The Ultimate Declutter 2024 Series: Get Rid of Chaos Now!
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- Are you feeling overwhelmed by all the clutter in your home? Well, it's time to declutter now! In this series, I'm sharing my efforts to declutter our home and lives in a matter of 12 weeks.... because we have to move house!.
With the help of this declutter 2024 series, the goal is to get rid of all the clutter in my home and live a cleaner, more organised life. Watch the video and start decluttering today! Cheer me on or join me as I get #ruthless with the things in my home.
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Nothing is "wrong" with you. You are just a product of this era, upbringing, experiences and the society that surrounds you. Becoming aware of that will be the first step to recognise the many ways you are being influenced and pushed in one direction or another, and then you can start working against that tide. I repeat: nothing is wrong with you!
Thank you so much for sharing this! It's a reminder that we shouldn't be too hard on ourselves. We are all products of our environment, and understanding that can lead to self-acceptance and growth. Thanks so much for taking the time to watch and comment ❤️ Mel ps.... your words may have been made me have a little teary deary - I do appreciate your encouragement.
I truly believe you need systems. Systems will stop you from having to do massive cleanups. Sent with love and personal experience xxx
100% agree. I think a system of decluttering is my likely first step? Get rid of the surplus - then create systems around maintaining them is key. I appreciate your suggestion:-)
Fresh start lovely!!!!! I’ve moved 16 times since 2006, after spending my whole childhood in the one place (my family home) I am extremely sentimental and used to be a huge hoarder. But moving every few years has made me much better at it, and keep telling myself “fresh start; I don’t want to be responsible for this item anymore, bye!!!!”
I’m sending you so much love and the rental crisis is terrifying (we rent too) sending strength!!!
Wow, 16 moves since 2006? You must be a pro by now! I totally get the sentimental attachment to things, but sometimes it's just time to say "bye" and move on. Sending you virtual moving boxes and good vibes! I hope I can be ruthless.
You can do it! A roof over your family's head is more important than any physical item you could possess. Our home is small by American standards, only 1200 SF, so we have to be intentional with what we keep and what we let go.
You're absolutely right! Our home might be small, but it's cozy and filled with love. Plus, it's less square footage to clean, so that's a win in my book!
Like you, my mum held onto lots of things. Recently they downloaded from a large house to a small bungalow. For years, id been saying to mum, the less stuff u have, the quicker cleaning is and the easier it is to find stuff and keep it tidy. We helped my parents declutter significantly before they moved and since moving in, she’s continued as shes realised the less stuff she has the easier it is to move around in the space and clean. Each time she puts an item of clothing on, if she finds it doesnt suit/damaged/ uncomfortable/ doesnt fit right she lets it go. Slowly but surely, she is going thru everything. However, that initial declutter makes a huge difference. See managing, cleaning, maintaining and moving those items as time away from the things u love like ur family and kids. Nothing is more important than them and the more you get rid of, the more time you’ll have with ur family when u do move! As someone with depression anxiety and perimenopause i sympathise but the more u do now the easier it will get. Xxx
Thanks so much for sharing your experience and how you relate. I appreciate it. x
I'm here every step of the way with you Mel. As hard as this time is I'm excited for you and this new chapter in your life. Onwards and upwards my friend. You got this.
Hey, thanks for being my personal cheerleader! Can you bring some pom-poms next time? I could use the extra motivation!
@@MySemiSortedLife hell yessss but be careful I might photoshop some onto one of your photos 🤣
@@RebeccaShepherd lol
I just down sized last year from 2000 sq ft to 1000 sq ft. It really feels so good to lighten the amount of stuff I have. I have gotten rid of so many clothes just by being honest with myself. If I didnt like how it looks on me or makes me feel when I put it on, then out it went. Also, how many pairs of pants did I really need or how many black shirts do I need. I color coordinated my shirts & pants. I kept only the best of each color & let the rest go. When I went thru my dresser drawers, I had a vision of how I wanted each drawer to look. How many pairs of shorts do I really need? It feels so good to have things in order once you get there. I know you csn do this. Try getting rid of 50 items at a time. Put them on the table & once you've reached 50 put them in the trunk of your car. Then take them to donation center. Give yourself limits on how many glasses you really need. 2 person. 1 nice one & one plastic one. Same thing with mugs. Its so refreshing. Im cheering you on sweetheart. You got this. 😊
You're so right... such great tips....I'll def work on it.
You can do this 💪 you're making a great start by decluttering.
