How to know if a man loves you | Steve Harvey

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 30. 12. 2021

Komentáře • 1,4K

  • @christinarobleto1786
    @christinarobleto1786 Před 2 lety +2618

    He is correct, their is nothing more painful & confirming of letting go than when a person denies their relationship with you.

    • @Tauney
      @Tauney Před 2 lety +17

      There's that. And it's horrible.
      Then there's someone reading too much into something. Why wouldn't you want to be called by your name?

    • @Mwright4444
      @Mwright4444 Před 2 lety +4

      @@Tauney facts for real 💀

    • @jacquelinedegruyter5356
      @jacquelinedegruyter5356 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Tauney waarschijnlijk ’niet.

    • @jacquelinedegruyter5356
      @jacquelinedegruyter5356 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Mwright4444 waar omdat omdat hetzelfde is

    • @Mwright4444
      @Mwright4444 Před 2 lety

      @@jacquelinedegruyter5356 anale explosie

  • @tarasnead7374
    @tarasnead7374 Před 2 lety +713

    If your man doesn't answer your calls and doesn't text you back for hours, but spends his entire time on his phone talking and texting with other people when he's with you, dump him. He doesn't think you're worth his time or attention.

    • @hanah3401
      @hanah3401 Před rokem +14

      Exactly Well said 👍👍!

    • @illmeeillmee9373
      @illmeeillmee9373 Před rokem +18

      @@hanah3401 no its not, some men dont do phones. They still will write you and plan to make moves. Also, there are guys who text and call all day and still wont marry you.

    • @youngjoshhiechicagoporter2452
      @youngjoshhiechicagoporter2452 Před rokem +2

      It's a lie it's on a woman not a man cus y'all do cheat so why not cheat on a woman

    • @tammanthashaw9299
      @tammanthashaw9299 Před 11 měsíci

      Simply block his Ass, and don't answer his calls, That's what I'll do, you can't call, or won't call, when you do, shout and be disrespected, and don't give you a title. Block and move on.

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 Před 10 měsíci

      @@youngjoshhiechicagoporter2452 Sexist and wrong. Women cheat because you men cheated first.

  • @mandyR643
    @mandyR643 Před rokem +885

    I was with my boyfriend for 5 years, one day his brother was sick, we went to visit him at the hospital, a doctor came in the room and ask who are you? My boyfriend said my name instead of she is my girlfriend , there I knew it was over. Was so painful!

    • @uiin5141
      @uiin5141 Před rokem +67

      Sorry about that Mandy🫂

    • @yumnamleewinmangang1944
      @yumnamleewinmangang1944 Před rokem +27

      So sad😢

    • @savagequeen4894
      @savagequeen4894 Před rokem +20

      Just keep moving 😂😂😂

    • @resapreirera
      @resapreirera Před rokem +80

      5years? Wow! I'll wait until 4months...if no plans I'll ask him, if he looks confused or gimme excuses, then bye, Steve is right... 6months enough no more

    • @jspreezy5544
      @jspreezy5544 Před rokem +21

      Keep ya head up Mandy! The right one coming soon

  • @AveryBlackman
    @AveryBlackman Před 2 lety +496

    If a man loves you and you were with him when he was struggling. He shouldn't leave you when he finally starts becoming successful. ~ Mary Harvey 😁

    • @morolong7733
      @morolong7733 Před 2 lety +40

      Marcia Harvey was the first wife who Steve walked out in to pursue fame. Mary came after the fame.
      I can never respect Steve’s advice or take it seriously.

    • @skz_noona1
      @skz_noona1 Před 2 lety +30

      @@morolong7733 You might be angry with him but there's a level of truth in the advice he gives.

    • @marieabner
      @marieabner Před 2 lety +31

      You make a good point, but he didn't leave her simply because he became successful. She was miserable with him. And he wasn't being good to her. Why stay in a toxic marriage?

    • @ByondAvrg
      @ByondAvrg Před 2 lety +32

      No woman should make sacrifices to her esteem & struggle with a man who is toxic, thinking she will be financially redeemed.

    • @purgetheXYs
      @purgetheXYs Před 2 lety +3

      @@ByondAvrg that part.

  • @kayzbluegenes
    @kayzbluegenes Před 2 lety +538

    I was introduced to his family as, "my precious other"

    • @kargudin
      @kargudin Před 2 lety +34

      Awwww🥰❤️💕😍😍😍😍

    • @phoenixkb134
      @phoenixkb134 Před 2 lety +27

      That's beautiful, and rightly so. Such a noble and honourable way of referring to the love of one's life.

    • @TheBoon14
      @TheBoon14 Před 2 lety +7

      🌽knee

    • @phoenixkb134
      @phoenixkb134 Před 2 lety +2

      @@TheBoon14 ???

    • @andyro19
      @andyro19 Před 2 lety +1

      Awww

  • @derciafernando1905
    @derciafernando1905 Před 2 lety +662

    Yah, actually this was true for me. The guy who was just playing just introduced me using my name but the one who actually loved me, he introduced me like his lady 👩

  • @IrmaPerez-rf9fx
    @IrmaPerez-rf9fx Před rokem +303

    After 2 weeks of meeting him I became his lady and at 4 weeks I became his fiancé!

    • @ireefree2024
      @ireefree2024 Před 10 měsíci +3

      And now, how is it going?

