SHE RUINED HER BROTHER'S WEDDING?! | ShxtsNGigs Podcast
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As soon as the mom said " if you kick him out, I'm leaving too" a few spots would have opened up at my table🤣🤣🤣✌🏾
"So be it. I'll make sure the seating chart has you both close to the door!"
Facts
That’s a good one. Saving this for incase anyone pisses me off during my wedding planning! 😂
@@LouisebabeesxoJust have a real good “clumsy” friend and a glass of red wine
This!! I would have let Mum leave right with the dusty sibling too.
Y'all should have read the comments on this thread. Because OP said he and his wife were not even expecting. He was being petty as hell 😂😂😂😂
Ha! That’s even better
that was the part that really did it for me. Hate for hates sake. I love it
I love this 😂😂😂
lol I knew it!🤣🤣
@@natashamwangi4890 Its giving Kendrick Lamar energy, I love it
Grandma is spicy 😂😂
Love a spicy grandma, as long as I'm not at the receiving end 😂😅
Grandma is the heroine of this whole story for me 👏🏾👏🏾
Grandma knows how mom rolls, she had to set her straight. 😅
I like Grandma... Can she invite me to the Potroast
She's the MVP of the family for sure 😂😂😂
Attention seeking is real out there, some people can’t comprehend that a wedding is a special day for the couple. They’re so many days and ways to propose.
It's disgusting
Ehh they're making a big deal about petty shit
@@SupremeWorthy which one do you think is petty?
The proposal. It’s not that big of a deal. Is the wedding about the union or the attention?
@@MisssKayy I get your point, in my field of work, I witness couples planning their perfect day for months prior to the date. I wouldn’t expect someone to be ignorant of that, why being entitled and adamant about proposing on someone’s perfect day. A Proposal doesn’t have to be witnessed sometimes it can be announced via a post or text especially if you don’t plan on paying for venue, food and deco to do it.
Proposing at someone's wedding or someone's event is just extremely lazy. Not only is it mad disrespectful,its showing your partner they dont deserve better than a piggyback at someone's event
The way I’m petty I would just tell her before hand that “ my brother bought a ring and he is going to propose” then tell everyone !
Checkmate!
@sherrieberrie8122 love this. Announce it before he is ready. Lol
@sherrieberrie8122 you are evil! 😂 *sends friend request*
@@sherrieberrie8122 I went to a wedding where the groom was doing his vows and said "if my brother dare proposes at this wedding, I hope he knows she's going to say no." Groom was the gf's BFF and already knew she was consodering breaking up with him.
Right.
James saying he isn't bitter like that has me side eyeing him because... since when? 🤣
One word. Tobi 😂😂
Exactly, bring that name up and there is HAVOC 🤣
There's jokes and there's real life. 🙄
Right. Let Tobi propose at his wedding and see what happens.
Fr I was like now why is he lying this guy is the definition of bitter 😭
Imagine proposing at a setting that your brother and his wife paid for? Like how lazy are you?
Said, well... it's already paid for, what better time than now 😂😂🤦🏽♀️
LISTEN! THANK YOU! PEOPLE ALWAYS SEEM TO MISS THAT PART.
That part! My first thought was if it was me he was proposing to, I’d say no because first of all you’re disrespectful and self centered, but you’re a bum on top of that!
The Nan’s amazing.
He needed that support. The mum obviously has a favourite and it’s not him.
Every parent has a Favorit. But to show it like this is out of the Line.
The mom and brother are pricks
The sibling said no, he should have moved on. And who is the mom to intervene anyway? It's HER/HIS wedding, even though you are a parent, it's not your day. That mom has FAVOURITES and it's ridiculous
P. S. I agree with James saying to do it at the end after the dance and cake, that's really nice and it's a good compromise
Wisdom
Grazie Gents
Love yaz
💕🧜🏻♀️
My thing is if you’re never going to see them why do they even need to know about your engagement??? Absolutely not
Facts! Plus proposals are not about having ALL the family there, that's what weddings are for.
id like my proposal 1v1, idk what they on about
1v1, brother you fighting or proposing 😂😂@@ruud6828
it might be in regards to elders who might pass before they get married.
