Just don't take yourself too serious remember you don't have a problem it's them that has the problem. Be professional smile in speed and do your job the best and you'll be fine just fine. If you're being harassed take daily notes and start a diary. You will know when to speak the Bible says in ecclesiastics there's a time for every occasion under the heavens a time to speak and a time to be quiet. God's spirit will tell you when it's your turn to speak
Social Anxiety is real I got the same issues. People in the workplace prey on that. I try to get jobs where I work independently or with a partner. Night Shift jobs are key, usually less people plus they are easier to get.
I wouldn't necessarily call our dysfunctional co-workers happy, these people are miserable and project their misery onto others. Much of what you stated is true and I stay clear of these types of people in the workplace. I'm retired military and the sabotage I see at the workplace is sickening to me.
Seriously bruh thank you, I have a real rage problem, the rage is triggered by lazy, dishonest, people who lack common sense. I can't work with anybody who doesn't hold their own weight/share or the responsibility. I am extremely rational and logical in my thinking and problem solving. I often believe it is not possible to be that stupid, so when I feel as though someone is playing dumb, all of my patience goes out the window. When this happens I feel like I'm being played for a fool.
Management sees these people and they don’t want to deal with the problem, but these people are often linked to your project, work zone, or quota, and if you don’t reach it your the problem.
That happened to me on 3 of my former places of employment. It's sad to see that so many people are insecure of their abilities and performances in the work place. I pose a threat to most of the co-workers I've worked along side, and they've always found underhanded tactics to push me out.
SOA, Just don't stop at getting your CDL. Find out what else you are capable of doing. I'm a IT guy for 39 years experience but will go to get my degree in message therapy because I found that I was good at doing it too years ago. Good luck in getting your life together and stay focus.
I realized this video was posted 5 years ago but it popped up on my youtube analytics. I wanted to say thank you for these words of inspiration and motivation. No one has ever motivated me in this way as a 21-year-old black man who is joining the workforce. you a real G shawn
Shawn, You are sooooo correct about other black folks doing that stupid crap on the job. I always have to deal with that kind of thing wherever I go. They talk to much about Sports and Fashions and Reality TV shows instead of how to improve themselves. That stuff doesn't work or improve their lives. Anyhow to make this short, keep making these videos. Hopefully some of these people are listening and taking notes. Good luck and peace out.
I lost a job because of this exact situation, the level of disrespect and sabotage got to me. I just kept wondering how is it that, these little punks I could choke the life out of can disrespect me like this. Never threatened anyone, In the end they fired me because three co-workers decided to build and escalate a case for me during probation period. They complain that they felt uncomfortable around me.
@@ShawnSJames it's just moving on from here, ultimately they're were only jealous cause they knew I'll likely progress faster than them, coz I had a degree, while they didn't.
you know what, I can really relate to this. After my son was born I was pretty much dire straights looking for a job. Working for family is a big no no but in hindsight I decided to do what needed to be done to take care of my son. I was honest with the man upfront and told him that my drivers record was messed up and I have no experience in this profession as a technician, however I would be willing to learn. I laid the cards on the table in the beginning. Long story short, I was solo refusing to tell my business to my co -workers. almost every single day they would nit pick about stuff because they could not find out my business. I was always outspoken but this time I decided to keep quiet cause as we all know freedom of speech is no so free anymore. I started paying attention to the things that were going on around me. the boss wife was allowed to be on the computer all day looking at Facebook, and buying things online for herself, but then complain when some of us wasn't working fast enough. the boss daughter was nutty than most as she could be very outspoken about her personal life even discuss politics in a work environment. behold, once I started to be outspoken about things I was labelled as not having respect for female authority which was a bunch of bs
*FACTS!* This is Everyday and the life that they do to BLACK Men in the Workplace.......I can't count how many times I went through this on all these jobs I've worked........
Whoa, I reached way back on this one right here Shawn and searched some old vids of yours. Good information brother, one thing that dysfunctional people like to take advantage of on the job is using passive aggressive tactics. HR policies are grizzled when it comes to this as they only cover instantaneous retaliation. They never cover the underlying passive aggressive details whereas people will do things like: cut hours, change schedules, nit pick about time and attendance etc.
