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Effort is attractive

This is a clip from a podcast episode I recorded with Mike Goldstein and his partner, Paige Wilhide. Check out the full episode on my channel called, “A Feminine Approach To Taking Things Slow In A Way That Brings A Man CLOSER” if you’d like to learn more! 💞

I am valuable. I am worthy I deserve everything good I deserved to be cherished!!

💯 accurate

Affirmation: "I AM Valuable, I AM Worthy, I Deserve to be Cherished!"

I get what he’s saying because I am busy and feel the same way!

Helena i am on my healing journey and i have been going through narcissistic storm for some time it is so hard and diffecult helena did you go through that on your healing journey?

Heyyy are we on baby #2 ?!?!?

Difficulty with hugs, doesn't want to make eye contact, communication was different, facial expressions awkward, intellectually or artistically gifted, interprets words literally.

How about making him Jealous, saying you are dating??

I know that this is a little hard to think of it this way …. but really just get to the place in your mind and Heart that he is doing you a favor by showing you his true feelings through his non-action or distant behavior …. definitely look at various videos and Channels that are all about the differences between women and men and dating like this one …. and there “may” be some things to consider and ways to handle different situations that can get a relationship back on the track that both want it to be on …. but like it is mentioned on this Channel if the inconsistent treatment is non-stop and won’t change do Not shrink into yourself and “try harder” and invest More in the “hopes” that things will turn around …. and simply pull away with kindness and Love in your Heart and accept that he is not your person …. and you are not his …. and that No One has the power to be the one to “make” you feel Whole and Complete …. I know that it is thrown around a lot but the concept of “You have to be a complete and whole person First before you can truly connect in a healthy and stable relationship …. etc” …. is so very true …. yes True Love is Amazing and there is nothing like it but when someone is displaying for you that they are Not your True Love …. believe them …. and release them and wish them well and do not hold on to Heartache …. your first relationship is with “Yourself” and your “Higher Power” ( so the Divine 🌟 …. whatever that means to you ) …. so feel all of the feelings for sure when there is a breakup …. but do not dwell there …. and if anything say a silent “Thank You” for being shown that that was a false partner which has made room for you to grow and heal and to learn how to Love Yourself more and attract Mr. Right 🏋️🧘‍♂️💫🕊

Ty❤

Don't be afraid to lose anyone....except yourself

Wow out of all the videos I've listened to, yours right here is the 1 that made the light bulb above my head light up. I got it!! Thank you so much ❤

Love these collaborations!

I like to sit back and see if he will get out of his comfort zone to make sure i know that he wants me. I don't toy with men, but if he can't do that much to keep me interested and feel wanted, then he is never going to be able to match my sexual energy. So that is an end to it.

Yes, thank you!❤️🙏

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I have done point 1 2 3 now what should i do

I send him naked videos and now it seems like he is loosing interest now what should i do

Trust is a muscle. I love that. Thank you Helena for recommending this video.

I didn't know what a narc was. 2 exes of mine were narcs. Very, very abusive. Cold. Satanic. The bible actually addresses this phenomenon. Like Denise, I took a relationship sabbatical. Embraced & healed my inner girl ( my parents were narcs). I published a few books & grew close to the Lord. A friendship with my Savior Jesus Christ. Don't mean to preach but for me, this was life changing.

I am valuable, I am worthy and I deserve to be cherished!!!💜

Yes, 1,000%

Thank you! I got dumped so many times in the last 8 months by the same man, too tired of it now, it shouldn't be like this.

❤Thank you ❤

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I dont have Spotify though, only CZcams Premium... :( Cant you still put podcasts on youtube please just with a picture on.

Thank you for that video! Im so grateful 🙏 There is just too much "advice" out there in regards what should you do if a man pulls away, if he is hot and cold, its all about the guy, which makes us dismiss our needs and wants while being miserable trying to please the guy neglecting our needs.

This is hard to do long distance when you are busy and can't spend time together

So I have to try to not contact him too much once every now and then reach out to him. I should give him a chance to reach out to me. I got to develop a connection with him when I'm with him and have fun with him. Have a kind secure conversation with him.

I'm friends with a guy and I want him to want to spend time with me.

I'm interested to join your community

Hi Helena and Matt !! It feels very reashuring to listen to you both. I love this!!! Reashuring to myself to keep making me feel like a Queen in every area of my life❤.

What if we have small kids and coparent. Should I speak only about the kids and just limit it as much as possible... Like when I really really have no other choice?

💕💕💕💕LOVED THIS SO MUCH!