I’ll Spare You the Details: Chapter 21 “A Cupful of Drama Keeps the Relationship Alive”

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 25. 08. 2024

Komentáře • 452

  • @NathanShearer
    @NathanShearer Před rokem +190

    I live in Toronto and I lived in Toronto when Meghan lived here. I can tell you that there aren't many paparazzi based here. We have a large film and television production industry in the city (hence why Meghan was living here) and we get many much, much more famous people living here for months at a time and they aren't swarmed by paparazzi because they just aren't here. Celebrities in Toronto are truly able to go about pretty normal lives while living here. For example, Rachel McAdams owns a house here and is known to take the streetcar and no one bothers her. The only time of year where there are some paparazzi in the city is about two weeks in September during the Toronto International Film Festival. Hordes of celebrities come up to premiere their films and paparazzi fly up as well. However, they are mostly found on red carpets and camped out in front of luxury hotels, so this idea of photographers chasing Meghan down Toronto highways is pretty ridiculous.

    • @AJA-ie5uu
      @AJA-ie5uu Před rokem

      Is it also because Canadians are a friendly bunch, but they’re not star struck fools who worship vacuous celebrity above all else?

    • @DebbiSmithDC
      @DebbiSmithDC Před rokem +25

      I love hearing from people like you who know what’s really going on!

    • @ScenicWanders
      @ScenicWanders Před rokem +28

      The fact is. There would be images. Swarms if images if it were true. Like there were images of the house on Vancouver island. And that Tyler Perry's house. But there just isn't much on her house in Toronto. from memory I've seen two images. One of her with flowers doing a pap walk down her street and another of just her house.. that I'm not sure were even taken at the time she lived there.

    • @pennylando3145
      @pennylando3145 Před rokem +25

      @@ScenicWanders Exactly - where are all these photos? I have seen precisely one of MM in the UK dressed as described in this video, carrying an *empty* shopping bag with a logo that, if memory serves, had some kind of eco message on it. She looks like any normal shopper and no other shopper appears to notice this hoard of paparazzi chasing her. One photo suggests that there was just one photographer, and my guess is that she called him herself. The shop she went to, and which she claims had magazines with her image plastered all over it doesn't actually sell magazines, and there is no way the shop manager/assistants would allow the behaviour described. That in and of itself is a story but, like the absence of photos, there was an absence of articles about it.

    • @ScenicWanders
      @ScenicWanders Před rokem +18

      @@pennylando3145 great points about that time as well. There are so many bogus stories that I find hard to believe harry has fallen for. The paps almost killing her in there cars whilst she was driving.. like come one that's just her retelling Diana's story. Like omg.. harry she's a stage five clinger!

  • @bitterbeauty6144
    @bitterbeauty6144 Před rokem +64

    She unbagged the groceries and cooked lunch before collapsing on the floor sobbing? Why didn’t the paparazzi sell the photos they took of her at the checkout line, running down the street, sobbing in front of the palace gates. A running and/or sobbing celebrity is like red meat to the tabloids. They pay a fortune for them.

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Před rokem +13

      Couldn’t agree more!!!

    • @BevHart
      @BevHart Před rokem +7

      More like the housekeeper unbagged the groceries and cooked lunch and dismissed before Harry got back.

  • @JenniferChiyo
    @JenniferChiyo Před rokem +189

    Can we start a running account of how many times Harry has found his wife sobbing on the floor? I don't know about anyone else, but I've been on the floor sobbing exactly 0 times in my adult life.
    Loving your review of the book!

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Před rokem +21

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @retrovinyl5392
      @retrovinyl5392 Před rokem +31

      I’m nearly 50, I think I was 6 the last time I was sobbing on the floor!

    • @spaceman9524
      @spaceman9524 Před rokem +29

      & it is covenant just when Harry walks in.
      She can obviously cue her tears.
      The obvious emotional manipulation of it all 😂

    • @retrovinyl5392
      @retrovinyl5392 Před rokem +25

      @@spaceman9524 I bet she was waiting by the window😂

    • @spaceman9524
      @spaceman9524 Před rokem +17

      @@retrovinyl5392 knowing Harry’s state of mind, if you say you love him, wouldn’t you want to spare him the extra burden!!
      Protection goes both ways!

  • @Savannah-ew9ou
    @Savannah-ew9ou Před rokem +136

    According to Harry, Meghan was a superstar, famous with years in the industry and grew up in Hollywood sets, yet she doesn't know how to handle the paparazzi and is crying about it every 5 minutes. Make it make sense.

    • @Anna_Key
      @Anna_Key Před rokem +11

      She was used to paid PR puff pieces and media sessions with only fans in the audience.
      Very different to what the Royal Family deal with.
      Soon after the Oprah debacle I googled her claim about negative press compared to Catherine's.
      There is a media monitor site that showed Mehgan's press before Harry was very high, all positive. Then after joining the RF, her press was MUCH less than she was used to, but more press than Catherine. They both had the same ratio of positive and negative.
      Definitely NOT more negative press than Catherine.
      Most press articles were neutral in tone.

    • @Schrody100
      @Schrody100 Před rokem +12

      🤣.... sobbing on the floor. Wonder if there was a scene in Suits where she had to do this, or maybe she was recollecting the BJ scene in 90210, using her fabulous acting skills to adapt to a floor situation. Only award winning actors can do that....

    • @rosiebottom3870
      @rosiebottom3870 Před rokem +11

      She was never famous enough to get into the tabloids before meeting H. H really wanted to believe she was A list.

    • @SRowan-fr1nl
      @SRowan-fr1nl Před rokem +8

      What an excellent point! Right on!! Kathleen MacPhee commented that Meghan was a smart girl and she could handle the media attention because she should understand that it comes with the life she was entering. Even though it’s been proven that it wasn’t as intense as any of the other royal women’s attention, Harry says that Meghan’s was different because of the racial element. It was ok , I guess, what happened to Diana, Catherine, and Queen Camilla.

    • @rachmunshine9474
      @rachmunshine9474 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@SRowan-fr1nl and thanks to their big rush. The other ladies had many many more years of press torment if you will. I can’t believe she keeps adding that part about if you can’t give it five years don’t give it five minutes. 😂 actually maybe I’m just thinking of a channel that replays her interviews on occasion. I can’t even imagine her saying that now but that could possibly definitely not stop her.