The one person black must be aware of in the workplace is the black woman. Often this is ignore because a black man will assume a sister has his back, but that isn't the case.
@@augustusbrown5320Same. If you have to interact with woman in general to complete a task or assignment, keep it clear and concise and be very aware of your tone.
A boss cannot just fire you. Never quit. If your boss writes you up. Respond to the writing up. Don’t just respond to the boss and hr because that goes in your file. Cc everyone from the ceo on down
I agree they have to protect themselves and some companies are shabby than others. Bro I have had over 14 jobs since 2012 and that does not count for my current job that I have been on the past three years and all the temp assignments. Keep your skills high, save in the 401k and never touch it and keep grinding. You can make millionaire status still. It’s life struggles. I have worked for feds, county’s, universities, big 100 companies and they all target us and everyone against us even our own. Because of whites I lost three houses, wife and family and was almost homeless but 10 years later I have bounce back bigger and better and now traveling the world.”
Best job is a night shift security job. You don't have to deal with other peoples bullcrap, your alone, you can actually watch movies on your phone and get paid. It's easy work especially for people burned out from all the workplace garbage. The money isn't big but it's worth it to catch your breath.
here is the way i worked it out... i worked for this blue collar company for thirty years...I worked well with the employees ... but some managers felt that i was a threat...no matter where you go and work... you will find some of the same characters through out the work force... so you have to work with them, and they have to show you some respect... and vice versa...otherwise the war will start and you are out... people will run in packs and take care of their own kind first.... remember that... get what you can out of the job... learn and if a chance with your experience... start your own vision job...you can see they do not want your talent... so be smart and use it for yourself...
I've learned that the most important thing in the work force is rather someone likes u or not. But this is something I ignore & could care less about, fuck em. There's psychopaths & sociopaths in positions of authority & they are always plotting.
I had this problem.@ a transportation logistics company. Lots of dysfunctional white coworkers and bosses! I worked hard and my white superior who considered himself a devoted Catholic played as thought he liked my work ethic and a few times I worked late and was able to check my personal employment file only to find that this devoted Catholic had lied and documented things. For that whole next week I was very quiet until my paperwork went through for the new job. I had them spooked to the point they thought something was wrong with me. In the end I was able to treat them like I was their boss! Cussed both bosses out and showed them the lies written in the file. THEY COULDN'T BELIEVE THEIR EYES! I WON! I also knew something was up when they fired a brother within 3 weeks of me starting and from what I saw he was outperforming whites in the company.
This is excellent and useful commentary. I have even developed a way to be more social. The only thing is my temper because I develop most of the solutions that improve the business.
I had a job where I did what I was supposed to do and followed the rules but was singled out by co-workers, and management because I wasnt "part of the gang" and came to work specifically to do my job. For some reason no matter where I work theres always someone on staff that seems personally offended that I strictly come to work just for that, work.
Mr. James,thank you. Thank you for a better understanding of myself.I am at work right now dealing with these issues.The black woman co-worker is 15 feet away from me,you perfectly described her in this video and how I allow her to anger me daily -thank you for clarity.
I agree with you on how to handle the situation but with your logic a black man will be a slave the rest of his life... I have a trade and work 4 self & know it isn't perfect but a lot better than being a slave for a corporate slave master...Have my ups & downs working 4 self but again believe me it's better... I'm talking about a real skilled trade like carpentry or Heating and Cooling not some social media gig or writing books I'm talking about work man...
This guy is right,I didn't fall into the bullys trap,my coworkers all slept with my wife,trying to hurt me ,they are the trash collectors,I didn't use no evil intent,kept working and stayed as quiet as possible,,black supervisor took it to the president ,they called me delusional,just got a raise the week before,been there 6 years,both manangers said i was a good worker,but they still took the job ,the wife was trash anyway ,now I'm jobless,but I kept God 1st,I'm not a loser,my wife did this to hurt me,but karma will come back to them all,she hurt the kids ,not me,no job ,less child support,
Just don't take yourself too serious remember you don't have a problem it's them that has the problem. Be professional smile in speed and do your job the best and you'll be fine just fine. If you're being harassed take daily notes and start a diary. You will know when to speak the Bible says in ecclesiastics there's a time for every occasion under the heavens a time to speak and a time to be quiet. God's spirit will tell you when it's your turn to speak
Social Anxiety is real I got the same issues. People in the workplace prey on that. I try to get jobs where I work independently or with a partner. Night Shift jobs are key, usually less people plus they are easier to get.
