My crush started the whole staring thing off. Then when I realised I wasn’t getting kidnapped by him and he was just paying me attention, which was about 4 months later I decided to to be brave and smile at him one day and guess what he did... turned and looked behind him to see who I was smiling at 😂😂😂🤦🏾♀️
I'm so late to the party but my crush almost walked into a pole at work we were staring so hard at each other. He was confused which way to go cause he had to walk pass me but definitely kept eye contact 🤦🏾🤭
A man at work has been staring at me since I started the job four months ago. I started returning his gaze and held eye contact with him on many occasions. A situation at work threw us together and we had to speak to each other for the first time and I noticed he acted like a 14 year old boy who has met his first crush when I made the convo playful and flirty. I realised how terribly shy he is of me but I seen him not shy with others at work.
honifit you 2 like each other. But maybe he is shy or doesn't know how to deal w this situation. Acting childish might not really been that. Maybe that's his personality . Or he doesn't know how to deal w this situation yet. So, stand by him and try to help him and supporting him on dealing w the situation. Probably you are more mature than him, indeed.
Ladies you also need to know that a man runs through all of the scenarios in his head trying to convince himself that you don't like him because it's easier then being rejected. I had a girl who gave all the right signs and stares once and i talked myself out of asking her out. One day out of the blue i asked her and she looked horrified.
Do teen boys do this as well?( like around 16 yrs). ( Also could you help me understand this).... A lot of guys who I have thought liked me always did the same thing. They all froze and stared at me from afar or when sitting next to me and I wasn’t looking. Some guys have gone out of their way to choose to sit next to me randomly and never made eye contact and they looked so stiff and upright. They’d talk to everyone else but me and stare at me from afar after the class. They’d always try to be around me but when it came to conversation it was so poor (filled with teasing or just awkward silence). Normally, when guys stare I pretend like I don’t notice because I feel like they’d feel embarrassed if I caught them especially if it was a one time thing and just how awkward it will be if I react . If I notice the guy does it frequently( not a one time thing) I’ll work up the courage most of the time to stare back at them once or twice and the guy normally quickly looks away or pretends they were looking at something else. Guys only approach me with their friends in the background ( it’s a bit intimidating) and when they do most of the time they say nothing or they just say hi and don’t follow it up with anything else. This guy who stared at me for like three years , built the courage to randomly touch my hand one day but could never have eye contact with me or talk to me directly has been so confusing. When I intentionally caught him staring he pretended to be looking at the clock so I just went back to pretending I couldn’t see and eventually tried to avoid looking at him at all unless I had to cause I felt he was too confusing . One day I said fuck it cause I thought he probably be over me by now and I was saying it was cold( referring to the room) and knew he was talking to me across the room and I thought to react and looked him dead in the eyes and said it’s cold and he replied it’s hot ( I thought he was gonna break the eye contact but we held it for like 7 seconds ) and I replied it’s cold and he replied it’s hot and it happened again until I eventually broke it and he hasn’t done anything more in response. I don’t understand.
@@purplesquare-1triangle966 most of the time, the guy likes you but is afraid to approach because you give a very hard or "don't talk to me" vibe, you may not feel it, but alot of guys especially if one likes you veryyyyyyy much, would feel that the vibe is not right and wouldn't approach you, or maybe you act like you have alot of options so most guys don't want to be cheaters and leave you alone, but yeah the guy you described defientley likes you but he is afraid of being rejected
Same thing is happening to me but when I asked her number she questioned me why do you want my number I just said it's okay and left the place. She is on higher position. But every time when we have an eye contact it is for 3-4 secs once it was more longer may be 6 secs that time she came to my place to talk to someone else but instead of talking to him she kept looking into my eyes unconsciously. Always when we have an eye contact I feel like she is unconscious. Once I caught her happily blushing at me one finger in her mouth and once she was looking at me in a dirty way I felt embarrassed and look down by the way she was looking at me. Is she hiding it that she likes me?... please anybody can help me
@@jayumule3894when she asked why do you want her #, you should have said, because i want to get to know you better. The reason she asked why do u want my number and then Keeps staring at you is because she wants to know if you want her number romantically or just as friends. She’s looking for signals that you do like her in that way.
You really have a gift of understanding and insight. I believe as a woman I shouldn't have to put in so much "work" to receive the guys initial "like" for me. There is a fundamental problem if you will if the initial like is so hard to flourish.. The man's feelings is not strong enough to achieve the momentum to progress.
