How A Hasidic Jew Came Out As A Transgender Woman

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  • čas přidán 20. 08. 2024
  • What happens when someone discovers the Internet for the first time? For Abby Stein it was life-transforming. We first met Stein during the summer of 2015 for our Showtime series Dark Net. She told us how she had abandoned the very insular Hasidic community after the Internet had exposed her to the wider world. Now, a few months later, Stein is going through another transition. She's coming out as a transgender woman named Abby - and she says it wouldn’t have happened without the Internet.

Komentáře • 243

  • @jojibot9193
    @jojibot9193 Před 7 lety +7

    So the first website he saw was Tumblr

  • @saraschneider6781
    @saraschneider6781 Před 3 lety +5

    This video keeps calling this dude "she"...🤣🤣🤣

  • @allenfsanchez9572
    @allenfsanchez9572 Před 4 lety +23

    I don't know, I been on the internet my whole life and the thought of dressing as a woman has never come to mind!

    • @ThekiBoran
      @ThekiBoran Před 3 lety

      You'll make a poor luciferian, this transgender stuff is at the core of their beliefs.

    • @shiffyweinberg1493
      @shiffyweinberg1493 Před rokem +2

      Because you are not mentally insane. Those individuals need help not validation.

  • @seahydra9317
    @seahydra9317 Před rokem +7

    Sometimes I feel so grateful that I grew up at a time where Internet was not so popular. I used to be more of a tomboyish kid, and used to view myself as a boy. Then puberty happened and I started to appreciate my true identity, which is a woman. Had I been growing up in today's time, things would have been so different. I would have been brainwashed by people around me and went on to abuse my true identity. All it takes is a bit of self-reflection, self-love, and self-awareness to accept one's true self.
    One thing that deeply bothers me is, having humans with male genitals entering women's restroom. Like I might as well use men's restroom if the majority of biologically female population do not find that obscene. Our society is moving towards a very precarious direction. I have no problem if there is a third kind of restroom created for the gender minorities of our society.

  • @katieb2098
    @katieb2098 Před 5 lety +3

    if traditional genders don't "exist " how do you identify as one or the other if we created traditional gender roles why do you "identify " with one of them and want to act like one of them , traditional gender roles are real and keep things stable Wether you want to identify as one or the other is fine but don't say there's no such thing as female and male genders etc we generate female and male energy with out gender which is why we act the way we do.

  • @ChristinaC-fj3yu
    @ChristinaC-fj3yu Před 7 lety +19

    Shalom Abby I hope you have found your true self and real happiness. I am Jewish but not from Hasidic Judaism but my family had a hard time dealing with my black husband and children. Keep strong.

    • @AmYisraelChaiEchad
      @AmYisraelChaiEchad Před 7 lety

      Christina Carey not the same.

    • @ChristinaC-fj3yu
      @ChristinaC-fj3yu Před 7 lety +2

      ***** thank you but jews should've known America opened us up to diverse cultures. People need to be happy and do what makes them happy.

    • @MsAakifa
      @MsAakifa Před 6 lety

      Why? Blacks are Jews.

    • @boliussa
      @boliussa Před 6 lety +1

      +Christina and your name is Christina(Christ...) something's not right there

    • @lockleaze
      @lockleaze Před 5 lety

      boliussa So what? My middle name is Christina and I am an Atheist. It’s just a name.

  • @jinettebright2741
    @jinettebright2741 Před 7 lety +8

    I feel bad for his son and his ex-wife it's not fair to either of them

    • @ThekiBoran
      @ThekiBoran Před 3 lety +4

      Men are becoming narcissistic lovers of themselves.

