This is How a Stalker's Brain Works And It's Really Disturbing
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Stalkers hate this technique
"Stalker no stalking"
"Stalker no stalking"
"Stalker no stalking"
*snaps fingers* aw man
I tried this and they blocked it with
“Stalker yes stalking”
“Stalker yes stalking”
“Stalker yes stalking”
Anyway, so that’s how I died.
@@mcpugh just get a uno reverse card dude
omg that made me lol
You’ve achieved comedy
"Have you ever received an unwanted gift, a series of strange phone calls, or a weird letter?"
Not even if you remove the adjectives
Lol. Good
😂😂😂😂😂
Toby, one of the best comments I've ever read
Toby LOLLL
xddd
The scariest stalkers are the ones who don't know that their actions are super weird and creepy, or they don't care.
I think the ones who do not know that they are being weird and creepy are the least scary because it is most likely that they do not have bad intentions toward the victim. Once these types of stalkers are informed that they are being weird and creepy, they would most likely apologize and not bother the victim again.
Those stalkers are mainly women
@@andydo9308I totally disagree, it's men
@@andydo9308 that's funny bcs the crime statistic show the opposite
Yes………
I never heard it put like that before. When my ex managed to break into my house and confront me he said “I feel like you’ve died so I don’t see the problem with killing you”. Unhinged and genuinely scary.
Oh hell naw!!! Smhhh glad you’re alive today cuz that’s wild!
@@SC-sn3xs thanks man. Yeah it sucked. I had to move
🧢🧢
Did we have the same ex?? My deranged ex did that right after we broke up and before the lock guy came to change the locks. I have never been so sure I was going to get killed
@@Sophia-ks9yu I hope not. I also hope if they are with other people they don’t treat them the same. I hope you’ve healed/healing from the horrid experience 🫶🏻
My landlord has been stalking me for the past 3months. He keeps using “late rent” and “eviction notice” as an excuse to speak to me. He use to call and txt me a lot but I blocked him. Makes you realize anyone can be stalked.
Or he has a major crush on you and maybe wants to know you better. Or is hella lonely. Wait wtf what if he is a stalker and I’m backing him up? AHHHH-
Mine shows up near when the rent is due a week in advance I see him everywhere opening my gate checking the pipes and drains and inspecting my place without my knowledge. Then there are these random ppl threatening my security near my gate and I'm pretty sure I've never experienced this level of security problem before moving there lol.
That IS creepy. Be careful and check everywhere for cameras 😦
Whatever you do don’t give him keys to your place.
@@ellenoresalvi8870 I think she doesn't pay her rent
"There's a good chance that you've been a victim of stalking."
Me: "You flatter me, good sir."
Lol
If you have never had a stalker, maybe you are one. LOL
A stalker here!
💇
@@hedleypanama yucky.
Lol
In the case of the Predatory stalker; it's not about grief, it's about POWER AND CONTROL!!! You don't know anything about stalkers if you think it's grief or love sickness. Never!!! It's about REVENGE. TRUST ME. They're crazy sometimes
Facts!!!
I agree. Mine was SO ANGRY that I didn’t want to be in a relationship with him. So instead he terrorized me in every way possible.
@@TrinaGallo oh no! I hope you are doing well now
@@TrinaGallothey deal with rejection terribly.
My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly.
One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped.
I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once.
So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ;
she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side
all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all
And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit
She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“
Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?
I’ve been stalked twice. Literally ladies, a guy being obsessed with you is not something you want. Always living in fear in your home, job, anywhere is insane and I’m so thankful that I got away.
Victim: You're a stalker please stop stalking me
Stalker: Understandable have a nice day
LOL
Ok but it would be much better if stalkers actually did that instead
I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a CZcams video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking
@@hannahmarieartistry4603 just whoop his ass
Shame on you for using stalking for your sponsored advertisement
“A domestic stalker never thinks they’re a stalker”
Me: “Wait. _Am I a stalker?”_
I was the same way XD
Like am I really one or..? This makes me question everything
👀👀
If you questioned if you were stalker you probably are not.
Miss Jellybean depends on the conclusion you come to I suppose
I came close to becoming a domestic stalker mainly because I wanted to be with my ex so badly, what helped me is learning that if I love her I need to let her go and be happy
Take care!
@theformidabletruth Respectfully, this is incredibly important. Props to the OC for showing their true love through this change.
@theformidabletruth this is not the best response to someone who reflects on their own actions and learns that it is a mistake to fulfill those. As human beings, we have a complex psyche and emotions, which can be wrecked at times, but what is important is to be aware of the negative sides of oneself and not let it take control.
You're mental
@@Normief Again, with respect, this person took active steps to better themselves. I don’t believe they deserve to be called this after they improved upon their past actions for their ex’s benefit. It’s understandable, in my opinion, that they missed their ex so strongly-these situations can be very hard for some. The OC proved that they could prevent these feelings from surfacing in a terrible way, and I think this is what truly matters.
…but hey, that’s just me :)
Edit: I’m not condoning anything to do with disregarding the fact that domestic stalker thought processes are severely flawed and can be dangerous. Just considering that this person was able to redeem themselves, I only feel it a little unfair to judge them based solely on these circumstances. As long as they don’t have any intentions of harm in any way, judging them as a whole seems like the better and more understanding alternative.