    • @IrmaPerez-rf9fx
      @IrmaPerez-rf9fx Před 10 měsíci +91

      @ireefree2024 we just hit our 25th wedding anniversary this past February and we're still going good and strong. Very much in ♥︎ !

    • @ireefree2024
      @ireefree2024 Před 10 měsíci +16

      @@IrmaPerez-rf9fx That's beautiful ♥️ Wish you all the best ♥️

    • @IrmaPerez-rf9fx
      @IrmaPerez-rf9fx Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@ireefree2024 Likewise! 🦋 Thank you 😊 💗

    • @ireefree2024
      @ireefree2024 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@IrmaPerez-rf9fx Thank you very much ♥️

  • @Dobviews
    @Dobviews Před 2 lety +605

    When my bunny told me he loved me, I stood there like a dear in headlights for a second because I had never heard a man say those words first. I have been his wife for 16 years and his lady for almost 20.
    He is my rock and I fall in love with him a little more every day.

    • @melicah2479
      @melicah2479 Před 2 lety +24

      May god continue to bless your union 🙏🏾❤️

    • @purgetheXYs
      @purgetheXYs Před 2 lety +7

      @@melicah2479 amen

    • @elizabethbirdallgreer2773
      @elizabethbirdallgreer2773 Před 2 lety +16

      Awww so sweet! God was watching over you! I heard no man in their own right should ever use language like “ I love you “ to a lady if he is not seriously desiring her for wife material! I am happy for you. Currently, I am experiencing the same, and it is overwhelming because I never had someone say this either ; but, as time goes he continues to say it, I am believing it’s not just a line, a hook, he tells every woman. Thank you for sharing.

    • @Tauney
      @Tauney Před 2 lety +1

      "His" ...his possession.
      Why would you want to be owned?

    • @Sohelanthropus
      @Sohelanthropus Před 2 lety +3

      More women should be like you, preach

  • @arleneaugustahair8393
    @arleneaugustahair8393 Před 2 lety +569

    We were already married in 5 months so I guess I was good. 😂😂😂 15 years and counting.

    • @hilo5901
      @hilo5901 Před 2 lety +17

      Good for you! 😻

    • @aderiannebarnes4824
      @aderiannebarnes4824 Před 2 lety +13

      THAT'S GREAT GIRL 🙌💯🔥🔥

    • @shesroyal8463
      @shesroyal8463 Před 2 lety +5

      Good for you sister!❤️

    • @sashaflip7450
      @sashaflip7450 Před 2 lety +26

      My husband and I dated for 3 months and we’ve been married for 10 years now. When you know you know. ❤️

    • @rozaogrodowa8686
      @rozaogrodowa8686 Před 2 lety +26

      We are 20 years married, after 5 meetings and many hours of phone calls we got married (after 5 months).

  • @ca_yashagarwal8138
    @ca_yashagarwal8138 Před 2 lety +113

    Sometimes even 1 year is less to know the true intentions of someone.

    • @ES92-
      @ES92- Před 2 lety +14

      It only takes a Month really.

    • @ps600
      @ps600 Před 2 lety

      It took me more than 2 years tbh.
      And my sorry ass thought she's my queen.

    • @falischika6221
      @falischika6221 Před 2 lety +7

      @@ps600 if it takes more than 1 month, then they’re not the one for you. There’s a African proverb that says something like this “you will fully get to know a person within the first seconds of meeting them”. Something like that, can’t explain it in English word to word but it says that if you don’t know the person within the first seconds of meeting them then you will never know them/feel comfortable with them.

    • @ms.gracefullybroken8724
      @ms.gracefullybroken8724 Před 2 lety +2

      YASH AGARWAL Each individual maturity level has a lot to do with it…ijs

    • @ps600
      @ps600 Před 2 lety

      @@falischika6221 thanks man. I will never forget this.

  • @theaangeles1003
    @theaangeles1003 Před 2 lety +248

    If a man loves you he won't cheat no matter what

    • @moMdaD-fm3ng
      @moMdaD-fm3ng Před rokem +8

      And if a woman loves you .. even then there's a chance that she will cheat you because there's a saying that a woman can fall in love many times, afterall it's her body, it's her choice so basically cheating is her choice 😅😂

    • @yumnamleewinmangang1944
      @yumnamleewinmangang1944 Před rokem +3

      Atlast
      All women are same

    • @theaangeles1003
      @theaangeles1003 Před rokem +7

      @@yumnamleewinmangang1944 not all same! Men either.

    • @theaangeles1003
      @theaangeles1003 Před rokem +15

      @@moMdaD-fm3ng a woman cheats 2 reasons 1. Money and 2. Love. A man cheats cus of sexual stuffs 😂

    • @moMdaD-fm3ng
      @moMdaD-fm3ng Před rokem +1

      @@theaangeles1003 so you believe that women cheat for money that means women=G£d¶€π 😂

  • @01splitpea
    @01splitpea Před rokem +11

    In this video alone, you've probably saved at least a few women years of misery persisting in relationships with men who are merely passing time with them until the "right one" comes along. Thank you, Steve Harvey. You embody the immense power of the spoken word. You are, to speak in the vernacular of today's youth, the man.

