Cheese Mukbang Disaster - Frenemies #9

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  • @Jessdeanne93
    @Jessdeanne93 Před 3 lety +3336

    Them having such a deep emotional convo while Trisha has two crows on her head and there is the nasty cheese fountain in the middle is such a funny contrast

    • @pinky1068
      @pinky1068 Před 3 lety +9

      IKR ROFLMFAO

    • @jessicaj.6291
      @jessicaj.6291 Před 3 lety +24

      Lmfao all i could look at was the fountain when they were talking about her relationship 😂

    • @haileennevsmom09
      @haileennevsmom09 Před 3 lety +2

      ikr lol

    • @ethereallioness
      @ethereallioness Před 3 lety +11

      isnt that like the mood of almost every episode

    • @sonictonic_
      @sonictonic_ Před 3 lety +4

      Part of the absolute greatness of this show. 😅

  • @Zoe-ze7di
    @Zoe-ze7di Před 3 lety +726

    My biggest annoyance is that Trisha brings up something that legitimately hurt her, she was gaslight by everyone there, and then Moses's response was "oh but SHE slept with 10 people". Falacy! She told you! And Ethan was disgusting. "okay Moses messaging 3(1) girl, but TRISHA? 10 GUYS?" The lying is being overlooked and her honesty is being shamed. Absolutely disgusting.

    • @eerieoz4588
      @eerieoz4588 Před 3 lety +8

      yesss.

    • @amandadefran4719
      @amandadefran4719 Před 3 lety +33

      Agree. I think it probably wasnt a smart move for Trish to has this out with a room full of people that are related to Moses :( I was rooting for her the whole time! She's a better women that me, because I would have left Moses on a second!

    • @babyfirefly118
      @babyfirefly118 Před 3 lety +2

      No one can take her seriously that's why. Shes a troll & expects people to take her seriously. Its her own fault shes NOT a genuine person & whoever doesn't see it is very gullible.

    • @hollyheartbeat6067
      @hollyheartbeat6067 Před 3 lety +11

      @@babyfirefly118 are you serious...

    • @Zoe-ze7di
      @Zoe-ze7di Před 3 lety +12

      @@babyfirefly118 I disagree, no matter what was in her past- when a hurt person says they have been hurt, no one can disavow that. There is communication, relationship building, and other tools to understand one another again but by gaslighting and bringing up her past doesn't achieve anything.

  • @ikarishinji436
    @ikarishinji436 Před 10 měsíci +1327

    it’s been 2 years and i would still buy a Frenemies hoodie

    • @royal8133
      @royal8133 Před 10 měsíci +11

      Saaaame

    • @devincarson73
      @devincarson73 Před 9 měsíci +10

      Definitely need a new merch drop

    • @xBwahx
      @xBwahx Před 9 měsíci +20

      I'm so glad I bought one 😩😩 The only merch I have ever bought and the only merch I ever will.

    • @TiffneyOkay
      @TiffneyOkay Před 8 měsíci +16

      Watching for the first time. Two years late lol. Wish I had some merch

    • @shea7564
      @shea7564 Před 8 měsíci +6

      Ugh so sad I didn’t buy one! I saw someone selling one for like $300 lol

  • @stringbing97
    @stringbing97 Před 3 lety +669

    If my partner told me he doesn’t want to have sex with me and that I smell bad, behind my back, I’d absolutely break up with him that is so messed up dude

  • @almostfiction
    @almostfiction Před 3 lety +1969

    It is kind of annoying that Moses won’t admit that he hits on girls. Trisha is honest about her sexual past & it’s the most irritating thing that he says “I was trolling” 🤮

    • @smac5869
      @smac5869 Před 3 lety +68

      Also he mumbled something on here about sleeping with only one other woman? Did anyone else hear that?while they were on a break? Like who’s that woman then?

    • @justinchan4203
      @justinchan4203 Před 3 lety +7

      You got all that from an episode? Kinda shitty to make negative assumptions on a person jesus.

    • @beanegg4452
      @beanegg4452 Před 3 lety +73

      @@justinchan4203 those were things he said himself on the podcast

    • @kabs7237
      @kabs7237 Před 3 lety +14

      Trisha literally does only fans for a living she shouldn’t get so jealous

    • @smac5869
      @smac5869 Před 3 lety +19

      Kalani moore if that’s true then why doesn’t that Moses guy just open up to her? Is she jealous or angry because he’s being deceptive to her? Who knows

  • @myknic
    @myknic Před 3 lety +613

    Hila’s defense for Moses just did not make sense to me. Just because Moses would never say it to her face does not make it any better. If my parts smelled bad I would 10000% percent rather my man let me know than tell someone else. Him telling someone else is an attempt to portray her poorly, him telling her to her face would another be thing. Also the Hinge thing is a red flag!!

    • @MichelleLoversVideos
      @MichelleLoversVideos Před 3 lety

      @@rory7676 it’s another dating app

    • @BronzeBellaBria
      @BronzeBellaBria Před 3 lety +54

      Imagine if Ethan said this about Hila:
      - Hila cant control her eating
      - Hila's 🐈 stank
      - Hila uses too much teeth during BJs
      (All while they were in the process of trying to buy a house together and conciev baby Theodore!)
      I HIGHLY DOUBT Hila would have forgiven Ethan if he got catfished 3x by the same stalker bitch tryna bust a nut in the DMs w strangers on the Internet.
      Hila's advice was ASS. It displayed a huge lack of empathy towards Trisha and bias towards Moses. TRASH

    • @ruthieer4015
      @ruthieer4015 Před 3 lety +29

      BronzeBellaBria I completely agree! They love making trisha feel like she’s crazy for having feelings. Her therapists recommended her to break up with Moses if she wasn’t able to get over him saying her vagina smelled and that she had a problem eating. Funny how after this advice she tried to break up with him and now he’s starting to nut in her. He’s trying to trap her.

    • @Beastofdestruct
      @Beastofdestruct Před 3 lety +8

      > He doesn't actually believe that she smells bad. He was just hurt and said stupid shit. We have definitely seen how vindictive Trisha can be.
      > Hinge still shows inactive users
      Both these things were sent by an account that wants to sabotage her, so that is more of a red flag to me.

    • @BronzeBellaBria
      @BronzeBellaBria Před 3 lety +6

      @@Beastofdestruct if Moses said that stuff to be cruel then he is an immature person and they shouldn't be together. You shouldn't be able to say that stuff about your partner so lightly

  • @missMichellePower
    @missMichellePower Před 3 lety +1029

    I live for the person that laughs so hard once in awhile in the background whenever Trish says something really outlandish or ridiculous

  • @laurenlombrano1381
    @laurenlombrano1381 Před 3 lety +779

    literally the entire room was going against Trish and she stood her ground and I’m so proud of her for that. She was 100% valid for feeling how she did.

  • @2Girls1Adam
    @2Girls1Adam Před 3 lety +12406

    Trisha saying she missed Ethan is such character development

    • @jamesmalik3355
      @jamesmalik3355 Před 3 lety +254

      they really feel like friends now

    • @ViiCiiii
      @ViiCiiii Před 3 lety +168

      Well lets wait. Could be that she loses her shit in 20 minutes again

    • @MessatsuGoshoryu02
      @MessatsuGoshoryu02 Před 3 lety +14

      That was really sweet

    • @pep_z780
      @pep_z780 Před 3 lety +110

      @@sheabae8315 lmao she could have just meant she's tired, geez

    • @pissandshidded
      @pissandshidded Před 3 lety +12

      i know right, it makes my heart happy

  • @englishrain3497
    @englishrain3497 Před 3 lety +1685

    Moses talking talking trash about Trisha behind her back to a stranger is a big red flag. I feel really bad for Trish..

    • @azab6539
      @azab6539 Před 3 lety +125

      I want to hug Trish! She's totally valid! Trish do whatever makes you happy... But get an ironclad prenup, girl.

    • @running2rie
      @running2rie Před 3 lety

      aza B i

    • @annasch.7256
      @annasch.7256 Před 3 lety +4

      @englishrain what happened ?

    • @smac5869
      @smac5869 Před 3 lety +2

      Silveryn how do you know he wasn’t hitting her? So many assumptions on here.

    • @LuigiTheHeadcrab
      @LuigiTheHeadcrab Před 3 lety +29

      @Silveryn did you miss the episode where they literally all gave her shit and she cried about how much she regretted it....? So moses never gets to be held accountable for anything because of that? Your pulling the same shit moses did 'well you did something too so I don't have to own up to anything'.

  • @Pixelporygon
    @Pixelporygon Před 3 lety +419

    “Frenemies hoodie but the shows over”
    Ooof that psychic moment

    • @mylarayl2846
      @mylarayl2846 Před 3 lety +12

      That’s exactly what I was thinking lmao

    • @BortSamsung
      @BortSamsung Před 3 lety +33

      I've been watching all the old episodes and they really do a good job of predicting their demise in the first few and this one.

