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  • @melrhea12
    @melrhea12 Před rokem +10295

    “Who does your parents want you to bring home?”
    “Anybody at this point”
    Lmao same

  • @djmagx
    @djmagx Před rokem +8289

    Culture matters infinitely more than race.

    • @NO0MMM
      @NO0MMM Před rokem +522

      Exactly. I’m a Swedish woman in the US and could never date a white American man. It’s too different. Black , Latino and sometimes Asian men here I connect more with culturally, it’s like they are more grounded and/or expressive. Idk how to explain it

    • @isabelle5188
      @isabelle5188 Před rokem +27

      @@NO0MMM Samma här, inte svenskar/skandinavier eller amrikaner haha

    • @fey9915
      @fey9915 Před rokem +232

      @@NO0MMM I think it depends on person, but wife (Cameroonian) and me (Croatian) often have more in common due to our shared immigrant life than we do with Americans of similar skin tones :D

    • @TreavorUnion
      @TreavorUnion Před rokem +10

      Big agree.

    • @ReasonableNotion
      @ReasonableNotion Před rokem +8

      So accurate

  • @gagetolinwrites6845
    @gagetolinwrites6845 Před rokem +2018

    I've never dated outside of my race, but I've also never dated anyone.

    • @nansysherry
      @nansysherry Před rokem +5

      Why?

    • @gagetolinwrites6845
      @gagetolinwrites6845 Před rokem +160

      @@nansysherry Because my parents gave me the ugly.
      And I'm not really interested

    • @BootsandUtes
      @BootsandUtes Před rokem +47

      @@gagetolinwrites6845 Dude, you aren't even ugly at all. I think you are way way too hard on yourself. But if you aren't interested in dating, that's probably a better explanation.

    • @jordanleiva5562
      @jordanleiva5562 Před rokem +3

      what you consider "dating" ? just having a beer with a girl that you've asked on a date is already a date

    • @Itsbeny_
      @Itsbeny_ Před rokem +14

      @@gagetolinwrites6845Bro, just get a nice haircut, get some decent clothes. And you will find a woman. You're not ugly brother💪🏼 stay up man. Just look groomed and you'll be good 👍🏼 someone is out there for everyone

  • @charliecannon351
    @charliecannon351 Před rokem +2238

    I’m African American and Filipino and my wife is Mexican. The clash of cultures is so beautiful. Not to mention that our daughter is the most beautiful thing on this planet. The goal is just to be with somebody that respects every aspect of your life and vise versa

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 Před rokem +39

      Awwwww... 🥰🥰🥰😊 ikr had me at "most beautiful thing ever" a bit weird the way i smiled reading this, its cool being bi or multi racial or whatever to me i feel like it connects to different parts world/people, you guys seem like cool and amazing family 🥰🥰😍

    • @djmagx
      @djmagx Před rokem +51

      My wife is Black and Filipino too and I'm Egyptian. Love that we're all mixing and creating new fun mixes of cultures to share with the future generation. My daughter has so many wonderful histories to learn about.

    • @suukikang
      @suukikang Před rokem +13

      blasian gang

    • @MrClarkisgod
      @MrClarkisgod Před rokem +24

      Ah yes... the Puto conversation. Is it an insult.... or is it a delicious desert. lmao.

    • @catcabrera6448
      @catcabrera6448 Před rokem +1

      @@MrClarkisgod en serioo hahaha

  • @nuggie4huggie232
    @nuggie4huggie232 Před rokem +5762

    I still to this day find it really weird that people intentionally choose a race to date. Whoever I fall for is who I fall for.

    • @Earthslastlegend
      @Earthslastlegend Před rokem +242

      Then you're normal😂!

    • @Superbatmanbro
      @Superbatmanbro Před rokem +86

      People are people they’re race don’t matter to me , I like there culture and Traditions and history

    • @controlman7490
      @controlman7490 Před rokem +279

      How is it weird? Certain phenotypes just aren't attractive to some people.

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li Před rokem +206

      It’s called “preferences”. Some dating apps have the option to include what “race” you’re attracted to.

    • @narutolikestoes9028
      @narutolikestoes9028 Před rokem

      Nah i find blacks gross, it matters

  • @Duckduckobtusegoose
    @Duckduckobtusegoose Před rokem +2385

    The girl who uses liking anime and Asian food as a reason that she’s attracted to Asian people💀💀

    • @officerkd6-3.76
      @officerkd6-3.76 Před rokem +76

      Why not?

    • @stanleyyelnats4524
      @stanleyyelnats4524 Před rokem +321

      painful

    • @bbygirlfifi
      @bbygirlfifi Před rokem +425

      yeaaa that was gross af

    • @joustingknight2088
      @joustingknight2088 Před rokem

      its always the whales saying this weirdo shit too

    • @Damkids012
      @Damkids012 Před rokem +360

      In her defense, she could've meant to say that she liked Asian culture so she fell in love with Asian men. To be honest, it would be hard to explain your attraction to someone of a different race in detail. You just kinda like what you like.

