Autistic brother leaves everyone in tears with best man speech

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  • čas přidán 19. 09. 2021
  • Sam Waldron, 23, announced to a room of people how his brother Jonah Waldron, 27, is his 'hero' and 'never looked down on me.' The brave Iowa man talks about how having autism can make him scared to interact with people.
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Komentáře • 6K

  • @scindiarivera5548
    @scindiarivera5548 Před 2 lety +18711

    The fact that he said that he can feel really uncomfortable around people but that his sister in law brings him peace is the best compliment she could ever receive 🥺❤️

    • @TheOfficialDirtyDan
      @TheOfficialDirtyDan Před 2 lety +102

      IKR LIKE 😭😭😭

    • @tkogill5820
      @tkogill5820 Před 2 lety +278

      Groom kept it together until then but started balling as soon as he said those words.
      Shows how much he cares for his little brother and is happy they all love each other

    • @grizzly6018
      @grizzly6018 Před 2 lety +1

      @@dobelweg7563 ok Nazi Germany

    • @shirosh809
      @shirosh809 Před 2 lety +16

      AGREEֲ

    • @linrob1312
      @linrob1312 Před 2 lety +71

      Such a lovely compliment to his brother and his sis in law...and what a lovely young man he is.

  • @Mimi-cq4bg
    @Mimi-cq4bg Před 2 lety +14588

    His hands are shaking and the way he's rocking side to side.... his anxiety is visible. He did he fantastic job. Just phenomenal.

    • @jonmarrie9469
      @jonmarrie9469 Před 2 lety +477

      He did do a phenomenal job, his rocking side to side is actually a way of soothing himself in situations where he is normally uncomfortable in, my son does the same thing ❤️

    • @dannyfarrow278
      @dannyfarrow278 Před 2 lety +152

      Honestly, I am not autistic and I would do this giving a speech. Just nerves, doesn’t really have anything to do with being autistic in my opinion

    • @cazbutterfly4229
      @cazbutterfly4229 Před 2 lety +22

      @@dannyfarrow278 you brought up autism mate

    • @pescator
      @pescator Před 2 lety +36

      @@dannyfarrow278 i could never do a speech in front of so many people like this, but if i had to i would be doing the same as that kid, and shaking even more. i also think it doesnt have anything to do with being autistic, just nerves

    • @dannyfarrow278
      @dannyfarrow278 Před 2 lety +40

      @@cazbutterfly4229 people are saying the rocking is something people with autism do to soothe

  • @clusterjim519
    @clusterjim519 Před rokem +3055

    Why is it the older I get the more things like this make me shed a tear? That was some amazing amount of love right there.

    • @dvlwrsprda6381
      @dvlwrsprda6381 Před rokem +154

      because you’re maturing and realizing what life is really about. LOVE ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @tonyv9317
      @tonyv9317 Před rokem +31

      I’m asking the same thing now I’m 29

    • @Oobi666
      @Oobi666 Před rokem +17

      probably cause like sucks and seeing something nice in someones life is moving because less is happening in ours
      the thought of death also becomes stronger as you get older you know

    • @MrRuperty
      @MrRuperty Před rokem +23

      We are living in a rude world these days, and every smile from someone else is just like a gift. When I'm "down" I watch this part and feel a little bit better.

    • @jameshubisz
      @jameshubisz Před rokem +2

      Same here, just about crying 20 seconds in

  • @elizabethhoover4672
    @elizabethhoover4672 Před rokem +3438

    I love him. He's brilliant and positively hilarious. What a wonderful soul. This is so touching! This brought a tear to my eyes.

    • @4xmo
      @4xmo Před rokem +2

      his speech was halirious, not him

    • @elizabethhoover4672
      @elizabethhoover4672 Před rokem +26

      @@4xmo If a person can be funny, i.e. create and execute a funny speech, then I'd include funny as one of their character descriptors. Just as if someone tends to do nice things or behave kindly toward others, I'd call them nice. What is your weird deal? 😅

    • @MilMar24
      @MilMar24 Před rokem +8

      @@elizabethhoover4672 let him hate on an innocent young guy. :)

    • @yanniszaxaro
      @yanniszaxaro Před rokem +1

      you get wiser

    • @jm7804
      @jm7804 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@4xmo Every thread has at least one douchebag. Congrats to you for winning the prize in this thread.

  • @user-vi9ng4dt5r
    @user-vi9ng4dt5r Před 2 lety +7635

    The way the groom is staring at his little brother with so much pride 😭

    • @Zzues
      @Zzues Před 2 lety +173

      I was waiting for his older brother to break down crying, what a great guy to hold it together. Can see the love and compassion in their family, especially between those two brothers.

    • @Outdoorsguy1212
      @Outdoorsguy1212 Před 2 lety +9

      Soy Boy

    • @Visitwarriorbulliescom
      @Visitwarriorbulliescom Před 2 lety +50

      @@Outdoorsguy1212 sad fool

    • @myamdane6895
      @myamdane6895 Před 2 lety +12

      @@Outdoorsguy1212 what's up your ass buddy?

    • @Hopscotch_24
      @Hopscotch_24 Před 2 lety +10

      I’m crying enough for all of us ! ❤️😭❤️

  • @jibberjabber2957
    @jibberjabber2957 Před 2 lety +4991

    I'm not autistic and I could never give a speech as confident, funny and honest as this man.

    • @rachel_s_g
      @rachel_s_g Před rokem +51

      I am autistic and I'm better than most people at public speaking. Autistic people aren't automatically limited in this field.

    • @jibberjabber2957
      @jibberjabber2957 Před rokem +184

      It was a compliment Rachel not a criticism

    • @rachel_s_g
      @rachel_s_g Před rokem +1

      @@jibberjabber2957 i know, but saying “I’m not autistic” before the compliment implies that it wouldn’t be remarkable were he not autistic

    • @charliedowlin5386
      @charliedowlin5386 Před rokem +25

      @@jibberjabber2957 😭😭

    • @benhabot9526
      @benhabot9526 Před rokem +3

      factssss

  • @Rhys_hughes
    @Rhys_hughes Před rokem +843

    As someone who also has autism and struggles with large crowds. He did it extremely well so well it touched my heart and he didn’t let his worry get to him absolute legend.

