Strategies for Harmonious Relations -- Mr. & Mrs. Bennet's -- complaining

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  • @buckacre1348
    @buckacre1348 Před 4 lety +308

    The actress portraying Mrs. Bennett is spectacular.

    • @busolaolagunju3410
      @busolaolagunju3410 Před 4 lety +16

      Over the top I think. Veered into caricature with that ever shrill voice....

    • @ginajones1003
      @ginajones1003 Před 4 lety +43

      Busola Olagunju That is the whole point. Mrs Bennett is supposed to be a caricature.

    • @beclocket3768
      @beclocket3768 Před 4 lety +2

      It's just all the drama mick I love it

    • @lindaleelaw5277
      @lindaleelaw5277 Před 4 lety +2

      Buckacre 134 her mantra: " God, PLEEZE GET MY DAUGHTERS MARRIED "
      (1965 - My folks were the same. "Cant you marry one of those boys?"
      "Yes", I replied, "I would but Life is a banquet, why bring a sandwich".

    • @ritawing1064
      @ritawing1064 Před 4 lety +3

      @@busolaolagunju3410 I agree. She's more whiney than hysterical.

  • @carolwhelihan1514
    @carolwhelihan1514 Před 4 lety +138

    Mr. Bennett gets a lot of sympathy, but I think he buried his head in the sand regarding his family. Of course Mrs. Bennett had anxiety!! She is the only one trying to fix the family situation. She is right, unless her daughters married reasonably well, they could end up in a dire condition later on...Mrs. Bennett, I think was a fierce momma!!

    • @carolwhelihan1514
      @carolwhelihan1514 Před 4 lety +38

      @Luxe Lady I agree. She made some mistakes, but she knew the seriousness of the situation in society! And making fun of your wife in front of her children, as Mr. B did often, is a low blow. I think he is not just a lovable old fool...passive aggressive!

    • @carolwhelihan1514
      @carolwhelihan1514 Před 4 lety +15

      @Luxe Lady just my opinion! haha! I think everyone thinks he is this lovable, harmless person, but he doesn't step up to the plate and leaves any issues with his wife...anyone but him. just fun to see someone else's opinion on all this!

    • @MsJubjubbird
      @MsJubjubbird Před 4 lety +27

      Part if it is her fault though. She neglected their education so they cannot get jobs as teachers or governesses or companions. And she wanted as many servants as possible, which meant they had little money for a dowry to to take the girls to London to be seen by young men. And she is a blatant social climber like Miss Bingley- neither being from gentry. Nor does she care for the happiness of her children. But he has opted out as a husband and parent, thinking it to be too hard to put his foot down when it matters. But he does care for his children's happiness.

    • @ruffianoo
      @ruffianoo Před 4 lety +4

      Carol Whelihan
      I think so too.. It took me a long time to realize the dynamics of the Mr. & Mrs. Bennett household. Now I’ve a lot to say about it... but I gotta come back to do it 🙃

    • @soledadferrer1325
      @soledadferrer1325 Před 4 lety +7

      I agree with you. I love this series but Mr Bennet comes across as a sweet, funny father but in the book he doesn't. At least that was not the impression it gave to me. In the 80s version of Mr and Mrs Bennet the portrayal is more accurate I think, although Mrs Bennet is maybe top smart.

  • @derekthompson5731
    @derekthompson5731 Před 5 lety +242

    This version of Mr. and Mrs. Bennett cannot be improved upon. No need to ever remake this movie.

    • @onemercilessming1342
      @onemercilessming1342 Před 5 lety +30

      Derek Thompson--I quite agree. This ought to be the definitive version. Sadly, Keira Knightley and the rest in the subsequent versions just don't quite have the same impact.

    • @derekthompson5731
      @derekthompson5731 Před 5 lety +3

      @irishxxkelt Right, thanks for the clarification. I own it on DVD - 6 episodes... Thus colloquially: "It's a movie". But that point is neither here nor there. The point is: It's so superb...