A lot of stalkers seem to form online "social" groups, where they share tips on traumatizing and collecting video trophy "evidence" of the damage they deny they're doing. These jerks also seem to gravitate towards "service" jobs where they, or their demented buddies may find easier access to single women, whom they may traumatize much easier than any other category of people.
I guess they are the safe stalkers
@@1mol831 There's no such thing as a safe stalker.
@@kristinmeyer489 they said the stranger stalker is unlikely to follow through their threats, they must be safer stalkers
My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly.
One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped.
I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once.
So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ;
she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side
all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all
And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit
She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“
Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?
@@nothingnewunderthesun4292it was
If stalkers don't realize they are a stalker, I wonder how many people in the comments section ARE stalkers yet think they're the victim.
LOLLLLL I meannnnnnnn 😬
I am a stalker. Luckily it's limited to social media. I didn't know why I keep stalking them, so I came here for some perspective :')
Me!
@@thegatorhator6822 wanna talk maybe? 🤭🤭
P.s. not stalking them since 2 days. No, my instincts aren't gone, AT ALL. but I've been trying to enjoy my work & stuff & not be overwhelmed with my stoopid emotions 😗😗😗
@@simirank.5579 i ate cat
Stalking is when you’ve lived with your husband under the same roof for 20 years and he doesn’t know it yet.
Hyahaahhahahayayayayayhhahahahhehehhehyayayayayyahahayayyaayheehyeahhahaehehehah
First born unicorn he’s not alive how would he know?
UHM-
LMAO
555 likes can’t wait to ruin it...
I was stalked by an ex for 3 years. My heart goes out to victims of this.
You prob betrayed him and berated him and caused all of it
@@poppopper33nobody is to be blamed for any sort of abuse except for the abuser.
@@anmyarchive nah that’s emotional abuse to betray your partner.
@@anmyarchive so you deserve whatever happens after breaking someone’s trust like that
Thank you !@@poppopper33 speaking facts !
I used to be a stalker. I eventually got therapy and joined a 12 step program and a day at a time I work on making sure I never harm anyone in that way again.
It takes courage to admit that. Good on you!
Im an anti stalker. I learned the schedule of someone I dont like just to avoid them.
Nebula Hahaha this is actually so relateable 😅
@@dieforfunk it's a lifestyle 😌💅
What about this person makes you dislike them so much? @Nebula
I did that with one co worker I had at walmart. She was the most annoying person I have ever met and no I dont have a problem with women my best friend at that location was a woman and my favorite boss there was a woman but this particular womans whole agenda was to make service difficult for customers and to run and tell on every employee for every little bullshit thing to the point of the mangers hating her as well. I dont think Ive ever met a bigger piece of human garbage than that woman and I ended up manipulating my schedule with the help of my aformentioned favorite manager so I would not have to work with her.
That’s still creepy in its own way
Edit: so people seem to get upset by my comment so here is something to maybe change your mind(maybe it won’t I don’t really care)
The word „anti-stalker“ includes „stalker“ and stalkers are people who actively pursue someone in order to learn their behavioral patterns (be it day to day routine or something very specific)
So let’s say if someone where to tell me that it’s not creepy because they are „broadcasting their daily lifes“ i mean sure if you use the information at hand to dodge that person that’s totally normal and acceptable but „stalker“ means as stated above that you pursue that person in a proactive way to obtain information about the person which would not be presented by just coexisting with the person. (For instance: their address, their family members, their favorite restaurants, their sleep time, their commute route, their commute time and the list goes on (you probably know what I mean by now))
I have a stalker. A family member who’s moved into our house this year. He follows me into my bedroom and the bathroom. He always sneaks into my bed or under it when I’m half asleep. And worse, he gets so close to me when I’m trying to eat, watching me take every bite. Worse, he has a terrifying habit of licking my things, and in my sleep, my skin. It freaks me out how little space and privacy I have when in my own home under the fear that he’s always watching me.
I knew I should’ve gotten a cat instead of a dog...
They got us in the first half ngl
Holy shit
I was so disturbed until that last sentence omg 😂😭
Good shit👏
Omg
It was at this exact moment when I realized that I used to stalk my ex. Not too much, I think, but I was looking for every occasion to meet him. And a couple times I was standing under his balcony, looking into his window. I didn't realize back then how creepy it was. I genuinely felt like someone close to me died, I couldn't let him go. One time he told me that he saw some footprints on snow leading under his balcony and asked if it was me. I confessed. And he was really scarred after that. To be honest, I was glad, because the rest of the time I always felt like a victim in those relationship, especially as it was him who dated other girl behind my back and when I found out and told him he has to choose, he dumped me. But now I realize that it was for the best because that relationship made me paranoid and stalkery and was bad for me. I never hurt him on purpose though. But I was totally obsessed. I have never been so obsessed in my life before. This is really weird.
Real
Very brave of you to share. I hope you're in a better position now.
@@uluruise yes, for sure. That's an ancient history.
I've been stalked by someone I saw a few times and didn't know had a girlfriend. The girlfriend was stalking to the point she placed 2 tracking devices on my car, coming to my home and work. Started texting and calling me with different burner numbers. She had men calling me and mentioning my kid. The cops couldn't do anything because I didn't have enough proof. So I had to hire a lawyer and private investigator. She and whoever joined her stalked me for over a year, but would wait 2-4 months then do something again, as if to wait for my guard to go down. That has broke me to the point I still have not healed. I'm very much afraid to go outside. But therapy is slowly helping.