  • @whatevergoes4340
    @whatevergoes4340 Před 8 lety +52

    you can see from this alone how bad the internet can be

    • @gohnjoodman2546
      @gohnjoodman2546 Před 8 lety +1

      +Whatever goes I can see from your comment that you're a bigot ;)

    • @isaaccohan724
      @isaaccohan724 Před 8 lety +4

      +Tyler Street it's funny how that bigot means someone who doesn't see someone else's opinion all I'm saying is mine funny that you would say that

    • @jeanmater4324
      @jeanmater4324 Před 5 lety

      @XvX XvX and Rebekka, so sad to read that you feel this way. And do you not leave yourselves open for any learning here, about this? Derision is "devil's work," as well, you know>>>? True People of God do not talk this way...

  • @hannahmich7342
    @hannahmich7342 Před 8 lety +25

    Walking the gender line is so painful and yet rewarding. As a intersex/transgender person my life has been hell at times but I've never been able to view myself as being defective in an way. Thank you for showing the world we are not.

  • @withoutcommentary-kh6rx
    @withoutcommentary-kh6rx Před 7 lety +6

    The effects of the internet can be very interesting.

  • @shimhun188
    @shimhun188 Před 8 lety +4

    What of hear something Iranian ?....... Decree in favour of transgender and financial support for their sex change was issued by Iran's Ayatolah Khomeini in 1980 , legalising, making transgender acceptable, legal and normal ..... Not a lot of people know that ....

    • @FreshCort88
      @FreshCort88 Před 8 lety +5

      Yea but they make it illegal to be gay, so if you're gay you're forced to get a sex change, it's not a good thing!

    • @bobbydimarzio
      @bobbydimarzio Před 7 lety

      No, not exactly. Transgendered people do not have to undergo surgery; however, if they ask for permission, are granted permission (practically everybody is granted permission who asks), and they start the legal ball rolling with birth certificates being changed, etc., then the person is expected to undergo the surgery.

    • @keirtaylor4669
      @keirtaylor4669 Před 7 lety

      Shim Hun the Iranians instituted that to "eradicate" homosexuality by telling lesbians and gay men that they were "born in the wrong body". As Internet access is massively restricted in Iran and homosexuality is illegal, many lesbians and gays (with no gender dysphoria) knew no better and had "reassignment" surgery and it ruined their lives. Do your research.

  • @DarknessQueenish
    @DarknessQueenish Před 7 lety +27

    this is what internet does to you lool

  • @amossivan3819
    @amossivan3819 Před 5 lety +2

    Nasty

  • @matcotech
    @matcotech Před 8 lety +33

    She should write a book called "Shtreimel to Sheitel." Not making fun, I am supportive, but that's a great title.

  • @tamaradeboer4585
    @tamaradeboer4585 Před 7 lety +5

    I believe you are very brave to come out and follow your feelings, better to come out than to live your life unhappy and that would only hurt the ones you love even more...if that life would have been a lie....I believe you did the right thing...even when often it's hard...I hope some day your parrents will forgive you and are willing to meet you again, as a person you are still the same, only happier i hope....i do hope you will be able to see your son as well...but understand that this is a private matter and not a public one ;)

    • @chrisreed3572
      @chrisreed3572 Před 11 měsíci

      “First we overlook evil. Then we permit evil. Then we legalize evil. Then we promote evil. Then we celebrate evil. Then we persecute those who still call it evil.” Fr. Dwight Longenecker

  • @seanjohn3226
    @seanjohn3226 Před 8 lety +7

    Hope u are leaving a happy life now as a women.

  • @ninadanae9484
    @ninadanae9484 Před 8 lety +15

    I had the most absolute pleasure of meeting her at Romemu, she has such a glowing & charismatic presence.

  • @vitalule8889
    @vitalule8889 Před 7 lety +6

    This man is cursed and only he himself can break it, when you see people like this man, please pray because he needs serious help....My heart goes to him I am praying non stop for all people that are cursed....

  • @VisionaryTribe
    @VisionaryTribe Před 4 lety +2

    May God bless her beautiful soul. She is so strong. I am a trans man and I know how hard it can be. But man especially from a Hasidic background, props to her!