I would be trying to buy the bare minimum for the home, toiletries, food, house hold cleaners. Minimise what you bring in to your home over the next few months. Less to move and could save you a bit of money by using up items 😊
100% what I'm doing... I've cancelled all the subscriptions and subscribe and saves....
You can do this Mel! I love Dana K White's Progress and Only Progress methods. She has podcasts, videos, and books. And even moved a year ago if you need encouragement there once you know where you are going.
Love love love Dana K White.
You got this girl! I hate that your going through so much. We are all here with you! ❤
Thank you so much for your support! It means the world to me to have such an amazing community backing me up. We'll get through this together!
Feel your pain Mel my problem is tons of clothing despite clearing them every so often , Its something I am determined to get sorted ,
Your new house will be bigger and better with more room for all your stationery 🌞
hmmm... maybe - or it will be a tent. lol. Either way - so long as my kids are safe it will be ok...
You know I’m a stationary fanatic too! I’d say rather than declutter all things stationary, commit to no new stationary coming in. Using up what you have. Going through all the pens and tossing anything that dried or used up. It’s not always about getting rid of everything but it will always be about controlling and managing what’s coming in ❤
You got this, Friend!
Oh, and working on (heart) if you have cards…commit to sending them! We’ve been using my stash and it’s finally feeling manageable
Yes… this is the way I did it.
OMG, I feel you! The struggle is real when it comes to resisting new stationary. But your approach makes sense. Let's use up what we have and keep the addiction in check. We got this!
You are my favorite person on youtube. ❤
What an honour and a privilege... I don't take that comment lightly - thank you x
Mel, try boxing up heaps of stationary and keep out your faves xxxx you’ll find knowing it’s there, it’s safe and yours, and can replace your stationary as it dries up etc. you’ll find you’ll never open that box again
I know you're right... I've actually decided to pack the stationery first.... just to get it out of the way and when I'm stronger I will declutter. I've decided to take another suggestion from another subbie who said - maybe just commit to using everything and not buying anything. That will "ok" for now.
It is a huge challenge, but you are strong!💪 I always adore how you keep 100 things running at the same time, you will get this too!🤗
Sorry to hear you have to move but you have a great attitude about it. Hugs from USA
Moving is like playing real-life Tetris, except instead of fitting shapes together, you're trying to fit your entire life into boxes. It's a challenge, but I'm up for it! Thanks for the hugs, sending some back your way!
If you make the move a fun positive change to the children they will cope very well. I have been in this situation many times. I have a son with Autism and 2 younger daughters. Be kind to yourself and realise that as a parent we can't control everything all the time. You are a fantastic Mother Mel. You are doing the best you can. We aren't always perfect but hey. . Who is❤
Thank you for sharing your personal experience and offering such valuable advice. It's reassuring to hear from someone who has been through similar situations and understands the challenges of parenting. Your support and kind words mean a lot to me. Thank you for being a part of our community!
Hello Mel! You will NOT fail. You are one of the strongest people I know. I will be following you on this journey Mel! Your next home will probably be more suited to your family so please don’t be disheartened! Maybe there a better things to come. Love you Mel❤️🌹🍀🍀🍀
Thank you so much for your support and encouragement! It means a lot to me. I will keep pushing forward and I appreciate you following me on this journey.
Your bedroom looks beautiful in the closing of the video. Thinking of you as you find yourself going a new direction. finding a new home, moving and all of those changes are all big stressors…take time to love yourself!
Peace ☮️ friend.
Thank you so much for your kind words! Moving and finding a new home can definitely be stressful, but I'm trying to embrace the change and take it one step at a time. Your support means a lot to me!
I struggle to get rid of stuff, but now my mindset has changed. I want to do less cleaning and just do basic...if there was a fire, can we all get out quick...😂 I also started to get rid of my shelves. If there is no home for the stuff, then it has to go...I only allow my self two suit cases of clothes... I am slowly working down my stuff and my moods have changed so much I am not depressed as much, and my panic attacks have slowed down ❤ I hope you find your happiness, Mel ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your journey, Mel! It's inspiring to hear how simplifying your life has had such a positive impact on your mental health. Wishing you continued happiness and peace!
Hello Mel! 👋 You've got this. You and your family pitching in (all hands) can do this.
