GASLIGHTING IN RELATIONSHIPS: 3 Signs You're Being Manipulated
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- čas přidán 3. 08. 2024
- GASLIGHTING IN RELATIONSHIPS: 3 Signs You're Being Manipulated // This is a video all about gaslighting, which (in my view), is the most insidious form of emotional abuse. Gaslighting is insidious because it's so covert, which allows it to permeate in relationships for so long. It may not be until you're neck deep into a relationship with a friend, partner, colleague, or boss that you realize that you're dealing with a pathological manipulator.
TIME STAMPS:
0:00 - Intro
1:02 - What is gaslighting?
1:30 - Sign #1
2:46 - Sign #2
4:13 - Sign #3
4:41 - Sign #4 (bonus)
6:47 - Closing thoughts
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Thanks for watching! Would you like to see more videos about this topic? (Or any other topic? LMK!)
Dude you hit the nail on the head with this sht right here, damn.
Thanks for this your examples were so relatable
I was high functioning depressed and then I met a man who gaslighted me and my mind snap. Lost my job, told me I was so sensitive and telling me I over react, modified stories he told to people around us while hearing how pure his intention and putting me on third party....it's been a year, i got worst and never went back. I declined med prescription from a psychiatrist.. microdosing is my only option.
Sending love to you. I know what that feels like. I was once in an abusive relationship too. He somehow made me believe that I couldn't find love from anyone else
Another great video with a ton of insights.
Thank you! Great to hear from you again. Hope youre doing well 🤗
@@JulianneKeu I am doing great, thanks for asking. After watching your microdose video, I gave it a try. Living with a brain injury can be intolerable sometimes, after finding the right dose of mushrooms, things have been working out extremely well.
@@InsightImagingPhoto That makes me so happy to hear. Honestly. I get pangs of anxiety sometimes about this channel (because if I can't make an income from it within a year, I'll have to go back to working a job)... it's feedback like yours that keep me going. I can't imagine what it's like to live with a brain injury. I hope you are extending to yourself the compassion you deserve
Great job showing where the term "gas lighting" came from. I had no idea it was from a movie.
There is also too much content with psychological manipulation techniques without the good ethics. On both sides as a man I've seen friends turn into narcissists through the P.U.A and women have magazines articles such as "how to keep a man hooked" etc. To be honest these techniques do work short term but gives them power which then corrupts them. Peoples core need for free will prevails in the end and the weak wizard of Oz reveals themselves.
Your videos are a great defense and refreshing to this weirdo narc culture.
They are appeals to the ego at the end of the day... Yeah I agree with you
i understand how without a context it is hard to recreate a convincing example of gaslighting but denying or blatantly lying is not gaslighting. i wish it was that. many people lie. we already are equiped to handle such a turn of events.
imagine i came to our date, with a hot chick that you dont know, holding hands, acting as if everything is fine, then after you freak out on us - for very obvious reasons - i look at you with disbelief and give you both of our identities proving that she is my twin sister and then I go on accusing you of how sick your mind can actually be and how jealous you are for confusing my twin sister for an attempt to make you jealous !! yes! that IS GASLIGHTING. its just difficult to put it in short sentences. but it usually starts with creating an unspoken premise that YOU WERE SURE you guys share and ends in proving you that you are the only one who doesnt share any common ground with the rest of the sane people. that whatever you thought the world was like, was always in your head.
its about subtlety, mind triggers, word plays, plausible deniability and an intention not to deceive or hide something but to shame and disorient the victim.
There are people who would rather lead you to believe a version of their truth than have to confront the POSSIBILITY that they may be wrong. These people are narcissists.
@@JulianneKeu what ive been through was way worse than defensive lying. consider yourself lucky if their insecurity is the only thing that you ve been through.
So many people I've come across are so manipulative, especially in the workplace. You are dead on about them being charming and know what to say but they then turn around and stab you in the back. Personally I've learned over the years to cut these people off and not think twice about them. I now make it a point to surround myself with genuine, sincere good hearted people.
I had dinner last night with a fellow entrepreneur and we were talking about the exact same thing. I'm 100% with you on just cutting these people off. Life is much too short to be subjected to people who try to take advantage of you.
Workplaces are full of people like that. Often in my experience it's people trying to move ahead in their careers by messing with other people.
Do magic mushrooms cure Narcisistic Personality Disorder? Or does micro dosing mitigate feelings of shame and humiliation?
I had a long term friend that I cut out of my life because that individual was a narcissistic gas lighter. It took me far longer than it should have to see it. I felt like an idiot for not seeing, but I never had experience dealing with someone like that before.
Ugh! That walking on eggshells feeling and wondering why? Have you heard of psychic vampires? Another emotional draining lot of people. It's difficult because I genuinely feel bad for people that are sick to the point where they are seemingly unaware of their emotionally abusive behavior.
Yes, energy vampires! Are you an HSP (highly sensitive person)? If so, people like us are simply wired to be more attuned to other people's emotional and physical states. It has something to do with our mirror neurons. Apparently "energy vampires" are lacking in mirror neurons. I've long pondered whether being highly sensitive was a curse or a blessing... Now I believe it to be a blessing and I have compassion for those who can't appreciate the depth of connectedness we human beings can share.
@@JulianneKeu my cousin suggested that I'm an empath (parallels hsp). I read up about mirror neurons; interesting! This is some psychedelic thinking: it seems that we have these mechanisms for survival of our species and being the curious humans that we are, we're compelled to investigate and test things with scientific method coming to a conclusion when we observe patterns in ourselves and other organisms... observable data that makes sense! So interesting that we can classify things in our behavior that seems so spiritually based. My mirror neurons must go into overdrive sometimes, even when it's someone or something that I'm not directly related to; from folks considered to be well put together to the person hanging outside the neighborhood 711 that could you a sandwich, banana, and someone to talk to. The desire to nurture has been there. Perhaps these are lessons ingrained in my from observing my father. Thanks for your video, from subscriber 301! Take care! 🙂👍
(Insert that song "I Feel the Pain" by Dinosaur Jr. here!)
@@thecuriousquest I think I've read somewhere that all empaths are HSP's but not all HSP's are empaths. One of the books I'm reading now is The Empath's Survival Guide by Judith Orloff... apparently there are different types of empaths. To be honest, I don't think "empath" is even a scientific term (but it's a super popular one nonetheless). Sensitivity does have a genetic component to it... my dad is sensitive too. One of the gifts of sensitivity is intuition! You'd be surprised what comes naturally to you that doesn't come naturally to others. Cheers!
@@JulianneKeu I'm going to make it a point to find that book and dig through it as soon as I can. Sometimes it's frustrating to some folks are so tuned out that they're almost not human. Wonder why that is? I would assume that being the social communal species that were are, you'd expect empathy to be a basic function. Perhaps it's stifled in some by their circumstances/ personal experience; I truly believe it can be turned on in anyone if the situation calls for it...(edit) and willingness to be receptive.
@@JulianneKeu and mentioned that title to my cousin. She got excited and said she read it twice! Going to download the audiobook and listen to it while painting as she suggested! :)
What's the best way to deal with a gaslighter in your life if you can't avoid them? Also, I would love a storytime video on this topic!
Once you identify a manipulative personality... “OBSERVE, DON’T ABSORB!”
gaslight them that its working..
I have found that certain cultures normalize gaslighting as a way of life.
Absolutely. Societal gaslighting is a whole other ball game... I bet we could find examples of it in our culture too
Typical oriental parents where whatever you do is not enough
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