  • @Waitwha
    @Waitwha Před 6 měsíci +243

    You can see how nervous he is with him shaking the paper, but he still pulled through with an amazing speech

    • @S3xGod88
      @S3xGod88 Před 5 měsíci +2

      It's the huge crowd, thats what it is.

  • @conorbowen3360
    @conorbowen3360 Před 2 lety +2349

    "You are a great soccer player, scoring 100 goals, or whatever."
    Amazing line

  • @izuetoniru8986
    @izuetoniru8986 Před 2 lety +3895

    The definition of sense of duty. Anxious but willing to get through his speech. Great guy.

    • @cleonRIP
      @cleonRIP Před 2 lety +39

      I agree! He spoke slowly, when most would be stuttering and speeding through it! I did in my own best man speech 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @daveduck4315
      @daveduck4315 Před 2 lety +3

      @@cleonRIP I don't think you can bracket people when it comes to speaking in front of an audience,I've done it twice,hope I never have to do it again.What I would say is in my day,people were branded,backward,stupid,not all there and Thick.So it is better these days

    • @cleonRIP
      @cleonRIP Před 2 lety

      @@daveduck4315 don't worry about what I bracket, Sport

    • @tootspogsforever5590
      @tootspogsforever5590 Před rokem

      they say bravery is actually fear with prayers already said😊

  • @xxshotxx1
    @xxshotxx1 Před rokem +406

    Shaking the entire time, yet delivered one of the best best man speeches I’ve ever heard. Cheers mate, you should be a public speaker.

    • @koophuisN
      @koophuisN Před rokem +6

      Dont sugar coat it

    • @todydn
      @todydn Před měsícem

      ​@@koophuisNdbaa

  • @letabranch7459
    @letabranch7459 Před rokem +670

    Great job, brother! What a memory you have given your new sister.

    • @melissaoiler2414
      @melissaoiler2414 Před rokem +3

      Danielle Pullin
      Luis Luciano
      Justin Pullin
      Mikayla Wilson

  • @Notaweebiswear
    @Notaweebiswear Před rokem +3737

    Even though he was physically shaking at the idea of doing this, his voice never wavered. This was so great to see!

    • @Bludclat_Renoveraren
      @Bludclat_Renoveraren Před rokem +15

      It did

    • @cuteladeeful
      @cuteladeeful Před rokem +47

      He is doing something called Stimming, it helps him regulate himself, but yest he's shaking too

    • @cassatakissana9382
      @cassatakissana9382 Před rokem +10

      I would be shaking like a leaf on a tree bud

    • @cuteladeeful
      @cuteladeeful Před rokem +3

      @@cassatakissana9382 me too wouldn’t have handled it as well. I would have got my word mixed up

    • @marcwarren5985
      @marcwarren5985 Před rokem +1

      Ive had to do this twice in my life, he did a great job

  • @catvibe
    @catvibe Před rokem +1281

    The way his sister-in-law cried from the very start of his speech.. she loves him just as much

    • @lorannamoody7011
      @lorannamoody7011 Před 9 měsíci +9

      Did you see the snotty gal a few seats down. Mocking. The camera left her quickly.

    • @celi3845
      @celi3845 Před 8 měsíci

      @@lorannamoody7011where?

    • @lorannamoody7011
      @lorannamoody7011 Před 8 měsíci +3

      @@celi3845 I don’t remember now but I watched the vid 3 times to make sure I was right. If it was you and I made a mistake. Sorry 😁

    • @vlad5042
      @vlad5042 Před 14 dny

      @@lorannamoody7011if we're looking at the same girl (the blonde girl at the far end towards the beginning of the vid whos giggling) idk why you think she's being mocking. she's smiling and laughing like pretty much everyone else.

  • @maiviffbc11
    @maiviffbc11 Před rokem +216

    Congratulations to the parents who raised such children. Congratulations to the older brother who became the protector and example to his siblings. And congratulations to the bride who brings peace.

  • @johnnylongshlong3677
    @johnnylongshlong3677 Před rokem +370

    I have 3 nephews with autism, one of them has been practicing public speaking for two years, I tell him every day there ain't no courage without fear. He's beyond courageous, a little hero!

    • @cpoable
      @cpoable Před 7 měsíci +4

      Thank you for supporting and empowering him / them!

    • @AusomeFamBam
      @AusomeFamBam Před 4 měsíci

      ❤❤❤

  • @mattmoser2301
    @mattmoser2301 Před 2 lety +5010

    As the older brother of an autistic brother, I couldn’t help but sob as I watched this. To anybody who knows somebody with autism they are usually the most honest people around. I know he meant every word. What fantastic compliments. Thanks for being an example to all of us Jonah.

    • @absolutlost4340
      @absolutlost4340 Před 2 lety +62

      Thats so true i've got a little brother who got autistic too and i really cried when i saw that ...

    • @serene__0
      @serene__0 Před 2 lety +40

      All of my siblings and me are autistic, I totally agree.

    • @carswithsean7967
      @carswithsean7967 Před 2 lety +46

      I am autistic and so is my son! I can tell you now that would have been so hard for him to do! He’s absolutely smashed that and an inspiration to me

    • @cheeseman5257
      @cheeseman5257 Před 2 lety +20

      i have autism i am 15

    • @aqsaannjose6836
      @aqsaannjose6836 Před 2 lety +21

      So very true...i too have a twin brother who's autistic and after watching Sam, i thought of every autistic person out there and i may not know all of them...but i do know you all have had your own struggles...and im so proud of you... The happiness on his face after everyone applauses is priceless....

  • @spencerkristich4369
    @spencerkristich4369 Před 2 lety +1586

    I'm a 30 year old autistic guy, I'm proud of this young man!!

    • @marccrockett7645
      @marccrockett7645 Před 2 lety +28

      Same here, I hate even being in small groups, I tip my hat off to the guy. I wasn't even able to do speeches in front of class as a kid, would choke up to the point I couldn't talk/ breathe properly, or I'd get that overwhelmed I'd start crying. Could tell his pride for his brother over powered the anxiety

    • @bamidelebamgbopa7219
      @bamidelebamgbopa7219 Před 2 lety +1

      @@marccrockett7645 It's not so easy raising an Autistic kid. I at times have to remind myself that his inability to be able to do some house chores aren't his doing but the condition is responsible for this.