If you think like that, you will only attract men who hit on everyone immediately. As a man you can not just flirt with anyone immediately without risking being called a creep or whatnot.
Omg this is exactly what has been going on between me and a guy at work for years. After being super cautious and holding back, I brought him lunch one day. He was appreciative. But recently he kept bringing up another female coworker and said that he liked her, completely out of the blue. She's in a completely different department. That hurt. So now I just treat him like everyone else (I'm that happy go lucky person) but he's wanting the attention again. I'm trying to get a transfer!
@Madallas Mons I believe that. It's been a few years and he still acts the same. But because of the work dynamic we can never date. One of us would have to quit lol
My crush would stare at me all the time during one of our classes. So I approached him one day and asked to hang out. He got my number but never text me. He then completely ignored me and acted like I didn’t exist. I was left soooo confused!
As guy it probably had nothing to do with you. Maybe his super broke at the moment, maybe his failing all his classes and can’t commit to a girlfriend, or worse he has a micro penis that his insecure about lol. Things aren’t always surface level. I didn’t make a move on really hot girl that liked me because I was broke at that time now it’s different, and she probably though I disliked her. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you, there are tons of outside variables at play.
i don't know what it takes with these men especially over 50, they stare and stare until your uncomfortable then you let know you are interested and would like to get to know them and they still move so slow. i don't know if they are that unsure about themselves, men are just so complicated these days. what happen to saying hi, how r u? it's not rocket science!!!!
My brother you are so right cuz I'm like that if a woman look at me a certain way I can't figure out if she being nice she just being nice because you want to pick up on something that will let you know that she is not playing she'll serious cuz sometime women's gives different signals and mean something else you're 100% right my brother you're helping me and many more brothers that trying to figure things out about a woman thank you so much blessings to you peace out
I locked eyes,smiled and everytime he looked away and back at me i was still looking and smiling waiting for him to come over,what did he do? got off the bus and looked at me as the bus moved off
@@rk-zu2do so what stopped you from approaching the person?? don't think of any stupid chat up lines,you won't go far with that,just a simple 'hi what's your name??' and take it from there,if a woman is pretty,don't concentrate on that or even tell her that,cause she's heard it so many times before,i find the men from the UK are lacking a lot of confidence,work on your confidence,if a woman don't want to know,don't take it personal,you don't really know her?? and will find someone else instead
This happened when I was walking up to my work building and right when I was about to open the door, I felt eyes on me. I looked directly at the location where the stare might be coming from and there was this guy that works right across from me and always takes his break outside near my building just standing there in seriousness standing straight by the employee door with his chest puffed out and than his eyes softened as we locked eyes and he was going back and forth while smiling in delight trying to tell me something, but I have no clue. It was diluted too and shiny. It looked like there was aurora over his head, or maybe I was reading too much into it. We don't ever talk, but I pass by him every time I come out and I have attraction towards him. I'm sure he's taken and I am too, which I respect but I got lost in his warm eyes. I haven't stop thinking about him since Thursday and he looked like he wanted to approach me, but than I dropped my keys from my jacket packet and he went back into the building. I have no idea what suddenly happened!? What was he saying to me? What just happened. I could sense eyes on me for weeks for some reason and I had a sense of overwhelming emotions. He made me feel overwhelmed. I'm sure I scared him away from not saying hi, or anything. I doubt he'll be wanting to talk to me when I go back to work tomorrow. I wouldn't mind if we become friends. I feel so nervous around him now.
I wish I saw this earlier !...after a year of staring at each other with loads of eye contact ( how can that not be obvs 😂) i finally gave him a smile 😂 i think he jumped coz he didn’t expect it 🙈🙈🙈..can’t wait to see what happens now 👌🙈..
I beg to differ. Isn't this manipulation? much less, he wants me to do the 1st step cause poor guy, he's shy. I'm a high value woman & he sees that I am. So that rules out any but that he is a cheap pervert entrapping me to his toxicity. We all have our insecurities all right, but it shouldn't be a mind game. Men used to go hunt, make & keep a family, go thru wars, and today he can't approach a girl he likes? wait a dang minute.. I'm bewildered. Any thoughtful comment is welcome.
Omgggg yes !!!!You’re the MAN at the end of the day say something or stop looking period ! It’s like they want you to chase them so they can still have their ego and their pride
Jesus…no wonder some of y’all end up alone. “Manipulation”? Yeah no, you’re definitely not a “high value” woman, just by this comment I can tell anyone would get tired of you in a matter of months. The OTHERS are the ones that determine if you’re of high value based on your personality, attractiveness, etc. and personally I wouldn’t touch you with a broom stick. Manipulation…hahaha such a weird statement. Are you the type of person that also calls all men “rap¡sts” too?