  • @benjaminkoontz7798
    @benjaminkoontz7798 Před 2 lety +84

    I’ve always been willing to profess my love for my women being the straightforward And genuine man that I am

    • @Ohkeh640
      @Ohkeh640 Před 2 lety +4

      That’s so admirable. Thank you
      Hopefully I get that one day xx

  • @MrJusttony89
    @MrJusttony89 Před 2 lety +226

    Love your lady fellas. Know what you got before its gone and never returns. Tell her shes beautiful everyday. Show that you love her. A little thing such as properly introducing her to your family and peers goes a long way to show her what you think about her and how much you love her😔

    • @user-qe7bt9dz1l
      @user-qe7bt9dz1l Před 2 lety +15

      First they gotta make sure they actually feel that way first! If they don’t, they need to kick themselves for wasting both of their times to begin with and secondly they need to GTFO ASAP and not prolong something they are not already feeling!!!

    • @RelationshipFeeling
      @RelationshipFeeling Před 9 měsíci

      czcams.com/users/shortsKEziOcMoEfs?feature=share

  • @kingdomcitizen4788
    @kingdomcitizen4788 Před 2 lety +158

    If it's the right man, you will know it!

  • @elle9633
    @elle9633 Před 2 lety +311

    From day one, he said that I was his “girl” and after two months, he said that he was going to marry me. Then after 8 months, he ended the relationship. I didn’t see the 🚩 🚩. Pay attention!

    • @hannahk.3341
      @hannahk.3341 Před rokem +33

      What red flags were present that you didn't notice?

    • @bananapuff349
      @bananapuff349 Před rokem +14

      Please girl explain this happened to me

    • @alexforce9
      @alexforce9 Před rokem +70

      @@hannahk.3341 Its amazing that I even have to explain this. No normal guy will jump so fast into labels. And no normal guy will say they will marry you after 8 weeks. She actually got lucky. Coz he could be some crazy mofo and fobids her seeing friends, telling her how to dress ect.

    • @alexforce9
      @alexforce9 Před rokem +41

      @@bananapuff349 No normal guy goes into labels so fast. There is mostly two options - he ignite fast and burn faster - so he is all in love after a few dates and then he gets bored, or - he is a crazy mofo who start controlling you and clamming you are soulmates, telling you he will kill you/himself if you ever leave him ect.

    • @BelovedbyAdonai
      @BelovedbyAdonai Před rokem +7

      Alex is SPOT on with his comments ❗ it happened to me ❗😔
      It could have been even worse (as bad as it was) when I ended it.

  • @metalsurgeon9196
    @metalsurgeon9196 Před 2 lety +133

    So true, my wife was "my miss" shortly after we got together! It's 15 years now us vs all you other work-a-days.

  • @acesjourney6692
    @acesjourney6692 Před 2 lety +351

    Trust me putting a title on you doesn't stop them leaving you.

    • @cardyb9223
      @cardyb9223 Před rokem +49

      Absolutely right. ... but still its way better than just keeping you in secrets and not introducing you to anyone..

    • @acesjourney6692
      @acesjourney6692 Před rokem +35

      @@cardyb9223 i agree. i believe the most important thing for a woman is to know her self-worth and settle for nothing less than what she deserves

    • @bradleypease2492
      @bradleypease2492 Před rokem +6

      @@acesjourney6692 I feel like your answering different stuff than what’s being said

    • @jenniferb327
      @jenniferb327 Před rokem +1

      Right 👍

    • @PastorOogway
      @PastorOogway Před rokem +5

      His point wasn't, putting a title on you means he won't leave you.
      His point was if he *doesn't* give you a title of status, he's *going* to leave you.
      The title of this video is just misleading

  • @CrystalDatingCoach
    @CrystalDatingCoach Před 2 lety +21

    AMEN!! Men in Love want TITLES!!

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

    • @smithJackson-xc4yu
      @smithJackson-xc4yu Před 11 dny

      Can we be friends

  • @mariec5716
    @mariec5716 Před 2 lety +16

    So true. Honestly at this time you are better alone because they do not want to do it tough. Its all sex and goodbye.

    • @hildathamid7741
      @hildathamid7741 Před rokem +2

      Yah they got me too finally am heal now

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 Před 10 měsíci

      Yup.

    • @marcelinaun3304
      @marcelinaun3304 Před 2 měsíci

      First time ever I've been waiting to Imin love not having sex yet it's 6 months in so hard but he's still close to me ❤

  • @vinnyvincent2862
    @vinnyvincent2862 Před 2 lety +60

    The longer you spend listening to advice from others on how to live your life ! The more your life is passing you by ! 🙏

  • @mattdandersn
    @mattdandersn Před 2 lety +120

    Oprah doesn't NEED a title. Oprah IS her title!

    • @Rrrrcc4666
      @Rrrrcc4666 Před 2 lety +1

      Well he aint tslked about it. 😐

    • @theresahenderson3534
      @theresahenderson3534 Před 2 lety

      It keeps her warm.

    • @setaripantheon8801
      @setaripantheon8801 Před 2 lety +3

      She is a Psycopath and have pimped many children.....
      MSM NPC

    • @idoyes1400
      @idoyes1400 Před 2 lety +2

      Exactly I had to re-watch this four times before I understood the point because when he said this is Oprah I was like okay I don't get it but then I realized oh he means when you only state a person's name 😂

    • @jonathanvalverde
      @jonathanvalverde Před 2 lety +1

      Oprah is the man in her relationship because you never hear her refer to that guy as her love and never married him.

