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  • čas přidán 17. 09. 2016

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  • @Naomiholdennagata
    @Naomiholdennagata Před 4 lety +672

    All those who have lost your loved ones.. it's going to get better. Stay strong. The world is with you.

    • @monikaazariah9237
      @monikaazariah9237 Před 4 lety +19

      You are right...it's been over 1.5 years...and I'll never move on but yes we have started moving forward....we remember my dad with joy and the example he has left🙏 behind

    • @MrGermanshepard37
      @MrGermanshepard37 Před 3 lety +9

      Not for everyone, It doesn’t get better for everyone.... I happy for these it gets better for...

    • @rafaelalba0910
      @rafaelalba0910 Před 3 lety +1

      🤍 thank you for this message

    • @tanjapantovic1768
      @tanjapantovic1768 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you

    • @mrsaitji
      @mrsaitji Před 3 lety +5

      I'm 73and dying from cancer. The world can't hrlp me. Only God andscience

  • @pallaviverma6008
    @pallaviverma6008 Před 4 lety +612

    I am not at all convinced by the answer. I miss my mother every single second since last five years. It is a feeling which cannot be expressed. Like a lump in the throat , like a sunken feeling in heart , like a void.
    Also I feel jealous whenever I see anybody with their complete family members all alive and healthy.

    • @wiilover07
      @wiilover07 Před 4 lety +20

      Sorry for your loss.

    • @bcdl7961
      @bcdl7961 Před 4 lety +26

      I lost my mother a month back and I truly feel your pain. 🙏

    • @englishchannel191
      @englishchannel191 Před 4 lety +8

      yes i also disagree half of the things he said were true but half were very impractical for the people who are not in maya.... sometimes i feel that sadhguru is bewildered by maya!!!

    • @pratzkmr58
      @pratzkmr58 Před 4 lety +6

      True.. he is not a human.... Is that nature of him in real too? Did he never get hurt loosing his or her loved ones

    • @JewessChrstnMystic
      @JewessChrstnMystic Před 3 lety +20

      My aunt just passed away this morning, she was 46 years old.. complete shock.. she was spending the night with my mom and grandmother to spend some time, my aunt was helping my dad clean up his vomit after catching a bug last night.. she went to sleep last night, everything was great, having a good time and night and this morning she never woke up. . . I'm so absolutely devastated. It caught everyone off guard, completely knocked me off my feet... idk why she was taken so soon and young.. but I'm trying to trust in the living father. It hurts so badly and I'm SO terrified of death myself. Idk what awaits me on the other side. I just want to be with the most high and my loved ones and all my fellow loving humans.

  • @lisapiccirilli4908
    @lisapiccirilli4908 Před 3 lety +111

    When you lose a child, there are no words.. there is no wisdom to make you understand.

    • @siddharththakur560
      @siddharththakur560 Před 3 lety +8

      No words can change your situation...

    • @siddharththakur560
      @siddharththakur560 Před 3 lety +3

      No words can change your situation...

    • @tabj2615
      @tabj2615 Před 3 lety +1

      True

    • @TrioloidGamers
      @TrioloidGamers Před 2 lety

      Hey, how are you feeling 9 months later ?

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety +1

      Wisdom comes from God, not a man. This is a story that happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they know where true peace, hope and comfort is found. God bless anyone that has lost a loved one!
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
      czcams.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/video.html

  • @pantheraonca8687
    @pantheraonca8687 Před 4 lety +396

    When my mother died when I was 10 yrs old, the grief has never stopped. I'm 43 now.

    • @RS-to8yo
      @RS-to8yo Před 4 lety +3

      Panthera Onca ❤️❤️🙏

    • @1Inked4Heart3
      @1Inked4Heart3 Před 4 lety +2

      😞❤️

    • @samujwalachenimilla7917
      @samujwalachenimilla7917 Před 4 lety +3

      Yes i can understand..

    • @v.89G
      @v.89G Před 4 lety +5

      Tell me how 2 support a men who lost his mother?

    • @Goldlioncoaching
      @Goldlioncoaching Před 4 lety +12

      Hey bro I lost my mum in 2016 I'm 20 now bro, I know A few other people with the same thing and man it makes you so strong, have a good day 👍👍

  • @lonelyplanet2021
    @lonelyplanet2021 Před 2 lety +20

    Unexpected death of the loved one is very difficult to handle

  • @ital1489
    @ital1489 Před 4 lety +188

    We learn many things from the death of a loved one. How much we cherish them, uncondition love, all of our mistakes, failures and our happiness together. So much regret and sadness, knowing that we took our time together for granted. I learned to always cherish my family and be there for them. To be positive, overcome hardships and protect them. It hurts so much, we are left heartbroken, but we must have love for the ones who leave us in our hearts. Death is a part of life. Through it all though, I always want to do the best for the ones whom I love and want them to be at peace. I've also learned from experiencing the death of someone very dear to me that I must be positive, kind and respectful to everyone.

  • @namansmusic
    @namansmusic Před rokem +5

    I pray for all who have lost their loved ones and are grieving!

  • @chitradevi835
    @chitradevi835 Před 4 lety +9

    Dogs loss is big loss in this world than anyother. She is very close and gave unconditional love to us.

  • @organicbrain7029
    @organicbrain7029 Před 3 lety +71

    Sadhuru shouldn't compare loss of loved one to loss of job or money..if you loose a child/parent/husband/wife the pain will never go away.If you loose a job you can always find another one.

    • @riasaha757
      @riasaha757 Před 3 lety +5

      Totally agreed 👍

    • @riasaha757
      @riasaha757 Před 3 lety +6

      Life can never be compensated with money...

    • @nikki8022
      @nikki8022 Před 2 lety +1

      True

    • @queenofthousandmoons2231
      @queenofthousandmoons2231 Před rokem +10

      He’s saying that that person filled your life because they were life. Other things won’t be able to allow you to cope unless you cope with the loss with love and memories and allowing yourself to release the grief as it comes so you can continue with those parts of your life that have equal but different value. You need money and things to function so they are valuable but this value isn’t tangible but personal which is held within your mind and body and experience

    • @vachanaseetharam
      @vachanaseetharam Před rokem +3

      Exactly I felt the same !! loss of loved ones can never be replaceable 😒

  • @sherinbarakat5791
    @sherinbarakat5791 Před 5 lety +144

    I don’t think the grief of losing a loved one is comparable with losing a job

    • @dab0331
      @dab0331 Před 4 lety +19

      Many people have committed suicide because they lost their job, business, or farm.

    • @shobaneshwari
      @shobaneshwari Před 4 lety +1

      Absolutely!

    • @TheMariza75
      @TheMariza75 Před 4 lety +4

      Yes it’s true. I got very depressed when I lost my job back than now I am happy I did

    • @thepatriottz9205
      @thepatriottz9205 Před 4 lety +16

      Ffs jobs come and go you don't get another parent

    • @trabook
      @trabook Před 4 lety +11

      He said "for some people". And it's true.