  • @Anna-Bernadette
    @Anna-Bernadette Před rokem +69

    I am seriously sitting on my couch laughing out loud at your depiction of Harry and Meghan. I needed this. Thanks 😊

  • @alexandrav7739
    @alexandrav7739 Před rokem +96

    I gotta say, your voices when you do Meg and specifically Harry are 10/10. I find myself actually expecting Harry to sound like this in interviews etc 😂😂😂

  • @AprilLaRae
    @AprilLaRae Před rokem +107

    Like Chris Rock said “don’t send your kids to northwestern university” if MeGain is any indication of the education they’ll receive 💩 Your re-enactments of ‘spare parts’ always make my day!

    • @gabysalb
      @gabysalb Před rokem +12

      We should never consider Eaton either.🤣

    • @nikkio.9990
      @nikkio.9990 Před rokem +10

      Chris Rock said that? Too funny

    • @grindelston5968
      @grindelston5968 Před rokem +8

      Eton,? Like any of us could even afford it...

    • @rw4754
      @rw4754 Před rokem

      @@gabysalb Eaton is where the rich & aristocrats send their kids to make connections for life & become emotionally stunted, arrogant pr*cks.

    • @BlueInk912
      @BlueInk912 Před rokem

      ​@@gabysalb the nursery of UK gov leaders and Courtiers!! .. Has H outed them?😂🤣😂🤑 Incompetent lying amoral brats.

  • @Cristina_504
    @Cristina_504 Před rokem +92

    It’s amazing how Harry really believe she didn’t know who he was and was so “afraid” of the public knowing she’s is girlfriend😂😂 she literally couldn’t wait that’s why she kept asking him “what are we gonna dooooo? “ she wanted that ring so quick , it’s the moment she’s been working for and he is so dumb he can’t even see it but we all especially us women can see her game it’s so obvious

    • @LG-nb5ur
      @LG-nb5ur Před rokem +4

      She also gave him the ultimatum.."tell the world I'm your girlfriend or its over". And then there was the vanity fair or variety story " she's just wild about Harry" . Doesn't sound like she was afraid does it?

  • @Anna_Key
    @Anna_Key Před rokem +38

    Her daddy knows her, he knows she loves being in trash mags. So if he did bring her magazines she was in, it would be because he knows she loves it. I'm sure she would have had a scrapbook of her appearances before Harry.

  • @jacquelinekirk5601
    @jacquelinekirk5601 Před rokem +53

    You were right to tell us to buckle up. Oh my goodness the level of manipulation is revolting, not to mention frightening. She messes around inside his head ALL the time .

  • @lwm2374
    @lwm2374 Před rokem +37

    “Dude, you need a personality transplant” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love the phrases that come out of your mouth! 😂

  • @chelseathibodeaux7029
    @chelseathibodeaux7029 Před rokem +63

    This series has been my guilty pleasure.... I'm SO glad CZcams recommended it to me.

    • @chelseathibodeaux7029
      @chelseathibodeaux7029 Před rokem

      @@bethewalt7385 i call out a guilty pleasure because I'm watching it instead of doing something productive. I never insinuated her channel or her reading of this book dumb. Idk why you're trying to make my comment complimenting her insulting.

  • @romarobbins270
    @romarobbins270 Před rokem +96

    Listening to many of his stories in this book, I’m reminded of the game show Jeopardy… “I’ll take things that never happened for a thousand, Alex.” If she and her mother were being chased by paparazzi all over, where are the photos?

    • @auntyvenom133
      @auntyvenom133 Před rokem +6

      My thought’s exactly!💯

    • @catseatcookiessofiagacha5210
      @catseatcookiessofiagacha5210 Před rokem +6

      My God exactly.

    • @lindap.9231
      @lindap.9231 Před rokem +1

      Hilarious Jeopardy thought 😂

    • @martina5296
      @martina5296 Před rokem +1

      Why would the press of any level care about Megans mother? Besides, she has a different last name. I didn't know she was a nurse.

    • @THATBossCricket
      @THATBossCricket Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@martina5296. She’s not. That’s ANOTHER lie!

  • @ariellagoichman3513
    @ariellagoichman3513 Před rokem +30

    Saint Meghan was able to make up a supermarket stalker story, throw herself on the floor and start crying on cue as soon as she heard Harry come in , and she STILL found the time to throw some salmon into the oven. How DOES she do it all??? 😂😂

  • @kayagrace2482
    @kayagrace2482 Před rokem +26

    "Even the gravy stopped bubbling," I'm laughing so much I am crying!

  • @amihill2691
    @amihill2691 Před rokem +21

    My question to Hary would be "where are all the photos of Meg being hounded?" I don't think there are any.....

  • @skepticallycritical4896
    @skepticallycritical4896 Před rokem +44

    Harry was on eggshells with her from day one. My ex-husband was/is just like MM. I remember my first real 'transgression ' which was staying behind after work to have drinks with my work friends. In those years, I worked when he slept and I slept when he worked and we had the days together. I had no idea that I'd done anything wrong but he was fuming mad, left for work, angry and aggressive and I was given the silent treatment for a week, maybe more. From then on I was always nervous and would ask if it was ok for me to socialize without him and he'd reply 'of course ' like I was insane for asking permission. These people are evil regardless of their intention.

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Před rokem +13

      I know this sort as well…it’s a very real nightmare being linked to people like that.

    • @user-iq4ko7kk1d
      @user-iq4ko7kk1d Před měsícem +1

      I had a colleague and although we always invited her for after work drinks, she rarely said yes. When she did say yes her boyfriend was texting her constantly and always wanted to pick her up earlier than initially agreed. What was confusing for us ( why was he texting her ? He knew where she was, he knew who she was with, he knew when she would be done) must have been devastating and embarrassing for her.😢😢

    • @lostcontrol1981
      @lostcontrol1981 Před 23 dny +1

      Oh you had the same husband I did! Once, in university, I stopped after class with some friends for coffee. When I got home I was grilled about why I was late. I told him I’d stopped for coffee with classmates. I might as well have told him I’d stopped for an illicit affair with my professor! He got mad and stayed mad for weeks. He kept referring to it as “strike one” - and told me when I got to strike three I was in “serious trouble”. Thankfully I left him. I couldn’t live under that sort of ridiculous stress.