Me too
That's easy they're scared of us progressing.
This is what I live with everyday...I’ve had people complain about how I dress at work...I wear suits for Heaven sakes!
Eric Moore ...Predictable and ridiculous. What was the complaint about you wearing suits?
Questioning a man with a suit on is like questioning a women wearing heels. Lol 😂
@@thetoughgroup People really don't like to see a black man doing better than them at anything.
It's not really about the suit, it's about who's wearing it ...
I wouldn't necessarily call our dysfunctional co-workers happy, these people are miserable and project their misery onto others. Much of what you stated is true and I stay clear of these types of people in the workplace. I'm retired military and the sabotage I see at the workplace is sickening to me.
I bet Mexicans play the most games 🐍
Seriously bruh thank you, I have a real rage problem, the rage is triggered by lazy, dishonest, people who lack common sense. I can't work with anybody who doesn't hold their own weight/share or the responsibility. I am extremely rational and logical in my thinking and problem solving. I often believe it is not possible to be that stupid, so when I feel as though someone is playing dumb, all of my patience goes out the window. When this happens I feel like I'm being played for a fool.
I feel you as I've went thru the same thing!!!
Management sees these people and they don’t want to deal with the problem, but these people are often linked to your project, work zone, or quota, and if you don’t reach it your the problem.
It’s to get an emotional reaction
@@designermiltonaaron_Facts
That happened to me on 3 of my former places of employment. It's sad to see that so many people are insecure of their abilities and performances in the work place. I pose a threat to most of the co-workers I've worked along side, and they've always found underhanded tactics to push me out.
We are all struggling out here. KYHUBM : KEEP YOUR HEAD UP BLACK MAN.
I'M GOING FOR MY CDL IT PAYS WELL AND LESS DRAMA I SUGGEST MORE BLACK MEN SEEK TO GET THERE CDL
SOA,
Just don't stop at getting your CDL. Find out what else you are capable of doing. I'm a IT guy for 39 years experience but will go to get my degree in message therapy because I found that I was good at doing it too years ago. Good luck in getting your life together and stay focus.
Thank you for this video as I go thru this every single day.
You're welcome. Had to make this one to help out all the brothers out there so they could keep working until they get their own business.
I realized this video was posted 5 years ago but it popped up on my youtube analytics. I wanted to say thank you for these words of inspiration and motivation. No one has ever motivated me in this way as a 21-year-old black man who is joining the workforce. you a real G shawn
Glad this video could help you out brother.
Shawn,
You are sooooo correct about other black folks doing that stupid crap on the job. I always have to deal with that kind of thing wherever I go. They talk to much about Sports and Fashions and Reality TV shows instead of how to improve themselves.
That stuff doesn't work or improve their lives. Anyhow to make this short, keep making these videos. Hopefully some of these people are listening and taking notes. Good luck and peace out.
I'm a women and this helped me. Thank you
At the end of the day, it's just a job and to think of the big picture like family is your main reason to hang in there
I lost a job because of this exact situation, the level of disrespect and sabotage got to me. I just kept wondering how is it that, these little punks I could choke the life out of can disrespect me like this. Never threatened anyone,
In the end they fired me because three co-workers decided to build and escalate a case for me during probation period. They complain that they felt uncomfortable around me.
Sorry that thappened to you.
@@ShawnSJames it's just moving on from here, ultimately they're were only jealous cause they knew I'll likely progress faster than them, coz I had a degree, while they didn't.
same shit happened to me...
Bruh...remember , were behind enemy lines ... I'm going through the same , but know I don't need another strike .,
@@doriancox4874stay strong !!!!
you know what, I can really relate to this. After my son was born I was pretty much dire straights looking for a job. Working for family is a big no no but in hindsight I decided to do what needed to be done to take care of my son. I was honest with the man upfront and told him that my drivers record was messed up and I have no experience in this profession as a technician, however I would be willing to learn. I laid the cards on the table in the beginning. Long story short, I was solo refusing to tell my business to my co -workers. almost every single day they would nit pick about stuff because they could not find out my business. I was always outspoken but this time I decided to keep quiet cause as we all know freedom of speech is no so free anymore. I started paying attention to the things that were going on around me. the boss wife was allowed to be on the computer all day looking at Facebook, and buying things online for herself, but then complain when some of us wasn't working fast enough. the boss daughter was nutty than most as she could be very outspoken about her personal life even discuss politics in a work environment. behold, once I started to be outspoken about things I was labelled as not having respect for female authority which was a bunch of bs
*FACTS!* This is Everyday and the life that they do to BLACK Men in the Workplace.......I can't count how many times I went through this on all these jobs I've worked........