  • @Carmsocool
    @Carmsocool Před 4 lety +30

    It’s been almost 2 years... some days are better than others. Today was no good... searching the Internet cause I have no one to talk to about this hole in my heart... someone fix it... I can’t stop the tears, I can only cry out, loudly... wailing. This hurt is something I never felt before... there is no cure, but I know tomorrow will be better... after all... I have been dragging thru life without you for almost 2 years 😔

    • @user-lp1fu3pv3h
      @user-lp1fu3pv3h Před 3 lety +6

      Your loved one doesnt want you to cry, make his soul happy by being happy, he cries when you cry, he is worried for you. Dont rush to go there where she is, you will meet one day, but not now, you have a destiny to furfill here. That person loves you, and is scared for you when he sees you driving yourself to an early grave. Love yourself with that love she loved you with, let her soul come from within you next time you cry and comfort her: "Dont worry about me, i will just let the tears flow out but i will not wail non-stop, dont worry, i will be strong and find my happiness again for you to be happy with me" Let the grief pass like a waive and dont dwell on it. Your loved one wants you to be happy, so take good care of yourself, and make him happy. He became God, now you have personal connection to the father in the sky and mother earth.

    • @tixlazarov
      @tixlazarov Před 5 měsíci

      Praying for you! You are not alone!

  • @leefranklin8481
    @leefranklin8481 Před 2 lety +17

    I lost my grandma on New Years 2022. I feel numb, she was my heart & soul. Feel like she took that with her and left me with a lifeless body. I know she would want me to not be sad and not to be depressed watching this video is the first step 🙏🏽🧡

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety

      This is a story that happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they know where true peace, hope and comfort is found. God bless anyone that has lost a loved one!
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
      czcams.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/video.html

  • @marymuiruri255
    @marymuiruri255 Před 3 lety +125

    I never thought I would find myself listening to something like this but I still can't accept his death 😭 😭😭

  • @jcbhuvana5919
    @jcbhuvana5919 Před rokem +2

    Ur words are so true sadhguru....dear friends i lost my brother a month ago...still i feel the pain...here we must understand we dont know what life s ...and we must understand the nature in all possible ways..when we do we wl realise wisdom.i see some people are not agreeing with sadhguru... because we have not given priority to self realisation..if we are crying lot...surely it will affect the energy space of our loved ones...instead becoming emotionally imbalanced..write lot of gratitude in detail to our loved one whom we are missing.. gratitude wl heal our sarrow and make us to realise new dimensions..i m writing gratitude for my brother..i lost my parents too...the only companion in my life was my brother...pain is there...lets try to understand Sadhguru wisdom..sambho mahadeva

  • @Joy-nl1vp
    @Joy-nl1vp Před 3 lety +65

    My mom just passed away two days ago and my world is falling apart. She was my everything. This video helped me so much. ❤hearing his voice when he speaks even just calms me. I feel less alone. ❤

    • @baeiren3329
      @baeiren3329 Před 3 lety +2

      my father passed away a couple days ago and some comments on this video are giving me so much comfort ❤ stay strong, she's still looking after you from above

    • @Joy-nl1vp
      @Joy-nl1vp Před 3 lety +2

      And he'll be with you too 🌺💘

    • @roger72715
      @roger72715 Před 2 lety +3

      My father passed away 2 days ago. I feel the same.

    • @Joy-nl1vp
      @Joy-nl1vp Před 2 lety +2

      @@roger72715 it will be okay. Trust me ❤

    • @leoorduna2199
      @leoorduna2199 Před 2 lety +1

      You are not alone.
      On this day February 11, 2022 my dearest mother has passed away, me and the rest of my family are in grief and despair, she would never have wanted me and my family to be in despair, rivals to each other, or to give up on our dreams when she passed away. I hope she is up there with the angles.

  • @DerTodundDerTeufel
    @DerTodundDerTeufel Před rokem +8

    I’m 35 and just lost my 65 year old father yesterday . I genuinely feel like I’m missing a piece of myself now.

  • @ananditaadhikary2179
    @ananditaadhikary2179 Před 3 lety +34

    I lost my mother two weeks ago. I do understand that the grief in this case is something that will not go. Absolutely 🙏. I want her back. 😭

    • @VAL702
      @VAL702 Před 3 lety

      I’m sorry about your mom I lost my mom Aug 13

    • @lewisgoff
      @lewisgoff Před 3 lety +1

      She’s your guardian angel now 👼🏻

    • @kendrar3072
      @kendrar3072 Před 2 lety

      How do you feel now? Has grief changed form?

    • @queenofthousandmoons2231
      @queenofthousandmoons2231 Před rokem +1

      It won’t go away you just learn to shift and hold it in so you can get through the day and release it when you get a moment to yourself. My mom died 14 yrs ago and it’s the same hurt and emptiness since the first day.

  • @coreymichael1880
    @coreymichael1880 Před 3 lety +14

    It’s the fact my mum went through so much trauma when she was alive that hurts me so deep. Boyfriends (my own father) beating her to a pulp, hearing her scream, watching her alcohol abuse, losing her home and raising her children in a shelter, being robbed, having her kids taken away and then ending up in a bad crowd which intimately lead her to her end through trying heroin and crack for the first time while drunk. I will never forget that call at work in 2017. My heart aches tremendously, the torment of my thoughts are endless. she just wanted to be loved, protected and feel secure. She tried so hard but suffered so much. It isn’t simply getting over her death, it’s all the misery she went through beforehand, the role I played in being such a disrespectful son while I lived with her. The only solace I have is that I saw her 8 days before she died I was able to hug her and tell her that I loved her. Without that I don’t even know where I’d be today. I guess everyone’s situation with grief is different. I just feel like there is no way out and I just don’t wanna forget my mum. She’s my forever queen, I love you so much Karen Marie schorah ♥️

  • @SunnyKumar-ul4ll
    @SunnyKumar-ul4ll Před 4 lety +78

    His name was Jackie 'my dog '
    It was an accident.
    I can't believe it 😥

    • @FBab-jb4lp
      @FBab-jb4lp Před 4 lety +2

      Sorry for you loss , I lost my dog few years back

    • @taniyanatalia1284
      @taniyanatalia1284 Před 3 lety +1

      I’m grieving for my beloved little guy too 😞 It is so hard

    • @zachv465
      @zachv465 Před 3 lety +4

      I’m grieving for my cat, I miss her so much

    • @aditi3782
      @aditi3782 Před 3 lety +3

      I m grieving for puppy dog. I loved her soooo much . It was car accident. It hurts a lot

    • @lillythecutest7121
      @lillythecutest7121 Před 3 lety +1

      I lost my cat "Lilly" to an accident. It kills me inside when I remember her.

  • @vinod1704
    @vinod1704 Před 3 lety +8

    I missed my wife and landed here in search of good words to listen from her ..

  • @firehawk3651
    @firehawk3651 Před 4 lety +83

    I am watching this because my only friend...
    My best friend, my life, my everything
    *My dog died yesterday* 😔😭
    She was everything for me...
    She was just 5 years old....
    I don't know why but i thinks i am responsible for this ..
    I should know before that...i dont know what i am talking but its like hell😭
    Sad part is i was not there when she was talking her last breath😭😭😭😭
    Miss you my friend...cant live without you....plzz come back...

    • @nirmalanarayanasamy9221
      @nirmalanarayanasamy9221 Před 4 lety +4

      Be strong she would want you to just remember the happy times together and move on happily. The only favour you can do for her is to share your love with another doggy who needs it badly. God bless you for the love you have for your doggy. She is in doggy heaven happy with God.

