Does He Like Me Or Is He Just Being Nice
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In this video, dating coach Ryan Patrick answers the question "does he like me or is he just being nice" to unpack the differences you'll see in men if they are one or the other.
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Signs that I like a guy : 1) Avoid eye contact 2) Be awkward and standoffish when he talks to me 3) Run away 4) Have an entire relationship in my head with him without his knowing
This is soo funny! Sounds like me, especially number 4 😂
Going through this right now ugh!
LITERALLY WHAT I DO LOL
@@axsunza This is possibly why guys don't like me LOL
Literally! I can carry a conversation with any guy, but my crush 😖 i just lose my words and get stuck 😭
Nice to know that no guy has ever been interested in me ever
Hey Jazmine! Just know most guys "play" the nice guy role even if they are interested in you because it's safer for them, especially at younger ages. For guys, there is also always the lingering fear of rejection they show signs of interest in. I'm sure guys have been interested in you, but just know *most* guys have a very difficult time of expressing it 😉
Same sis ):
Jasmine your awesome! Better question are you interested in anyone? Start there. Bless
@BeetleBUMxX easier said than done. Honestly, this was just a joke, I wasn't expecting the attention. It is true tho. If anyone has ever been interested, they've never shown it but I honestly don't even care enough anymore so I guess all hope is lost for me
Same here, and not even thinking about that silly highschool stuff - we’re talkin’ not even once in the 16 yrs that I’ve already been an adult!
“1. He’ll lick his lips” you see the problem is I can’t tell since we’re wearing face masks now...😅😂
sadly true😂
Omg
Ikr 😭😭😭
Here’s an interesting face mask 😷 cue that goes with the fan. I have a guy that adjusts his face mask a lot when he’s chatting me up ... like he’s super hot and he has to fan his mask. I did that the other day when I standing next to him.
🤣😂
Well for me it's pretty easy: if i like the guy myself, he's definitely not into me. If i think he's a creepy weirdo, he definitely likes me.
LOL SAME WHY US 😭😩
Welcome to my life 😜
Yea that's bout right
😂
This is the problem I always have. It really kills my own confidence.
I don’t assume someone like me until that someone asks me out otherwise I don’t wanna get my 2 brain cells tired
Great way to go about it, Huda!
Huda,
Agree, there is no point jumping ahead of the game.
Yup let the guy initiate
😂 Yes, that's so much easier.
I wish I could do that, but I overthink everything and I can't stop myself. xd
Been dating myself for 3 years now and I think I need to break up
I feel that
PammyWammy i feel that oof y’all let’s have self break up support group chat
@@singingforyou3262 yes please!
I hear that.
Im married to myself (lol)
::When your husband is just being nice to you:: 😳😟
😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😭😭😭😂😂
Exactly!!!
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1) he licks his lips
2) he’ll control the conversation
3) his eyebrows will spasm
4) he’ll have better posture
5) he’ll air out his shirt
6) his voice will go higher
7) he’ll be staring
8) he’ll maintain eye contact
9) he’ll compliment you
10) he’ll bumble his words
11) he’ll escalate through touch
12) he’ll seek validation from you
he always stares and maintains eye contact, he sometimes airs out his shirt and he also sits facing towards me in class
Reading this makes me think omfg he does this..but like no what if he is just being r e a l l y nice
Some guys don’t maintain eye contact cause they might be shy or they might not want u to think they like u. So they’ll take small peeks when ur not looking and will look away as soon as u look at them.