    • @aivlysplath
      @aivlysplath Před 2 lety +3

      Omg

  • @taylorjeanxox8866
    @taylorjeanxox8866 Před 3 lety +967

    My ex told his friend something personal about me that I was super insecure about. It’s been 9 years and I still am so self conscious and think about it! I will never forget it. I agree with Trish on this, that’s super messed up!

    • @pandy1490
      @pandy1490 Před 3 lety +45

      oh girl i am SUPER sorry for you :(( i hope you get better, you don't deserve that at all!

    • @stephenieroyle
      @stephenieroyle Před 2 lety +14

      Your ex is an ex for a reason babe. I hope you’ve healed ♥️

    • @8CheerleadingGirl8
      @8CheerleadingGirl8 Před rokem +3

      what did he say ? :(

  • @ivoryorchidfemme
    @ivoryorchidfemme Před 3 lety +3375

    I LOVE THAT TRISHA IS WEARING COSTUMES STILL

    • @jofip9199
      @jofip9199 Před 3 lety +79

      They should have never stopped!

    • @excessmaterial
      @excessmaterial Před 3 lety +78

      I legit hope she wears a costume every single time she's on now.

    • @sensiblesoul1840
      @sensiblesoul1840 Před 3 lety +17

      Yaaaas same!! I loved seeing their different costumes each week! Make it a thing!

    • @pep_z780
      @pep_z780 Před 3 lety +38

      i love that they never even addressed it lmao

    • @iprobablydontlikeyou7416
      @iprobablydontlikeyou7416 Před 3 lety +14

      @Jay Slays lmao ethan having a legitimate argument dressed as uncle festher 😂 😂

  • @ag8674
    @ag8674 Před 3 lety +427

    moses is disgusting & the way ethan bent over backwards to excuse his behavior was annoying, but the absolute worst part was hila’s comment. i never expected her to say such an ignorant, toxic thing.

    • @londonvon3795
      @londonvon3795 Před 3 lety +36

      SHe was defending her brother but that was such f'in stupid/toxic thing to say for sure.

    • @poetisaextranjera7044
      @poetisaextranjera7044 Před 3 lety +5

      RIGHT

    • @linomade
      @linomade Před 3 lety +1

      Y’all are being so dramatic abt this shit it’s rlly not that deep

    • @desij.4060
      @desij.4060 Před 3 lety

      @Katia same I'm almost done and realizing I never heard her comment too

    • @strawberries6485
      @strawberries6485 Před 3 lety

      @@linomade ikr!!!

  • @rose-mz5tn
    @rose-mz5tn Před 10 měsíci +178

    dude this episode still gets me so angry trisha had literally every right to be mad and everyone was just gaslighting her into thinking her feelings weren't valid? when ethan said "isn't that sweet" cuz moses admitted to saying that bc he was upset i got especially annoyed cuz what about that is sweet like wtf they were both assholes for that (moses for obviously doing it and ethan for defending him so hard). fucking hila too for her horrible advice god…

    • @yacobeinauan9533
      @yacobeinauan9533 Před 8 měsíci +2

      I get angry every episode for seeing how Trisha treats Ethan and because of the idiocy she radiates. She’s a terrible person yet everyone decides to ignore that for whatever reason.

    • @kayleeford3314
      @kayleeford3314 Před 8 měsíci +10

      @@yacobeinauan9533 dude you need a hobby

    • @rambi1072
      @rambi1072 Před 7 měsíci +6

      Yeah that was a very cruel thing to say. Moses comes accross as a fairly chill and nice dude but based on this and a few other things I get the impression he might be kind of a POS. At one point in a podcast episode from earlier this year Ethan strongly implied that him and Hila would be more likely to forgive Trisha than Moses so he must have done something serious to upset them too.

    • @rambi1072
      @rambi1072 Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@yacobeinauan9533 Chill dude, I like Ethan too and Trisha definitely has some personality traits that make her not a great friend to have but that's a bit hyperbolic

  • @s.imahni8612
    @s.imahni8612 Před 3 lety +754

    just bc he’s calmer doesn’t mean he’s right. “if you love someone, you’ll forgive them” is straight up manipulation. some things are just harder to forgive and let go, ESPECIALLY an offense as great as that one. every time she brings it up, moses should apologize instead of getting defensive. admit he was in the wrong and work from there. it works both ways, too, if moses brings up something trisha did to him that hurt him, trisha should apologize. if you see your s/o hurting over something you did, no matter how long ago it was, your #1 priority should be to make them feel better, not gaslight them for feeling that way. you can’t expect someone to move on from something so hurtful and then get mad when they bring it up again

  • @julieherrmann6801
    @julieherrmann6801 Před 3 lety +4860

    if trish does Cindy Lou Who on christmas, ethan NEEDS to be the Grinch. no questions asked.

  • @blueradiomedia
    @blueradiomedia Před 3 lety +7325

    Petition for Trisha to keep wearing costumes for every episode

    • @adaraingram5717
      @adaraingram5717 Před 3 lety +74

      like the true moira rose

    • @nikiiixo333
      @nikiiixo333 Před 3 lety +10

      seriously though 🥺🤤😍

    • @fwafio3o
      @fwafio3o Před 3 lety +49

      It’s really visually entertaining

    • @loneranger5725
      @loneranger5725 Před 3 lety +19

      Trisha is a costume in herself

    • @amo4_cuatro
      @amo4_cuatro Před 3 lety +10

      I disagree Trisha should totally keep wearing costumes, I think it's cool

  • @allisonmcilroy1547
    @allisonmcilroy1547 Před 6 měsíci +101

    rewatching Frenemies for the UMPTENTH TIME… i feel like they would be such good friends now… but some words just cannot be unsaid/unheard😢

  • @meganmyers7094
    @meganmyers7094 Před 3 lety +1683

    Hila saying it wasn't meant for her to read as if that made it ok is actually embarrassing

    • @alana4847
      @alana4847 Před 2 lety +35

      They got into an argument and he said something he didn’t mean out of anger. They aren’t the most mature people.

    • @alana4847
      @alana4847 Před 2 lety +18

      @Film him!! you do realize Trisha is not only a toxic partner but an abusive partner? Are you really gonna sit here and defend an abuser?

    • @mirandapanda5439
      @mirandapanda5439 Před 2 lety +1

      PU LEEEEEAAASE
      No where near as embarrassing as all the shit Trisha has pulled.

    • @10plate
      @10plate Před 2 lety +66

      @@alana4847 it doesn't matter if he said it out of anger... HE STILL SAID IT. ive had a similar experience with someone who said something terrible to me and justified it by saying they said it out of anger. its a terrible feeling that doesn't deserve justification. nobody's even fucking defending Trisha. we're holding Moses accountable for lying, talking shit behind her back, and then gaslighting her by saying he was hurt. she was hurt too. he's clearly wrong in this situation and if you defend him you're defending a liar and a gaslighter

    • @alana4847
      @alana4847 Před 2 lety +4

      @@10plate okay she has abused him both physically and mentally as well. Both of them are bad people

  • @genaanderson5049
    @genaanderson5049 Před 3 lety +1909

    Trisha is right about this situation. DO NOT DEGRADE YOUR WOMAN to other WOMEN or ANYONE PERIOD. Venting is one thing but he was clearly trying to embarrass her. If she does smell that is something he should talk to her about it no one else HE IS HONEST ABOUT EVERYTHING ELSE so the fact he went to tell someone she smells was 100% malicious.

    • @kierstenmilburn
      @kierstenmilburn Před 3 lety +159

      I think I would have a panic attack if I found a message like that to a girl from my boyfriend :(

    • @smac5869
      @smac5869 Před 3 lety +36

      They both said she don’t smell on the show, he said that because he’s nasty.

    • @mattDettling
      @mattDettling Před 3 lety +55

      I mean I’ve been getting a really bad shady vibe lately from Moses . At first I thought he was amazing for Trisha but now idk, and his family seems super toxic especially after the last couple of Podcasts with Ethan... Now I don’t know if these are my own mental illness issues being projected onto her situation but I hope she stays safe and protects her mental health❤️

    • @sw8547
      @sw8547 Před 3 lety

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @BB-ty6iy
      @BB-ty6iy Před 3 lety +23

      I’ve dumped a guy for just talking to a girl i use to be friends with. Knowing the girl in the DMs was a stalking troll makes it feel like betrayal. Now she just has one up on Trisha, plus Trisha will never know if he actually meant it or not.

  • @jul2548
    @jul2548 Před 3 lety +669

    if Moses was so "ego-less" and "spiritual", he would admit that the texts to the chick was wrong, hurtful and suspicious. like why cant he just admit it? its so weird how hes trying to deny it and push it away when thats clearly what is preventing Trisha from moving on from it. he cant seem to admit any of his faults, while Trisha is extremely honest. I'm sad to see my girl like this.

    • @mariarudina1224
      @mariarudina1224 Před 3 lety +44

      I don't buy into this "spiritual" facade

    • @KyleJo
      @KyleJo Před 3 lety +28

      She clearly wants him to admit that it was wrong but he keeps being philosophical about it. Just admit the messages were wrong!