    • @sudhirkumarsrivastava6543
      @sudhirkumarsrivastava6543 Před 4 lety +6

      This same happened to me 1 month ago but still I cry don't know why but i feel guilty about his death and it keeps punching me 😭😭 he was my closest friend....I dont have any friend and I used to spend my time with him and now I feeling very lonely and he was the most important part of my life and I am unable to live without him😭

    • @studenttime1650
      @studenttime1650 Před 4 lety +2

      My doggie died April 14 2020. I'm devastated. Something I can share w you

    • @studenttime1650
      @studenttime1650 Před 4 lety +2

      Logan I feel exactly as you and she Princess Godiva was a little cute chocolate chihuahua w the sweetest angelic demeanor. She went everywhere and did EVERYTHING w me. She was like an appendage. A piece of me feels amiss. I suffer the seconds she was breathing her last breaths.of course I feel it was my fault!

    • @studenttime1650
      @studenttime1650 Před 4 lety +1

      @@sudhirkumarsrivastava6543
      Logan and Sudhir
      I feel exactly as you and she Princess Godiva was a little cute chocolate chihuahua w the sweetest angelic demeanor. She went everywhere and did EVERYTHING w me. She was like an appendage. A piece of me feels amiss. I suffer the seconds she was breathing her last breaths.of course I feel it was my fault!

  • @YounRangr
    @YounRangr Před 4 lety +67

    It’s been over 4 years since my father has gone missing from my life, my world. Every time I grow or gain something I miss his presence to continue to explore a life of my own. It’s difficult. Comprehending with the changes without him. But I couldn’t gain the new maturity of manhood without his loss. Since the loss of his earthly presence, I can only think now that his death is an ascendance for the two of us. Even with my uncle, his brother who also left earth bounds only 7 months after his passing. It was very hard times for me the years follow.
    This man’s voice helped a lot in the time of weakness I felt just now. We all shared lost. Outwards and inwards it happens to me and you. Don’t feel so alone. This is the journey we all share. Move onward with love. And make best of what they started for you, from the smallest to great.

    • @sukanya2146
      @sukanya2146 Před 4 lety +1

      I too lost both my parents at a very early age. It still feels so unreal. I don't know how the pain is going to subside

    • @studenttime1650
      @studenttime1650 Před 4 lety +1

      Young Rage,
      I am so very sorry for your loss.
      I lost my Dad about the same time as you. He was a deep, strong, wise and super kind soul. He was also a gentle giant. I miss THAT kind of male energy in my life. I hear your pain.
      As a female, we need the that counter balance on our lives. After all there is no ying with out the yang.(Asian philosophy). As a male, it must be even more challenging losing your male mentors, your patriarchal influences, and guides. It is painful. However, time can heal...as they're an integral part of your being. You keep them alive thru you and all you do. (I just lost my little chocolate chihuahua whom he adored). It feels the same.. and it is never easy..I believe their spirits are looking out for us. Creating a beautiful Universe.

    • @sharuae1815
      @sharuae1815 Před 4 lety

      When I lost my father at the age of 21. It was difficult at first to adjust and get independent but it's normal and give yourself as much time. I promise you'll get stronger even if u feel such emotions later . Take care 💕💕💕

    • @pujabanerjee1486
      @pujabanerjee1486 Před 3 lety +1

      I'm sorry for your loss.I lost my father on 9.Dec2020 a day after my 22nd birthday. I really don't know how I feel about anything anymore

    • @D070_47
      @D070_47 Před rokem

      “Missing from my life” it really does feel as if there are just lost, or far off rather than gone. Just a place where we can’t find. I wish we could put up posters and find our loved ones again. I miss them.

  • @chantalove4906
    @chantalove4906 Před 4 lety +38

    My dad got murdered last year may during my pregnancy and this week makes it 1 year since his passing. Grieving never stopped. 💔💔

  • @TheCraftedMine
    @TheCraftedMine Před 4 lety +34

    Thank you for your words Sadhguru, I am losing my cat, a friend who I have had for 13 years, and even though it causes me such pain, those 13 years brought me so much joy.
    I will forever bring with me the happiness that Sammy brought me over those many years, and he has only made my life better.

    • @lorenalorena7078
      @lorenalorena7078 Před 3 lety

      I don’t mean to be insensitive towards your pain, I’m sure he’s speaking of human death not a cat. Though it made you sad a cats death you’ll get over it in a few months.

    • @Enycbx
      @Enycbx Před 3 lety +10

      @@lorenalorena7078 Losing any sentient being that's part of your life hurts. Doesn't matter if human or non human. Please be more sensitive. 🙏

    • @lorenalorena7078
      @lorenalorena7078 Před 3 lety +3

      @@Enycbx no your absolutely right. Everyone feels pain with whoever or whatever has passsed I just understand it because where I’m from my country doesn’t worship animals like I’m the western places. By worship I mean they really love animals.

    • @znichano
      @znichano Před 3 lety +1

      I have lost My bunny
      I am feeling like half Dead
      I am alive only for my parents.
      There is nobody else in my life.❌❌

    • @Nancyleonmagnus
      @Nancyleonmagnus Před 2 lety +1

      @@znichano I too lost my bunny 🐰 today 😢 I feel I want die and I want to meet him... I love you so much 💗 He is a very nice guy...He always ran after me...I love you so much .....I miss you....sure oneday we will meet up...Till that I won't forget you my little bunny boy 💙

  • @priyadavyy2096
    @priyadavyy2096 Před 2 lety +4

    I lost my mother 2 weeks ago and my healing path has not been linear at all. I was fine and then angry, then fine, then upset. I just wish I could rewind time and freeze it in a happy moment with my complete family 😢

  • @Maral343
    @Maral343 Před 5 lety +49

    The creator has done a good job (..) by taking away the loved ones ..... what a void our dear departed ones leave in our heart and life !!! It’s not fair !!!!!!!! We miss them a lot !!!!!

    • @JewessChrstnMystic
      @JewessChrstnMystic Před 3 lety

      How do you feel about the creator?

    • @Maral343
      @Maral343 Před 3 lety +7

      That all the wretched men, the most corrupt , cruel selfish criminals are never punished !!!😡 Why ?

  • @kasojupaddu7534
    @kasojupaddu7534 Před 3 lety +17

    I lost my grandfather yesterday my only strength I don't know how to lead my life without him even now I can't believe he is no more

    • @deeptisharma4153
      @deeptisharma4153 Před 3 lety +2

      I lost my grandma today😭same feeling😩

    • @pchakravarty29
      @pchakravarty29 Před 2 lety

      I lost my grandfather on december 2021 … his words didnot convince me at all

    • @Nidhidamor99
      @Nidhidamor99 Před 2 lety

      I lost my baa(grandma) in may 2021 every day become very hard for me without her😫💔. even she always came in my dreams, she was told me iam back to home, suddenly iam awoke and searching her but she's not there💔

    • @kakuzu_6_9
      @kakuzu_6_9 Před rokem

      I lost my grandmother yesterday 🙁😞

  • @mikelivon8384
    @mikelivon8384 Před 3 lety +6

    No Mr.
    One can never forget the beautiful bond of love, the stupid things we enjoyed doing together, the moments of sadness, the joy, the failures we stood against. The little things that brought so much joy..... None of that can be forgotten!