Yes - this happens a lot with me- but I still can't get a Hot Indian Pakistani or White guy to ask me out - WTF
@@jenny-DD how about a hot Italian
**when all the signs say he's interested but my low self-esteem and general anxiety say otherwise so I brush it off until I get a 100% clear confession**
UPDATE: It's been over a year since I made this comment, and I just wanted to thank everyone for being so kind and even sharing their own stories in the replies as well. It's nice to know I'm not alone on this. Lately I've been practicing this sort of routine where I constantly compliment myself even if I don't feel like doing it, and it's been surprisingly effective at building my self-esteem and overall confidence. And although I'm not able to accurately tell if a person is interested or not, I've learned that sometimes we just gotta take that leap of faith and just go for it. If it works out, then it works out. But if not, that's okay too. It just means it's time to let go and not use up any more precious time trying to be with that person. The right person for you will come with time, it just might take a little bit of trial and error. We've got this ^·^
That's me😔
Same😖😭
Literally me
*then i still feel like hes just pranking me*
ponyo Bruh YES. When I was in school, my childhood crush got a few of his friends to ask me if I liked him, and me thinking it was just a prank and worrying that they'd make fun of me, my dumb ass said "ew no!" Turns out he got pretty upset when he heard that and I ruined all chances I had with him 😭 I tried to confess to him a few years later after I grew a pair, but it seems I scarred him and he just ignored me... It was so embarrassing and now I just stay to myself unless the other person makes an extremely clear move first.
Notice how the screen keeps turning grey when he's not into you
Now if only our vision went gray when he's not into you - that would be a sure sign !
No wonder my screen is always grey...
😂😂😂😂😂
Lol!
😂😂😂ik
Then, there's the scariest guy of all - the one who is so smooth and knows the moves to try to suck you in, but in actuality he wants something from you, he wants to use you for something, but you have no way of knowing until it's too late.
I dated one like that. Smh 🤦🏻♀️ worst mistake of my life.
Yep, a narcissist 😩😭 was with one for 7yrs! Got out last year☺️🙌
Been there. Oh God no.
Narcissist at his finest
yep .....so true
ASK HIM! 😂
I'm a man. We're dumb as a bag of rocks.
The direct approach with the score! 🙌🏼
Yeah! And then I'll end up getting rejected and things will get awkward between us lmao.
but guys like to hunt!??? so confused
I did. He said he was, but DIDN'T show it, so I let them 🥭!
@@NobodyWantsYourPity I know I’m nervous about that happening too and I’ve liked my crush for over 4 months 😔
I'm a bit confused cause I don't know if he's really doing all of those or it's all in my head
LOL that's just it! That's why we want to look for a handful of these signs versus one or two so we know we're not imagining it 😉
@@datingcoachryanpatrick thank you for the video btw! today I saw my guy and I began to notice those little things. every time i talked or smiled at him he'd smile back and raise his eyebrows (and he's the charming kind). when I stared at him he smiled at me and kept looking
rafaela try tarot reading . They actually help❤️✨
There r plenty of them on yt just search it up
@@lyra331 Nice!!! Once you know the signs, it's funny how quickly you can read men :) Good stuff!
😂
Now I‘m depressed
Don't get depressed on me, Blue! 🙂 Just understand, the dating game is a volume play. Now that you know the difference between the signs a guy gives you when he's interested versus just being nice, you'll be able to sort through the ones who aren't so much faster. It's just a matter of time before a cool guy is going to step in and show you that genuine interest 🙂You've got the tools now!
i liked this before i even watched the video
@Planet Claire Has Big Hair Nobody should make you fel that way
I still miss Vine same
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Him: Displays all signs hes being nice
Me in denial: I'm sure he still likes me
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BHahah honestly me!! 😂😂😂
It’s the opposite for me.
Him: displays all signs he’s into me.
Me in denial: nah. He’s just being nice
Me
@@gbeana81 😂😂
“ He’ll lick his lips”
Me: “ But my crush just has really chapped lips....”
Eeek 😬 Maybe slip him some gloss?
When they lick their lips they look like Jabba the hut.
poor thing.
@@datingcoachryanpatrick I see that video now! "Applying lip gloss gone wrong gone sexual" 🤣🤣🤣
Lol give him a lip scrub
Ladies, I am engaged to an engineer. He showed NONE of these signs 😂
An engineer is definitely more mechanical and industrious would have at least raised one eyebrow
Did he just say it outright?