    • @rv8461
      @rv8461 Před 3 lety +18

      It's because people who have a "cult-leader mentality" never admit they are wrong. Look up any cult leader. I'm calling it now- Moses wants to start some weird cult in a pool or bath house or something. Dude is bogus.

    • @mariarudina1224
      @mariarudina1224 Před 3 lety +2

      @@rv8461 He? A leader? lmfao

    • @mattDettling
      @mattDettling Před 3 lety +4

      I mean I’ve been getting a really bad shady vibe lately from Moses . At first I thought he was amazing for Trisha but now idk, and his family seems super toxic especially after the last couple of Podcasts with Ethan... Now I don’t know if these are my own mental illness issues being projected onto her situation but I hope she stays safe and protects her mental health❤️

  • @ella-wv7bo
    @ella-wv7bo Před 3 lety +585

    What Moses said about Trisha was unacceptable. I can’t understand why no one was taking her side. Also the shit Hila said really pissed me off

    • @angelheart457
      @angelheart457 Před 3 lety +61

      ngl i really dislike hila

    • @venti9925
      @venti9925 Před 3 lety +30

      Didn't have an opinion on Hila until now. Disgusting person, I thought I hated Ethan at first and it really took me like, a month of warming up before I even enjoyed Ethan.
      But now I question his taste. He married Hila? Idk man

    • @ferrets4203
      @ferrets4203 Před 3 lety +18

      @@angelheart457 I loved hila because she reminded me so much of my mom, but now im just like girl what ?? :(

    • @venti9925
      @venti9925 Před 2 lety +10

      Updated opinion. I'm very on the fence. I've given her the benefit of the doubt and gotten to know her personality a little more (as a viewer dur) and she's very, careful. Tries not to be negative, and I think why I disliked her was because whenever she did say something bad, it was BAD. Because it's most likely been built up from not letting it out.
      That being said, I don't think she's a disgusting person. But I'm not a fan of hers.

    • @EarlynnFollahsuckmyass
      @EarlynnFollahsuckmyass Před 4 měsíci

      I don't like that woman's spirit at all.

  • @schoolproject9920
    @schoolproject9920 Před 3 lety +1321

    i’m mad that everyone in the room invalidated trishas incredibly valid feelings

    • @cloe5988
      @cloe5988 Před 2 lety +17

      for real.

    • @yacobeinauan9533
      @yacobeinauan9533 Před 8 měsíci +13

      You should be mad at Trisha invalidating people all the time and offending Jews left right and center.

    • @harrymcdonagh4450
      @harrymcdonagh4450 Před 5 měsíci +1

      It’s common knowledge that Trisha was playing a character as seen by her now compared to her then

  • @xXxToxicnessxXx
    @xXxToxicnessxXx Před 3 lety +1334

    Trisha was saying she’d quit the podcast if they broke up and expected that Ethan would not allow her on the podcast if they did break up, because she expected it would be the same as her Jason break up where the vlog squad completely cut her off. Which is sad. I hope this never ends. 😢

    • @tortelliniinbrododigiuggio4462
      @tortelliniinbrododigiuggio4462 Před 3 lety +33

      It's also true that she made multiple videos about how the vlog squad is horrible, pedophiles ect. before the break up

    • @LluviaAva
      @LluviaAva Před 3 lety +50

      @@tortelliniinbrododigiuggio4462 well 2 of them are

    • @mrsmuhk
      @mrsmuhk Před 3 lety +65

      @@tortelliniinbrododigiuggio4462 okay but like... she wasnt lyin tho

    • @user-oq2zr1ly9n
      @user-oq2zr1ly9n Před 3 lety +3

      @@LluviaAva I know one of them. who's the other?

    • @FreeToBeAFreak
      @FreeToBeAFreak Před 3 lety +4

      @@DanSwerdlove-wb5jl ikr, Trisha defending Evan Francisco and saying she would’ve hung out with him more if the internet didn’t expose him.

  • @DanZazula
    @DanZazula Před 3 lety +705

    Hila blatantly condoning talking shit behind your partner’s back is so WEIRD, like what are you saying about Ethan 👀

    • @allydaze1441
      @allydaze1441 Před 3 lety +32

      big facts. i love hila but what the f*ck was that?????

    • @hopestakes9207
      @hopestakes9207 Před 3 lety +14

      Wow, this is GREAT perspective

    • @kayleighbeere96
      @kayleighbeere96 Před 3 lety +5

      İkr!!!

    • @sativadva
      @sativadva Před 3 lety +28

      I think their angle was like "well he was just venting" -- he vented to a stranger? About her vagina smelling and her eating disorder? Where is his remorse? Why is he so defensive? I felt like Trisha had so little support here it's killing me

  • @taycharlese
    @taycharlese Před 3 lety +115

    It makes my fucking blood boil that she is literally expressing to them that he has bashed her behind her back like a snake, talking about her eating disorder, her vaginal health, etc. He is not a good person for that. Why are they not holding him accountable???? If Trish did the EXACT same thing to Moses they would call her crazy once a fucking gain. They are not her friends.

  • @vanessakleinart
    @vanessakleinart Před 3 lety +1645

    honestly if my boyfriend said that stuff about me i’d never talk to him again :)

  • @Theoryofjariatou
    @Theoryofjariatou Před 3 lety +713

    The thing he dmed another girl even hurt my feelings for Trisha... you can’t get over that kind of stuff easily and I wish they wouldn’t excuse it

    • @sortasiara
      @sortasiara Před 3 lety +66

      Right? Wtf. I just broke up with my partner is SEVEN YEARS for this. Because I know I'm never gonna be able to salvage any trust from it.

    • @888claimthisenergynow
      @888claimthisenergynow Před 3 lety +32

      i totally understand that she wouldnt be able to forget it lol

    • @kittime3807
      @kittime3807 Před 3 lety +36

      i would break up the minute I discovered that.

    • @BeachyKeen99
      @BeachyKeen99 Před 3 lety +23

      I agree!! People are so quick to jump to call trisha crazy but at the end of the day she's a human being too. If any of these things happened to anyone else nobody would question their feelings about it.

    • @finthefishsep20toma
      @finthefishsep20toma Před 3 lety +7

      I can't wait to understand what the hell this is about lol

  • @JessicaCorso
    @JessicaCorso Před 3 lety +447

    You guys lost me at the end with Moses’ DMs. Trish has every right to be hurt over newly leaked DMs

    • @juliano2334
      @juliano2334 Před 3 lety +36

      thanks Jessica, I felt the same way and this made me very sad because through the whole episode Trish really seems to like Ethan now and then at the end BOOOMMMM!!!! I feel like Ethan just wants Trish there because she makes him money and he doesn’t even need that, he should enjoy her friendship because she’s awesome

    • @JessicaCorso
      @JessicaCorso Před 3 lety +15

      @@juliano2334 I noticed that - as soon as Trish says she’d quit the podcast if her and Moses broke up Ethan freaked out 🧐

    • @chairladymeow871
      @chairladymeow871 Před 3 lety +16

      It’s the texting random girls from the dms about her body and using “I was hurt” to justify it. I wouldn’t do that to an ex or someone I claimed to care about ever.

    • @JessicaCorso
      @JessicaCorso Před 3 lety +2

      @@chairladymeow871 it’s definitely something that would make me think twice about committing to someone who could do that...

    • @Raven-mp7bv
      @Raven-mp7bv Před 3 lety +1

      Ethan, and Hila sus for taking Moses’ side so hard. Its to say It’s kinda fucked up to say behind anyone’s back.

  • @kaitlynlau9818
    @kaitlynlau9818 Před 3 lety +170

    trish wrapping up the pickle so he didn’t have to touch it just shows how nice she is off screen when she isn’t exaggerating her personality

  • @rawrxd9537
    @rawrxd9537 Před 3 lety +305

    the fact that Moses never took accountability for what he did behind Trisha’s back is fucking disgusting

  • @adrianna169
    @adrianna169 Před 3 lety +764

    Is anyone else really sad and disappointed that hila actually stuck up for Moses? Like I get hes your brother but that was super wrong what he did to trisha...

    • @George-vb1yr
      @George-vb1yr Před 3 lety +12

      Nah it’s family, she just doesn’t understand because of that. She means well just isn’t right in this case but it’s completely understandable

    • @herenkim
      @herenkim Před 3 lety +13

      @bla bla talking shit and rape are very different situations so it’s not fair to compare those two wth

    • @roach2420
      @roach2420 Před 3 lety +16

      @@herenkim i agree rape was a leap but the principle is what matters + i see where they're coming from for sure

    • @theslimshadycom
      @theslimshadycom Před 3 lety +6

      i don't think she was deffending him, she was just clarifying that it is different to vent something nasty to actually meaning it and saying it to your face, she didn't say that it was right, just that is different...