  • @abdullahw5762
    @abdullahw5762 Před rokem +2

    Steve is never shy of sharing reality and speaking truth and he has amazing ability of adding humour

  • @bexroots2324
    @bexroots2324 Před 2 lety +548

    If a man loves you he will be a man of God and put God first without God he don’t know true love

    • @veganhealthy3141
      @veganhealthy3141 Před 2 lety +7

      ❤️❤️❤️exactly

    • @phoenixkb134
      @phoenixkb134 Před 2 lety +7

      Beautifully said and absolutely correct!

    • @kimberlyjennings618
      @kimberlyjennings618 Před 2 lety +6

      True 🙌🏻

    • @bexroots2324
      @bexroots2324 Před 2 lety +1

      @QueenOfRavens in psalms 137:9 he not saying men should do this he is Referring to back when Moses was born they had did this and the kings and then we’re happy about it saying and showing how wicked they are without God not saying God wants people to do these things you guys gotta read contacts and not just read one scripture because that’s not what does being portrayed it here go back into Deuteronomy and read about when Moses was born in how they had drowned all the babies in the river and killed the babies but Moses out of all of them were saved

    • @bexroots2324
      @bexroots2324 Před 2 lety +1

      @QueenOfRavens none of this makes sense God is the energy with words he formed the whole earth and even you and the reason kids and women suffer everyday is because of sin if you truly studied the Bible you would know that the lord said turn from your wicked ways and he will heal our land… through Christ we have eternal life not believing just brings for pain and death… according to the word of the lord not me… but you do have a free will that God gives everyone so you choose as you please have a bless day…💛

  • @crystalthow5533
    @crystalthow5533 Před rokem +4

    I know finally i have found my man. I am thankful every second i have with him.

  • @jonathanvalverde
    @jonathanvalverde Před 2 lety +372

    Oprah probably feels awkward because she's been doing that to her "friend" for years.

    • @videorocketzmillar007milla5
      @videorocketzmillar007milla5 Před 2 lety +22

      U got that right. Gail is her gf and Stedman doesn't care. How could a woman with NO education in the broadcast field lead on a major TV station without O pulling the strings. Come on now.

    • @victormelgar1319
      @victormelgar1319 Před 2 lety +14

      Oprah: "This is my fuck buddy".. boyfriend or husband HE IS NOT

    • @auralay2497
      @auralay2497 Před 2 lety +13

      Listen if her SO stayed means they.like that status. Come on, they're.not kids...

    • @breakoutmediagroup7762
      @breakoutmediagroup7762 Před 2 lety +6

      Right...Cuddy been "Steadman" their whole relationship

    • @Tauney
      @Tauney Před 2 lety +5

      No no. Remember, Steve Harvey cannot have female friends.

  • @aimfuldrifter
    @aimfuldrifter Před 9 měsíci +3

    If a man wants to be better because he's met you, isn't interested in other women, deeply cares about you, is always honest with you and ESPECIALLY when he cries after losing you - THAT'S real love and he'll never love anyone as much.

  • @oraliatrevino6005
    @oraliatrevino6005 Před 2 lety +20

    If a Man Truly Loves you ,at that point his comment will be : I dont need to see or be with no other women, because I already found my Happiness to my Heart.She picked me to be her Partner, her soulmate,friend,lover, the person who will be by her side always.even in the afterlife. Now that's true love...

    • @tamitatangoto5134
      @tamitatangoto5134 Před 8 měsíci +1

      What afterlife?
      The Bible tells us that those in the grave are aware of nothing at all.
      It also says they're sleeping in death awaiting the Resurrection.
      So the reality is: The only hope for mankind is THE RESURRECTION.🎉❤🎉❤
      Acts 24:15,; John 5:28,29

  • @desireemuldrow1588
    @desireemuldrow1588 Před rokem +4

    This is true. A man knows from the beginning your station.

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers Před 11 měsíci +4

    *It's about trusting your intuition and recognizing the signs of true love. Thanks for sharing this valuable information!*

  • @nliam3447
    @nliam3447 Před 2 lety +11

    So true..
    After more than 6 months I couldn’t even be introduced as a friend. Instead,
    all there was, was silence, a stare and a “I’ll walk you out to your car”

  • @auxin123
    @auxin123 Před rokem +7

    Goes the same way for women
    Don’t wait around chasing what you think is the love of your life if they don’t even want you

  • @daniellepage2923
    @daniellepage2923 Před 2 lety +15

    Some men take time to trust someone. 6 months is pretty fast for me. Takes me a couple years

    • @J040PL7
      @J040PL7 Před 2 lety +4

      6 months is enough to be exclusive, for a title, it needs at least a year 😅

    • @daniellepage2923
      @daniellepage2923 Před 2 lety +3

      I mean to love someone and trust them to be loyal and honest.

    • @laurapavone3513
      @laurapavone3513 Před rokem

      😅

  • @SkyRaidis
    @SkyRaidis Před 2 lety +29

    Jesus loves you 🧡💜💙♥️

  • @lauriesthought1231
    @lauriesthought1231 Před 2 lety +2

    Real! FACTS!!
    Straight UP!!!

  • @nitinnegi4986
    @nitinnegi4986 Před 2 lety +7

    People.....if you want to ruin your relationship listen to him

    • @mv3380
      @mv3380 Před 2 lety +2

      Go Steve! Wife #4 is it?