    • @tjkay1469
      @tjkay1469 Před 2 lety +1

      @@bamidelebamgbopa7219 how can autism stop someone doing house chores? That’s a poor excuse

    • @bamidelebamgbopa7219
      @bamidelebamgbopa7219 Před 2 lety +6

      @@tjkay1469 If you must know, there are some Autistic children that aren't as excited as other children. By this I mean that chores that ordinarily would excite other children (which is expected of any child of this age) would not have such effects on him.
      I am encouraging to change.

    • @tjkay1469
      @tjkay1469 Před 2 lety +2

      @@bamidelebamgbopa7219 I have a massive friend group with a couple who have autism, and nobody is excited by house chores, at all.. I think it’s amazing, this speech, if you can’t be bothered to do house chores and you use autism as an excuse that’s disappointing.

  • @tammycosby4495
    @tammycosby4495 Před rokem +369

    That was beautiful. He was obviously nervous but he did a lot better than a lot of Best Man speeches. He’d practiced for that. Jonah, Maddie, Leo and Clair have a great brother.

  • @lukeprimmer9366
    @lukeprimmer9366 Před rokem +281

    I didn't just tear up, I almost sobbed. What an amazing speech, full of humour, honesty, and most importantly, love ❤️

    • @carebear88
      @carebear88 Před rokem +2

      I can't see anything but my tears - so powerful

    • @Grammichal
      @Grammichal Před 6 měsíci

      Oh Luke. 😘

  • @visitor55555
    @visitor55555 Před 2 lety +3386

    "You never looked down on me, you lifted me up, you looked out for me, you always reminded me that being different is a real strength, not a weakness. You were and are patient and kind. You love me just as I am" Damn... this is closer to my life than I can possibly express. I hope my youngest son can say this to my oldest son too one day.

  • @kristenharnish8773
    @kristenharnish8773 Před 2 lety +3979

    As a mom who has a son with autism, this had me in tears. What an incredible brotherly bond ❤️

  • @Thatgirl1965
    @Thatgirl1965 Před rokem +137

    You can see the love between Brothers here. What a beautiful moment in both of their lives.

  • @thejojojo1111
    @thejojojo1111 Před rokem +88

    This kid has been loved dearly throughout his life. THIS is what REAL FAMILY LOVE looks like. THIS IS WHAT REAL FAMILY LOVE DOES FOR A HUMAN.🙏

  • @benjamin.kelley
    @benjamin.kelley Před 2 lety +2661

    "Why do we need video at our wedding?" This. This is why. And as a wedding filmmaker, I can say this will NEVER get old!

    • @roslishirlinshoots5846
      @roslishirlinshoots5846 Před 2 lety +15

      I totally agree. A video editor lost my one and only wedding video copy. It feels like a part of my life lost.

    • @alohilanizapata53
      @alohilanizapata53 Před 2 lety +6

      I LOVE watching wedding videos, especially speeches! Ones like these just make them even sweeter🥰

    • @fielah
      @fielah Před 2 lety +2

      Frfr💯!!! Truth 😊

    • @denzmo1139
      @denzmo1139 Před 2 lety +6

      You can say that, but wait until you film a Chief Keef music video. much better bro

    • @fabiomino3506
      @fabiomino3506 Před 2 lety

      @@denzmo1139 😂

  • @PrincessToad
    @PrincessToad Před 2 lety +2258

    I love how everyone stood up and applauded him at the end. My son has autism and is non verbal. It was so nice to hear this beautiful young man speak so eloquently. I am dying for the day I hear my sons voice and hear mommy for the first time.

    • @Amethyst_Dragon_
      @Amethyst_Dragon_ Před 2 lety +106

      I pray that you get to hear your son speak in the near future.. Big hugs

    • @lilebb1657
      @lilebb1657 Před 2 lety +52

      You have alot to look forward to sweetie. He will teach you a lot as he grows. Cherish each day. Sending love and strength.❤️🙏

    • @Yosoy919
      @Yosoy919 Před 2 lety +32

      It can happen ! Believe me it can! My experience tells me so.

    • @Yosoy919
      @Yosoy919 Před 2 lety +21

      Focus on his strengths

    • @kakoleeify
      @kakoleeify Před 2 lety +23

      Sending my prayers..I am also in the same wheel

  • @callielu7485
    @callielu7485 Před rokem +92

    This speech says so much about that entire family...the love kindness and respect they clearly have for each other just shines through this young man.

  • @davidbennettracing538
    @davidbennettracing538 Před rokem +40

    Swaying nervously from foot to foot, hand shaking, but with sincerity and great courage- what a man!

    • @edithbannerman4
      @edithbannerman4 Před 8 měsíci

      @Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

  • @rachelh2731
    @rachelh2731 Před 2 lety +3379

    The way the groom Jonah looks at his brother when he's speaking... so much love there. How touching! Well I am a damn mess ❤❤

  • @pinkmacprincess
    @pinkmacprincess Před 2 lety +1738

    “His favorite brother because he’s known him longer.” What loving honest words. Such a beautiful speech! Made me laugh and cry.

    • @NazriB
      @NazriB Před 2 lety

      Lies again? Allah Tuhan

    • @jeffreyvanhoorik4909
      @jeffreyvanhoorik4909 Před rokem +2

      Yes its just no less yes its bother me is much the cry’s drips on the floor I know how the is I also have autism. He’s use to be so nervous and I have so much respect for him he’s did it so well. Is a emotional person I had seriously cry’s in my eyes and the funny moment I have laughing ass well

  • @DivaDelgado128
    @DivaDelgado128 Před rokem +51

    I'm not crying....YOU'RE CRYING! That was outstanding. What a wonderful young man. ❤

  • @sheilamatthews7349
    @sheilamatthews7349 Před rokem +91

    This brought me to tears. I had a brother Ricky (R.I.P.) that NEVER treated me as being different due to my having Polio. He was my strength. He taught me that if I thought of myself as handicapped I would be crippling myself more than the Polio ever had. Your brother sounds like my brother.
    Your speech was awesome. Congratulations to your brother and wife.

