My Mom Just Died. Here's What It's Like To Lose A Parent..

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    My mother Terri unexpectedly passed away from a heart attack several days ago. She was a great mother, wife, sister, daughter, friend, teacher.. and biggest supporter.
    This episode will teach you what it is like to lose a loving parent. I hope that you can all learn from my experience to help give unconditional love to those around you and treat people in your life better. I also hope you learn about visitation, funeral arrangements and how to handle this awful scenario so that you are better prepared for it if it ever happens to you.
    Thank you for all your condolences. Love you guys.
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    #Mother #Love #Funeral

Komentáře • 302

  • @StevenSchapiro
    @StevenSchapiro Před 2 lety +389

    You’re incredibly strong, brother. Much love man, always here for you 🙏🏼

    • @nourishcherish9593
      @nourishcherish9593 Před 2 lety +12

      holy shit. steven schapiro. Do a collab with this steven. Let him grow.

    • @Benhojka
      @Benhojka Před 2 lety +1

      The legend

    • @rubens185
      @rubens185 Před 2 lety +2

      I ALWAYS wanted a video of you 2, Steven. Come on, you help so many other channels. My man deserves it.

    • @nourishcherish9593
      @nourishcherish9593 Před 2 lety

      Steven. Please come to this podcast

    • @bladerunner6043
      @bladerunner6043 Před 2 lety

      you two collab please

  • @drakedrones
    @drakedrones Před 2 lety +14

    Losing a parent or a child you love: it’s an unimaginable pain. Now, when you loose them suddenly it’s indescribable. It’s the darkest and most gut-churning pain.

  • @Gabriel-ex4yp
    @Gabriel-ex4yp Před 2 lety +72

    My mum died 3 years ago from breastcancer when I was 19. She died few minutes before I got to the hospital so I never had the proper final talk with her. She was in lot of pain for a long time but I never realised that until the end actually came. That was the first time I really broke down infront of my family and other people and I kept wishing my mum would get up and hug me because I hadnt hugged her in a long time. I was just 16 years old when she told me she has cancer and I dont think I understood how serious it could be . She was free beautiful soul who always supported me in anything I would do

    • @Aaron-fb1pq
      @Aaron-fb1pq Před 2 lety +4

      Wow that’s sad as shit

    • @nastyniggatyreeq6136
      @nastyniggatyreeq6136 Před 2 lety +1

      Cancer man, sorry to hear. People still dont take it seriously. There are ways to mitigate your risk. I am cancer survivor myself

    • @ahviwe
      @ahviwe Před 2 lety

      😭😭😭😭

  • @Mama-rh7br
    @Mama-rh7br Před 11 měsíci +5

    My Mother was in good health and fell and broke her neck... The paramedics asumed she had a heart attack because of her age and did CPR and she had no neck brace on her. She was working full time, managing her own life and home. She was a remarkable lady. She was paralyzed from the neck down but awake and alert and had to make her own decision to be removed from life support. The shock and trauma has been unbearable. This has been a year ago now and I pray you are healing as much as possible. I know I will make it but don't feel like I will... Thank you for this.

  • @nestorgomez8259
    @nestorgomez8259 Před 2 lety +144

    This man just went through a really hard time and still is going through it, but still manage it to help his audience. Mad respect, Jack. I wish you the best.

  • @EIiteFingerboarding
    @EIiteFingerboarding Před 2 lety +21

    Heres an anecdote from my perspective. My perspective on life shifted dramatically when I realized that I knew as much about life as my parents did. When we lose the context of our parents guidance in our lives our perspective changes. We all experience 'transferrence', a psychological mechanism to deal with adsurdity, and when our parents die we have to find a new way to ground ourself in reality. For me, I quit my job as a laboratory scientist, moved to BC and worked at a fishing resort, began doing all the things that scared me including mountain climbing, surfing, road tripping by myself etc. I now no longer fear anything or view my parents death as a burden. They had their time and I have mine and in the end we are all alone, existentially. Life is absurd. I decided to share this with you because I have watched your videos and noticed the quiet sadness that can be inferred through your comments about wanting to do more etc. I relate. I support you being strong, strength is the only option for those who don't operate under sympathy from themselves or others.