We live in a time where men get rarely female attention, it could be new to him and most men live quiet to unsociable lives. It has nothing to do with you, but with them. Don't make it seem as sneaky as you think it is.
The guy at work I like stares but never says anything. We were talking and he just looked into my eyes, he didnt look away or smile or anything. At first I thought he wanted to throw down lol. When I walk by a couple times he looked right at me but also didn't smile or say anything. I feel like maybe I was bothering him or like he's wondering why I keep walking by
This happened to me today! We were in the gym, I looked up and he was looking right at me, staring. So I stared back. We held eye contact for a long time! at least 20 seconds. Then he kinda smiled and looked away and I did too. then a minute later we both did it again. I held it and he did too as long as he could then shook his head. What does that mean?
Angie Doss maybe he likes you. But guess what? Maybe he expected more "action " from you. What i mean is that he wanted you to approach him , or to move the step forward. What if he's not as outspoken as he seems, and he's shy???
Yes a friend of mine has this Asian guy that states a lot nearly every Sunday he is a volunteer for the homeless then he will go by close to where she is standing talks to other people gives them a hug then he walks off I think he likes her
So I like this guy and I am shy and quiet and I have know of him for quite a few years but it took all the courage I had to talk to him and I told him hi and wished him a merry Christmas and all I got back from him was oh ya ya u to so I don't know if he likes me or just likes to see me from a distance but not talk
PLEAAAAASE HELP ME!!!! I have a crush a man its been like 6 months, i go to his coffee shop like everyday, he sees me for like 7 years, at first he smiles to me, then one time he winked at me and i left the coffee shop and look at him and see him still staring and smiling, and i'm just smiling friendly, until now he's just staring at me and raise his eyebrows for like 2 seconds and i smile but he doesnt smile back.. please what should i do!!! i'm confident and i always dress sexy and everybody thinks i'm hot and i take care of myself but i don't know what to do and i don't know what he's trying to show me!!
hola mami he probably one of those fuck boys. do a experiment. dress sexy and write down how he acts then the next day cover your body and see how he acts
This guy in my class was staring at me seriously and i looked and back and he was still staring and i stared back for like 3 seconds and rurned back to my teacher
I smiled at him as being friendly but he was stoned face n lately he stares n trying to have a conversation with me....really bizarre pilot..am so lost !!!
I’m so trying this tomorrow! Little back story.. moved year ago, he looked into my car one day and tilted his head and just stared for a second, since then we have looked at each other everyday.. today I’ve searched this because it’s driving me nuts. I’m going in. I’m doing the whole “lingering stare smiley thingy” I’ll either look psycho and he will stop staring or his bells will go ding ding ding.. we shall see..
Ok listen, i caught myself actually doing that, (maybe you wont see this comment anyway), we met last friday (its monday today if you see this comment way later), and when she told me that she is 4 years older (i am 00 btw) than me i started doubting everything of her with questions like ‘does she have a boyfriend, does she have a husband, should i do anything, will i break their happiness, will she reject me straight away..’ and i gave up on making a move towards her even when i was in a group with her friends. I really need help before its too late, i think i have a perfect shot, can you help me see this from men’s side?
I gave up... now he observe me on a far... idk had patient for one year ... the only thing I got is mix signals .. so I gave up. Iike I don't need to se who is staring from afar( which makes me antsy) and btw is it normal for guy too observe a girl - like behavior ... idk what he is doing observation me .. can I get guys perception :) Thanks!