    • @thompsonsmith7798
      @thompsonsmith7798 Před rokem +2

      Hello Sheila
      How are you doing today?

    • @katherinea.williams3044
      @katherinea.williams3044 Před rokem +2

      You are so very lucky to have had the brother you had!
      I’m so very sorry to hear of his passing.
      I’m sure he’s looking at you, rooting for you to be your best.
      Seems like he succeeded in his efforts.
      He SURPASSED them.
      Best of luck to you and yours.
      Love & Light from Miami Shores🦚
      Stay safe mate✌🏼🌎

    • @aanya4668
      @aanya4668 Před 11 měsíci +1

      im proud of u sheila and im sure ur brother is too
      take care and i hope u have a wonderful life

  • @hollyberry4749
    @hollyberry4749 Před 2 lety +2330

    Hands down my absolute favourite best man speech on entire CZcams. This young man wasn’t born to fit in, he was born to stand out. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @debratitone4798
      @debratitone4798 Před 2 lety +22

      Holly. Beautiful sentiment. Thank you

    • @christinewallis8953
      @christinewallis8953 Před 2 lety +13

      Oh that is such a lovely thing to day, but oh so true 💖

    • @illicitshadow
      @illicitshadow Před 2 lety +19

      What a wonderful way to put it, gave me goosebumps :)

    • @toddchereebailey9625
      @toddchereebailey9625 Před 2 lety +11

      I've worked with children & adults on the spectrum for almost 30 years, and your comment says it all!

    • @miss_emoji1
      @miss_emoji1 Před 2 lety +4

      Yes ☺

  • @ritchybinoo9150
    @ritchybinoo9150 Před 2 lety +1365

    The groom's expression of joy & pride for his baby brother is the mother of all tear jerkers!

  • @Asgardian30
    @Asgardian30 Před 6 měsíci +6

    I love that put jokes in his speech even though he probably has a hard time understanding jokes. Much love brother.

    • @breesgacha8294
      @breesgacha8294 Před měsícem

      Hello! Sister to an autistic brother here. I work with special needs adults all the time and they rarely seem to have trouble comprehending jokes. They do, however, struggle with social cues. Just wanted to clear that up, have a nice day!

  • @TheCrystalBoat
    @TheCrystalBoat Před 2 lety +1829

    Scared of people, uncomfortable with speeches and gave the best best man speech ever!! Even I teared up

    • @Etatdesiege1979
      @Etatdesiege1979 Před rokem +2

      Fantastic emotional intelligence.

    • @l.258
      @l.258 Před rokem +1

      me too!

    • @jglow22
      @jglow22 Před rokem +1

      HONESTLY! It really was THE BEST best man speech I ever heard!

  • @catherinetiernan5888
    @catherinetiernan5888 Před 2 lety +847

    The courage it took for the "best looking Waldron"to stand up and make that speech was amazing,but he was surrounded by love and that helped him.

    • @nelsonwesson9644
      @nelsonwesson9644 Před 2 lety

      Hi Catherine,how are you doing and your family,how is the weather condition over there?

  • @juliam1395
    @juliam1395 Před 11 měsíci +6

    My daughter is autistic but she can't speak. I hope she may able to speak in some days. Beautiful boy with beautiful speech.

  • @DelaneyWalker
    @DelaneyWalker Před rokem +90

    Omg this speech made me laugh and cry. So precious.

  • @jennybenson4532
    @jennybenson4532 Před 2 lety +1576

    Love his brutal honesty and comedic timing with his brother. His family must be so incredibly proud of him

    • @lunaloveless7234
      @lunaloveless7234 Před rokem

      Why? Just because he is autistic? I am autistic. The vast majority of us are more than capable of doing stuff like this. There's no reason to be anymore proud just because they are autistic. This is so ableist and it infantlizes us.

    • @jennybenson4532
      @jennybenson4532 Před rokem

      @@lunaloveless7234 I wasn't saying that they should be anymore proud of him because of his autism I am married to someone on the spectrum. I was saying that they should be proud of him for facing his own fears as he himself identified in his speech. I didn't mean to offend you or anyone else that is on the spectrum.

  • @vegasgirl3538
    @vegasgirl3538 Před 2 lety +692

    He's so brave. You can tell he's anxious and scared, but he powered through.

  • @parakeet8157
    @parakeet8157 Před rokem +60

    So sweet, very emotional. Very proud of this man

    • @mikedavidson1922
      @mikedavidson1922 Před rokem +1

      I lost a tear 💧can we get to know each other and share thoughts?

  • @mclainbetsayad
    @mclainbetsayad Před rokem +47

    He used to be my Teacher, I’m so glad to see this video.

  • @leonardobandini7800
    @leonardobandini7800 Před 2 lety +1519

    He's adorable to say the least, in every possibile way: using irony as an instrument of coping is telling how many battles he's fought and how strong he's become. Lovely

    • @leonardobandini7800
      @leonardobandini7800 Před 2 lety +14

      @@johnfisher8401 some individuals with asd may struggle with figurative language and irony, but high functioning ones are capable of comprehending irony and it seems he does, or at least to me 😉

    • @atraue7
      @atraue7 Před 2 lety +1

      Why make a comment like that?

    • @melissakany9185
      @melissakany9185 Před 2 lety +1

      @@johnfisher8401
      What a shameful thing to say😪🤫 . It's pretty clear that you are ignorant. Personally I would be embarrassed if I were you.
      I kinda wonder if you have low self-esteem or perhaps a bully cause you were bullied, that or there is something spastic that you hate about yourself. Either way human being kind to yourself is being kind to others. Love you love others instead✌

    • @melissakany9185
      @melissakany9185 Před 2 lety

      @@johnfisher8401 if your attitude is "who cares anyways" then why watch enough of the video that you even recognized there was irony? just to show the world how and what ugliness looks like? Well if that is the case and you are a decent person then thanks for the literary visual education

    • @leonardobandini7800
      @leonardobandini7800 Před 2 lety +1

      @@johnfisher8401 perhaps yes, perhaps nope, I inferred it was his own work and he could use and understand irony because I noticed he was smiling right before saying a funny thing (knowing what it was about to come) and that he was laughing together with others and not after others (which may have meant he was imitating them).. but I agree with you, in the end who cares (although I wonder then why you wrote your first message... I swear, no incitement): this video simply moved me

  • @LMCSM
    @LMCSM Před rokem +1952

    My Son has Autism too. Seeing their confidence grow is one of the most incredible things. My Son used to not even be able to speak to another child, and while he still hasn't got friends in school, he has overcome a lot and can now make "small talk" with them. Huge congrats to this young man, being so brave and overcoming his struggles and anxiety 💜💜

    • @jaapbleekveld5068
      @jaapbleekveld5068 Před rokem +26

      Teach him how to play chess, If the kid likes it, he should improve by himself growing his convidence. And its another way to learn how to communicate with others people of all kinds and languages. It will also improve his concentration and the results he will get at school.