  • @brookmary-lynn4263
    @brookmary-lynn4263 Před 2 lety +49

    Steve Harvey👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
    The man who cheated on his wife then Blamed her 🤣

    • @808heat7
      @808heat7 Před 2 lety +4

      A man can have sex with other women and still love his wife the same...but most women can't do that cause they are only looking for this one guy. Its biology.

    • @valentinasalgado3427
      @valentinasalgado3427 Před 2 lety +5

      @@808heat7 😂

    • @Atiq701
      @Atiq701 Před 2 lety +3

      You are mixing two things up. Besides, he is only talking about a relationship issue not about himself.

    • @tellnolies8530
      @tellnolies8530 Před 2 lety +1

      Exactly!! Narcissist on his 3rd Marriage....

    • @anneececarter
      @anneececarter Před 2 lety +2

      @@808heat7 no. Woman hide it just like guys. Thats called a cheater. They all think like tht

  • @jennymuller7606
    @jennymuller7606 Před 2 lety +3

    I love Steve Harvey he is sooo hilarious and soo wise too ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😄😂😂😂😂

  • @bertaalvarez349
    @bertaalvarez349 Před rokem +4

    My late husband did that. He professed. Yes, he did that!!!!
    I miss you my Hufa, Angelheart🕊😪

  • @wakeup7289
    @wakeup7289 Před 2 lety +18

    He said I love you and happen to see he texted another women the same thing on the same day 🤣🤣

    • @ewutrygetsense9851
      @ewutrygetsense9851 Před 2 lety

      E choke...

    • @ES92-
      @ES92- Před 2 lety +1

      It’s possible for men to love more than 1 woman..

    • @strav8337
      @strav8337 Před 2 lety

      its called homie love

    • @anonymousarab8226
      @anonymousarab8226 Před rokem

      🤣🤣🤣🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @annaisis7510
      @annaisis7510 Před rokem +1

      Yes. I was with ex few months new in the relationship and i saw his text to another woman asking her to meet 😅🤡🤡🤡

  • @michaelbatts7149
    @michaelbatts7149 Před 2 lety +359

    And if a woman loves a man, she will give him a title as well- her man, her fiance, her husband, her babydaddy, something. But if, after 6 months, she is trying to hide the fact that she is with him and says that they are just friends, a man should take it at face value, be like "You got it. No problem" and go find a woman who will be proud of him and won't hesitate to say "This is my man, my husband, my lover, my honeypie."

  • @3rdgenbobby962
    @3rdgenbobby962 Před 2 lety +58

    Thought he was about say "If he loves you, he'll marry you." I was about to go fucking ballistic. Steve be wildn

  • @sdesai4047
    @sdesai4047 Před 2 lety +1

    Oprah was laughing n crying at the same time

  • @Love2Love19
    @Love2Love19 Před 2 lety +2

    That last line!!! #FACTZ Been there and it went exactly NO WHERE

  • @garrisoncox9589
    @garrisoncox9589 Před 2 lety +130

    A friend of mine always addresses his wife and I mean always addresses his wife as dear and they've been happily married for years and years now

    • @courtneywalmsley8284
      @courtneywalmsley8284 Před 2 lety +4

      Darling works too! 🥰

    • @ishish8816
      @ishish8816 Před 2 lety +9

      Surely he doesn't introduce her to _others_ as "this is dear" .
      Steve is talking about in the context of how he _introduces you_ in public.

    • @strav8337
      @strav8337 Před 2 lety

      @@ishish8816 hi deer im dog

    • @helenpotter2657
      @helenpotter2657 Před 2 lety

      Yes we all like endearing cute names rather then are name tho hearing your name Helen you are everything to me isn’t a bad thing either ❤️🙏🏻

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      @@helenpotter2657 Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

  • @firewaterbydesign
    @firewaterbydesign Před 2 lety +3

    *TRUE 👍 STORY,* ladies, listen up!!!

  • @jennaarmbruster2169
    @jennaarmbruster2169 Před rokem +1

    The hard truth. Know and accept the difference. It's so beautiful when you find that

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 Před rokem +1

    The absolute truth, a man's nature can never be denied no matter what, men are awesome for they know what they want when they see it.

  • @lesriley2062
    @lesriley2062 Před 2 lety +16

    “This my home girl” lol

  • @abhimathy2973
    @abhimathy2973 Před 2 lety +13

    True as hell 😂 if he is really interested in u he will start calling you with cute names n end up with my wifey n queen.

    • @hilo5901
      @hilo5901 Před 2 lety +1

      I thought my name was Honey! He changed it to “friend”. I don’t do friend zone…..😿

    • @cuixinshi
      @cuixinshi Před 2 lety

      What is he calls me “ bih”

    • @annaisis7510
      @annaisis7510 Před rokem

      What if he's calling you these but sleeps with other women, lies about it and when you tell him it's over he's following you to places where you're with sb else playing the victim? 😂😂😂😂🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

    • @abhimathy2973
      @abhimathy2973 Před rokem +1

      @@annaisis7510 lol it's been a year n things have changed 🤣 I don't believe in cute names n promises anymore. I trust actions ✌🏼

    • @annaisis7510
      @annaisis7510 Před rokem

      @@abhimathy2973 exactly been there

  • @vivianmunene4867
    @vivianmunene4867 Před rokem +2

    I agree. My man started calling me my wife and when we are with his friends, he calls me my lady and this just melted my heart with more love towards him and soon ready to become Mrs him. Am so glad that he became a blessing to my life 😊😊😊..
    And also he will process it without struggle. His words and his actions coordinate...

