5 Powerful Secrets To Unlock His Heart So He Falls In Love - With Clayton Olson!
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- This is an interview with Clayton Olson on five powerful secrets to unlock a man's heart so he falls in love.
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Clayton is a Relationship Coach and Master NLP Practitioner who helps people release their deeper blocks to love so they can create the kind of relationships they want.
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Helena Hart - Amazing content guys ! Very informative and well thought out video. Really appreciated you providing real life scenarios to back up the concepts discussed. Thanks you both ! x
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you Clayton. Everything you said was so brilliant and real communication you can possibly have between two loving people. What a relief to know that God is in my heart to be able to allow myself to feel confident enough to be down to earth. We are truly blessed to know that all people really have some of the same feelings and vulnerabilities. Thank you for sharing 💙💦
You’re welcome, Cheryl! ❤️
Thank you for bringing this video out to us women's to help us with being real with the men we meet. You are truly a beautiful person and you have such a good heart. You're doing amazing!!! 💟
Be with someone you can totally be yourself with!!
I agree with person above me. To be with someone you can be yourself with, your best self though.
"Stop being the cool girl" - wow! So important!! Especially when the man is afraid because it can makes us confused and with some defenses.
Probably the best relationship video I have ever watched.
Thank you Gabriela, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕
This video is a GEM. Don’t ever delete it.
I’m glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching! 💕
Explosion of wisdom, every woman should watch this
Thank you!
A few years ago the man I was dating literally told me that he was "in awe" at my "range of emotion". I think he said that when I was really sad & cried when he told me of a bully experience he had growing up. He said it respectfully, but I still wondered if it was a negative thing for him to see. I really appreciate your explanations which are helping me to understand better.
I'm glad this was helpful for you Sarah, thanks for sharing your experience here!
I absolutely adore Clayton and thank him for his work
I love how Helena is always able to admit her own blind spots ! 💕 feels authentic!
Thanks Rachael!
omg my two fav coaches together!!! this was pure magic, hope you two do more videos! thank u so much
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed the video! 💕
Loved this! I've heard these things before but the way he explained everything made me understand it on a much deeper level. He's such a good communicator and sees things so clearly. Really appreciated this.
I’m glad you enjoyed this! Here the latest livestream I did with Clayton if you’d like to check it out (I’d love to hear your thoughts on it if you do!): czcams.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/video.html
My 2 favourite coaches together! You guys give authentic and helpful advice. Thank you. I am personally learning and I hope to one day wake up empowered in a loving relationship .
You're welcome, I'm glad this was helpful! You'll LOVE Clayton's free webinar too, here's where you can sign up if you haven't already: claytonolsoncoaching.com/3-Keys-Webinar-Helena
Love this discussion. Basically be yourself and nurture your relationships.
Thanks JSM, I'm glad you enjoyed this!
Clayton! You are awesome!
One of the best conversations I've heard...hands down..helping me to formulate my words and thought process.. Thank you!
You’re welcome Patricia, I’m so glad this was helpful! 💗
CARDS - Challenge - Awe - Respect - Desire - Safe (emotionally)
Risking being hurt again is the opposite side of the same coin, with risking to be healed in a relationship, be able to grow.
Brilliant video - 2 of my favourite coaches out there together :) Thank you!
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜
Helena, I enjoy all of you videos - your content is excellent and I love how you present them! Warmly and enthusiastically. It's really good to watch :)
Thank you so much!
♥️ 🌻
I appreciate both of these coaches so much!! Their personal perspective as well as professional perspective and ability to be vulnerable With Their audience really sets them apart. I'm especially impressed with Clayton because most men can't really Express the root of these things and I can really see the effort to produce quality content that is authentic and an excellent foundation for any relationship. Excellent video.
Thank you so much, Angela! ❤️
Would love to learn more about deepening a long distance relationship and manuevering the different stages from early dating to getting to long term commitment/ marriage. Theres just not enough content on this and it certainly adds another complexity to the relationship. Helena I just admire your inner strength to take on a channel like this you are truly dedicated to helping women better themselves. Thank you!
You’re welcome! I’ll definitely keep this in mind for future videos. I have one coming out soon on how to navigate going from the early stages of dating to getting into a long-term committed relationship.
Thanks to this video! I must admit I needed these kind of lessons to understand more about relationship dynamics and be able to open myself up to good quality men out there. Thanks for your input Clayton!
You're welcome, I'm glad this was helpful!
