Make Him Worry About Losing You - 7 Powerful Tips That Work

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    In this video, you will learn how to make a man worry about losing you. So, if you’re in a relationship and feeling taken for granted, or unappreciated, and you want to remind him of your value and importance in his life, then this is the video for you. These 7 powerful tips will make him worry about losing you.
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  • @iloveit111213
    @iloveit111213 Před 4 lety +8726

    I’m sorry for everyone that feels a great pain that they have to watch a video like this :(

  • @ramlaali8872
    @ramlaali8872 Před 5 měsíci +275

    The fact that 5.6 Million people watched this shows how much pain people are actually in 😢sending love ❤

  • @mikelnankamba9852
    @mikelnankamba9852 Před 3 lety +312

    In this video I learned something, self love. Love yourself and don't make him be the center of your life.

    • @edwardmylnychuk5774
      @edwardmylnychuk5774 Před rokem

      it applies both eays because most modern day women arent worth the time of day, guys are just a convenience unitl the next one comes along,
      and this is being exposed more and more every day women today are trash and not worth the time of day

    • @AishaMusa-hl2cd
      @AishaMusa-hl2cd Před 22 dny +1

      Exactly darling,,self love first

  • @racheljune688
    @racheljune688 Před 2 lety +310

    ❤️ You will never ever be good enough for the wrong guy. The right one will make you never feel you have to question his love for you. The wrong one will always constantly make you feel insecure.

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      @texassage5629 Před 2 lety

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      @texassage5629 Před 2 lety

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      @uyiuhunmwangho2554 Před 2 lety

      Dr Kelly Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Kelly always keep up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him.

  • @jennyinthewoods7887
    @jennyinthewoods7887 Před 5 lety +4636

    If I have to look like a supermodel with an hourglass figure, just to be valued by a man, then I don't want that man.

    • @lele19691
      @lele19691 Před 5 lety +40

      👏👏👏👏👍

    • @carlenemcgriggs4267
      @carlenemcgriggs4267 Před 5 lety +76

      Exactly, shouldn't that work both ways??? I have a mid section tire!!!, When men look at me and they see that, it's like it's a turn off for them, but then I look at them and they have the same thing, what's up with that???? I don't get it, do you?? If so, please help me to understand that.

    • @newsky6236
      @newsky6236 Před 5 lety +7

      Me too dia😁😁😁😁

    • @jennyinthewoods7887
      @jennyinthewoods7887 Před 5 lety +74

      @@carlenemcgriggs4267 Yes it should go both ways, but it doesn't. Men are permitted to let themselves go. And they're permitted to AGE. That one really pisses me off! The way that women are treated when they show signs of aging, is absolutely shameful. Growing up, my (very controlling) dad would force my mom to wear micro mini skirts, tiny shirts, and stiletto heels - all the time. She was a stunning woman, with beautiful waist length hair and an hourglass figure. Even after having 5 children. I remember her having to wear these things while she was nursing newborn babies. All the while, my father had a spare tire. It was so ridiculous. I'm almost 40 now and my dad still tries to tell me how to look. I think that's why I choose to wear jeans and a t-shirt - just to spite him lol.

    • @HeatherAnne
      @HeatherAnne Před 5 lety +87

      This video is utterly disgusting and oppressive to women. It is like the past 50 years never happened. The truth is that the women I know who get cheated on and treated the worst are the ones who are super model gorgeous. When your relationship is based on looks it has zero substance. The happiest couple I know both weigh about 350 pounds. Your looks are NOT why he treats you badly. He is an ass. That is why. The more you work out to please him the more he knows he has a tight fist on your soul. Screw this vlogger. And look at him. Not exactly so hot himself. Such bullshit.

  • @user-iu6bv8vu8o
    @user-iu6bv8vu8o Před 5 lety +6823

    Ignore him, go out, look good, have goals outside of HIM & dont be available to him- especially on a Friday or Sat....always be happy with great energy- basically Do YOU...& Be willing to Lose Him-dont ever get too attached to any man- Ever💯

  • @AtiyaNaureen
    @AtiyaNaureen Před 4 měsíci +13

    1- let go your anger and don't ask for appreciated
    2- get back in shape
    3- glamorize your looks
    4-change style of clothing
    5- he will wonder are you Changing feelings
    6- feeling insecure
    7- reconnect your social life independence is very attractive for men
    8- Connect with him emotionally
    9- create a safe zone
    10- talk when time is right ▶️

    • @mariefricchione437
      @mariefricchione437 Před 6 dny +2

      If he doesn’t love you- you can stand on your head naked and it won’t work!

  • @Jananicholson874
    @Jananicholson874 Před rokem +185

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  • @jdrews4824
    @jdrews4824 Před 3 lety +2600

    1. Let go of anger
    2. Prioritize your fitness
    3. Glamorize your looks
    4. Resurrect your social life
    5. Connect with him emotionally
    6. Talk when the time is right
    7. Be willing to walk away

  • @cruisewithbigkim5465
    @cruisewithbigkim5465 Před 4 lety +2773

    Sis if his absence brought you peace, it wasn't a loss!!!

  • @NicoleMediavillo
    @NicoleMediavillo Před 3 lety +116

    When someone truly loves you. Even in your imperfections he/she sees you in your best. He/she accepts on who you are. Its all about being contented and appreciate everything. :((

  • @coolkitty03
    @coolkitty03 Před 3 lety +19

    This video is not about having to change yourself for a man, it is about prioritizing yourself and working on yourself because when you’re in a relationship you get comfortable and lose yourself. But it’s rather about prioritizing yourself and taking care of yourself so your man could realize that at any day he could lose you because you are a high value women that prioritizes herself. I think he is talking about how when a relationship becomes comfortable men stop putting in the effort as much because they already have you, which is why it is so important not to lose yourself and to prioritize yourself so he could realize that at any moment he could lose you.