  • @Cristina_504
    @Cristina_504 Před rokem +34

    The keeping Meghan safe has been her game the whole time , that’s exactly how she has manipulated him from the start, especially after seeing the documentary even their first date everything has been keeping Meghan safe that’s his number one goal and she exploits it , this is very sick and manipulative of her

  • @spaceman9524
    @spaceman9524 Před rokem +27

    Her manipulation is so obvious. This only shows how naïve Harry is!

  • @thepunpolice11
    @thepunpolice11 Před rokem +31

    Harold should have asked to see the CCtv footage, please. There is one photo of her outside KP. She could have gone in the private friends and family entrance where there wouldn't have been a parade.

  • @emilya.4925
    @emilya.4925 Před rokem +108

    glad to see that you're embracing the long format videos. sometimes it's nice to put something on to listen to while working or doing something. appreciate you

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Před rokem +9

      Glad you enjoy it!

    • @mimib323
      @mimib323 Před rokem +12

      Right? I saw 1hr 5min and I was like "Yay!" 😄

    • @lwm2374
      @lwm2374 Před rokem +11

      Agreed! I love the long videos.

    • @Anna-Bernadette
      @Anna-Bernadette Před rokem +10

      It's a great way to hang out with friends with common interests. I enjoy this community.

    • @megpaterson7613
      @megpaterson7613 Před rokem +4

      I LOVE the long videos too 🥰

  • @jaym6870
    @jaym6870 Před rokem +36

    I think it is well known that she knew everything about Diana. She watched the wedding video many times, and had a copy of Andrew Morton’s book on Diana. She had seen all the photos of Diana. She studied her. How else would she have known Diana’s favourite perfume, or dress like her? She and H think we are stupid.
    On another note, I would love to hear your views on H’s conversation with Gabor Mate. And on Chris Rock’s take down of MM.
    Thank you, dear, for your hard work. ❤

  • @Anna-Bernadette
    @Anna-Bernadette Před rokem +17

    The Taj Mahal is one of the most iconic pictures of Diana ever.

  • @createstuff7870
    @createstuff7870 Před rokem +28

    The Compton article was real, but it was an article by American based reporters for the Daily Mail that dealt with class differences. It was not a racially based article.
    Compton is actually majority White/Hispanic:
    22% white
    69% Hispanic/Latino
    27% black

  • @Lunacat33
    @Lunacat33 Před rokem +38

    Sue Smith channel gave you a shout out this morning! Way to go girl. You are becoming a rock star.

  • @rw4754
    @rw4754 Před rokem +17

    Diana called the Paps that night and was not wearing a seat belt.
    The driver had 2 bottles of wine that day plus drugs & it was his day off.

  • @marileearsenault4749
    @marileearsenault4749 Před rokem +47

    I would never read this trash but I love listening to you, I would listen to you read a nursery rhythm to me. Thank you ❤️

  • @bearessentials4383
    @bearessentials4383 Před rokem +12

    That must have been some salty food from all the tears 😭
    And as for ‘have you heard adults talk like that?’ That boy can never stand up for himself again for fear of reprisals.

  • @BeautifulTreasureIsland
    @BeautifulTreasureIsland Před 10 měsíci +8

    If Diana was abused by a therapist, she had an ethical obligation to report them to their licensing board to protect other patients. Was she so self-centered that she would have taken no action in response to abuse?

  • @Anna-Bernadette
    @Anna-Bernadette Před rokem +18

    Meghan rushes around her apartment before Harry's arrival, getting rid of any sign of Trevor.

    • @LG-nb5ur
      @LG-nb5ur Před rokem +1

      Corey Vitello

    • @margaretcastell9429
      @margaretcastell9429 Před 2 měsíci

      Then husband number 1 her boyfriend from Northwestern with whom she had a daughter she dumped on him. A legion of husbands!

    • @lostcontrol1981
      @lostcontrol1981 Před 23 dny

      @@margaretcastell9429- a few husbands - as well as untold men on the yachts, in Hollywood, and thru her association with Jeffrey Epstein

  • @sagrammyfour
    @sagrammyfour Před rokem +17

    I can't wait for the movie: WHEN NEEDY MET GREEDY.

  • @lindaross4331
    @lindaross4331 Před rokem +45

    You're so good at reading between the lines. Love the longer videos. Thank You.😁

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Před rokem +4

      Glad you like them!

    • @busolaolagunju3410
      @busolaolagunju3410 Před rokem +3

      My God she played a number on him! Not a drop of sincerity, not a geniune bone in her body. But as you say why did she have to lace the pretence with such cruelty? Picking her fingers deep into all his emotional wounds?
      Also how on earth do they not realise what they're exposing about their dysfunctional relationship and characters for that matter? Kudos to the Palace for concealing Harry's stunted development??

  • @elle28390
    @elle28390 Před rokem +47

    Thank you for sparing me buying this book. I have an offbeat suggestion to keep in mind. It’s called FRANCES, by Diana’s mom. It’s a memoir of how she lost her kids in divorce. She had an affair and left Diana’s father, an Earl, who obviously had a lot more power and the English courts favored the men and easily made women to be crazy and scandalous in 60s/70s. My mom had it years ago. Frances outlived her youngest daughter and wrote after her death. I think it would be another perspective on how no aspect of this family is rosy and perfect. It’s easy to blame the royals. Frances couldn’t do that b/c she was seen as abandoning her children. When really they were kept from her. And Earl Spencer moved a step mom in pretty quick. But a lot more details than just what I’ve said. Forgive me for forgetting her last name. She remarried or used maiden name. Thx again. You are a great orator and analyst. Common sense is the best.