You n Clayton are my absolute favorites!! So much valuable information! I’m feeling more prepared n corrected than ever n I’ll be reuniting with a man I’m looking forward to getting to know better in January. I feel in my power (for the first time in my life) n excited abt trying some of these techniques. Thank you for all you share!!! I’ve been watching both of you for several months !!
You’re welcome, thanks for watching! 💜
Most helpful advice. Thanks to you both!
You’re welcome, I’m glad this was helpful! 💕
I like this. The info comes right in and is compact not scattered around or too long. Good. Thumbs up!
Thanks Paulina, I'm glad you enjoyed this!
Amazing! Everything here is very realistic and understandable. Thank you for the tips
You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕
Really good practical advice and examples. Great discussion, thank you both for the breakdown! These points help me to come back to my centre and bring me back to feeling human again.
You’re welcome Sophie, I’m glad this was helpful! 💕
Clayton’s explanation about how to be Awe inspiring to a man resonates with me. Finally, it makes more sense to me now. I am not afraid to show my vulnerable side to my man. I am not strong all the time, but I do overcome my trials & tribulations. This explains why my man is drawn to me. I’m being my authentic feminine energy. It’s so good to hear it from a man’s perspective. Like a breath of fresh air. Thanks Clayton....and Helena please bring Clayton back for more videos. Both of you make a great team. With so much appreciation! ~Lyn
I’m glad that resonated with you! Thanks for sharing your experience here. The livestream we did recently should also be helpful: czcams.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/video.html
Helena Hart Jan 17th I already have a previous engagement. 🙁 I’ll look out for Clayton’s vid afterwards. Thanks anyways Helena. 💖
SewDiva5691 - The replay is available now, you can watch it here: czcams.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/video.html.
Hi Helena, this video was really very good! Thank you!
You’re welcome Diana, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕
This is my favorite video I've seen on your channel! I love that you referenced Bruce Lipton and Biology of Belief. His work has been a game changer and I feel even more confidence in your work knowing that you follow him as well.
Thank you, Samira! This video we did together should also be helpful (I'd love to hear your thoughts on it!): czcams.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/video.html
Wow Helena,and Clayton, what a fantastic, awesome video. I love the C
A.R.D.S concept.I can clearly see how our bond has matured over the years .
Its always nice to hear the things you already doing,is the right thing.
Thanks Rina, I’m glad you enjoyed this! Here’s my latest livestream I did with Clayton if you’d like to check it out: czcams.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/video.html
He’s very awesome. Love his delivery and information. Easy You understand speaking delivery to make application in our every day lives
I’m glad you enjoyed this, Terrie! 💗
Wow. This is mind-blowing and so valuable. Thank you, thank you for this video...both of you rock!
You’re welcome, Lisa! This one should also be helpful if you haven’t seen it yet: czcams.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/video.html
This young man is far more educated and respectful compared to the other young man who you’ve done many vids with. This is a good video.
Amazing content to listen to right now during quarantine ❤️ thank you!
You’re welcome Natalie, I’m glad you enjoyed this! 💚
This stuff will STOP DIVORCE❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thankyou so much.. lots of insightful information in this :)
You’re welcome Charlotte, I’m glad it was helpful! 💕
Wow, just wow! You just affirmed some of the subconscious actions I’ve already employed in my relationships. Also, I totally learned some intricacies that paved a road map for me. Thank you for doing what you do. I don’t feel so inadequate or crippled any longer. 🙂
You're welcome Amy, I'm so happy to hear this was helpful for you!
Super valuable. I love how you explain challenge. Ive never heard it framed this way
I’m glad this was helpful and gave you a new perspective! 💜
I love the way Clayton explains these concepts, his ability to illustrate what certain things in C.A.R.D.S looks like makes it so easy to understand---finally someone speaks my language and I make sense of this dynamic.
I’m glad this resonated with you, Ashley! Here are a few livestreams I’ve done with Clayton that might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/video.html, czcams.com/video/zeCZRti1taY/video.html and czcams.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/video.html.
When he says “i love that”... i love that.
Hello friend, do you really want your ex back?
Hope not lost
Don't give up on him
I can recommend you to father EDIALE he can help you manifest your ex back, he is the best
M e s s a g e h I m n o w
V i a W h a t s A p p💯💯💯
Wow this episode is so powerful and eye opening. Thank u ❤
You’re welcome! 💜 Here’s the latest episode I recorded with Clayton if anyone would like to check it out: czcams.com/users/live6U4mjbqLE_8?si=zvTPbAazqQUNtnbX
Real talk from a man- and seemingly well awakened one. Yes!
Love this conversation!
I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕
This video was excellent!
Thank you!