I am currently being stalked by people who are oddly overly concerned about my car's extended warranty. the weird part is I don't even own a car. haven't for 8 years.
hahahah good one
dude those people are annoying
Especially when you are looking for work haha.
Mannn I keep blocking they number and they call from a new one...
These people are obsessed with getting their hands on your money.
Stalking is when 2 people go for a romantic walk but only one of them knows about it.
By the way, you're out of milk.
friendzone
ur fit
Josh Hsoj hahahahah thanks for the info. Now can I have my knickers back 😂
lol
I've been stalked in the tradition sense by an ex. I took all the legal routes. When that didn't work, I realized anything he can legally get away with- so can can I. When I was done with him, he was in tears begging the police to make it stop- they laughed at him- and I still grin when I reminisce.
Omg what did you do I need to know more!!
Write a manual 💰 😂
My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly.
One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped.
I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once.
So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ;
she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side
all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all
And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit
She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“
Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?
definitely stalking. @@nothingnewunderthesun4292
If someone ben in love with me and then acedently see me on the buss , trying talk to me trying follow me I sad I don't wanna talk to you but he won't listen, I run he run
He catch me and sad I don't wanna hurt you hug me
But you knew thet someone trying to manipulate and you he wants too punish me for some mistakes he thinks I make I wanna force me to talk too he and hug him
I got to the friends house and that is how runavey
Im so scerd
What I gonna do if he agen see me somewhere He don't want to leave me alone
I afraid if I youse peper sprey
What if I see he after that (we live in small city in Serbia)
And he be lot more angry because I used peper spray?
I can't call police
What I need to do to protect myself do I need to use pepper sprey?
Thank you anybody who's answering me 😊
this is actually terrifying. every single point made in this video regarding the 'home stalkers' fit my dad perfectly. him and my mom have been arguing my whole childhood, and he lost full custody over me and my brother 4 years ago. he started sending agents after my mom to see if she had a new husband. he even started threatening to kill my stepdad if he even gets near me.. it has been getting better recently, and i’ve been improving my relationship with my dad - but everytime we meet up he starts insulting the hell out of my mom (which i don’t appreciate). he claims he’s gotten over her, yet there’s never been a time where we met up without him talking about her.
Sheesh this is frightening..im really sorry for your family. what have the police etc said about it? do they take it seriously?
"The only thing that a paparazzi differentiates from a stalker, is his camera."
Charlie Sheen
One has an expensive high-quality digital camera for professional use, while the paparazzi takes pics of celebrities
Good one!!
Time to get a camera btfu.
Idk why I though that was funny so I had to post it
I had a stalker once. I stalked him back. I was left alone. Sometimes you just have to outcrazy them
You took all the fun of staking
Don't do such evils deeds to anyone ever, no one deserves such harsh punishment.
@@VijayThakurMD lmao
big brain moves
@@eaipu4408 If you understand your enemy you can defeat your enemy. It's not that hard
@@amandaowens8458true
I never thought it would be me, I lived life very naively until I found out I was being stalked by 2 men online when I was 16- one of them was a senior in my school who watched me from class to class and wrote out my entire schedule so he could follow me, the other man lived 7 hours away and came to my school to find me. This was all because I had a public Twitter account as a teenager, please stay safe out there you guys ❤
My ex-gf introduced herself to me on a public bus, twice starting the convo in two times meeting each other over two months, separate occasions. The second time I asked her out on a date & from then on, we got together very quickly.
One day, maybe around 2 months or a bit less into us being together, she shows me a video on her phone. I see myself sitting in said public bus, being filmed from a seat looking the opposite way but around 4 rows of seats down from my own. The camera followed me a bit outside even and when I walked out of view, not once even looking into its direction, the video stopped.
I obviously was baffled, but importantly, I looked at the date: the video was taken two whole years before she had even talked to me once.
So she admitted by herself to filming me on that day and from then on, having s**ual fantasies about me / us for over two years before finally talking to me. Now it’s about what she did after filming me, for the whole two years she had been „watching“ or „observing“ me ;
she would start writing down when / where I‘d get off / on the bus and sometimes run or wait for an earlier / later bus to see me as often as possible, (which means she‘d sometimes wait for half an hour up to an hour because the bus line only drives this frequent, just to eventually see me), she was able to describe my friends well enough for me to know exactly who she saw me with, she would frequent spots or places in the city more often when / if she saw me there, especially multiple times, like in the library, lastly she would mirror me, if I was waiting for the train on one side of the tracks, she would basically stand face to face to me, vis-a-vis and when I would walk she’d do the same on the opposite side
all of the above for two years from the first day she had seen me on said bus, until talking to me at all
And again that’s just what she admitted by herself. Also she kept admitting to say one detail of the above, then check for my reaction, even being amused at my surprise etc, then reveal something new, so I found out about all details in the period of 1-2 weeks of her telling me bit by bit
She told me she was looking for a serious long-term, loving relationship as well, just as I was, told me she loved me more than anything or anyone every day and that she was sure about wanting the relationship, then broke up with me when her mother passed away, from one day to the other: „Sorry, I just can’t Imagine us spending time together without having s**“
Either way, she played it all down and got defensive and a bit mad even when I, without much thought behind it, called it stalking, so was it stalking or not?