How do you know it's fear? perhaps them not approaching you is because they are happy in another relationship? Or maybe they are staring at something stuck in your teeth
Well we are in school and we were at the teacher center he wanted to sit by me but then a girl sit by me and he look sad but later we were on the carpet he did not want to sit by me can you please Make a video of this so I know
I been their where me and this guy stare at each other for a while then stop then we had a full on staring contents for like 20sec or so and he smile at me then I looked away what does that mean I was so confused and Wonder if he liked me or not but also I had a crush on him for the longest while
A Man was staring at me while I was with my Mom and that man was staring at Me and my mom and Also I felt A Little scared about talking to him and that’s Question he never responded Me Anything Like how come a Man stare at a 13 Year old Girl like what am soo confused and the only thing is why that I do not Like men or women looking at me and i mean that’s the Answer Why ... is I do not understand why people just keep on staring at me
So I was trying to do what you said. I saw this guy. He wouldn't stop staring at me in the eyes while passing by so I stared back than I just felt I might come across as weird or desperate and I looked away lol
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Ok so there's this guy at my gym. He works there and I see him all the time. I like him and I don't really know if he likes me. But here's the thing he always stares at me !!! I mean I'm not complaining but I don't know what to do. Every time I look back he will quickly look away but there are also times were he won't look away and we will just stare at each other for like 10 seconds. I don't know what to do I've tried smiling but its hard haha. What does this mean and how can I get him to smile at me because I've smiled at him before and he smiled back but know he just stares .... ALOT
Oh and sometimes I'll do this abb workout that's right to the side of his desk and and he will try to hide behind his computer and stare but I can still see him staring and when I look he will look at his computer screen
hannah arizmendi oh girl im going thru the same thing right now. theres this trainer at the gym i go to who stares at me alot and he's done the whole "have a good day & smiled (when im leaving)", we catch each other staring at each other sometimes but he's usually busy with clients so he can't really come up to me & talk to me (cause i guess he's in his work place) which i understand but im trying to give him hints without being that girl who tries too hard lol, lmk what happened with ur situation :)
Haha ya corinnah1987 well he still stares and lately he's been doing more of the "have a good day and smile " thing to and now I really like him but he still just stares but still won't talk to me !!
yeah im in the same boat as you girly....idk how to approach this situation since he's technically at work and im a golds gym member there so im just trying to be friendly with him and hopefully soon he'll get the point :)
lavazadoo I have a very similar situation with a guy who attends the same gym as me. We've been staring at each other for about 4 months now. In the past month though, every time I try to get close to him, he and his friends move away and start working out in another part of the gym. I'm confused because this week I think I heard his friend saying is he going to ask someone out on a date (may have been referring to me 🤔). I might have to forget about him because this is not going anywhere 😔.
let me tell this boy name Alexis he is s troublemaker so let's go into the story so what happen was we had a test I was doing my work then I look up he is just staring at me so it was getting awkward so I just look away but I hate this Dude.
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See me and my crush alway staring into each other eyes I feel like we both have the “I’m not finna talk to You you come talk to me” attitude
Same lmfao
Same here too and it drives me insane
Lol been there.
Samee
What happened?
This guy is a genius!
Dude I said this within the first 3 Second watching the very first video of him 🙌🏻 Fucking brilliant
My crush started the whole staring thing off. Then when I realised I wasn’t getting kidnapped by him and he was just paying me attention, which was about 4 months later I decided to to be brave and smile at him one day and guess what he did... turned and looked behind him to see who I was smiling at 😂😂😂🤦🏾♀️
This is happening to me too😬😆😆 I was so shame like fkk I don't like staring at anyone for too long unless there like Jason Mamoa...😜😆😆💯
I'm so late to the party but my crush almost walked into a pole at work we were staring so hard at each other. He was confused which way to go cause he had to walk pass me but definitely kept eye contact 🤦🏾🤭
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Same happened to me! Thats so Crazy!
Lmfao you've gotta stand there smiling at him like :) for like a minute lol. That's totally not weird.
You have a really nice voice, it's very comforting.
He was like listen😂 u can come and talk to me
Ami Barry 😆
Lol. He was like, "BOY" 😂🤣
Amina Barry 😂 i almost wanted to go tell him do you have something to say to me??? uuuughhh
I did it, and he held it, then he looked back with dreamy eyes, oxytocin surge filled the air💗
Everybody goes on date but never me.
perhaps you need to work on yourself first? You sound like you lack confidence
I'm more interested in comments rather than video 😂
The Male species are so bizarre.
The female species is bizarre and complex, much more than the male one ;)
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A man at work has been staring at me since I started the job four months ago. I started returning his gaze and held eye contact with him on many occasions. A situation at work threw us together and we had to speak to each other for the first time and I noticed he acted like a 14 year old boy who has met his first crush when I made the convo playful and flirty. I realised how terribly shy he is of me but I seen him not shy with others at work.
honifit he likkkkkessss yoooooou
honifit you 2 like each other. But maybe he is shy or doesn't know how to deal w this situation. Acting childish might not really been that. Maybe that's his personality . Or he doesn't know how to deal w this situation yet. So, stand by him and try to help him and supporting him on dealing w the situation. Probably you are more mature than him, indeed.