  • @batix2297
    @batix2297 Před 3 lety +1905

    I feel sad that I have to watch this 😔

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  • @maix139
    @maix139 Před 5 lety +3834

    I learned to stop caring so much about him so I can focus on my own self growth

    • @cn1976
      @cn1976 Před 5 lety +23

      maikor3 I’m learning that is what reels them in! Being confident and flirty seems to be working also

    • @ameeraabdullah1030
      @ameeraabdullah1030 Před 5 lety +8

      Could not agree more

    • @tconnertc88
      @tconnertc88 Před 5 lety +5

      Amen🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 seems to be good for the soul

    • @jennyalex7061
      @jennyalex7061 Před 4 lety +5

      I love dis but will it work for me,I hope so because I am about to🤔😪

    • @tconnertc88
      @tconnertc88 Před 4 lety +19

      @@jennyalex7061 It will baby....You have to always remember to love yourself! We seem to get caught up in being the perfect wife, girlfriend etc. And we tend to let things slide. But we need not to let things go...and when I sat that, I'm meaning ourselves!! We need someone who gone love, appreciate, respect us as much as we do with them!!!! Life is to short to settle!! Hope this helps!!! ❣❣❣

  • @kaalamankusinaatkantahan3487
    @kaalamankusinaatkantahan3487 Před 2 měsíci +3

    often times, we choose the person who we love the most than people who love us the most. I did all these but the trouble is, I suddenly got used to being all by myself, flying like a free bird and enjoy a life that I've deprived myself with while trying to survive in that barren relationship before. I am happier, seeing my own value, and respecting myself the way I should without the need to beg for attention or love from a numb person.

  • @remya7604
    @remya7604 Před 4 měsíci +8

    It's tiring to be in a position when we are not emotionally connected and get blamed for being "Sensitive"/" Over expectations"!!! Thanks for the tips!

  • @dejaysam
    @dejaysam Před 4 lety +3065

    By the time I do all of these, I'll probably be over him.

  • @VickyVeeJonas
    @VickyVeeJonas Před 5 lety +2962

    Ladies, you can never please a man!!! That’s it!!!

  • @anitapoudel4061
    @anitapoudel4061 Před rokem +39

    Love means where you can be yourself and still he/she adores you. You dont need to have any strategies with the one who is in love with you. You can be yourself and express your flaws. Dont ever stress about relationships, if its meant to be it will find its way, we need to focus on ourselves and our growth.

    • @debodastechtutorials
      @debodastechtutorials Před 6 měsíci

      I don't agree with you... No matter how good the guy is if you are always available for him he will take you for granted... Be it anyone... You don't value the thing which you have every day

  • @trishatinker3625
    @trishatinker3625 Před 8 měsíci +5

    He already said that he had to lose me to realize how much he loved me over&over !!!

  • @sarahrollins7648
    @sarahrollins7648 Před 4 lety +1897

    Ladies the only weight you need to lose is the man that doesn't appreciate you unless you do it for yourself!

    • @facundodarriel4185
      @facundodarriel4185 Před 4 lety +19

      So you get to gain a bunch of weight and he has to be ok with it. 😂 the ego is too real!!

    • @hikingnw4030
      @hikingnw4030 Před 4 lety +13

      As a woman, I always stay in shape by exercising. When you take great care of your body, you aren't dependent upon someone else's ideals. A woman in shape is extremely sexy and can wear beautiful clothes. There's nothing that helps reduce stress than working out on a daily basis.

    • @MsAlexb
      @MsAlexb Před 4 lety +2

      I think it was more self love here in this vid. But I can see why it can look like this... even if you exercise just to shape up and be in better health xx

    • @80sbaby90
      @80sbaby90 Před 3 lety +1

      💯

    • @messedup8763
      @messedup8763 Před 3 lety +11

      @@facundodarriel4185 if a woman is ok with a man gaining weight a man should be too, because if he doesn't want to change anything why do you have to? it's not worth it. It's only worth it if another person is trying hard for you too. And if you are not shallow you don't care about things like weight as a turnoff (if you are a man or a woman), only about health aspects of it. Though some shallow people pretend they care about health, but in reality they care how you look. If you think it's ok to try hard for someone who doesn't the ego is to real!!!;)

  • @charleneeckstein7213
    @charleneeckstein7213 Před 4 lety +1060

    You will never be good enough for the wrong guy. Do you, and the right man will come along.

    • @Msbabyl0n
      @Msbabyl0n Před 4 lety +1

      This is so true..

    • @missv92
      @missv92 Před 4 lety +1

      Agree with you

    • @ruthwondie8234
      @ruthwondie8234 Před 4 lety

      yes,ofcourse

    • @tamerakennedy6893
      @tamerakennedy6893 Před 4 lety +2

      I’m starting not to believe in a “right” guy. They’ve all been trash in the end

    • @nakawooyaprossy4323
      @nakawooyaprossy4323 Před 4 lety

      @B B can he help you even when you are from another country? Coz I'm in uganda

  • @beautifulmamas3772
    @beautifulmamas3772 Před 3 lety +63

    These are great ideas. I did all these with my husband who took me for granted for many years......trust me sis it works. All these along with prayer. It works. Thanks Sir Antonio👌

    • @josephinenangonzi9564
      @josephinenangonzi9564 Před 2 lety +5

      key word!!*with prayers*thanks sis

    • @Bert_de_Wit
      @Bert_de_Wit Před rokem

      What nonsense. Just be good to him and he'll feel your value. If not, you married a loser. Praying and hoping is gonna get you absolutely nowhere.

