her best friend, as in he is like Shane Dawson

    • @katwebbxo
      @katwebbxo Před 3 lety +13

      @@igkgigoh Sibling Rivalry is already taken though lol.

    • @InfamousJJ420
      @InfamousJJ420 Před 3 lety +1

      @@katwebbxo lol doug walker

    • @fcirl
      @fcirl Před 3 lety +2

      Or frenemies

  • @moola9755
    @moola9755 Před 2 lety +62

    trisha completely made things up. in the beginning she was saying that she said the pill thing to be a bitch, and then later with the dr's support she was saying she thought it was okay to say it in the name of "openness"

  • @peepeepoopoo2400
    @peepeepoopoo2400 Před 2 lety +666

    Trish 100% weaponized the pills. She brought it up unprovoked to hurt ethen out of anger.

    • @wetsocks5055
      @wetsocks5055 Před rokem +36

      Well yeah she admitted it

    • @jasmin5257
      @jasmin5257 Před rokem +24

      @@wetsocks5055 right like that’s not a gotcha💀

    • @dharmasings
      @dharmasings Před rokem +20

      @@jasmin5257 i mean she claimed in this episode that she didnt weaponize it bc she thought their relationship had no boundaries which isnt true

    • @jasmin5257
      @jasmin5257 Před rokem +4

      @@dharmasings yeah then she admitted that she did..

    • @dharmasings
      @dharmasings Před rokem +2

      @@jasmin5257 no the opposite she admitted she weaponized it and then dr drew said thats the nature of ur relationship and then she said well actually i only said it bc i thought our relationship was having no boundaries.

  • @rachaeldaley1607
    @rachaeldaley1607 Před 3 lety +841

    This is so emotional and weird. Them dressed up as each other while taking thearapy wow. What an episode

    • @jimmy2883
      @jimmy2883 Před 3 lety +45

      lol! It’s almost symbolic of them trying to put themselves in each other’s shoes.

    • @dh-ck2om
      @dh-ck2om Před 3 lety +7

      @@jimmy2883 woahh lmaoo

    • @calebcrouch6133
      @calebcrouch6133 Před 3 lety +1

      @@jimmy2883 lol yeah... almost.

    • @snapperhd
      @snapperhd Před 3 lety +4

      @@jimmy2883 damn, we’re getting poetic up in this place

    • @Ybag12345
      @Ybag12345 Před 3 lety

      I’m so happy they recorded it even it’s prob bad for their relationship lmfao 😭

  • @PeaceGurl330
    @PeaceGurl330 Před 3 lety +2440

    ill say it again- WE NEED A MOSES MICROPHONE

    • @ArezX3
      @ArezX3 Před 3 lety +33

      no, we don't

    • @m.w.9899
      @m.w.9899 Před 3 lety +7

      Hear, hear

    • @ma1102
      @ma1102 Před 3 lety +39

      I like this idea but I genuinely don’t think he’d say much 😆

    • @cristinaamaya9468
      @cristinaamaya9468 Před 3 lety +35

      He won’t use it. He will just nod lmao

    • @chadsquared5852
      @chadsquared5852 Před 3 lety +9

      I feel like he wouldn’t want that at all it would just put him between arguments

  • @andyd7929
    @andyd7929 Před 2 lety +494

    Ethan can barley get a damn word in, they just constantly interrupted him and it’s so aggravating

    • @RT-zi7rt
      @RT-zi7rt Před 2 lety +21

      Dude for real, they gave him no room to provide context for any of the stuff she talked about. And giving that it seems as if he knows nothing about the person trish is, on the surface it makes him look bad and in the wrong. Tbh this “doctor” didn’t seem too professional about it.

    • @laylaholloway5455
      @laylaholloway5455 Před 2 lety +13

      This is sooooo true the doctor seemed like he was walking on eggshells around Trisha or trying to stay on her good side while making Ethan look bad

    • @belfonsecaa1801
      @belfonsecaa1801 Před 2 lety +1

      IKR !!!!

  • @lb9320
    @lb9320 Před 2 lety +852

    Why does it seem like Dr. Drew is a secret onlyfan subscriber of Trisha’s. He’s pretty terrible at being a mediator. 😂

    • @taeminaj8363
      @taeminaj8363 Před 2 lety +9

      he was speaking facts

    • @thezenghproject
      @thezenghproject Před 10 měsíci

      Because he’s a certified professional who doesn’t agree with a misogynistic, manipulative, ignorant podcaster like Ethan???

  • @alyssajadeig
    @alyssajadeig Před 3 lety +630

    watching ethan’s face when trish starts crying is heartbreaking. you can tell he genuinely does care about her and wants her to get better and wants to have a relationship with her. i’m so glad you guys are working towards being healthier.