    • @Felicia790
      @Felicia790 Před 2 lety

      The giggles and laughing in his words did not comfort me. I loved and miss my mother even 5 years later, grief for a loved one is terrible as it’s the realization of not seeing or sharing anymore good moments and happy moments memories and losing part of your blood.A constant sadness and pain in your heart.

  • @Maxboun3204
    @Maxboun3204 Před 2 lety +12

    I lost my father today i never felt such pain in my life

    • @AR-fy2qo
      @AR-fy2qo Před 3 dny

      It's hard and human best wishes

  • @azra4474
    @azra4474 Před 3 lety +18

    I love you grandma, u will always stay in the deepest part of my heart. I will remember every single laugh of yours, your smile and never forget you u am trying to stay strong as much as i can but i cant get you our of my Mind. I Hope that we will at least........ Share our smiles with eachother for the last time.I know u have died in the most unpainfull way but the Pain i fell is nothing like yours i Will love you FOREVER and EVER. Rest in peace. ❤️

    • @uptowng1rl
      @uptowng1rl Před 3 lety

      I hope you're okay❤My grandma died yesterday. She was in hospital just slept and never woke up. She was like a second mother to me. In 20 years I never stayed without her more than a week. It hurts so bad I don't know how I will continue my life without hearing her voice. I would always think about making her proud whenever I attended any competition or exam so I'm left with no motivation to do anything. What's the point if I won't see her smile ever again. She was my earth angel. Idk if this pain goes away

    • @priyu1296
      @priyu1296 Před 2 lety

      @@uptowng1rl Hey its been 7 months since u have commented...i have lost my grandmaa today this is the first ever i have lost someone this close to my heart...can u share ur experince of overcoming from this grief

  • @renukachauhan7819
    @renukachauhan7819 Před 3 lety +18

    I lost my mother today. She is better place since she was nursing home for 3 years. And suffering after stroke. I miss her. 🙏🙏💐

  • @Thankyoua11
    @Thankyoua11 Před 3 lety +6

    It is excruciating pain of a sudden loss of girlfriend, which is beyond words.

  • @elainealexander7098
    @elainealexander7098 Před 4 lety +8

    “ This is a complete life.” This is good. I can use this.

  • @AR-fy2qo
    @AR-fy2qo Před 3 dny +1

    I will always miss my father. I will think of him forever

  • @drsarvotamchauhan
    @drsarvotamchauhan Před 2 lety +2

    When you loose a child no one ,no word can replace that pain,she is not a part of my love ge but my whole life

  • @ukdave472
    @ukdave472 Před 2 lety +6

    Sadhguru missed to mention the biggest cause of grief. Some people regret they could not do enough for the diseased person due to adverse circumstances.

  • @sampathkumar2281
    @sampathkumar2281 Před 3 lety +19

    Despite being a playful, joyful, confident 13 year old, I've been suffering through a lot of pain during the past 3 years.. Hope I will cope with these in coming years. 🙂

    • @ocharakau645
      @ocharakau645 Před 3 lety +1

      My dear sweetheart, you are surely too young to have to watch videos like this... nurture your heart, learn how to love yourself, and be the kindest, bestest friend to yourself you could ask for. Hug yourself every day and know that you will experience many positive things in life too. Please always be kind to yourself, and go watch something to make you laugh, smile, happy, dance. God bless you! 🙏❤

    • @pratikshyamohapatra
      @pratikshyamohapatra Před 3 lety

      Dear you are very young.. Please enjoy your life.. Dnt let the suffering makes a cycle on your life.. Stop thinking.. Your teen years your 20s gonna be wonderful you will see..

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety

      @@ocharakau645 He's not too young to think about eternity. He is very mature for his age. Have you ever heard of the World Death Clock? It is a counter that calculates deaths per second, minute, hour, day, month and year based on records and statistics. It says that on average, over 150,000 people die every day and 56 million every year and I'm sure it is unable to keep up with all the recent war and riots happening. It is sobering to watch the numbers constantly climbing every second knowing those numbers mean the loss of lives. What if the next number was yours? Could you say that you are 100% sure that you would have a home in heaven? What are you basing that on? If you are basing it on anything other than your faith in the finished work of Jesus on the cross, you do not understand God's way to heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Our sin separates us from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved us so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in our place so that we could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to anyone who will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must repent, change your mind and admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must simply call on Him and ask Him to save you.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait. Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will!
      ----------------------------------------------------------------
      If you would like more information or don't have a church to attend, we livestream our services and would love for you to join us. God bless you.
      facebook.com/regkelly.table/
      www.libertyfaith.net/contact-us

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety

      @@pratikshyamohapatra Have you ever heard of the World Death Clock? It is a counter that calculates deaths per second, minute, hour, day, month and year based on records and statistics. It says that on average, over 150,000 people die every day and 56 million every year and I'm sure it is unable to keep up with all the recent war and riots happening. It is sobering to watch the numbers constantly climbing every second knowing those numbers mean the loss of lives. What if the next number was yours? Could you say that you are 100% sure that you would have a home in heaven? What are you basing that on? If you are basing it on anything other than your faith in the finished work of Jesus on the cross, you do not understand God's way to heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Our sin separates us from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved us so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in our place so that we could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to anyone who will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must repent, change your mind and admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must simply call on Him and ask Him to save you.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait. Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will!
      ----------------------------------------------------------------
      If you would like more information or don't have a church to attend, we livestream our services and would love for you to join us. God bless you.
      facebook.com/regkelly.table/
      www.libertyfaith.net/contact-us

  • @robbieanderson227
    @robbieanderson227 Před rokem +4

    Lost my son only recently, 22 years of age.. it doesn’t feel real but I always think that he’s at peace now and away from the trouble in his head.

    • @sreevanisree129
      @sreevanisree129 Před rokem

      It must be horrible for a mother to lose her young son. I lost my younger brother few weeks back and I just done believe what happened. I feel like he is somewhere unable to contact us. My mother and father are devastated. The pain a parent goes through when they lose their child is unimaginable. I hope you are doing okay. If you ever want to talk, I'm all ears.

    • @ellebeauty8737
      @ellebeauty8737 Před rokem +1

      @@sreevanisree129 I am in the exact same boat. Just lost my little brother 2 weeks ago. The pain is unimaginable. Prayers to you and your family.

    • @sreevanisree129
      @sreevanisree129 Před rokem

      @@ellebeauty8737 Please take care of yourself. Its awful to lose a sibling but life should go on.

  • @mikelivon8384
    @mikelivon8384 Před 3 lety +7

    To all the beauteous people out there, if you have lost your loved ones, don't worry at all, they will always be in your heart!