    • @TheWilDOn31
      @TheWilDOn31 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@Bert_de_Wit😂😂 let me guess: no relationship experience?

    • @Bert_de_Wit
      @Bert_de_Wit Před 8 měsíci

      @@TheWilDOn31 😂. Try married for 20 years, and still going strong!

    • @user-lb2do7wp1l
      @user-lb2do7wp1l Před 2 měsíci

      Well said along with prayer

  • @andrearoman7999
    @andrearoman7999 Před měsícem +1

    My long distant bf started blowing up my phone the first weeks now he burly texts me back he was honest and kind smart on letting me know that he was losing interest because we are a part and not in the same boat but he still wants me to be there for him so now I’m going to keep myself protected and prioritizing myself.

  • @caribaez5711
    @caribaez5711 Před 5 lety +1749

    Basically, in short, love yourself first. :-)

  • @aeiou37
    @aeiou37 Před 5 lety +1695

    No matter how good you are ,
    You can always be replaced.😢😞

  • @rbb8943
    @rbb8943 Před 3 lety +8

    This is the one video that hit home. 100% accurate. The most powerful phrase was, "if he doesn't fear losing you, he'll never fully commit." I've been with someone I would tell for 5 years that he was the one and I would never leave him. Of course, he left me eventually, and still thinks I'll be there whenever he wants. Not now...I've moved on. Lesson learned.

  • @pennywilson7940
    @pennywilson7940 Před rokem +1

    I absolutely believe in that statement. I also believe more that no one will love or believe in you if/until you love and believe in yourself.

  • @momoelsharief6200
    @momoelsharief6200 Před 4 lety +2170

    Honestly this the truest thing I've ever seen... I had a boyfriend for 4 years and all I did was make him feel safe and loved and was always there for him and devoted my life to him... but hear me out ladies, when men feel safe and feel like they got you, they'll take you for granted and some might even start looking at other girls and lose interest in you....
    After I left my boyfriend I met this guy and did exactly what this video says, make your man fear losing you, that's the only way they stay and will always appreciate you, they would always love you and would do anything just so that they don't lose you... never let love make you weak and devote yourself to a man, live your life and make him a part of your life, don't make him all your life... don't make my mistake 💔

    • @ashleyvazquez6293
      @ashleyvazquez6293 Před 4 lety +11

      Momo Elsharief did you’re ex boyfriend of 4 years ever tried getting back with you?

    • @momoelsharief6200
      @momoelsharief6200 Před 4 lety +43

      @@ashleyvazquez6293 yes he did... but it was too late

    • @makoreamartin2585
      @makoreamartin2585 Před 4 lety +18

      Thanks for sharing ur story

    • @mariaacheul5319
      @mariaacheul5319 Před 4 lety +3

      truuu

    • @freetobemusic
      @freetobemusic Před 4 lety +37

      If fear is what holds a relationship together and not love.. What happens when fear is no longer enough because he realizes there is a abundance of females that are actually not bitter from the past and wants to be his comfort and build him up where you're failing to do... Fear isn't the answer.

  • @bluefox5976
    @bluefox5976 Před 4 lety +613

    Why should we do this? Too much effort for someone that doesnt give a damn. Just leave the fool.

    • @brendaawinja3821
      @brendaawinja3821 Před 4 lety +20

      Exactly, even the all pretty ones are cheated on

    • @riyasunarart
      @riyasunarart Před 3 lety +13

      This just to make self realise about how important you are to yourself. Because when you fully in the process of self love. You will eventually get over him, easy enough to say him fuck off!! Man!!

    • @mcdonaldscharlotte5788
      @mcdonaldscharlotte5788 Před 3 lety

      Okay I can recommend you to a woman who can help you get your love ex back

    • @mbalimphaka1502
      @mbalimphaka1502 Před 3 lety +1

      Riya Sunar I totally agree with you.... these points directs one to self love

    • @zuoweriikidi385
      @zuoweriikidi385 Před 3 lety +8

      I wonder why there no video of how to please a woman,can't a man lose weight for his bae n look glamorous to us, I damm tired of way to please him,let him please me

  • @maeramos4050
    @maeramos4050 Před 3 lety +1

    THIS ARE THE ANSWERS TO MY QUESTIONS. THANKS, DOC! U'RE SO AMAZING!

  • @chicabebeh2135
    @chicabebeh2135 Před 3 lety +2

    Absolutely right, this is I’m doing right now to become best version of me

  • @shamilasingh2168
    @shamilasingh2168 Před 4 lety +662

    show less interest in him, that will wake him up.

    • @shanekamcdonald669
      @shanekamcdonald669 Před 4 lety +6

      So true

    • @iyanyang8869
      @iyanyang8869 Před 3 lety +4

      How? Tips😂

    • @Anicake17
      @Anicake17 Před 3 lety +1

      HOW‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

    • @emerald442
      @emerald442 Před 3 lety

      tips??

    • @loveadvicetv8080
      @loveadvicetv8080 Před 3 lety

      @@emerald442
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  • @daliavg1
    @daliavg1 Před 5 lety +586

    If you’re having to do all these things, then the relationship is over. There’s no love anymore, it’s time to move on.

    • @sanjana8357
      @sanjana8357 Před 4 lety +20

      Move on ? Move on to wat , to whom ? To another man ?? Then when the other one will do the same , ull move on again ? Nope dr , it doesnt work like dis.. u shud try yr best to save your relationship if u really love ur bf.. u shud kno that.. u cant deny the fact that being beautiful , plays a very important in everyone's life.. ofcourse any man would want her girl to glow.. to look beautiful... its a normal thing , mayB some r not like dis but most of thm r like dis.. so u shud just accpt the fact of how he is.. cause its said naa, that u shud love someone however he is, u shudnt try to chnge him/her..
      & my dr , u dont nid to change urself.. if u really love someone , ull be automarically changed.. 😍 kip loving ❤

    • @odunayoolajide5779
      @odunayoolajide5779 Před 4 lety

      Exactly

    • @anniemarie8577
      @anniemarie8577 Před 4 lety

      Bang!!