    • @p7superfly
      @p7superfly Před 3 lety +5

      40:50
      I was watching Trish the first time. Went back to look at Ethan and it's true. 😔 I hope they can find happiness.

    • @simpforniragi4086
      @simpforniragi4086 Před 3 lety +5

      @@seperateway9098 it's because of the eyelashes lmao

    • @fetusbabe
      @fetusbabe Před 3 lety +8

      p7superfly thats his tourettes you moron, he does it every 5 mins lol

    • @p7superfly
      @p7superfly Před 3 lety +1

      @@seperateway9098 I saw that. Those fake eyelashes were killing him. If you have something in your eye it's a quick way to try and flush it out. As a contact wearer, I legitimately believe this. 😁

    • @fetusbabe
      @fetusbabe Před 3 lety +1

      sorry p7superfly, i meant that at mishaal...guess i’m the moron lmao

  • @nikkirabie7921
    @nikkirabie7921 Před 3 lety +4330

    He looks like the bartender from Shrek

  • @brooklyn.e.ingram
    @brooklyn.e.ingram Před 2 lety +491

    I literally dislike Dr Drew so much - he’s not a therapist, does not practice unconditional positive regard, is extremely biased. Don’t say you’re a therapist when you’re not

    • @christinamartin3832
      @christinamartin3832 Před 2 lety +3

      Right!

    • @bread_h20
      @bread_h20 Před 2 lety +7

      What do you mean by biased?

    • @bread_h20
      @bread_h20 Před 2 lety +46

      Nevermind i see it now

    • @viriotie
      @viriotie Před 2 lety +28

      @@bread_h20 hahaha love the character development

    • @pengyou2000
      @pengyou2000 Před 2 lety +12

      I was just about to say he so off putting like you cant tell a patient in conversation with them about something they felt bad about saying “ oh your those kind of people i try to fend off (online)” (while hes talking to Ethan) like wtf professionalism?? keep yourself out of your clients problems.

  • @lilyg3539
    @lilyg3539 Před 2 lety +171

    no one other than trisha could beat their partner (and admit to it) and then make themselves look like the victim...

    • @annalupton9284
      @annalupton9284 Před 2 lety +7

      Ehhhhh I think gabbie hanna probably could tbh.

    • @wrigleymarie5763
      @wrigleymarie5763 Před 2 lety +2

      @@annalupton9284 maybe but the difference is nobody would let it go or believe gabbie. people are ignoring what trisha did to moses and still supporting her or just focusing on other things she has done. All of this is being swept under the rug and i feel horrible for moses especially bc they are gonna get married soon.

    • @gorilla-grip-pussy-support7976
      @gorilla-grip-pussy-support7976 Před 2 lety +1

      It does happen sadly, when you work with abusers a lot or are around them they can admit to disgusting things and still manipulate the situation so that they’re the victim.

  • @grape3623
    @grape3623 Před 3 lety +541

    This episode really did make me cry. Ethan, Hila, Moses .. everyone, Trisha really needed people like this in her life, and even after her mistakes and all of that, I really think she deserves it. Congratulations Trisha on finding people that can help you heal (even though it can be difficult at times) & thank you to the H3 fam for helping her get to that place and being patient with her along the way.

    • @julietrodz4672
      @julietrodz4672 Před 3 lety +2

      This ❤️🙏🏼

    • @eringorman4479
      @eringorman4479 Před 3 lety +2

      Couldn't have said it better 💯

    • @donaldford2849
      @donaldford2849 Před 3 lety +2

      For real .

    • @greekozygirl599
      @greekozygirl599 Před 3 lety +3

      I couldn't have put it better myself, this would be a really good network support system for her, especially Hilla as a friend. Somebody that would not take advantage of her in any way.

  • @breebydesign
    @breebydesign Před 3 lety +1466

    Ethan: “Btw, she’s dating my brother in law.”
    Trisha: “What does that have to do with anything?”
    Dr. Drew: “Is he gay?”
    😭

    • @ashleylynn5173
      @ashleylynn5173 Před 3 lety +9

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tiffanykautz9874
      @tiffanykautz9874 Před 3 lety +5

    • @Sooba_Wooba
      @Sooba_Wooba Před 3 lety +54

      Lmfao I noticed but I felt it was.. a valid question.