Ladies you also need to know that a man runs through all of the scenarios in his head trying to convince himself that you don't like him because it's easier then being rejected. I had a girl who gave all the right signs and stares once and i talked myself out of asking her out. One day out of the blue i asked her and she looked horrified.
Do teen boys do this as well?( like around 16 yrs).
( Also could you help me understand this)....
A lot of guys who I have thought liked me always did the same thing. They all froze and stared at me from afar or when sitting next to me and I wasn’t looking. Some guys have gone out of their way to choose to sit next to me randomly and never made eye contact and they looked so stiff and upright. They’d talk to everyone else but me and stare at me from afar after the class.
They’d always try to be around me but when it came to conversation it was so poor (filled with teasing or just awkward silence). Normally, when guys stare I pretend like I don’t notice because I feel like they’d feel embarrassed if I caught them especially if it was a one time thing and just how awkward it will be if I react . If I notice the guy does it frequently( not a one time thing) I’ll work up the courage most of the time to stare back at them once or twice and the guy normally quickly looks away or pretends they were looking at something else.
Guys only approach me with their friends in the background ( it’s a bit intimidating) and when they do most of the time they say nothing or they just say hi and don’t follow it up with anything else. This guy who stared at me for like three years , built the courage to randomly touch my hand one day but could never have eye contact with me or talk to me directly has been so confusing.
When I intentionally caught him staring he pretended to be looking at the clock so I just went back to pretending I couldn’t see and eventually tried to avoid looking at him at all unless I had to cause I felt he was too confusing . One day I said fuck it cause I thought he probably be over me by now and I was saying it was cold( referring to the room) and knew he was talking to me across the room and I thought to react and looked him dead in the eyes and said it’s cold and he replied it’s hot ( I thought he was gonna break the eye contact but we held it for like 7 seconds ) and I replied it’s cold and he replied it’s hot and it happened again until I eventually broke it and he hasn’t done anything more in response. I don’t understand.
@@purplesquare-1triangle966 most of the time, the guy likes you but is afraid to approach because you give a very hard or "don't talk to me" vibe, you may not feel it, but alot of guys especially if one likes you veryyyyyyy much, would feel that the vibe is not right and wouldn't approach you, or maybe you act like you have alot of options so most guys don't want to be cheaters and leave you alone, but yeah the guy you described defientley likes you but he is afraid of being rejected
But we both were looking straight dead into each other’s eyes though
Dats. Ashley hot
Ashley Banks same
Lol sometimes we feel like we might be made fun of and not genuine....
Same thing is happening to me but when I asked her number she questioned me why do you want my number I just said it's okay and left the place. She is on higher position. But every time when we have an eye contact it is for 3-4 secs once it was more longer may be 6 secs that time she came to my place to talk to someone else but instead of talking to him she kept looking into my eyes unconsciously. Always when we have an eye contact I feel like she is unconscious. Once I caught her happily blushing at me one finger in her mouth and once she was looking at me in a dirty way I felt embarrassed and look down by the way she was looking at me. Is she hiding it that she likes me?... please anybody can help me
@@jayumule3894when she asked why do you want her #, you should have said, because i want to get to know you better.
The reason she asked why do u want my number and then Keeps staring at you is because she wants to know if you want her number romantically or just as friends. She’s looking for signals that you do like her in that way.
I'm a friendly person so this is really challenging for men and me.
Sometimes its mutual and so natural. You cant help smiling and he comes straight to you.
But some dudes give you a dead stare that you even avoid them
Im going to try this ladies !! Wish me good luck 😩
As a guy, I approve this video
You really have a gift of understanding and insight. I believe as a woman I shouldn't have to put in so much "work" to receive the guys initial "like" for me. There is a fundamental problem if you will if the initial like is so hard to flourish.. The man's feelings is not strong enough to achieve the momentum to progress.
very true
If you think like that, you will only attract men who hit on everyone immediately.
As a man you can not just flirt with anyone immediately without risking being called a creep or whatnot.
Its like you didn't hear anything he just said wow. Unbelievable.
depends on the setting. At a bar sure you maybe right. At the gym you're dead wrong. at work etc. dead wrong.
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Oh my God. I'm being described in this vid
Omg this is exactly what has been going on between me and a guy at work for years. After being super cautious and holding back, I brought him lunch one day. He was appreciative. But recently he kept bringing up another female coworker and said that he liked her, completely out of the blue. She's in a completely different department. That hurt. So now I just treat him like everyone else (I'm that happy go lucky person) but he's wanting the attention again. I'm trying to get a transfer!