  • @unknownterritory2204
    @unknownterritory2204 Před 8 lety +6

    She is so beautiful. She has found the life that she was created to live. I believe that the Baal Shem Tov whose message was love and joy would have welcomed her and supported her journey.

  • @scorpion1553
    @scorpion1553 Před 5 lety +6

    I am happy you found yourself and answers to your questions

  • @leonabrawne200
    @leonabrawne200 Před 7 lety +57

    I don't care about your feelings... this is a man, not a woman. He will never be a woman.

  • @crnivuk3739
    @crnivuk3739 Před 8 lety +61

    He has given up whole 10 generations hasidic heritage, for what? for earthly pleasures? wtf.. he is weakling, and im sorry for his father, deserves a better son.

    • @luigy5339
      @luigy5339 Před 8 lety +21

      did u ask the rabbi if you're allow to use CZcams?

    • @iFunboxHACKSGAMING
      @iFunboxHACKSGAMING Před 8 lety +13

      not jewish but completely agree with you

    • @bobbyjay205
      @bobbyjay205 Před 8 lety +1

      See Jews and Muslims can agree on things. Now get over the holy land argument and let us educated people find out whats really going on underneath Jerusalem. At least if you let archeologists dig some stuff up, one of the 3 can finally prove they're right. And the rest of us wont get mixed up in your zealously.

    • @thomashuffcutt9414
      @thomashuffcutt9414 Před 7 lety

      Justin Dobbins everyone sins, regardless of religion or lack thereof.

    • @thomashuffcutt9414
      @thomashuffcutt9414 Před 7 lety +1

      Justin Dobbins yeah, just look at my grandma. Likes TV, cooking, goes to church every Sunday...Clearly poisoning society.

  • @ifeanyiokonkwo7130
    @ifeanyiokonkwo7130 Před 7 lety +10

    What. About. His. Son.

  • @lockleaze
    @lockleaze Před 5 lety +3

    I’m glad she escaped from the prison of religion and the beliefs she was brainwashed with. I wish her all the best for the future.

  • @iwanttocomplain
    @iwanttocomplain Před 5 lety +1

    Cross dressing is actually related to Hacedic culture. I'm still researching. Research the origin of the word Fedora. Also, to be Jewish is to be considerate and compassionate of all other people. Also, cross dressing is not modern or western, it can even be dated to pre-biblical times across the world.

  • @sarahwilson976
    @sarahwilson976 Před 8 lety +1

    Ignore the hate, you are brave and you must be very proud of yourself!

  • @alg11297
    @alg11297 Před 8 lety +7

    Female persona. Is this person confused or what? Why is this not a mental problem. I see myself as a 7'5' thin muscular black man and can I sue if I'm chosen to play basketball. You all have to change for my desires.

    • @keirtaylor4669
      @keirtaylor4669 Před 7 lety

      alg11297 yep it's fucked up and stems from internalised homophobia

  • @user-cv1ft5wf1y
    @user-cv1ft5wf1y Před 7 lety +10

    Poor man. I genuinely pity you.

  • @barbarastepien-foad4519
    @barbarastepien-foad4519 Před 5 lety +7

    So very sad that Abby's parents have basically disowned her. You know I've come to the conclusion that religions segregate people from one another, it's become tribal...yet religion itself is meant to be about compassion and love, least ways that's how I've always interpreted it...so hypocritical.

  • @Bronco57
    @Bronco57 Před 7 lety +20

    be who you want to be.

    • @powderwigwoodenteethmf5037
      @powderwigwoodenteethmf5037 Před 7 lety +6

      Bronco Piscis Does that mean I can be a penguin if I wanted to? What kind of freak show is this?

  • @martinaeastwood9781
    @martinaeastwood9781 Před 5 lety +8

    What a wonderful turn to your life! May you be happy and shine as an example. You are beautiful.

  • @amproishowdominance4265
    @amproishowdominance4265 Před 3 lety +2

    This is the such powerful video

  • @olivia-jtrans5693
    @olivia-jtrans5693 Před 7 lety +1

    I like the funny hairdo like a ' beehive'

  • @420kushmaster
    @420kushmaster Před 8 lety +2

    rocks and stones!