    • @breebydesign
      @breebydesign Před 3 lety +8

      Jennifer Mactzul it was! I don’t think he was joking at all lol. And I think that’s what makes it funnier!! 😂😂😂

    • @breebydesign
      @breebydesign Před 3 lety

      ChocolateBreakfast who are you are, you are great! ❤️

  • @elledesperado721
    @elledesperado721 Před 9 měsíci +17

    Ethan playing with his hair is legitimately the funniest thing in earth like why is he such a natural

  • @zoeinkerman969
    @zoeinkerman969 Před 2 lety +609

    I know this word has been over used on the internet but ethan was so gaslit in this episode

    • @direct-empowerment
      @direct-empowerment Před 2 lety +17

      thats so true

    • @lilbigplanet4170
      @lilbigplanet4170 Před 2 lety +37

      Trisha was talking about her mental health. Ethan was only really trying to justify if what he did was wrong or not.

  • @jimming26
    @jimming26 Před 3 lety +682

    30:30-
    Ethan: she's dating my brother in law
    Dr. Drew: is he gay?
    HAHAHA HOW DID NO ONE CATCH THIS

    • @alexandralawson9578
      @alexandralawson9578 Před 3 lety +5

      😹😹😹😹

    • @habiibty
      @habiibty Před 3 lety +8

      omg I missed it! just went back, thanks! love him haha

    • @aleliortega
      @aleliortega Před 3 lety +4

      because Trish said she/him feels like a guy

    • @SinclairJugular
      @SinclairJugular Před 3 lety +2

      because Trisha said she likes dating gay guys and dated one for two years. what is so funny

    • @habiibty
      @habiibty Před 3 lety +3

      That was the funny part. You both missed the point lol he was making a joke

  • @eggzs6727
    @eggzs6727 Před 3 lety +526

    this is the first time trisha has admitted she loves ethan, she usually tries to say she never thinks about him and she couldn't care less but this was sweet

    • @JesusGomez-ob2qt
      @JesusGomez-ob2qt Před 3 lety +46

      Also I notice ethan was tearing up when trisha cried,he also loves her its sweet

    • @silmailu
      @silmailu Před 3 lety +2

      No she's said it before

    • @slatplusmobb7118
      @slatplusmobb7118 Před 3 lety +1

      Time stamp?😊😊😊

    • @JesusGomez-ob2qt
      @JesusGomez-ob2qt Před 3 lety +3

      @@slatplusmobb7118 just watch it all lol

    • @slatplusmobb7118
      @slatplusmobb7118 Před 3 lety

      @@JesusGomez-ob2qt I do watch the show late at night playing games, just wanted a quick peak lol

  • @janelledillon6553
    @janelledillon6553 Před 2 lety +50

    Back from the future ; y’all know what happens :(

  • @britlugo2680
    @britlugo2680 Před 3 lety +213

    Dr. Drew kept interrupting Ethan, let him talk too. He even finished Ethan's apology for him, that kinda sucks but it's good that Trisha's mental health was being advocated for.

    • @christinamartin3832
      @christinamartin3832 Před 2 lety +8

      right.......maybe he's not really the best therapist.

    • @SantosAl
      @SantosAl Před 2 lety +6

      @@christinamartin3832 Or a therapist at all.

    • @christinamartin3832
      @christinamartin3832 Před 2 lety

      @@SantosAl hey, whats up christina martin?! Great minds think alike !👍

    • @JennSarracenia
      @JennSarracenia Před 2 lety +1

      Weird, I’ve counted many times that he’s interrupted Trish and it’s a lot…?

  • @brittanylarington7568
    @brittanylarington7568 Před 3 lety +2605

    Ethan: *hairflip* “ so you pegged him?”

  • @fernfernisfernie
    @fernfernisfernie Před 3 lety +2772

    Don't ya'll dare stop making this podcast. This sincerely has been one of the more positive/comforting/entertaining things that's taken my mind off this horrible year. Please continue, even if costumes don't. It's safe to say a lot of us look forward to this every week!

    • @daisywares1
      @daisywares1 Před 3 lety +7

      Agree. 100

    • @Beautybabe316
      @Beautybabe316 Před 3 lety +4

      100%

    • @kindachill
      @kindachill Před 3 lety +5

      SERIOUSLY. This is a joy.

    • @perlamatias47
      @perlamatias47 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes! This is actually the first episode I've watched fully (the rest were highlights and comps) and I really enjoyed it. I feel like having that outside perspective really allowed them to understand each other a lot more.

    • @lucyevans19
      @lucyevans19 Před 3 lety

      YES!!

  • @abigailpeckford5878
    @abigailpeckford5878 Před 2 lety +97

    it was so weird for that part around 30 min where ethan was trying to explain his feelings and Dr. Drew was just like "She doesn't understand boundaries" as if thats an excuse, like thats the whole point, SHE DOESNT, and thats bad and hurtful to ethan, but Dr. Drew made it seem like its Ethan fault for not understanding that she crosses boundaries. Ethan could barely get a word out about his feelings, Trisha would go on a whole rant at 35:11 and the second Ethan started talking Dr. Drew shut him down. It was so weird to watch

    • @marirosado334
      @marirosado334 Před rokem +9

      But Trisha made a point that Ethan never set any boundaries to begin with and she never set any boundaries with him, so she assumed there weren’t any which she isn’t wrong for because Ethan brings up any and everything so it’s confusing.