  • @bigshlongarab
    @bigshlongarab Před 3 měsíci +7

    My mom just died this morning in her sleep but I tried to save her and couldn't I had to see her pass away and its hard right now and thank you for this video Im going to try my best for not only her but for my dad because my mom was everything did everything and now its gonna be hard to accept it.

  • @mariakarkour8721
    @mariakarkour8721 Před rokem +7

    I was holding my mother's hand when she passed away at the hospital, she had cancer. I reassured her, and myself in that moment, telling her it was not the last time we'd see each other. I hug you from afar Jack. ❤

  • @laralittlewood4115
    @laralittlewood4115 Před 2 lety +8

    I’m 6 minutes into the video and the fact you done this a few days after just shows how strong you are. I’m 19 and lost my mum at 15 back in 2017 and I know how hard it is. As a stranger I just want to say that I’m proud of you and thankful for speaking about it. This video is going to help a lot of people including myself❤️

  • @frankyohance4625
    @frankyohance4625 Před 2 lety +11

    Lost my father last week and feel absolutely terrible. Thank you for sharing this.

    • @MarshPlays
      @MarshPlays Před 2 lety

    • @jet5995
      @jet5995 Před 2 lety

      Stay strong bud you got this!✌🏻🤝🏻

  • @HumorBagel
    @HumorBagel Před 2 lety +68

    So sorry to hear of your tragic loss but really inspired by your strength, bud. Sending you love during this difficult time.

  • @Oxidize
    @Oxidize Před 2 lety +54

    Great podcast Jack, sorry for your loss.
    In regards to the intern stuff. If you ever want help in London, reach out to me.

  • @MrPimpmygun
    @MrPimpmygun Před 2 lety +76

    I can't imagine how this feels, feel better Jack.

  • @lizg323
    @lizg323 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thank you for this, everything you experienced and explained happened to me.. My mother also passed in her sleep from a heart attack on Feb 27 2024. That is the only thing that comforts me that she went peacefully. I miss her so much. My condolences to you & ur family. May ur beautiful Mother rest in paradise.

  • @musestudio7075
    @musestudio7075 Před rokem +2

    My mom died two months ago and it's by far the most painful loss of my life. It's so primal and terrifying. Everything is a trigger. Thanks for sharing your experience. 💔

  • @healingv1sion
    @healingv1sion Před 2 lety +2

    The illness that took my moms life took 5 years to kill her. I dont know which is worse, a sudden death as your mom was or watching for over half a decade, she deteriorates into someone else. But youre right; i do have peace since i got to show her how much i loved her. Sorry for your loss.

  • @Elliott_Mullins
    @Elliott_Mullins Před 2 lety +31

    My grandfather is going to pass away from complications with pneumonia. He was one of the most important people in my life. I feel your pain, Jack. I’m sorry for your family. My sincerest condolences.

  • @Jessmakani
    @Jessmakani Před 2 lety +45

    I’m so sorry for your loss Jack. My mother passed away this time last year unexpectedly as well. Her funeral was actually today one year ago exactly. She was only 53. It’s been a rough year to say the least. Take care of yourself jack. Grief is a long journey especially when someone who you loved so much has passed so unexpectedly

    • @poke-episodes5711
      @poke-episodes5711 Před 2 lety

      I'm here brother my mom died the recent day

    • @poke-episodes5711
      @poke-episodes5711 Před 2 lety

      She is sooo young she is 32 33 she is the best mom and I just have lost the meaning of life I was Soo happy before this we used to always joke around and have fun the only goal of my life was to be with my mother as my mother look at me with happiness and she just died out of the blue bro I'm like umm I feel like dying and I'm 10 years I have no sibling older than me she had no problems it was Soo unexpected I have 2 siblings and one is 3 years and what Am I gonna tell her I'm saad