@@nothingnewunderthesun4292 holy shit … that’s stalking .. please stay safe because your ex gf is crazy and there is no reasoning with a crazy person.
as Whoopi Goldberg says , you in danger girl!!!! Stay safe ❤️
I have borderline personality disorder but I’ve never acted this way. In fact once I’ve broken up with someone or vice versa I cut them off completely and never speak to them again usually.
You look like a dad who says “I’m not mad, I’m disappointed” a lot.
I see it 😂😂😂
Diddily.
Lol. For real D
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
for real-
Me: Nahhh I’m not being stalked
*The spider living above my desk* : Are you sure about that?
🤣😂
👀👀👄👀👀
slowedvxbes audios lol XD
Burn the house down
I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a CZcams video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking
i know i have problems with obsession and compulsion and loneliness on top of that. i started to think i was stalking my crush and felt very bad because i legitimately cared for him and didn’t want to harm him, but if he knew how much my world revolved around him it would be weird to say the least
Hmm, I used to be liked this to my ex. He was very secretive and private even to me (we dated online).. I probably was too obsessed I wanted to know what he was up to since we're really far away. I recognized my issues and thought I'm too pathetic to be stuck on viewing his life instead of living mine.. I'm slowly trying to stop the urges.
Have you ever tried confessing to him. Maybe it may work.
I’ve seen movies about stalkers and always thought “no way, just call the police” until I had a stalker, and it was actually terrifying. My sister found him in the window once, broke in, stole stuff, hacked my social media, slashed tires, egged my car. Called 40+ times a day. It was pretty scary/annoying always feeling watched, not knowing if something would be wrong with my car the next day. I found myself checking my house before and after, and waiting around at night watching my windows.
Damn that. I hope Jesus can help you. He will protect you if you let him. I pray he will protect you regardless.
God bless.
✔️ Unwanted gift
✔️ Strange phone calls
It's confirmed, my grandma is a stalker
Comedian
Vaří alespoň dobře?
Haha. Made my day.
Thats pretty ungrateful
Grandma's calls are NEVER unwanted. DELETE THIS COMMENT IMMEDIADETLY OR THE GRANDMA DEFENSE SQUAD WILL FIRE 😡😡
Im being stalked by mosquitoes, but the police wont take me seriously.
I don't want to be stereotypical but...
Are you Os?
I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a CZcams video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking
Haaa
Sksks
They might be radioactive..
Never stalked anyone, however I've been accused of it. I'm an introvert and I usually avoid people. So God forbid I take an interest in someone. It's why I seldom talk to people. In today's day and age, you can't even "like" someone without being called a creep.
the stalker who is stalking me is twisted and now is saying i am to blame while she peeps on my comments, sees all my private messages with my friends , comments on exact post i comment on and says i sleep all day long and somehow she says she is not a stalker?!! she even popped on a live on instagram and i deleted that app so now she is following me on youtube !! i am just raging how this creepy freak thinks she is entitled to creep on others privacy and then whine to say she is the victim?! i am lost for words for this situation i am in.
If you're been accused of it, they're probably right. Don't do things that make others uncomfortable. That's not bringing anything to their table. That's being selfish.
I was stalked by a lawyer I met for a case I had to clear up. He called me After I paid for his help, What he said was very creepy! He said on that phone call "I know every police officer and FBI agent in this city. There's no where you can't go, that I can find you!" I froze, I didn't know what to do, I felt like I couldn't talk to the police about it out of fear that the lawyer would bs them. So, I talked to my boss, and he told me to sell my house and get the hell out of that area and set me and my son in a hotel under a different names. Thanks to my boss, the lawyer stalker couldn't find us. That was terrifying!
Hold on. That could've been escalated even further like to the FBI or something. That is like something out of a nightmare! I'm so sorry you guys went through that.
@@carmensmithaguirre3049 It was very scary! We are glad it didn't go that far, it could have been much worse I agree. You just don't know when or where people like this are, so you stay vigilant, I told a friend one day when she asked "why do you look around the parking lots when we go out and about?", my answer to her and everyone else is, when you're out doing your thing, ALWAYS look around your surroundings, let them know that you see them and blend into a crowd. You can still see them and they loose sight of you, take a pic of them after you blend into a crowd and contact the police. If you're being followed, go to the nearest police station ans seek help. Not everyone knows this guy!
Sounds like baby reindeer
@@Itsonlyme11.11 I haven't seen the movie yet, but I will. You just never know how peoples mentality work up are and it's scary, really scary. I've learned to be mindful after that happened. Now, I will help people in these situations, I also learned, how not to be afraid and signed up for martial arts, just to stay somewhat safe.
When you're afraid to be stalked but u remembered that you're not that interesting anyway.
Same lol
Ik right Idk why I got stalked like I’m lame asf I just play video games 😂😂
Same 🤣🤣🤣
I mean, nobody would need to stalk me. I'd invite them in for cake😂😂
I have a very serious stalker who went after me for years. I still don’t have protection from him because the police have no idea how to handle that kind of situation, even less so when they use online resources to reach/ sabotage you. Please sign my petition demanding that police take action when it comes to situations like these. It also links to a CZcams video describing the extent of what I was put through. It’s a very serious and under-policed situation that could happen to anyone so please take the time so sign. www.change.org/p/facebook-eliminate-cyberstalking
It’s all fun and games until you wake up in a glass cage
Hahahahha!😂😂😳
Young Goodman Brown I read that in Paris Hilton’s voice😂
Lia Lane not glass.