    • @veronicaalmeda8014
      @veronicaalmeda8014 Před 4 lety +12

      @@sanjana8357 You don't have to move on to another man. You can be perfectly happy just by yourself all single. Having a partner doesn't always mean happiness, joy and sharing.

    • @sanjana8357
      @sanjana8357 Před 4 lety +4

      @@veronicaalmeda8014 yes dear.. if someone wants to move on , she better be alone.. u said it well , but move on to another man to forget someone else is totally bullshit..

  • @cinderelladlamini8163
    @cinderelladlamini8163 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Videos like this are very helpful in times of need and feel all alone. Or don't have anyone to share with. It is really helpful

  • @jenniferlyn6979
    @jenniferlyn6979 Před rokem +4

    Thank you. I needed this direction as I’m lost after 4 years together, no ring or discussion of a future. Dates stopped, too comfortable.

  • @vizii8111
    @vizii8111 Před 5 lety +2715

    Men are too complicated and get bored too easy, I'm out!

    • @magymaxy
      @magymaxy Před 5 lety +26

      Exactly

    • @oishibhattacharjee3517
      @oishibhattacharjee3517 Před 5 lety +24

      Not exactly bored they actually get frustrated bcz of us doing some things which we think we have done right but it's not actually that for him . Men's don't share there likes and dislikes for that they use to suffer what we couldn't understand nd repeate the same mistake atlast they stop loving us nd we get more frustrated on them lastly it turns into brkup

    • @oishibhattacharjee3517
      @oishibhattacharjee3517 Před 5 lety +5

      If u love someone want to stay him forever with u ask him bfr u do as if they do the same with us in the 1st stage if both of the couples can go parallely takeing the same step then it will go smoothly or else u will or they will b a gap which can form distance miscommunication or misunderstanding

    • @oishibhattacharjee3517
      @oishibhattacharjee3517 Před 5 lety +5

      If u have already messed it out then wait for him to come to or u can take steps back for b parallel with him

    • @oishibhattacharjee3517
      @oishibhattacharjee3517 Před 5 lety +2

      Rst this video can help u all

  • @stephaniekay9597
    @stephaniekay9597 Před 5 lety +390

    Anyone who has to keep their partner in a Perpetual state of fear for losing them, just to be loved and appreciated, should find a different partner. That's no way to live.

    • @a.k.williams9775
      @a.k.williams9775 Před 4 lety

      Right!

    • @esotera2871
      @esotera2871 Před 4 lety +6

      That's the way believe men are not emotional like us they want to own you but also to work while trying . Do not make him feel like you are going to be always available for him with open arms

    • @odunayoolajide5779
      @odunayoolajide5779 Před 4 lety

      Lol. True

    • @veronicaalmeda8014
      @veronicaalmeda8014 Před 4 lety +3

      @@esotera2871 That is bs!. Men are very emotional, they have a terrible issue with showing such emotions. Society places on them the idea that they have to be in control of themselves and their decisions all the time. Just because they have a hard time expressing their emotions it doesn't mean they don't have them.

    • @purplebutterfly7257
      @purplebutterfly7257 Před 4 lety +3

      I agree and it seems like head games/emotional abuse for a woman to do that to a man (and vice versa) it just doesn’t seem right I’m sorry I know Most of you ladies will not agree with what I’m saying but I honestly believe it’s true

  • @aminatathullah653
    @aminatathullah653 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much for everything this advice will help me a long way

  • @LilDemonWitch
    @LilDemonWitch Před 3 lety

    Omg thank you so much this answered all my questions!!:) good job:)

  • @marjoriebatalla1581
    @marjoriebatalla1581 Před 4 lety +628

    If a man really loves you - no matter what the situation is, no matter how you look, HE WILL STAY WITH YOU. If God gave you that man, then definitely no one or nothing can stand against your relationship! 😊 No efforts needed. No force nor pleasing needed. Thats it!

    • @freetobelieve4850
      @freetobelieve4850 Před 4 lety +4

      Marjorie Batalla Amen

    • @jihaneakabbal430
      @jihaneakabbal430 Před 4 lety +6

      Amen

    • @MissKiki254
      @MissKiki254 Před 4 lety +2

      Ameeen

    • @annalizagarcia620
      @annalizagarcia620 Před 4 lety +6

      Marjorie Batalla - in reality , it’s very rare to happen. Relationship should always show continuity to boost high esteem and remain to be as confident as we can be in ourselves. Since in general, physical attraction comes first and second to check his character. So, we need to always find in love with each other not only emotionally but also physically. This is the reality of life. 🤲

    • @geetasart2294
      @geetasart2294 Před 4 lety +11

      Efforts needed from both side

  • @louisereyes1519
    @louisereyes1519 Před 4 lety +326

    I dont know why Im watching these on 3 am crying 😭

    • @blake845
      @blake845 Před 4 lety +7

      Louise Reyes 𝑴𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝑺𝒆𝒍𝒇 𝑳𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒅𝒂𝒓𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒈

    • @user-kl6fg5ho7t
      @user-kl6fg5ho7t Před 4 lety +4

      We're same😭😭😭

    • @sanasiddiqua9507
      @sanasiddiqua9507 Před 3 lety +2

      Come on dont cry💖💖

  • @cababanuaprincessallyza8442

    I have done this in the past.... Not only he's afraid of losing me but I redeemed my self esteem.