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

    • @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt
      @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt Před 27 dny

      Hello pretty how are you doing

  • @poppycalliope6793
    @poppycalliope6793 Před 2 lety +2

    Too good this guy!! Really like him.

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

    • @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt
      @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt Před 27 dny

      Hello pretty how are you doing

  • @camthinguyen398
    @camthinguyen398 Před 2 lety +59

    Good god, I’m happy I watched his talk shows and remembered his wise words because damnnn male species, we women are not charity organizations, handing out our love, time and youth to be wasted upon lame excuses of your commitment issues.

    • @HpHH83
      @HpHH83 Před 2 lety +5

      Sounds like a personal problem in choosing men. I could go out and talk to women who don't value themselves or me, but I can't expect to find any substance there. Change your perspective and you change who you attract.

    • @user-xf1yp9bw3j
      @user-xf1yp9bw3j Před 2 lety +1

      @@HpHH83 what kind of twisted logic is this...? How is it her fault?

    • @HpHH83
      @HpHH83 Před 2 lety +2

      @@user-xf1yp9bw3j You're looking at someone to blame, all I said was it sounds like a personal problem in choosing men. Do you usually blame others for the choices you make? Men and women have a responsibility to themselves and to the person they're choosing to be with. Blaming the other half for your failed part in your own relationship would be twisted logic.

    • @eshikajoggesser6830
      @eshikajoggesser6830 Před 2 lety

      Ohh yess 👏

    • @irisfields1659
      @irisfields1659 Před 2 lety

      P

  • @stephaniedavis6159
    @stephaniedavis6159 Před 2 lety +6

    That is true Steve.

  • @julianathompson173
    @julianathompson173 Před 2 lety +1

    True. This my friend after 10 years.

  • @jenznwachukwu4275
    @jenznwachukwu4275 Před rokem +2

    So true. He's proud of who you've become to him 💞

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

  • @mm_me
    @mm_me Před 2 lety +20

    He the only man who understands both male n female psychology to the fullest

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

  • @Donnydarko9912
    @Donnydarko9912 Před 2 lety +45

    Professing too soon though can be a form of love bombing.

  • @FrederickBamber
    @FrederickBamber Před 7 měsíci +1

    35yrs of marriage n he still tells me I love you n your beautiful everyday. Lord I know how lucky I am!!!!

  • @roshanjay7
    @roshanjay7 Před rokem +6

    All good points, I also think it’s when he doesn’t *want* to leave you for anything else, and doesn’t *know* why he wants to stay, because Love has *no* cause and *no* reason, there is just the *strength* of the Love itself, built up over over a very long time. To ask why would be like asking why do you Love yourself, well you wouldn’t really, you literally would *be* Love.
    A better question would be, well *how* did you come to Love me as such, and the answer would be through helping you and not harming you, ie. through the force of spirituality. That’s something every one can appreciate in the here and now as every coupling helps each other. That has to be the *attractive force* that brings you together.
    But it takes two to tango, and women should also apply some effort to building that connection, instead of just expecting the world.

  • @DivineLightPaladin
    @DivineLightPaladin Před 2 lety +70

    "baby mama" sure is a real loving term of endearment these days 🙄 heavy sarcasm

    • @Tauney
      @Tauney Před 2 lety +6

      Lol ikr! If your man constantly finds different ways to call you "Mama." You should be concerned.

    • @DivineLightPaladin
      @DivineLightPaladin Před 2 lety

      @@Tauney oof that too

    • @annaisis7510
      @annaisis7510 Před rokem

      Agreed it doesn't even sound nice

  • @sjgreene785
    @sjgreene785 Před 2 lety +6

    Steve you are awesome!!🙋

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

    • @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt
      @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt Před 27 dny

      Hello pretty how are you

  • @m.v.1230
    @m.v.1230 Před 2 lety +1

    Yes, love when men are straight forward.

    • @ES92-
      @ES92- Před 2 lety +1

      Only when you like to hear when they have to say.

  • @ameenahhightower2446
    @ameenahhightower2446 Před 2 lety +1

    Steve Harvey spitting truth..

  • @tammysoucy8243
    @tammysoucy8243 Před 2 lety +4

    I was something the first time he saw me.......My sister came to where I was baby sitting with him.She liked him I was 17.He sad when he saw me on the floor playing with the baby he new I was the one.He ended up dating my sister.I had no interest in boys at that time.He wanted me bad.And got me he asked me to marry him on my 19 birthday 3 kids and 32 years off marriage.We have gone through it....And he is still hear.

  • @collenemeeks5212
    @collenemeeks5212 Před rokem +5

    After 42 years he still doesn't even introduce me. I should have ran, not walked to the nearest exit

  • @hirwaafricano4359
    @hirwaafricano4359 Před 2 lety +2

    I salute this man

  • @mariahixon3646
    @mariahixon3646 Před 2 lety +2

    So true !!!

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

    • @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt
      @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt Před 27 dny

      Hello pretty how are you doing today

  • @apostolia2124
    @apostolia2124 Před 2 lety +4

    He is so damn right ✅ 👏 🙌 😍

  • @rachaelford5525
    @rachaelford5525 Před 2 lety +3

    I admire women who have that kind of patience cause I wouldn't give it more than two months. But also know your worth!