Ha! I see what you did there😂
@Young Goodman Brown Disgusting actually
I had a stalker in college and he was convinced I was leading him on which justified him to follow me home and lock me in stairwells and call me from grocery store phones because I blocked his number and watch me from the coffee shop I lived across from. His friends would call me screaming that I was awful for how I treated him. He had everyone convinced I was the issue when I made things very clear I didn’t want anything to do with him. It was a very confusing time for me. He very much thought he was the victim.
Bruh, how does he have friends if he’s that delusional
I remember a creep that stalked my wife for three months eleven years ago.
He stopped.
We had a conversation at 3am in the alley under our bedroom window at the time. Amazing how good I am at negotiations.
He saw it our way, quickly.
The stranger stalker didn't inspire fear.
No.
He inspired rage.
He didn't like that but he did agree with me that he made a big mistake.
I'm stalking Thoughty2, he is a cool guy, he doesn't even know I watch him every day.... its Obvious, I don't even try hide it - but he has no idea.... I even leave a thumbs up, but he hasn't figured it out it was me.
In this case the victim is getting paid for being stalked " watched ", i wouldn't mind that type of stalking. #justSayin
@@D_Marrenalv he's just kidding...
Drone_Video i obsess over T2’s moostash .....
Or maybe you're the victim and Thoughty2 is stalking you!
GET OUT OF HERE S.T.A.L.K.E.R. !
Bold of you to assume I'm important enough to be stalked
Yeah I feel that
nina wallen you already know it why you askin
nina wallen reply of the year lol
I think most people probably think that and maybe that’s why they don’t think they’ll ever be stalked. But, I don’t think stalkers think like that. I mean, if they were thinking rationally, they probably wouldn’t waste their time stalking somebody to begin with.
My point exact it's crazy to even assume that
"Every breath you take, I'll be watching you." Sting was always baffled why his tune was so popular at weddings.
It’s weird when you are aware that someone has a creepy curiosity about you but then, say when they are caught cyberstalking and confronted that they are annoyed by you and don’t really want to talk to you- weird energy- you can’t tell if they have a crush on you or they want to k*ll you!
Well, my stalker would be bored as hell...I never leave my house
They would love that actually. You'd be easy to find. In my experience a stalker really only wants to know where you are, it's satisfying to them and the stories they would make up in their head about you are usually what makes them "excited" not whether or not you leave the house and where you're going... but again, that's just my experience as someone who is an introvert and a homebody, and as someone who has been stalked.
So true
@@marystellarosetarot5700 well, shit...
Lol but no, I believe you're 100% right about that. I can't believe that happened to you, I'm so very sorry. I'm glad you're doing okay. Were you able to out your stalker and get a restraining order? Has he bothered you since?
@@LoLowashere unfortunately, the situation with my ex boyfriend who was stalking me, ended in a rape and when I called the police, they said there was nothing they could do #defundthepolice. So, after my sexual assault and having night terrors living by myself for a few years, I decided to move in with a man who I thought was my friend, and who is my current roommate, but after he started to display similar obsessive behavior like my ex, I told him I was thinking about moving and he physically assaulted me, giving me extensive prefrontal cortex damage which has made it more difficult for me to find a job and move out. It's a really issue and really isn't always easily detected. I hope you or anybody else never has to go through what I've gone through 🙏
@@LoLowashere truth be told, the humor in your comment was a bit refreshing though because it reminded me of myself before all of this happened. So thank you for that, it added a moment of lightness for me in my current situation. One love 🙏❤
Must be hard for Stalkers at the moment, being outdoor types.
I feel bad for them now
Actually one of my childhood friends was one (idk them anymore) and can confirm that he was an introvert
Actually I’ve found that it has been much easier to stalk when your future husband is in a confined space that he cannot leave for the foreseeable future. You would think that somone would notice you in their house when they are and have to stay inside all day however it is easy to disguise myself.
@@emilystevens6055 hol up
Savage Bugaboo see you think that you are laying on your bed however i have disguised myself as a bed. Can you feel that itch? thats me covered in itching powder, pretending to be a matteress, listening to you watch youtube.
Ive been stalked by a 71yr old man for a year now and it is so scary... and his my neighbor! My husband work everyone has told him to leave me alone and he wont! Its scary
My child’s father used to stalk me. He broke into my house ramsack my house, killed my family pet, slash my tires, called my job with rumors and posted and printed rumors about me around our neighborhood. In addition, he did some things that I can’t mention. I moved away, and I heard now that he’s homeless on drugs (Betty, dippers, acid) but when I do come across his path, I have to be friendly and nice to make him think everything is OK to avoid the drama.🤷🏾♀️
Me, who refuses to answer unknown numbers or open my own mail: I'll never know
Me, who's never shown his face on the internet for more than 5 years, and never uses any form of social media tied to my irl life: same.
Same here. I don't respond to unknown numbers and block them right away.
@@soggybanana i told the stalker eating cat is delicious,after that it gone silent
@@serenitycat LMAOOO
You don’t open your own mail?