I’m kind of in love with Clayton... 💕
Right! I just want Clayton
I really enjoyed this!
Thanks Chi, I’m glad you liked it! 💜
Great video. One of the best descriptions of men's emotions that I've heard. You two compliment each other really well.
Thank you!
I love the recap at the end. ❤️
Thanks Maribel! 💕
Great video thank you ❤️
You’re welcome! 💝
Man this is a great vid’ I love what you said about taking the time and dance with your desires to go towards the next level ( I kno not verbatim.) but this concept is so visual and doable!!! Love LOVE this advice
I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 These videos I recorded with Clayton might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/video.html, czcams.com/video/8P32rpdllNo/video.html, czcams.com/video/IbjlEyH8Yio/video.html, czcams.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/video.html and czcams.com/video/zeCZRti1taY/video.html.
This video is AMAZING!! I’ve watched you both n you together is so clear n right on!! So nice to hear the different but same male n female opinions n answers!!! I’ll be much different n better in my next relationship because of you two!! I’ll be in touch n thank you so much!!
You’re welcome! I’m glad you enjoyed it, thanks for watching!
Well done both of you,excellent content.Love from Ireland 💗,have been watching you both for sometime,your just the loveliest !!!
Thank you! You might enjoy our latest livestream too if you haven’t seen it yet (I’d love to hear your thoughts on it!): czcams.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/video.html
Great conversation 👍
Thanks Lucy! 💕
Enjoyed this!!
Thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed it!
I have fully trusted and been completely burned by a man more than three times. It’s foolish to trust a stranger you just met. It’s important to have conversations around issues that potentially break trust. Once you’ve established you can trust the man then you can truly be vulnerable with him.
Right, we’re not talking about trusting a stranger - it’s about trusting the man you’re in a relationship with (and trusting YOURSELF to not get into a relationship with a man you can’t trust). 💙
Excellent work guys!! These tools and concepts are insightful and very very true on many levels (C.A.R.D.S) concept. Side note: you two are compatible 🙂
I agree!!!
Thank you! 💕
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Thanks for this video you two, it touched me. We tend to think we should become tougher, but boundaries and standards are nothing without vulnerability, trust and deep respect.
You’re welcome, Diana! 💜 Here are a couple more videos I recorded with Clayton that should also be helpful: czcams.com/video/zeCZRti1taY/video.html and czcams.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/video.html.
@@HelenaHartCoaching merci 😊
I would like to add solething regarding trust... it becomes hard to trust nowadays with the digital world. I trusted my BF! Untill at a point my gut was telling me something was wrong... and yes I found out, through a friend that he was back on dating apps. So he broke my trust, and we broke up.
Honestly I really trust people when I start a relationship with them, friends, man I date, familly, ... often people call me naïve!!! Till now my trust has been broken often... how can we trust, while we do not really know the intentions of somebody?
Trust your own intuitions. How do you feel when you are with someone? Good , nervous or awesome... Trust yourself, acknowledge your emotions , your feelings what they say to you..., Just relax and enjoy your own self. Never do anything that you don't want to. Soothe yourself... We are all humans.
Thank you very informative ... It gave me more insight to myself ...
You’re welcome! These videos I recorded with Clayton might also be helpful: czcams.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/video.html, czcams.com/video/zeCZRti1taY/video.html and czcams.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/video.html.
It’s also a vulnerability thing for some women like myself to open up and tell him compliments like “you’re the most amazing lover I’ve had”, etc. I guess I have to work on that with myself.
We talked more about vulnerability in this livestream if you want to check it out: czcams.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/video.html
Wow, just wow, this was so good, so helpful and enlightening. I just recently saw a video of Clayton's for the first time, and I loved it. So I was very excited to see a video with you and Clayton together. I love the whole "CARDS" explanation. This was an excellent video, it has given me a lot to think about, and I hope there will be more! You are both fantastic and the exchanges between you are so harmonious. Thanks again!!
You’re welcome, I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️
Thank you Mam Helena and sir Clayton ❤️
You’re welcome! 💕
Helena Hart I’ve watched your relationship advises. And I’m hoping that I will finally find the man I’m praying for
A fantastic video that really helped me to understand how to love and honor myself in a better way, as well as my man! Helena and Clayton always create the most heartfelt and truly inspiring content in their video’s! Thank you both so much!
You're welcome Heather, I'm so happy to hear that!
I loved this video ♥️
I’m glad you enjoyed it! These livestreams I did with Clayton should also be helpful: czcams.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/video.html and czcams.com/video/oAE5yHzH24g/video.html.