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety

      Have you ever heard of the World Death Clock? It is a counter that calculates deaths per second, minute, hour, day, month and year based on records and statistics. It says that on average, over 150,000 people die every day and 56 million every year and I'm sure it is unable to keep up with all the recent war and riots happening. It is sobering to watch the numbers constantly climbing every second knowing those numbers mean the loss of lives. What if the next number was yours? Could you say that you are 100% sure that you would have a home in heaven? What are you basing that on? If you are basing it on anything other than your faith in the finished work of Jesus on the cross, you do not understand God's way to heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Our sin separates us from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved us so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in our place so that we could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to anyone who will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must repent, change your mind and admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must simply call on Him and ask Him to save you.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait. Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will!
      ----------------------------------------------------------------
      If you would like more information or don't have a church to attend, we livestream our services and would love for you to join us. God bless you.
      facebook.com/regkelly.table/
      www.libertyfaith.net/contact-us

  • @Rishibasumatary
    @Rishibasumatary Před 4 lety +19

    my beloved pet pegion left me forever today, I am missing him. I am watching this so that I get enlightened on how to deal with the situation.

    • @of_the_Word
      @of_the_Word Před 4 lety

      Rishi Basumatary aw that’s so cute

  • @shivampuri299
    @shivampuri299 Před 3 lety +3

    All those who have lost loved ones , god is with you, be stronger

  • @VidyaSimran
    @VidyaSimran Před 5 lety +16

    I lost my 10 year Dog today who has been there for me through thick n thin n given my unconditional love....Even if everyone left me, she was always there for me. She used to lick away my tears and place it's legs on my shoulders , place it's head on my shoulders n hug me....Making purring calming sounds.....
    This video didn't help me, didn't make sense....At least for a person who really is heartbroken....

    • @eduardolopez4520
      @eduardolopez4520 Před 5 lety +1

      I’m sorry to hear about that. I know what it’s like to love a dog so closely. I hope you’re finding ways to cope.

    • @saivenkatesh7928
      @saivenkatesh7928 Před 4 lety

      @Jane Dont you dare say worst video, you are foolish, he is so clearly explaining it, you are so obsessed with the body and thoughts, so you are stuck, watch other videos of Sadguru, he says that your body is a product of the earth and your mind is a product of your impressions or thoughts, that is what you are made of and you seems to be stuck in this, beyond this there is an energy body and an astral body and it doesnt matter. Do you know Jane where you left yourself and your people in your previous lifetimes?? May be you had a dog or a cat or was attached to a crocodile, where are they now in this lifetime? Stop talking foolishly and grow up, before you write something, understand what life means, that is what Sadguru is trying to instill into your hard minds and break this barrier. He had personal losses and tragedies and see how cheerful and loving he still is. Is this not lesson enough ??

    • @DaphneMaine
      @DaphneMaine Před 4 lety +1

      When my husband and I assisted our ill 15 year old dog to transition I could feel his joy in our car and in our house for days and days...it was like brilliant light....then a few months later we were sitting in an AA meeting and I suddently felt him in the room. It was so very joyful...he loved those meetings! (it's true, I did just share his anonymity with strangers!!).

    • @milkykaur308
      @milkykaur308 Před 2 lety +2

      my dog passed away 3 days ago. and its killing me. she was my baby. my heaven. i can't accept the fact that she is gone now. im so lost.

  • @Kaudri
    @Kaudri Před 2 lety +5

    My husband, a heart attack suddenly at 29. I am pregnant with our first. It’s not a part of my life that’s missing. It’s my world.

    • @foodiepeople9882
      @foodiepeople9882 Před 2 lety

      I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope you have people around you who help you deal with your grief ☹️🙏🏻

  • @sarasubramanian7659
    @sarasubramanian7659 Před 2 lety +1

    He is telling the utter truth but it is very very hard for us to accept.

  • @rebeccadupak1514
    @rebeccadupak1514 Před 2 lety +1

    All the grief and hurt will have to be felt by you only , alone. This is the truth i always remember when im in grief.

  • @benmansfield2123
    @benmansfield2123 Před 2 lety +1

    Grief is about a hell of allot more than not being complete. It's about the tragic end of someone you love and the sadness that comes with it and so much more. This video is good, but missing so much.

  • @jorappa9357
    @jorappa9357 Před rokem +3

    This hit home. It personally helps me to view/ understand my overwhelming grief as being overwhelming love instead. I needed this today. Grateful for the gift of this point of view.

  • @sachinsrivastava629
    @sachinsrivastava629 Před 4 lety +8

    My main main Kaka died yesterday !! I took him to the hospital alive and after a couple of hours , I brought his body back !! And this explanation to the aspect really helped me to cope up with situation !! Thank you Sadguru 🙏

  • @robert43er
    @robert43er Před 4 lety +45

    From my point of view, grief is one of the most cruel human experiences. Suffering a present grief from the loss of a beloved human being or animal, it is difficult to agree with the wisdom of sadhguru. I think i understand, that a "complete human being" cannot get in touch with grief. I definitely know now that I will never reach this state. Perhaps mind can explain and arrange with the loss of a beloved being after a period of time, but my heart will never learn to accept this. When waves of grief reach me, It hurts by every single beat.

    • @bhupinderjeetsingh1153
      @bhupinderjeetsingh1153 Před 4 lety +2

      My dear friend i know what you are feeling and trust me i have the same feeling about grief pain and sorrow but here is a question for you,if you allow me.do you think its genuine to feel live but not hate?to be happy but not sad?to be belonging to loved ones yet not belonging to anyone??i love my dog zelus like anything anything!and 20 days back my doctor told me there isn't much hope.everytime i take him to doctor get his skin pierced(which i used to massage with oils and perfumes every week)everytime i get him tied down,everytime im told hes dying,it crushes me.trust me it takes a part of my heart but should i forget the cherished times he gave me??
      My brother we humans are supposed to have a better brain than the animals because we can feel all the emotions andwhen isay emotions i mean all the emotions so no matter what we like but we have to deal with all of it

    • @robertwalter4390
      @robertwalter4390 Před 4 lety +1

      @Bhupinder Jeet Singh: Thank you for your wise words. Osho said that grief is sad because we don't like it. If we accept grief it will transform into beauty. Wish you all the best!

    • @tacobelle69
      @tacobelle69 Před 3 lety

      @@robertwalter4390 well that is the most ridiculous thing ever said. How can death turn into beauty... him alive in my arms is beauty, him alive eating his favorite meal is beauty ... him dead is the opposite of beauty

    • @sexymary
      @sexymary Před 3 lety

      @@tacobelle69 cuz death is the end of suffering for that human who has died, he/she found peace. Death is the equalizer and yes, it sucks that that is the reality all human beings/living beings has to face in this world.

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety

      This is a story that happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope is found. God bless anyone that has lost a loved one!
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
      czcams.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/video.html

  • @lorrainejacobson7363
    @lorrainejacobson7363 Před 4 lety +2

    Your words about grief comforted me as I began to understand what was hurting me--the incompleteness.Thank you.

  • @bernardogabrielpliego-garc5861

    One minute into this I feel calm in my soul, Sadhguru knows the human condition very well.