    • @UrbanDecayLova247
      @UrbanDecayLova247 Před 3 lety +13

      @@George-vb1yr no, it’s not understandable. I love my brother but I’m not oblivious to know he took advantage of my ex sister in law and didn’t treat her well. Just because someone is family doesn’t mean you can’t acknowledge when they do bullshit. What she said didn’t even make sense, the way someone talks about you behind your back is how they REALLY feel about you.

  • @christopherdaniel4863
    @christopherdaniel4863 Před 3 lety +10383

    Ethan isn’t the friend Trisha asked for but is the friend she needed.

    • @icecream4depression
      @icecream4depression Před 3 lety +201

      I think they are good for each other.

    • @JW-be6sf
      @JW-be6sf Před 3 lety +110

      aka a brother lmao

    • @susanbennett9062
      @susanbennett9062 Před 3 lety +6

      Yes

    • @ashleet5510
      @ashleet5510 Před 3 lety +121

      Seems to be the only real friend she's ever had either. He's good with her, makes me happy she has someone

    • @LizLaenger
      @LizLaenger Před 3 lety +60

      I love that they pushed through

  • @bladesandflannels4665
    @bladesandflannels4665 Před 3 lety +305

    I really can't look at Hila the same way after that ridiculous and hurtful statement.

    • @juliettes6226
      @juliettes6226 Před 2 lety +2

      What did she say

    • @alexis-gk4us
      @alexis-gk4us Před 2 lety +22

      @@juliettes6226 she gaslit trisha basically saying she wasn’t supposed to see that moses said the fked up stuff behind her back /:

  • @amyl7690
    @amyl7690 Před rokem +122

    If they came out with frenemies merch in 2023 I’d still buy it 😂

    • @rambi1072
      @rambi1072 Před 7 měsíci +1

      You can still buy the merch they initially released back in 2021 on third party sites but it's hard to find and quite expensive. Used I think you can get the hoodies for like $200. Would have been nice to have bought it at the time given how much they have appreciated lol

  • @sammyissodown
    @sammyissodown Před 3 lety +2276

    I swear Ethan JUST shaved his entire face and head and now it’s completely back to normal lol

    • @MadameCirce
      @MadameCirce Před 3 lety +160

      I was thinking the same thing, his hair grows FAST. No wonder it was no biggie to do something that drastic.

    • @kendravan7622
      @kendravan7622 Před 3 lety +5

      Right!

    • @audioliciousxxx
      @audioliciousxxx Před 3 lety +12

      That was my first thought as I started the video. xD

    • @terezap.4784
      @terezap.4784 Před 3 lety

      I was just thinking the same thing!

    • @Deeznutsmynamejeff21
      @Deeznutsmynamejeff21 Před 3 lety +6

      @@MadameCirce it is been a surprisingly long time since he shaved it and you’ll be surprised how fast hair grows back when you shave your head

  • @lindseyjohnson565
    @lindseyjohnson565 Před 3 lety +806

    Just because trish has mental illness doesn’t mean she’s always overreacting, how hard would it be for moses to apologize?😕 I hope trish doesn’t doubt her judgement here

    • @Stefanifaith
      @Stefanifaith Před 3 lety +8

      Trish Paytas literally physically assaulted Moses last month

    • @mblabezza
      @mblabezza Před 3 lety

      Here here

    • @chrisjyoub
      @chrisjyoub Před 3 lety +25

      I can’t stand when people just assume because you have mental health problems that you can’t ever behave like someone without those problems. It’s so disappointing.

    • @oliviajeram7266
      @oliviajeram7266 Před 3 lety +11

      @@Stefanifaith did you even listen to the story

    • @hayleegrobowski3497
      @hayleegrobowski3497 Před 3 lety

      Agreed!!

  • @samanthabrandt1052
    @samanthabrandt1052 Před 3 lety +245

    Ok. I literally just commented how sweet Moses was on a newer episode and I wish I could take it back.
    What he said was HURTFUL and trying to say “because he said it behind her back and not to her” -doesn’t-make it ok.
    When you read or hear something like that said about you, it does stick with you.
    I feel for you Trish. Sorry babe.

    • @pinkflowers5149
      @pinkflowers5149 Před 3 lety +10

      right?? i thought the same before seeing this. i wish more people knew this :-( she deserves so much better

    • @jordanjohnson2299
      @jordanjohnson2299 Před rokem

      That’s whatever

  • @kiranightlee7291
    @kiranightlee7291 Před 2 lety +80

    Anyone else felt like Trisha was flirting with Ethan hard this episode? Then the whole, "oh hi Hila, you're here" caught her completely off guard. Lmao!

  • @Ok-jb3xw
    @Ok-jb3xw Před 3 lety +389

    The thing is, when someone is denying your experience you can’t move past it. If Moses just admitted what he did/said was wrong, Trisha would be able to move on. Denying it makes Trisha feel crazy, and makes her feel like her experience isn’t valid ...

    • @mariagomez6506
      @mariagomez6506 Před 3 lety +28

      exactly! specially because if no one is trying to acknowledge or understand it, how on earth is she going to trust that it's going to change?

    • @jgp11.11
      @jgp11.11 Před 3 lety +13

      YESSS OMG PREACH being gaslight makes you hold on to the anger & pain for so much longer because there’s not much closure

    • @bethann8737
      @bethann8737 Před 3 lety +3

      YES YES YES YES, AMAZING WORDS

  • @RoxyReyes
    @RoxyReyes Před 3 lety +958

    Ugh well there goes me thinking Moses was a good guy. The comment he made about her vag is terrible and extremely hurtful to a woman. Sending a hug ur way Trish.

    • @UrbanDecayLova247
      @UrbanDecayLova247 Před 3 lety +58

      @Sarah Plummer agreed! This episode definitely has changed my opinion of Moses. Him dm-ing other girls while they’re on a “break” is one thing, but the comments he made about her when he didn’t think she would see it were really harsh. At this point I feel like those comments are truly how he feels about her, or at the very least felt about her. But to spend all that time with her in the beginning to come out of it saying those hurtful things just makes him seem really manipulative.

    • @sofkmilh
      @sofkmilh Před 3 lety +18

      @Sarah Plummer exactly... they tried to make it look better by saying he doesnt really think that and that he was hurt. But that's so childish like he was upset and started shit talking her about private embarradsing shit to a stranger???? thats a grown adult and that actitud is extremely inmature and unatractive

    • @battyboo3732
      @battyboo3732 Před 3 lety +1

      Where did he say something rude about her? I’m having trouble watching this episode because it’s so gross lol

    • @jinseihoshi9360
      @jinseihoshi9360 Před 3 lety

      @@battyboo3732 around the 50 min mark

    • @lizcatherine9795
      @lizcatherine9795 Před 3 lety +1

      Im trying to watch this but was so confused at first about everyone commenting about Moses being bad to Trisha ...

  • @cyo7576
    @cyo7576 Před rokem +106

    5:25 As someone who's struggled with anorexia and body dysmorphia for over 7 years (currently recovering and regaining weight) bro I actually laughed my ass off at Ethan "trigger warning to anorexic people we're going to be eating a mukbang today" 😂

    • @devlynnred2003
      @devlynnred2003 Před rokem +5

      did u watch mukbangs while struggling with it too bc thats what im doing rn 😭

    • @bapiivxx8868
      @bapiivxx8868 Před rokem

      ​@mothmans left wing ok like it does help though it's fun

    • @cyo7576
      @cyo7576 Před rokem +2

      @@devlynnred2003 I don't like mukbangs because I'm neurodivergent and the smacking drives me nuts but I did/do watch vlogs where they go to restraunts or food trucks and show us their food or take a couple bites to "rate" it or even eat it as long as it was quiet! It helped me get an appetite looking at delicious foods and watching them eat would for some reason make me want to eat too! Now that I get apetites more (which I've improved greatly since I first made this comment) watching any video while eating helps me even if it's not food related because I don't focus on the food too much, I don't overthink, and it's comforting especially because I don't feel the pressure I feel when eating with real people!

  • @rayzenv
    @rayzenv Před 3 lety +881

    hila’a advice was probably the worst i’ve ever heard

    • @yacobeinauan9533
      @yacobeinauan9533 Před 8 měsíci +6

      Congratulations, not everyone knows the answer to all your problems

    • @neat24
      @neat24 Před 6 měsíci +38

      hila is such an L sometimes

    • @caseysimmons5255
      @caseysimmons5255 Před 5 měsíci +26

      @@neat24majority of the time. Dont understand the hype

    • @thisismerying111
      @thisismerying111 Před 3 měsíci +27

      @@neat24I love Hila. Just bc she doesn’t know the answer to every question doesn’t make her an L. It makes her human.

    • @peac3nluv
      @peac3nluv Před 3 měsíci +5

      was this about her saying “u shouldn’t hear the stuff said about u behind ur back” ?? she’s so right about that. its not meant for you to hear and that’s okay!

  • @isabellan743
    @isabellan743 Před 3 lety +506

    I don’t like the way Hila was justifying Moses nasty actions.