    • @lindaleelaw5277
      @lindaleelaw5277 Před 4 lety

      Derek Thompson because such a screaming mimi mom is boring these days? Lol

    • @daisycook2366
      @daisycook2366 Před 3 lety +9

      @@onemercilessming1342 One main thing I didn’t like about that adaptation was them portraying Mr and Mrs Bennett as being in love. Their marriage was a complete failure. Mr Bennett married his wife after a brief courtship based on only a physical attraction, without taking the time to get to know her silly and selfish character. Jane Austen uses them to highlight the importance of personality rather than lust when choosing a spouse.

    • @danieldarcy7862
      @danieldarcy7862 Před 5 měsíci

      Jo Wright boasted that he had not read the book before directing the kiera version, and goodness does it show!

  • @ewalker1057
    @ewalker1057 Před 4 lety +113

    I felt the most sympathy for Hill.

  • @onemercilessming1342
    @onemercilessming1342 Před 5 lety +332

    Mr. Bennett: "He may prefer a stupid wife, as others have done before him." Mrs. Bennet isn't even clever enough to realize that he just insulted HER.

    • @V.E.R.O.
      @V.E.R.O. Před 4 lety +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ruffianoo
      @ruffianoo Před 4 lety +17

      One MercilessMing
      Or what’s worse she does but has had to tune such statements out.

    • @onemercilessming1342
      @onemercilessming1342 Před 4 lety +9

      @@ruffianoo--In some cases, I'd say "yes" to that. However, Austen's work describes Mrs. Bennett and the hot-to-trot Kitty both as "silly".

    • @onemercilessming1342
      @onemercilessming1342 Před 4 lety +12

      @chanelis--He's been worn down by decades of whinging, whining, crying, moaning, groaning, vapid and inane hypochondria. Patronising? "Oh, my poor nerves!"

    • @onemercilessming1342
      @onemercilessming1342 Před 4 lety

      @@tanjaeubanks--So did YOU.

  • @kikia6611
    @kikia6611 Před 4 lety +97

    Mrs. B is so hilarious, even my husband who doesn't watch these types of movies was cracking up.

  • @2degucitas
    @2degucitas Před 5 lety +97

    Mrs. Bennett's voice is so high and shrill. Dogs in the next county are howling.

    • @lorisofi543
      @lorisofi543 Před 4 lety +1

      Sorry, it's a little late,but I just have to say- spectacular comment!
      LOL,
      oh boy I was sooo loud!

  • @MrsBlack88
    @MrsBlack88 Před 4 lety +166

    Nothing causes me greater delight than to imagine Mr Bennett sitting in his chair quivering with shrewd anticipation waiting for Mrs Bennett to say she’s sick of Mr Bingley so he can pop out from behind his newspaper to be like “Oh is that so? I wish I knew before I called upon him this morning.”

    • @ruffianoo
      @ruffianoo Před 4 lety +5

      Irene Jacobs
      Yes he lives to bedevil her😈 and she falls for it. Or does she? Only Mrs. Bennett knows for sure.

    • @TM15HAKRN
      @TM15HAKRN Před rokem +1

      The characters just pop out of screen and gets us.. Our attention..
      Omg. The relationship between two shown so well.. Its hilarious..
      Their arguments received well by 2 daughters too.. 😂

  • @rejmons1
    @rejmons1 Před 3 lety +44

    Lizzy is wonderfully, deliciously ironic: Lydia: "It was twelve ladies and seven gentlemen." Lizzy: "Too many women."

  • @angelacarleton9575
    @angelacarleton9575 Před 4 lety +66

    I love this mini-series from the BBC which is the best one. It follows the book very well compared to any movies in the past and those that came after this series. I never read Jane Austen's books until this min series and found the language and the society of that time so interesting I had to read more of her books which I found "Persuasion" was one of my favorite books and storyline too.

  • @gowkstorm
    @gowkstorm Před 4 lety +43

    I keep pet parrots. They are currently going off their heads at the sound of Mrs B's voice.

    • @ruffianoo
      @ruffianoo Před 4 lety +4

      Louisa
      I completely visualize and hear that!

    • @agatask
      @agatask Před 4 lety +2

      I love parrots!

  • @kenna163
    @kenna163 Před 4 lety +127

    Mr Bennet may be funny, but he is mostly responsible for Lydia and Kitty. He's neglectful.

    • @lovetolovefairytales
      @lovetolovefairytales Před 3 lety +5

      Very true.