    • @elle28390
      @elle28390 Před rokem +10

      See-I think part of H knew that MM was going to make a bee line for the Taj Mahal and play innocent. He shows that he is onto her. He just wants to shove their version down our throats. He knew she wouldn’t get away with that stunt. And if hounded in Canada, she lived with Cory V. That would’ve been out there is any member of the press was truly obsessed with her. I mean if one reporter asked the question. At some point, he’s not that dumb. He’s arrogantly telling his truth over and over and they’ve kind of indicated that they don’t think the public gets it, so they’ll keep telling it. Either b/c stupid public doesn’t matter. He’s living in spite of family, waging war through the press, taking advantage of a polarized US, with no regard for how treacherous he is to the public. They’ll burn everything down with this truth less and less believe. So by him revealing, inadvertently, how manipulative she is, is he crying for help? Or showing he knows cuz he just can’t be this dim.

    • @TefiTheWaterGipsy
      @TefiTheWaterGipsy Před rokem +13

      It's not an off-beat idea, in my opinion, you've looked in exactly the right place, I'm just not sure you have read the right book, maybe you have.
      I recently read "The Real Diana" by Lady Colin Campbell and the entire way through, all I could think was "Meghan's read this book, studied this book and made it her playbook. It explains so much, all the lies on Oprah, the Palace courtiers, the unkind family. Even Waaagh is full of bits you can see she added in, straight from the book, how he's totally rewritten his past, they never begged King Charles not to marry Camilla! But Diana and her siblings, Jane, Sarah and Charles all begged they father not to marry Raine. If you read the book, you'll see what I mean, you've got a lot of it from the book you've read about Frances. It really is an eye opener. If anyone is a total Diana fan, it may not be the best book for them, it's searingly honest about her faults and behaviour, but much of it comes from Diana herself, and the rest from Lady C's Palace, Royal and society contacts. She's very careful about checking facts. If you haven't read it, you should, you can almost hear Meghan ticking off the paragraphs in the margin "yep, use that one, change this one a bit, use that one, blah blah blah". It's a real eye opener and has clearly been a huge influence in the things she's said since marrying the spare.
      Your theory isn't out there at all, it's just people either haven't read the books or not connected the dots if they have.

    • @annsandlund8376
      @annsandlund8376 Před rokem +11

      @@TefiTheWaterGipsy I have read all the books about Diana and her family, and Lady Di wasn't at all well. Her family should have taken better care of her, they knew she was unhinged. But it was a great thing to marry into the royal family, so they sacrificed her in my opinion. Frances was 18 when she married the earl, and she had a tough time with him, producing a male heir. They separated in 1967, and Frances did actually get to see the children after a while, but her own mother, Lady Fermoy, testified against her. The stepmother, Raine, married the earl in 1976, so the children were teenagers. diana was really vile to her. In 1978 the earl had a stroke, and Raine nursed him back to life, with a new drug she got. He lived another 14 years, an Diana made up with Raine. So there are no real devils and no angels, as in most cases in families. The treatment of the young women in the aristocracy was rather appalling, though.

    • @rw4754
      @rw4754 Před rokem +8

      Yes, and Earl Spencer was not interested in his kids - he just would not let her mother raise them out of spite & pride. Sent to Boarding School.
      Diana suffered from Borderline Personality Disorder. Harry inherited the 'Spencer Gene'.
      If a female has generous qualities & beauty, the fragility BPD presents is very compelling. Marilyn Monroe suffered from it also.
      They present like a beautiful little wounded bird - which they are. With men the emotional volatility present with rage.
      I think if Diana had survived, she would have had the insight & found her healing.

    • @rw4754
      @rw4754 Před rokem +15

      @@annsandlund8376 40 years ago when I was at Uni, the smarter Aristocratic females studied History of Art, English Literature & History so they could have conversations at the dinner table and marry well. Diana was not academically gifted so went to finishing school.
      Diana created a "Cult" around herself & the 'poor me' soap opera.
      I am sure you get excoriated by people in the comment section for just having a rational adult perspective.
      Harry inherited her BPD & Paranoia. It presented in her as compelling fragility to the public, but I am sure she was hell to live with behind doors.

  • @annsandlund8376
    @annsandlund8376 Před rokem +15

    What took Diana's life was a drunken driver, no seatbelt and speeding into a tunnel. She played the media, gave them notice, then was angry, from all the possible sources I have, this is very much her own doing. The paps could only have taken photos of her, if they hade caught up with the car, and they could have used a car with darker windows. Listening in on phones is of course a heinous, and criminal thing to do, but that happened to Charles as well. But as you say, Meghan and Harry have nothing, without the drama. They both need help, I'm truly worried about them and their children.

  • @KristinaLJohnson
    @KristinaLJohnson Před rokem +14

    Somehow the way you said the wolf men bit has me imagining werewolves just trying to do their evening commute with Meghan driving like a maniac in front them.
    It’s very welcome to live rent free in my mind. 😂

  • @juliaeimer6924
    @juliaeimer6924 Před rokem +17

    Just a single question to H& M: where are all the paparazzi pictures from this alleged scenarios??? How come none of them ever made it to the press if Meghan was that hunted and famous? 🤔

    • @bluediamond4502
      @bluediamond4502 Před rokem +4

      Yes I always wonder about that. There are no impromptu pics. They are always staged. The swarms of paps must not have film in their cameras. 💎

    • @marybalding1435
      @marybalding1435 Před rokem +1

      Just what I was thinking. There’s one picture, taken by one person on their phone of her going through the door of KP. Nobody was that bothered - she wishes they were that bothered at that time, and she’s managed to stay in the spotlight (by fair means or foul) since then

  • @thebentebr
    @thebentebr Před rokem +21

    Compton is in LA, and most Brits were unfamiliar with it, besides the article was written by an American...so. Also it took less than a week from Camilla Tomini published that they were together, till Harry demanded that his PR department tell the press that she was racially profiled, and he wanted her compared to Diana, in spite of Mr. Knauf telling them that the Diana comparison may be was a bit OTT. She is fooling no one but Harry.

  • @brega6286
    @brega6286 Před rokem +11

    And all the while, Megain is enjoying every second of the attention. She likes it so much, she creates the drama. She is the most bizarre example of "a self made woman".