Dude acts like there are only 2 types of men. I know better.
Well time to release him. Its Not the Right Guy. Lol
Been there😅.
I remember thinking about I hadn't a clue about his intentions.
"A guy who is just being nice to you ..." I cracked up every time omg i couldn't not say this😂
Same lol 😂😂 the gray scale makes it so dramatic
Haha thanks guys!
SAME🤣🤣🤣
#6 & #9 for me!!! Omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣
666th like
"Guys don't give the clearest signs to show you that they're interested"
The whole entire population of girls, ever: wE kNoW
AMEN
How do men and women romantically bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
Most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them and holding their hands and be touchy-feely towards each other, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them or holding their hands or be touchy-feely towards each other). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.
Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.
Women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man.
Women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way.
Most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father.
Most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers.
The bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist. The friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view.
How can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other? Also, males and females are both mentally and physically different from each other, and that would effect the bonding between them.
@@icysnow57cold64
Boys like girls, because people don’t like looking at the same thing all the time, so girls are different from boys so they like it because it’s different
@@psychott6 I still don't understand how men and women can have a strong bond with each other. Women are more comfortable touching and complimenting each other (unlike men). It may or may not be based on sexual attraction but rather love, comfort and affection. They seem to enjoy the company of women more than men.
Women tend to get along better with other women. Why? They share the same issues, situations, life experiences, etc. So they tend to get one another and relate.
Also, Women, in general are sensitive, vocal, and are not ashamed to admit their fears, apprehensions and insecurities. They face problems head on even if they don't have a solution. They talk it over, seek counsel, empathy and compassion, and, yes, they cry. And, they are not ashamed of it. It is cathartic for them. It releases stress. Now we know why they live longer.
They just share a camaraderie with other women. They are sisters, friends, mothers, aunts, grandmothers, next-door neighbors, colleagues and peers, and, in some cases, lovers. They are different and unique. They are comfortable with their womanhood, sexually and their individuality.
Me after this video:
1) wakes up
2) goes to school
3) sees my crush
4) kisses him
5) become girlfriend and boyfriend
Oops typo it’s 2,3,4,5 then one
Lol
Wow....it was a dream??
Ooooooooof
U should have done 4,5,1,2,3
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Well ladies and gentlemen...he’s just being nice 🙃
Story of my life 😥
That's all. Cus if he likes, he should be confident to tell u
Patricia N.Aduam why are men the only ones who are expected to be confident? I don’t wanna date a lady who isn’t confident either 🤷🏻♂️ go ahead and ask a guy out if you like him.
🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃
@@mjpapa19 Exactly I wonder the same thing too, why men the only one have to be confident? Why women can't be confident too? I'm not scared to go ahead ask a man out if he's single, if we both like each other out too
Honestly. I have come to the conclusion that a when a guy actually likes me, ill know. Ill know through his actions and how he carries himself. He either likes you or he doesn’t.
Unless he is hiding his feelings. Men are extremely good at that. In high school I completely hid my crush on this girl for years and she never had a clue nor did any of her gossipy friends. In college when she found out I liked her she was shocked and didn't believe it, she thinks i made that up for some reason. I guess she can't accept the fact that she was clueless about what I actually felt.
Adam yes you’re absolutely right. However, thats more for in a situation where they don’t talk much i suppose.( the guy and the girl). But im more so referring to when a giy and a girl are basically talking or are about to date. The girl puts in alot of work and he doesnt put much effort into the relationship. In that sense, through his actions, ill know whether he really like me or not
@@kimberlyjanice8267 In that case then yeah. If a man isn't investing then hes not interested. When we like a girl we put it all in cause we want her. Also keep in mind that feelings are fickle and sometimes a passion can burn really intense but only burn very briefly. Experiences like that will make you wiser.
Adam you are right. I am praying for the right man to come in my life one day. I dont want an intense fire that will burn out soon. I want something that’ll last a life time of happiness. And thats really hard to find nowadays to be honest
a guy said he wanted me then was nothing but friendly for the next 5 days, he's online but in my gut I'm realising he's just messing with me.