Best comment yet! All have been good but start here!😊
What throws me about the story is that they're using the excuse of family being there but at the same time it's like he doesn't care about any of his girlfriend's family being there to see it because they obviously wouldn't be there unless the missing link to the story is that there are really old family friends so her parents and siblings were there but I doubt it
Exactly! Just selfish all around. Also the brides friends and family that are just now randomly sitting through this.
This. Also there will have been people there whom the brother and his partner do not know. Those people did not come to this wedding for this and why are you proposing in front of strangers🫠
people proposing at others weddings - remind me of when theres a birthday cake and some kid (who is not the birthday kid) is constantly trying to blow out the candles. because they cant fathom something is not about them
That part
James your wife will loose her shit if you let your siblings propose at your wedding
My thought immediately
Thisss
That’s what I’m saying 😭
His future wife will let him know that she saw this episode and she's not having it at their wedding.
That's exactly what I was thinking. He might be okay with it but what about his wife.
“Who are you sorry”😭😭
My sister, knowing I was going to propose to my now wife, actually asked me to do it at her wedding, using the entire family would be there reason. I was like nah that’s your day and she really insisted that it would make the wedding even better if we got engaged there. It ended up being awesome. Shout out to her for that!
she’s amazing for that
But see your sister is the huge distinction between your story and OP. It was your sister’s idea and not yours…meanwhile with OP we already know just from the dynamic between his mom and brother that his family wouldn’t have done something like that for him. In fact the opposite based on the baby announcement
fr it wasn't about stealing shine she just loves u like that i would be the same but i have seen some families where the sibling is a prick and needs to be the center of attention always
“I can never have attention me….” James is a bold-faced effin lie 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The disrespect to his brand new sister-in-law is wild! She's put all that effort into planning her wedding, and you want to overshadow her like that without even asking her, and going behind her back by asking the brother instead. I don't think he realises in the battle between the wife and him, he'll back his wife every time.
I want to understand this reasoning
@@nwokorochinwe2370 Based on how the story is told, the brother has gone to him to ask whether it is okay for him to propose at the wedding, with no indication that the bride (his future sister-in-law) has a clue what his plans are. Now the bride has spent months and potentially years planning every detail of the wedding to ensure that it's perfect. To take that away from her by making it about your relationship is wrong, pure and simple.
A cute way to do it if it was permitted would have your wife “toss” the bouquet at the girl he wants to propose at the end and he drop down on one knee 🤷🏾♀️
that’s actually adorable
Omg that's actually so smart
THAT>>>> IS>>>> CUUUUUUTE!!!!! Ok!!!! that would be a vibe!!!! Absolutely
Perfect and at the end of wedding
Hey, fair is fair. Mom should have just charged it and kept her mouth shut.
Those siblings had beef long before the wedding and mom is the culprit. My mom is just that type.
but why do all those extended family members have to be present at a PROPOSAL??? since when is that even a thing??? they just dont want to be bother to call them all to tell them about it.
And what if she said no? Now that negativity is at the wedding.
If I spent a year plus planning one day, you best believe this day is for me and my wife
Spent a year planning and spent god knows how much money on this one day
You asked, he said no. Respect it. The moment mum and brother moved mad like this they should have been disinvited. The lack of care and respect is wild and I wouldn't be able to forget it, especially as it seems apparent that it is probably the last thing in a list of scenarios in which the brother was favoured. I can love you from a distance, my peace and that of my spouse is going to be protected.
i mean they say to do onto others as they do to you so seems pretty fair 🤷🏼♀️😂
🎯bingo
"WHO ARE YOU?! WHY ARE YOU SPEAKING?" had me dead 😭😭.