  • @princekareem
    @princekareem Před 2 lety +272

    Dr Drew: Domestic violence? That's understandable, I'm glad you're working on it. You don't want Ethan to bring your abusive behavior to light? Also understandable, what abuser wants that. Telling the victim of violence he needs to participate in therapy with the perpetrator in order to resolve it is garbage. She saw her chance to play victim here and went hard for it.

    • @firstnamelastname9051
      @firstnamelastname9051 Před 11 měsíci +9

      I understand where you’re coming from but do you have any idea what your actually talking about? People with mental illnesses can act abusive. Have you done ANY research on the borderline personality? Trisha doesn’t deserve to be labeled as an abuser when shes (most likely) dealing with borderline rage which is a very difficult thing to navigate and can cause you to do things during episodes that you would never normally do. Its a rare case in which both people can be the victim. Trish is dealing with a mental illness thats almost impossible to manage. Shes in therapy. She admitted it was wrong. Im sure she apologized. She is very obviously ashamed. She, at least at this point, is trying to do better and get a grip. There is not a lot more she could do. She cant just “stop.”
      Hopefully that all makes sense. Sincerely,
      Someone with Borderline Personality disorder.

    • @bas_ee
      @bas_ee Před 10 měsíci

      @@firstnamelastname9051 She definitely is an abuser. A narcissistic, selfish person who is a pro at gasslighting. I like watching this podcast, but she is bat shit crazy. And yes, i do know what im talking about

    • @bas_ee
      @bas_ee Před 10 měsíci +12

      not saying she deserves to be shot for it, but borderline and narcisism and stuff like that is not an "act like an asshole for free"-card. Its still her own responsibility and most definitely allowed to be able to lable her as an abuser. I mean, what you say just makes you look like an enabler, and someone who allows people who have it rough to just be an asshole

    • @firstnamelastname9051
      @firstnamelastname9051 Před 9 měsíci +5

      @@bas_ee enabler and having understanding for a whole PERSONALITY disorder are two different things. Hitting someone one time does not make anyone abuser especially if they do that mid borderline episode. Trish apologized, agreed it was wrong, and it working to improve it. It seems to really fuck her up inside that she hurt her partner. You dont seem to know anything about borderline. People during episodes act accordingly. It is still our responsibility to be held accountable but calling trish an abuser is not holding her accountable 😂 speaking from personal experience its more likely to drive us into deeper into our illnesses and make us sicker. And therefore our episodes more explosive. Being mean does not help the mental illness sufferer. You can hold someone accountable without calling them an abuser and a terrible person. Jesus christ have some empathy.

    • @firstnamelastname9051
      @firstnamelastname9051 Před 9 měsíci +4

      @@bas_ee and narcissist and borderlines are not comparable and no one i know uses them as get out of jail free card. This is literally why there is so much shame around borderlines because people like you say shit like this.its heartbreaking really.

  • @hitherelauren
    @hitherelauren Před 3 lety +1459

    I imagine this episode was very difficult for everyone, especially Trisha. That being said, I'm really glad that they're sharing this episode with us because it's so important for us to 1. normalize therapy, 2. normalize these difficult and therapeutic relationships.

    • @melwhitefordhall8803
      @melwhitefordhall8803 Před 3 lety +13

      Yeah so true this is definitely their best podcast. And i like how Drew didn’t pick sides he made sure they both got their sides and opinions out listening to them equally

  • @LordCallum
    @LordCallum Před 3 lety +807

    i feel like ethan actually cares about trisha, his face when shes crying shows it so much

    • @katzpyjamaz8574
      @katzpyjamaz8574 Před 3 lety +55

      I noticed that! I knew he was going to try and hug her before he even suggested it, you could totally tell he was affected.

    • @LordCallum
      @LordCallum Před 3 lety +5

      @@katzpyjamaz8574 100%

    • @JennRighter
      @JennRighter Před 3 lety +32

      I agree. You can watch him, even through the costume, and you can tell it breaks his heart. A part of Ethan I’ve never seen.

    • @josephdavies9407
      @josephdavies9407 Před 3 lety +1

      Shut up !!