Best parts of the video we can all agree on:
* When the screen goes gray *
* When he uses the sad tone *
* The Bored Stare *
" A guy who's just being nice to you..."
I'm here for these reasons. 😂
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Lmao same
the biggest sign was when I caught him drawing a picture of me and he got extremely flustered and red. yep, life’s good.
Lucky
Sis- if you don't marry him-
my crush made out with me was he just being nice or what
that's not being nice😂😂 he likes you
Yup, I agree with Lucy 🙂
Nah. Def just being nice. A French kiss means he just wants to be friends also.
THIS HAPPENED TO ME AS WELL. I french kiss my crush in our graduation, but i know he's just being nice.
Ohh you are so beautiful, girl! No, does not sounds like your crush was just being nice.
A guy at work said " hi" ...is he into me?
haaaahahahahaha yes I think he's TOTALLY into you!!
LMFAOOOO
LMOAOAO MEEE
😂😂🤣
An I come to your wedding?😂😂😂
The fact that he likes and comments on everyone's comment is just amazing and show that he's a good person
is he showing these signs or is it just because we’re high: a novel
me, who's actually high: 🔴👄🔴
@@relaxolotl788 me whos just getting high
When my crush turns out to be the nice guy...
My life sucks
Galll ikr...🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Oof sameeeee
Same
Me to
Ryan, I love how you change your voice when saying, "He's just being nice to you." It lets us know what we need to remember. ;-)
Thanks Blue Bell!
I feel like I noticed some of the traits from my crush in this vid but I just convince myself I was dreaming and hallucinating everything
Sometimes they say they're voice gets higher, sometimes it gets lower. Who the hell knows.
I cant take this vid seriously. I find the demonstrator too funny HAHAHHAHA
Thanks so much Paris!
Paris Grae Saladino when the screen house black and white are the funniest😂
Same lol
He's cute too HAHAHAHAHA
yeah esp the "Good report" part haha
Women should be asking, do I really like this guy...? The eyebrow thing is hilarious.
It's funny, there was this guy who liked me and his eye brows did move a lot but I never knew that was a sign. However, I knew from other signs he liked me.
Him: His eyebrows will spasm
YA romance writers: free real estate
Ryan- love how you get right to the point of the subject matter - no hyperbole like some other coaches
I cry whenever the screen turns grey and his face turns serious 😂😂
I'm here for the gray screens. 😂
All those signs were true ... but he was just a fck boy lol ... blocked him after a while
Girl, same
Same
Same same same
Squirrel Bae good for you girl
cathy2000 oh girl ur too innocent. U don’t need to know
I straight out asked him OVER THE PHONE “where is this going? We text more than me & my best friend” and he said he saw us more as just friends bc our career paths didn’t line up. By me asking, I got to move on and knew the truth. And it hurt because I knew that I had convinced myself to like him from the very beginning when I knew we weren’t compatible. So don’t waste time ladies
So your saying just to straight out ask men where its going oppose from this?
charity charity yes!! Especially if you’ve been talking for over 3 months!! Why waste time & play games with these guys!? They’ll respect you for it bc you had the courage to find out. It’s a straight forward question, no games
My crush stared at me today at the hall for the whole time. And I was like 😳
I love how his expression during the nice guy parts says "Girl, move on! He's not interested." It's honestly what kept me watching this video. :D
Haha I like that! Yes, you see those signs, time to move along! 😄
If he makes a little joke when he's talking to you, or laughs when you make a funny remark, I've found that's a sign of interest. If he just keeps the conversation neutral and doesn't joke or pick up on any attempt of yours at humor, he's just being nice.