Before I heard the scenario I knew there was a mom involved letting this nonsense happen 😂 he should have told him to pay for the time a lot to propose.. weddings can be expensive and they are PLANNED for a reason. You wanna propose? Run me $1000 and you can do what you want 🤷🏻♀️
lmao “who are you” is crazy 😂😂😂
Followed by “why are you speaking” is insane 😂😂
Favorite child can't do no wrong
"I have the screenshots and the text to prove this" They kept ALL the receipts! 😆
even if you dont like the spotlight it's still disrespectful of someone to propose at your wedding
Stop picking favourites😂😂😂 fair play
James know damn well he’s not saying that to his mom 😂
Grandma is genuinely the 🐐
😂 😂 😂
Seems like the feelings of the wife was left out.
That first family scenarios and announcements at weddings...messy, petty, toxic and dysfunctional and mum has a favourite son. Shame on her for the duplicity.
Mum is bad vibes ngl😂😂
I need that granny update…..she on point
Oh he's an asshole alright 😭, but he's not THE asshole. I think his grudge is justified.
As an aside, proposing at another person's wedding is lazy and uninspired. You are benefiting from someone else's hard work in planning, and their financial and emotional investment. Someone's wedding is representative of their journey together, nothing there is unique to your and your partner's process. It always gives "I'm too lazy to do anything effortful or creative". Such a weird thing to do.
Mmmmmm *clicks fingers* 😤
For me it's about consent. Sure it's a bit harsh for her to completely deny him given the circumstances.
But she said NO, the reason does not matter and they completely disregard her consent.
So I'm on her side for the revenge part. People who don't respect clear boundaries don't deserve your energy.
But would it really make sense and not just be attention seeking because would the girlfriend's family be there to see her get proposed to?? Wouldn't that matter too? I doubt her family would be at her boyfriend's brother's wedding.
Charlotte Dobre will be on this story next!
Pretty sure she already has
I'm sitting next to Grandma at every event
I've seen video's of weddings where the bride and groom are happy to allow other moments, and it's beautiful. I personally would too. I don't believe in the "it's my day" mentality. But you should definitely ask, and you should definitely respect the wishes of the bride and groom. Anything else is intentionally disrespecting them, and you shouldn't be there if you're fine with doing that. As for Mom trying to gaslight, then manipulate the situation with her threats, would've gotten them all uninvited.
The family is only in town for that one day? Oh well, they'll be back for your wedding when it's time 🤷🏾♀️
That's why I love Desi weddings they are easy no one offended if women wear same color or their wedding dresses, and proposing and announcing other family members' good news are more fun.
I went to a wedding where the groom was doing his vows and said "if my brother dare proposes at this wedding, I hope he knows she's going to say no." Groom was the gf's BFF and already knew she was considering breaking up with him.
When James says stuff like “why are speaking” it truly cracks me up bro ima start using that one 🤣🤣🤣
Everything isn’t meant to be shared.
Most times people come in early or stay a day later then you can do it on one of those days but not on my wedding day.
The mama CLEARLY has a favorite! He isn’t the a-hole. He was in his right to be petty back at his brother. Now they should either apologize to each other or don’t speak at all.
Grandma is the hero in this.
Pay for your own wedding and then come tell me you'd allow it 🙃
And he was upset when the brother returned the favour 😂
The mother clearly has a favourite. And they are brothers just on paper, they hate each other
Even if OP said yes, he’d have to get his brides permission, so it doesn’t really matter what brother and mum says.
Telling your mom "who are you????" Is James white side coming out. The caucasity of it. Ik fuhad would never.
Yeah, if the mum was like that you can imagine the trials and tribulations during their upbringing…
And I bet when my man asked, and he said no, the brother was like “MUUUUUUUUUUUUM”
Im very double minded on this topic. Because i find most people HATEEEEEE that shit.
I get its THEIR wedding and THEIR day, absolutely, but i really dont mind... obviously its going to be a few minutes taken away from myself and my husband but who cares.. id be happy as hell to see a proposal at my wedding. And how long would the attention really be on them anyways? 10-15 minutes of congratulations? Get over it.