I just stood around my ex' house for a couple of hours wearing a disguise. Trying to look inside to see whats going on. Gotta make sure she isnt stalking me or something.
lol
Smart move, you can never be to safe these days lol
You're the stalker bro
@@IshaFarzana say it with me. R\whhhhhooooooooooooooosh
Isha Farzana your a genius my man
When I was beginning out in high-school I broke up with my boyfriend and a lot of my friends went missing and one was found. My ex had borderline personality disorder and was already obsessed with me. Stay alert please!
I would be too lazy to stalk someone
My girlfriend always calls me a stalker and tells me to get out of her house, then starts screaming at me. She's so funny and quirky.
😅😂
Are you sure your relationship will last if you were to take arguements so likely or as a joke considering it is *always* frequent. I dont know i just feel that something is not right thats all and jesus christ stop saying its just a joke how the hell could u even assume that bruh.U cant make a joke out of that
@@satanlovespussy9707 its a joke bro
that’s so cute❤️❤️. I can relate
@@RhythmWalkerKS 😆
I have a stalker too!
She is small, furry and likes to 'meow' for some weird reason... She also has the tendencies to steal my food...
Me too! I put my stalker in his crate at night, then in the morning he is in my bed... He too attempts to steal my food... How odd
Hey,we could make a religion out of this
Mine loves brioche
@@pronoob1760 is that a “history of the entire world I guess” reference I see?
@@CharlotteN555 yessir
I’ve been stalked quite a lot of times. And might still be. It’s crazy how crazy some people can be.. Honestly I don’t know which ones are the worst, the delusional ones or the ones compete aware of the evilness of their actions…
obsessing on things is like, a coping mechanism to direct attention from one’s insecurity or current stress away. it’s a distraction
Everybody gangsta until they realize the whole video was just a sponsor.
Ikr?😂😂😂
Fuck... Should I finish the vi- He’s talking about the sponsor...
gotta respect the impeccable transition tho 😂😂
I havent seen the sponsor part yet let me guess: vpn? Nord vpn or shark vpn haha
@@helingunes955 Nope...... a site thats supposed to protect your password. Great guess tho :V
"You've probably beanstalked."
Can't unhear it now 🤣👍🏾
i red the comment at the same time he said it...guagagshhh I'm chocking
Lol I read this as he said it lmao.
Damn, synchronicity! Read it just as he said it too.
Oh, peas!
One time I was being stalked by this girl, and I never noticed. A while later we became friends and we have been friends ever since. She's literally my best friend.
For clarification, my friend was a healthy stalker and incredibly helpful. She was a great for reminder. She would know my classes, my would remind me which assignments I had to complete, etc. Literally, the best.
What the shit
What the shit
I usually don't see videos like that in my home page. So the fact that this pops in my recommendations just when I'm starting to map out a story about a stalker in an opera house is a sign of the stars.
I have stalkers. They're little people who watch me when I poop and ask me for food, and call me "mommy" for some reason. 🤷♀️ 😊
that sounds terrifying i hope you find help ahahaha
😂😂
LOL!!!
Ah, the pain of the cute lil babies~
my mum had exactly the same problem!! a reliable solution that worked for her was making mushroom soup for the 3rd night in a row. hope this helped, plz let me know your results as they vary from person to orphan! 😊
I’m literally so boring y would anyone wanna stalk me
If u cute
Prolly because you're extremely special to that stalker maybe you'd do or say something that makes them fantasize about you. Like the smallest shit can get them turning their wheels or even e x i s t i n g something about you is special to them
You may be boring, but your cat sure as hell isn't!
LMAO
i dont need to worry about this🤣
but i was just curious
When I was younger, I helped my friend out of an abusive relationship after we had found out he’d cheated on her. He blamed me for their breakup, and I became one of his targets for about 1-1.5 year.
He wanted me to know he was there, threatening. He also used his large friend circle to stalk me, which was scarier, since I didn’t know who these people were. At a job I briefly worked, my supervisor was his friend and fed him information without me knowing. That was about fifteen years ago, and it still stays with me.
Ps, if you made it this far, fun fact: the abuser’s father killed his mother in a murder-suicide when he was a toddler. So you can imagine it’s scarier knowing he has those genes…
That was the most smooth way to start talking about a sponsor I have ever seen. Also the video had a lot of useful information. Just useful to know.
My girlfriend says I’m a stalker. Well, she’s not actually my girlfriend... yet.
Lol
Lmao
Lozzie74 bruh
Timesplitting Shapeshifter there’s this girl at my school. Should I try that with her?
Thanks for making me laugh mate 👌
in middle school and high school, a girl that had been stalking me for years made a facebook account of me, using pictures she had taken covertly when I was unaware. She then pretended to be me and talked to people who thought they were speaking to me. it was some really weird shit. I hadnt made a facebook account prior to this, and I didn't find out until my irl friends told me they spoke to me on facebook and I had to convince them it wasn't me. I eventually made an account solely to prevent this person from abusing my identity.
susan, if you're reading this - leave me alone
She is still there stealing your identity?
Identity theft is not a joke jim
OFFICE REFER-
leave then alone Susan.
@Ishmu Ali
You👏Are👏A👏Legend👏😂
I was the domestic stalker. Major life changes and lessons learned.
