VERY IMPORTANT ! If Someone Dear To You Has Died Do This For 3 Days | Death | Sadhguru
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- Sadhguru explains about karmas and kriyas to be performed after someone close to you have left.
Runanubandha is the physical memory carried by the body.sadhguru elaborates yogic processes to cleanse the system and bring the body to ease.
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To anyone out there whom have lost a loved one ❤ Just know, that nobody who passes is actually gone... Only visually absent because the soul never dies, the soul lives on & our souls will meet with theirs when it's our time & we've filled our purpose in life, we have to fill our purpose in life first it is very important, even if we've not yet to even discover what our purpose is yet, we will someday then just like our loved ones we will meet again, love is a bond that never dies, just like our soul it's unbreakable & it keeps us connected in this life & the next, love is eternal ❤ Again, love light & Blessings to you all & everyone who reads this... We are spiriitually infinite...
This hit home..I lost 2 girlfriend to cancer.. Thank you
..I just lost my beloved wife today..😢
Till we meet again my Princess..
The kindest and sweetest person..
NEVER saw her get angry nor heard her say a cuss word😢
We just celebrated our wedding anniversary last month..44-years of Love 🌹💞 and Bliss..
Till we meet again ❤
Thanks for these words
Thank you for this message. I lost my 98 year old dad and my 66 year old sister on 24th may 2023. My sister passed in her sleep and my dad later the same morning😢.
My love to all of you. Not dying but the suffering is the part of dying I don't like. Sometimes we pray for a miracle, sometimes when suffering is so beyond, I pray for their peace. Going Home is the full cycle. Big hugs, blessings and lotsa love to All
To everyone here.. keep strong
Some of this sounds very true, but I don’t believe in this age of loss difference. Everyone is unique and doesn’t necessarily have the same grief experience. I lost my father at 37 and have ended up with constant physical pain - fibromyalgia. Since he’s gone my life has gone to crap and I’m battling to get it back. Peace.
Its easy to console to somebody who has lost her/his dear ones but its really hard to face the situation. Recently my mother passed away and the void created by her loss cannot be filled with neither anyone nor anything
My mom died yesterday too i undrestsnt you so much
My mom passed recently. Help me 🥺
I'm so sincerely sorry to you all. I don't know what to say otherwise. My grandmother is about to pass away I think but we are always connected. So are you with your loved ones. I send you lot of love ❤
@luxuryqueen42, you are not alone. Hang on, dear. I know it is so hard right now. You feel that you can not do this. Take it one minute.. one second.. on step at a time. It will always hurt.. but in time, it won't be so heavy. I hope you find peace and comfort tonight. 🙏 ❤
My mother passed yesterday
I lost my fiancé a little over a year ago. I thought the grief would kill me - I had no idea one could feel so much pain and remain alive. After a few weeks I began to plot how to make my own death look like an accident but that’s when I stumbled upon Sadguru and also Michel Singer… I saw that the pain was part of living, that death is part of our experience and that if nothing else I could live my life in tribute to the love I had with him.
It’s been a brutal year but it’s also been beautiful thanks to these two masters.
I write all this to say - you can and will make it through. One day you will think of them and smile for a bit before you cry.
Wow this speaks my mind, I lost my fiance too on 8/9/23 and it's really hard to breath
I lost my fiance a week ago and am really struggling with it. Feels like I dont have any purpose in life and the worst part is I think it is my fault.
I am trying to get back but it has been hard each day but I know I have to get back up and live the life for her.
But the pain is just too much
@@harshdaiya1230
You are not alone and unless you KNOW for sure it was because if you your fiancée died let go of the guilt/regret. It is up to you how you mourn and you can’t skip a single part of it but do not carry destructive ideas while you heal and grow into the person you are now going to be.
I feel exactly like you describe, The love of my life passed unexpectedly three days ago. The way I feel how can I go on I have zero energy I don’t want to do anything
@@melissahanna2815 that’s normal and expected. Even the masters say this kind of suffering is unavoidable and a part of the love. It’s awful, dark and even terrifying but millions have survived it and you will not be an exception.
Grieve. Let it all the way in. Then grow.
There is no death, the body is just a vehicle, you are the not the vehicle, you are the spirit/energy that allows the body to function. You have thousands of lives, all adventures that allow you to learn gaining higher levels of frequency density, this is an endless journey.
we need to come together as a species and really bring this world to the light of god and spirituality. This world is full of pain for that reason. We think that we lose people when in fact we do not and as you said we have many lives. This needs to be a truth of the subjective and objective communities and people need to start coming together for what matters in this world.