  • @yessica5231
    @yessica5231 Před rokem +790

    The cultural differences really play a big role because the first guy I dated really valued family and when he took me to meet his mom she was so rude. She was Chinese and I'm Mexican so basically she didnt want him to date a dirty Mexican. She didn't approve and he broke it off. I'm dating a Filipino now and our cultures are more similar plus his mom likes me too lol

    • @catcabrera6448
      @catcabrera6448 Před rokem +40

      my siblings and i are mexican/italian and german/irish but we're pretty connected to the mexican side. when my sister married a filipino man it was so cool to see the similarities and blend between cultures as both countries were ssettles by the spanish. just dont be offended when they offer you "puto" loll

    • @slothful2039
      @slothful2039 Před rokem +86

      No shade but I find Filipino people to be more tolerant than other Asian groups.

    • @FinancialClout
      @FinancialClout Před rokem +1

      Sounds like this had nothing to do with culture and his mom was just a shit bag

    • @jbp2264
      @jbp2264 Před rokem +9

      i don’t think this means you should necessarily avoid Chinese people then because there are still many chinese families who would accept other minority races. i think using a general negative stereotype to stay clear of a race is not the way to go about choosing a partner. (unless they start to show signs then obv make your decision)

    • @LovelyLittleLillies
      @LovelyLittleLillies Před rokem +15

      ​@@slothful2039 they're already mixed with the Spaniards that's why. East Asians are not as mixed. Mexicans, Filipinos that's two very diluted ethnicities.

  • @rebeccam5589
    @rebeccam5589 Před rokem +1016

    I love what the guy was saying at 5:35 .
    100% agree on it being okay to have a preference. What’s not okay is to make being a certain race a requirement for dating

    • @ShiLoveee
      @ShiLoveee Před rokem +153

      Nobody has to be open to dating every race. It’s OK to shut off a race from your dating pool. What matters is the reasoning for doing so.

    • @schu-ng4897
      @schu-ng4897 Před rokem +53

      You're right. However, what harm does it do to the general public if someone makes a requirement for themselves to date a certain race? I don't think it would cause any harmful discrimination. I think it only affects themselves.

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv Před rokem +63

      It's okay to date whoever you want for whatever reason, no matter how ignorant or wrong headed.

    • @franvutmej5974
      @franvutmej5974 Před rokem

      Shut up Rebecca

    • @carrela1000
      @carrela1000 Před rokem +15

      ​@@Aaron-kj8dv Something can't be okay and wrong at the same time, like it's just not possible.

  • @1997mclarencongo
    @1997mclarencongo Před rokem +4212

    “have you ever dated outside of your race?”
    “yeah i have!”
    “what race is your partner?”
    “white cis man!”
    “and before that?”
    “he was a white cis man!”
    “and the one before that?”
    “he- ohhhh he was a white cis man!” BOY I CACKLED 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @please.dont.
      @please.dont. Před rokem +308

      that is indeed the exact beginning of the video, keen eye!

    • @franklinokeke7848
      @franklinokeke7848 Před rokem +491

      Bro this 'Cis' man thing just annoys me. I'm not a cis man, I am a "Man" and nothing else!!

    • @johannesg8959
      @johannesg8959 Před rokem +10

      Yeah wow I didn't know what they were talking about... thanks for typing it out 👍

    • @Sun-Tzu-
      @Sun-Tzu- Před rokem +56

      @@franklinokeke7848 Yeah. I mean if she's straight then she's probably into cis guys....

    • @jodexx8380
      @jodexx8380 Před rokem +8

      Would you mind telling me what cis is please?

  • @andrewsherry6460
    @andrewsherry6460 Před rokem +2389

    My girlfriend is black and I’m white. I love her more than anything, she is beautiful both inside and out. When you love the person, a cultural difference is merely a learning experience as opposed to a great obstacle.

    • @mr.long.shlong
      @mr.long.shlong Před rokem +69

      Good for u my boi

    • @gyosob7265
      @gyosob7265 Před rokem +42

      preach

    • @GoldenBoyDims
      @GoldenBoyDims Před rokem

      Good on you but I would never date a white woman as a Nigerian it’s just impossible to bring her home to my mother I would pretty much get disowned

    • @really8704
      @really8704 Před rokem +33

      She upgraded, she made it out of blackistani 😍

    • @afrolore7462
      @afrolore7462 Před rokem +243

      ​@@really8704 weirdo

  • @kadeembest164
    @kadeembest164 Před rokem +75

    Preference vs. Requirement, I loved that!!

    • @theprousteffect9717
      @theprousteffect9717 Před 3 měsíci

      Either is perfectly fine, to be honest. We all have a right to date or not date people for any reason.

  • @melissab3217
    @melissab3217 Před rokem +216

    I remember being interested in a guy outside my race, and my dad told me if I dated him, I was out of the will. The guy later started dating my cousin's cousin, and my parents spoke of him fondly and would wave when they saw him. It's annoying how prejudiced people can be before they even get to know the person.