  • @gabysalb
    @gabysalb Před rokem +31

    Please megaliar wishes she wasnt even acknowledged here in Canada. Not even the real starts of Suits got asked for an autograph much less this supporting D Lister. Drake goes out here for lunch or dinner and there are a couple of paps at the most and some fans asking for an autograph that’s it. She is delusional at best and he is a total dimwit. Love your channel, you make this horrid book hilarious and entertaining. I’m not sure how people manage the audiobook 😮

    • @grindelston5968
      @grindelston5968 Před rokem +5

      Never watched suits, but I understood she's not even a main character

    • @gabysalb
      @gabysalb Před rokem +4

      @@grindelston5968 no she wasn’t a main character. In fact when she wasn’t there it was better. ( just watched season one)But she makes it sound as if she was the lead of the series. There were other girls less known more talented and of course less annoying.

    • @Wanda711
      @Wanda711 Před rokem +4

      The other thing is, that's just Canada! People don't go nuts over celebrities; lots of films are shot in Vancouver and Toronto, and crazy crowds of fans and paparazzi are just not a thing here. This is why their false claim that they wanted a quiet life and were moving to Canada was so plausible; that's where you WOULD move if you wanted to have a normal life and go around without being pestered all the time. They could have had that here, but it was never what Meghan wanted.

    • @gabysalb
      @gabysalb Před rokem +3

      @@Wanda711 so true. We know ginge and cringe wanted the be treated as A listers with no talent. At least the Kardashian are entertaining to certain extend. Ginge and cringe are just two entitled brats that need a good dose of reality. Hopefully they realize soon than actions have consequences. The RF needs to act soon this is getting out of hand.

  • @annsearle9275
    @annsearle9275 Před rokem +18

    Megan would have loved being chased by the paps , even when she called the police to her house , the police didn't find any evidence or anyone hanging around

  • @amyschreiner4504
    @amyschreiner4504 Před rokem +18

    It’s interesting that there are ZERO pap shots they can produce to prove any of these “incidents”. He truly believes ANYTHING she says. They could only show paps pursuing Catherine and paps at movie premieres on their Netflix drama because these things simply NEVER happened.

  • @beebeebird2878
    @beebeebird2878 Před rokem +9

    HIPPA is taken very seriously by the US. If the paps were taking pictures at Doris’s patient’s homes, they would’ve been easily charged under HIPPA. Including fines and jail time. As would the wolf men for harassing Megan in Toronto. These two claim things that can either be easily disproven or would have cost the perpetrators more than a picture would net them. It boggles the mind that anyone would believe it.
    Everyone who visits the Taj Mahjal takes a picture in front of it. William and Kate as well as Diana with Charles are pictured in front of it. Harry takes a lot of liberties with his outrage.

  • @virginiaswanson4346
    @virginiaswanson4346 Před 10 dny +1

    I know I’m late to this particular party, I’m catching up on all these videos and having such a blast. Love love love you

  • @neilsun2521
    @neilsun2521 Před rokem +11

    All they needed to do was hire a 'spanner' to go through all the news pieces on them every day and report back to them if anything was pertinent to their safety. But no, that wouldn't feed their victim complex would it...

  • @jmoore1939
    @jmoore1939 Před rokem +27

    definetly arrested development...there was no rascism just curiosity..the uk loved her at first

  • @thepunpolice11
    @thepunpolice11 Před rokem +13

    I think William issued one statement after 2007 but it wasn't crazy. He also provided Catherine and her family with a palace resource to help them according to one biography.

  • @Susan-vl8ts
    @Susan-vl8ts Před rokem +15

    Living here in the US, I seriously do not remember reading about Meghan being hounded. So maybe it was just in the UK. There have already been many stories of how she kept contacting the Toronto Police and they found nothing. Her whole 'sobbing uncontrollably on the floor and inconsolable' is just ridiculous. Don't believe it. Harry she is an actress!! Hello!!
    Thanks again, Cheere!

    • @darlene6531
      @darlene6531 Před rokem

      I read that the police were exasperated with her constant calling that prowlers were by her home and they could never find anything to support this. Two Toronto paps publicly talked of how she was friendly and that there were only two of them. Her stories of being hounded is her delusional fantasy to feel important.

    • @EEmB
      @EEmB Před rokem +4

      I can't remember any, ANY press, about Meghan before Harry put that statement out. I am so much of a Royalist I didn't think I missed hardly anything about them, yet I was shocked when that came out: "Wait... he has a girlfriend?! That he says we need to leave alone? Have I seen or read anything about her, or him for a very long time." So I remember that statement very clearly and how much of a huge surprise it for me. Even remember telling mom about it at the time.

    • @LG-nb5ur
      @LG-nb5ur Před rokem +1

      ​@@EEmBsame here. I was very surprised by the statement as well, and what I had seen in the papers didn't read as racist to me. The straight outta Compton article was written by an American in an American tabloid so I didn't know about it until it was raised as an issue

    • @bunnybuns7387
      @bunnybuns7387 Před 8 měsíci

      She wasn’t hounded in the uk she just wished she was 😬

  • @kate2create738
    @kate2create738 Před rokem +9

    The crazy scenario is that he allows this woman to make him feel small all because he is too obsessed to understand she is not the type that is worth keeping, as she keeps degrading him! He hates the fact that people are calling her out for dragging him down, and he wants to correct that narrative but he continues to prove everyone’s point when he is encouraged to do a lot of stupid things. That is why they continually keep trying to revamp their brand because they know it’s not strong enough to convince the shrewd part of society that has made some excellent points. Their whole relationship is a sham.

  • @CMinorOp67
    @CMinorOp67 Před rokem +13

    17:00: I agree, wholeheartedly. The press was putting down the pale, freckled ginger…not Megan’s pretty skin tone.

  • @bunnybuns7387
    @bunnybuns7387 Před 8 měsíci +4

    You are awesome 😬 from the uk 😊

  • @cindyhuddlestone9190
    @cindyhuddlestone9190 Před rokem +6

    You have become my favourite commentator about The narcissist and her project.