    • @gulerrmodike
      @gulerrmodike Před 3 lety +55

      Honestly makes me see hilla in a different light...and it's coming from another woman, doesn't she have empathy for trish..geez

    • @sativadva
      @sativadva Před 3 lety +35

      I think the combination of them being family on top of her preconceived notions about Trisha clouded Hila's judgement here. Those DMs sounded SO NASTY and so so hurtful, how could she expect Trisha to just get over something that damaging and degrading?

    • @strawberries6485
      @strawberries6485 Před 3 lety +1

      @@gulerrmodike it’s cus there family

    • @katherines6322
      @katherines6322 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Ena48145 oh Jesus christ. Even "sweet/chill girls" make mistakes and sometimes have blind spots in regards to their own family. How DARE the sweet/chill woman make a mistake and not remain perfectly sweet and chill for 100% of her life! People make mistakes dude.

    • @sleepywitchcrafts
      @sleepywitchcrafts Před 3 lety +3

      @@sativadva It is weird seeing Hila say that even though last podcast she was saying how she HATES creeps, especially creepy men and Moses has that written all over himself and in those DMs. Like you said, family can forgive family for some crazy shit.

  • @mariarudina1224
    @mariarudina1224 Před 3 lety +1294

    So, humiliation is called trolling now? Gaslighting Trisha while pretending to be enlightened

  • @saal0
    @saal0 Před 3 měsíci +18

    part of me has never left this era

  • @aeoncountsatoms
    @aeoncountsatoms Před 3 lety +171

    why is everyone gaslighting trish, moses needs to take accountability for his actions they keep telling her to get over it when they know her background, she has every right to be upset

  • @gemmamoody7823
    @gemmamoody7823 Před 3 lety +985

    I feel so sorry for Trisha in this, the stuff Moses said is horrible and a comment like that will obviously stick in her mind it would for anyone. Moses also seems very defensive he needs to apologise sincerely.

    • @smac5869
      @smac5869 Před 3 lety +27

      He will never apologize, I knew a guy like him once and he was all about himself.

    • @lemonstealer2902
      @lemonstealer2902 Před 3 lety +5

      @@smac5869 He's so fucking weird I dunno

    • @BubbaPlayzAll
      @BubbaPlayzAll Před 3 lety +1

      When did he say something

    • @smac5869
      @smac5869 Před 3 lety +2

      New account Who’s bish just like your attracted to comments here.

    • @smac5869
      @smac5869 Před 3 lety +2

      New account Who’s bish yours and your name is lacking,

  • @Threecharacterslong
    @Threecharacterslong Před 3 lety +387

    I normally side with Hila but her saying "sometimes people say things behind your back because they dont intend for you to hear it" was so wrong. Also Moses excuse of "I have no idea why my Hinge profile is active" doesnt hold up at all

    • @heatherfoster2752
      @heatherfoster2752 Před 3 lety +59

      Yeah the fact that hes been catfished 3 times since theyve started dating, has an apparently active hinge profile and then locked her out of his IG account doesn't really bode well. They act like Trisha is crazy for being upset. I expected more from Hila's female perspective. It's reasonable to be uncomfortable sleeping with someone who body shamed you

    • @Threecharacterslong
      @Threecharacterslong Před 3 lety +21

      @@heatherfoster2752 could not have said it better myself.
      If my bf said about me what Moses said about Trish (to another girl!!!) I would not sleep with him again. And then he tried to say he was trolling because he was hurt... I would understand that if they were both 15 but that is so unacceptable from an adult who plans to buy a house with her and even has the nerve to try to knock her up after this.
      They're framing it like Trish is immature and unreasonable, when infact Moses' behaviour is even beyond that.
      I really hoped this was gonna work out, too.

    • @deadlyvixen
      @deadlyvixen Před 3 lety +6

      @@Threecharacterslong That's why the dude is in his 40's and not married. And i've said this before, " no dude that respects himself would be with someone like Trisha." And now that those DM's have come out we can see that both people are toxic and can't be in a healthy relationship.

    • @Threecharacterslong
      @Threecharacterslong Před 3 lety +5

      @@deadlyvixen yeah I can see what you mean. I always thought there was something off about Moses with his willingness to date her despite everything she said about his family. Its a shame though because shes clearly trying to get better and she looks to be making progress. I think Trish is learning to respect herself but Moses wont catch up. Its going to be a painful learning lesson.

    • @adrianaraww637
      @adrianaraww637 Před 3 lety +1

      Yeah I can’t believe she said that

  • @OneJoyfulNoise
    @OneJoyfulNoise Před 2 lety +164

    Just here to relive frenemies 😭 before it all turned sour.

  • @jessdanvers7263
    @jessdanvers7263 Před 2 lety +91

    I’m wondering if Moses was a huge factor in things falling apart. He seems to be ok with saying things behind her back and spreading misinformation and bad mouthing his family to Trish.

    • @bookwrmxoxo5105
      @bookwrmxoxo5105 Před 10 měsíci +7

      Oh most def. I think he “weaponized” Trisha against them

  • @finskou
    @finskou Před 3 lety +438

    Moses is COMPLETELY in the wrong. I feel for Trish, man.. Hila, for once, I'm mad at you for what you said. Seriously.

    • @dannydvp303
      @dannydvp303 Před 3 lety +60

      Hila was a snake for what she said I was not expecting that 😳

    • @smac5869
      @smac5869 Před 3 lety +7

      What did hila say about her? I missed that part, also why do they keep backbiting and saying you were not supposed to hear that tho? If you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything at all.

    • @laurenreynolds9755
      @laurenreynolds9755 Před 3 lety +4

      For real for real. They’re actual assholes for that.

    • @rashamohammad3009
      @rashamohammad3009 Před 3 lety +8

      I think what Hila meant was sometimes you bitch about someone when you're mad but you don't mean what you say. The last thing you'd want is for them to hear it cause you don't actually mean it and you can move on but they won't be able to 🤔

    • @jesslynn3002
      @jesslynn3002 Před 3 lety +17

      Hila was WAY in the wrong.

  • @sigridl7247
    @sigridl7247 Před 3 lety +678

    The LEAST Moses could do is apologize like wtf. Of course Trisha is going to have a hard time letting it go when he is not even showing remorse

    • @strawberries6485
      @strawberries6485 Před 3 lety +6

      He did he said he apologized multiple times

    • @londonvon3795
      @londonvon3795 Před 3 lety +10

      @@strawberries6485 not good enough. HIs true feelings was revealed.

    • @strawberries6485
      @strawberries6485 Před 3 lety +1

      @@londonvon3795 i dont think that was his true feelings he probably just said a buch of stuff he didnt mean because he was hurt people make mistakes they should go to couples therapy and try and get over it and if they cant then they should take a break

    • @johno5757
      @johno5757 Před 3 lety +4

      @@londonvon3795 Not good enough? His argument is that it's something they need to get past, what is he supposed to do if he's apologized multiple times. So many women in these comments projecting. He was in the wrong for sure, but either move on or break up. Ppl do stupid shit when they're angry/hurt in relationships

    • @londonvon3795
      @londonvon3795 Před 3 lety +7

      @@johno5757 It's such a cruel thing to say He's 40 something years old for gawd sakes. I expect that from a kid but not a man. What kind of grown, mature man will ever say something so disgusting. Why would you even disclose your private business with a catfish knowing, possibly, you're gonna get exposed? What an idiot.It's covid and times are tough. I think he's only in it for the free food, and luxary gifts. He prob stalked her past youtbe video and saw how much shit jason got from trisha. Trisha bought moses a ton of gifts for christmas A new phone, laptop with custom phone case, among other perks that comes with dating her.

  • @anneallison645
    @anneallison645 Před rokem +35

    Moses creeps me out honestly I feel like he has a secret

  • @edinahasic4824
    @edinahasic4824 Před 3 lety +54

    Forgetting and forgiving are two different things. I completely understand that she forgives him, but her not being able to forget is also understandable, because it impacted her sexual relationship with him at that point.

  • @joanserumola6070
    @joanserumola6070 Před 3 lety +615

    Trisha you really do deserve an apology on this one.. He doesn't have your back if he can easily just bash you to a stranger..dont forgive him for that..

    • @azab6539
      @azab6539 Před 3 lety +18

      If I was talking to a man and he started to bash his exes genitals I would nope out of that budding relationship so fast. If he'll do it to her, he'll do it to you. Plus, who even wants to hear about someone's ex? TF? Answers to questions I never asked, buddy... He clearly has more growing up to do than they've ever let on. "it was because my feelings were hurt" "it was just retaliation"... That makes it WORSE! WTF? Trisha is RIGHT to feel hurt by that.

    • @coleclark7195
      @coleclark7195 Před 3 lety

      I agree. It made me sad when Moses started telling her he wants her get her pregnant because he knows that’s what she wants to hear

  • @adaezec8301
    @adaezec8301 Před 3 lety +2230

    Trisha: “No you can’t throw it in my mouth I’m not a dog!”
    Also Trisha: 👁👅👁

  • @user-ct6hr5nu1q
    @user-ct6hr5nu1q Před 3 lety +159

    How would Ethan know that Moses isn’t a cheater? He keeps saying that but I don’t think you can really know what someone will do in the future

    • @aubreyglenn5340
      @aubreyglenn5340 Před 3 lety +11

      Right, and not even just in the future, for all we know he could have cheated on a partner before, not everyone “seems” like a cheater, and I feel like it’s harmful for him to keep saying stuff like that and acting like moses is perfect because what if he did end up cheating?