    • @LordCallum
      @LordCallum Před 3 lety +3

      @@josephdavies9407 racist

  • @lolamay9574
    @lolamay9574 Před 10 měsíci +21

    i think this episode made me understand trisha’s point of view a lot more. she genuinely felt like he miscommunicated and i get that

  • @cheezocream
    @cheezocream Před 2 lety +160

    Dr Drew is painful to watch. He’s so unprofessional and constantly interrupts. Don’t ask questions if you won’t wait to hear the response.

  • @2006rm250
    @2006rm250 Před 3 lety +860

    They done goofed by not sitting on each other’s sides! SO CLOSE!

    • @jorrrrdynnnn
      @jorrrrdynnnn Před 3 lety +26

      I thought the same thing initially, but I feel like Trish might be one of those "film me from my good side" sort of people

    • @alexh9865
      @alexh9865 Před 3 lety +32

      @@jorrrrdynnnn these comments are just such a stretch..stop this

    • @jorrrrdynnnn
      @jorrrrdynnnn Před 3 lety +28

      @@alexh9865 I love Trish! What do you mean? Most people DO have one side that looks better than the other, and most women who are on camera often are aware of it. We aren't symmetrical as human beings. If you're gonna have to be filmed in profile for an hour you may as well do it from the cuter side 🤷

    • @sunburnz
      @sunburnz Před 3 lety +6

      @@jorrrrdynnnn it’s true. my left side is my good side lol

    • @jorrrrdynnnn
      @jorrrrdynnnn Před 3 lety +1

      @@sunburnz mine too 😂

  • @aliciaballesteros-mitchell1059

    Okay but this episode is so important. This is really destigmatizing mental health treatment; I've genuinely never seen big youtubers really do anything as deep as this.

    • @Autumnaul
      @Autumnaul Před 3 lety +53

      That is exactly what I was thinking! The genius and class that everyone involved brought to this episode is so commendable. We all need more content like this

    • @cacapoopie4438
      @cacapoopie4438 Před 3 lety +42

      it was actually really nice to finally have someone talk about mental health struggles in a serious and genuine way that is forgiving and understanding.

    • @alizaa7550
      @alizaa7550 Před 3 lety +23

      This is mu expectation now for when youtubers want to comment on mental health. Because there are so many videos that claim or aim to be woke but it just adds to the bs and spread of misinformation. Everything I've seen about mental health from big influencers is just so disingenuous that makes this video realllyyy refreshing.

    • @weliveinasociety4629
      @weliveinasociety4629 Před 3 lety +38

      I really liked especially how trauma informed Dr. and the group in general was, like the fact that they took time to explain the different ways she was disassociating or lashing out and how to communicate with someone when they do disassociate. I think this is definitely one of my favorite podcasts by far they've done.

    • @b1nary_f1nary
      @b1nary_f1nary Před 3 lety +1

      Totally agree but there are lots of other youtubers doing this type of thing, it's a trend. Lots of videos with a guy called doctor K going round, check them out.

  • @lilliviars4814
    @lilliviars4814 Před 2 lety +762

    Dr. Drew literally babied her and let everything wrong she did slide and it drives me insane. Someone needs to call her out on her shit. Especially with Trisha hitting Moses.

    • @HebrewKarLeigh
      @HebrewKarLeigh Před 2 lety +1

      Moses provoked her

    • @alle6621
      @alle6621 Před 2 lety +27

      @@HebrewKarLeigh so that makes abuse okay? Lmao

    • @alexuwu2939
      @alexuwu2939 Před rokem

      @@alle6621 She's trying to better herself imo. It's obviously not okay at ALL but I do believe that Trisha has a lot of mental issues she's working through.

    • @alle6621
      @alle6621 Před rokem +14

      @@alexuwu2939 no no, it’s not okay period. There’s no defending this. And she’s not better, she’ll always be that toxic person. For example, everyone thought she changed when she joined frenemies and look how that ended.

    • @littlelogan34
      @littlelogan34 Před rokem +8

      @@HebrewKarLeigh yo. You being fr?

  • @honeymoon6039
    @honeymoon6039 Před 2 lety +20

    DAN LAUGHING IN THE BACK IS SO FUNNY

  • @ifindyoubeautiful
    @ifindyoubeautiful Před 3 lety +1433

    Does anyone else feel like we just went through a therapy session with them
    Edit: Thanks for the likes friends! Ethan & Trisha - I love you both. I’ve been struggling lately and this podcast has given me something to look forward to. Even when it’s heavy I love the realness and I see the best in both of you

    • @sakuralovesdepp2
      @sakuralovesdepp2 Před 3 lety +28

      I've been in therapy. I felt everything!

    • @JoeMartinMusic
      @JoeMartinMusic Před 3 lety +57

      well... we kinda did lol

    • @teresamesa
      @teresamesa Před 3 lety +18

      yes. it literally felt like one of my therapy sessions.