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety

      But he doesn't know Jesus. Jesus is our only hope in this life. Have you ever heard of the World Death Clock? It is a counter that calculates deaths per second, minute, hour, day, month and year based on records and statistics. It says that on average, over 150,000 people die every day and 56 million every year and I'm sure it is unable to keep up with all the recent war and riots happening. It is sobering to watch the numbers constantly climbing every second knowing those numbers mean the loss of lives. What if the next number was yours? Could you say that you are 100% sure that you would have a home in heaven? What are you basing that on? If you are basing it on anything other than your faith in the finished work of Jesus on the cross, you do not understand God's way to heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Our sin separates us from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved us so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in our place so that we could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to anyone who will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must repent, change your mind and admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must simply call on Him and ask Him to save you.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait. Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will!
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  • @sm-ch7ob
    @sm-ch7ob Před 4 lety +11

    I lost my grandmother years ago. I don't even remember when. I can't ask my mother because we are not that close. My mother doesn't evej know I still cry for my grandmother. When she first died I was an teenager and I kind of didn't care. Years have passed and I'm 21 now and I still cry. I don't know why because she lived in a different country. So she was far and died when I was little. Grief is interesting. As he said in a video. Maybe because I feel incomplete

  • @hemantprasad9953
    @hemantprasad9953 Před 3 lety +2

    100 million, quarter million died, they didn’t feed me, they didn’t raised me, they were not standing in my hard days... only my dad did and he matters me most or anyone who’s closes one dies

  • @happy22167
    @happy22167 Před 5 lety +14

    I feel like live my whole life listening to Yogis n motivational speaker .... Bcoz I feel good while listening to them... after the end of their talkings I go back to my unhappy life 😌

    • @ahatcho138
      @ahatcho138 Před 4 lety

      Then you must do yoga......listening will just make you feel good for a while. Sadhguru himself says this....so go start....

  • @sarrajgkajdk7840
    @sarrajgkajdk7840 Před 3 lety +2

    I lost my grandpa , the one that was always there for me , the one that raised me , the one that teached me how to be humen . i am broke inside . while all that stuff that was happening in my life he was having my back . Loved me and cared abt me since i was born. He was my everything , now he is gone , part of me died too . I wish god can bring him back and take me . I really miss him . We used to share same room , same closet .. U protected me Pa from thos who wanted to do shit to our family . You are still in my heart and you will always be 😔😖❤

  • @Ankitadaksha
    @Ankitadaksha Před 4 lety +23

    Can’t get over Sushant 💔

  • @bani20111
    @bani20111 Před 4 lety +13

    I am watching this video becoz my pet Lanny died on Sunday. He was my baby. The pain is unbearable. 😭😭😭

  • @leonelsalas6671
    @leonelsalas6671 Před 11 měsíci +1

    This man saved my life🙏🏽💥💪🏽

  • @shardaali6426
    @shardaali6426 Před 3 lety +7

    Death of a love one or family members is hard to accept. That is lifetime grief and emptiness that never seems to erase. It's like a hole in you that will never be closed. There is also the things that you torture yourself with from time to time the regrets, the if, the why not saying things to the person gone that you would have like then to know. These stuff keeps pounding and shooting at you and not to mention the good memories. It's really a difficult thing to carry with you each day but you have to talk to yourself now while you have life in you, remember you're the one who can feel hurt or happiness. You have the ability to live life and to love and to learn. Make a difference. Don't delay on what lies ahead of you. Once there is life in you and god's blessing that has been poured on you, you can do it. Live again....

    • @lennysoenaryo4313
      @lennysoenaryo4313 Před 2 lety

      Your words expressed my feeling. I lost my dad and a brother in 2 weeks due to covid, July 2021. Everyday, I think about my brother, miss him so much.

    • @shardaali6426
      @shardaali6426 Před 2 lety

      Hi...hope you find a way to cope with the situation at hand. You have the power in your hand to make the difference. It's okay to cry, to hurt, to miss someone when you know that person no longer going to be around in your life anymore, but at the same time you have to know when to get hold of your life before it takes a toll and on yours. Life is very short in these time no one knows what to expect enjoy your gift of life while it last. We don't know when ours can be taken.

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety

      Jesus loves you more than you could possibly know. He is our only true hope in this world. Allow me to share my best friend's story. I pray it is a help to you.
      Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
      czcams.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/video.html

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety

      @@lennysoenaryo4313 Jesus loves you more than you could possibly know. He is our only true hope in this world. Allow me to share my best friend's story. I pray it is a help to you.
      Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
      czcams.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/video.html

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety

      @@shardaali6426 so true, that is why we must trust Jesus. He is our only hope in this world. Jesus loves you more than you could possibly know. Allow me to share my best friend's story. I pray it is a help to you.
      Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
      czcams.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/video.html

  • @wngggg
    @wngggg Před 2 lety

    my grandmother is in a critical state , she's trying her best and being optimistic, she's so weak..but still trying not to close eyes forever. She's the most beautiful, lovable , caring , selfless woman i ever met. im grateful to have her in my life. she's always been so kind although she didn't use to show it but deep down she felt the emotion..She's the pillar , she's my lifeline..i pray to GOD to give her a little more time to spend with me. not being selfish or anything , it would be even better if god gives half of my life to her .

  • @nashratjahan9371
    @nashratjahan9371 Před 2 lety +1

    My boy friend's dad died yesterday(of a terminal disease) and I've been in grief.Obvioisly, I feel sorry for their loss, but what's not normal is, this particular person, his dad, I've never known him or talked to him not even seen him , yet I feel an overwhelming loss. Couldn't describe in words what I feel right now. An emptiness, a desire to fight the heavens and bring him back,a way to talk to him.I feel like I've lost family.I hope everyone including me recovers from grieving soon.

    • @covegirl06
      @covegirl06 Před 2 lety

      It’s happened to me, too. All of my grandparents are dead. I didn’t feel an ounce of sadness or grief when either one of them passed. Mainly because I didn’t have a close bond with them… A few months ago One of my co-workers sister passed away unexpectedly. She was a young girl. I’d only met her once. But for some strange reason, I felt as if I’d lost a friend. Maybe because I just imagined how I’d feel if I lost my sister at such a young age (we’re very close). Just the thought of it made me depressed.

  • @kristylei2439
    @kristylei2439 Před 4 lety +1

    Sometimes truth is cruel until the grieving one understand what love actually is..

  • @Foxbodyguy91
    @Foxbodyguy91 Před 4 lety

    Not sure how I got here. I haven't lost anybody close. But you speak in a very calming way. Your voice is very soothing

  • @RajeshKhanna1970
    @RajeshKhanna1970 Před 3 lety +5

    I lost my Mother 🙏on 16th of March still very painful

  • @awesomewebseriesvideos8219
    @awesomewebseriesvideos8219 Před 4 lety +37

    I came for Sushant Singh Rajput :(

  • @dormandavis2767
    @dormandavis2767 Před 2 lety +2

    I lost my wife of 30 years right after New Years suddenly to pneumonia. It’s harder than you can imagine.

  • @backlash9926
    @backlash9926 Před 2 lety +1

    I never wanted to get away from my dog it might seem silly to some people but he never let me down like everyone else has and he was pure his worst qualities were he barked and squeaked and my life revolved around him for a long time, without him I’m lost that’s why I’m watching this advice

  • @shubhamkalravevo1884
    @shubhamkalravevo1884 Před 4 lety +21

    I am here after Sushants passing away

  • @IzzWizard
    @IzzWizard Před rokem +1

    I know it hurts but there's so many layers to life. Don't give up

  • @laheart1957
    @laheart1957 Před 2 lety +1

    My sister passed away exactly 13 days ago. She was diagnosed with a deadly disease - but 2 things . I was irrationally thinking of a miracle. Sometimes my heart would say that she’d be around a few more years. So when someone talks about the “Aathma” being eternal, and the body being just a “covering”it sounds like garbage.
    My sister was a gentle person, soft spoken and never harmed even an ant..So I ask “Why her”? Everything seems so hollow, meaningless, and the grief and pain hurts.
    Suddenly it’s all over. There is no God, and if there’s one, he’s cruel.