I just lost my nephew four days ago. He was on life support and it reminded me of the movie " Kpax" with Kevin Spacey.
I think my nephew had lost his cognitive functions. When the Spacey character in the movie lost his, he was just a shell. Body here, spirit gone.
@@noeltaylor3594 You will meet again, in many ways the other side is very much better than this side.
@@rmarlin unexpectedly I lost my son five weeks ago,he was 49 what gives me comfort is I known one day we'll meet again 🙏
@@angelalionetti1974 you will just believe and build great memories this is why we ate here.
You do suffer physical pain when someone close to you passes. It doesn't matter the age. The suffering is tremendous. I lost my husband and dad....30 days apart. Memorys torments your soul. Memories cannot be taken away. Never. Its engraved in your brain forever
I was in STD 9 th when i lost my dad he had no illness died of a heart attack i could not cry all feelings were pent up in me it took me years to come to terms with his demise
Memories can fade over time
True ,it doesn't go away during the day it's goes away but at night all memories with the loved one comes back ,dreams also it doesn't go away it stays within you
I have lost my soulmate sister❤..... It's like living with a knife in my heart 💔
Just remembered this. We never takes cautious of the cycle of life and death. From birth, old ages, sickness and eventually Nivarna. I replaced death with Nivarna. We had been through lives countless times to witnessed these. The true nature in your loved one is a liberated soul entity that no longer attached to the 5 senses that the body felts. Your past loved ones will never feel that anymore. And is neither gone yet. This depends on the creations of our karmas retributions forces in life. Should your loved one's does good, they will be rewarded to higher forms, if bad... upon knowing it yourself have to really do lots of prayers to the merits of your loved ones. If your loves ones have no aim in life, then it is a quantum leaps for reincarnation again. It is no surprise to this because I lost my wife and mom last year! I was so attached to those events that I totally lost myself! I couldn't eat and think properly and my entire physical body breaks down. So painful that I felt like dying! But faith tells me that it is the over emotions that is destroying my physical body. It took me months to come to my senses of letting go. Or I will have to go too very soon. I had finally rest my faith in Amitabha Buddha that he will assured me that nothing is lost when I exhausted my time here. In the Pureland of ultimate bliss. I sincerely hope you trust your faith too!
Three deaths (family members) in the past year... Feels like I'm surrounded by death. Can't handle it anymore.
Same here, it’s unbearable
Stay strong! God gives his strongest soldiers the hardest battles!
Yhe covid vaxx has destroyed our health, even the one of the unvaxxed like me...
Stay strong 💕🥹
🥺💔💔💔 Just lost my only parent, my mother... It hurts everyday
I'm sorry for your loss .. Lost my dad also . I pray God gives you strength 🙏
Lost my son Sunday. I am praying for both of you to somehow find peace.
I lost my only parent my mom 8 months ago I understand 😢
Lost my mom. Please pray for me 🥺
i lost my mom yesterday, and i am in unbearable pain too. my condolences to you. stay strong
M 20 now and my mother passed away on 19th Feb 2023 (just 4 days back), I'm so fukin stressed 😭 the pain i feel right now is so new that I can't adopt. I wish god took me first, i don't really like this kind of pain but it's how life is anyway. All i hope and pray s that my mom's in heaven with god watching over me. RIP mom you're forever missed🕊️
Love my dear❤❤❤
The spirit never dies, it just leave the firm that housed it. Your mum is forever and in you always. How can it be any other way, you came from her.
❤️🙏🏻🌺
Condolences to you and your family. Your mom is in a better place. It's better your mum went before you. Simple reason your mum and all the mums in the world, will go through pain that's unimaginable. Emotional pain, no medication to cure and heal immediately. You should talk to your mum and tell it's OK. It's all about the souls journey. Allow the journey of the soul to travel well and serve at the Lord's spiritual feet. Talk about your mum, remember the good things you'll done and shared. Follow in the footsteps of your mum. Cause all mums are our mentors. Spend time with your family and just be happy. Pray for your mum, you will be OK.
🙏🙏❤️🇳🇿
I have lost my only son few years back but the pain is still very much there.
I can not even begin to imagine how you struggle. I hope you find peace
I agree 🙏🏻 time not heals we miss them too much I have lost my younger sister in accident last year day by day it’s getting worst not able to forget her at all
Maybe the lord be with you
I lost my only son as well Oct 16th 2022 I still have horrible painful memories from that night I would have done anything that night to save his life including giving up mine to save him I always love him and miss my boy
Only God gives us the strength to bear the loss. Very difficult to come over it. May God be with you. Thanks.