    • @Roxie76
      @Roxie76 Před 2 lety

      @@poke-episodes5711 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @quanchi8284
    @quanchi8284 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I cannot imagine the pain of a sudden loss 💔 my mom is in hospice and weve had time to say our goodbyes and know its going to happen to have it be so sudden is heart wrenching

  • @Viney209
    @Viney209 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I was my mothers carer for the past 5 years...
    She had small cell cancer, but we had no idea she had cancer or was going to die, then 12 hours later she was gone.
    We lost my father 18 years ago when I was 17, so I was kind of prepared for grief, but its so different now that I am an adult.
    That was 6 months ago, what a ride its been... To anyone experiencing grief, just know you are not alone, let yourself ride the waves and tides, there's a calm between the storms, let your loved ones know you love and care about them any chance you get.

    • @Viney209
      @Viney209 Před 4 měsíci

      YES!!!, YOU GET IT!!!
      I had to be the leader myself, but since I was the one right there beside her, I had to be the one to stand up and make sure the rest of our loved ones didn't fall into the depths... It really showed me how strong I am, and I had no idea I was till then.

    • @Viney209
      @Viney209 Před 4 měsíci

      The thing about soldiers joking around is very true too, I am an ex soldier, morale is the only thing we had to get through the hard times, ya gotta keep dark humor in order to see past the face of death or you may get everyone killed, jokes keep your mind in check, your chin up and your eyes out.

  • @nellie...
    @nellie... Před 2 lety +1

    My condolences. I lost my Dad age 61and brother age 25 sudden unexpected death and the same year 8 months apart. We were very close, I was in shock mood for almost a year. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @nihalpatel4422
    @nihalpatel4422 Před 2 lety +9

    Stay strong jack. That's how she wants you to live your life.

  • @floatyseagull9472
    @floatyseagull9472 Před 2 lety +5

    I feel your pain man. Lost my uncle a week ago to brain hemmorage. He was on life support and they had to make the decision to pull the plug. He was 80 yrs old, and I didn’t know him that well but it still had me down. Your mom looking down on you would want you to keep going and not stop. God bless

  • @theJoefamilychannel
    @theJoefamilychannel Před 2 lety +1

    It sucks bro, lost my mom 5 years ago and there are still tough days. It does get easier but it is still hard. I hope you're doing good. Take care .

  • @RockGuitarist1
    @RockGuitarist1 Před 2 lety +2

    I remember when I was in college I got a call that my dad had a stroke while in the hospital, was in a coma and completely paralyzed. I'll never forget when the doctors put us in a room and said he'd never come out of it and we should just pull the plug. I knew his health was getting bad with all the hospital visits but nothing compares to losing a parent and seeing them in said condition. For you to suddenly lose a parent is even worse. Losing a parent is never easy, especially in your 20s. Hope all is well Jack.

  • @danishahmed3575
    @danishahmed3575 Před 2 lety +11

    I genuinely hope and pray that you recover from the trauma soon man.

  • @moneymonster2694
    @moneymonster2694 Před 2 lety +6

    wish you the best brother, thank you for this

  • @RTendy
    @RTendy Před 2 lety +14

    Sorry for your loss, Jack. Take care of yourself brother!

  • @lindaandmercy7190
    @lindaandmercy7190 Před 2 lety +1

    Sending you love and hugs. It’s very difficult losing love one. I lost my mom to COVID 19 5 months ago out of no where. Miss her so much. Every day is different for me.

  • @thexman69
    @thexman69 Před 2 lety +2

    Prayers up to your mom!🙏🏻

  • @ultimatehobo1054
    @ultimatehobo1054 Před 2 lety +6

    My deepest condolences. Take your time to heal

  • @neznuga4859
    @neznuga4859 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for sharing this with us Jack

  • @ren.8137
    @ren.8137 Před 2 lety +2

    Sorry for your loss man 🙏🏻

  • @jalalabdelrahim1769
    @jalalabdelrahim1769 Před 2 lety +1

    sending you love brother, condolences to you and your family.