  • @patricadyson778
    @patricadyson778 Před rokem +1

    I agree let them think that you are not thinking about them all the time.

  • @chuvachuchu6909
    @chuvachuchu6909 Před 5 lety +1113

    To sum it all up, ladies, just know your worth. If the man doesn't appreciate you, so be it, and let him be. Who cares about him anyway when I believe there are still better fishes in the sea. Don't force yourself to be loved by someone who doesn't really love you unconditionally. Pray to find a man who deserves to have you and truly loves you, not you keeping everything up just for a jerk. It's not worth it, ladies.

    • @chuvachuchu6909
      @chuvachuchu6909 Před 5 lety +6

      @@AntonioBorrello Thanks. Really appreciate your response. God bless.

    • @charlielovebug1668
      @charlielovebug1668 Před 5 lety +13

      Antonio is right sometime u have to show ur Man what he can lose, and some women do get comfortable in a relationship and let themselves go. What u did to get him u must continue to keep him.

    • @charlielovebug1668
      @charlielovebug1668 Před 5 lety +15

      But if no changes are made, then it’s time to BOUNCE✌🏽.. walk away from unworthy to Worthiness 🙌🏽

    • @moniccutting5184
      @moniccutting5184 Před 5 lety +10

      Freya Judah love your comment 🙏🏽
      I just broke up with my fiancé after 4 years together.!
      I choose to walk away from him because he never appreciate me.!
      Like I’m the only one always making mistake no respect only anger.! I’ve been trying to fix problems but still not good enough for him
      Yes true there are still better fishes in the sea. This my best friend always told me.! Xx

    • @aashibhatnagar3892
      @aashibhatnagar3892 Před 5 lety +2

      Well said

  • @beccawu967
    @beccawu967 Před 4 lety +312

    When you’re single and watching this at 12am while eating cup noodles for “future reference”

  • @kimt8162
    @kimt8162 Před rokem +2

    He's right. I dated a guy for 5 years; I thought we were on the right path. Wrong. I needed to address issues after year 1. He was so nice, we never argued, but things didn't progress to a ring. Then when I brought up engagement; because I waited longer, it made the conversation worse. You need to have relationship goals, and he needs to meet those goals. And if you have kids, keep up a "date night". He's right about the social life. I did things with his family, his brother, and his friends; thinking I was making myself more of his life. It was opposite. I needed to do less of that until we were actually "family, committed". I needed to have my own time, my own interests.....and keep him at bay sometimes.

  • @isithunywasamadlozi3189
    @isithunywasamadlozi3189 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Best advice ever, you’ve just gained a subscriber. I’m also gonna hit that notification button ❤

  • @chenisekuroiwa4047
    @chenisekuroiwa4047 Před 5 lety +198

    I tell this to ALL my girlfriends! Always focus on yourself and being the best version of you. Then everything else falls into place.

  • @myownlittleworld9216
    @myownlittleworld9216 Před 5 lety +1762

    1. Let go of your anger and stop feeling unappreciated.
    2. Prioritise your fitness.
    3. Glamorise your look.
    4. Ressurect your social life outside of his.
    5. Connect with him on an emotional level.
    6. Have the talk when the time is right.
    7. Be willing to walk away.

    • @karrielarr3683
      @karrielarr3683 Před 5 lety +1

      Heena Artist can you please send this to me? I’d greatly appreciate it if you could. Thank you

    • @rileysmiley9585
      @rileysmiley9585 Před 5 lety +2

      Yep...this is the recipe

    • @mariamistretta3860
      @mariamistretta3860 Před 5 lety +2

      Most these things is easy to do. Some guys can't accept change expect things cannot to be like the past. I Don't tolerate judge labeling crizing comparing that past guy does.
      If a guy is blind sided then that his own issues and not mind.

    • @mariamistretta3860
      @mariamistretta3860 Před 5 lety +2

      @@AntonioBorrelloso agree with you Antonio. So force on myself and not some guy who is Resetful of me and those people who are not good enough guy for me. They are not nice either way and there egos pride in themselves and make a change and stand up for myself and ingore bullies online and force on myself do what best from me, be myself confident esstem brave self help self discipline self challenges self respect self respect self guided self optimist self expression self independent self understanding self improvement and not a man who can commitment either way unless you give him a cake he commits to junk food.

    • @alinac2918
      @alinac2918 Před 5 lety +2

      Best advice!

  • @christieheller420
    @christieheller420 Před 28 dny

    I really needed to hear this right now thank you!! I’ve been too available and treating my man way too good. He knows I’m not going anywhere. I’m going to try this right now.

  • @delaninissen6484
    @delaninissen6484 Před 3 lety +1

    Agree! Definitely! Have tried these very same things and they work!

  • @prittyugly86
    @prittyugly86 Před 5 lety +484

    Pro tip: how to make him fear losing you, don't fear losing him! How to make him not lose interest in you: have more interest in yourself than him!
    Easy peasy we are the prizzzze!

    • @debbievilleda5500
      @debbievilleda5500 Před 5 lety +3

      That's was said perfect .

    • @nkem4real773
      @nkem4real773 Před 5 lety +2

      U are so so correct like my , because i noticed he is charting , he changed his character and methods as well; i also noted his new method he now changed fully giving excuses like: coming home late , he doesn't call me like d way he does, when we go out he distances me from so how do i go about it

    • @prittyugly86
      @prittyugly86 Před 5 lety +1

      @@nkem4real773 there is a book called "ignore the guy get the guy"... changed my life. Most libraries have it.