I don’t care what you say. The age does not matter. My 36-year-old son died and I am I feel like my life is over. I’m in physical and emotional pain. It’s like something I will never get over. It happened one month ago today.
I am so sorry.I lost my daughter yesterday. She isn't in pain any longer and i am grateful.I will cary her in my soul forever.
My 36 yr old husband died 15 days back 😭 extremely healthy, happy, funloving , doctor himself 😭😭😭😭 i dont care how to deal with it. I want him back. I want our life to be normal!!! Cant accept how our dreams and lives got crushed without any reason!! He saved 10000s of life himself, why cudnt his karma save him??? 😭😭😭😭😭
I lost my 37 year old brother yesterday I understand your pain. Hurts worse than anything I have ever experienced
@@niralichandan
This is what I ask all the time “WHY DO BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE”? I have never understood Karma, because when Good people suffer, that theory must be flawed or wrong.
What about losing a pet
I am a practicing Hindu, and I know that the soul is eternal. The problem is that we are in love with a physical self, NOT THE SOUL OF A LOVED ONE.
I lost my mom recently, and the pain has been intense. Suddenly there’s no meaning to anything in life.
To me at this time, to be told that “MY MOM DID NOT DIE OR GO AWAY, HER SOUL IS STILL HERE “ does not make sense. I can’t talk to my mom, hold her hand and show how much much I love her.
To me, the “SOUL IS ETERNA” feels meaningless and it hurts to be told that,
To let go means you can allow to receive... Through this you can connect with your mom and her energy and you will see the signs. It is difficult, I know
@@rydeovashiteverything sounds like a piece shit..i just wanna die now..i am not living the life without my mother
My grandma passed away yesterday due to stage 4 breast cancer and multiple organ failure, I cant accept it but I have to move on and I just dont know how to start again without her, I know she will not be happy seeing me like this but I will miss her terribly. She was a successful lawyer and University professor and she was 100 years old when she passed away.
Im so sorry for your lost ,my grandpa died yesterday because if a sickness called AVC which he suffered for 3yrs . He is 77years . I missed him so much.
I lost mine few hours ago and just cannot stop my tears from running. She was 84.
We're the same... Mine passed away last march 12... I love my grandma so much.... I feel so lost... I feel like i don't wanna wake up anymore....she knows me inside and out.... She loved me unconditionally.... I wanna see her so bad but i know it's impossible
She's only 68...
I was even looking forward for her 70th birthday
I just found out my best friend passed away. I am devastated. I never got the chance to say good bye. I am grateful for the years of friendship and the memories. I am sad because I will never see her again. I know death is the end and thinking that there is an afterlife.
8:14 ‘The social thing’ that we westerners do is far from a nonsense. Distraction is not the intent.
The idea is to comfort one another, provide acceptance that a loved one has passed and to honour their memory. It can provide comfort in the healing process and has been so for centuries.
Thank you so much for sharing this! 8 years ago I watched my only child, age 21, take his life. It's been a Hell of a journey! I've been on a serious spiritual journey for over 4 years and have had some very profound spiritual experiences. One being an Uber driver claiming to be a medium who channeled my son who said "he said he was so very sorry for the pain he caused me and that he'd done his work so we both will be on the same level when I pass and he was very proud of the work I'd been doing ". My Uber driver didn't know anything other than my son took his life. I thought the pain in my body would kill me too, I had trouble breathing and I still have trouble breathing. I'm doing yoga and meditation. I'm open to any other suggestions. Blessings to all. ❤🙏❤🙏
Hare Krishna. You are loved!
I know the feelings since my beloved husband passed away a year ago. I keep having tight chest. It's unbearable.
When I lost my mom, she appeared to me within about two weeks. This told me they can linger before their journey. I am certain the pain is there because the bond was both of yours. I feel your journeys will overlap and that nothing is lost on the spiritual level. Lives get caught unfinished. This is an unbearable feeling. Trust in something larger than yourself, and imagine that as life is sacred, this starts with your life. Live for both of you with love and reverence, and pray for your beautiful son . Words fail ❤️
@@russellsage4953 thank you. I do pray for my son and his healing and protection. He came to me in a dream about 2 years ago. The one and only time. All I remember is him hugging me and me being filled with pure love, I guess. It was something I've never felt and was not of this world and there are really no words adequate enough to describe it. My son then said, "I gotta go now Mamma", I woke up crying but that incredible feeling, ecstasy maybe, stayed with me all day. It's feeling has faded in my body but not my mind. Thank you for letting me share and thank you for taking your time to respond to me, I truly appreciate it. Blessings of Love and Light to you and yours. ❤🙏
@@lindacarlton3154 ❤️❤️❤️🙏
I'm a 45 year old man and I took care of my mother,24/7 who suffered from Parkinson's disease for 17 years and I'm devastated. I don't think she has anything to do with how much you feel.