  • @JSDink
    @JSDink Před 2 lety

    You’re the man jack! Thanks for making this 🙏🏻

  • @ndnbruthu
    @ndnbruthu Před 2 lety +2

    Condolences and sorry for your loss, Jack. I hope the love and wishes from your family, friends, and fans helps in some way. ❤️

  • @sellitwithbelle8776
    @sellitwithbelle8776 Před 2 lety +1

    You’re inspirational my man! Wow

  • @BasedWatch
    @BasedWatch Před 2 lety +2

    Mad respect for you dude. You've got a great heart. My condolences to you and your family. Great episode boys.

  • @inthemouthofmadness5910

    So sorry to hear about your loss. I send my sincere condolences to you and your family.

  • @skrt99
    @skrt99 Před 2 lety +1

    Respect that you handle it so well and rip to your mom im so sorry for your loss 😢

  • @joesebbo4158
    @joesebbo4158 Před 2 lety

    Deepest condolences to you and you’re family Jack!! Keep you’re head up king !!

  • @FalconLover5xX
    @FalconLover5xX Před 2 lety

    Sorry for your loss, Deepest condolences to you and you’re family.

  • @stryker_6568
    @stryker_6568 Před 2 lety

    Sorry for your loss brother. Wish you the best.

  • @MatthewRockefeller
    @MatthewRockefeller Před 2 lety +11

    Hey jack, i am so so sorry to hear this, i've been watching you for awhile and you're easily one of my favorite content creators on this platform. Thank you for inspiring me and many others

  • @otsfitness2
    @otsfitness2 Před 2 lety

    Sorry for your loss jack, stay strong man 🙏

  • @bradwood-maclean5544
    @bradwood-maclean5544 Před 2 lety

    You have my most sincere condolences and love.

  • @careerbyheywood
    @careerbyheywood Před 2 lety

    Sorry to hear Jack, stay strong brother!

  • @thisone2540
    @thisone2540 Před 2 lety

    Sorry for your loss, take care man

  • @MrKo1233
    @MrKo1233 Před 2 lety

    Damn Jack, you have our support, stay strong

  • @Lmaohavefun
    @Lmaohavefun Před 2 lety

    Watched the entire episode. So sorry about your mum passing and love the podcast.

  • @aayushchaulagain2444
    @aayushchaulagain2444 Před 2 lety

    Sorry for your loss jack
    stay strong lad

  • @tato.8136
    @tato.8136 Před 2 lety

    I’m so sorry for your loss Jack. RIP❤️

  • @nonamemane5133
    @nonamemane5133 Před 2 lety

    Sending love your way brother, my sincerest condolences

  • @dommahaffie1012
    @dommahaffie1012 Před 2 lety +2

    My condolences go out to you and your family, you’re incredibly strong for doing this podcast. Keep your chin up!

  • @OptimusAydam
    @OptimusAydam Před 2 lety

    Sorry for your loss man stay strong

  • @Muy_chingon
    @Muy_chingon Před 2 lety

    Sorry to hear that man god bless you and stay strong 💪

  • @DadStrength81
    @DadStrength81 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for giving us this and I'm so Sorry for your sudden loss brother!!! You are a great man and we all respect and appreciate you more than you know!

  • @AlanSilva-bu1kp
    @AlanSilva-bu1kp Před 2 lety

    I'm sorry for your loss, man!

  • @Smurquhart12
    @Smurquhart12 Před 2 lety

    Wish you all the best Jack. My condolences and I hope this only makes you stronger

  • @sarahd6913
    @sarahd6913 Před 2 lety

    So sad. So sorry for your loss ❤️

  • @knjproductions1018
    @knjproductions1018 Před 2 lety

    amazing content i didnt know how much i needed to watch this until now. i hope ur healing