    • @prittyugly86
      @prittyugly86 Před 5 lety +11

      @@nkem4real773 be so busy with things you enjoy you forget he didn't call you. Fill your to do list and complete the task so if he comes home late he's not even on your mind. Go hang with cool friends or do something you like alone without him. The trick is to be so mindful with your life he is not on your mind at all. When your not thinking about him he will know and do things to try and get back on your mind. But only let him in if he's doing things that show he cares.

    • @gingerred5944
      @gingerred5944 Před 5 lety

      Well said!💫 👏👍👌

  • @jyanalice
    @jyanalice Před 4 lety +362

    Bottom line: focus on yourself, just you, love yourself.. focus on being the best version of you everyday. love will come, attention will come on your way.. :) :) remember that the best guy doesn't focus on the physical look, but the overall

    • @sumedhkanha7651
      @sumedhkanha7651 Před 2 lety +1

      Andin this cruel world these type of man is too rare rarer then the vrtiically endarged species

    • @isahyahayaadinoyi5914
      @isahyahayaadinoyi5914 Před 2 lety

      I recommend you to father joe his spells and manifestations are the best💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @isahyahayaadinoyi5914
      @isahyahayaadinoyi5914 Před 2 lety

      He can help you manifest whomever or whatever you want to manifest within 24 hours no delay just as he helped me 💯💯💯💯

    • @isahyahayaadinoyi5914
      @isahyahayaadinoyi5914 Před 2 lety

      What sapp him

    • @isahyahayaadinoyi5914
      @isahyahayaadinoyi5914 Před 2 lety

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  • @AbigailAmponsah-lb6bb
    @AbigailAmponsah-lb6bb Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you very much for the idea

  • @tianiemitchell5692
    @tianiemitchell5692 Před 2 lety

    Thank you. I appreciate your thoughtfulness.

  • @sophiajoseph3169
    @sophiajoseph3169 Před 5 lety +117

    If he doesn't already love and care about you, he's NOT going to care about losing you... you deserve better, be at peace ♡

    • @mizzum478
      @mizzum478 Před 5 lety +4

      Sophia Joseph Then there is men like my husband. Who is 100% secure in our relationship. I don’t know if he’s ever been jealous before. He shows appreciation and does things for me/buy things for me etc bc he loves me. Not because he is scared of me leaving him. That is a real man. Not like those boys who only treat you well because they are “afraid of losing you”.
      I can literally have lunch/dinner with an ex and he doesn’t care because he TRUSTS me.

    • @sophiajoseph3169
      @sophiajoseph3169 Před 5 lety +1

      @@mizzum478 well I'm glad that you've found him. 😇

    • @fiametaferede7428
      @fiametaferede7428 Před 4 lety +1

      Agree

  • @georgiegirl4532
    @georgiegirl4532 Před 4 lety +206

    So stop saying what’s on your mind and start looking hotter?! Brilliant.

  • @helenarichard
    @helenarichard Před rokem +4

    It's true. My ex of 4 years only started noticing me when I walked away, started looking glamorous on social media, flirty, lost weight, fixed my life,... He started snooping everywhere, out of the blue, after a year of stonewalling me. It's too late though, I found the man of my dreams and he wants to marry me in time.

  • @anguciajuliet1017
    @anguciajuliet1017 Před 4 měsíci

    This is exactly the video that I have been looking for

  • @jamiesmith2724
    @jamiesmith2724 Před 4 lety +150

    Plot twist, Started working out, now engaged to the trainer.

  • @sharondwyer8513
    @sharondwyer8513 Před 5 lety +574

    He let me go & thats okay. Life goes on 👊❤

    • @memoryrinehart4452
      @memoryrinehart4452 Před 5 lety +10

      I feel for you. His loss...

    • @sharondwyer8513
      @sharondwyer8513 Před 5 lety

      @@memoryrinehart4452 ty ❤

    • @RamyaVnkt
      @RamyaVnkt Před 5 lety +5

      Something amazing will come your way for sure!♥️

    • @sharondwyer8513
      @sharondwyer8513 Před 5 lety +4

      @holymosesjew you are absolutely right! My pic was taken 2 years ago when I was trying to be someone I wasn't. I never wore much make up when I first met him. Since the break up I stopped layering on the make up & gone back to natural.

    • @sharondwyer8513
      @sharondwyer8513 Před 5 lety

      @@RamyaVnkt ty ❤

  • @rosemariemendoza5210
    @rosemariemendoza5210 Před 3 lety

    I love how calm you can be👑

  • @mahwishkhan5466
    @mahwishkhan5466 Před rokem

    I absolutely agree with u. And ur video was amazing

  • @elvirataylor-pearce7278
    @elvirataylor-pearce7278 Před 4 lety +155

    The only thing I can say is don't ever I mean EVER get attached to a man
    It won't go well for u

    • @beccareynolds4625
      @beccareynolds4625 Před 4 lety +1

      Elvira Taylor-Pearce yes very true

    • @ndlathaa
      @ndlathaa Před 3 lety +3

      Very crisps advice.. ...
      As someone said in one of the comments
      You will never be right for the wrong guy ....better walk out of the relationship

    • @cecilianzisa9020
      @cecilianzisa9020 Před 3 lety +3

      @@ndlathaa tht's cool, being single is much better thn being in the wrong relationship

    • @shatariholmes6063
      @shatariholmes6063 Před 3 lety +1

      I feel like that all I been through and going through right now.....I'm losing it

    • @mcdonaldscharlotte5788
      @mcdonaldscharlotte5788 Před 3 lety

      Okay message Mama femi ogumekwu for help

  • @Stormybandit
    @Stormybandit Před 4 lety +329

    This made me realize I don't enjoy my husband enough to do all this. 😆
    Edit: I left my husband 7/2/2020

  • @ashleygreen6038
    @ashleygreen6038 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you making this video im new to your channel & this was very helpful can't wait to see more💖💖💖

  • @efefloxy6224
    @efefloxy6224 Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks so much for this teachings
    I really learnt a lot ❤

  • @laken1804
    @laken1804 Před 5 lety +204

    The best thing is to get a life. Have few hobbies that you enjoy doing, when he stops to appreciate you, plan a trip that involves activities you truly love.