I lost my father last month.
I think I really need to withdraw for the meantime in order to grieve. I miss my father.
Lost my mother 4 days ago. She lived with me for 65 years. She was everything to me my wife and the son she raised. It is so difficult to deal with this loss. 🙏❤️
Just lost my father March 5th 2024 which is 5 days before my birth day ...died of cancer he was only 61 yrs old...I feel for you😢😢
Same here.my mother was 70.lost her to cancer.drained off for last 5 months.feeling miserable.having nightmares.but sadhguru is helping me to come out of this.memory never leaves us.
Ya having to plan a funeral and have people over after a loved one passes is brutal. I just needed alone time. Totally alone time.
Brutal indeed. 💕
@@skittles2055it is even more brutal when you sit alone and thoughts rush into your mind🫂😪
It is very brutal
Exactly if it was possible i was going to bury my husband alone
I know this
Runanabandha makes sense. I just had to put my cat today, not the first animal I have lost but he was special, everywhere I look in my home I see and feel him, thankful for the memories he was like a brother not a pet.
I lost my father when I was 17 He was gone not part of the majority of my life but he was an absolute joy to be around whenever we was around . I remember when he was on his death bed he would talk about his deep regrets not being part of my family’s life told me he wanted to be back with us but unfortunately he couldn’t hang on any longer❤
So
@@Xyz04 lol
@@JesusGarcia-ig1qw prove kya hai bd
How where you able to coup with this?
When my uncle died I did not cry,
Because I know he is in a better place
I had this experience when my sister died. Before discovering she had died. I got so sick and very tired and turned off my phone and laid down and slept and slept and upon waking got messages to call right away. I knew exactly what had happened it was surreal and I felt the pain for 2 years. Strong constant pain.
I lost my twin sister. I've dealt with many losses ... Her? I can't get over. I've lost "my person".
I lost my brother.I live far away ,i got this strong feeling inside me that i needed to Talk to him.But he wás Dead.Were not shure the actual dates.But that was so strange that strong feeling of wanting to contact him.He was everythink to me.
I am also suffering...after the death of my sister she was like my bestfriend we use share each other's feelings and many other things never ever imagined that something like this would ever happen to us but we are still trying to face the reality that she will never come back...
Thank you for the tips, God bless you with more grace
I lost my best friend 5 days ago he was like a brother to me and I have shared everything with him but I am not in pain or sorrows because everyone will die including me it's a fact. I don't want to eliminate any memory I have with him if I do this I will be so ungrateful to him he has done so much for me and he told me what a friendship is. I just pray for him so I can prove my friendship and I will always pray for him.
I lost my grandmother .. And just want to say sorry to her ..for not being there in her last time .. in heaven when I meet her ..I will say everything what I always wanted to say to her .. till then god just keep her as a princess in heaven ❤ When I came in heaven definitely we have gossips 💕💕
I’m sorry for your loss
I am feeling terrible😢😢 missing my mom.
Hi mam can We talk
It’s so painfully hard 🥺 Be gentle and patient with yourself. Best wishes
Same I want to leave 😢 I'm 43
To everyone in pain, you have to learn to live with pain, this pain isn't going anywhere now.
I am keeping myself busy, and still I remember her almost every night. I remember her in my best and in my worst moments.
@@KumarS-ls1wy thanks and it's an individual battle.
I was so angry for so long. I had to forgive myself and forgive God. When I did- I felt so much relief. I know that I'd I died tomorrow, I'm good with God.
Very good advice and explanation
I just lost my grandfather today I still don't believe it
Same may they rest in peace
I lost my little sister 2 years ago it's getting harder miss her even more Thank you for this ..
Light a white or pink candel for her and get some rose quartz too Place around the candel and put your love and intetions in it and send it to her God Bless I lost my sister too I know it hurts alot
I also lost my little Sister 5 years ago 😢 my heart is forever shattered
@@Tallgirlsrock I lost my my twin sister. I've lost many people BUT... MY twin? I can't continue.