  • @Reypure207
    @Reypure207 Před 8 lety +7

    what do you mean her he still a man

  • @Schrumplet
    @Schrumplet Před 7 lety +8

    these are such heart wrenching yet amazing stories. everyone deserves to be who they are and be loved

  • @kaylaleave
    @kaylaleave Před 7 lety +3

    He was so hot before he transitioned he completely ruined himself

  • @chrisreed3572
    @chrisreed3572 Před 11 měsíci +1

    “First we overlook evil. Then we permit evil. Then we legalize evil. Then we promote evil. Then we celebrate evil. Then we persecute those who still call it evil.” Fr. Dwight Longenecker

  • @leerwesen
    @leerwesen Před 7 lety +3

    she is beautiful, both inside and out!
    as for a lot of the comments, it isn't shocking that anti-judiasm and transphobia go hand in hand :/

  • @jimsher9880
    @jimsher9880 Před 7 lety +2

    Well Abby, I'm glad for your new found (and no doubt hard earned) happiness. But I gotta tell ya, as a gay man I regret the loss of so cute and adorable a guy.

  • @moshjay3020
    @moshjay3020 Před 7 lety +1

    sickening

  • @SettingMind
    @SettingMind Před 7 lety +1

    one of the craziest titles ever. or clickbait

  • @bretherensheyerman9649
    @bretherensheyerman9649 Před rokem +1

    Literarly creepy

  • @joalexsg9741
    @joalexsg9741 Před 7 lety +4

    Way to go, dear! May your life be fraught with many blessings by the Sweet Shekhinah from now on!!!

  • @suepredmetsky7206
    @suepredmetsky7206 Před 6 lety +3

    I love your videos

  • @aliochajzadunewsky4599
    @aliochajzadunewsky4599 Před 6 lety +2

    Courageuse, car compliqué lorsque l'on vie en vase clos comme la communauté Hassidique !

  • @joeygoldberg2281
    @joeygoldberg2281 Před 8 lety +2

    thank you now we have another single maiadele who needs a shidduch #keeponmakingtheshudduchcrisisbigger

  • @LilannB
    @LilannB Před 8 lety +2

    This person appears to be a transvestite. He shaves including body hair and then puts on female attire and heavy makeup. His routine is similar to that of the contestants on RuPaul's drag race.

    • @fellforthesharks1
      @fellforthesharks1 Před 8 lety +1

      Drag makes fun of gender as a concept and embraces ambiguity. Trans people are people who to not identify with the gender they were assigned at birth. The difference is that for drag queens/kings the gender bending is temporary and theatric whereas for transgender folks they live everyday life as the same gender, just not the one assigned at birth. (The same way that I was assigned woman and I carry out day to day life as a woman)

  • @louiseturner9811
    @louiseturner9811 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Sending you my love and good luck on your trans journey.❤👍

  • @carlosquirogag6633
    @carlosquirogag6633 Před 7 lety +1

    Leviticus 18:22

  • @luisfrancisco7309
    @luisfrancisco7309 Před 4 lety +1

    Be Happy!

  • @bornbranded29
    @bornbranded29 Před rokem

    Hopefully, the family is giving unconditional love

  • @michaelsurname8668
    @michaelsurname8668 Před 4 lety +2

    Congrats on her coming out, it's so sad the way her parents responded to it but I hope she's doing well fer herself.

    • @ThekiBoran
      @ThekiBoran Před 3 lety +1

      Scientifically he's still a man. You can't change biology.

  • @CurlyViet
    @CurlyViet Před 8 lety +13

    I wish you the best of luck

  • @alg11297
    @alg11297 Před rokem +1

    No orthodox person would use a straight razor to shave. It just gets funnier and funnier.