    • @thetricksterpill
      @thetricksterpill Před 6 měsíci +2

      Brutal

    • @drecula25
      @drecula25 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Ahh man that sucks. At some point you gotta figure out who you are and what you want in this world because if you don't, every decision you make will be in fear of what your dad thinks.. and thats not a good way to live.. a girl I know was going through the same thing.. accept she ended up marrying this guy and her dad tried to pull that same tactic on her.. and she gave him a vicious ultimatum.. "you can either accept him or you will never see me or your future grand kids." Of course no father can handle not seeing their daughter again.. and now he absolutely loves her husband..

    • @FRANKONATOR123
      @FRANKONATOR123 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Your dad is based for that

  • @bamcki991
    @bamcki991 Před rokem +444

    5:33 THIS!!! This is exactly what I've been thinking! "I don't have a racial requirement. [... ] people will miscontrued a preference over a requirement"

    • @Malhablada
      @Malhablada Před rokem +19

      Yes!! He said it so well. W

    • @ayeeitsluke
      @ayeeitsluke Před rokem

      tbh i would never date a black person unless she was beyoncé

    • @TJ-uc8bb
      @TJ-uc8bb Před rokem +3

      fr! had to replay it a couple times cause he hit the nail on the head!

    • @donm.2068
      @donm.2068 Před rokem

      I don’t really understand what he meant by that. Could someone explain?

    • @tori-vb1ti
      @tori-vb1ti Před rokem +21

      @@donm.2068 It means he has a preference but that doesn't mean he can't still date outside of that preference but people mistake preference with a "requirement" which means you have to be this certain race for them to date you and they don't date outside of that.

  • @fancytoxicsoda
    @fancytoxicsoda Před rokem +718

    Race and culture are different.

    • @BaddyK
      @BaddyK Před rokem +152

      Yes but are usually highly correlated

    • @sola_a
      @sola_a Před rokem +57

      ​@Baddy Kay honestly? Not really. These days with globalization, social media and all it's much more mixed up than a few years ago. Obviously some correlations remain but it's a bit absurd to completely write off an entire race of people because you assume they have a certain culture when people are so diverse even within their race

    • @gyosob7265
      @gyosob7265 Před rokem +7

      in America specifically because of the history race and culture have a huge overlap

    • @fey9915
      @fey9915 Před rokem +1

      Milk74 has entered the chat 🤣

    • @fey9915
      @fey9915 Před rokem +24

      @@BaddyK LMAO, compare African and African American in US or a European immigrant and White American and you'll find that to be pretty shaky :D

  • @95netta
    @95netta Před rokem +74

    @1:51 "Hes the sames mixed race as me" "Mexican, white, Chinese and native American" Wow, to find someone with all those aswell is pretty crazy lol

  • @lucasdick9019
    @lucasdick9019 Před rokem +776

    I would love to see a video on “Would you ever date someone with a different body type than you?” Or “Have you ever dated someone that’s fat?”

    • @MsDudette21
      @MsDudette21 Před rokem +90

      and then ppl will get offended cuz reality trumps PC body positivity

    • @kimmie__kim
      @kimmie__kim Před rokem +3

      Thanks for your input Lucas, always looking forward to it buddy ☺️

    • @Katherine_xs
      @Katherine_xs Před rokem +1

      Yesss

    • @godofnothing428
      @godofnothing428 Před rokem +14

      Something like 70% of Americans are obese or overweight so most of them would have dated someone that falls into that category

    • @lilianacarrera7284
      @lilianacarrera7284 Před rokem +11

      ​@godofnothing428 or they date the 30% of people that aren't overweight or obese. I've never been with a person who was overweight or obese. I will say maybe being a bit overweight is okay if your bulking, muscular or your just chilling. Personally like someone who has drive and likes to take care of themselves.

  • @aadamkhan9956
    @aadamkhan9956 Před rokem +321

    When people say ‘Asian’ but you know they’re not referring to the ‘Asian’ that you are😅

    • @ayeshaaleena4949
      @ayeshaaleena4949 Před rokem +1

      Western people don't realize that people from the Indian subcontinent and Middle East are Asian too.

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 Před rokem

      What do mean by that ?? 😏😏😅

    • @nusratchowdhury7239
      @nusratchowdhury7239 Před rokem +89

      @@scotthearts9634 southasians

    • @aadamkhan9956
      @aadamkhan9956 Před rokem +15

      @@nusratchowdhury7239 my guy knows the feeling😂

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 Před rokem +42

      @@aadamkhan9956 😅😅😂 i feel like sometimes they people disassociate indians and asian like their not from there they mostly refer asians to people who are of chinese, japanese, korean etc decent 😅😅😂 forgettin' the south part of asia

  • @RNB_lovr
    @RNB_lovr Před 7 měsíci +48

    no matter who you are, ignore society and go for whoever you love 🙏🏼

  • @yannissapim4102
    @yannissapim4102 Před rokem +22

    That preference vs requirement is super interesting, I’ve never ever thought about it that way!!

  • @jayti6828
    @jayti6828 Před 6 měsíci +7

    8:20 😊 Her reply is my favorite. I really like that. You do get to experience a different culture from dating outside your race. It feels like discovering a new world. It's fun.