I am so sorry & sending blessings to you guys & anyone else out there whom have lost a loved one ❤ Just know, that nobody who passes is actually gone... Only visually absent because the soul never dies, the soul lives on & our souls will meet with theirs when it's our time & we've filled our purpose in life, we have to fill our purpose in life first it is very important, even if we've not yet to even discover what our purpose is yet, we will someday then just like our loved ones we will meet again, love is a bond that never dies, just like our soul it's unbreakable & it keeps us connected in this life & the next, love is eternal ❤ Again, love light & Blessings to you all & everyone who reads this... We are spiriitually infinite...
I also lost my little sister of 20 yrs age ... I miss her everytime...everyday is so hard to live ..we were so happy family or five but now we are just 4 ...just living no happiness
I lost my mother 1 month ago and I experienced physical symptoms for about a month. It is a constant nausea that makes it so I can only eat small snacks. I also experienced sleep depravation. Thanks for explaining the memory bond as I had gone thru this when my father died years before and wondered what was going on. I wasn't especially emotional about mom passing so it made me wonder what was going on. I could feel the physical "pull" from my center of my body I could only describe as "butterflies in my stomach" or nausea. My mom and I never really got along that well so it was weird to feel slightly euphoric like I had tapped into something pure and beautiful that made me happy and at peace. BTW I am a 58 year old woman. Not everything always fits the "rules" huh? Or maybe this is something different. I also felt compelled to through a tribute fir her with food music and a song I wrote for her and then I spent time alone. Thanks for the vid!
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I just lost the love of my life. I feel lost. I have cried every single day since May 6th of this year. I will forever hurt he can never be replaced.
I’m very sorry about your loss trust me I completely understand how you feel, i lost my wife 2018 I can still feel the void in my heart, but I know she’s in a better place, time they say is the best healer especially when you’re with the right people, I’d love to talk to you more privately if you don’t mind ?
Superb Advice!!!
My 2nd daughter was stillborn two weeks before her due date. I miss hear everyday and I constantly fail to find a proper coping mechanism. Alhamdullilah may peace be upon us to rise above the sufferage and be one with our losses
My issue is I’m immortal. I have mourned my loved ones dying countless times. Never get over it. I still have strong bond with my father. You , do you. I don’t exist in time anymore. I’ve only managed to resurrect 4 people as rest the pains more serving than having them alive would make me happy.
I find the teachings so helpful as I grieve the death of my husband. However, I would prefer to see you Sadguruji, instead of the pictures of different people
🙏🙏🙏🙏 thank you so much. God bless you.
Wonderful explanation sadgharu thankyou ❤️😊
Iam in Tennessee my sister had cancer and died in Chicago
One nite I sat in a chair and cried while talking to her and asked her to let her soul go to God because she was suffering so much ..
I later found out that she died about 11 pm
That was the same time I talked to her on the same day she passed........
No by uh ,
.
.When they go missing their spirit is not there thus nothing you do really matters other than showing your respect and taking care of their body.
So spirit goes to the 7th Star as per Kindergarten stories right 😂
Sadghuru I feel sad everyday because I feel the deaths around the world. I love all beings.
Namaste
Me as well
Say prayers light people a candel This helps Youll see
I've lost so many and hurt so much
I just had a very clear dream with two friends who passed away in it. As soon as i strated telling them how they died it seemed i started disappearing and it was like they couldn't see me or hear me anymore. The more i started going into details it was like i was fading away then i woke up. Before i started telling them im from the future and they passed away everything was clear even communication. The whole situation felt so real i still can see them clearly and remember every place we was.
the very last message is the truth to healing
Lost my Dad when I was 41. 3 and a half years later pain is still the same... even worse... We had really close relationship,he was my friendS and family all of my life... I don't believe it will ever get easier for me personally.
Shift those numbers around to 143 is a message to say i love you
How are you now? Im in exactly the same position but just beginning this grief journey😢
don't worry ... We all gonna meet our loved once in heaven .. ❤I believe in this concept of life after death ..
Watching this video,teary eyed, as my dad passed away today morning...
Sorry to hear that😢😢. Stay strong.. Om shanti
@@mayuuur1785 🙏
I lost my uncle today.. I felt like helpess.. In upcoming 2 days I have my exam too
@@mayuuur1785 May his soul Rest in Peace...stay strong... all the best for your exams...
my grandmother died last night ..even can't believe She is gone and its 1st day that she is not here ... These emotions are the chain which binds us with our family and frnds .. Infact if we understand others pain.. The real humanity glorify..bcz every one feels the same after someone death ..