He was trying to make you jealous. I think he actually wanted you
@Madallas Mons I believe that. It's been a few years and he still acts the same. But because of the work dynamic we can never date. One of us would have to quit lol
I really like your calm démenour and voice…
My crush would stare at me all the time during one of our classes. So I approached him one day and asked to hang out. He got my number but never text me. He then completely ignored me and acted like I didn’t exist. I was left soooo confused!
ronea hart omg im going through the same situation
Any update from urs
Selveena Ersapah no
As guy it probably had nothing to do with you. Maybe his super broke at the moment, maybe his failing all his classes and can’t commit to a girlfriend, or worse he has a micro penis that his insecure about lol. Things aren’t always surface level. I didn’t make a move on really hot girl that liked me because I was broke at that time now it’s different, and she probably though I disliked her. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you, there are tons of outside variables at play.
Bang well that actually makes a lot of sense lol he did transfer a couple weeks later so you might be right lol
i don't know what it takes with these men especially over 50, they stare and stare until your uncomfortable then you let know you are interested and would like to get to know them and they still move so slow. i don't know if they are that unsure about themselves, men are just so complicated these days. what happen to saying hi, how r u? it's not rocket science!!!!
My brother you are so right cuz I'm like that if a woman look at me a certain way I can't figure out if she being nice she just being nice because you want to pick up on something that will let you know that she is not playing she'll serious cuz sometime women's gives different signals and mean something else you're 100% right my brother you're helping me and many more brothers that trying to figure things out about a woman thank you so much blessings to you peace out
Wow a video longer than 1 minute 3 seconds
This makes so much sense!!!
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Hahaha
I locked eyes,smiled and everytime he looked away and back at me i was still looking and smiling waiting for him to come over,what did he do? got off the bus and looked at me as the bus moved off
hey were do u live?? thishappened to me
@@rk-zu2do What happened to you? explain
@@princessb4412 the same thing locking eyes and smiling looking all the time and this happened in the bus.so this wat happened.
@@rk-zu2do so what stopped you from approaching the person?? don't think of any stupid chat up lines,you won't go far with that,just a simple 'hi what's your name??' and take it from there,if a woman is pretty,don't concentrate on that or even tell her that,cause she's heard it so many times before,i find the men from the UK are lacking a lot of confidence,work on your confidence,if a woman don't want to know,don't take it personal,you don't really know her?? and will find someone else instead
@@princessb4412 the last lines its complicated xplain in a easy manner
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Great advice !
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Oh geez just ask her out already. Or SHE should ask him out. Jesus.
you are wonderful
This happened when I was walking up to my work building and right when I was about to open the door, I felt eyes on me. I looked directly at the location where the stare might be coming from and there was this guy that works right across from me and always takes his break outside near my building just standing there in seriousness standing straight by the employee door with his chest puffed out and than his eyes softened as we locked eyes and he was going back and forth while smiling in delight trying to tell me something, but I have no clue. It was diluted too and shiny. It looked like there was aurora over his head, or maybe I was reading too much into it. We don't ever talk, but I pass by him every time I come out and I have attraction towards him. I'm sure he's taken and I am too, which I respect but I got lost in his warm eyes. I haven't stop thinking about him since Thursday and he looked like he wanted to approach me, but than I dropped my keys from my jacket packet and he went back into the building. I have no idea what suddenly happened!? What was he saying to me? What just happened. I could sense eyes on me for weeks for some reason and I had a sense of overwhelming emotions. He made me feel overwhelmed. I'm sure I scared him away from not saying hi, or anything. I doubt he'll be wanting to talk to me when I go back to work tomorrow. I wouldn't mind if we become friends. I feel so nervous around him now.
This helped me so much!! Thank you! 😊
I wish I saw this earlier !...after a year of staring at each other with loads of eye contact ( how can that not be obvs 😂) i finally gave him a smile 😂 i think he jumped coz he didn’t expect it 🙈🙈🙈..can’t wait to see what happens now 👌🙈..
JulesnJems , are you guys dating now?!?
I beg to differ. Isn't this manipulation? much less, he wants me to do the 1st step cause poor guy, he's shy. I'm a high value woman & he sees that I am. So that rules out any but that he is a cheap pervert entrapping me to his toxicity. We all have our insecurities all right, but it shouldn't be a mind game. Men used to go hunt, make & keep a family, go thru wars, and today he can't approach a girl he likes? wait a dang minute.. I'm bewildered. Any thoughtful comment is welcome.