Stephanie ok he does that but he also does that to everyone
true
Nah. The first part is right, guys will laugh at your jokes (even the dumb ones) if they’re interested. Him having a dry conversation or not joking isn’t as cut and dry. Some guys social skills aren’t as good, many don’t have as much confidence as they should while some just aren’t funny guys. He might still be interested but too shy/scared to make a move because he doesn’t have the best conversational skill set to create chemistry with the girl he likes.
Other day, I was in the closet to grab something and she walked past me and said " have fun in the closet." And shut the door on me lol closed it. The other day, I was riding a machine down the hallway and she said " I want a ride." But she hates riding the machine I ride she said. Or she puts her leg out in front of me and say " watch out." WHEN I'M DRIVING. TODAY, I was moping the floor and she walked past me and said " You missed a spot." SARCASM. I said " no really?" SARCASM. She turn around and smiled at me and laugh. She's been teasing me a little and playful aka I think of flirt but idk man. One day she sat with me at lunch (alone) before people come in, she never sits in the kitchen, usually at her desk, happened once. I just don't get why she only talks to me a little when no one is around? Like Friday, we barely spoke but the end of the day, I was leaving to go home, she said " YOUR LEAVING?!?!? WHAT? " Is she flirting with me/playful teasing me?
I wish I watched this video in 2019 when I was so confused about a coworker’s feelings toward me. This confirms everything!
So now u know- it's time to move on
Yeah, I am reflecting on all of the past dates and communication, it is very clear either the guys were being nice, they were passing the time or just to hook up. This is great to look for going forward. Thanks!
“A guy who is just being nice to you... will never be sexual with you” 😂😂😂
On the flip side, a man who actually loves you will usually not have sex on his mind either. When we love a girl we just want to hold her, cuddle and squeeze her. Sex is an afterthought ONLY when the love is real. The reason for that is because since we care for her as a person we seriously don't want to fuck it up by introducing a volatile and possibly undermining element like sex just yet.
Wait👏till👏marriage 👏👏👏👏👏
@@Adam-cc9ny well...great to hear men like you still exist🤗
@@Adam-cc9ny ........You're not an American guy, are you...?
@@chole4615 Oh. And have to deal with bad sex forever? Hell no.
Ryan, your advice is great at any stage. I'm a 62 year old divorcee and can tell you it's the same with men in my age group. Thank you.
Aww thanks! I'm glad you feel that way! Appreciate you watching and chiming in on this thread 🙂
You know actual single men in that age group? I can't find any.
A big one for me is his level of curiosity. If he is interested in a personal relationship, he wants to know more about you, and no detail seems too small. I've found if a guy isn't interested, he may ask a cursory question, but does not seem invested in the response or let it lead to more conversation. Information gathering, for guys, is a telltale sign. I think this isn't just a positive sign in the getting to know you phase, but continues throughout the relationship. When his curiosity about your day, your thoughts, your likes/dislikes evaporates, I think it spells trouble.
Good job Ryan. Love the live animations lol. Keeps you in tune to what your saying very real. Blessings.
I don’t need a guy that treats me like that. I rather love myself.
How do you talk to a guy without having a heart attack. Im around him and my heart beats faster then the the speed of light
Yes!
Make your feet do the thinking & force yourself to walk to him or sit near him
Thank you very much Ryan! I find it helps. I don't want to be at risk on getting my heartbroken again if I mistake a guy liking me.
when the screen goes gray my heart drops. Like not because I'm comparing it to a guy. It just really hits hard when he says "He's probably not into you"
The thing is I do notice these signs and many boys are interested but they never do something more so as in to take things a step further .😂😅😅😅
Yup, that next step is the terrifying part for the guy. By giving him lots of eye contact and smiling, that helps boost his confidence to make the move with you 😉
Keep in mind that 99% of the time we are simply not interested enough. We are biologically programmed to literally notice every, and I mean EVERY, girl in the room. Just because a girl catches our attention does not mean she catches our interest. We are of two minds: Rational/Biological. Our animal biological side is always horny and lusting after everything with legs, but our rational/logical side calculates, reasons, and measures risk and ultimately checks our behaviour when we calculate that our biological attraction to something is not worth it.
sorry for the chicks out there, this is me
eden thorn oof do you mind if I ask you some questions girls want to know lmaooo
The eyebrow action was cracking me up!