    • @pokeyswan5563
      @pokeyswan5563 Před 3 lety +3

      Men didn’t have much to do with the child rearing.

    • @EmoBearRights
      @EmoBearRights Před 3 lety +8

      But he didn't save any money for me or even attempt to control them or do much about their education also in Mansfield Park we see Sir Thomas Bertram go to the opposite extreme and his daughters find him oppressive and end up the way they are to try and try and escape him so men could and did do something to shape their kids in general and their daughters in particular.

    • @lizziebkennedy7505
      @lizziebkennedy7505 Před 3 lety +15

      Lydia is a carbon copy of her mother.

    • @lizziebkennedy7505
      @lizziebkennedy7505 Před 3 lety +2

      @@EmoBearRights Sir Thomas Bertram is very wealthy, he has an estate and a huge sugar plantation in the WI. Hardly comparable, the Bennets have 2k per year and an entailed estate.

  • @TomorrowWeLive
    @TomorrowWeLive Před 4 lety +17

    I always liked their relationship because their banter reminded me of my Nana and Papa--they always called each other Mr and Mrs Carter when they were reading each other. It was the sort of marriage one hopes to have at that age.

  • @sarasamaletdin4574
    @sarasamaletdin4574 Před 4 lety +48

    Mr and Mrs Bennet are great in this series but in Austen I think she is big more equal in her criticism of them, it was the due to the father that the financial situation what was it was and Mrs Bennet worried due to it.

    • @ritawing1064
      @ritawing1064 Před 4 lety +19

      Yes, indeed, Mr. Bennett deserves Darcy's criticism of his lapses from propriety - like the shaming of Mary - one of Jane Austen's priorities for couples and families is "promoting respectability" which includes smoothing over faults in public, not showing them up.

    • @sharongelfand5065
      @sharongelfand5065 Před 3 lety +14

      I think that's the problem with the otherwise very entertaining portrayals of Mr. and Mrs. Bennet in this series. She's often so ridiculous that it is hard to take her very valid worries about her daughters' prospects seriously. And he's so likeable, it's easy to miss his indolence and negligence where their futures are concerned.

    • @lizziebkennedy7505
      @lizziebkennedy7505 Před 2 lety

      Mr Bennet is neglectful of his daughters' character but he could do nothing about the entail. He could be only slightly more frugal, such is their income.

    • @katherinewilson1853
      @katherinewilson1853 Před 2 lety

      @@sharongelfand5065 Well said.

    • @udubeats4543
      @udubeats4543 Před rokem +5

      @@lizziebkennedy7505 Actually he could have done a lot about the entail. Entails were legally broken all the time in the regency era. I spent a lot of time studying this and while it would have been some expense and a lot of effort the details of the entail that we know of in the books would have made it eligible to be broken by standard practice if he only did the leg work to explore such options (ignorance of the law was the primary reason entails were not broken at this time). He was also could have done a lot more to increase their dowries and did nothing. He was rather neglectful.

  • @eli-bg9mi
    @eli-bg9mi Před 4 lety +39

    This 1995 version of Mrs. Bennet seemed funnier than that of 2005 😂

    • @agatask
      @agatask Před 4 lety +16

      The 1995 series was generally funnier. It had a lighter mood to it.

    • @davidm587
      @davidm587 Před 3 lety +7

      It is more realistic also

    • @lizziebkennedy7505
      @lizziebkennedy7505 Před 3 lety

      Much softer. Not at all an accurate representation of the book.

    • @smollilbean
      @smollilbean Před rokem

      Yes it is hilarious, i cannot take the 1995 Mrs Bennett serious at all😂 she's positively trashy and her character comes off as cartoonish.
      The 2005 version i think did it better. Mrs Bennett there was annoying, embarrassing but still much realistic and it makes you hate her more. This one just makes you laugh at her lol.

    • @christycrane5902
      @christycrane5902 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​​@@smollilbeanp&p is actually a very funny book. Jane Austen is known for her great wit. So Mrs. Bennet is very funny, annoying but funny at the same time. One of the best scenes is when Lizzy tells her mother she's engaged to Darcy. It's a shame they skipped that scene in the adaptations. But if you've never read p&p, I highly recomend❤ you won't be disappointed ❤

  • @gnolan4281
    @gnolan4281 Před 3 lety +12

    Each and every actor is the ideal choice for the role. As Mr. Thompson says below, it cannot be improved upon.