Omgggg yes !!!!You’re the MAN at the end of the day say something or stop looking period ! It’s like they want you to chase them so they can still have their ego and their pride
Jesus…no wonder some of y’all end up alone. “Manipulation”? Yeah no, you’re definitely not a “high value” woman, just by this comment I can tell anyone would get tired of you in a matter of months. The OTHERS are the ones that determine if you’re of high value based on your personality, attractiveness, etc. and personally I wouldn’t touch you with a broom stick. Manipulation…hahaha such a weird statement. Are you the type of person that also calls all men “rap¡sts” too?
We live in a time where men get rarely female attention, it could be new to him and most men live quiet to unsociable lives. It has nothing to do with you, but with them. Don't make it seem as sneaky as you think it is.
Ohhh that makes sense now 😞😞😞
The guy at work I like stares but never says anything. We were talking and he just looked into my eyes, he didnt look away or smile or anything. At first I thought he wanted to throw down lol. When I walk by a couple times he looked right at me but also didn't smile or say anything. I feel like maybe I was bothering him or like he's wondering why I keep walking by
I wish I could talk personally with this guy talking
This happened to me today! We were in the gym, I looked up and he was looking right at me, staring. So I stared back. We held eye contact for a long time! at least 20 seconds. Then he kinda smiled and looked away and I did too. then a minute later we both did it again. I held it and he did too as long as he could then shook his head. What does that mean?
He likes you
Thankyou!! :)))
Angie Doss maybe he likes you. But guess what? Maybe he expected more "action " from you. What i mean is that he wanted you to approach him , or to move the step forward. What if he's not as outspoken as he seems, and he's shy???
He is shy
Yes a friend of mine has this Asian guy that states a lot nearly every Sunday he is a volunteer for the homeless then he will go by close to where she is standing talks to other people gives them a hug then he walks off I think he likes her
You are good
So I like this guy and I am shy and quiet and I have know of him for quite a few years but it took all the courage I had to talk to him and I told him hi and wished him a merry Christmas and all I got back from him was oh ya ya u to so I don't know if he likes me or just likes to see me from a distance but not talk
I love Raphael From Ferry district Jamaica!!!! He has mixed hair tall handsome dark my dream I can't stop thinking bout him.
But what if you are shy?
This better work 😤😂
Update lol
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I have a crush a man its been like 6 months, i go to his coffee shop like everyday, he sees me for like 7 years, at first he smiles to me, then one time he winked at me and i left the coffee shop and look at him and see him still staring and smiling, and i'm just smiling friendly, until now he's just staring at me and raise his eyebrows for like 2 seconds and i smile but he doesnt smile back.. please what should i do!!! i'm confident and i always dress sexy and everybody thinks i'm hot and i take care of myself but i don't know what to do and i don't know what he's trying to show me!!
hola mami he probably one of those fuck boys. do a experiment. dress sexy and write down how he acts then the next day cover your body and see how he acts
You don't know how to talk to someone?
This guy in my class was staring at me seriously and i looked and back and he was still staring and i stared back for like 3 seconds and rurned back to my teacher
I smiled at him as being friendly but he was stoned face n lately he stares n trying to have a conversation with me....really bizarre pilot..am so lost !!!
He might not realize he’s stoned faced, I’ve been told I look really mean and unapproachable, but I don’t even realize it
I’m so trying this tomorrow! Little back story.. moved year ago, he looked into my car one day and tilted his head and just stared for a second, since then we have looked at each other everyday.. today I’ve searched this because it’s driving me nuts. I’m going in. I’m doing the whole “lingering stare smiley thingy” I’ll either look psycho and he will stop staring or his bells will go ding ding ding.. we shall see..
How did it go?
Ok listen, i caught myself actually doing that, (maybe you wont see this comment anyway), we met last friday (its monday today if you see this comment way later), and when she told me that she is 4 years older (i am 00 btw) than me i started doubting everything of her with questions like ‘does she have a boyfriend, does she have a husband, should i do anything, will i break their happiness, will she reject me straight away..’ and i gave up on making a move towards her even when i was in a group with her friends. I really need help before its too late, i think i have a perfect shot, can you help me see this from men’s side?