I know you're right... gotta get the control freak outta me too... lol
Reality is, getting rid of more than you think you have to. I suggest watching Dana K White for helpful guidance, or even signing up for the take your house back course. But making hard decisions will give you more than you would ever think. It’s almost disproportionate how much you get from getting rid of things. And if you manage to declutter a massive amount in a month, you will open your options up and be able to take whatever place comes up because size of the home won’t be any hinderance. And whatever you do, try hard to avoid needing a storage unit! Much hope for you, and let any overwhelm be a reminder that things aren’t worth the overwhelm to your mental health. (I’m in year two of being signed up with the take your house back course and it was on sale when I joined for about $100, and each year there is a renewal of $10 to stay in)
You know what - I think you're right - I think I will sign up....I love Dana, Cas and Dawn too...The only reason I'd get a storage unit would be if we had to live in a tent or caravan in someone's backyard.... but hopefully it wont come to that. x
Hi Mel, I did this as well when I downsized. I found the more I decluttered the easier it got, it also helped to do the Swedish death clean, I used to think "if I died tomorrow, how would my children handle all my stuff???" I wish I could help you right now, lots of virtual hugs from Canberra, focus on the positive, you have your wonderful hubby and children, you can do this!!!!! 😘😘
Who knew downsizing could be such an adventure, right? The Swedish death clean sounds like a plot twist in a mystery novel! But jokes aside, your words of encouragement and virtual hugs are truly appreciated. Thank you for being a part of my journey!
Ha! This always my first tip for homemovers - do an absolutely brutal sort out - get rid of as much stuff from the house as possible. To weed down my 3 kids' toys I would ask them if there is anything they don't really play with anymore, and would they like to give it to some little boys and girls who have no toys to play with. I used to get a good response from that approach - good luck! 🥰🥰🥰 Added ..... ummm I get it about the holding onto things because of past sadness or even trauma. Me and my two sisters were brought up by an abusive and neglectful mother, she managed to throw out my favourite comfort toy when I wasn't looking. She had made several attempts but I saw her. (it was a sweet white stuffed cat toy that my father bought me when he and my mother split up, and I didn't see him again) I have since adjusted to thinking about how much I would prefer to have a clear non stressful environment, rather than chaos. Your mental health has priority over anything else 😘😘😘
Thanks for sharing your tip! Decluttering can definitely help create a more peaceful and organized living space.
Hi l can relate to moving alot We moved every couple of years when l was a kid Now in my fifties l tend to hang onto belongings as well cause alot of our toys etc were thrown away before moving Hopefully you find another house Cheers from Linda in Brokenhill 😊
Hi Linda! Thank you for reaching out and sharing your story. It's always great to connect with someone who can relate. I appreciate your support and well wishes!
You got this Mel. We’re all backing you and I personally can’t wait for decluttered motivation. This is just the next chapter of your story. ❤
Well, I hope this chapter of my story has fewer plot twists than a soap opera! But seriously, I'm grateful for your support and can't wait to bring you some decluttered motivation.
Mel, you can do this! Look at this move as a new beginning!
I would be less stressed if I knew where we were going and that we were safe - but ... it's the unknown for right now. Once we know - I can totally see the benefits.
I believe in you, Mel. You are stronger than you realize and you will come through this! I also believe that you will be so happy with the end result. When you have less stuff to take care of your daily life will be so much simpler.
Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement! It means a lot to me. I truly believe that decluttering and simplifying our lives can bring so much joy and peace.
I'm literally burning as I watch you. I love you. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I wish I could come help you. Keep the bins full! Get the kids involved.
Thanks Cara - we will be ok. x
no way! My landlord is not continuing with us in April so I am in a similar boat. It was a surprise to us. Hope you can overcome your challenges
Lol - at least the therapist will have a good house! Not to make light of it though - sorry you're experiencing the same. I hope you can find somewhere easily enough.
Time for a change my heart goes out to you things dont own you ive been through it difficult at times take a break and remember why you have to do this ❤
I appreciate your heartfelt comment. It's true, things don't own us and taking breaks can be essential. Stay strong and keep pushing forward!
Breathe Mel. You got this!
Hey, thanks for the pep talk! It's always good to have someone in my corner cheering me on. I'll take a deep breath and keep pushing forward.
I’m right there with you Mel ❤️ we have just been given 8 weeks until are rent increases to $800 per week 🥺🥺
I can hear the worry in your voice, you’re definitely not alone. Everything will work out, that’s what I’m telling myself!! I’m trying to look for the silver linings - decluttering, maybe we’ll be closer to kids schools so will save on fuel etc.