  • @TM15HAKRN
    @TM15HAKRN Před 2 lety +5

    Awesome
    Austen can never be boring
    Such a lively scene..
    Family discussion about marriage🎊💜😉😎

  • @saywhat1078
    @saywhat1078 Před 3 lety +11

    Take a drink every time you hear a form of the word vex.

    • @XeaRae
      @XeaRae Před 3 lety +2

      Take a drink any time she mentions her nerves.

  • @mahiviera199
    @mahiviera199 Před 4 lety +26

    The house from the Bennets in the 2005 movie looked more dirty and messy, besides the girls in that versión seemed so cynical all of them, maybe excepto from Mary, but the se versión they seem more educated

    • @lizziebkennedy7505
      @lizziebkennedy7505 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes, there are many touches in the later one that are not referenced in the book.

  • @simbaku123
    @simbaku123 Před 3 lety +21

    " I might outlive you " 😂😂

  • @janiecehamblen933
    @janiecehamblen933 Před rokem +3

    Hill seems to babysit Mrs Bennett he he he

  • @bluestarlighting29
    @bluestarlighting29 Před 4 lety +7

    This One Greatest film movie. Love it so much one favorite movie. So funny why buy dvd. Though years: 1995 film movie. Always enjoy a fairly tail story of True Love Forever and Ever. Thank You.

  • @solarisowl
    @solarisowl Před 4 lety +16

    Mrs bennet is so annoying and crying all the time I love that, I love how well her actress portrayed her like that.

  • @anthonyochocki6535
    @anthonyochocki6535 Před 2 lety +4

    Though many actress who portrayed Mrs. Bennett on film, and perhaps stage; the Best and most definitive interpretation of her histrionics and general characterization is that of the great Hollywood character actress: MARY BOLAND. Her mannerisms are always what I thought she would have been like.

  • @rubygracemoseley8144
    @rubygracemoseley8144 Před 3 lety +11

    She’s so annoying but so hilarious. The actress who played her is awesome. She’a so ridiculous and a pretty bad wife and mother but she is very entertaining.

  • @karenvanwyk5307
    @karenvanwyk5307 Před 2 lety +4

    Lydia like mother

  • @dawnchristensen7492
    @dawnchristensen7492 Před 4 lety +10

    I love the Bennetts!!
    lol

  • @ginadisbrow9324
    @ginadisbrow9324 Před rokem +2

    6:27 "...for she is not that sort of girl to do such things!" HAAAHHH!!

  • @francoisebonneau8110
    @francoisebonneau8110 Před 4 lety +10

    Je ne comprends pas bien l'anglais, mais j'adore le jeu et la voix de Mme Bennett... trop drôle 😊👍🇨🇵😘

    • @vhayes2257
      @vhayes2257 Před 3 lety

      In the case of Mme Bennett, I assure you, sir, that you are much better off ne comprending pas bien l'anglais. MUCH better off...

  • @mirtesspera5762
    @mirtesspera5762 Před 5 lety +2

    Ahhh...essa versão é bem dramática! Gostei muito!

  • @donnalayton6876
    @donnalayton6876 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Each actor is perfection for their part.

  • @lindaleelaw5277
    @lindaleelaw5277 Před 4 lety +4

    Mrs. Bennett needs some original Dr. Pepper or Coca cola .... she gets the vapors a lot. Lol

  • @bluestarlighting29
    @bluestarlighting29 Před 4 lety +4

    Why cut out the best part near the ended of this classic film movie. Thank You

  • @simbaku123
    @simbaku123 Před 3 lety +7

    my parents in the 18th century

  • @user-cb9je5fy4x
    @user-cb9je5fy4x Před rokem +4

    может миссис Беннет и глупая, а дочек пристроила, заботились о них, а он книжки читал и в денежных делах профан

  • @ara6mir59
    @ara6mir59 Před rokem +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @lovetolovefairytales
    @lovetolovefairytales Před 3 lety +8

    Is Mrs. bennet's name Fanny? Did I hear right? I'd never realised that before. How curious that Austen would name two shrewish whining women Fanny in older novels (I mean also Fanny Dashwood in S&S), then write a Heroine like Fanny Price (who is their opposite in every way) for Mansfield Park later in life.