  • @chinniea9333
    @chinniea9333 Před 4 lety +1126

    Stay single. Period. 😂

  • @lyssialindsay6803
    @lyssialindsay6803 Před 3 lety +3

    I'm at stage #3, it's working ☺️. Thank you

  • @santasiaanthony4688
    @santasiaanthony4688 Před 11 měsíci

    Thank you thank you thank you, your advice is spot on and really works! Helped me a lot!

  • @virginiahamac5851
    @virginiahamac5851 Před 5 lety +123

    Love your self first, before loving someone who will aceept you

    • @hassankhalilzadeh5158
      @hassankhalilzadeh5158 Před 5 lety

      As man, I agree with him 100%. That's something exactly happens to me after 24 years of marriage. I finally respect and pay attention to my wife after I felt I am about losing her. This guy is genious.

  • @coco0249
    @coco0249 Před 5 lety +67

    There's no strategy in relationships, you can do things right and the relationship will fail still.
    No human plan can keep the relationship

  • @lspuglisi
    @lspuglisi Před 4 měsíci +1

    These tips make a lot of sense. It'd be difficult not being appreciated by a partner. If after doing these tips, the partner still doesn't care, life's too short to stay with that person and feel sad. It's time to value ourselves and hopefully find a relationship in which we value each other. We can't change others just ourselves.

  • @randomperson360
    @randomperson360 Před rokem +16

    Basically stop letting yourself go. Remember who you are! Self care dress up feel good! Radiate that gorgeous energy you’ve always had deep down! Gonna work on doing that again :)

  • @victoriousexotik_eurobornb3

    I told my ex that happiness is a choice and I will be happy with or without him!

  • @leanavanaswegen7456
    @leanavanaswegen7456 Před 4 lety +54

    If you treat me like a joke? Il leave you like it’s funny!

  • @joyfenwick1841
    @joyfenwick1841 Před 2 lety

    Oh thank you for this video
    This is what I needed

  • @maryrosebautista7580
    @maryrosebautista7580 Před 3 lety

    I'll always watching your tips thank you for sharing

  • @dianachikumbirike3965
    @dianachikumbirike3965 Před 5 lety +94

    Be willing to walk away

  • @oliverkhoo
    @oliverkhoo Před 4 lety +99

    1. Let go of your anger and stop talking about feeling unappreciated
    2. Prioritize your fitness
    3. Glamorise your look
    4. Ressurrect your social life
    5. Connect with him emotionally
    6. Talk when the time is right
    7. Be willing to walk away

    • @salpivasquez137
      @salpivasquez137 Před 8 měsíci +2

      All these things you wrote are easier said than done I don't need to work so hard at keeping someone in my life, it should be more simple. This is too much work for me. I'd rather the person leave my life I don't care. I don't need a shallow man in my life.

  • @Arpu123
    @Arpu123 Před 10 měsíci

    thank you❤ I needed this🙏🏻

  • @nikitakraya7659
    @nikitakraya7659 Před 4 lety +108

    This also made me realise how important it is to have time to yourself(self discovery) and inner peace 🙇‍♀️💆‍♀️.

    • @himanshusarda138
      @himanshusarda138 Před 4 lety +1

      Do you need help?

    • @blake845
      @blake845 Před 4 lety

      Nomkhitha Kraya 𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒆 𝑺𝒆𝒍𝒇𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆

  • @ayaobagele2193
    @ayaobagele2193 Před 5 lety +229

    The 3nd day I walk away from him is already in restaurant with another lady, so painful 😭. He came back after 10 days FORGIVENESS and to try again but I said NO😭😭 . I missed him, he is my joy but he doesn't appreciate me. So am trying to move on without him. Doctor Antonio thank you so much .

    • @forestoflove9322
      @forestoflove9322 Před 5 lety +9

      So sorry , be strong , hugs.

    • @barbaratucker2924
      @barbaratucker2924 Před 5 lety +12

      I commend your strength...you should be proud, you have shown him "you value yourself"...

    • @bhavnasharma143
      @bhavnasharma143 Před 5 lety +2

      It is true what you shared but to move on its difficult. ....Doc😏

    • @Phosy2024
      @Phosy2024 Před 5 lety +1

      So sorry. But its like he had moved on whilst you were still with him

    • @ayaobagele2193
      @ayaobagele2193 Před 5 lety +5

      @@Phosy2024 very very difficult, am still crying every day, I want him bck but I will move on without him.
      Am bck to gym and work bck.

  • @Sunshine-tm9fs
    @Sunshine-tm9fs Před 6 měsíci

    Super analysis! Thks😊

  • @lydiakehiloe544
    @lydiakehiloe544 Před rokem

    Wow! I'm a man watching this and it makes so much sense. The content here is honest. Keep it up man👍

  • @TheSandrafabian
    @TheSandrafabian Před 5 lety +790

    Haha, my boyfriend asked " Why are you always working out and having your hair done and doing things to make it grow more? Something going on." And when I'm working, he asks"Why are you always wearing skirts and have make-up on now? You never wore make-up before and now you don't go to work without it or without heels. I work at district court and he knows I'm surrounded by lawyers, successful handsome men like him. He calls me at my lunch time now and worries if I don't talk to him. I love it because he texts me more often and is more attentive and romantic.