    • @chironschemist6829
      @chironschemist6829 Před rokem +6

      @@jaapbleekveld5068 agreed

    • @user-lp6of4qr2o
      @user-lp6of4qr2o Před rokem +9

      @@jaapbleekveld5068 Agreed, it's important that children with Autism find a community outside of school

    • @rydee3404
      @rydee3404 Před rokem

      He is coming enjoy watching him grow

    • @Tangga1boy01
      @Tangga1boy01 Před rokem +1

      My son had autism and i love him to bits. Videos like this make me feel a lot better and with the hope that my son will grow just as independent and healthy.

  • @michaelriegler2594
    @michaelriegler2594 Před rokem +35

    I loved watching his brother's eyes. They powerfully display the levels of love and respect he had for his best man.

  • @TheColorHopeIsBlue
    @TheColorHopeIsBlue Před rokem +44

    Wow I’m a year late but holy heck, I love this guy. He’s awesome. What a hilarious and heartfelt speech. I hope he’s doing well. If Jonah and Maddie have kids, he’ll be an excellent uncle. :)

  • @grymgaming5541
    @grymgaming5541 Před 2 lety +918

    this kid just took me on a roller coaster ride of emotions man, from laughing so hard, to cballing my eyes out. wish him the best

    • @Gaeldx
      @Gaeldx Před 2 lety +4

      I haven't cried, yet my throat is sore

  • @Watered
    @Watered Před 2 lety +301

    “You give me peace” is the best compliment ever

  • @roseannagordon6758
    @roseannagordon6758 Před rokem +12

    My parents passed away over 40 years ago, I'm 61, I really miss them so much, I talk to them every day and I can still hear them say, be your sweet self, my mom would say, and stop being so hardheaded , your doing it the hard way and slow down, my dad would say, he had a smile and a twinkle in his eyes that showed me he loved me. They taught my brothers and sisters , 9 of us, to clean , ( spotless clean ). All of us had respect for our parents, my mom is an angel , my dad had a big heart but didn't show his soft side very much, but I saw it a lot. They always said to eat all your food, and to get along with everyone. I'm a cleaning lady and I love my job, and I'm great at it, and I'm still the sweet person they taught me to be, thanks mom and dad . 🤗💕💕

  • @an6350
    @an6350 Před 11 měsíci +17

    it must mean so much to the older brother knowing how scared that kid is of public speaking, but he did it for him anyway and made a really meaningful and loving speech.

  • @jadeec4372
    @jadeec4372 Před 2 lety +618

    the bride and groom crying before be even got to the sweet parts just proves that this is the best wedding gift that they got

  • @msCabins
    @msCabins Před 2 lety +1315

    Did I last 10 seconds without crying? No, no I did not. This was awesome.

    • @TheKendra1423
      @TheKendra1423 Před 2 lety +5

      Revelation 13:10
      King James Version
      10 He that leadeth into captivity shall go into captivity: he that killeth with the sword must be killed with the sword. Here is the patience and the faith of the saints.

    • @emillyyelen5169
      @emillyyelen5169 Před 2 lety

      @@TheKendra1423 Only KJV!

    • @Songbird36able
      @Songbird36able Před 2 lety +2

      I didn't last either!!!😁😪

    • @Firefly_Nino
      @Firefly_Nino Před 2 lety +1

      tribore?

    • @williamroux3713
      @williamroux3713 Před 2 lety +3

      I got to about 20 because I’m a tough guy.

  • @kenbearsley8322
    @kenbearsley8322 Před 9 měsíci +13

    That was a brilliant speech by a brilliant person. Ya can't get any better than that. A young person with a minor hiccup in life certainly stole the show. Well done young fella. You deserve the best in life

    • @edithbannerman4
      @edithbannerman4 Před 8 měsíci

      @Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

  • @oakenshadow6763
    @oakenshadow6763 Před 2 lety +2590

    "You are committed. Or you should be committed." I love this. Seriously, we Autistic people come up with the best jokes!!!! 1:24

    • @zomkino
      @zomkino Před 2 lety +4

      maybe was written for him, but yeah he seems smart enough so i dont know

    • @oakenshadow6763
      @oakenshadow6763 Před 2 lety +111

      @@zomkino Im possative he wrote it himself. Autism makes it hard for some to speak what we think, but writing is easy. It's the best way for those of us with verbal difficulties to express ourselves without talking getting in the way. ^_^

    • @josh05683
      @josh05683 Před 2 lety +28

      Number one thing I love about autistic individuals is that sometimes there is no filter with them and it just leaves a path for absolutely golden jokes, at least the best I've heard. They always had me on the floor in pain laughing.

    • @TerryFGM
      @TerryFGM Před 2 lety

      nah.

    • @adarnanicherdiane4293
      @adarnanicherdiane4293 Před rokem +3

      @@zomkino I think he wrote it. My daughter is better in exressing herself in written words.

  • @jaymorris317
    @jaymorris317 Před 2 lety +724

    My oldest son is autistic and this made me cry. The definition of bravery is to do something that scares you. You are a brave young man (and clearly the most handsome in the family!)

    • @HoldenNY22
      @HoldenNY22 Před 2 lety

      I am sorry that your son is Autistic and I offer my condolences and sympathy for that. I just curious what you think of the theory that some people have that Autism is caused by Vaccines? Your response would be greatly appreciated. Thank You,.