Thank you for everything you do for this community, I really appreciate it xx
That's ABSURD!!! I hope you find somewhere that balances out the expenses. Moving is crazy expensive though hey? Good luck... hang in there. x
@@MySemiSortedLife it’s crazy!! The sad thing is it’s happening everywhere to so many people. $150 per week increase, who can just find that 😳😳
You’ve got this Mel! You are stronger than you think! Love ya!
Thanks Melly. x
It will be OK Mel just keep telling yourself that. This has probably been a big shock to you but you are strong. Your wanting to do your best for your family and yourself will get you through this. I have seen you overcome so much and your determination to succeed is fantastic. I always have too much stuff for myself to cope with.I have a problem letting things go. I try to work out why. I think everything was done for us at home and my mother and father seem to be what we now call pretty minimilist although we had everything we needed and good quality things too. Looking back we had a car before many of the neighbours did but as a teenager I didn't have the amount of clothes that kids have these days and I wanted more. I left home with one suitcase at 17 and started married life at 18 with not much more. Does my hanging on to things of no value stem from this. I don't know.
When in 2020 I let go of the apartment in the UK I literally let go of everything except my husband's disabled car and 4 large and 4 small suitcases as I already had things set up ready in Cyprus. I really should have taken a container with me as I had some really good things like a lovely new bed. What helped me to let go was the fact that I felt we were starting a new chapter in our lives and every I valued went to family or friends. So I have proved I can let go if I want to achieve a goal.
Losing my darling Spyros last January 4th was devastating .I have so much paperwork and legal things to sort out as well as organising a headstone for his grave. 😢. Strangely enough I was able to let go of most of his clothes just keeping a few things for sentimental reasons.
My problem at the moment is sorting through my own things many of which I don't really like anyway as they are worn out or not fitting or flattering. I find even the thought of it so tiring and daunting but Mel I am going to do it along with you as I want my 2nd bedroom clear so I can have my friends stay at a moments notice. At the moment there are around 10 suitcases filled with stuff so I have plenty to do.
We can all do this . Look at this as an opportunity to have a lovely new place to live with things as you want them to be. I know you can do this if you can just get your head around this and think positively. Please pace yourself though and get enough sleep. Please let your kids help you. The older ones can decide on what they want to let go of. I love you Mel ❤
I can't imagine how hard it has been for you this last year Margaret. I think of you often. If I knew where we were going and what it was going to be like I think my anxiety would be less - I'm so scared we wont have anywhere.... but... it should be ok...
Sending you good vibes Mel, so that you find a suitable property for you and the family.
I really appreciate your good vibes. It means a lot to have your support during this nerv-citing (my kids' term for feeling nervous and excited simultaneously) time for our family.
oh my goodness, this is your nightmare. But it will be okay. We moved too and the cost is 700 euro's higher. But i am happier now and it gave me a new chance in live. Go decluttering Mel i cheer you on. expeciality if you go life smaller. we did that too and men what a lots of boxes with stuff we had after decluttering. so mine advise is go far in decluttering that makes the move so much easyier. i am thinking off you. go for it you can do it and yes stationary is hard to declutter it is mine fav to. big hug Ellen.
Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement, Ellen! It's reassuring to hear that you went through a similar experience and came out happier on the other side. I appreciate your support and will definitely keep decluttering to make the move easier. Sending a big hug back to you!
@@MySemiSortedLife you arewelcome and i hope too see you decluttering soon in you video's. mine mind is calmer now with less stuff.
You got this!! Start with the easiest space (perhaps one of the bathrooms) and build some momentum.
Thank you for the encouragement! Starting with the easiest space is a great idea to build some momentum. I appreciate your support!
Oh Mel thats a lot of stressss 😢. You can do this ❤❤❤❤ lots of love ❤❤❤
Thank you so much for your kind words and support! It means a lot to me. I'm working hard to handle the stress and keep pushing forward. Lots of love to you too!
I'm so sorry you have to move. Hopefully, you and your family will find something that suits you even better :) I like watching decluttering videos on CZcams. It looks like you might be struggling with the same issues as many ADHD people when they declutter. There are tips and tricks to get around certain patterns. Just an idea. Good luck to you and your family
OMG, I can't believe you noticed the decluttering struggle! It's so real, right? Moving is tough, but we're keeping our fingers crossed for finding a place that's even better. And thanks for the tip about ADHD and decluttering. We'll check it out for sure. Wish us luck!