  • @novakish1516
    @novakish1516 Před 29 dny +6

    I’m here 3.5 years after this episode aired and… I still would buy a Frenemies hoodie today 😢

  • @kaitlinkidd08
    @kaitlinkidd08 Před 3 lety +1965

    Trish’s energy was sooo much better this episode, her and Ethan were really vibin in this one. Love to see it!

    • @kylieb6346
      @kylieb6346 Před 3 lety +39

      I thought she seemed very low, kindof like how I act when I’m sad/depressed/anxious. Just not AS vibrant as she usually is

    • @Katherine_xs
      @Katherine_xs Před 3 lety +9

      We know she likes Food

    • @donavonjohnson10
      @donavonjohnson10 Před 3 lety +3

      Yea I really felt that- I really wanna see this work out....

    • @mynamedoesntmatterr
      @mynamedoesntmatterr Před 3 lety +2

      I thought their energy wasn’t that great this episode

    • @chronicallygilliann
      @chronicallygilliann Před 3 lety +3

      Think she needed the week off to reflect on how much she does actually like doing the show.

  • @olilpop1464
    @olilpop1464 Před 3 lety +470

    Trisha’s feelings about what Moses has said about her behind her back are COMPLETELY VALIDDD. She’s not simply clinging onto the past just to cause conflict, she was hurt by what he said and him being single doesn’t make it right. Moses can’t just expect her to let it go. Sure Moses was hurt but those statements don’t just happen without some truth. He needs to be upfront about all that he’s said behind her back and apologize. They’re a good couple but Moses, please consider her feelings and just be honest.

    • @cloverneko
      @cloverneko Před 3 lety +7

      @Rick Don I can see both sides and I think all around they have a lot of issues, and have both exhibited toxic behavior, i don't think ones necessarily the "bad guy" with one being the "good one" like the internet often has to make things out to be. It's not black and white (and saying this I don't mean to try and soften either issue being discussed, like i'm not trying to say it's okay )

    • @shabbbsy
      @shabbbsy Před 3 lety +4

      @@cloverneko This ^^^ I think there are many unhealthy actions that each person is taking: Trisha's accusations and Moses' venting to random strangers are both really awful ways to release the pent up frustrations in the relationship. It fucked.

  • @annbunch6250
    @annbunch6250 Před 2 lety +70

    Trisha eating actual fabric is everything 😂😂

  • @iwilitu6591
    @iwilitu6591 Před 3 lety +41

    im catching up and I'm shocked how they gaslighted Trish and just congratulated Moses, like wtf???

  • @Maria-gn8db
    @Maria-gn8db Před 3 lety +490

    Hila justified her brother’s words by saying that ”they weren't meant for you to see”. I get that she is protecting her brother, but I also understand why Trisha is hurt by it. I wouldn't like it if my significant other started talking shit about me behind my back.

    • @marart780
      @marart780 Před 3 lety +6

      Moses didn’t public shame her, Trisha is notorious for public shaming her significant others. By even talking about his private DMs in public is an act of betrayal

    • @kaitlynanita448
      @kaitlynanita448 Před 3 lety +11

      I’d be worried about what Hila says when she’s not around, seems like Hila can’t say some things to her face 😉

    • @rebeccashare3745
      @rebeccashare3745 Před 3 lety +1

      It was disturbing

    • @transdermalcelebration
      @transdermalcelebration Před 3 lety +4

      Hila said that because they were private DMs that were sent before they were officially dating. I do think what Moses said was really fucked up, but I don’t think it would be honest to say that he was Trisha’s “significant other” at the time. They specifically stated in the podcast that they were not together when the messages were sent.
      Trisha deserves someone that respects the mental health conditions she has to live with. Moses seems to have a hard time grasping the differences between the two of them. Moses and Hila are very “chill” people, and I can understand why they don’t grasp the way that Trisha’s thought processes work. Not everyone is perfect.

    • @veronicacorningstone3888
      @veronicacorningstone3888 Před 3 lety

      They weren’t dating at the time. It wasn’t her significant other

  • @georgiaday5084
    @georgiaday5084 Před 3 lety +531

    I actually felt really bad for Trisha when she was talking about the things Moses said about her. That was terrible and he doesn't even seem to feel bad very about it. This is a new side of both of them.

    • @culturehub2628
      @culturehub2628 Před 3 lety +5

      @Marina Prp so u know about the one dude who is never on camera now?

    • @IrenaLemo
      @IrenaLemo Před 3 lety +1

      @Dcvbkyrsscbgdsxcgf exactly

    • @Nathan-dt2tu
      @Nathan-dt2tu Před 3 lety

      I won't pick a side, but you are. The relationship is toxic, not one side. He puts her down, she accuses him of statutory rape. It's definitely not a one-side issue. They're clearly terrible for each other and need to break up.

    • @IrenaLemo
      @IrenaLemo Před 3 lety

      @@Nathan-dt2tu yes, or get a couples therapist

    • @9cloudrachel207
      @9cloudrachel207 Před 3 lety

      honestyly its so clear to me she has intense ass BPD, so do I so like, lol i really see my feelings reflected in her. honestly her feelings about it have to be so complex and confusing. just the biggest weight of a feeling it seems the way she talks about it

  • @itzangelica9755
    @itzangelica9755 Před 3 lety +34

    Girlll leave him no man should talk to a woman like that whether it's to her face or behind your back.. you deserve better.

  • @mady9086
    @mady9086 Před 2 lety +57

    This whole episode predicts the future trish brings up money, their own employees, trish asked for a pink and black teddy fresh hoodie, and Ethan jokes about making the hoodie then the show getting canceled AND TRISH STILL WEARING THE HOODIES EVEN IF THEY HATED ETHAN!!!!!!!!!!

  • @mollycurren4462
    @mollycurren4462 Před 3 lety +397

    why is moses lowkey acting so suspicious in this

  • @lotothetra
    @lotothetra Před 3 lety +362

    TRISHA HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOU RUN GIRL
    and the way everyone else was backing up moses.....yikes

    • @exenevandenberg3423
      @exenevandenberg3423 Před 3 lety +5

      she is too powerful for men

    • @ergot1803
      @ergot1803 Před 3 lety +3

      @@exenevandenberg3423 Almost seems like the opposite is true

    • @Hina-fo1tk
      @Hina-fo1tk Před 3 lety

      Did you forget about the fact that she physically abused him? Lmao if anything he should away,

  • @SlapSister
    @SlapSister Před rokem +33

    2 years later I am CACKLING at Ethans face when he shoves the banana down his throat lmfaooo wtf was that 😭😭😭🤣🤣

    • @whitneybobitney
      @whitneybobitney Před rokem

      Why have the tok tok gym bros not gotten ahold of this 😂😂💀

    • @AE-ck5xu
      @AE-ck5xu Před 7 měsíci

      The way he looks so proud after too lmao 😂

  • @brz977
    @brz977 Před 8 měsíci +27

    The cheese is a metaphor for this show

  • @alicimom
    @alicimom Před 3 lety +621

    People are so quick to hate on trisha, even when she's being fully valid

  • @hammiegrace
    @hammiegrace Před 3 lety +3278

    PLEASE DON’T CANCEL THIS, it’s the only podcast i’ve ever been able to sit through and enjoy

    • @alsmyth5251
      @alsmyth5251 Před 3 lety +77

      I agree I look forward every week!

    • @alexispascal9245
      @alexispascal9245 Před 3 lety +41

      Big same I got the notification at work and was so excited to watch right now finally!

    • @anna-uj5wh
      @anna-uj5wh Před 3 lety +39

      Everytime they upload its like I found a piece of candy

    • @estebanmartinez6553
      @estebanmartinez6553 Před 3 lety +15

      Honestly same here I don’t podcasts and this ones I can sit and watch it all

    • @IsabellaAdina
      @IsabellaAdina Před 3 lety +10

      literally same!! i live for this duo

  • @cooks3471
    @cooks3471 Před 2 lety +42

    The way Ethan shoved that banana down his throat, killed me 💀💀💀 he looked so panicked

  • @graciavoth8323
    @graciavoth8323 Před 3 lety +46

    i totally understand why trish is so upset. my boyfriend said that same thing about me out of anger and it has stuck with me ever since. it makes me insecure all together and it really sucks. you CAN forgive but you most definitely CANT forget

    • @emilymaybe5405
      @emilymaybe5405 Před 3 lety +9

      i get it, my ex made shitty “observations” abt my body then told everyone i was frigid. his comments have stayed w me for the past four years. i could never be with someone who made me feel anything less than beautiful now

    • @yungaccent7917
      @yungaccent7917 Před 2 lety

      Nah he was probably telling the truth

    • @8CheerleadingGirl8
      @8CheerleadingGirl8 Před rokem +1

      @@emilymaybe5405 what does frigid mean

  • @Faewwy
    @Faewwy Před 3 lety +620

    Moses is in the wrong, ethan and hila please realize that. She didn’t deserve to be gaslighted and have her feelings belittled. You shouldn’t just give moses the “pass” because he’s family. Please apologize to Trisha.