    • @Hiir0e
      @Hiir0e Před 3 lety +11

      Yeah really like i felt for Trisha so bad... And i started to see similarities and really he opended up my thinking about some issues in my head .. interesting

    • @WutTheDeuceGaming
      @WutTheDeuceGaming Před 3 lety +1

      would imagine that was the secondary point, while also seeking to better their own relationship. A win-win for everyone and a great idea.

  • @jenniferboyer-nizinski2866
    @jenniferboyer-nizinski2866 Před 3 lety +1285

    I honestly think Ethan wanted the world to see what he sees in Trisha. That's why he got Dr Drew on and why Dr Drew focused on her the most.
    I saw it in her already but am so glad they gave her the opportunity to tell her side. My husband is the male form of Trish.
    It's time for her to find happiness and she is one her way!

    • @LosezDAUGHTER
      @LosezDAUGHTER Před 3 lety +53

      I love Ethan for doing this for Trisha. He is exactly the kind of friend Trisha needs in her life.

    • @Official_KC
      @Official_KC Před 3 lety +28

      I agree. And I'm glad they didn't get someone like Dr. Phil or one of the hacks. Dr. Drew gets lumped into those, but he's a legit doctor, focusing in psychology. I suggest people watch him on his YMH channel (That's definitely how Ethan got him on, since he's close friends with Tom Segura and Christina P, and Dr. Drew is on their channel)
      I think a lot of people's opinions changed after this, thankfully. They understand that Trisha isn't really doing this on purpose. I know a lot of people just like her, and over time after the apologies, you see it.

    • @smokes3974
      @smokes3974 Před 3 lety +13

      Like trisha i suffer from borderline personality disorder and i understand her so well, it makes life unlivable

    • @jenniferboyer-nizinski2866
      @jenniferboyer-nizinski2866 Před 3 lety +5

      @@smokes3974 I am so sorry. Having a good support system is key to survival!

    • @jenniferboyer-nizinski2866
      @jenniferboyer-nizinski2866 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Official_KC I really think this did open people's eyes. The genuine hurt she felt has to shut up all the haters.

  • @saraglongballs2654
    @saraglongballs2654 Před rokem +110

    Ethan: “Maybe you shouldn’t hit him”
    Trisha: cue the water works

  • @Tryssfg
    @Tryssfg Před 2 lety +41

    We will all be rewatching frienemies lol

  • @alysonrodriguez6767
    @alysonrodriguez6767 Před 3 lety +760

    This makes me glad that Shane never did a docuseries on Trisha like a lot of people requested. In hindsight, I think it would have hurt her more than helped her and people would not have taken it seriously because of Shane's controversies. I'm glad we are getting to know Trisha on her own terms.

    • @laurelthefloral7180
      @laurelthefloral7180 Před 3 lety +33

      Yeah I feel like this podcast is a healthy version with Ethan instead of well...

    • @adelinewurzer4533
      @adelinewurzer4533 Před 3 lety

      for sure

    • @CarlosHernandez-uj8vo
      @CarlosHernandez-uj8vo Před 3 lety +2

      Underrated comment

    • @pep_z780
      @pep_z780 Před 3 lety +3

      didn’t he start that series with her or something similar

    • @DeletedUser-zm9bf
      @DeletedUser-zm9bf Před 3 lety

      @@pep_z780 no i think he did a vid living a life as her for a day but it was short and not a docuseries

  • @dose532
    @dose532 Před 3 lety +724

    This podcast isn’t even a podcast it’s more of a documentary of a developing relationship

    • @tessinderbitzin
      @tessinderbitzin Před 3 lety +48

      it’s so weirdly beautiful

    • @JesusGomez-ob2qt
      @JesusGomez-ob2qt Před 3 lety +4

      @@tessinderbitzin right

    • @tizzyboo
      @tizzyboo Před 3 lety +9

      Totally that’s why is so fascinating to watch

    • @MrZzombieee
      @MrZzombieee Před 3 lety +6

      This is what happens when two people with differences learn about and from each other to be more accepting and understanding

    • @PossibleBat
      @PossibleBat Před 3 lety +5

      It’s goals, people nowadays take 0 time to get to know other people, it’s all superficial and fake, I appreciate genuine people like them

  • @jessietapp975
    @jessietapp975 Před 2 lety +533

    Going back to this episode is even more infuriating than the first time I watched it. Dr. Drew is NOT a therapist he’s not qualified to do this.