    • @floppyferrucci
      @floppyferrucci Před 2 lety +33

      @@HoldenNY22 you don't have to offer condolences for other people having a son with autism. My son has autism and he is truly a blessing. He teaches me everyday more than I teach him. I heard that theory but in my case, everyone saw something different on my son since he was months old. So... It's a no for me.

    • @HoldenNY22
      @HoldenNY22 Před 2 lety +6

      @@floppyferrucci Thank You for your response. I wish and your son The Best.

    • @anitapilliter3954
      @anitapilliter3954 Před 2 lety +11

      My son is also autistic and when I watched this I started crying. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Also he teaches me new things everyday and I love him to the moon and back

    • @miss.antidote
      @miss.antidote Před 2 lety +3

      My son is autistic and this made me cry.

  • @TanyaQueen182
    @TanyaQueen182 Před rokem +19

    This family needs to be protected at all costs.

  • @beliswaggy
    @beliswaggy Před 11 měsíci +10

    As someone autistic I feel so full watching this, i also saw in his hand that he was anxious and trembling tremendously but he kept going even when ppl started clapping wich can be really difficult for an autistic person cuz some are really sensitive to sound (i am ).I am proud of you !!

  • @normahughes7235
    @normahughes7235 Před 2 lety +594

    His comment about his future sister-in-law is exactly why he is marrying her. This definitely made me shed a tear, beautiful.

    • @NicoleKe
      @NicoleKe Před 2 lety +6

      He’s marrying her because her head game is on point. 🤣🤣🤣🤣.

    • @thebigboofer3826
      @thebigboofer3826 Před 2 lety +40

      @@NicoleKe yikes. Grow up

    • @OS-yg9fr
      @OS-yg9fr Před 2 lety +3

      @@NicoleKe why do you have two first names lel

  • @trishmaile7878
    @trishmaile7878 Před 2 lety +797

    What a beautiful soul, a real credit to himself, his family and friends. And an inspiration to people with Autism....... he shines.

    • @ellieburton6208
      @ellieburton6208 Před 2 lety +7

      He is more than an inspiration to people with autism. He is an inspiration to all.

  • @jish194
    @jish194 Před rokem +17

    Being an autistic person myself, this dude here is incredibly brave.

  • @MalkyMcCallum
    @MalkyMcCallum Před rokem +8

    This is arguably the most beautiful thing I've ever seen!!😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @jayceechan6098
    @jayceechan6098 Před 2 lety +673

    I’m a man and this brought me to tears. What a strong young man. His strength is so encouraging. Kudos to his supporting family to raise such an inspirational young man.

    • @crazyass1234567890
      @crazyass1234567890 Před 2 lety +26

      What does being a man have anything to do with the ability to cry

    • @paigeleigh2554
      @paigeleigh2554 Před 2 lety +1

      Absolutely!

    • @pocketssmith5933
      @pocketssmith5933 Před 2 lety +2

      This man is a legend.

    • @kattihatt
      @kattihatt Před 2 lety +4

      Boys dont cry. But men do.

    • @johnjmass9335
      @johnjmass9335 Před 2 lety +7

      @@crazyass1234567890 because most men are afraid to show their emotions. It was frowned upon. Now I for one am a 51 year old man and was bawling like a little baby teething watching this

  • @malston72
    @malston72 Před 2 lety +632

    The way he's terribly trembling and when he says Maddie gives him peace....I only hope my kids love each other this much one day

    • @ldlink3935
      @ldlink3935 Před 2 lety +1

      It almost seems like he is in love with his brothers wife.......!!!!

    • @DAlexa-lv6wq
      @DAlexa-lv6wq Před 2 lety +8

      @@ldlink3935 no it doesn't, he was offering a compliment that shows his approval, that he gets along well with her. That she seems to understand him and accept him, which is surely important to the brother. Sometimes, some autistic people feel like they need to try and "mask" when they're around strangers to fit in, but this was a way of saying that she is a person he can exist comfortably around and be himself. With my experience, people with autism are some of the most genuine in their words, and I think he was saying everything in the kindest, more heartfelt way possible to honor his brother's day. There were no other intentions behind his words

    • @ldlink3935
      @ldlink3935 Před 2 lety +1

      @@DAlexa-lv6wq well said.

  • @Chrissyhappy
    @Chrissyhappy Před rokem +10

    What a great sense of humour. The perfect best man’s speech.

  • @brandocalrissian3294
    @brandocalrissian3294 Před 2 měsíci +2

    My older brother and i have been through hell and back. He's the only person i believe truly loves me in life. This was beautiful.

  • @tranurse
    @tranurse Před 2 lety +683

    My son is 23 and has autism. He’s on the higher functioning side of the spectrum, like this young man. This fact that he can do this is amazing. My son was 20 before he told me he loved me without me saying it first. So the fact that he is able to stand up in front of people and say this, shows how amazing he is

    • @blushingtipsy
      @blushingtipsy Před 2 lety +4

    • @adriennegarcia2986
      @adriennegarcia2986 Před 2 lety +11

      My grandson is 5 and has autism and we are thinking he is on the higher end of the spectrum as well! He doesn’t put words together as of yet but he does have a big vocabulary! His mother and of course I can’t wait til he says those three precious words that many throw around carelessly!

    • @HoldenNY22
      @HoldenNY22 Před 2 lety +1

      I am sorry that your son is Autistic and I offer my condolences and sympathy for that. I just curious what you think of the theory that some people have that Autism is caused by Vaccines? Your response would be greatly appreciated. Thank You,.

    • @Content.Deleted1234
      @Content.Deleted1234 Před 2 lety +6

      My daughter is almost 8 and she is autistic. This makes me so hopeful for her future. This is amazing! I love this ❤️❤️

    • @timothyadamski6380
      @timothyadamski6380 Před 2 lety +11

      @@HoldenNY22 really dude didn’t you ask this question already and get it answered?? It’s not the time or place.

  • @koltonhavas6724
    @koltonhavas6724 Před 2 lety +496

    I'm autistic and this is extraordinary. It's so hard talking in public and for him to speak in front of that many people is awesome

    • @ObzTicle
      @ObzTicle Před 2 lety +19

      You can do it to man! I believe in you.