  • @vladimirfilipovic5845
    @vladimirfilipovic5845 Před 2 lety

    Sorry to hear this Jack, keep your head up

  • @CalebRodrigues7
    @CalebRodrigues7 Před 2 lety

    Sorry for ur loss jack ❤ , stay strong mate

  • @Bisaso
    @Bisaso Před 2 lety +6

    I feel emotional just seeing this.....cant imagine living through it. My sincerest condolences, you make the world a better place and its awesome that your mum knew that as well. 🙏

  • @andrev.4551
    @andrev.4551 Před 2 lety +6

    Hi Jack, I got about a third through this podcast and just broke down crying as I’ve never thought about having to go through this situation. I’m 20 in my third year at western and both my parents are around their 60s and healthy. I can’t wait to call them both tomorrow and tell them I love them. Thank you for sharing your experience. I can’t imagine the amount of strength that takes.

  • @CanucksxDream
    @CanucksxDream Před 2 lety

    My deepest condolences to you and your family.

  • @connor4169
    @connor4169 Před 2 lety +8

    Hey Jack, started tearing up hearing this. Hit very close to home. Your strength (and intelligence) is very admirable. Your character has grown so much in the past couple years and I’m proud to be with you on this journey. Keep going, brother, you deserve only the best.

  • @breadstick6999
    @breadstick6999 Před 2 lety +1

    Came over from Spotify to tell u how much this podcast fucked me up man. Went out for a walk and turned it on and ended up balling halfway through my walk. My condolences and thank you for this diamond.

  • @alyr3097
    @alyr3097 Před 2 lety

    I love this episode. You are a natural speaker for a podcast.

  • @rustyraider1257
    @rustyraider1257 Před 2 lety +1

    One of the most wholesome videos. Love u Jack. Keep doing you. Spread that love 🙏❤️

  • @jeremybanuelos2905
    @jeremybanuelos2905 Před 2 lety

    My condolences for your loss. Praying for you and your family. Much love for you man. Thanks for being honest about your experience.

  • @fase1doughnut
    @fase1doughnut Před 2 lety

    I’m so sorry for your loss Jack. The strength it must have taken to make this video is immense and I really admire you for being able to open up like that and spread such a positive message. Thank you for all of your work.

  • @ar6assassin913
    @ar6assassin913 Před 2 lety

    Truly sorry for your loss.

  • @liamsguitaring2296
    @liamsguitaring2296 Před 2 lety +2

    i think its awesome that thousands of people including myself who you dont even know personally love you and are giving condolences❤️❤️

  • @justinst.bernard4606
    @justinst.bernard4606 Před 2 lety

    Much Love and Respect be well bro

  • @zackk695
    @zackk695 Před 4 měsíci

    Very well said and proud of you! Great video

  • @drtharay
    @drtharay Před 2 lety

    Sorry for your loss bro. Thoughts are with you and your family.

  • @BaumannMusic
    @BaumannMusic Před 2 lety

    I wish you a lot of strength, love and light!

  • @icwhy4366
    @icwhy4366 Před rokem +1

    The same thing happend to me 2 weeks ago, with the only difference that she was in a rapid decline before she passed. It is the hardest thing I have ever had to witness in my life. The moment keeps replaying in my head like some kind of horror movie, it's the first thing that pops up in my mind when I wake up and the last when I go to sleep. The thing that kills me is how she must have felt those last months knowing she was going to die. I found tissues from crying in all her pockets. In one coat a ticket from a hospital exame in the other a tissue from crying, a hoodie she bought the last months that said "positive" on the front. Oh man it's killing me...

    • @soultraveler2103
      @soultraveler2103 Před rokem

      I also going through this mom left us January 2 it’s so sad

    • @icwhy4366
      @icwhy4366 Před rokem +1

      @@soultraveler2103 hope you can find some rest soon, it get's better but the pain never leaves.

  • @eddyma97
    @eddyma97 Před 2 lety

    Stay strong brother we are with you!

  • @talhashahid8853
    @talhashahid8853 Před 2 lety

    feel better bro, my thoughts are with you and your loved ones

  • @hazzytrainer
    @hazzytrainer Před 2 lety +24

    My condolences brother, thank you for sharing such deep insight, was very inspiring and a demonstration of your true good character as a human being,

  • @SeksiKabus
    @SeksiKabus Před 2 lety

    Sorry for your loss, Mr Denmo. Wish you the best.