I lost one of my nephew died by accident 3 years ago he is younger than me i used to carry him all the time and i loved him so much when i lost him i didn't even cried properly but I can sense everytime he is with me so many nights he is speaking with me with atmost love and care, whenever i ride my bike too fast that night he'll be in the dream and trying to telling so many things even he told me how he died by falling down from bike... Im happy even he left from world but he is with me every time
🙏 everyone is strong here
Live with god and god with live through you and everyone
Positive energy
My condolences to everyone on this post who lost a loved one. God Loves You❤
My father died before 2 months ago..😥 I couldn't see him leaving, he was so so so much ill. I couldn't see his pain . I still feel hurt n broken because of his pain..
I hope you will recover from your loss
Your father doesn't, and wouldn't want you to
Jesus loves you more than you could ever know. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you. I pray that you will find the source of true peace and comfort. God bless.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
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52. Lost my dad. It’s great hole. I miss him.
Thank you
Thanks for uploading this :)
namaskaram....its always Our pleasure!...we are glad you liked it and found it informative
Wisdom. ❤🕊 Thank you.
Just lost my dad 2 weeks ago. I’m 22, female .. this pain is so deep as we were really close as me being his primary caregiver.. i found him deceased in his bedroom when I woke up that morning. I’m almost numb to everything else going on around me, and it’s becoming difficult to fully grasp everything as my new reality. Looking for anything that helps me move on healthily and live a fulfilling life if anyone has any advice
So sorry for you loss! Don’t you think he was ready to go as it happened?
@@mthxjzz6462 maybe. He was only 63. we didn't have any preparation for that day. We didn't see it coming. It was a suffocation type of situation, very tragic and unexpected.
@@pessimisticoptimist yes this is tragic. Wish I could help you somehow. But I don't even believe in death. I mean I even wish it was final but it's basically just a word. And no one really knows what that means. I'm not good at that cause really only see dying as a redeeming transition. Hope you find your „play“ again soon!
@@mthxjzz6462 death is one of, if not the only, guarantees of life, thank u for ur kind words tho! What do you mean by you don’t believe in death? How can you not believe in something that is absolute?
@@pessimisticoptimist how can you know its absolute? Its just an idea. A word which can be interpretated or filled with indoctrinated believe. Everything dies thats for sure. But how can you know what death is or that death is or that death is the end? Thats pure imagination.
Timely information
Never listened to as much gibberish from this header you never fill the hole of a loved one passing
It has taken 5 years to feel better after my husband died … sadghuru helped me a great deal at the time … I was very grief stricken . One thing I say to you who are suffering … remember to breath … it gets better .
I lost my son three years back but still I am not able to come out of that grief he died in Goa beach while playing in the sea horrible experience what to do how to bear
He was happy and playing in the sea... I dunno how he died but like to pretend he died in a fantasy and happy. I seriously wish you well. Life for those still here SUCKS.
My grandmother passed Monday night and I am having a hard time.
I can feel your pain bro ....
Same happened with me
@@MrRahul15937 Lost my grandmother yesterday. Broken completely
i feel all of your pains. I lost mine last year and it broke me. I am a physician but that is only a front to try to find what is happening and where she is. The only thing that matters in this world is to find our loved ones and know that they are allright, that we will again be together after this speck of life.
I lost my father when I was 20 and at 31 i lost my sister in an accident. I feel like my family is cursed and its been 2 years since my sister passing and there is nothing in life that gives me happiness, i have no hope of living.
May we grieve solely for attachment.. and mot get lost in the infinite hypotheticals & wonderings...& not for non experiences or duration. Not quantity of life but quality of life.. not quantity time but quality time.. non experiences & duration; N/A... i believe anyways.... i think that time doesn't heal all wounds, but accompanied by reflecting; acceptance of a wound that won't mend & a certain pain tolerance increases
Not entirely true. I’m also battling HOW my loved one has passed.
Jesus loves you more than you could ever know. I'd like to share my best friend's story with you. I pray that you will find the source of true peace and comfort. God bless.
Precious Memories-By Sonya Lakey
Family Story
Little did our family of six know that Friday evening, September 24th, 2021, would be the last night our family would be complete. We laughed together, played games, sang, and enjoyed listening as our 16-year-old son, Ethan, played the piano for us. I packed a lunch for Ethan for a church mountain hike he was going on the following day.