    • @koltonhavas6724
      @koltonhavas6724 Před 2 lety +7

      @VVoOꟻF It's hard to say. Clapping and cheering I can manage but if I'm outside and a motorcycle starts up near me or loud music coming from a car I get a little perturbed. When you're autistic the older you get, the less of an effect loud noises have on you. Bring ina crowded environment is still hard though

    • @koltonhavas6724
      @koltonhavas6724 Před 2 lety +8

      @VVoOꟻF no problem. I enjoy people asking. It brings more awareness to us

    • @koltonhavas6724
      @koltonhavas6724 Před 2 lety +4

      @@ObzTicle I appreciate the encouragement. Take as much as I can

    • @kkly27
      @kkly27 Před 2 lety +2

      @@koltonhavas6724 hi, my son is 9 and has autism. He used to have to leave the weekly family assembly at school, where merits were handed out, because of all the clapping and cheering. I’ve often wondered if things like this would get easier for him as he gets older. Thanks for sharing.
      My son is also quite terrified of babies and toddlers because he associates them with crying. If he sees someone crying, he says himself that it starts a “chain reaction” and he just can’t help but cry himself. He gets so distressed when it happens. I hope this is also something that he can learn to cope with as he gets older. 😊

  • @TickyTack23
    @TickyTack23 Před rokem +18

    You can see the nervousness in that man, but I loved how big his smile would get every time the crowd reacted. Bravo! Well done sir!

  • @jeffc9713
    @jeffc9713 Před rokem +7

    That was beautiful what he did for his brother I’m sure him and his wife will remember not only that day but that for rest of their life

  • @themismusicstuff9310
    @themismusicstuff9310 Před rokem +940

    My brother died at the age of 4 with autism, and this just had me in tears, especially when I think of what would life be like, if he was still there.

    • @ahhhhhhhj2414
      @ahhhhhhhj2414 Před rokem +33

      My sister died at 6 and she had autism, I relate completely ❤️

    • @mindyleazott363
      @mindyleazott363 Před rokem +16

      So SORRY I AM SURE HE WATCHES OVER YOU EVERYDAY; BLESSINGS

    • @MayorBrownn
      @MayorBrownn Před rokem +12

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m glad he was in your life

    • @smallapples1205
      @smallapples1205 Před rokem +10

      May I ask what autism has to do with it?

    • @mindyleazott363
      @mindyleazott363 Před rokem +14

      @@smallapples1205 Nothing but they wanted to tell the world

  • @holdontillmay.
    @holdontillmay. Před 2 lety +304

    "Maddie, you bring me peace. Welcome to our sweet, nutty family." made me tear up. His brother looks at him with so much love.

  • @bendover2640
    @bendover2640 Před rokem +13

    What a legend

  • @annburchard6199
    @annburchard6199 Před rokem +3

    I just love this dedication of the little brother toasting his big brother's wedding reception. It brought tears to my eyes.!

  • @Igor-KB
    @Igor-KB Před rokem +8

    I lost my big brother to Covid last year, so this made me cry easily, everytime you get a chance, if you have a brother, tell him/her you love them, i miss him everyday

  • @chrisspence1831
    @chrisspence1831 Před 2 lety +611

    This young man humbles me. An outstanding Best Man’s speech.

  • @mattz8775
    @mattz8775 Před 2 lety +442

    The groom is a wonderful person. His expressions and emotions make this a very special video.

    • @jackkelly8226
      @jackkelly8226 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Outdoorsguy1212 a soy boy with a wife? Makes perfect sense

    • @bubbaman12289
      @bubbaman12289 Před 2 lety +3

      @@jackkelly8226 don't feed the trolls

  • @tinamckinney2328
    @tinamckinney2328 Před rokem

    This is so sweet. How strong he was to do this.

  • @geoguru32
    @geoguru32 Před rokem +160

    Awwwww! As someone with autism myself, this made my week!

  • @ChosenWon
    @ChosenWon Před 2 lety +441

    This is beautiful.

  • @Harvestersz
    @Harvestersz Před 2 lety +362

    You can see Jonah's love for his brother in his face. That love is a true gift for both of them as well as their friends and family.

  • @danijacob4119
    @danijacob4119 Před rokem +22

    He’s such a sweet soul … my goodness I couldn’t stop crying

  • @bugger1649
    @bugger1649 Před 9 měsíci +2

    His speech came straight from his heart, great job

  • @pommiebears
    @pommiebears Před 2 lety +477

    What a brave young man. For the love of his brother, he did what he’s most afraid of. 💜

  • @OliverAisthorpe
    @OliverAisthorpe Před rokem +504

    Watching this makes me feel proud as I’m autistic and did a speech for my mum and stepdad’s wedding and there wasn’t a dry eye in the room and I can’t be any prouder of myself for it, I was crying after as I needed a moment to myself

    • @justbrowsing8482
      @justbrowsing8482 Před rokem +9

      Bless you. Well done. Any speech is hard for most people but you overcame any fears to do what am I sure was a great speech to those you love. Stay well and stay safe. And thank you for sharing your story.

    • @independentA
      @independentA Před rokem +4

      ❤️ My boys are autistic and I wouldn't have them any other way. ❤️

    • @DiabloOutdoors
      @DiabloOutdoors Před rokem +4

      Keep going Oliver and take care of yourself! 😀

    • @monimonica9529
      @monimonica9529 Před 11 měsíci +2

      A Milestone for you and your Beloved, Oliver! 🙌
      I have some Aspie Characteristics and I was "forced" by the circumstances in life to go out of "my shell". It's been an
      up-and-down journey and I wish others wouldn't have to suffer for being belittled.
      Keep being Strong & remain United with Vulnerable People!
      Take it as "kind of a Mission".
      Be Resourceful to others.
      Be the Change you want to see made.
      Just in case if you'd like to listen/watch "Oldies" Music Vid's (especially from 80's), I created some time ago a PlayList:
      Music (assorted)
      Keep Safe
      (May 12 2023, Argentina)
      #LetsSupportVictimsofBullying
      #LetsNotNaturalizeBullying

    • @like_grrra
      @like_grrra Před 5 měsíci

      you should be proud of yourself!! and i’ll bet your parents were proud of you too. that took a lot of courage and strength, and you did it. commanding the attention of an audience and keeping it is such an incredible thing. i’ll bet it you deserved it

  • @Szyko_dk
    @Szyko_dk Před rokem +18

    He even left me in tears! Well done Sam. Brilliant speech!