  • @laffytaffy2916
    @laffytaffy2916 Před rokem +57

    The pap story was totally debunked, she was one cobblestone street away wearing a beanie with the grin of a cheshire cat, carrying a cloth bag of groceries to the gate, looking around smiling, it was one tourist that got the video and a few pics on her IPHONE and sold them!
    Her Suit’s cast members said she was always dressing up, calling the paps to tell them where she’d be shopping that day, NO ONE CARED! Megs is writing this part! She also told him he needed to release a statement that SHE was his gf or she was breaking up with him!
    She’s almost 40 and he’s almost mid 30’s, it’s ridiculous! Tom Bower and Valentine Low really get into who Megs is a person and how deceitful and manipulative she is. She said she wasn’t even offended by the “Straight out of Compton” headline because she had friends that lived there, however she’s always been privileged it’s been revealed, Doria did disappear for 10 years of her life no one will say why and Megs put she was white on a lot of applications even college, she’s either 1/4 or 1/8. I love the content here how she’s always staring dagger’s jealous of beautiful Kate, and Diana’s engagement ring on her finger, a lot of people speculate she was really after William, if you watch some clips she’s staring all dreamy at him, he never looks back in her ne clip and plays with his scarf for 5 minutes so he doesn’t have to walk beside her and Kate gets finished talking to people to come save him.
    Also one of her Suits coworkers said she was living with another man when she started dating Harry, and the time overlaps, and she famously said “The better you lay the carpet, the more you can walk on it (men)”

    • @grindelston5968
      @grindelston5968 Před rokem

      Well, if her mum's black and dad's white she's obviously 1/2.
      She just looks really REALLY white.
      No one ever looked at meg and thought "oh look , there goes a black lady" so she can shut up about going through hardships, and being a victim.

    • @beebeebird2878
      @beebeebird2878 Před rokem

      Doria was in prison those ten years. Some type of fraud she was involved in.

    • @georgiacoombes699
      @georgiacoombes699 Před rokem +2

      I think Harold is 38! ❤️

    • @laffytaffy2916
      @laffytaffy2916 Před rokem +11

      @@georgiacoombes699 yeah his current age, I was referring to their ages at the time she was trying to make it known she was THE GIRLFRIEND, like a high school girl begging to wear the quarterbacks letterman jacket and his class ring! But you are right Harold is 38 AND STILL BLAMING EVERYONE FOR HIS PROBLEMS! I can’t believe he charged last weekend to stream his therapy session with a quack who DX him with “Broken home, depression, panic disorder, ADHD, anxiety, severe PTSD……” and all that other crap, like his victim card is up, everyone has had those kind of problems and coped, he’s forever stuck as a child throwing a tantrum, all that therapy he’s had and he is still acting so entitled and blaming his family, he said what works for him is Megs, Mushrooms, weed, but he’s still a victim so obviously his drug$ aren’t really working for him. I am on team Megs is older than the 41 that she says.

  • @JessieCori
    @JessieCori Před rokem +5

    Trying to make gossip stop? God bless his simple soul.

  • @jmicha91
    @jmicha91 Před rokem +6

    I have a degree in English yet I never found American English so different than British English to cause a language barrier when both are native speakers.

  • @alexandrav7739
    @alexandrav7739 Před rokem +10

    I find the "did you maybe hear adults talk like that to each other when you were a child?" Highly strange. I don't know anyone whose first response to a terrible treatment is to a) walk away and b) then IMMEDIATELY in the first sentences of the conversation that follows then tie the incident to the childhood of a 30+ year old, and in a way that creates ambiguity towards responsibility. If she'd have first asked: "do you even respect me?" Or "is that part of the British culture, to treat people like that?" Or whatever, I would understand her questioning then turning to his childhood after. But there's no reason to bring up the childhood so early in the clearing conversation because someone's childhood is no excuse for treating others badly anyway (esp not if you're 30+ and have relationship experience) and also, the first point of discussion for things like this is usually someone's behavior and making peace again (or ending the relationship). Not psychoanalyzing in a way that allows the other person to potentially shift the responsibility.
    I'm really wondering if she wanted to use the incident to tell him what a terrible childhood he had and how his family sucked. It just doesn't make sense to me why else she'd have brought his childhood up this early.

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Před rokem +6

      I think it was another way of undermining his upbringing and tearing him away from it, just like you say. I agree completely with your opinions in this comment!!!!!!

  • @thesubparty1
    @thesubparty1 Před 2 měsíci +2

    KP’s main entrance is across the street from the daily mail offices, which is where she went - when he’d urged her to go through a side entrance. There’s 2 shots of her walking alone, neither of which seem like pap shots or her being hounded.
    My question is if she was that traumatized how did she fix lunch? She wailing on the floor. It’s all just a manipulation - he couldn’t save mummy, he has to save her.
    And that house is probably the Beckhams, who she accused of selling stories about her to the tabloids - they lent their Beverly Hills home to her while they were dating as a favor to him. They have no relationship anymore because she got him to accuse Victoria of selling stories on her to David and neither took it well - they’re both vastly more famous, and richer, than she’ll ever be.
    Also, none of this makes sense. If she were this incredibly famous person then wouldn’t she be stalked by paparazzi already and she be used to it? Brad Pitt’s mother doesn’t get stalked by the paps.

  • @anncarper8163
    @anncarper8163 Před rokem +11

    That bit about Meghan sobbing on the floor as she tells Harry about being chased by paps and fans has to be the best acting she ever did. Too bad no Hollywood directors saw it. You made a really good point about their relationship, Cheere. I never thought about it before, but it's true that the two of them "fighting the good fight" against the press, the public and the royals is probably the only thing that binds them together. The problem is, constantly moaning about how the world has done you wrong gets old really fast. It's just a crappy mindset to have as you go through life. All that paranoia and negativity! 🫤 When Harry said, "Bring on the apocalypse," little did he know he was about to marry it. Looking forward to the next vid!

    • @Cristina_504
      @Cristina_504 Před rokem

      She exploits his paranoia and mental health issues it’s disgusting

    • @cherylcohen7873
      @cherylcohen7873 Před rokem +3

      He was about to marry it! Lol

  • @sagrammyfour
    @sagrammyfour Před rokem +11

    Gotta wonder what he thought of that 90210 scene where she serviced a guy in the front seat of his car. It was VERY convincing. I don't think she was acting.