    • @nikki1932
      @nikki1932 Před 3 lety +5

      How did they gaslight her

    • @emoswiftie7730
      @emoswiftie7730 Před 3 lety +16

      @@nikki1932 they literally invalidated her feelings to the point where she felt the need to say it was HER fault and that it was on her. thats gaslighting. doesn’t take a rocket scientist to realize that

    • @morgan4094
      @morgan4094 Před 3 lety +5

      @@nikki1932 they don’t recognize her feelings they deny them and tell her what she’s feeling is wrong. Moses was 100 percent in the wrong but since they’re family they’re gonna be on his side

    • @emoswiftie7730
      @emoswiftie7730 Před 3 lety +1

      @@tokenofdevotion i’m not talking about people who trisha has had beef with, i’m talking about her significant other talking shit about her behind her back and having his sister justify it by saying “you weren’t meant to see it”. yes everyone has talked shit behind someone’s back, but it’s different when it’s your fucking boyfriend. like what? please explain to me how thats okay, and on top of that having his whole family undermine her feelings and making her blame herself for HIS actions

  • @squid8520
    @squid8520 Před 3 lety +597

    "Milk is from a cow"
    "Okay so tell me why you said that"

    • @anisa7406
      @anisa7406 Před 3 lety +10

      I c o n i c

    • @parvdbroek
      @parvdbroek Před 3 lety +15

      He has learned how to extract stupid comments without her noticing he’s trying to make fun of her

    • @Anna13Tonks
      @Anna13Tonks Před 3 lety +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @TheOther-Dude
      @TheOther-Dude Před 3 lety +1

      @@parvdbroek bruh she literally said that out of nowhere! And then went on to say milk is piss, like from a zit. WHAT!?

    • @ShaePhantom
      @ShaePhantom Před 3 lety +5

      @@parvdbroek I don't think he's necessarily trying to make fun of her, he might be trying to figure out how her brain works by asking questions instead of just calling her crazy or stupid lol Plus it's obvious their dynamic is impeccable content

  • @kaileyhartman4152
    @kaileyhartman4152 Před měsícem +8

    this is my roman empire

  • @natashacondi9139
    @natashacondi9139 Před 2 lety +31

    I think moses is being so manipulative here and i know hila is just trying to defend her brother, but that line of logic that "oh you weren't supposed to see that so you shouldn't be hurt by it," or "if you love someone you should forgive them" is so toxic and manipulative and i think it only further proves the things moses' exes have said about him being a really mean person who purposefully manipulates and hurts the women he dates. Not sure if I've commented this on any of these videos yet but i also think, rewatching all these old frenemies, its so clear to me that a lot of the mean things trisha has been saying about ethan's family and moses and hila's family is clearly coming from moses. i think he talks a lot of shit about both sides of his family to trisha in private and it puts these thoughts in her head that his family is judgmental or that ethan is "money-hungry" and i think trisha took the brunt of the blame for saying these things when in reality, it seems to me, that she was simply relaying information moses told her. i think not only has moses been talking to other girls behind trisha's back while they were dating, but he manipulates her into believing its not a problem. I also believe he's manipulated her into believing bad things about ethan and hila and was the ultimate wedge in their relationship. Which is so sad cause ethan was such a caring, positive force in trisha's life. Moses is the cause of the end of frenemies in my opinion.

    • @elaine1413
      @elaine1413 Před 2 lety +5

      You may be on to something. Can you imagine someone telling you that you shouldn't be upset bc you weren't supposed to read something and it was horrible - about you? That's giving the thumbs up to deception and suppression of trauma. I think it may have come out wrong by Hila- I hope...

  • @raibug3180
    @raibug3180 Před 3 lety +405

    trisha dressed as a murder of crows to rub her knowledge in ethan's face

  • @mattmandg6524
    @mattmandg6524 Před 3 lety +3488

    This is definitely not the worst episode, it's a complete fucking mess and it's beautiful

    • @evastood4539
      @evastood4539 Před 3 lety +1

      Matt Groth 12:37😅

    • @bleepbloop2882
      @bleepbloop2882 Před 3 lety +13

      That’s what I’m here for. Love the chaotic atmosphere 😂❤️

    • @celedhion
      @celedhion Před 3 lety +22

      I wish Ethan would stop saying the episodes are bad. He does that every time. Love this podcast and its chaos.

    • @gublagubgalub8092
      @gublagubgalub8092 Před 3 lety +10

      And the disgusting mess of a cheese fountain as a beautiful centerpiece to match the energy

    • @yourloveriswild7533
      @yourloveriswild7533 Před 3 lety +1

      Agreed!!! A beautiful mess!!!

  • @user-uk5jl6vt9n
    @user-uk5jl6vt9n Před 3 lety +36

    yeahh trisha was definitely in the right here more than anyone else. if i was seriously dating someone and found out that they'd said horrible things about me like that when we were just hooking up to complete strangers, it would make me rethink everything about who i thought they were. that's not something you can just forget & ignore

  • @anneallison645
    @anneallison645 Před rokem +19

    I feel so bad for trisha in this, her explanation makes so much sense how do ethan and hila not understand how much that could hurt someone’s feelings

  • @jfboulianne5926
    @jfboulianne5926 Před 3 lety +2515

    Trisha is actually growing on me. It seems like she’s battling those “demons”.

    • @mindywhitmore5675
      @mindywhitmore5675 Před 3 lety +53

      This is my favorite episode by far hands down lol

    • @Wooplot
      @Wooplot Před 3 lety +2

      I now love Trish.

    • @Dujfjfo
      @Dujfjfo Před 3 lety +6

      For now yeah.... Let's see what next week brings

    • @haxan2565
      @haxan2565 Před 3 lety +10

      @Marina Prp uh?

    • @marshmallow4646
      @marshmallow4646 Před 3 lety +3

      @Marina Prp wait what'd he do???

  • @eyaknowit2149
    @eyaknowit2149 Před 3 lety +188

    Hila basically told Trisha "he can say anything about you behind your back and you can't care about it". Moses is doing a ton of gaslighting here. Forgiving does not equal forgetting. He's not validating of her feelings whatsoever. Lots of people have issues moving on from something, but healthy people acknowledge that in their partner and allow them to have those feelings, not hold it against them.

    • @smac5869
      @smac5869 Před 3 lety +2

      KoiFlow I’m sure he was hitting her, it takes two to tango, you cannot just get in a fist fight with one person, that doesn’t even make sense.

    • @herenkim
      @herenkim Před 3 lety +2

      @@smac5869 wtf are you saying. ofc one person can get hit and the other doesn’t. if he hit her i’m sure it would’ve come out when she hit him

    • @herenkim
      @herenkim Před 3 lety +1

      That’s not what Hila said. Hila’s point was that because of the fact that you don’t think the other person will see it, people say shit they don’t mean. If he really meant it and wanted to hurt her he would’ve just said it to her face. I’m sure everyone has said stuff that they felt in the moment and regretted later

    • @smac5869
      @smac5869 Před 3 lety

      Helen Kim ya exactly, everyone makes mistakes, and if he says he loves her then they should just put the mistakes behind them and just work in being more loving instead of fault finding, I hope he apologizes for what he said and then it is easier to forgive and forget.

    • @herenkim
      @herenkim Před 3 lety

      @bla bla No, I think he’s obviously in the wrong and Trisha should care about what he says. But that wasn’t Hilas point.

  • @ela1952
    @ela1952 Před 3 lety +27

    Shes not trying to self sabotage, that really hurt her because she thought she could trust this one person not to say anything behind her back like others do. She is very upset about it and him “saying everything positive for 3 months” means absolutely nothing. She can’t trust him cus of how much it hurt.

  • @simranpanesar9097
    @simranpanesar9097 Před 3 lety +23

    @55:45 - Ethan predicted what was going to happen with the frenemies hoodies

  • @chardem.5743
    @chardem.5743 Před 3 lety +538

    “I deleted my hinge account But for some reason it still showed it” 🙄🥴🥴🥴🥴🙃weak. And trish he’s doin you dirty trust your gut

  • @egirl976
    @egirl976 Před 3 lety +575

    I totally get what Trisha is saying here. It’s not that she doesn’t forgive him for saying hurtful things, or at least she’s TRYING to forgive and forget, it’s that his words made her feel bad about herself and made her feel insecure in certain ways. For instance, maybe before she wasn’t worried about stinking but now she is. It’s not that she doesn’t forgive him, it’s that she feels like he wouldn’t have said that if there wasn’t some element of truth, so it kinda lives in your head rent free making you feel insecure. If I had found out my husband told someone that he thought I was fat even before we were together, the thought might flash in my head when we’re intimate “oh, I probably look so fat, he probably thinks I’m so gross right now.” It’s not purposeful, it just happens. When someone says something like that it’s not easily forgotten no matter how hard you try.