    • @MrsAmy24.7
      @MrsAmy24.7 Před 2 lety

      Sweet talk gets most women stuck that's why some take back the cheaters.

    • @rachaelford5525
      @rachaelford5525 Před 2 lety

      @@MrsAmy24.7 true and that's sad. I've never taken anyone back like that. They can talk all day but lose my trust that's it

    • @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt
      @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt Před 27 dny

      Hello pretty how are you doing today

    • @rachaelford5525
      @rachaelford5525 Před 27 dny

      @@AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt me?

  • @linalicious415
    @linalicious415 Před 2 lety +1

    True!!! My hubby proposed after 6 months of dating and knowing each other. When u know u know.

  • @shevinahmarie1470
    @shevinahmarie1470 Před rokem +1

    Absolutely right about that. True facts

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

  • @ayushighosh20
    @ayushighosh20 Před 2 lety +60

    6 months is enough to know deep down what you want, if you are observant and generally decisive. Being perceptively intelligent also helps. If not, then it'll take more time to observe and make up your mind.

  • @thesaltysak6644
    @thesaltysak6644 Před 2 lety +14

    Sometimes we give up because there's no effort on return ...

  • @kathleenwilson8315
    @kathleenwilson8315 Před 2 lety +1

    You talking right about that Steve Harvey💯‼

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 Před 7 měsíci +1

    He is absolutely correct

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

  • @christinajanejulian6645
    @christinajanejulian6645 Před 2 lety +3

    Amen amen amen

  • @SandraNelson063
    @SandraNelson063 Před 2 lety +3

    I knew a "tough" guy in school who called his girl friend who he was PROUD of " The Wife". He KNEW in high school that she was IT.

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

    • @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt
      @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt Před 27 dny

      Hello pretty how are you doing today

  • @cassandra.rose.
    @cassandra.rose. Před 2 lety +1

    This is sooooo true. My ex used to say he had social anxiety which is why he was so bad at introducing me 🙄

  • @obiestill5785
    @obiestill5785 Před 2 lety +1

    Ya know something? He is spot on.

  • @rediamd847
    @rediamd847 Před rokem +3

    I relized he was love bombing me when his best friend called him to meet up while we were out somewhere and he said he was with SOMEONE . I ended it.

    • @annaisis7510
      @annaisis7510 Před rokem

      Yeah happened to me too. Shows the guy's definitely not on the relationship page😢🤡🤡

  • @fredjohnson1996
    @fredjohnson1996 Před 2 lety +9

    Advice from a guy that's been married 3 times. Interesting.

    • @SM-mh1kq
      @SM-mh1kq Před 2 lety +2

      Yes he married them , it didn't work like all of us , if it worked for you first , God bless

    • @elizabethbennett7844
      @elizabethbennett7844 Před 2 lety

      He got wiser with age..

  • @tsmith11
    @tsmith11 Před rokem

    Mr Harvey, you are 100% correct on this one.

  • @laprinciahobdy
    @laprinciahobdy Před 2 lety +1

    Speak the truth Steve 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @sarammow
    @sarammow Před rokem +3

    He introduced me as the wife he always dreamed of. Then he left to go back to the women he called trailer park trash!

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

    • @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt
      @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt Před 27 dny

      Hello pretty how are you doing

  • @gordonowens7794
    @gordonowens7794 Před 2 lety +11

    It's funny he's saying this to Oprah who never refers to Steadman as anything but his name but often refers to Gayle as her girlfriend. 🤣

  • @christianwilliams2068
    @christianwilliams2068 Před 2 lety +2

    Out of the Mouth of a Man I believe every word you are saying.

  • @elizabethchristie9190
    @elizabethchristie9190 Před 2 lety +2

    You are great man. It's very true.

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

  • @goddessgia9869
    @goddessgia9869 Před 2 lety +15

    He shouldn't be giving no advice on love, relationships or marriage.

    • @ES92-
      @ES92- Před 2 lety

      Thank You !

    • @michelleoutlaw2546
      @michelleoutlaw2546 Před 2 lety +3

      Why do people who think they know Steve Harvey think they have the right to judge him his success says different sooo it doesn't matter what u or anyone thinks , because he's doing it.

    • @xcytd4diys894
      @xcytd4diys894 Před 2 lety +3

      Maybe some people take advice from him because he has had multiple experiences. This is how people learn...through trial. Just Saying. Idk.

    • @michelleoutlaw2546
      @michelleoutlaw2546 Před 2 lety

      @Chumnley snoop What it says is people make mistakes as we all do. So because he made mistakes that means that's it, he should give up on love, life right. It means learn from our mistakes, do better. Image if the most high gave up on us we made mistakes and he said that's it sit in the corner for life n watch people live. Be joyful . Stop pointing fingers I'm sure you made many and the fingers you point will be pointing right back at you take care.

    • @michelleoutlaw2546
      @michelleoutlaw2546 Před 2 lety

      @Chumnley snoop So you've don't make mistakes you're perfect ? Wow let us shake r you're hand.

  • @ES92-
    @ES92- Před 2 lety +59

    Don’t listen to relationship advice from celebrities.

    • @symone5746
      @symone5746 Před 2 lety +5

      Or people who cheat in general.

    • @ES92-
      @ES92- Před 2 lety +5

      Lol, so don’t listen to anybody who made mistakes then 😅?