  • @tertommy
    @tertommy Před 8 lety +2

    still a jew

  • @meirwise1107
    @meirwise1107 Před 6 lety +1

    He had a son as a male. He will never have a son as a female. That should tell you something. This is a growing tragedy....

  • @kaashee
    @kaashee Před 2 lety +2

    All that internet and you dress like my primary school teacher in the 90s smh

  • @anglocatholicism7680
    @anglocatholicism7680 Před 8 lety +7

    BAHAHAHAHA

  • @louisjoe2287
    @louisjoe2287 Před 7 lety +2

    thank you for being you

  • @pow8588
    @pow8588 Před 8 lety +1

    It's very important to identify with and embrace your sexuality. Growing up "sheltered" can actually destroy you. I'm talking from experience.

  • @kittycats2827
    @kittycats2827 Před 8 lety +2

    He was a very pretty hassid!

  • @lindawatkin4411
    @lindawatkin4411 Před 7 lety +3

    You exist and deserve to be yourself!

    • @ThekiBoran
      @ThekiBoran Před 3 lety +2

      What about his wife and child?

  • @joeygoldberg2281
    @joeygoldberg2281 Před 8 lety

    MR ABIE STEIN

  • @twostatesolution1687
    @twostatesolution1687 Před 7 lety +4

    Beautiful, inspiring, and an amazing role model, Love you +Abby Stein.

  • @peninagreenberg7492
    @peninagreenberg7492 Před 8 lety

    Its good that you had kids first because LOTS of trans wants kids but cant .

  • @eddieporter9930
    @eddieporter9930 Před 7 lety +1

    ❓❓❓Sin HURTS...😞

  • @skyshark88
    @skyshark88 Před 4 lety

    The old ways would tell one the answer to this.... the crossing to no gender.... bless him....love and light.... namaste

  • @jamessenik9767
    @jamessenik9767 Před 6 lety +1

    Cool video and how are u doings

  • @harveypost7799
    @harveypost7799 Před 5 lety

    Also beginning of a comb over..

  • @danh5637
    @danh5637 Před 4 lety +2

    I’m happy for you ❤️❤️❤️

  • @elle823
    @elle823 Před 6 lety +1

    You are very brave young woman. I am a straight young woman but I fully support brave people, you are double brave

  • @Slimshady3minem
    @Slimshady3minem Před 8 lety +1

    Now THAT is one strong woman.

  • @MrAngryJarvey
    @MrAngryJarvey Před 7 lety

    get it girl! Are you still From? Are you still observant? No matter the answer. You better get it, and you better work!

  • @Harris.S
    @Harris.S Před 7 lety +1

    Wow ! LOL

  • @blossom9510
    @blossom9510 Před 4 lety +1

    She's pretty! I like her.

    • @ThekiBoran
      @ThekiBoran Před 3 lety +4

      He's a he.

    • @blossom9510
      @blossom9510 Před 3 lety

      @@ThekiBoran You aren't very intelligent.

    • @ThekiBoran
      @ThekiBoran Před 3 lety +3

      @@blossom9510
      "Those who can make you believe absurdities can make you commit atrocities."
      There are four lights.

    • @blossom9510
      @blossom9510 Před 3 lety

      @@ThekiBoran There will come no atrocities from respecting the humanity in others who you may not immediately comprehend. Correspondingly, there are many atrocities that will be, are being, and already have been committed in the name of suppressing transgender self-expression. The mere fact that you have not walked in her shoes, and cannot understand her footing, does not give you grounds to trample upon the authenticity of her existence.

    • @ThekiBoran
      @ThekiBoran Před 3 lety +2

      It's fascinating how Google deletes comments.

  • @draco4877
    @draco4877 Před 6 lety +2

    So sad case

  • @NoOneHere2Day
    @NoOneHere2Day Před 8 lety +1

    At least wear a wig.

  • @MelancholyMegan
    @MelancholyMegan Před 7 lety

    Bless her. Diverse gender identity just shows "tzelem Elohim" (that we are all in the image of God). Many people forget that gender identity and ethics are very advanced in Judaism. At least more advanced than other faiths. There are 6 gender identities in Classical Judaism.. look it up.