  • @jennaortegaandzendayaenthu9243
    @jennaortegaandzendayaenthu9243 Před 5 měsíci +14

    When she said "Generally people like to stick in their cultural groups because they want to feel accepted to the highest extent that they can be" at 3:10, I definitely understood 1000%

  • @OMGitsShrimp
    @OMGitsShrimp Před rokem +55

    I don’t have a race requirement for dating but I’d say that the person having a developed racial identity (meaning they’ve reflected and processed their own racial identity and have a strong self awareness about it personally and on a societal level) is something that would be important to me. Also, inherently valuing and respecting each others perspectives and cultures and having a positive curiosity toward each other’s points of views is valuable too.

    • @Senii2100
      @Senii2100 Před 9 měsíci +3

      That first thing applies when dating a person from the USA. There are countries where we don’t have to worry about racial awareness, we just identify with nacionality and culture.

    • @inigo9000
      @inigo9000 Před 6 měsíci

      Americans are truelly sick people, wtf a developed racial identity? that's having similar values to nazis who not coincidentally based their views on race on the views that were present in the U.S., and sadly believed to be normal and even viewed as something positive . Americans aren't even able to tell me what race i am but believe it's rational to build their identity on it. racial identity in the US issen't based on reality, my family has more african in it than half of people in the US who believe to be black racially when they clearly aren't, if a white lady can act as the black head of an organisation fighting for her people, it's maybe time to start questioning the rationality of how people are viewed.

  • @BlacknBlueJ
    @BlacknBlueJ Před rokem +89

    Broooo that girl who said liking Asian food and anime translates to liking Asian features 💀 the bane of my existence

    • @croissant42-43
      @croissant42-43 Před rokem

      Right, at that point it’s just an Eastern Asian fetish and gross asf lmao

    • @Alesti5
      @Alesti5 Před rokem +1

      💀

    • @FleshWizard69420
      @FleshWizard69420 Před rokem +28

      It's like saying "I like European architecture so I like White people"

    • @GOAT-rl2uq
      @GOAT-rl2uq Před rokem +11

      Whaat, are you telling me the Japanese don't actually have naturally blue hair and eyes the size of oranges?!

    • @bevs9995
      @bevs9995 Před rokem +1

      @@FleshWizard69420 there are plenty of people who fascinate over european fashion, tv, music, architecture, and lets be real - PNRO -- that causes fetishization.
      but ive never heard ove anyone include cuisine and cheese in that list

  • @zoyadean2884
    @zoyadean2884 Před rokem +323

    I’m Indo-Fijian and my husband is half Filipino, half Palestinian. There’s a lot of similarities with SE Asian and South Asian cultures, as well as middle eastern, so I feel like there wasn’t much culture clash or culture shock thankfully

    • @theonef570
      @theonef570 Před rokem +5

      There is more similarity between South Asian and Middle Eastern, South East Asia is more with East Asia.

    • @saeefa
      @saeefa Před rokem +29

      @@theonef570 Thats nonsense, South Asians are not as similar to middle eastern as much as u think, its more of a muslim thing than a south asians thing, for example an an indian hindu will feel more similarity to a thai buddhist than a syrian muslim

    • @theonef570
      @theonef570 Před rokem +7

      @@saeefa North Indians who are majority Hindu has more cultural influence from Iran. I can only assume you are South Indian.

    • @vi7husan
      @vi7husan Před rokem +14

      @@theonef570 not entirely true south india have a lot of links to south east asia that go back thousands of years, really depends on what part

    • @akhromyn
      @akhromyn Před rokem +7

      @@theonef570 Modern Southeast Asia derives culture not only from East Asia but also South Asia: architecture (Angkor Wat, Borobudur), mythology (nagas, garudas, devattas, Hanuman), names (Sorya, Chandra), cuisine (curry), and gestures (namaste). The religion of mainland Southeast Asia, like Sri Lanka, is mostly Theravadin Buddhist compared to East Asia being mostly Mahayana Buddhist.

  • @LL-fx9ur
    @LL-fx9ur Před rokem +50

    Preference over requirement! Preach it out to the world baby!! That requirement shit pisses me off too! 😂

    • @sakuralein1
      @sakuralein1 Před rokem

      I‘m form germany I didn’t really understand what he meant

    • @theprousteffect9717
      @theprousteffect9717 Před 3 měsíci

      People are allowed to have dating requirements too. Nothing inherently wrong with that.

  • @Pancake3225
    @Pancake3225 Před 9 měsíci +21

    There’s been an instance or two where I highly suspect I was turned down because of race. It’s a bad feeling but I guess it’ll happen to almost everyone at one point.

    • @lexbusterz5883
      @lexbusterz5883 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Yeah it happens to everyone from all race. plus u can't really be mad people are attracted to what they attracted to it less of a choice.

  • @jpatnew
    @jpatnew Před rokem +42

    I wish these keep it 100 videos had a pie graph of answers at the end

  • @franchottwoodjr6181
    @franchottwoodjr6181 Před rokem +46

    As long as they love me and treat me right I don't care what their race.

  • @DimitriTechOfficial
    @DimitriTechOfficial Před rokem +96

    I love these videos because it just shows so many different types of peoples and situations.