  • @joonielover2494
    @joonielover2494 Před rokem +2

    Well done, you made an excellent, touching speech for your brother and his wife.

  • @shanendoahnokes84
    @shanendoahnokes84 Před rokem +484

    As an autism mom I know how unbelievable this was, what a special moment for the family! I need a box of tissues

    • @JanieGal16
      @JanieGal16 Před rokem

      You mean a mom of an autistic child?

  • @comet6740
    @comet6740 Před 2 lety +275

    I love that his hands are visibly shaking and his standing posture is unbalanced, shows he is human with amazing qualities.

    • @nikolastarcevic5866
      @nikolastarcevic5866 Před 2 lety +7

      @@daveduck4315 most people, with or without Autism, don't bring anything to society, just a handful of scientists, maybe couple of surgeons do, etc. Both me and you probably wont contribute in any way as well, so I suggest rethinking about reality a bit more before typing.

    • @nikolastarcevic5866
      @nikolastarcevic5866 Před 2 lety +5

      @@daveduck4315 Also, how does ones human qualities get disregarded with being Autistic, please explain?

    • @daveduck4315
      @daveduck4315 Před 2 lety

      @@nikolastarcevic5866 I'm merly pointing out that just cos this young man was stood awkwardly and hands shaking doesn't make him an amazing person,I would probably be the same as he if speaking Infront of a bathing,people mean well by say thinks like that,but it's a condosending TBH

    • @comet6740
      @comet6740 Před 2 lety +5

      @@daveduck4315 Speaking in front of hundreds of people is a big accomplishment and most people could not do it. At least admire the kids guts. I would love to see you do get on stage and do something better than this kid, otherwise your opinion does not matter.

    • @daveduck4315
      @daveduck4315 Před 2 lety

      @@comet6740 my opinion matters to me,I've been best man twice,and hated doing it,your comment merley backs up my point, doesn't matter if your on the autism spectrum or not,it's hard for for a large amount of people

  • @regginsouth9565
    @regginsouth9565 Před rokem +14

    As the eldest one having a little brother, this hits hard.

  • @user-gh2hc3wr4o
    @user-gh2hc3wr4o Před 7 měsíci +2

    That's the best speech ever 🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊❤❤❤

  • @Kelly-just-kelly
    @Kelly-just-kelly Před 2 lety +254

    my son is autistic, he is my baby , he is funny, he is my life, he is my world, he is 28 , he tells people when he doesn't understand them " I have autism so please dont judge me, my brain doesn't work the same as yours" i wouldn't change him for the world.

    • @Makkaru112
      @Makkaru112 Před 2 lety +8

      I'm also 28 with autism and I say the same thing!!

    • @kathymcmahon6582
      @kathymcmahon6582 Před 2 lety +3

      Beautiful 😍😍😍

    • @sheilan6959
      @sheilan6959 Před 2 lety +1

      Ncoohhh that's so cute though.

    • @k_glamouur9793
      @k_glamouur9793 Před 2 lety +1

      ✊🏽🥺🥺🥺

    • @janeee3336
      @janeee3336 Před 2 lety +4

      I’m pregnant and reading this made me tear up 🥺🥺 what a sweet soul.

  • @jaxiithesimp
    @jaxiithesimp Před 2 lety +643

    he looks so anxious, but when everyone smiles and laughs, he smiles which makes me smile :) his smile is contagious 😌

  • @elliedal8073
    @elliedal8073 Před rokem +5

    How beautiful. I cried as though I was there and connected to the event. He was so courageous and managed his nervousness to honour the love he held for his brother and sister-in-law.

  • @litedawg
    @litedawg Před rokem +2

    That was touching. What a speech , he nailed it.

  • @Guoy
    @Guoy Před 2 lety +189

    3:14 "You're a great soccer player. Scoring a 100 goals, or whatever." That was GOLD! XD

  • @kehlegnigeria1644
    @kehlegnigeria1644 Před 2 lety +333

    Went from laughing to crying and back to laughing, well done man, you did so well. So happy for your family on such a special day and man you were like the Sun

  • @finnluzbella9733
    @finnluzbella9733 Před rokem +25

    I used to write speeches and sometimes deliver it myself but I found it hard to write a wonderful speech like this. Straight from the heart of an innocent man. Boy... You have given me another idea, thank you.

  • @Leroyjenkinsjnr
    @Leroyjenkinsjnr Před rokem +18

    This was absolutely incredible. What a wonderful young man. Made me feel a little better about the world!

  • @Makkaru112
    @Makkaru112 Před 2 lety +364

    I'm an 28 year old autistic guy and I could easily sense his stress and sense the place he was coming from with every single word he spoke, which was from the heart. Even the choice of words and stuff is exactly like how I would have done it too. My attentiveness went straight to his shaking and pacing and I instantly knew what he was going through but he had a loving and supportive upbringing that it counters (positively) the things he goes through on a daily basis to this day!

    • @MSP106
      @MSP106 Před 2 lety +7

      Love your analysis! Hope you are well and have a wonderful weekend! Thanks for your insights

    • @sanjaykarthik6180
      @sanjaykarthik6180 Před 2 lety +1

      No offense or anything, I’m very curious. Do autistic people get over autism or do they just mature a little bit slower. Sorry if this is offense.

    • @MSP106
      @MSP106 Před 2 lety +4

      @@sanjaykarthik6180 It's something they are born into and live with their entire lives.

    • @oxsila
      @oxsila Před 2 lety +5

      @@sanjaykarthik6180 They can obviously "improve" their situation whether it be communicating or levels of anxiety but yep the autism will not go away it is part of them

    • @YveslYSL
      @YveslYSL Před 2 lety +1

      @@sanjaykarthik6180 as a self diagnosed aspie (working on maybe getting a diagnosis), you can improve on what you personally find difficult eg social situations, our individual difficulties are different. but social development doesn’t just develop naturally at the same pace as everyone else. But yeah our brains are physically less developed in certain areas I think which is why we are not as socially developed as neurotypicals the same age as us. It’s one of the hardest things to live with imo in a society that revolves a lot around social communication but it’s ok. Just my opinion pls don’t take it as science