    • @beckthter
      @beckthter Před 3 lety +11

      Yeah I agree. I hope they sort it out. Even if they are a total mess lol

    • @purple54997
      @purple54997 Před 3 lety +36

      It's not even just that. It's dming other girls and insulting you behind your back. it's weird...

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz Před 3 lety +29

      moses is a cheater and trisha needs to break it off. I get evil vibes from him. so calculating and manipulative. its like he's dating her just to date her and not because he likes her

    • @ErikGiovani
      @ErikGiovani Před 3 lety +1

      Well put

    • @shabbbsy
      @shabbbsy Před 3 lety +9

      @@pinkpugginz Really? From what it seems like, both sides are have kinda toxic traits. The way trisha describes the way she treats Moses during fights, with the violence, is kinda despicable. Don't forget the borderline criminal accusations of paedophillia that she's thrown at him. I think Moses venting through strangers on the internet is also incredibly toxic, don't get me wrong. I feel like this is either an all or nothing relationship - they'll spend the rest of their life together, or they'll fight themselves into the corner of a habitual relationship before messily breaking up.

  • @sacreddatura1399
    @sacreddatura1399 Před 3 lety +32

    If a man made a comment like that about me I would never have sex again. They’re acting like Trisha is so crazy for being upset and hurt about it but even if it was just to “get back at her” that’s still crossing a line. That type of comment has so much weight that even a person without borderline personality disorder would hold onto it for a really really long time. I can’t even imagine how she must feel with all the other issues she has. Kinda fucked up that they dismissed her so much :/

  • @leonelalvarado7200
    @leonelalvarado7200 Před 2 lety +30

    This show had become my security blanket, it pains me that it’s over. These two are pure combusting chemistry.

  • @wassupjg
    @wassupjg Před 3 lety +1347

    Hila's logic is a bit shady, Trisha's right, it hurts more if it's said behind your back than to your face.

    • @londonvon3795
      @londonvon3795 Před 3 lety +49

      she's protecting her bro

    • @lindsaybayless1861
      @lindsaybayless1861 Před 3 lety +3

      I agree

    • @UrbanDecayLova247
      @UrbanDecayLova247 Před 3 lety +107

      I think Hilda just isn’t open to the fact that her brother is shady.

    • @agapsmiku
      @agapsmiku Před 3 lety +9

      mmm, i think it's a bit more nuianced. believe me, i'm all about honesty. i try to be honest with myself, others, and i want people to be honest with me. but it's also good ty try and understand other perspectives and other truths. hila didn't say lying or hiding things is right, but she just pointed out that privacy is a thing. of course moses and trish can both do better behaviour wise, but to me the point was more that if moses -did- say something hurtful behind her back, but then things changed and his own opinion changed and now he is treating her well...that's an improvement. trish's whole argument is more what i believe, that at least you should say it to their face. but people work differently and i think it's important to communicate those differences and actually listen. i hope both moses and trish listened to ethan and hila just because of the conversation, just so they could get other viewpoints. just my 2 cents

    • @333kireinahime
      @333kireinahime Před 3 lety +61

      Shes defending her shady ass brother. If someone does something mean to you dont listen to their families opinions about it. I've seen abusive mens moms defend their sons for being abusive

  • @stefan6688
    @stefan6688 Před 3 lety +1628

    It's heartbreaking how excited Trisha was when Hila tried to intervene because she thought she will validate her emotions.

    • @neutraloatmilkhotel
      @neutraloatmilkhotel Před 3 lety +454

      That part made me extremely uncomfortable. I’m so disappointed in Hila, I thought she would do the right thing. 💔

    • @aat501
      @aat501 Před 3 lety +399

      Also really disappointed in hila. Nothing worse than a female who already knows the struggle of being invalidated go on to invalidate another female! She should know better!

    • @Jcqlnddrr
      @Jcqlnddrr Před 3 lety +154

      Ikr, I was excited too and then she made that dumb comment.

    • @stellabella3337
      @stellabella3337 Před 3 lety +164

      She expected girls to support her, it's heartbreaking that hila sided with him

    • @gulerrmodike
      @gulerrmodike Před 3 lety +179

      I could see the disappointment in her face, especially after she's telling everyone to be quiet and wanna hear hilla's opinion.
      I get that it's her brother, but she doesn't even trying to be neutral and completely blame trish for finding out that moses talk shit behind her back.
      Girl...imagine if ethan did the same thing and talk about your pussy to instagram model in DM.

  • @Alexis-ix4ll
    @Alexis-ix4ll Před 8 měsíci +10

    Trisha: "You don't even know what climate change is because you didn't explain it to me"
    Ethan starts explaining climate change
    Trisha: "oh my god, nobody wants to hear about this"
    11:22

  • @8CheerleadingGirl8
    @8CheerleadingGirl8 Před rokem +23

    hilas advice was sooo bad 😂

  • @ralexandra1058
    @ralexandra1058 Před 3 lety +1388

    The most disgusting part of this episode is the gaslighting when Trisha brought up the issues in their relationship. The team dismissing Moses’ sketchy behavior is beyond concerning... he needs to own up to his actions, instead of trying to put it back on Trisha. Trisha’s feelings are valid, and you guys ought to apologize for dismissing her so casually. Smh. Disappointed.

    • @nikkicontreras7378
      @nikkicontreras7378 Před 3 lety +17

      100% agree with this.

    • @xsoano8519
      @xsoano8519 Před 3 lety +9

      You need to know that Trisha is toxic too. Remember when she literally beat him up? This is NOT one sided.

    • @klutzii9137
      @klutzii9137 Před 3 lety +40

      ​@@xsoano8519 It definitely isn't one sided but we've already acknowledged that?? Just because op's comment was talking about Moses's actions doesn't mean they don't know what Trisha's done. There's nothing wrong with putting more of a spotlight on Moses's actions right now because it's already being overlooked! That's a problem.

    • @xsoano8519
      @xsoano8519 Před 3 lety +4

      @@klutzii9137 he said he wrote those messages when he was single? I don’t really understand the problem tbh.

    • @klutzii9137
      @klutzii9137 Před 3 lety +22

      ​@@xsoano8519 He was trash talking Trisha behind her back to a stranger?? It happened like 3 months ago and they were definitely together during that time, so... But even then like. Not even owning up to the fact that you did trash talk and instead treating it like it was a joke isn't great. Shit talking behind someone's back hurts, and Moses doesn't seem to fully acknowledge how hurtful it was to Trisha. That's not really a great foundation.

  • @menandwomenarefromearth
    @menandwomenarefromearth Před 3 lety +788

    It's wrong to ignore Trisha's issue. By the way, she is right and Hila's take is disturbing - saying something bad about someone behind their back is worse than saying it face-to-face. Moses cannot acknowledge that he knows Trisha is unstable, then enter into a relationship with her, then add to the instability, and wonder why things are bad. Moses is not the "Peace and Love" guy he pretends to be. It's very easy to be a 'Free-Spirit' when you don't care.

    • @Steve-lu1nc
      @Steve-lu1nc Před 3 lety +11

      Although yes I don't think anyone should ever talk shit behind someones back, it doesn't always mean they ment what they said. It's wrong, but people especially in relationships have bad moments and venting to someone else is one way (although wrong) happens. I think what Hila ment is that Moses doesn't actually think that, and that's why he would never say smth like that straight to Trisha. She's not lifting blame of of him but tells it so that Trisha don't feel as hurt.

    • @menandwomenarefromearth
      @menandwomenarefromearth Před 3 lety +5

      @@Steve-lu1nc I absolutely understand. The reason why Hila's take is disturbing to me is that she doesn't differentitate between "Trisha hurt me because she is insensitive" and "Trisha smells". The problem is with regard to the kind of "bad" thing mentioned. Moses acted like a 3-year-old.

    • @Steve-lu1nc
      @Steve-lu1nc Před 3 lety +3

      @@menandwomenarefromearth okay that I agree with hundred percent, don't really know why would anyone say smth like that. It's a hell of a lot different then venting about being annoyed with your partner

    • @mitza420
      @mitza420 Před 3 lety +2

      time stamp?

    • @menandwomenarefromearth
      @menandwomenarefromearth Před 3 lety

      @@mitza420 1:13:16

  • @bhi7326
    @bhi7326 Před 11 měsíci +15

    I’m doing a rewatch of this entire series bc it’s the last time I felt any joy and I’m so emotional watching this 2 years later 😢

    • @royal8133
      @royal8133 Před 10 měsíci +5

      Saaame, this is so nostalgic even though it was only 2 years ago, I feel like I was so happy then

  • @darkwebgirl
    @darkwebgirl Před 11 měsíci +14

    Watching years later and just researched and realized that 'Book of Jew' is indeed not a real thing, I'm fucking dead LMFAO