    • @franvutmej5974
      @franvutmej5974 Před rokem

      Most people are virtue signaling and scared of telling the truth

  • @alexmarrs7762
    @alexmarrs7762 Před rokem +31

    I like Cut, but I think these questions need to be asked of a broader sample size-as in, I'm curious what the answers would be from other areas, such as maybe rural areas vs. urban areas in various states.

  • @sleekproject9988
    @sleekproject9988 Před rokem +86

    imo upbringing, cultural values and world view are far more important in picking a partner than race. People of the same race can be vastly different depending on socioeconomic class, nationality etc., it's just that there tends to be more similarities in experiences for people of the same race but not all the time

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 Před rokem +1

      Hmmmnnn.. valid point, vastly different people in character and upbringing but have experienced same situations and are of the same race.

    • @danieljenkins7951
      @danieljenkins7951 Před rokem +2

      You can bring up fringe corner cases to defy the norm in any situation. Doesn't make it applicable to the majority.

    • @theonlythingihavetosayis9333
      @theonlythingihavetosayis9333 Před rokem +1

      Very true. Culture and environment determines how a person acts, not race

  • @Snarl_Marx
    @Snarl_Marx Před rokem +303

    That girl saying "white people just love being outside" is 100% true. Almost verbatim what my husband, who's Mexican, said the first time he met my family. We went camping, which he had never done before.

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li Před rokem +38

      Not cool to generalize for “white people”, since now you’re making a general stereotype that doesn’t make much sense. I’m white and I don’t like being outside for long periods of time, it just really depends, and that goes for any race or ethnicity.

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads Před rokem +18

      Not THIS white woman!

    • @Snarl_Marx
      @Snarl_Marx Před rokem +65

      ​@@aus-li I mean, clearly it's hyperbole. Just a bit of banter. Are you okay?

    • @scotthearts9634
      @scotthearts9634 Před rokem +7

      @@Ceerads 😅😅😂 oh my, for some reason this seemed funny tho'😂 "not this white woman" yeep i couple of white friends of mine that don't like to be outslide a lot of the time.

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li Před rokem +1

      @@Snarl_Marx I genuinely couldn’t tell from the way you wrote the comment?
      I’m better than okay, since I could tell you what you wrote sounded ignorant. It’s better to get things off your chest :)

  • @TheOnlyTaps
    @TheOnlyTaps Před rokem +322

    Loved the discussions they brought about culture.
    I feel like that ends up playing a bigger factor than actual race (obviously excluding the cases where people's parents/themselves actually have a racial preference).
    Coz most people we are just a lot more comfortable within our cultures and so that culture can also have different races within it.
    All good convos nonetheless 🙏🏿

    • @mimosasseat9860
      @mimosasseat9860 Před rokem +5

      nah bad mindset

    • @tvbnine793
      @tvbnine793 Před rokem +11

      Yes, racial preference and cultural preference are quite different. As a white man, I'd probably have an easier time dating a woman of color who was born and raised in the US like me than a European exchange student

    • @LovelyLittleLillies
      @LovelyLittleLillies Před rokem

      ​@@tvbnine793 not necessarily whaat just bc White American culture is a little washed down and not as defined doesn't mean African American culture isn't. The fact that many Black Americans talk in AAEV is already a big cultural differences. Plus if your European was a Brit or Irishwoman would there really be strong cultural differences?

    • @gardennormie2859
      @gardennormie2859 Před rokem +8

      @@LovelyLittleLillies yes its the fact they're from the same country with the same culture.. a white American dating an erupeon from Britain or Australia is a big cultural different but s white American dating a black American is not really a big culture difference also speaking another language or a dialet isn't a BIG cultural differences...

    • @DrUmarJohnson1
      @DrUmarJohnson1 Před rokem +1

      Interracial dating is a DISGRACE!!!

  • @freakilybean
    @freakilybean Před rokem +9

    The few times I dated out side my race I was met with a lot looks and back lash. Against there friends, and it made it rather difficult to to try to fit in with them. And even strained the relationship, so I the relationships never lasted long. It was sad.

  • @selmasaksberg6785
    @selmasaksberg6785 Před rokem +3

    3:28 LOVE her style!!!🫶

  • @darryldavis6063
    @darryldavis6063 Před rokem +12

    Respect matters more. That also means respecting that you may just be a bystander.

  • @splitbrace3639
    @splitbrace3639 Před rokem +4

    6:33 "I mean no one says anything but you get the looks you know" that had me on the floor😹😹😹

  • @MyNameIsGhost
    @MyNameIsGhost Před rokem +6

    I'm sorry "hoot and a half" 🤣🤣 I canttttt

  • @SuperOGArchives
    @SuperOGArchives Před rokem +15

    It did mattered to me which race I dated but at the end It was all pointless. I ended being with someone out of my preference zone and it was better than I expected. The way you feel about someone is better than that.