The funny thing is guys really do this ALL THE TIME! Glad you got a nice laugh from it Yo 😂😂
You have tick many boxes on how I have felt over the year, to the point I finally build an invisible Berlin Wall to help me through to understanding the mixed message I would get from men, thank you for sharing. It has been a light bulb moment. Kate, uk
This is informative yet entertaining cause every time he mentions one of these I'm aware of, I crack up!😂
If he likes you he should tell you! And if you think he likes you, be direct - ask him instead of beating around the bush. _Would save a whole lot of suspense and frustration._ Sure, you might get rejected or feel embarrassed, but it's in the clear and you can move on. Best bet is to stay away from guys.
Imagine a world where everyone was just honest ... that would be so much easier
But those are the fun phases
Hmmm that would be really awkward asking him directly, hey do u like me? Is there any proper way to ask him🤔
@@sujoe6920 I'm not a guru, lol just another girl that was head over heels a guy who didn't recriporate.
To answer your question, I told him through text after playing useless mind games.
*A snippet of our texts:*
I told him, "erm, i have feelings for you."
He said, "But I don't like you." It hurt like a b****, I was so sure he liked me, i did my research and he displayed the signs that he liked me! Maybe it faded overtime, maybe I overestinated our bond?!
Anyways, I told him it was fine and that I'm sorry for making things awkward. The thing that sucked was that we were in the same friendship group - had a few months of school left, so seeing him in college every day after that was hard. I went to the toilets to sob, I didn't have anyone who I could tell; anyone that would comfort me. I never was good at socialising and I lost a friend that tolerated me and was nice to me.
Idk how he felt, but he avoided me, made remarks about me. He even outed our convo to his other girl friend. Love how she encouraged him to make snide remarks about me in my presence.
Overall, it wasn't a pleasant experience.
Perhaps you're lucky enough not to encounter him after or maybe he won't be immature about it. I could've waited but I got impatient.
I wanted closure and I'm free now from the "what ifs". Of course, from time to time my mind wanders what was wrong with me etc. I'm glad he rejected me tbh. Geez, this is long, if you got this far, thanks for your time 🤟
--lonely, depressed me--
Insha girl tq for the reply. I’m so sorry that he treated u that way. But U deserve better. There is someone who is praying to have someone like u. Believe that. Now that U know how he feels about U, u just save the time. No need to waste time thinking about whether he likes u or not. Sure it hurts 😢 but trust me something amazing is happening soon. Hugs 🤗 and God bless ❤️
My bf has been dating me for 4 years now...And his voice is still high when he talks to me...
Oh.Cute ❣
Awww, cute
I once mistook a karaoke friend's repeated and glowing compliments about my singing voice to be flirty but this was the one time I should have taken something somebody said literally! He just liked the way I sang, but that's not a bad thing at all.
he sits _right_ next to me in class and i can seehim staring at me in my peripheral . we chat about deep things and he shared secrets and i toldim mine and what i _like_ doing.he called me talented, he literally said that i should be on 'got talent. oml a _keeper_
Update?
Well ... looks like no one has ever liked me ......
The " A guy who's just being nice to you" were so funny haha! Great video!
This was super helpful thanks! I love the fade outs where you're acting like the guy who isn't interested...the contrast is very telling!
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Colleague of mine pretty much did majority of what you said of guys who are interested in me. I just had that vibe and feeling from him. This just confirmed my suspicions haha.