  • @AdamAdam-md4mi
    @AdamAdam-md4mi Před 2 lety +2

    Rest In Peace. Stay strong buddy! You continue to help raise so many of us, with gaining confidence and improving self esteem. Something I’m sure she would be really proud of. She raised an amazing son. My condolences.

  • @robross7991
    @robross7991 Před 2 lety +1

    I went thru this 2 years ago. You will be a stronger person on the other side of the pain. Sending positive energy your way brother and my sympathies for your family’s loss.

  • @BobMcRoberts1991
    @BobMcRoberts1991 Před 2 lety +4

    Jack I just recently started watching your videos and became a fan pretty quickly. I lost my mother as well from cancer back in June of this year. I know all of the feelings you are going through bud. Stay strong and keep going. I feel like that is what she would want you to do.

  • @toxicbandit
    @toxicbandit Před 2 lety +5

    I’m so sorry for your loss jack. I know the feeling all so well, kinda weird the situation is so similar. My dad just passed away just over a year ago around the same age, Also in his sleep in Caledonia.. he had diabetes aswell. Happened outta the blue too so I feel ya on this tragedy. Stay strong jack

  • @harshwalia6625
    @harshwalia6625 Před 2 lety

    My sincerest condolences at your loss 🙏

  • @KaosMaximo
    @KaosMaximo Před 2 lety

    Hey man wishing the best for you and your family, I had to go through a similar situation multiple times and I'm glad to see you helping people with such a hard thing as loosing someone close. Also would be AWESOME to see you and Jordan Peterson on this show! Keep it up bro thanks for all your hard work.

  • @kulik03
    @kulik03 Před 2 lety

    Sorry for your loss man!

  • @LifestyleTradr
    @LifestyleTradr Před 2 lety +1

    bless you jack and wishing you strength in your healing process. your mom is with the stars now resting at peace, she will always be there with you, souls live forever, one day you'll meet again

  • @mohamaddahduli1829
    @mohamaddahduli1829 Před 2 lety +2

    So sorry to hear that man. I've lost my father when I was 15. I know the feeling of losing a parent. It's very tough. My thoughts go out to you and your family. Stay strong ♥

  • @joaquinmorfin2242
    @joaquinmorfin2242 Před 2 lety

    Sorry for your lost jack, love you buddy

  • @jacklasalle9575
    @jacklasalle9575 Před 2 lety

    My condolences, wishing you the best, your a role model to me I learn a lot from you and your helping a lot of people by talking about this

  • @nelsonvera6957
    @nelsonvera6957 Před 2 lety

    Condolences brother 🙏🏻

  • @icoder-ca7418
    @icoder-ca7418 Před 2 lety

    Very sorry for your loss brother. Hurts to see you hurting. Sending lots of prayers yours and your family’s way🙏🏼

  • @muraya4109
    @muraya4109 Před 2 lety

    Chin up stay strong support your family and vice versa & grieve.
    Time heals. Luv u bro 🤝

  • @GooseDMC
    @GooseDMC Před 2 lety +1

    Most insightful episode of the podcast so far. Everyone should strive to be better in day-to-day life. We never know who we may be hurting, the impact we have on a stranger, or what regret we may have for not saying something before it's too late. Live life to the fullest and strive to be the best we can be. Much love and condolences to Jack, his family, and anyone going through some serious shit in their life right now. Keep the podcasts coming, fellas, they've been nothing short of excellent!

  • @curvedpunch2613
    @curvedpunch2613 Před 2 lety +1

    I love your content jack sooo fucking much. Your like a big brother and a role model for me. You cant believe how much you have already changed my life. Keep it up please so more people can benefit

  • @nicolasa1735
    @nicolasa1735 Před 2 lety

    My condolences Jack, I'm pretty sure what you said during this video will last in my mind for my whole life, thank you 🙏