Spot on analysis I've had my struggles with this as well.
Whoa, I reached way back on this one right here Shawn and searched some old vids of yours. Good information brother, one thing that dysfunctional people like to take advantage of on the job is using passive aggressive tactics. HR policies are grizzled when it comes to this as they only cover instantaneous retaliation. They never cover the underlying passive aggressive details whereas people will do things like: cut hours, change schedules, nit pick about time and attendance etc.
Stay on your purpose.
Show up on time
Do what your required
Clock out and rinse and repeat 4 more days
Collect your “GO” paycheck 2 weeks later
The one person black must be aware of in the workplace is the black woman. Often this is ignore because a black man will assume a sister has his back, but that isn't the case.
You’re right many blacks in the workplace are scared of whites and will stab you in the back
Absolute!
I learned the hard way 😡
@@augustusbrown5320Same. If you have to interact with woman in general to complete a task or assignment, keep it clear and concise and be very aware of your tone.
Facts 💯
This is nothing but the truth, I went through the same thing 6 years ago, but thank god I persevered through it
This video is sooo on point!!!!!!!!
A boss cannot just fire you. Never quit. If your boss writes you up. Respond to the writing up. Don’t just respond to the boss and hr because that goes in your file. Cc everyone from the ceo on down
In a at-will state they can do what they want.
I agree they have to protect themselves and some companies are shabby than others. Bro I have had over 14 jobs since 2012 and that does not count for my current job that I have been on the past three years and all the temp assignments. Keep your skills high, save in the 401k and never touch it and keep grinding. You can make millionaire status still. It’s life struggles. I have worked for feds, county’s, universities, big 100 companies and they all target us and everyone against us even our own. Because of whites I lost three houses, wife and family and was almost homeless but 10 years later I have bounce back bigger and better and now traveling the world.”
Best job is a night shift security job. You don't have to deal with other peoples bullcrap, your alone, you can actually watch movies on your phone and get paid. It's easy work especially for people burned out from all the workplace garbage. The money isn't big but it's worth it to catch your breath.
I used to night security for a bit I got sick off and got a cdl
If you get a good post. I found swing shift even better for that. Everyone leaves at 6PM
All very true, & fighting well known stereotypes contributes to the anxiety,..at least for myself.
That's what happens to me. And the pressure of trying to do quality work.
***** I have an engineering degree, and I tell you every time I've made a career move it has been intense!
That makes 3 smh thanks brother I needed this
here is the way i worked it out... i worked for this blue collar company for thirty years...I worked well with the employees ... but some managers felt that i was a threat...no matter where you go and work... you will find some of the same characters through out the work force... so you have to work with them, and they have to show you some respect... and vice versa...otherwise the war will start and you are out... people will run in packs and take care of their own kind first.... remember that... get what you can out of the job... learn and if a chance with your experience... start your own vision job...you can see they do not want your talent... so be smart and use it for yourself...
I've learned that the most important thing in the work force is rather someone likes u or not. But this is something I ignore & could care less about, fuck em. There's psychopaths & sociopaths in positions of authority & they are always plotting.
ALWAYS PLOTTING! HIDDEN AGENDAS.
I had this problem.@ a transportation logistics company. Lots of dysfunctional white coworkers and bosses! I worked hard and my white superior who considered himself a devoted Catholic played as thought he liked my work ethic and a few times I worked late and was able to check my personal employment file only to find that this devoted Catholic had lied and documented things. For that whole next week I was very quiet until my paperwork went through for the new job. I had them spooked to the point they thought something was wrong with me. In the end I was able to treat them like I was their boss! Cussed both bosses out and showed them the lies written in the file. THEY COULDN'T BELIEVE THEIR EYES! I WON!