I love the way you show how the guy will speak, body and facial language ! I'm a new sub
Haha thanks Catherine! Glad to have you on the channel 🙂
I've been talking to a boy every Sunday during church. He's an amazing person and I couldn't help but fall for him. Lately, he's been talking to me, interested in learning about me, sits around me, and always seems to be trying to impress me in some way. I truly am feeling maybe there is something there, but I'm not sure. I have some doubts still, and its hurtful to think about. I just want some clarity
Hey Samantha! Based on what you've said so far, it sounds like you're in a great position with this boy right now. My best advice would be to let him keep doing what he's doing, slowly pursuing you. I know doubts can creep up in your head, but just enjoy the fact that you're both clearly having fun with the interactions you've had together so far... all positive signs! Don't focus on the result of making him your boyfriend. He's naturally progressing that direction with you already 😉
One tip I can give you is to ask him questions and try to find out what kinds of activities he likes. If he mentions one you like, let him know. You can say "hey, that would be fun to maybe do together sometime." If he's shy, that should help him build confidence with you 🙂
Since it's a pandemic and all, please do videos like this but when the social interactions are in TEXTING only, like online chats or through social media, etc. That would be super helpful.
Another way to tell if a dude is into you. Stare at him from across the room. If he is staring at you too, break contact for a second or two, then look back. If he's still staring, yep. The way to get him to approach you? Keep looking back at him. That's why it's called a come hither look. (If he's not into you he won't ever look back or even notice you're looking.)
Great advice as always Ryan! Thank you 🙏🏻 😊
You're welcome, Magic Baby!
Ryan you're so fun & interactive with your fellow audience, you had me laughing everytime the screen turned grey. Love your type of down-right-and-honest personality, whats your Zodiac- starsign ?
Thanks Miss B! I'm a Virgo 😉
You're the best relationship coach.. Thanks Ryan.
I gave this a thumbs up just because I found this video to have a hilarious presentation!
I'm a simpleton like that.😌
Haha, When the picture becomes black and white
His energy fishes me
I have a guy that I like, we're really good at making eye contact with each. And one time he needed to read something for an assignment he had, and he kept on looking up to talk to me as he was reading
So true on the eyebrows, and posture not always stand straight up but also lean on something. My voice goes deeper, not higher. This guy pretty good.
Idk what I was expecting, but this video is just fabulous. Thanks for the pointers. Cheers.
I received a mix reaction from him. I can feel like he interested in me but sometimes I'm not sure. Maybe because we work in the same place or we are different in religions. I'm not sure. I realize sometimes he mirrors my action, he uses deeper voice, teasing with weird jokes when no one around and eye contact sometimes makes me confused whether I'm amused him or he interested in me. I don't show any reaction because I'm worried its a one-sided love again.
Stay away from those workplace romances, guys! They rarely work out and cause all sorts of problems... If you haven't watched my video "Should I Date A Guy At Work?," watch it here ----> czcams.com/video/LpjEMwDv48U/video.html . Hope that helps 🙂
Omg, you've just described my exact situation. :O in my case, he is also younger than me, even childish. I don't know if it's worth the effort honestly cuz' it does not seem only one sided but also prone to rupture if it ever happens.
@@iulianaherghiligiu4524 this guy is also 4 years younger than me. I try to avoid but it has been almost 7 years now, we are still in the same situation.
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Yes. I try to avoid it. But it seems that we even barely see each other every day since we are working on different projects and different scopes of work. I have seen your video but almost 80% might not happen to us because our job requirement is different. But every time we could talk to each other (at least once a week) the conversation is like continue from where we stop. Are there any possibilities that he didn't show any effort since i didn't show any sign that i'm interested in him? How far does a man scare of rejection like women?
@@laptopreader Oh gosh, he's 4 years younger than me too.. the hell is happening? :)) He's also on another project and the company has no policies against relationships. (not that it can happen...) He's working in IT and I am a data entry operator, no similarities in projects at all.
It's hard, I know.. I really think about giving chances to some other guys, this relationship is clearly not going to go anywhere.
If it took so much time and nothing happened it's clear that is not worth it, it's just infatuation, we really need to find somebody who would show us the same love. In my case, I showed that I like him and I received only a mix of cold and hot type of behavior and it's not enough isn't it?