    • @toriplayssg
      @toriplayssg Před rokem +6

      But they brought him there for that purpose. If they didn’t want his opinions they wouldn’t have asked for them

    • @Theeblaccking
      @Theeblaccking Před rokem +11

      @@toriplayssg obviously go to bed child

    • @nakoriakiyama9417
      @nakoriakiyama9417 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@toriplayssgno they brought him for couples counseling not for a therapy session with the utmost care and respect for trisha while bashing ethan and discrediting him every step of the way

    • @toriplayssg
      @toriplayssg Před 5 měsíci

      @@nakoriakiyama9417 couples counseling is therapy 😂

  • @brewolfe7525
    @brewolfe7525 Před 2 lety +442

    drives me insane how she makes ethan the bad guy of her literally abusing her partner.

  • @xxlilith_
    @xxlilith_ Před 3 lety +637

    I have mad respect for Ethan being willing to stand down and admit where he was wrong instead of just doubling down on his original statements. 10/10 anime character development

    • @Unknownprofilegames
      @Unknownprofilegames Před 3 lety +22

      I'm at 45 minutes in and he has doubled down on EVERYTHING he's never wrong. It's always Trisha's fault. Are we watching the same video?

    • @Nat-hr7wx
      @Nat-hr7wx Před 3 lety +12

      Unknownprofilegames literallyyyy!!!! he always finds a way to put it back on trisha like he can’t formally apologize or admit it

    • @byronbarrientos8471
      @byronbarrientos8471 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Unknownprofilegames what are you talking about ???? at 45 when he says what he says about her the context is literly him saying "people see you as these bad things but you're clearly NOT those things" .__.

    • @DerpMuse
      @DerpMuse Před 3 lety +8

      @@Unknownprofilegames At first he started being like that with admitting error but blaming the reason he messed up being something Trish did as a means of blame shifting. Later on after Trish started crying and Ethan wanted to hug her, he was more open to understand Trish more, as was I. He took accountability and apologized to Trish and it made her smile. You have the wrong takeaway if you think it was doubling down the entire time.

    • @baabaq9126
      @baabaq9126 Před 3 lety +1

      Early on in this episode I felt like he wasn't but later, he definitely did

  • @LittleLeon82
    @LittleLeon82 Před 3 lety +1701

    Ethan with a serious look on his face: “Trisha came out as a chicken nugget” 🤣🤣

  • @superdoopercooper1962
    @superdoopercooper1962 Před 2 lety +1441

    It’s hard not to discredit dr Drew entirely after watching this.

    • @brandonklinski569
      @brandonklinski569 Před 2 lety +12

      How so?

    • @ARampagingHobo
      @ARampagingHobo Před 2 lety +135

      @@brandonklinski569 He's simping for Trisha at every turn

    • @justinsilverstein6278
      @justinsilverstein6278 Před 2 lety +136

      He's a quack that's not good enough at his profession to notice when a patient of his is manipulating him and lieing to him. You can't treat someone if you're gonna let them play you the entire session.

    • @JennSarracenia
      @JennSarracenia Před 2 lety

      It’s almost like… real doctors don’t just shit on mentally ill people and actually understand mental illness! Unlike this comment section.

    • @jasminrodriguez5513
      @jasminrodriguez5513 Před 10 měsíci +16

      @@justinsilverstein6278i noticed he flipped a switch after she started talking about getting treatment. He really likes that about her and it bled into the rest of the conversation

  • @mandananellie
    @mandananellie Před 2 lety +118

    5:07 Identity isn't clear
    6:53 Shitty people you use for TF
    8:27 Instagram vs. Reality
    12:34 Ethan never apologizes
    20:20 Trans video
    21:25 Chicken nugget video
    24:50 I dated a gay man (? outing Sean again)
    28:39 He triggered me
    34:44 May be you shouldn't have hit him
    37:17 It was a joke
    40:57 First time that happened 🤔
    54:16 I love that person as a friend of mine
    1:00:04 I did troll
    1:07:17 What a fugue feels like
    1:07:35 Trisha apologizes

  • @DaveJH
    @DaveJH Před 3 lety +718

    Honestly never saw Frenimies going in this direction but it’s such an interesting insight into the type of people that become social media celebrities and what they’re having to deal with personally as well as having public personas

  • @hanm3172
    @hanm3172 Před 3 lety +581

    I never expected Trish to be able to move me to tears. She's so human and people like to look past that, she puts her all online which includes the ugly parts.

    • @hgodfrey5612
      @hgodfrey5612 Před 3 lety +10

      I cried too. I listened to this during work

    • @margauxlaurent6324
      @margauxlaurent6324 Před 3 lety +24

      I been saying this forever, Trisha brings very important subjects in this platform for years and she has a really good heart, she just trolls sometimes and uses her trolling to get a reaction of people and im not excusing her bad behaviour just sharing my two cents from a long time trish fan.