  • @tyward8141
    @tyward8141 Před rokem +7

    i love how they were all so honest why they haven’t dated race because these are literally my same reasons why i don’t date out my race 😂😂😂

  • @cleohettori8725
    @cleohettori8725 Před rokem +114

    People's parents have a massive part to play in who people would or wouldn't date, most people that have parents they are close to (because not everybody has parents they are close to/like as people) will cave in to family pressures because it's less stressful
    Also, has anybody thought of WHY people decide they are not compatible with other races, the why is the thing that also makes me think
    We should all just meet somebody we like & hope for the best...in every sense of the word

    • @putinsgaytwin4272
      @putinsgaytwin4272 Před rokem +1

      I'm Irish living in Ireland so I didn't rly grow up focusing on race unlike Americans.
      My mum does not like a lot of ethnicities. But I know she doesn't like them for cultural reasons instead of "race" reasons.
      Her most hated ethnicity is the Irish travellers. They're very similar to gypsies in terms of culture. I honestly think if I brought home a traveller she would ring them up on the side and pay them not to date me. However, if I brought home a traveller who was educated and didn't practice the majority of traveller culture, she'd have a huge amount of respect for them and probablythink they were too good for me. Some of the people she admires most are travellers who are no longer travellers.
      Same goes for 90% of immigrants. She looks down on them unless they fully practice Irish culture. It can look like racism on the outside, but I know it's cultural discrimination since she would be happy to accept black people as long as they're Irish (and educated).
      Anyway. Its very hard to deal with my mum when she makes you feel like crap for having non-Irish friends. I definitely subconsciously choose partners she'd approve of.
      This affects what races I date since most Irish people are white.
      Fun fact:
      My mum doesn't discriminate against mixed kids (where one parent practices an Irish culture she approves of) because she knows the Irish parent will make sure their kid knows Irish culture.
      Second of all, she accepts some cultures like British, Indian, Estonian and pacific islanders. (Sorry to the Americans who thought they'd make this list, but my mum will immediately judge you negatively)

    • @mariahasmr9184
      @mariahasmr9184 Před 10 měsíci

      @@putinsgaytwin4272what do you mean by traveler, like a tourist?

    • @putinsgaytwin4272
      @putinsgaytwin4272 Před 10 měsíci

      @@mariahasmr9184 they're an ethnicty in Ireland. They're a protected cultural group in Ireland. They technically are genetically distinct from Irish people but they look fairly similar to us

  • @MrFLstyle
    @MrFLstyle Před 6 měsíci +11

    I’m black man, I rather stick with my race. Not interested in anyone but my own. 😮‍💨

  • @ishapurandare5685
    @ishapurandare5685 Před 9 měsíci +13

    "I am not sure what that fear is defined as." Racism. That's what it is, ma'am. Racism.

  • @alainaballantyne4822
    @alainaballantyne4822 Před rokem +13

    Something I wish the video covered a bit more is the difference between race and culture… you can be the same general race as your partner but have completely different cultures (ie different countries from the same continent can look very different)

    • @danieljenkins7951
      @danieljenkins7951 Před rokem +1

      Why would they spend talking about outliers. You can spend all day pointing out outliers that dont apply to the majority.

    • @luka7678
      @luka7678 Před rokem +1

      @@danieljenkins7951 what outliers? Maybe in USA but not in the rest of the world

  • @morad9057
    @morad9057 Před rokem +4

    3:02 😭😭😭😭 she killing me, i love statics and everything related to it 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @karinarodriguez3682
    @karinarodriguez3682 Před rokem +100

    Im Mexican and my husband is white. We love each other, understand each other and connect on a whole different level. We’ve had some really good laughs being different races. Our parents love each other and hangout together frequently. It was never an issue in my Mexican household my parents just wanted us to find a person who we loved and that would love and respect us in return.

  • @Trelznc
    @Trelznc Před rokem +14

    Let’s be real a lot of them were TOLD BY THEIR ELDERS ! Not to date outside their race. But we’re not ready for that conversation 🙃

  • @aspebb
    @aspebb Před rokem +11

    4:56 Wait was that the white girl who was in cosplay with an Asian fetish who got hugged?

    • @gigipo_
      @gigipo_ Před rokem +4

      I thought so too at first but no lol, the girl from the dating video is blonde

  • @TheRealCandyMan
    @TheRealCandyMan Před rokem +5

    5:19 she is so beautiful 😮
    Omg

  • @batteryuser8942
    @batteryuser8942 Před rokem +4

    lol Cut knew what they were doing with that thumbnail 😂

  • @ChuckleHoneybear
    @ChuckleHoneybear Před 3 měsíci +1

    Preference vs requirement speech was good

  • @babsome
    @babsome Před rokem

    Always enjoying your video's 🥰

  • @flyicestormpluto
    @flyicestormpluto Před rokem +2

    Keep it 100 fron CUT is always so intresting!

  • @bradleythompson3519
    @bradleythompson3519 Před rokem +16

    I think people make race matter more than it should in dating. When we talk about ethnic culture sure there are some considerations you have to make. Its understandable to want to be with someone who understands your culture, but are you saying no one outside your skin color has the capacity to relate? Are you saying that if someone checks off every box that you look for in a partner but they aren't x race then you won't date them no matter how good they look? That seems silly. Also it typically seems like people who wont date someone solely off of the color of their skin, it's often just based on negative stereotypes of the other person's culture. At the end of the day, when you put yourself in such small racial boxes you can miss out on great potential partners. Just my 2 cents.