My mother (who was visiting from out of state) and I woke early with Ethan on Saturday morning. He hugged me and smiled, never pulling away or rushing me. He got in the car, waved, said he'd see me later and he loved me. It was hard to watch my "new driver" heading out on his own that morning. As Ethan pulled out of the gate, I turned to my mother and said, "It's just so hard letting go." Little did I know how much "letting go" I was really doing. That was the last time I saw Ethan. He did not make it home that evening.
That afternoon, a friend tried to contact my husband, leaving an urgent message to call him back. He tried several times to return the call to no avail. As we were preparing supper, an overwhelming feeling of deep concern for Ethan filled my heart. I quietly blinked back tears. I glanced out the window, half expecting to see a police officer pull up to the house, but no one arrived. However, within a few minutes, a patrol car DID pull into the driveway. In my heart, I feared the worst. My husband and I went out to meet the officer, who confirmed our fears. Hesitantly, he told us our son had fallen off of
a bluff and had succumbed to his injuries. Our hearts were crushed; they still are.
Yet, in all of our brokenness, deep, continual grief and loneliness, our family has such a blessed Hope and assurance that we will see our dear son and brother again. You see, when Ethan was a young boy, he was saved; he put his faith in Jesus alone to forgive his sins and to take him to Heaven when he died. He realized some very important truths from the Bible that he would want to share with you.
His Story
Everyone is a sinner. Sin is any violation of God’s Law. God is holy, just and righteous, and He cannot allow sin in His presence. Ethan realized that he - like all of us - had sinned; and his sin separated Him from God.
“For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; ” (Romans 3:23)
“Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:” (Romans 5:12)
He understood that, because of his sin, he deserved to spend eternity in Hell.
“For the wages of sin is death;” (Romans 6:23a) [Wages: price]
“But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.” (Revelation 21:8)
Ethan believed that Jesus, God’s Son, paid the price for all sin when He died on the cross - because His sinless sacrifice was the only thing that could satisfy the just demands of a righteous, holy God. Jesus was buried in a borrowed tomb, but He arose the third day, triumphant over sin, death, and Hell. Jesus is alive today!
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
“For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Ethan was sorry for his sin, repented (turned), and received by faith the free gift that God offered to him.
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“...but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” (Romans 6:23b)
Because of this great salvation, Ethan lived his life serving Jesus. He worked hard to spread this Good News to the world. He is alive in Heaven with Jesus today; and because of this great HOPE in Christ, we know we will see him again soon - not because he was a great kid, but because of his faith in the great Saviour!
“And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.” (John 10:28)
Your Story
What about you? What if you had fallen to your death that day - What if you were to die today? Where will you spend eternity - Heaven or the Lake of Fire? There will not be any parties in the Lake of Fire. It is a place of eternal torment for those who reject God's Son.
The Word of God is very clear that there is only One Way to Heaven.
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” (John 14:6)
We did not know that Ethan would step into eternity that day; however, because he put his faith in Jesus alone for his salvation, Ethan was ready to go. Some day - perhaps today - you will take your last breath here on earth, and you will step into eternity. Where you spend eternity is determined by what you do with Jesus Christ. Will you accept Him or reject Him? You are not promised another day or another breath. Eternity begins soon - Are you ready?
“...Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved…” (Acts 16:31b)
“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” (Romans 10:13)
“(...behold, now is the day of salvation.)” (2 Corinthians 6:2c)
******************************
This testimony has been made into a gospel tract. If you or your Church would be interested in passing them out or if you would like to send a word of encouragement to the family, please go to:
facebook.com/GITM-Foundation-113997824650357/
We would love for you to join our livestream church services @ Liberty Faith Bible Church in Norwood, Mo. every Sunday morning central time 11:00 A.M., Sunday evening 7:00 P.M., and Wednesday evening 7:00. P.M. where you will hear sound, biblical preaching from God's Word as well as uplifting, godly music. You can find us online at one of these three places:
Online: libertyfaith.net
Facebook: Reg Kelly-Table In The Wilderness
Sermon audio: Liberty Faith Church Pastor Reg Kelly
CZcams: Liberty Faith Church Reg Kelly sermons
Sadguru...i have none in this world..my wife at her 50 years of age left me behind..how can i forget her memories for myself untill i leave this world for good....Pronam Sadguru
Before I found out my dad passed away when I was 14. I had a weird headache and my whole body felt exhausted. The moment I found out my dad had passed, those physical feelings went away.
I lost my fiance this Thursday in a road accident....
We were about to engaged this Sunday means today....
Iam feeling terrible ...it's worst than death.....
Wish that someday when I die....she will meet me....
Is there any way to communicate with her????