    • @maiagirrl
      @maiagirrl Před 3 lety +1

      Same!!!

    • @preciousangel8721
      @preciousangel8721 Před 3 lety +1

      I know I'm listening to this in the park and I really feel for both of them and I started crying a little in public 😂😂

    • @empoleonfangirl
      @empoleonfangirl Před 3 lety +1

      Lol fr I teared up too

  • @gusfring
    @gusfring Před rokem +14

    not “doctor” drew enabling trisha lmao. the whole point was she did weaponize ethan’s private info bc she was angry with him and lashing out. ethan brought out the moses dms as a bit and consistently asked trisha for limits the whole time. intent matters and trisha was not the victim

  • @AngelxBabyxoxo
    @AngelxBabyxoxo Před 2 lety +9

    22:00 “I didn’t come out as a chicken nugget, it was a spoken word poetry” 🤪

  • @heidysolorzano5867
    @heidysolorzano5867 Před 3 lety +1555

    I applaud Ethan for being the only person to provide a platform to truly understand Trisha as a human being. A lot of times I thought she would use mental health to evade accountability but this podcast was eye opening and I understand where trisha comes from better. I hope she truly is trying to overcome her struggles

    • @HelloBombshell21
      @HelloBombshell21 Před 3 lety +25

      Her fans have wanted this for her!!

    • @yourloveriswild7533
      @yourloveriswild7533 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @heidysolorzano5867
      @heidysolorzano5867 Před 3 lety +10

      @Hae humans are very complex and the internet makes people seem 1 dimensional, you are either good or bad, there's no way to be both but that's just not true. Idk about Chris Brown but as it was mentioned in the podcast Trisha is seeking help and trying to better herself so thats good for now I suppose.

    • @ashleymarie1156
      @ashleymarie1156 Před 3 lety

      YES!

    • @pacu1115
      @pacu1115 Před 3 lety +10

      We should also applaud Trisha for speaking openly about her struggles not only in relatable raw way but also in away that allowed for people to understand what’s underneath the controversy. For her to do this is not only incredibly difficult for people who have mental disorders but speaks volumes to the treatment she is currently seeking and practicing. Also an applause for Dr.Drew to allow Trisha to feel as though she was in a safe environment to allow to show her more vulnerable side.

  • @scriberothchild5335
    @scriberothchild5335 Před 3 lety +3335

    The Frenemies series is probably the best thing that could have happened to both Trisha and Ethan as human beings

    • @emily8768
      @emily8768 Před 3 lety +23

      Yes, they're both true blessings for each other and all of us. Love them and that family!! 💚

    • @fabdro7507
      @fabdro7507 Před 3 lety +35

      Even if it ends bads they learned a great deal from eachother

    • @Periodnetta
      @Periodnetta Před 3 lety +10

      What about Ethan’s...you know...son 😂

    • @EssenceofNoelle
      @EssenceofNoelle Před 3 lety +4

      This didn't age well lmao

    • @Sonyash26
      @Sonyash26 Před 3 lety

      both best and worst

  • @DeeDee97916
    @DeeDee97916 Před 2 lety +251

    God bless Ethan & his wife for their patience with Trisha. I couldn't do it.

    • @noodle3851
      @noodle3851 Před 2 lety +8

      Omg ethan is just evil he has said so many personal stuff about her and in that podcast he was constantly telling her why her relationships don’t work and why she shouldn’t be a mom and what not y’all are just crazy for defending him and even before that he has always exposed personal stuff about her hats off to her for even sticking around for as long as she did

    • @Vazzzz
      @Vazzzz Před 2 lety +8

      @@noodle3851 well when someone tell you that they don’t care about being talked about and you do it they get mad and go full on rage mode. It’s her fault and she knows it and that’s why she’s getting help. No one’s perfect so stop blaming him.

    • @lilbigplanet4170
      @lilbigplanet4170 Před 2 lety +3

      @@Vazzzz she didnt go "rage mode" until Ethan got defensive about the pills. Which he shouldnt have gotten defensive about when hes over there sharing private DMs when she was begging for him not to.

    • @camrynburkett3782
      @camrynburkett3782 Před 2 lety +2

      @@lilbigplanet4170 he didn't care about she said it. He was just confused on why would she. Trisha does so many things on and off of the podcast. She can only out herself but hates when others do.

    • @yesindeed5637
      @yesindeed5637 Před 4 měsíci

      exactly

  • @leilacervantes8553
    @leilacervantes8553 Před rokem +9

    “You have to plan 5 steps ahead” as someone with bipolar depression this hit really close to home I haven’t found a good way to define my everyday life but that is so true :/