She is such a hero!! I cried during this video, she is amazing, brave person and so are you! A very important session. Thank you (watched it a few times)
Event the walls are purple! Love it! I have the same exact issues as this woman. My mom wasn't an alcoholic but she was neglectful because she had me at 16. She still wanted to live life. She never chose me and always chose having fun and men over me. I picked a man that doesn't choose me and seems he's always keeping his options open. Avoidant and non-committal. In therapy (I'm at the very beginning of EMDR therapy - evaluation stage and not actually doing it yet), I told my therapist 'He's my mom...' Imagine my shock when that was stated here! Wow.
@@RantTherapist Sometime accidents are meant to happen. ;-) Really happy you found me> I appreciate your support and am even more happy you are finding solutions.!!!!!!
Hi Kenny, For anyone who is doing this work by reading your books, recommended books, watching videos, and making their own connections, this is such a powerful video. This lesson meets any and every level recovery; follow the logic, find your denial, feel it, grieve it. Heal. Thank you to you and your guest.
This was so profound and eye opening! Especially the part where you confronted her with the idea that it was NOT HER JOB to be raising her siblings and taking care of her mother! I personally have suffered with this for years and find myself begging my mom to do the right thing for once only to be exhausted. I'm over it! It's time for me to take responsibility for my own codependency! That's the first time I've ever heard someone honestly narrate this situation that way.
Victorious is She that is willing to face the truth within and embrace it! She just contributed to the lives of others the truth that leads to healing. An example of humbling that is strong and courageous! Gratitude for sharing herself.... strong and courageous! Encouraged! So grateful to have listened and discover answers I have been seeking.
My heart goes out to her. Thank you for sharing. Powerful , forgiving ourselves. Truly helpful. This woman....so loving and caring. She deserves her emotional freedom. We all do. Thank you both.
Love your SUITS!! This is so me. Choosing unavailable relationships. Emotionally and non availability. My parents were great, but listening to this neither were emotionally available. I am so awakened!!
This is very very deep I used to be a contractor and worked with many other contractors and the most important part of building was it what was above ground what what was beneath if the house was beautiful and the foundation was not structurally sound all of that evidently would show up when the house settled well Kenny this is awesome
Wow listening to this, brought back a lot of memories,for a brief moment,i was able to glance at the abuse, something ive ran from,ive blotted out, I got a glimpse of why i do what i do, choose who i am with, trying to please others,so ill be accepted......im not even sure if this makes sence.....but i feel such a heaviness in my chest,greeving,i think.....thank you for your work.....
I feel so humbled by this session. I have been in an on and of relationship with a narcissist. It has been a long time when I finished it, but I still can't get over it. Im so proud of Michelle, her willingness to work on her issues brings tears to my eyes. I've got to do something about it ...
Dear Kenny Weiss, I did not understand the last part, of how he was a proxy and she needed to teach herself to be safe, reliable. Saw five times but it still bouncing above my head. Is it something like she chose to be with a man who could stay away from her for her to feel safe most of the time. But she did not calculate the downside/cons of him when he was around and not helpful. And her expectations did not meet in between as to how it should be in an ideal marriage and hence the divorce. So no one is a victim, but everyone is trying to protect something and making decisions based out of that, and do not see the downside early enough.
This was very eye opening. I was crying during the intro. I’m reading your book now. This is my 3rd round of tackling codependency. Though the 2nd one was a bit lackluster and perhaps even undid some of the positive work from before 😂 so maybe 2.5th try. But I think now I’m finally starting to understand it on a deeper level. It’s starting to sink into my body. I’m seeing the bigger picture, the effects in more areas of my life, I feel how it operates inside me, where the switches are. The first time I thought I understood it and made important changes but it was still just on a knowledge/information basis in my brain. So as time went on I didn’t notice how those patterns crept back in but disguised as something else. I was sure I had learned my lesson and so doubled down insisting I wasn’t repeating those same mistakes. Little did I know… With some more experience and more evidence, and more research (including your work) I can hopefully start to make real lasting changes. Thank you!
@@kennyweiss yes i did continue to watch and realized it stopped. And what she said was repeated at the end with out music. I Love your videos ! Very well done!
From what I’ve heard, that has to do with the type of content I produce. Our society does not like to admit or talk about these deeper topics and therefore people are hesitant to admit that they struggle with these things because they would be shamed instead of accepted.
She is such a hero!! I cried during this video, she is amazing, brave person and so are you! A very important session. Thank you (watched it a few times)
Event the walls are purple! Love it!
I have the same exact issues as this woman. My mom wasn't an alcoholic but she was neglectful because she had me at 16. She still wanted to live life.
She never chose me and always chose having fun and men over me. I picked a man that doesn't choose me and seems he's always keeping his options open. Avoidant and non-committal. In therapy (I'm at the very beginning of EMDR therapy - evaluation stage and not actually doing it yet), I told my therapist 'He's my mom...' Imagine my shock when that was stated here! Wow.
Kenny is the real deal. No BS with this guy. Right down to the real issues, no matter how uncomfortable.
Thank you sir.
Thank for that. Very kind of you!