I was a bridesmaid of my older cousins wedding December 2022. It actually fell on my birthday. She phoned me monthsssss before and told me the date which was the only saturday that worked and it was destination in Jamaica where we're from.
The date was Dec 17th ( my bday) and i was elated and honored to be in her wrdding and to celebrate. I didnt even care.
But she actually took the time to get me a cake.. took the mic, played happy Birthday by stevie wonder, made me dance on the dance floor with myself and my partner and said a veryyyyy long and sentimental speech.
It was her day, but she always wanted to include me.
Yes different scenario. But we are both alike like that.... 15 minutes of celebrating or cheering on someone else isnt going to kill you.
And i love my cousin and her husband sooooooo much for that because i NEVER expected it.. it was such a wonderful suprise.
And i did turn 30 and she kept saying all night there was noooo wayy she wasnt going to acknowledge that. 🥹🥹🥹 i juet love her.
And going to visist them in London in August for Carnival 😏😏😏🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
This is completely different. Let whoever spent time creating the event decide. Even in business I would feel the same. Boundaries should be respected he asked I said no. Doing it anyway is disrespectful. Me wanting to do something nice for someone I love at my event is Mad respectful and full of love. You deserve that and your cousin knew. That's why she did it. The brother did not, that's why he said no. We know family members and who's who regardless of the position of their title. Respecting people's wishes in general should be standard.
This is completely different. Let whoever spent time creating the event decide. Even in business I would feel the same. Boundaries should be respected he asked I said no. Doing it anyway is disrespectful. Me wanting to do something nice for someone I love at my event is Mad respectful and full of love. You deserve that and your cousin knew. That's why she did it. The brother did not, that's why he said no. We know family members and who's who regardless of the position of their title. Respecting people's wishes in general should be standard.
I would have told my brother to propose the day after my wedding. Everyone (family) will still be present however not on my wedding day. If he got an attitude about it or anyone else decided to share their opinions (like the mother did) then a solid no. If he proceeded to do it anyway, they would all be escorted out, even the mother. They have all been warned, do not try my gangsta!!
Grandma for the Win!!! 😂😂😂😂
Congratulations on the 1million subscribers. Well deserved.
Brother A told the mom that he didn't care because he was probably tired of her favoritism towards Brother B and this was the final straw. She was probably the kind of mom to give Brother B a gift on Brother A's birthday because B was crying about not having a gift. I'd bet money on it.
If she's not careful, she's going to ruin her son's relationship with each other if she hasn't already.
😒😒😒😒
The thing is everything depends on the nature of the relationship. They didn’t give really any context as to if this is part of a larger picture of thunder-stealing behavior that the brother has done for a long time and the mom has supported the whole time. I’d say the same thing James did where I’d understand the brother’s POV and let him do it at the end but that’s ifffff that wasn’t just an excuse to get what he wants
James! James- you're not even going to talk to your bride future wife first before talking to her to gauge her reaction it her day too!
"Do it when I've left for my flight for my honeymoon" because if you do it in front of my friends it doesn't make any sense!!
Grandma is a Gangster
Yes Grandma!
Mom playing favorites for real.
I would just let them know “NO” and if you disinvite yourself that is “OK”. The day is suppose to be special for BOTH groom and bride so asking 1 person is SELFISH! Next, they pay for their venue and if they say no it’s NO.
Also, they mentioning about family being there, however, the gif family and friends are also NOT there either, so it’s not fair for her.
All I see his him wanting to piggyback off his sibling schedule event, dress up and think he’s creating a special moment when he didn’t set it up. Then the mother is an unfair and toxic jezebel. Just a young jezebel grown into an older jezebel (old habits die hard).