I just called him now a guy Im going on a date with applied these things and he said thank you and that he really understands it as he was coming on to strong with me and we never even had a date yet. Now there is another guy I do like but he has not got back to me but he has done things to let me know that he does like me. Thanks
You're welcome!
This was great.
Thank you! This video should also be helpful: czcams.com/video/An53Q0l3HmY/video.html
This was great thank you.
You’re welcome!
@@HelenaHartCoaching I'm a widower for a little more than in years now.
I was raised by a father and because of that, I never learned how to date.
I'm watching these now because an old friend can into my life when I decided to date, who I knew when I was a pre-teen and an a young woman.
I've always been attracted to him but I didn't fully understand it.
You have to understand that I'm closer to my brother and my dad's and male cousins.
I would like to get to know him better but at that the same time, because I grew up with my dad , I have more of masculine qualities with with the directness of a man and understanding more of a man because that's all I had in my life.
Yes I'm a tomboy ;however,
I'm an old-fashioned Woman Like My mother. Yes that means tanning sewing cutting here cleaning house baking cooking I do all that plus more yard work mowing trimming painting stuff men normally do.
So this is very important to me to learn this from a woman's perspective.
I've never learned any real negative traits from A Woman Like nagging bitching withdrawing things like that. My mother was a gentle soul. She died when I was just six.
I just started watching these videos in the last month.
Thank you.
My name is tianie Elly Mitchell Jerry Mitchell was my husband. this is his phone. I misplaced mine and I can't seem to get his name off of the Metro phone.
And if you have any ideas for that I would love to hear it I don't want to text a man and have him think I'm another man interested
My videos on feminine energy should be helpful for you, here’s the playlist with all of them: czcams.com/play/PLfrD0nnKRylSrGjt0EopOLiv6OhC8UuZE.html
okay they have great chemistry
yes definitely!!
Really good, informative video. 👍❤️
Thank you, Sam! I’m glad you enjoyed it.
The 2 best from CZcams
Aww thank you, Monica! ❤️
@@HelenaHartCoaching ♥☆☆☆
CARDS - CHALLENGED AWE RESPECTED DESIRE/DESIRED SAFE
Trust = respected and safe. Innocent until proven guilty.
All those letters - too complicated to remember. The most I can handle is dignity and happiness. Vulnerability is a good one. Compassion. Communication.
clayton wowsome..evrything is hitting home
I'm glad this is resonating with you!
I cried through the whole video. I never had a female mentor or anyone to coach me in these matters of the heart. I'm naive, but most of what you said, i did by instinct. When i explained i left a space for him here but he was pushing me too fast, he disappeared. I fell sad about this loss. we were friends for years. There's no coaches within 200kms who do this mentoring so it's nice to find guys.I did a ton of inner work but I never heard from my crush again.
Hi Victoria, if you’re interested in learning more about these concepts, the livestream we did recently should be really helpful: czcams.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/video.html
Powerful, Powerful thanks for this Truth. Thanks for sharing.
You're welcome, Alia!
Amazing
Thank you!
Clayton's cool.
I have been watching your videos and absorbing the info like a sponge. However, my man is blind from birth. He is a keeper though, and I need your help.
*My wife left me 5years ago with just 1 lovely girl child, I hope to find love again*
Hello friend, do you really want your ex back?
Hope not lost
Don't give up on him
I can recommend you to father EDIALE he can help you manifest your ex back, he is the best
M e s s a g e h I m n o w
V i a W h a t s A p p💯💯💯
im sO hAppy tO bOth of yoU...& GoodLuck...hOpE yOu reAlly find yoUr HAppinEs...🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
What if the chemistry is gone after the exhausting no label relationship. But if ever there's opportunity to try again. If would ve possible to happen?
you guys, you rock 🇵🇭🇵🇭God bless you ❤❤❤
Thank you! 💜
soo true i'm rigid wid my man with boundaries bcz im afraid il be taken lightly or advantage of in the sense he won't honour them :(
Hi Hina, we talked about this issue more in depth in our livestream, it should be helpful for you (I’d love to hear your thoughts on it!): czcams.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/video.html
Hi Coaches, After close time spent with a man I met online, he told me that he loved me but was not in love. Since then, I have not seen him for 10 weeks. I’ve done NC which he broke. I lean back and he has done all of the initial reaches.
Hello friend, do you really want your ex back?