Thank you for the love. I found you by pure chance and I'm glad I did.
@@RantTherapist Sometime accidents are meant to happen. ;-) Really happy you found me> I appreciate your support and am even more happy you are finding solutions.!!!!!!
Hi Kenny, For anyone who is doing this work by reading your books, recommended books, watching videos, and making their own connections, this is such a powerful video. This lesson meets any and every level recovery; follow the logic, find your denial, feel it, grieve it. Heal. Thank you to you and your guest.
This was so profound and eye opening! Especially the part where you confronted her with the idea that it was NOT HER JOB to be raising her siblings and taking care of her mother! I personally have suffered with this for years and find myself begging my mom to do the right thing for once only to be exhausted. I'm over it! It's time for me to take responsibility for my own codependency! That's the first time I've ever heard someone honestly narrate this situation that way.
Victorious is She that is willing to face the truth within and embrace it! She just contributed to the lives of others the truth that leads to healing. An example of humbling that is strong and courageous! Gratitude for sharing herself.... strong and courageous! Encouraged! So grateful to have listened and discover answers I have been seeking.
Beautifully said
I’d like this woman she did the all the work and came up with the right answer
My heart goes out to her.
Thank you for sharing. Powerful , forgiving ourselves. Truly helpful. This woman....so loving and caring. She deserves her emotional freedom. We all do. Thank you both.
Love your SUITS!! This is so me. Choosing unavailable relationships. Emotionally and non availability. My parents were great, but listening to this neither were emotionally available. I am so awakened!!
This is very very deep I used to be a contractor and worked with many other contractors and the most important part of building was it what was above ground what what was beneath if the house was beautiful and the foundation was not structurally sound all of that evidently would show up when the house settled well Kenny this is awesome
Beautifully said!
This was the best video. I identified with her 110%
Thank you. I’m glad you enjoyed it. She was very courageous.
I've endured 20 years, I'm codependent. He's either aspbergers or covert narcissist or both. Deciding what to do.
That was eye opening
Good to hear I hope it helped you
Kenny, so lucky to find your videos. Your pointing out adult codependent behavior is an inside job is empowering and stops the navel gazing.
Wow listening to this, brought back a lot of memories,for a brief moment,i was able to glance at the abuse, something ive ran from,ive blotted out, I got a glimpse of why i do what i do, choose who i am with, trying to please others,so ill be accepted......im not even sure if this makes sence.....but i feel such a heaviness in my chest,greeving,i think.....thank you for your work.....
I feel so humbled by this session. I have been in an on and of relationship with a narcissist. It has been a long time when I finished it, but I still can't get over it. Im so proud of Michelle, her willingness to work on her issues brings tears to my eyes. I've got to do something about it ...
Kudos to her for sharing her experience in order to help others. Thank you both for your generosity.
Wow that was powerful 👏
Dear Kenny Weiss, I did not understand the last part, of how he was a proxy and she needed to teach herself to be safe, reliable. Saw five times but it still bouncing above my head.
Is it something like she chose to be with a man who could stay away from her for her to feel safe most of the time. But she did not calculate the downside/cons of him when he was around and not helpful. And her expectations did not meet in between as to how it should be in an ideal marriage and hence the divorce.
So no one is a victim, but everyone is trying to protect something and making decisions based out of that, and do not see the downside early enough.
💞💞💞 totally relatable....
WOW! Thank you ❤
You're welcome 😊
This was very eye opening. I was crying during the intro. I’m reading your book now. This is my 3rd round of tackling codependency. Though the 2nd one was a bit lackluster and perhaps even undid some of the positive work from before 😂 so maybe 2.5th try. But I think now I’m finally starting to understand it on a deeper level. It’s starting to sink into my body. I’m seeing the bigger picture, the effects in more areas of my life, I feel how it operates inside me, where the switches are. The first time I thought I understood it and made important changes but it was still just on a knowledge/information basis in my brain. So as time went on I didn’t notice how those patterns crept back in but disguised as something else. I was sure I had learned my lesson and so doubled down insisting I wasn’t repeating those same mistakes. Little did I know… With some more experience and more evidence, and more research (including your work) I can hopefully start to make real lasting changes. Thank you!
Beautiful
We were conditioned to repeat the same choices.
Wow..just wow.. Now I understand why I picked my husband🤣
Narc parents make empath codeps. At least that's how I happened.
Forgive yourself in 22 minutes the music is to loud I cannot hear the women. Do u have a recording with out music. All movies are like this now... Why
The music is only during the introduction. If you watch the full video you will see that it ends as soon as the full video starts
@@kennyweiss yes i did continue to watch and realized it stopped. And what she said was repeated at the end with out music. I Love your videos ! Very well done!
@@suzieshreve4464 thank you and yes, the intro is to capture attention and tease what is coming if a person decides to watch.
Happy it helped you
You have so many likes and subscribers but the comments are less than one Per Cent. I'm only asking......
From what I’ve heard, that has to do with the type of content I produce.
Our society does not like to admit or talk about these deeper topics and therefore people are hesitant to admit that they struggle with these things because they would be shamed instead of accepted.