Let’s talk about violence against women | Lily Banda | TEDxLilongwe

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  • čas přidán 17. 03. 2015
  • Woman in the streets of Malawi's capital Lilongwe get stript naked because of wearing trousers. A young Malawian girl's perspective.
    Born in Malawi on 16 August 1990, Lily Banda made an impact under the stage name Alex as a singer and poet. Since the release of her debut album in January 2014 the artist has headlined many events where she has dazzled audiences with her charisma and energy as well as the boldness of her poetry.
    Lily lives her life in a way that she hopes others can be inspired to be sure of what they hope for and certain of what they cannot see.
    Lily lives in Lilongwe.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 69

  • @GlobetrottingMusicologist
    @GlobetrottingMusicologist Před 5 lety +46

    Wow, if there was an Oscar for TED talks, Lily would win it! It's an extremely complex situation in (Southern) Africa. Plenty of superstition and intimidation. The suffragettes who were involved in getting the right for women to vote were sometimes from affluent families or had an affluent husband. Only money could talk to make a change here, with influential people, or else they wipe the floor with you...

  • @bostonkpm2061
    @bostonkpm2061 Před 7 lety +48

    Lily Banda, you are an eloquent raconteur! Thank you for using your amazing gift to educate us about the oppression against women in Malawi.

  • @arynj4818
    @arynj4818 Před 7 lety +37

    My blood pressure continued to go up as I continued to watch this TedTalk. I am a registered nurse who will be trained as a SANE-A, SANE-P in the near future. I will be apart of the fight and education of this nonsense violence against women.

  • @keithcundale1593
    @keithcundale1593 Před 7 lety +51

    It was so very disturbing to re-visit Lily's talk a couple of years after seeing her in the flesh in Lilongwe. Her talk is so powerful, so personal, so upsetting. One can only hope that sense will prevail in the years to come................

  • @demir9664
    @demir9664 Před 7 lety +38

    For the love of God. What kind of animals are those men? Not even a snake wouldn't sleep with his own child. why since women are more than men, we don't take charge? thank you so much! you are amazing person.

  • @rev.doreen3746
    @rev.doreen3746 Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you Lily. So inspiring that hidden traumas were exposed here. We can never find a solution if we keep sweeping issues under the carpet. We need more exposure on these issues continually. Not much content on CZcams concerning such social injustices that are still ongoing in Malawi. God bless and protect Malawi 🇲🇼

  • @mochat7806
    @mochat7806 Před 5 lety +12

    TELL THEM HOW IT IS LILY, I AM ON YOUR SIDE 100 %

  • @terrenceyoung4771
    @terrenceyoung4771 Před 3 lety +4

    Just found this after watching her in the TV Series Deep State. Very powerful and emotional. I'm glad she had the courage to give this speech.

  • @lyndsaybrown8471
    @lyndsaybrown8471 Před 3 lety +4

    This is so heart breaking. When people talk about going back to the way things were, this. This is why we shouldn't.

  • @valeriea8844
    @valeriea8844 Před 7 lety +16

    Thank you for sharing this. I am so sorry to hear this.

  • @krishmasubedi1639
    @krishmasubedi1639 Před 7 lety +15

    Your every lines got me goosebumps ! You're amazing

  • @kcrt3473
    @kcrt3473 Před 4 lety +4

    Such a powerful talk...
    Im shaking

  • @maruxacampos9331
    @maruxacampos9331 Před 7 lety +11

    Thank you Lily.

  • @karenmiller9825
    @karenmiller9825 Před rokem

    Your undeniable powerful TEDx delivery is required, please do not not stop because the world needs to hear YOU.

  • @mehrikarakulova2
    @mehrikarakulova2 Před 3 lety +1

    so heart breaking. Thank you for sharing.

  • @mithupal6910
    @mithupal6910 Před 3 lety +2

    All power to Lily. Changing the boys to think differently is only solution.

  • @chatondamtika8106
    @chatondamtika8106 Před 7 lety +6

    Powerful talk.

  • @mahekparvez5952
    @mahekparvez5952 Před 4 lety +2

    Very powerful delivery of a strong social issue

  • @inangomaact4609
    @inangomaact4609 Před 4 lety +2

    Heart touched.

  • @cutencrazy6937
    @cutencrazy6937 Před rokem

    I'm greatly inspired by this girl for highlighting a very critical issue of the society. Well done

  • @adrianabdo1
    @adrianabdo1 Před 5 lety +2

    THANK YOU!