Hope not lost
I can recommend you to father EDIALE he can help you manifest your ex back, he is the best
M e s s a g e h I m n o w
V i a W h a t s A p p💯💯
Someone ought to start a page for people who are in recovery from drugs and alcohol and dating
Helena..this is Sandy the lady who has that great guy next door!! I took your advice from a comment you gave me because of our mutual attraction for over four years but no dates because you said he may be afraid or to shy! So you mentioned to ask him out and see his response and I did in around about way!! It was a day recently where he brought me a take out dinner after he had come home from work.He knocked on my door I was again appreciative said as he walked away " John ,wait a minute " why dont you asked me out for dinner sometime? I went on.." I would love to go out with a guy like you" he replied back ..but "Im busy" he goes on " alot during the week and not much time but sometimes on weekends" (?) but no difinate reply and then a little small talk ( weather) as he walked away! I tried and I'm wondering if it was the right comment from me at the time!! Since this happaned two weeks ago..I'm laying back for now ..your reply? Your so kind Helena thank you so much!!
Really goid video!!!
Question regarding the standards and boundries. The intimacy part... i always hear: when a fuy wants to sleep with you and you feel is going too fast... you have to set your boundry! I agree! But what if for you as a woman it feels natural to sleep with him soon cause you just really like him! When I am attracted to a guy and after lets say 3 or 4 dates maybe sometimes after the second date I really like him from a love place I want to sleep with him cause for me it is the natural way to show love and affection, it is "making love". Should I just put this boundry even it does not feel natural to me?
Nathalie De Pondt yeah these videos keep going on about it but at my age that seems stupid
It's done to build emotional attraction and connection. This must be for BOTH.
For a liberal guy u can have sex early ( he will still chase u) but for a conservative guy....u take things slowly.
Men don't bond through sex but woman do.
The longer you can make him wait, the more he will pursue you. They don't appreciate what they don't work for. Steve Harvey says wait 3 months. I think 3 months or more is enough at minimum.
Helenaaa darling...only asking u bcz u explain soo well...how do we show 'care' n 'love' to men when they asking for it..(in a committed relationship wid masculine guy)
Great question! We talked about exactly how to do this here in secrets #3 and #4: czcams.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/video.html
ThisIsAllSpotOn👍👍👍👍👍
Thank you, Annie! 💕
@28:20 give examples of trust, when you think he's blowing you off for someone else, not thinking nicely about you, silent treatment for a long time, etc
These sound like red flags to me. This video should be helpful in terms of building up your intuition around this: czcams.com/video/Nw1smRqzd6E/video.html
Have a question for a video my man has a really labor intensive job where hes very busy and very relied on he recently told me that he loved me and a couple times and I told him recently that I loved him but since then I haven't heard much from him and hes not responding to my text hesays a he loves mean I'm the love of his life do u think it's possible me telling I loved him knowing he loves me is to much? I just haven't heard from him and am wirried
If he told you he loves you and you’re the love of his life, I don’t believe you saying that back would push him away.
Yellow roses!!! \○/
They are gorgeous!🌹
Can't make a idiot fall in love with you
What to say if he dessapered for 4 days and reason was because a family member died?
Clayton wow
If you missed our livestream yesterday, you can watch the replay here: czcams.com/video/hxZC9vnOtTI/video.html
Is Matt Helena’s husband?
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what happens to if you in a relationship with a man and you have not set up boundaries, is it too late to set them now?
It's not too late! This video should be helpful for you: czcams.com/video/ggTZAJZn1NI/video.html
I luv u guys,♥️🇹🇹♥️
Aww thank you, Soloma!
Please guys, can you make a video on what to do when the man is extremely frightened and not being able to be himself at all. Is it ok to purse him then? To be loving and try to remove his fear? If yes, until what point?
My issue is similar to this. We have great emotional intimacy. We can talk about anything, even if it takes us a minute to get started because it's a hard subject. He suffers with depression, anxiety, & PTSD. This makes it hard for him to move forward physically. He has expressed the desire to do so on multiple occasions & even stated that his anxiety is in the way of this. Is there anything I can do besides being supportive & understanding? Thanks in advance!!
im just trAyiNg tO mOvinG-ON..& i nEEd tO sAy thiS..A Litle bit hurtinG..😔🙏
Helena, I’d like to connect with you for a private session. Need info regarding that, please. Thank you.
Hi Diana, you can contact me through my website: helenahartcoaching.com/contact-me/
How can we learn to be more vulnerable?
Great question! This video might be a helpful place to start: czcams.com/video/xdgxS6Sxmjw/video.html
Helena Hart thank you!
You’re welcome! 💕
@30:00
Helena what. about you been married for a long time do I have to play hard to get still?
Hi Elena, I actually would never advise that a woman play hard to get in any stage of the relationship.