🗿
I've had at least 2 domestic stalkers and they're both very different situations, and it's super hard. They don't think they're doing anything wrong so calling them out just makes them mad
Thank you for this video. Its helpful.
my crush : what do u like to do for fun?
me: I stalk people
my crush: oh i like swimming
me: i know
Lmaooo- 😭
underrated comment
@@jmm5765 u mean "over used comment"
@@Shelby-rh8jz no
@@DrMonkeyxD wdym? I saw that same comment 100 times
Has anyone ever stalked a stalker before? The hunter becomes the hunted.
Theres a comic about that
Tv version of Hannibal?
Killing stalking
The player by kresley Cole
I mean... I just found out that I'm stalking my ex, while I'm being stalked by my own father so... kinda?
such a relatable video. Truly divine, it resonates within my heart ❤️
I work with a manager that I learned has a disorder called OCPD and he has some stalkerish traits. He is insanely controlling beyond any normal social boundaries, and is such a "perfectionist" that he will force 5 months of hourly revisions on a simple powerpoint. In order to protect oneself from extreme micromanagement you have to play incredibly aloof and distant and give him nothing to latch onto. I've caught eye of him going out of his way to cruise past my car if I pop into the office on a weekend.
The more I look at him makes him look like a Russian soldier
Thanks! Now a I can't unsee the Russian soldier😂😂
@Żabia Herbata that's what I'm saying
GRENADA!
Great!
Now i can't unsee it
GERMAN!!
Feb 14th, Valentine's Day.
Other CZcamsrs: Romance and love.
Thoughty2: Stalkers!!!!!!
LMAOOOO
LOL
I always forget when Valentine's Day is! But that's because in my country we celebrate it in June lol
I literally stalked my ex and my bestfriend dating this afternoon lol gimme a rope
Hahaha!
I was stalked by my roommate from right after college. We shared an apartment for 3 years and I moved out when she started acting odd enough that I was uncomfortable
She stalked me for 2 years after that until I filed a protection order and bought arms to defend myself (she broke my window to try to break in and planned to run me off the road but got caught)
Last I checked she lives in her home country in east asia now and is deeply schizophrenic
you lived with her for 3 years? was she normal in first 1-2 years
@@limbo815 yes! She was normal for the first 2 years. She did A LOT of drugs towards the 3rd year and I think it induced a psychotic break
@@Sophia-ks9yu thats crazy. and assuming you had good time with her in the first two years , and saw her slowly become psyhco it must felt bad .
I've been stalked so many times that it's not even funny.
"Or most commonly, an ex-partner" Guess I'm safe then
Subtle self-roast
lavalord I’ll drink to that bro
Why did I read this comment at the exact time I was watching the video
Marcello Berry let me translate what you said my dude “why did I do something that most people who watch CZcams videos do?” There ya go.
Ayman Bahatheq no I meant I read that comment at the exact time it was said in the video
"what stalkers don't realise is they have been stalked"
Stalker: YOU DARE USE MY OWN SPELLS AGAINST ME POTTER
Ok not funny
Insert Name pretty funny
😂
@@QixTheDS funny is subjective
@@ImanQuest r/woooooosh
I've had a stalker and I thought that the person had stopped,but I saw them the other day and I felt sorry for them and said hello. The past 3 days the person has been outside waiting for me on my morning walk. At 7:00 am I don't really want to see anyone,but I hate turning the corner and hearing my name shouted and seeing them like "oh thank God I saw you ".Its terrible.I had gotten angry and yelled at them and told them to leave me the hell alone,but even after that they were everywhere that I went.
Your mustasche makes you seem like an expert on the subject.
hahaha @AngelofDisease 666, you took the thoughts right out of my head... I was thinking that too.. :) :) Rocking it though :)
Rockin the 70's creeper stash !
Haha epic
like Jacksfilms' pedostache lmaoo
@Thawatchai Boonchuenchom Creeper, ah maan
"A domestic stalker never thinks they are a stalker"
Good thing that I think I'm a stalker so I'm actually not a domestic stalker.
@Dustin Keil Not a domestic one, a normal on...
Haha that was my conclusion as well. I know I am a stalker so now I am not. Cool with me.
@@closerrl9851 But what kind of stalking are talking about? Are you following random people? Or just gettin informations that are public domain on the social medias?
I have followed random people when I was drunk with some friends to make them bike faster when I was young. But thats about it hahaha
@@closerrl9851 Hahahaha That's not stalking, it is more keeping them fit and lowering healthcare costs in the long run! So altruistic!!!! Well done hahaha!
Had a stalker once. A lot of the time, these people just don’t know how to deal with these feelings, they’re socially inept and so they’ll resort to stalking. Same with a break up they don’t know how to move on. It’s really caused by a rapid breakdown or change of the relationship that becomes traumatic to the stalker. So you need to be commutative firm and honest and let em off easy and slowly. If they don’t understand, call the cops.
This is spot on. When my ex tried to explain his logic and reasoning to me regarding him stalking and kidnapping me sounded very similar to what you explained. He said he panicked at the thought of losing me. He considered himself the victim and felt I should suffer because I made him suffer. He feels like I should be dead. I had to move out of state and change my number
😱😱😱
When I was in high school a girl stalked me for about a week. When she found out how boring I was, it thankfully stopped.