I gave up... now he observe me on a far... idk had patient for one year ... the only thing I got is mix signals .. so I gave up. Iike I don't need to se who is staring from afar( which makes me antsy) and btw is it normal for guy too observe a girl - like behavior ... idk what he is doing observation me .. can I get guys perception :) Thanks!
Men stare at me all of the time and sometimes I just smile at the shy men.
I am not patient enough to wait on someone who gives me all the signals,but is afraid to approach me,sorry!
How do you know it's fear? perhaps them not approaching you is because they are happy in another relationship? Or maybe they are staring at something stuck in your teeth
Well we are in school and we were at the teacher center he wanted to sit by me but then a girl sit by me and he look sad but later we were on the carpet he did not want to sit by me can you please Make a video of this so I know
This is so hard with COVID. lol we have to have Masks 😷
I been their where me and this guy stare at each other for a while then stop then we had a full on staring contents for like 20sec or so and he smile at me then I looked away what does that mean I was so confused and Wonder if he liked me or not but also I had a crush on him for the longest while
What if you're shy and when you go smile... You look like a fucking Gargoyle cuz your awkward too?
Maybe best not to smile, or you'll scare him. 🙁
A Man was staring at me while I was with my Mom and that man was staring at Me and my mom and Also I felt A Little scared about talking to him and that’s Question he never responded Me Anything Like how come a Man stare at a 13 Year old Girl like what am soo confused and the only thing is why that I do not Like men or women looking at me and i mean that’s the Answer Why ... is I do not understand why people just keep on staring at me
I clearly missed the signs, smdh.
This guy Knows A Lot, he should have Lots Of WOMAN!🤗
So I was trying to do what you said. I saw this guy. He wouldn't stop staring at me in the eyes while passing by so I stared back than I just felt I might come across as weird or desperate and I looked away lol
what mean his friends told me that he likes you and he wants to get know me
He's too shy to ask you himself so he sent a message.
This is what confuses me.
Some women are friendly just because they're being friendly and nothing more.
Some are friendly to show interest.
Some aren't friendly to not give you the wrong idea.
Some aren't friendly because they like you.
Nevermind.
Trust in Jesus.
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Have you done a similar video where the genders are reversed?
Yeah he expected me to approach him. I am too shy for that. Oh well it just wasn't meant to be. He was too young for me anyways.
Ok so there's this guy at my gym. He works there and I see him all the time. I like him and I don't really know if he likes me. But here's the thing he always stares at me !!! I mean I'm not complaining but I don't know what to do. Every time I look back he will quickly look away but there are also times were he won't look away and we will just stare at each other for like 10 seconds. I don't know what to do I've tried smiling but its hard haha. What does this mean and how can I get him to smile at me because I've smiled at him before and he smiled back but know he just stares .... ALOT
Oh and sometimes I'll do this abb workout that's right to the side of his desk and and he will try to hide behind his computer and stare but I can still see him staring and when I look he will look at his computer screen
hannah arizmendi oh girl im going thru the same thing right now. theres this trainer at the gym i go to who stares at me alot and he's done the whole "have a good day & smiled (when im leaving)", we catch each other staring at each other sometimes but he's usually busy with clients so he can't really come up to me & talk to me (cause i guess he's in his work place) which i understand but im trying to give him hints without being that girl who tries too hard lol, lmk what happened with ur situation :)
Haha ya corinnah1987 well he still stares and lately he's been doing more of the "have a good day and smile " thing to and now I really like him but he still just stares but still won't talk to me !!
yeah im in the same boat as you girly....idk how to approach this situation since he's technically at work and im a golds gym member there so im just trying to be friendly with him and hopefully soon he'll get the point :)
lavazadoo I have a very similar situation with a guy who attends the same gym as me. We've been staring at each other for about 4 months now. In the past month though, every time I try to get close to him, he and his friends move away and start working out in another part of the gym. I'm confused because this week I think I heard his friend saying is he going to ask someone out on a date (may have been referring to me 🤔). I might have to forget about him because this is not going anywhere 😔.
let me tell this boy name Alexis he is s troublemaker so let's go into the story so what happen was we had a test I was doing my work then I look up he is just staring at me so it was getting awkward so I just look away but I hate this Dude.
Hey I need some advice
Mabey u could help me plz
I hear weird scary music in the back. does any one else hear that?
Men are too complicated. I gave up even wondering a long time ago and have zero expectations of anything ever going anywhere with men.
Can i have your email? I really need your advice!! :)
you know nothing~ish as much as I know something~ish
He’s weird
ahahahah