  • @ckamo10
    @ckamo10 Před rokem +1

    the last guy is just like me lmaooo

  • @jrgonzalez741
    @jrgonzalez741 Před rokem +1

    My dude @2:58 rocking Elliot Smith 👏🏼🙌🏼

  • @edrisjoseph802
    @edrisjoseph802 Před rokem +5

    It would be cool if they made a video asking people if they would date outside of their ethnicity.

  • @arellytran
    @arellytran Před rokem +414

    My husband is Chinese and I’m Mexican. I love our mixed culture marriage. “Race” doesn’t matter… we are all the human race.

    • @Miss_Kisa94
      @Miss_Kisa94 Před rokem +36

      I know a Chinese man who married a Mexican woman 😂 their baby looks Filipino he's a super cute kid

    • @arellytran
      @arellytran Před rokem +7

      @@Miss_Kisa94 Haha, our son looks Chinese. People don’t think I’m the adoptive mom. 😫

    • @Miss_Kisa94
      @Miss_Kisa94 Před rokem +12

      @@arellytran awww haha your husband must have strong genes

    • @iBaMbAM_
      @iBaMbAM_ Před rokem

      How do the babies look?

    • @scj3188
      @scj3188 Před rokem +18

      Race matters. You're delusional to think otherwise

  • @OwnD1
    @OwnD1 Před rokem

    4:58 ayyy yooo, it’s that cosplay girl from The Button series 😂😂😂

  • @FirefulXD
    @FirefulXD Před rokem

    one of my favorite intros previews XD

  • @couchpotato4295
    @couchpotato4295 Před rokem +5

    1:42 they got Michael Scofield on this show

  • @ashleyaldi3901
    @ashleyaldi3901 Před rokem +7

    7:47 This person reminds me of an asian and white Michael jackson!

  • @holdenslayer
    @holdenslayer Před rokem +2

    Antarctic Poison Ivy at 3:23, you are stunning

  • @sivan1127
    @sivan1127 Před rokem

    Opening was best😂

  • @tioluwaniakinloye7649
    @tioluwaniakinloye7649 Před rokem +16

    3:14 She sounds like how i write essays

  • @Eso_esta_malo
    @Eso_esta_malo Před rokem +80

    As long as he´s funny, good looking for me, a walking green flag and not a murderer, everything it´s fine for me, no matter the race

    • @controlman7490
      @controlman7490 Před rokem +3

      Being a murderer isn't always a bad thing.

    • @Papi_21
      @Papi_21 Před rokem +26

      @@controlman7490 fr...like I murdered my mom one time but she was chill with it.

    • @controlman7490
      @controlman7490 Před rokem +4

      @@Papi_21 How can she be chill with it when she's dead? Gotta use your brain, bro.

    • @talhacreates4944
      @talhacreates4944 Před rokem +5

      @@controlman7490 r/whooosh

    • @controlman7490
      @controlman7490 Před rokem +4

      @@talhacreates4944 Nope, I knew it was a joke, but it made zero sense which was the point of my comment lmao. Read better.

  • @taliw7736
    @taliw7736 Před 11 měsíci

    Great video gives me something to think of 😊

  • @bliss_555
    @bliss_555 Před 10 měsíci

    that first girl and that last guy were so funny lmao. Love all of them, i don't discriminate either.

  • @thegreatergood8081
    @thegreatergood8081 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Anyone who uses the word "cis" should be ignored.

  • @tamarameakes2014
    @tamarameakes2014 Před rokem +5

    Cut keeping topic race alive one day at time

    • @swagdonor2357
      @swagdonor2357 Před rokem

      They’ll never let it go. It’s too profitable. Remember 2005 when nobody talked about it 😢

  • @ROBERTDAVis2271
    @ROBERTDAVis2271 Před rokem

    Great video 👍🏿

  • @whitneyHU2014
    @whitneyHU2014 Před 6 měsíci +1

    6:54 "My current wife" lol 😂

  • @SJ-xx1xj
    @SJ-xx1xj Před 10 měsíci +3

    the guy i was dating broke up with me today because i'm not who he pictured himself ending up with - "a white, blonde-haired, blue-eyed girl." i was low-key curious what folks on the video would say. i'm glad it seems like a lot of folks don't share his limitations!

  • @BUSSINJUSTIN10M
    @BUSSINJUSTIN10M Před rokem +5

    8:18 she’s speaking 1 2 buckle my shoe Facts

  • @David13579
    @David13579 Před rokem +1

    My ex gf is from Vietnam and was awesome. I learned that me and my family do stuff that’s so different to her own family

  • @alexisway2541
    @alexisway2541 Před rokem

    the way it started hilarious good choice

  • @TheOnlyTaps
    @TheOnlyTaps Před rokem +10

    Always a good watch 👊🏿

    • @swagdonor2357
      @swagdonor2357 Před rokem +1

      I can’t see your fist bump. I have dark mode on my CZcams lol

  • @katherine2000cl
    @katherine2000cl Před 10 měsíci +3

    As a mixed girl (black mother, white father), it’s virtually impossible not to date outside my race. Interracial couples weren’t as common when I was born, so there aren’t as many mixed people from my generation. I’ve dated basically every race/ethnicity though. African, African-American, Caucasian (American), Indian, East Asian, Hispanic, etc. My current partner is a cishet white male (I am a cishet female). I am the first partner of color he has ever dated, but hopefully the last (4.5 years and counting now)! The key to longevity is embracing and acknowledging cultural differences instead of ignoring them! As long as mutual respect is there and AWARENESS, it will work out just fine and possibly be even better than a homo-ethnic relationship!