  • @DaphneMaine
    @DaphneMaine Před 4 lety +26

    Regardless of who says whatever I insist on believing that I will join my husband again when I transition and will carry this determination through my transition. Physicists and gurus are telling us that there is so much we don't know about the greater awareness....so I am creating what I want....who knows .....what I want I am creating...

    • @leksh9723
      @leksh9723 Před 4 lety

      Even I have the same thought

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety

      Have you ever heard of the World Death Clock? It is a counter that calculates deaths per second, minute, hour, day, month and year based on records and statistics. It says that on average, over 150,000 people die every day and 56 million every year and I'm sure it is unable to keep up with all the recent war and riots happening. It is sobering to watch the numbers constantly climbing every second knowing those numbers mean the loss of lives. What if the next number was yours? Could you say that you are 100% sure that you would have a home in heaven? What are you basing that on? If you are basing it on anything other than your faith in the finished work of Jesus on the cross, you do not understand God's way to heaven.
      The Bible says that we are all sinners. When God created Adam and Eve, He made them perfect without sin, but they chose to disobey God and became sinful in nature. This sin nature was passed down to all humanity.
      Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
      Our sin separates us from God.
      Romans 3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
      A holy, righteous God cannot allow sin into heaven. Sin must be paid for and God's price for sin is death, but not just a physical death, but a spiritual death which means separation from God forever in hell.
      Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      In the Old Testament when man sinned, God required the sacrifice of a perfectly spotless lamb as a substitute in the place of the sinner. The blood of that lamb was only a temporary payment for their sin and so this had to be done often. Jesus Christ, God's Son took on flesh, was born of a virgin, lived a sinless life and offered Himself as that perfect, spotless Lamb and shed His blood as payment for the sins of the whole world.
      John 1:29 The next day John seeth Jesus coming unto him, and saith, Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world.
      Jesus loved us so much He WILLINGLY came and allowed wicked men to spit on Him, mock Him and scourge Him until He was unrecognizable. They stripped him naked, thrust a crown of thorns on His head and nailed His hands and feet to a cross. He hung in agony for hours bleeding, thirsting, struggling for every breath. He died innocently in our place so that we could be saved from going to hell. It was His blood that satisfied the just demands of a holy God. God will not accept anything else.
      There is no greater love than that!
      John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
      The good news is that Jesus didn't stay dead in the grave. He came back to life 3 days later just like He promised and He still lives today!
      Matthew 28:5 And the angel answered and said unto the women, Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified.
      6. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.
      Jesus did all this because He wants to give you the FREE gift of eternal life in heaven with Him!
      You cannot do anything to earn your own way into heaven. You can't work for it, be baptized for it, go to church for it or try to be good enough for it. It is a FREE gift that God is offering to anyone who will simply receive it by faith.
      Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
      Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
      9. Not of works, lest any man should boast.
      God said there is only one way to get to heaven, but it is not hard. You must repent, change your mind and admit you are a sinner headed for hell. You must believe that Jesus died and paid for your sin with His own blood on the cross, was buried and 3 days later rose from the dead. Then you must simply call on Him and ask Him to save you.
      Romans 10:9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
      13. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
      None of us deserve God's mercy and grace, but let me warn you that if you reject His FREE gift, you are already condemned and when you die, you will suffer the torment of burning in hell for eternity in a lake of fire where you will be forever separated from God and all that is loving and good.
      John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
      Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
      Please don't wait. Don't take the risk of putting it off until another day, repent, turn to Christ NOW wherever you are at because you aren't guaranteed to live another day on this Earth. Believe God's Word, ask Him to save you and He will!
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  • @AquaAmazake
    @AquaAmazake Před 4 lety +1

    I’m sad that I know one day I will lose my grandparents and mother, but I’m more sad that I won’t be around to see the kids of my family grow up. But I guess it would be sad if something happens to them. If you see this, I’ll miss you.

  • @BoredT-Rex
    @BoredT-Rex Před 5 lety +3

    wow the 10 min saying was really good. i love it. very deep and meaningful

  • @MadihaBeeAwakenedWoman
    @MadihaBeeAwakenedWoman Před 3 lety +1

    This is the human experience..

  • @mayuribhattacharya1014
    @mayuribhattacharya1014 Před 2 lety +1

    I lost my father on 16/10/21 and I knew that I will search for your video and found this. Heart is bleeding, my soul is so weak. I lost my first guru (Maha Guru Pita)

  • @sarahleah1845
    @sarahleah1845 Před 2 lety

    Am glad to add the sweet things they gave me when I grief

  • @lucreziamorganti9115
    @lucreziamorganti9115 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you Sadhguru for sharing truth, despite anything and everything, whether it is politically correct or not. You make people understand and live better life ❤️🙏

  • @pearl_8782
    @pearl_8782 Před 4 lety +2

    I'm here after sushants death..i dont even know that guy personally but i just cant handle the sadness its going overboard ..I'm overwhelmed to such extent that i dont know what to do...I'm a sort of person who never seeks god for anything but rn i dont know what should i look for!

  • @niki5bolivia
    @niki5bolivia Před 3 lety +1

    I’m so upset , he basically just said just keep grieving , ughhh I already knew what the word meant

  • @ramchandran8100
    @ramchandran8100 Před 8 měsíci

    I lost my parents,my two brothers and two sisters years ago.But I lost my daughter a year ago for which I am still in grief.Nothing can replace my love for her.I miss her and I love her every day of my life since her. departure.

  • @COSkywatch
    @COSkywatch Před rokem +1

    Wife died and I don't think I will ever get over it. Just waiting for the day I join her.

  • @aryamahima3
    @aryamahima3 Před 4 lety +17

    I just lost my dog in an accident...I just made him slept and he ran away out of Window, got accident.
    The feeling " I could have saved him" , is painful.

    • @ahatcho138
      @ahatcho138 Před 4 lety +2

      It's okay....that's the way of life. You must respect it. We do all we can while they are here but once they are gone we respect it. After all we'll go as well.

    • @FBab-jb4lp
      @FBab-jb4lp Před 4 lety

      I really believe your dog is around you , I feel my cat around me all the time

    • @arnolourens2030
      @arnolourens2030 Před 3 lety

      Remember a car accident is an accident. The reason why one could not have saved someone from a car accident is because and accident happened. I hope this makes you feel a bit less guilty cause just as something good has happened in the past by accident, something bad has happened "by accident". That's why they call it an accident { it was not on purpose}. Stay strong. I will appreciate my dog much more because of your comment.

  • @CaseyKCRichards
    @CaseyKCRichards Před 5 lety +15

    I grieve fir the loss of never seeing my spouse again. That has been my focus the past two yrs since his departure. My mind is constantly on him Saguaru. I’m empty inside and not because I’m don’t have anything to do. I did do everything with him. I loved and he loved me so much. My only freedom now is that he is in the afterlife and I’m 100 percent positive that who he was on earth he would be sitting on the right hand of God. Miss you Maury Hirshberg

    • @17junaidalam22
      @17junaidalam22 Před 5 lety

      Hmm
      May God strengthen u

    • @kathyroark9561
      @kathyroark9561 Před 5 lety

      I lost a husband....but recently my son. Son hurts far more!