    • @joyceamoah26
      @joyceamoah26 Před 5 lety +9

      Great job 💞👍

    • @purplebutterfly7257
      @purplebutterfly7257 Před 5 lety +58

      Ummm. That might become an obsession and control issue... be careful what you wish for

    • @lulalula7120
      @lulalula7120 Před 5 lety +2

      😀😀

    • @purplebutterfly7257
      @purplebutterfly7257 Před 5 lety +6

      HoneyChild56 That’s not a good situation for you to be in

    • @TheSandrafabian
      @TheSandrafabian Před 5 lety +23

      @HoneyChild56
      Harmless "jealousy" is good. I mean when your man feels he can lose you because you know your worth, are a quality woman, want but don't need him, and other men are attracted to you and/or pursue you, he will value you a lot more and will treat you like the beautiful queen that you are. Now, be careful-- there's a difference between possessiveness, control, and harmless jealousy, which is the fear to lose you and subsequently, putting real effort into the relationship and you. Please, do pay attention to controlling and possessive behavior 🙂

  • @vnsmur31
    @vnsmur31 Před 5 lety +170

    I've done all of these! It works...my husband of 22 years is all over me!

    • @linnatbu5603
      @linnatbu5603 Před 5 lety +3

      🙄🙄...rolling my eyes cuz this dude right here is starting to get on my last nerves!!...I'm starting 2ask myself y I'm still with him...we got engaged after a yr1/2 of dating, he's gotten so used to me that he thinks I'm a joke sometimes just cuz I'm not that much of a risk taker as he is😟😏

    • @thewildthingswithtara9931
      @thewildthingswithtara9931 Před 5 lety +9

      LiNdA MB please don’t marry him like I did. I’m on my way to divorce. Don’t ignore the red flags. You’ll have a miserable life.

    • @MrsJonesBeauty76
      @MrsJonesBeauty76 Před 5 lety

      Thank you, I was wondering if these would work for marriages👍🏾

    • @BOSSLADIESGLOBAL
      @BOSSLADIESGLOBAL Před 4 lety +1

      So do I

    • @loveslife7334
      @loveslife7334 Před 4 lety +1

      Starlite Moon -That’s fantastic!
      Congratulations ❤️

  • @marnieheeleyray1457
    @marnieheeleyray1457 Před 3 lety +33

    Good stuff Antonio!!!
    At age 50 I,m only begginning to understand the dance of love! Love yourself and don't FEAR sharing love, it will always come back to you somehow. Maybe in ways we didn't expect, how exciting! LOVE

    • @maxscot4236
      @maxscot4236 Před 3 lety

      Hello do you need help? I know of someone who can help you just as he did mine, he helped me get my ex back

    • @maxscot4236
      @maxscot4236 Před 3 lety

      Text him on WhatsApp

    • @maxscot4236
      @maxscot4236 Před 3 lety

      +234,815,689,6436

    • @isahyahayaadinoyi5914
      @isahyahayaadinoyi5914 Před 2 lety

      I recommend you to father joe his spells and manifestations are the best💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @isahyahayaadinoyi5914
      @isahyahayaadinoyi5914 Před 2 lety

      He can help you manifest whomever or whatever you want to manifest within 24 hours no delay just as he helped me 💯💯💯💯

  • @kangkanabora5366
    @kangkanabora5366 Před 11 měsíci

    Thanks ❤️ much needed ✨

  • @sheilahunter6232
    @sheilahunter6232 Před 5 lety +394

    Love yourself and don’t worry about your man. Act or think like him.

    • @Vi-ys5hx
      @Vi-ys5hx Před 5 lety +13

      “Act like a woman n think like a man”

    • @laraibniazi9197
      @laraibniazi9197 Před 5 lety +1

      After marry all mans are change

    • @sheilahunter6232
      @sheilahunter6232 Před 5 lety +6

      Kimii - no act like a man. Woman is very emotional and vulnerable. Show your man you can live without him.

    • @sheilahunter6232
      @sheilahunter6232 Před 5 lety +2

      Laraib Niazi - true. Don’t get married stays single forever.

    • @irenenjeri4633
      @irenenjeri4633 Před 5 lety +2

      Sheila Hunter very true say it again...

  • @tubabutt168
    @tubabutt168 Před 4 lety +67

    I just realized, that's all he was doing to me. And that's why I'm so obsessed with him.

    • @llnn0011
      @llnn0011 Před 4 lety +1

      Tee bee's Channel that’s exactly me and my bf

    • @vixenvalenzuela
      @vixenvalenzuela Před 3 lety

      Did you end up leaving him?

    • @lizeth987
      @lizeth987 Před 3 lety

      Same here is not funny :/

  • @meganmills5239
    @meganmills5239 Před rokem

    I love this! Thank you

  • @sarbjitkaur485
    @sarbjitkaur485 Před rokem +3

    I think all the things won’t work if he is not in love with you anymore,its not always good to try out the things like this sometimes it’s better to leave

  • @MsStarlet21
    @MsStarlet21 Před 4 lety +11

    Idk how we ever made it without youtube. I use CZcams for entertainment, friends, therapy lol literally CZcams is everything..

  • @swetznelson6984
    @swetznelson6984 Před 4 lety +37

    I learned a lot about him, now I'm losing him so I move on,, I love my self,

  • @muneeramasood7574
    @muneeramasood7574 Před 3 lety

    Very Good Counselling Sir.

  • @cynthiauche2502
    @cynthiauche2502 Před 10 měsíci

    Wow! This is amazing 😊😊😊😊

  • @futureless.
    @futureless. Před 4 lety +679

    if you need such videos you're not in a healthy relationship