  • @milky1234123
    @milky1234123 Před 3 měsíci

    im taking that "its a hoot and a half" I like that

  • @oliviareichenbach2033

    I loved the hoot and a half comment😂

  • @Jessthebes
    @Jessthebes Před rokem +20

    Race definitely matters

  • @nicole6694
    @nicole6694 Před rokem +7

    5:27 LISTEN TO THEM!! preference and requierement is not the same and one is clearly discriminatory

    • @rianalee3138
      @rianalee3138 Před rokem +1

      both can be, the girl who likes asian men due to anime has a “preference”

    • @theprousteffect9717
      @theprousteffect9717 Před 3 měsíci

      There's nothing inherently terrible about having a requirement. Many people have height, age, assigned sex, and income requirements, are those criteria descriminatory?

  • @nvaleyjoe
    @nvaleyjoe Před rokem

    The ending 😂

  • @spytung
    @spytung Před rokem +2

    I think it’s great that we all like different things, it keeps the gene pool mixed well.

  • @FluteCheerios
    @FluteCheerios Před 11 měsíci +4

    I know this video is some months old, but i appreciate the honesty of these answers, very diverse. I keep seeing a common term though, that "love is love ❤️ " & whilst true, cultural barriers & ethnicity + race still exist & i noticed that a few answers in the video 📹 were influenced by what their parents & family thought, so things like that can be an issue in terms of dating interracially & interculturally, its kind of superficial to make it based on love alone. If your family or friends do not respect me, + you not coming to my defense & or even gaslighting, that is a serious problem & I'd absolutely want no part in that kind of relationship, fetishization included as well.

  • @JustMal07
    @JustMal07 Před rokem +8

    Nothing wrong with sticking with your own

    • @ralegade7710
      @ralegade7710 Před 9 měsíci

      Until you eventually bottleneck. The cheetahs are fucked.

  • @LiquidSunshine22
    @LiquidSunshine22 Před rokem +1

    that’s a hoot and a half 😂

  • @kimnoir
    @kimnoir Před 11 měsíci +1

    6:33 This person needs to become a voice actor immediately.

  • @johntrevino1616
    @johntrevino1616 Před rokem +5

    Bro where are you finding these gta characters 😂

  • @zanegraham9997
    @zanegraham9997 Před rokem +4

    Aint no way they got Johnny Sins on Cut 😮 2:50

  • @user-gg9yk8hm7n
    @user-gg9yk8hm7n Před rokem +2

    1:39 LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE PRISON BREAK GUY

  • @Themidnightstorm1
    @Themidnightstorm1 Před 5 měsíci +1

    2:25 was respectfully honest

  • @jacksonalex6525
    @jacksonalex6525 Před rokem +92

    People like what they like, very simple.

    • @irenesantonja1010
      @irenesantonja1010 Před rokem +25

      That analysis is quite poor. People have prejudices too and make assumptions of others from that. Everything is influenced from more than one parameter. It is not as simple as that.

    • @jerlinej3516
      @jerlinej3516 Před rokem +9

      Eh, most things are not that simple. It’s just that most of us don’t want to or need to dig deeper. But the question of “why do I like this or gravitate toward this?” comes up for many people at least once in their life, especially in (couples) therapy

    • @Not-Ap
      @Not-Ap Před 8 měsíci

      Intellectually lazy answer....

    • @lanajohnson7401
      @lanajohnson7401 Před 7 měsíci

      @@irenesantonja1010 My parents told me to only date black men, black love, etc. Interracial marriage is often frowned upon in the black community

  • @javiervasquez8797
    @javiervasquez8797 Před rokem +5

    Anyone else fell like claiming to be a mix of white, Native American, and Mexican is unnecessarily redundant? Mathematically, that just sounds like a Mexican squared.

  • @parkourguy4567
    @parkourguy4567 Před rokem

    3:00 the Elliott shirt omg

  • @Guarlaon
    @Guarlaon Před rokem +2

    8:06 finally i'm represented!!! haha

  • @walkinprogress88
    @walkinprogress88 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Good Manners and good values. How awesome would it be to love someone without seeing their race, nationality etc..

  • @dnkbaker3363
    @dnkbaker3363 Před rokem +7

    Everyone needs love

  • @rarityd
    @rarityd Před rokem

    I’m from Spokane and I laughed with the “Montana.”

  • @emmasara9030
    @emmasara9030 Před rokem

    1:07 Definitly German. "There is no wrong Weather, just wrong clothing" haha