    • @CaseyKCRichards
      @CaseyKCRichards Před 5 lety +3

      Kathy Roark : Yes you must be in so much suffering. Isn’t it so beautiful to profoundly love so much .. to grieve and grieve for you have a reason too. Finally. I have come to terms with my loss. I asked God alone ( I pray only to him ) to help me. I stopped even listening to Saguru , stopped listening to the greedy bible pusher pastors who are making millions. God told me to just pray to him alone for he is King. I do like Saguru above anyone else but God is God . I just pray to God just me and him. I know your losses are now in a better place free of pain and suferring . Yes I continue to grieve looking at Maury’s pictures while talking to him. He’s always with me. They will never leave us and we will meet them all in the ethereal life .Please simplify your life and pray only to God . Just talk to him like you would to your husband and Son

    • @akshathan751
      @akshathan751 Před 5 lety +1

      Loved your perspective! I'm just wondering if what u mentioned that we will all meet up again works? Its been 1.5 years since I lost my husband. I could so much relate when I read your text. If there's god and if this is how life works it's unfair and a pathetic job if there's one creator.

    • @johngallagher72
      @johngallagher72 Před 5 lety +1

      ❤ Sorry for your loss. I lost my mom in 2013 and my soulmate in 2018. Hope you find the strength grace and peace you seek in the knowledge that our lost loved ones are always with us in everything we see and do.

  • @DaphneMaine
    @DaphneMaine Před 4 lety +3

    Overwhelmed with love is beautiful....

  • @Nancyleonmagnus
    @Nancyleonmagnus Před 2 lety +1

    I am watching this video because I lost my baby bunny 🐰 Yesterday....I love you bunny...I miss u so much
    GOD loves you even more than me...He took u with him...I hope I will see u soon in heaven...I hope u will make every one happy in heaven 💖 Love you Love you so so much my little boy....I miss you every second da pa....

  • @ThePvrotton
    @ThePvrotton Před 5 lety +2

    A family member lost her 16 year old son due to an accident. Her husband witnessed it , and then he had to tell her what happened. Her younger son was there too and saw parts of the accident. I awakened a few years go, so I am aware of a few aspects of physical expression, of time, of knowing, etc., but Sadhguru expressed it so beautifully, so lovingly, when he spoke of how to talk to someone who experienced the loss of a loved one, and I may be paraphrasing, but to speak to them of sweet things, to care for them because they broken, to know that now is not the time to speak to them of truth...thank you, Sadhguru.

    • @saivenkatesh7928
      @saivenkatesh7928 Před 4 lety

      So well said Peter

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety

      The truth is that Jesus loves you more than you could ever want to be loved.This is a story that happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope comes from. God bless anyone that has lost a loved one!
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
      czcams.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/video.html

  • @kizzyannrobinson9944
    @kizzyannrobinson9944 Před 3 lety

    My mom just pass few days ago. Now both parents are gone and in shock and seeking peace , love prosperity . My love for mom will alway shine in me.

  • @sathyamoorthy3608
    @sathyamoorthy3608 Před 4 lety +3

    My mom gone heaven... Can't over come with the grief...

  • @latoyapray2292
    @latoyapray2292 Před 3 lety +2

    My father passed a month ago and my mood is all over the place, it hurts like hell. I so would like this sad feeling to disappear, i dont like how i feel, i developed IBS 2 weeks ago and the doc gave me meds but i pray i get better and am scared i wouldnt move pass the crying stage and get to the acceptance stage.

  • @Shubham-hk6yf
    @Shubham-hk6yf Před 3 lety +1

    Lost my uncle today due to Covid. He was like my friend. He taught me to ride motorcycle he was such a funny person. I am shattered

  • @lavanyaramakanthan5557
    @lavanyaramakanthan5557 Před 2 lety +1

    My husband expired on May 30th,where i am finding very difficult to live without him

  • @jogimandapaka4330
    @jogimandapaka4330 Před 4 lety +3

    Miss you dad. :(

    • @isnagoveryew6469
      @isnagoveryew6469 Před 3 lety

      My dad just died 2 days ago man. I’m only 18. I don’t know what to do

  • @larariver4390
    @larariver4390 Před 2 lety +1

    I’ve been sleeping on the couch for change of environment, not sure how to deal with death but that seems to be helping! I sit in silence with my thoughts or watch educational videos about different things! I know I’m tired so if I fall asleep on the couch so be it...just listen to your body and you will feel better soon!

    • @kelleymcfadden9675
      @kelleymcfadden9675 Před 2 lety

      This is a story that happened to my best friend's family. I am trying to share it with everyone I can because they understand where true comfort, peace & hope is found. God bless anyone that has lost a loved one!
      Family Story
      Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
      My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
      That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
      a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
      Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
      His Story
      Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
      “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
      “Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
      He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
      “For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
      “But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
      Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
      “For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
      Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
      Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
      “And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
      Your Story
      What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
      The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
      “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
      We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
      “...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
      “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
      “(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
      ******************************
      This testimony has been made into a tract form as well, so if you or your church are interested in having them to pass out, please go to libertyfaith.net and you will find the contact info there. God bless!
      Tribute to Ethan Lakey
      czcams.com/video/EhobcQZ6Qb8/video.html

  • @DasCODE
    @DasCODE Před 3 lety +1

    Everyone is complete within themselves. There is nothing to lose nothing to gain.....

  • @ishrotkahn5472
    @ishrotkahn5472 Před 4 měsíci

    I think what he means is that grief leaves you feeling empty regardless of the circumstance. Whether you grief for a loved one or a lost job..both leave a hole in your heart..some losses might just leave bigger holes.

  • @gina2190
    @gina2190 Před 3 lety +1

    Maybe it’s true for some but not me, this pain is torture , he was my soulmate.

  • @xirkira
    @xirkira Před 3 lety

    "if you are in grief, I say sweet things to you. I am capable." hahaha, sweet how he says that

  • @alicialyons9901
    @alicialyons9901 Před 2 lety

    Like I said I paused it and what he said is true that's nice to know that someone realizes that it's nice to know because you can't talk about the person that you that has died because nobody wants to talk about it it's an old memory they were never alive they were never there it was just a dream even though it was reality I think that's what hurts the most and it was real but people don't want to say that's real

  • @liltrue8420
    @liltrue8420 Před 4 lety +4

    I lost my best friend a few months back , and I've tried everything to now get sad when I think about it , which is often .. I just can't seem to shake this feeling for long. I have to watch this video to get some insight.

  • @anneteli
    @anneteli Před 4 lety +1

    Grieving a burning house, grieving not being successful etc is very different from grieving the loss of a loved one....all types of grieving are not the same....even if we dont associate anything with the divine or if we do...honestly it doesn't make much of a difference.....people say time heals but time just makes one stronger to carry on with that grief....it is earthly to lose life but it will hurt and it will break your heart and that is just the truth....you will have your days or moments of heartache how much ever time passes and that is ok...every being has suffering in their lives.....you are not alone....we need to accept that and we need to understand it is ok to grieve