SADGURU...PRONAM.....🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤2months ago i have lost my best friend my wife due to kidney failure..Now i am undergoing a TRAUMA..i am 61 years old but the pain of loosing her let me in sorrow of suffering..now i fail to walk ..my phisical suffering is going to start...help me Sadguru...some adviced me to get help of psychotherapic nuero medicine throuh qalified doctor.but i am looking at your bliss& grace ..pronam maharaj.
The psychical memories is what killing me the memories in my sleep is how I'm I feel there presence
What are Sadhguru’s thoughts on organ donation. Smita
I lost my love a week ago.I am under shock and still cant beleive it...the soul departed befire my eyes....My pain is unexplainable....just existing and dont feek that i am alive....i love him so much
Thank u guru
Loosing a child kills a part of you forever. The world holds no value anymore. A lingering feeling that you are wasting your time here. You start wondering of the possibility of reuniting with your child(at least once) if you leave today, immediately.
Sure and you even want to end up your life
Much apreciation 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
namaskaram
@@TheMysticWorld Namaskaram
@@TheMysticWorld well wishes
Thankyou for your good work
I just buried my 39 year old son yesterday .
I'm considered an " old student " of Vipassanna. The 3 days of meditation immediately after the death is almost impossible for Westerners. I was constantly being contacted by the Coroner, funeral director, and family coming from out of town.
Thank you ❤ I'm 😭😔 My daughter passed away Fri 28 she was 30 years old 💔💔😭😥
I’m very sorry about your loss, how have you been doing ?
My friends brother died I wish she finds peace and the soul finds its purpose
My mom has been gone almost a year now but the pain gets worse by day,am 45,I feel like crap,just trying it for my two teenage kids😢
I lost my friend he was 14 he was in very bad condition
😢
Pronam Sadguru
..how can i get out of trauma of my beloved wife's death..to live life lively leaving under the lotus feet of LORD SHIVA?!?🎉❤🎉❤
I m 60 and have been with my parents all my life. I miss them miserably. They were my reason to live, my love and they loved me immensely. No one loves me now. Everything is give and take relationship. How can I meet them? Will I be able to meet them when I leave this body. 😊pls Sadhguru answer.
I lost my husband 6 years ago from a massive heart attack he died in front of me and my 16 year old daughter. It still hurts
I miss him so bad. I lost my best friend , he was my world and I was his.
I’m very sorry about your husband trust me I completely understand how you feel, i lost my wife 2018 I can still feel the void in my heart, but I know she’s in a better place, time they say is the best healer especially when you’re with the right people, I’d love to talk to you more privately if you don’t mind ?
Wounds very difficult to heal
No brutal guruji...its fact if life and we have to accept it..life has to move on
I thankyou
It's ok to griefok do not let people tell yougargaewenustdied Anita hard for us
My mom died in ocotober 2023 and it’s just hitting me . I also got divorced. I live in a town where I only had my husbands family it’s so hard .
Appreciate
1:35 no longer ‘must understand’ but should
What if your emotional and physical being is affected when you are a caretaker for your parents? And then each parent dies within a year of each other?
My daughter was murdered on july 2nd 2021 it’s been horrible losing her
I saw my father take hisladt breath and me and my broyher tried our best to save him.... 2 more days makesit a month this is one of the most hardest time of my life
Same lost my dad 20 days back
Is there any correlation between both parents passing away around the same time of day but on different days? I've tried to search on the internet but nothing comes up in my search. I can only find info on when both parents pass away on the same day or close together. I think there might be a meaning but haven't found it yet. Any help would be greatly appreciated. My parents both passed away on different month, day and year but almost exactly the same time of day. The only difference is that one passed during daylight savings and the other during standard time.
JAI SHREE SATGURU
Iloveyousomuch Inay..... I wish I could've hold you and said Iloveyousomuch before your last breath.
that is not true!! regard attachment memories
my brother died at age 21,and my mother was never the same again!!! never!! she went almost crazy literally ,poor mother. and i was too young to help her then..only 8 year old i were.
and when my mother died in 2008 and my sister in 2019,i suffered a lot,but i need and want to let go..i ve lost a brother and a sister in 2021,but although i felt something it was as not strong as the lose of my mother and that sister 7 year older than i......so we cannot never say that we lose attachment ate certain age..and yes i m old already! and still...i miss my family so much
I lost my grandma(Naani) today around 12 pm...💔💔
It feels like she left a void in my heart 💔💔
That's really true. Understandable. 🙏🙏🙏
Dear dadguru