  • @user-ik1bg9xf1k
    @user-ik1bg9xf1k Před 7 lety

    Lol i don't understand how families disown their kids like wtf is wrong with yall

    • @ThekiBoran
      @ThekiBoran Před 3 lety +2

      You honestly don't understand why someone would not want to be around someone who is sexually debauched? Someone who abandons his wife and child? You are partly why humanity is headed in the wrong direction. We are headed for the abyss.

  • @jadaparks8047
    @jadaparks8047 Před 8 lety +9

    How do you think Abraham, Isaac and Jacob would have viewed you or King David, for that matter. And, what do you think will be your end when you face GOD? Only asking. I think my questions are valid. 10/1/16.

    • @croguy
      @croguy Před 7 lety +4

      Nobody knows unless you can ask those people directly. People these day assume what one might've said, but in the end nobody knows. When and if she faces God, that is between God and her. Also, we face God every day according to most religious scriptures(not only Judaism), and if you believe God is everywhere and in everyone, her being and the life she embodies is essentially holy and a reflection of God. Nobody knows her struggle, what kind of human she is and what qualities she will be judged on, if there is such a thing as judgement day.

  • @Djoodibooti
    @Djoodibooti Před 8 lety +13

    Yass girl better turn that look!

  • @proudyid4402
    @proudyid4402 Před 7 lety +1

    Hey Abe,
    My heart us crying for your inner soul :'( and i plead to G-d that he forgive you on your sins! and that one day you should find the path to the most Royal, upper class, refined, and purest life. the lifestyle YOU TRIED GIVING UP. but a jew stays a jew no matter what transition has been done.
    ...and btw just a lil Question to ask... ARE YOU BY ANY FAR HAPPY NOW?????
    Dw no need to answer... i know the answer is NO!!

  • @trumpforprezproisrael
    @trumpforprezproisrael Před měsícem

    Abby this is disappointing

  • @JanayDiamond
    @JanayDiamond Před 7 lety

    Be yourself, sweetie!!!!

  • @hipretty
    @hipretty Před 7 lety +1

    Good for you honey...live your life on your authentic path!

  • @agentorange9851
    @agentorange9851 Před 5 lety +1

    offend at your peril interwebster's
    #stunning
    #brave
    #hersidicksgone

  • @clovelly1946
    @clovelly1946 Před 6 lety +2

    You are beautiful ...be YOUR own person and folliw YOUR path.

  • @williammoney962
    @williammoney962 Před 8 lety

    LOL....

  • @Sweetsrananglobione
    @Sweetsrananglobione Před 6 lety +3

    You are beyond beautiful🙏🏾

  • @positivewarrior5206
    @positivewarrior5206 Před 6 lety +2

    This is sad really really so SAD! :'(
    Please get well!!

  • @lindawatkin4411
    @lindawatkin4411 Před 7 lety +23

    Many blessings to this lovely woman.

  • @user-vw4fn1cu9l
    @user-vw4fn1cu9l Před 7 lety

    ווי אזוי קען מען זיין אין קנעקשען ?

  • @user-vw4fn1cu9l
    @user-vw4fn1cu9l Před 7 lety

    איזה אומץ

  • @margolisdin3942
    @margolisdin3942 Před 6 lety +1

    he is mental

  • @heyhipp
    @heyhipp Před 5 lety +1

    I bet your parents are proud of you

  • @tulirosenberg4195
    @tulirosenberg4195 Před 7 lety +3

    That's gross no person should even consider that

  • @CLARA3952
    @CLARA3952 Před 7 lety +1

    living as a man a wanting to be a woman is suffering...she is now happier I hope...orthodox parents think of her as dead...how sad to throw away a child...why because it's an embarrassment in their community....

  • @farm110
    @farm110 Před 7 lety +1

    good luck and enjoy your life!! ITS OK