    • @EmoBearRights
      @EmoBearRights Před 3 lety

      She doesn't have a first name in the book but as someone has pointed out since the oldest girls in the Mansfield Park families are named after their mothers (presumably the convention that the time) she's probably called Jane but that would have been too confusing to have Mr Gardiner address her as Jane. Also Lady Catherine possibly because she uses her first name in her formal title names her daughter after her sister and not herself.

    • @lizziebkennedy7505
      @lizziebkennedy7505 Před 3 lety

      Yes, really important point, because it's not the name a gentleman's daughter has at that time. Fanny Dashwood is an excellent example of a family trying to climb, hence the pressure on Edward, but not knowing enough to choose a different name for their daughter.

    • @shinjineesen400
      @shinjineesen400 Před 2 lety +4

      4:08 Mr Edward Gardiner calls her Fanny. Short form of Frances. The novel does not give her a name.

  • @juliebrtek4506
    @juliebrtek4506 Před rokem

    This only Jane Austin Story back then. One great film movie.

  • @susanamigliasso5463
    @susanamigliasso5463 Před 4 lety +3

    QUE ESTUPENDO SERIA QUE PONGAN TODOS LOS CAPITULOS CORRELATIVAMENTE

  • @lindaleelaw5277
    @lindaleelaw5277 Před 4 lety +3

    Lordy ...

  • @johnhoie1
    @johnhoie1 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Of all the Bennets, only Jane and Elizabeth are not being ridiculed at some point in the story. Jane is essentially perfect, which makes her the least interesting member of the family.

  • @mirtesspera5762
    @mirtesspera5762 Před 5 lety

    Gostaria de assistir ao filme completo. Como posso conseguir? E de preferência legendado...

    • @DayneandtheStars
      @DayneandtheStars Před 5 lety +1

      É uma minisérie da BBC de 1995. São 6 episódios. É excelente! Dá pra achar os episódios na internet, mas com legenda nunca encontrei

    • @yasmin3677
      @yasmin3677 Před 4 lety

      @@DayneandtheStars da sim.

  • @xHannaHx33
    @xHannaHx33 Před 5 lety +12

    Mrs. Bennett from 2005 is way better in my opinion (and isn’t crying all the time and not so annoying idk)

    • @Yidenia
      @Yidenia Před 4 lety +29

      Mrs. Bennett from 2005 was more tolerable as a person, but I think less true to the books. In the books everyone treated her like a ticking bomb, ready to embarrass everyone at the slightest provocation. I'd definitely believe the BBC version would be enough to drive the Bingleys away after a year because they couldn't stand her.

    • @dirgniflesuoh7950
      @dirgniflesuoh7950 Před 4 lety +13

      She is not a very tolerable woman simply, that is the point.
      I bet her daughters took turns having her living with them, to spread it out, once she became a widow.
      They probably took turns helping Lydia as well.

    • @JamieRobles1
      @JamieRobles1 Před 4 lety +6

      @@dirgniflesuoh7950 Elizabeth does mention that their parents live somewhat seperate lives after most of the daughters ended up married. Jane and Lizzie would let one or the other visit their homes so as to give everyone a break from the above behavior.

    • @ellainecabiles
      @ellainecabiles Před 3 lety +4

      @@JamieRobles1 wasn't there even mention about how even mr bingley and jane's temperament was being tested by her mother and her long stay?

    • @EmoBearRights
      @EmoBearRights Před 3 lety +2

      Actually Charlotte is good at managing annoying people so probably does ok with putting up with her - although it does say she does visit Lizzy and Jane and Kitty does.

  • @nadiahnor
    @nadiahnor Před 3 lety

    This mrs bennet talks weird. I know she was suppose to be uncivil but the actress didn’t give her any justice and too shrill. I think brenda is a more logical mrs bennet

    • @lizziebkennedy7505
      @lizziebkennedy7505 Před 3 lety +9

      The literal opposite is true in the book. Mrs B never ceases her shrill monologue, even when she reverts its 180o she doesn't draw breath.

  • @mussoellida4049
    @mussoellida4049 Před 10 měsíci

    Non c è in italiano