  • @omairana
    @omairana Před 2 lety +1

    Heart wrenching.

  • @DONNACEDOHIOK12
    @DONNACEDOHIOK12 Před rokem

    Thank you for sharing. Very courageous & informative.

  • @nelsonoghenekaroomoyibo270
    @nelsonoghenekaroomoyibo270 Před 3 měsíci

    Lily Banda you're a very good speaker. That was a beautiful delivery of such a sensitive subject. I wish I could find more videos of you.

  • @gracea8345
    @gracea8345 Před 6 měsíci

    Very courageous and powerful thank you for speaking up.

  • @maryt7959
    @maryt7959 Před 2 lety +5

    Jail for the rapists !!! Justice and honor for the victims!!!! Violence against women and children is everywhere!!! 👏👏👏❤️

  • @rideamus_
    @rideamus_ Před 7 lety +2

    спасибо СПАСИБО!

  • @yasminekhalida2536
    @yasminekhalida2536 Před 2 lety +2

    Very realistic talk.

  • @juliejoseph2201
    @juliejoseph2201 Před 3 lety +1

    Unbelievable! ❤️🙏🏼

  • @troyhayder6986
    @troyhayder6986 Před 3 lety +6

    Some dudes are really messed up in the head.. Women are to be adored.. Not hurt.. Its like punching the most sacred thing in existence.. Your not a man at all.. Sub human..

  • @luiginadalessandro9800

    Action Breaks Silence is a charity based in the UK that also do work in South Africa and India where gender based violence is huge problem. In addition to empowering young girls and women through self defense training, they conduct workshops and training with boys - because for the most part it is the boys who are doing the harming and/or growing up into men who are harming. Support this charity if you are able.

  • @adrianarivera2043
    @adrianarivera2043 Před 7 lety +1

    Where can I find a transcript of this ?

  • @mohammedhassan6318
    @mohammedhassan6318 Před 5 lety +5

    Its remain me my rily story I never told anybody I feel pain but its the past I know I will work hard 2 be normal even through I feel bad when I remember my story about the 18men who rapa me but thanks a lot I wish 2 be very courage as you ad tell people my story but its good you have expln evythng

  • @Jodez.
    @Jodez. Před 3 lety +14

    the fact that nothing has changed in 2020 says something about the men in the world.

    • @ameliatj667
      @ameliatj667 Před 3 lety +1

      Right

    • @CarbonGlassMan
      @CarbonGlassMan Před 2 lety +1

      It says something about the men who do that and accept that it's done in those cultures where this is done. It doesn't say anything about men as much as it says something about that culture.

    • @JaneA544
      @JaneA544 Před rokem +1

      2022 and its getting worse

    • @veganbutterfly3652
      @veganbutterfly3652 Před rokem

      @@CarbonGlassMan This happens in different ways worldwide. In China, Saudia Arabric, Pakistan, USA, Russia ... everywhere where patriarchy exist violence against women exist.

    • @veganbutterfly3652
      @veganbutterfly3652 Před rokem

      Men want power over women and over other men.

  • @rabinkhanal1811
    @rabinkhanal1811 Před 2 lety +1

    She have power in her voice .god 🔥

  • @merissar.7453
    @merissar.7453 Před 4 lety +2

    This was so sad

  • @ShowbizMalawi
    @ShowbizMalawi Před 3 lety +2

    So sad. Who is watching with me in 2020

  • @paddingtongwingwizha6164
    @paddingtongwingwizha6164 Před 6 měsíci

    😢😢😢

  • @voZao-vd4tu
    @voZao-vd4tu Před 5 lety +1

    I really liked it.
    Greetings lady speaker.

  • @rachelmwangi2992
    @rachelmwangi2992 Před rokem

    I need one in kenya

  • @hamzaadenmuhammed5504
    @hamzaadenmuhammed5504 Před 3 lety +4

    sick sick sick sick...

  • @alusinekargbo1327
    @alusinekargbo1327 Před 7 lety +4

    I am a Gender Activist so how can our organisation go into partnership your agency?

  • @beanassy
    @beanassy Před 5 lety +5

    Jesus Christ! So inhuman! Where is the government? Where are the human rights bodies? This is madness!

  • @Mina-lj1th
    @Mina-lj1th Před 2 lety +2

    Women should be physically sstrong.They should do exercises which increase muscle power