Aww the high voice thing is super endearing. 😂
Love how short n to the point ur videos are! Plus, ur funny!!!
Thank you Ryan for your valuable and insightful video! I was married for over 17 yrs and 20 yrs with my ex.. So I am in need of a crash course. When the pandemic is under control, I will be armed with the tools for dating in the 21st century. Definitely, a far cry from the times of Jane Austen or Bridgerton.
Love these videos... keep them coming Ryan! Very true and to the point & having been there and done it - made all these cock ups with men in my teens - mid 20s, still hilarious to read all the comments to these videos :-)
Thanks Jody! Yes, I'm loving the comments too. Some of them are quite 😂
All of these signs show that he likes me, but my self esteem won’t allow me stop being judgmental 😫😫😫
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I like this guy is hilarious when he's describing the just nice guy and great advice!
part of why i like this video is ryan has a lot of tips that i haven't heard before
Good to know that my boyfriend likes me considering literally all of these fit him, hehe
Where is the third type of guy, the socialy akward nerd
That is the one im trying to figure out
I really enjoy watching and listening to you. You are so Fanny. I’m enjoying it a LOT 😂
U are spot on...
All these happened with me.
And one more to add is I strongly felt(my intution) " got the FEEL".. feel.. feel... he was only being nice to me...
Later went on to discover he had a gf ... and had seen his true feelings for her whenever we all three met and he exactly behaved the way you have described in your video.
That's why I said U are spot on ..
Only thing u need to add to add to ur list is...we too can make out from inside they are just being nice to us and do not have a true feeling for us.
Well he did it to me :
1. He asked me and my close friend which is a man wether we are on dating or not.
2. He likes to shock me or put his face close to my ear
3. He told my friend that I am his girlfriend. Which we never talk about this personally.
4. He asked me to be his private tutor
5. He asked me if I continue play or go back home. When I said I go home he said, ok I am going home too, I am Tired.
Does it mean he like me?
I love how whenever he is explaining the "just being nice" part he would turn the color of the lense grey😄
In my case there were several tell tale signs. I need a refresher course. Your videos are helpful
I half expected this vid would be cliche and boring like most but it was actually fun to watch haha and its pretty accurate even
I'll sub!
You just won yourself a subscriber 🙌
Happy to have you join the channel!
I find it confusing when they call you, say they want to have lunch next week, then next week goes by and nothing.
Hey Julie! Yeah, wishy-washy guys?... Not so much. We want consistency and we want to feel good how things are progressing 😉
So, I met this guy, we’ve been friends for just a week but he likes to tease/bully me everytime. But he’s acting so sweet when I’ll fall asleep at night and greeting me goodnights.
Well you’re definitely his type. And you’ve kept him for a week. If your keeping him like this for another week then he probably likes u. I think it’s different when he also says gn and gm
Juliana Colón Yes our conversations are becoming more active. He also starts sending photos of him making weird faces and I think it’s really cute.
Omg the eyebrow raise!!!! I was talking to this guy and his eyebrows were dancing so much I thought he had facial ticks. He would simultaneously fan his shirt,fidget,swear. At the time I thought either he wasn’t feeling good or just couldn’t wait to book it. Now we’re planning a road trip together.
It’s great to know that I’m going to be friend zoned forever. I went on one date and this guy said he wanted to be friends 🙄
Ouch
I really enjoyed watching and these signs are apt!!!
And your facial expressions are so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yay thanks for that Joy! It's funny, my wife watches every single video before I publish it for "quality assurance" and accuracy and if I can get her to laugh out loud, I've done my job (which she did on this one too)! 😄Glad you found it humorous!
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Yes, those expressions give more life to the message!
Regards to your very supportive wife😊
@@joyokere2613 Thanks! Will Do!
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Thank you so much Ryan , I would never noticed this, the guy I’m talking to, he does all this. So I can be sure he likes me 😆
You will sense when he's in to you! If you have a lot in common and conversation is easy... He should call/ text you everyday. That's it! Game on.