    • @mile_851
      @mile_851 Před 2 lety +6

      @@ES92- cheating ain't a mistake, it's a decision. But I can tell you are one of those coming from your response...
      Not everyone is a cheater.

    • @ES92-
      @ES92- Před 2 lety

      @@mile_851 😂The shade.
      Don’t u know that decisions can be mistakes ? Just like your whenever ur mom decided to have you...

    • @phoenixkb134
      @phoenixkb134 Před 2 lety

      Why not when their shut resonates to you and is on point. Would rather listen to his advice than yours.

  • @jennyparham8128
    @jennyparham8128 Před 2 lety +2

    THAT'S ABSOLUTELY CORRECT 100% AMEN AND AMEN HALLELUJAH HALLELUJAH ✌💪💚😉🙏🙏🤔🙏🤔

  • @tamaramoore6069
    @tamaramoore6069 Před rokem +1

    Uncle Steve speaking nothing but the truth that is clear as day LOL

  • @apolloetic
    @apolloetic Před 2 lety +21

    My grandfather always told me "there's 1000 ways to skin a cat" until he passed and that was his way of saying it's ok to be different and still achieve your goals...... people may have similarities and still be different. ALL MEN/WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME!!! As an individual you need to study who you're personally dealing with.

    • @3rdgenbobby962
      @3rdgenbobby962 Před 2 lety +3

      That's why a lot of men don't like Steve, he gives women advice like it will work on any man, like we're a monolith

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like you to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

  • @MrsMedicate
    @MrsMedicate Před 2 lety +60

    This just made me sad. My last relationship ended after 3 years. He never even told me he loves me

    • @J040PL7
      @J040PL7 Před 2 lety +17

      He either never did, or something kept him from doing that, either way you shouldn't look back.

    • @abigailofori5867
      @abigailofori5867 Před 2 lety +14

      Wait for what 😦 3years never said I love you, wooooow

    • @PAPERWEIGHTPRODUCTIONS
      @PAPERWEIGHTPRODUCTIONS Před 2 lety +14

      Y u wasted your time ...

    • @TheEngrAsad
      @TheEngrAsad Před 2 lety +7

      What stopped you from saying I love you to him?
      Sometimes small differences become huge rifts. So before that happen be Love him/her to the core.Remember love is unconditional. Business transactions aren't.

    • @tanitaf1345
      @tanitaf1345 Před 2 lety +2

      Same but 5 years..

  • @theresahenderson3534
    @theresahenderson3534 Před 2 lety +1

    True, true, true!!

  • @wakranich3488
    @wakranich3488 Před 6 měsíci

    If a man loves you he will walk beside you, not in front of you.
    Shows respect.

  • @fulltimefreedom10ktravelbuddy

    So true‼️
    I got a title early on & it keeps getting better & better❤️

    • @tyasiamillender2817
      @tyasiamillender2817 Před 6 měsíci

      Hey ma’am I’ll like to get you match with my uncle he’s trying it so hard to be in a good relationship. He’s kind of calm and cool person it would be nice for you to know him..

    • @fulltimefreedom10ktravelbuddy
      @fulltimefreedom10ktravelbuddy Před 6 měsíci

      @@tyasiamillender2817I have a friend already
      Thank you

    • @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt
      @AnthonyPatrick-eg9qt Před 27 dny

      Hello pretty how are you doing today

  • @hilo5901
    @hilo5901 Před 2 lety +37

    That’s what I thought! Men just don’t throw around the “L word” ; they don’t, even jokingly. Not right in the beginning, they don’t. If they don’t mean it, they won’t say it. Especially to a “friend” he doesn’t know that well. And things have been pretty friendly. Then to pull the friends card: WTH?! 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @BubbleGumBxtch
      @BubbleGumBxtch Před 2 lety +1

      This is not at all true

    • @siderthedoor6798
      @siderthedoor6798 Před 2 lety +2

      I’ve told my girl I love her almost every day since we met, I don’t give a shit what anyone else thinks because it makes her happy when I say it therefore I will

    • @hilo5901
      @hilo5901 Před 2 lety

      @@siderthedoor6798 absolutely!!! She is lucky 🍀. 🥰

    • @hilo5901
      @hilo5901 Před 2 lety

      @@BubbleGumBxtch 😄. Over 21 people agree so what you believe is up to you. Thank you for sharing. 😉

    • @BubbleGumBxtch
      @BubbleGumBxtch Před 2 lety

      @@hilo5901 baby I’m 25 😂

  • @primer2702
    @primer2702 Před 2 lety +2

    I was introduced to his family as a dear friend after one month knowing each other and he was still in a relationship. Two months after he broke up with the girlfriend and I didn’t know. A month after the break up, he told me that he loves me. I confirmed that I love him 3 months later and that was the time we started our relationship. 5 years of ups and downs later, he came to my father and told him that he wanted to marry me. So, we got engaged, got married 4 months after engagement. Now, just enjoying 6 months of marriage life. We started from stranger to friend to lover to best friend and life partner 😍

    • @annaisis7510
      @annaisis7510 Před rokem

      Great❤ love can find you amywhere but this is why if a man tells me he has female best friends i cut him off .

  • @Akiokid
    @Akiokid Před 2 lety +1

    Trust me, it's true. My fiance and I have been together over 6 years. Literally the day after our first date and first kiss, he was already saying he loved me and introducing me as his girlfriend