I beg your finest pardon?! Absolutely not why can't he call them on the phone like normal people do lol there is FaceTime, Zoom, Skype, Facebook shall I continue the means of communication that he could take to let people know. yes I would have called security to drag both of them out lol byeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. they could have did it at he dinner the day before the brunch after. I'm just say infinite opportunities besides my wedding reception
It would be 💔 to be surrounded by such toxic, biased, and selfish family members! 🥺😔
People spending 100’s and possibly thousands of dollars on a wedding isn’t “just for the guests” babes, it’s so they can have their unity celebrated and witnessed by family and friends 💜
James…imagine you spent 30k on your girl’s dream wedding and your sibling proposes on that day, at the event you paid for, in front of you family (with little or none of their girlfriends family or friends there) and your wife is devastated because this day you’ve spent months and so much money on is now not a celebration of you and your love but someone else and their love…I don’t think I personally would be upset about it but if someone asked and I set a boundary and they disregarded it I WOULD BE FUMING - the disrespect to me and my partner!
Grandma is a G frfr!!! Mom has a clear favorite and I'm with him keeping the same energy.
If someone’s sibling proposed to me at their wedding, I would have to take that L and bounce. Why would anyone think that would be a memorable moment😂
The guests aren’t paying for anything so why would the wedding be about them? 😂 as much money as wedding cost…the day will be about me and my husband. point blank. Cough up some money for a joint event and you can announce whatever tf you want 😂 😂
Agree with James, do it at the throw of the bouquet. It is literally the time to foreshadow the next wedding
😂🤣💀⚰️ this first one is gold
I also think the ‘it’s my day, everything should be about me’ thing is weird. But that’s what it is to most people. If my sister’s boyfriend came to me and said he wanted to propose to her on my wedding I would be thrilled. Same as announcing baby news! If anything, it’s a day all about sharing love, and I have so much love for my family, ‘my day’ can be about them as well, I would love it rather than hate it.
😂😂stressing the poor guy at his wedding,they dont hsve his back in this world at all
How often do you hear, "Mum's an a*******?!" 😂😂😂😂
they are even now, order has been restored 😂
That's like proposing at someone's wedding. It's tacky. So you mean to tell me that he did it because he thought that no one would ever see the family members again but clearly they saw the family members again at the second guys wedding
1:22 big man just found out which one of her boys mum loves more!
At the end feels so right. After food dance and maybe cake that’s perfect
"I really struggle with attention" says the Internets favourite baby girl😂
Some parents just don’t care about their kids knwing they have a favorite. This is one of the reasons some siblings just act like strangers even if they were best friends when they were younger.
He’s broke propose on your own time I wouldn’t let my sibling come and my mum wouldn’t speak 😂
I love the grandma 😂❤️
Family warfare is no joke 😢😅😂😂😂😂
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 shout out to him congratulations on the baby 🍾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Mom absolutely has a favorite. Lol
Here for the content always
0:57 let's go grandma! Granny knows what it is!
Thats one wild family
People we are really different... I don't really get why people hate so much this thing of proposing on their wedding day.
First of all for u to even think about it means that you're so close to "us". I think I would be happy to see my friend (who might be best man) proposing his gal on such day.
I feel like it would enlighten the day more.
The petty part is that they weren't even expecting a baby!!!
Another reason you don’t propose at someone else’s wedding is because now the newly-engaged couple will have people who came to celebrate your hard-planned, likely expensive day, now oohing and aahing over the ring 💍 (and maybe even comparing it to the newly-married bride’s ring set.)
I'm anxious and introverted. I'd probably just ask if the announcement could be made at a respectable time. I don't care about attention, there's just things I have to do like walk down the aisle and make sure people have food. While everyone's eating, 100% make a toast, seems like a good time to have everyone's attention, done. Let's all celebrate the engagement and have a drink to that at my wedding, idc.
I would 100% let my brother propose at my wedding, I love his girlfriend and would definitely want to help in any way I could. I’m also not a “center of attention” kind of lady so I’d also be happy to share the day and take some heat of myself lol, but I would also expect this kind of deal to be consent based to both parties. Otherwise it’s a prick move.
I would hired guards to make sure my brother and mom don't enter the wedding.
Based on how the mom responded to both instances, I’m guessing the brother who proposed often makes events that are supposed to be centered around the poster about them and the mother encourages it.
I agree with James