  • @Kate-mm3uf
    @Kate-mm3uf Před rokem +7

    Hi love, really appreciate your fab take on all this bs! So entertaining!
    The gravy question… clearly Harry’s Wife uses pre-made crappy stock and can’t really cook. Keen observation though and hilariously at odds with her ‘brand’. LOL

  • @lisab1854
    @lisab1854 Před rokem +4

    Brit here! 👋🇬🇧 I don't read newspapers so I can't comment on what the headlines were at the time. (Like you said, it's just trash mags anyway).
    What I do know is how (my area of the country at least) felt here 'down on the ground' and my experience of it was that people were happy and excited at the thought of Harry and Meghan (getting married). We all looked forward to and welcomed it 🎉🎊 We were genuinely happy until the cracks started to show. And sadly, our perception of them (especially after slating our Royal Family and us, the People) has deteriorated ever since 😕

  • @sagrammyfour
    @sagrammyfour Před rokem +8

    I saw a reference to them as NEEDY and GREEDY,

  • @thepunpolice11
    @thepunpolice11 Před rokem +8

    Please she is obsessed with herself she knew exactly what was said in the press about her. According to HG Tudor she is a narcissist and so no press is way worse than bad press.

  • @tinajohnson-bv9yx
    @tinajohnson-bv9yx Před 2 měsíci +2

    Catherine has an Uncle Gary who is a bit of a scoundrel and often in the media. It's her mother's brother. He was invited to Catherine's wedding

  • @vanessaramsden9894
    @vanessaramsden9894 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I remember being lost in Redcar, so I asked a policewoman in a car for directions. The policewoman escorted me to a main Road and told me to follow the signs. I live in the U.K

  • @stacyr3743
    @stacyr3743 Před rokem +5

    You call foul on the roasted chicken and gravy story! 🤣 Very punny!

  • @thepunpolice11
    @thepunpolice11 Před rokem +13

    There were very few stories that could be considered the slightest bit racist. The vast majority of the UK press and people were excited about her.
    In Courtiers, Low says Harold's staff was harranged by him to push back at the press long before M.
    I'm pretty sure the only time there were battling house holds is when Charles and Diana were separated Charles hired some one to help combat the war Diana had waged and try and rehabilitate Charles but he went to far and was let go, according to Lady C. I read her book about H&M but really want to read her books about Diana.

  • @shawnna6225
    @shawnna6225 Před rokem +22

    Congratulations on all the new subscribers. You deserve it!

  • @marybalding1435
    @marybalding1435 Před rokem +8

    They bring up the “racism” of the Daily Mail (it came from an American newspaper) and the “exotic blood” yet I heard both those articles intended to be ‘rags to riches’ stories. They were looking for reasons to be insulted

  • @jaegar67
    @jaegar67 Před rokem +10

    It's seems pretty clear to me that Harry views Meg as Diana 2.0. At the beginning of the book, his mother was mentioned in every other paragraph. Now that Meg has entered the picture, he hardly mentions her at all except to compare her to Meg. Harry sounds like a dolt. Pap's weren't following Meg around, and few people even knew who she was until the engagement was announced. Had she been hounded by the press, then where are all the pics and stories?

    • @Cristina_504
      @Cristina_504 Před rokem +1

      She seriously has him believing paps care about her it’s ridiculous because she’s the one that calls them nobody cares literally

  • @robinfriess1661
    @robinfriess1661 Před rokem +5

    Meggy isn't aware that misogyny isn't personal.

  • @jodeeps2287
    @jodeeps2287 Před rokem +9

    I love books and I love book reviews 👏 New subscriber here, thanks to Sue Smith. I am looking forward to watching all your videos 😊

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Před rokem +2

      Awesome! Thank you for subscribing and taking the time to comment! I really appreciate it!!!

  • @retrovinyl5392
    @retrovinyl5392 Před rokem +10

    Where are all these photos the people in the supermarket took. What paparazzi asks for a photo for their wife/mother?! They just call out your name and take a pic.
    Where are the paparazzi photos of her in the car?

  • @vickiewallace4683
    @vickiewallace4683 Před rokem +7

    Just like a man in a strip club believes the dancer giving him special treatment means she feels " that they are different, and they like them more than alllll the other Johns" , HILLARIOUSE !!.

  • @Anna-Bernadette
    @Anna-Bernadette Před rokem +9

    I think the Compton article did happen only they blamed the British press. I believe it was the American press article that was then picked up by the British press and recycled. I believe that's what happened ?

  • @moniquemorris5833
    @moniquemorris5833 Před rokem +7

    William put out a statement to defend Catherine back in 2007

    • @mimib323
      @mimib323 Před rokem +2

      Was that when they split temporarily? I feel like I heard somewhere that he asked the press to leave her alone at that time. I'm not sure if that was true or just a rumor.

    • @annsearle9275
      @annsearle9275 Před rokem +10

      But with William it was far worse than megan , by 2006 she had a journalist hack her phone 155 times , also she used to have press of 15 to 20 outside her door and following her all day long , her trying to get in her car on a bus at work , they were relentless even on London buses one newspaper ran an advert with her picture and the headline waity Katy plastered all over them in London the tube etc , it took a long time but William finally snapped , after that she was still hounded but , bus and tube advert stopped , lots of paps camped outside her flat sort of stopped , although they were still there every day , they didn't get right in her face or block her fro,m going anywhere. Megan had none of this harassment

    • @moniquemorris5833
      @moniquemorris5833 Před rokem +3

      @@mimib323 he asked the press to leave his girlfriend alone and soon after it became too much and they had to split up. They were back together in less than 2 months

    • @Cristina_504
      @Cristina_504 Před rokem +6

      Catherine actually had press following her and stalking her , Meghan doesn’t unless she herself calls them

  • @fidelogos7098
    @fidelogos7098 Před rokem +5

    Meghan is the Queen of Drama Queens. When Harry is not around, she makes up scenarios wherein she is being targeted in order to get him in line. In Canada, I think she was setting him up to think she needed his protection and the way to do that is to make a commitment.

  • @cyndyblust7487
    @cyndyblust7487 Před rokem +12

    New viewer here. Really enjoying your videos!! Your accents crack me up!! Your storytelling is on point!! I’ve subscribed and looking forward to many more chapters!!

  • @rosiemc04
    @rosiemc04 Před rokem +6

    Oh thank you Denise ❤ I love watching/listening to your videos whilst I’m cleaning.
    I feel like I’m having a conversation with a very funny friend, we are definitely on the same page 😂❤️ xx

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Před rokem +1

      That’s awesome to hear! Exactly how I hoped people would feel listening!