Pleadure Needs Pain 😂😂
Hahaha your hilerious
Are you really thankful, or hurt?
That's nice
Me too, and I was eventually attacked by her. Had a class with this girl and never said two words to her but for some reason she became obsessed with me and eventually attacked me.
"they think they are the victim."
That's fucking terrifying.
This guy who used to be my friend, who followed me around and even molested me had actually gone around telling people I was playing hard to get, lashed out at him for no reason and that I rejected him unreasonably. He isolated me and got people to stop talking to me. He really went around convincing people he was the victim when I expressed disinterest.
the second amendment is there for a reason my friend
I’m sorry that happened to you that guy sounds like trash
That's awful I'm sorry
I'm sorry you went through that.
If people stopped talking to you because of what someone else said, they were never really with you to begin with.
What if you’re kinda stalker, but you’re not a obsessive creep or a serial killer kind of stalker, you just go through their social media💀💀
then you aint a stalker if u called urself one
@@sofiapineapple no I am low-key asking if that makes me a stalker cuz I am not sure
I had been receiving this video recommendation since last year and would always skip over it or not to recommend the video then when I would go to clear my watch history at the end of the month, it would continue to be recommended. So here I am.
i wonder how many stalkers are watching this.
Stslkers: WRITE THIS DOWN WRITE THIS DOWN
i m hacking random fb account even i don't know them. am i stalker by reading messages from people i even don't know?
ritchel ibajo 😶 not rly
Non because they don't realise they are stalkers.
@@MICKEYISLOWD well if stalkers dont realise they stalkers it doesnt mean they not...
I’m a night stalker, I don’t know why this guy is creating such a stigma. The groceries on the shelves won’t just replace themselves over night!
Are you telling me shelves AREN'T infinite food making machines???
Are u meaning to tell me that stores don't just have free food there everyday and someone restocks them
HSKSJKEJR
I’m 100% certain I’ve never been stalked as people go out of their way to avoid me
I’m a stalker and i’m aware of it, but i can’t stop. How the hell do i stop this madness? It’s been 4 years yet i can’t just stop
Hey, it’s important to get help outside of yourself or those close to you. Go to a therapist they are impartial to a degree. Leave the person alone they do not deserve this from you, they are living in harrow. Please get help before it escalates, honestly.
Me too and I felt very bad about it
My stalker must be really bored with stalking me, because I never leave my house lol
I never leave my house and I'm currently being stalked. Single woman alone here. Stolen garbage can, car broken into random notes on my door, and they bring my newspaper to the door.
False on my case. he frequently entered our house and peeks into my windows without me knowing. never knew it until he got caught and confessed he did it for 4 years
@@seinonymousxx6294 that's scary as hell
@@donotreadmyprofile9373 yup. the scary part is that he successfully broke into my house while everything is on blackout and i was alone. istg I'm thinking of leaving this house but i really can't. I don't have anywhere to go
The fact that this sentence was said as if its normal for everyone to have a stalker gives me weird wibes. Like "MY stalker does this, yours?"
“The mind of a simp”
Lmao 😂😂😂
OOF TRUE
LMAO
Get a load of this simp
@@EE-yx4xp still a simp bro
I've had 2 stalkers. Both female.
Its not only slimy guys following women, i can personally say so from experience
I had a stalker in highschool. We weren't in a relationship. I was just nice and polite. I would see him outside of any place I was, school home or hanging out with my friends. He convinced his grandmother to befriend mine, who I lived with.
I'm not a stalker. My girlfriend just doesn't know we're dating yet.
😶😶
Oh boy! Another one.
Cmt of the year nominees
😂🤣😂😅😂😂
Lol good one, I like it 👍☺☮
The biggest stalker: CZcams RECOMMENDATION!
And if we really go to the core, it’s actually the artificial intelligence being the biggest stalker
No they are shit now
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I wanted to like your comment, but the number looks perfect 666
@@tahtoeproject2751 hahah its 667 now!
Having BPD & literally having stalked my ex because I felt like I was dying & was grieving basically. Over it now & it didn't go over just going where I know he hangs out & online stalking.
Some more therapy & now with someone new who helps a lot
It sucks to be in this place. As a potential Borderline myself, I can feel your pain. I personally have stalked a couple of people but I didn't have any bad intentions, some of the stalking I did was because I wanted to ensure me and my friends' safety and some aren't even my own business, just was told to stalk one of my friends' ex. However, I watched the video for a writing concept and ended up relating to the "they see rejection and arguments as permanent loss" so much I was in tears. Indeed, every time someone cut me off or I had a heated argument with someone, I felt as if they were dying.
@@athanasioskontos8062 exactly, of course it's easier now that I'm with a guy who never yells at me & always speaks very calmly when we're disagreeing.
I'm also finding out my ex was purposely triggering me.
But this guy that I'm with now is literally the best & always knows what to do. In return I try to be as good as him
Clicked on this video because I was a victim of stocking from my ex partner, and literally almost could not finish out you because it made me so uncomfy to think that is what was going through his head, it felt so real😭
I love this guy’s mustache
Well it don’t look right on him🤭
It looks like 2 dogs kissing 😂
Me 2
"all my fiends are bearded so you know.If you like to shave well carry on. You dont know the amount of care it takes we brush wax n shove'.I dont know the text anymore but its 'heathens' turned into bearded.D great song
agreee d