I also knew something was up when they fired a brother within 3 weeks of me starting and from what I saw he was outperforming whites in the company.
WHAT A GOOD MESSAGE!!! A GREAT EYE OPENER!!!
Great video, Shawn!
Lots of good advice!
Your Integrity, Strength, and Courage gives me Great Motivation Bro. Shawn
Excellent video, you hit it on the nail I can so relate
I may not always agree with your videos, Shawn. But this is something I can relate to personally. Thank you for the video.
Great videos keep up the good work.
Excellent video!!!
Great video. Sharing in my circles.
This is excellent and useful commentary. I have even developed a way to be more social. The only thing is my temper because I develop most of the solutions that improve the business.
great video! I need it!
Great advice. Tough to follow though. Great will power will be needed
I had a job where I did what I was supposed to do and followed the rules but was singled out by co-workers, and management because I wasnt "part of the gang" and came to work specifically to do my job.
For some reason no matter where I work theres always someone on staff that seems personally offended that I strictly come to work just for that, work.
Thank you Shawn for this video and the insight you answered a lot of things that I had to deal with in my last job.
Powerful point everything u describe d is what I am facing in the sales market now ! Wow awesome work and thank you for this guidance
Great video shawn. I live in the uk l am an insurance professional we black men in the uk face the same issues
Thank you for your marvelous insight, Sir. I have seen some of these scenarios play out in my career as well.
Glad it was helpful!
Man Shawn your right again bro stay up and much love fam!!!!!
💯
...THIS IS SOME GOOD INFORMATION....I LISTEN TO THIS GUY ON THE JOB,
I needed to hear this
I Appreciate this Video alot. I've dealt with this & Unfortunately I fell for that trap. Tha ks for the Wake up call!!
...THIS IS A “GREAT” VIDEO SHAWN....
ON-POINT!!!!!!!
I start my new job tomorrow , this a good video.
Congratulations man.
Shawn James welcome you, David Carroll , Akwesi100, AngryMan , Brian Solonge, Kid Organic have been a great help and put things into perspective
Gm my brother. You are soooo dead on.
Truth ! Truth !
Mr. James,thank you. Thank you for a better understanding of myself.I am at work right now dealing with these issues.The black woman co-worker is 15 feet away from me,you perfectly described her in this video and how I allow her to anger me daily -thank you for clarity.
Thank you!
Great advice
Nice tie Shawn.
Thanks.
Great!!
I agree with you on how to handle the situation but with your logic a black man will be a slave the rest of his life... I have a trade and work 4 self & know it isn't perfect but a lot better than being a slave for a corporate slave master...Have my ups & downs working 4 self but again believe me it's better... I'm talking about a real skilled trade like carpentry or Heating and Cooling not some social media gig or writing books I'm talking about work man...
Social media can be profitable ask AMS
Classic!!
Right on point
File a lawsuit you don’t have to take abuse, discrimination or a hostile work environment.
This guy is right,I didn't fall into the bullys trap,my coworkers all slept with my wife,trying to hurt me ,they are the trash collectors,I didn't use no evil intent,kept working and stayed as quiet as possible,,black supervisor took it to the president ,they called me delusional,just got a raise the week before,been there 6 years,both manangers said i was a good worker,but they still took the job ,the wife was trash anyway ,now I'm jobless,but I kept God 1st,I'm not a loser,my wife did this to hurt me,but karma will come back to them all,she hurt the kids ,not me,no job ,less
child support,
Damn man, I am so sorry you went through that crap, but stay strong brother, vengence is God's . he will avenge you.
Damn bro, what kind of wife did you marry? I bet she was extremely pretty right? The pretty girls tend to do shit like that?
Hope all is well with you and may God bless you richly.
This applies to Black women as well. Very good point and well said.
period!!!!!!
Facts !
real shit I done fail victim a few times.
Yes my man you know been there done that. I beat them ! Knew their game and played them !
bigmoney iceman how?
Facts
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What about Racist customers?
good video I make content.
Are you still unemployed?
Yeah. But I made this video to make sure other brothers don't lose their jobs.
You looking for work and just cant find any? I guess the work market aint easy at the moment
StyrbjornStarke New York's job market has been a mess for a couple of years now.
Excellent video!
Glad you liked it!