  • @LouisaWatt
    @LouisaWatt Před rokem +6

    Harry seems fixated on the handful of negative press at the start, but I remember the press before the wedding being overwhelmingly positive and excited. I was thrilled about Meghan initially, it wasn’t until a year after the wedding that I started to see why their behaviour might be a problem and it only continues to get worse

  • @HappyH29
    @HappyH29 Před rokem +6

    Sue Smith mentioned you in her latest video. I love your content which is insightful, funny and quite entertaining.

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Před rokem +1

      I had no idea she did! That's awesome! I need to make sure I thank her; thanks for the heads up!!!!

  • @Ally-hc3ku
    @Ally-hc3ku Před 11 měsíci +3

    She probably hired the people to follow her

  • @ACDClalaLand123
    @ACDClalaLand123 Před rokem +9

    Thank you for reading this book and sparing us / saving us with your wit, impecable rational and balance humor and intellect.
    In my opinion, I think she (M) has been trying to get away from him all along… excuse after excuse… but is trapped because of what happened to his mom and the guilt she would feel/face for what this would do to him. She’s trapped … she just doesn’t have the guts to leave.
    It’s gotta be that and her hunger and need for attention, money and desire to be famous and respected.
    IDK… it’s just sad.

    • @grindelston5968
      @grindelston5968 Před rokem +2

      Hahaha...Megan... feeling guilt??
      L O L
      O O
      L O L

    • @LG-nb5ur
      @LG-nb5ur Před rokem

      It's manipulative and deplorable. There's no guilt in that narcissistic woman.

  • @avagrego3195
    @avagrego3195 Před rokem +4

    Terrific readings and insightful commentary. Looking forward to your next video. Keep up the excellent work.

  • @alimar0604
    @alimar0604 Před 6 dny

    I was around in England when their relationship was announced to a storm of indifference! My personal thought at that time was that he was dumbing down, after the failure of his two previous relationships with wonderful girls. I still think that today 🇬🇧

  • @bridgetmustard5285
    @bridgetmustard5285 Před rokem +4

    This time was leading up to making him write the letter to the press to leave her alone, therefore making it quite clear that she was his official girlfriend nearly fiance, all calculated.

  • @GiftSparks
    @GiftSparks Před rokem +3

    I just adore your channel. Ever since you have gotten more subscribers, there have been interruptions 😮 due to commercials, but it is all worth it and i am so happy you are monetized 💸 💵 !!! You deserve it all and more!!

  • @eileenmcclure4546
    @eileenmcclure4546 Před rokem +4

    Cheere Denise...you ask how she could keep doing the things she does. She does the things she does because it WORKS on him. She lies so glibly over the phone about being attacked and chased because none of it can be verified from where he is and it is a narcissist trick to trigger him and punch buttons.

  • @JessieCori
    @JessieCori Před rokem +3

    If he wasn't part of the RF she wouldn't have given him the time of day.

  • @AnnieDaQueen
    @AnnieDaQueen Před rokem +5

    You got my attention for the whole hour, and I have a short span attention disorder. Loved listening to your thoughts while reading the book. Also would like your thoughts on Tom Bower's Revenge. Wish there is a TWO THUMBS UP button too.

  • @laffytaffy2916
    @laffytaffy2916 Před rokem +8

    Love your hair!
    look at how your channel is growing!!!!!!

  • @tinajohnson-bv9yx
    @tinajohnson-bv9yx Před 2 měsíci +1

    I once had breakfast in a small, British seaside hotel. It was full. A very popular British soap star from a current, long running series came in with (presumably) his wife. I noticed him. You could see that everyone else had too and took covert glances. No one approached him. No one took a photo. I could quote other instances. It's just a British thing

  • @partlycloudy3519
    @partlycloudy3519 Před rokem +3

    She threatned to leave him just like she said she would kill herself & her baby if they stayed in the uk . Classic move taken right from diana playbook . Megjan is a monster

  • @kirstenbrogan5958
    @kirstenbrogan5958 Před rokem +5

    I suspect Megs was demanding Harry to respond. Definitely more to this story. I think her dad showing up with tabloids to TG is pretty bad.

  • @Here.Be.Dragons
    @Here.Be.Dragons Před rokem +3

    This is soooo ridiculous😂😂😂Thank you for these videos, love the commentary! "Ramblings of an infant" 🤣
    Greetings from Croatia!

    • @cheeredenise
      @cheeredenise  Před rokem

      Glad you enjoyed! I had the privilege of visiting Croatia once and it was DIVINE!!!! Lucky you!!

  • @zareenwilhelm5811
    @zareenwilhelm5811 Před rokem +1

    “There are just people in this world who just wanna hate you” 🙏

  • @Rando15
    @Rando15 Před rokem +5

    Thank you for another great episode.

  • @mrtoadslove
    @mrtoadslove Před rokem +4

    I remember many stories that Meghan gave Harry an ultimatum about going public with their relationship. She wanted that out there, no doubt for her benefit as being in a secret relationship didn’t increase her cache at all. Funny how the story then was magically leaked.

  • @skymoon4029
    @skymoon4029 Před rokem +3

    She degrade him because she wants to have upper hand from the beginning

  • @zhentu5169
    @zhentu5169 Před rokem +5

    are those two dufus( sorry my spelling is wrong,) in 5th grade. they act like they are in Elementry school. I hope they can both grow up and have a successful relationship. they both need God. bless their heart.

  • @Wanda711
    @Wanda711 Před rokem +5

    Asking if he heard people talk 'like that' (whatever 'that' was) sounds like a stern Mommy asking her potty-mouth little boy where did hear that word. Really, it's like Ralphie's mom grilling him on where he picked up the F-word, as he sits there with a bar of soap in his mouth. (Of course, the answer was that his old man used that word 50 times every day, but he couldn't admit that!) This was such an obvious power play by Meghan. If he'd snapped back that if that's the way she felt, she could leave, she'd have backed down in a hurry, but I'm sure she never would have tried such a stunt if she hadn't been sure that he'd be easily cowed and would fall into line.