@@MySemiSortedLife I can recommend a live done by an autistic CZcams cleaner. His channel is Midwest Magic Cleaning. His wife has ADHD, so their "cleaning brains" are the exact oposite. I'm minimalistic and extreamly neat so this helped me understand other people. Your video - the way you describe what it's like is almost exactly the way she describes it. Very interesting.
The live is called "Monday Live: The ADHD Cleaning Method". Both Mack and Emelie are really good people. I enjoy their content.
Hi hun. I just found your channel this morning, whilst seeking motivation to deep clean/rearrange each room in my home. You and I are similar in many ways and I’m really feeling your struggle with the shitty news of having to relocate.
I’m 51 years old and have had more addresses than birthdays!
I’m wondering if your ‘bad news’ might be a blessing in disguise. I will help you if I can get to you. Are you in Queensland?
I'm so grateful that you found my channel and could relate to my situation. It means a lot to know that I'm not alone in this struggle. Thank you for your kind offer to help your support and encouragement are truly appreciated!
I'm here for you friend. Love you mel! ❤
Luv ya right back! x
I know that you’re scared about what is happening, I was in the same position. The rental situation is the same in England. I’m going to prayer for you and your family, for a good outcome, hope that’s ok. Sending love to you all ❤❤❤
Your empathy and support are truly heartwarming. Thank you for understanding and keeping my family in your prayers. We really appreciate it. Sending love and gratitude your way!
Everything’s gonna be alright ❤ Hugs 🤗
Yes - it will be --- thank you. x
I'm different, too!
And you're the best!
Standing right behind you Mel! I need to be brutal too as the stuff just keeps coming. I also stationery hoard. It’s just so pretty!
For us, now my son is likely to be going to the local grammar school (passed the exam, phew!) we will be staying here for likely 12+ years so working on upgrading the house e.g curtains and blinds so our house could do with a good sort out too.
I shall be taking inspiration. Even if you’re not moving decluttering like you are is always a good idea!
Thank you for your kind words and support! It means a lot to me. I'm glad my decluttering journey can inspire you, even if you're not moving. Remember, the process of decluttering can be therapeutic and help create a more organized and peaceful space. Best of luck with upgrading your house and congratulations to your son on passing the exam!
You have got this Mel!! We are here for you every step of the way! Sending hugs! Xx
Thank-you x
I live in Brisbane and this rental crisis is exactly that, a crisis. I"m looking at moving into a van because I can't afford rent anymore. I'm having to do a major declutter because not much will fit in a van.
Oh I'm so sorry it's gotten that way for you. How scary. I hope it works out. It's just sooo crazy. And when you read about empty houses it makes you mad huh? Huge hugs.x
Oh I'm so sorry it's gotten that way for you. How scary. I hope it works out. It's just sooo crazy. And when you read about empty houses it makes you mad huh? Huge hugs.x
You could have all those things that are in good condition but they need a place for them and then put back in that place. "A place for everything and everything in it's place". That's what I do because chaos would definitely make my anxiety sky high. Mel, I love you and your channel and hope I haven't sounded too harsh. I appreciate you sharing this. Please just do a little at a time. Here's to a better new year. Happy New Year! ♥♥♥
Hey, thanks a bunch for your awesome comment! I totally agree with you - having everything in its place can definitely help tame the chaos and keep anxiety at bay. I'm so glad you love the channel, and trust me, you didn't sound harsh at all. Let's take it one step at a time and make this new year a more organized one. Happy New Year to you too!
I’m sorry you have to move!!! But it will at least keep things motivated. The overwhelm is real! But I love the “small bursts” strategy. That’s my focus right now too.
Hope the family can get on board with you and help tackle this project ❤️
I think if I knew where and when I would feel a bit better.... I just don't know and that's scary. I'm a bit paralysed to be honest.
Hi there sweetie pie hope you are well hope everything goes well with your move just take one day at time love your videos love from Eugenie your friend xxx 💞🏡🤞🌹
Thank you so much Eugenie! I really appreciate your kind words and support. It means a lot to me. I hope everything is going well for you too!
You and myself seem to have the same issues but minus, I don't have children but hubby, lol 😅😊. I am 52
Thank you for watching and relating to my videos! It's great to know that we share similar experiences.
Give the kids each a box (not massive) or a bag to put whatever they want in that they will definitely take with them.
I bought them each a water and dust proof container and told them they can keep all their most favourite "keep forever" items. My 16 year old is very like me and filled hers and started putting things in her 7 year old brother's box. lol. We'll get there.... I'm also just giving them one box each for their bedrooms. Everything else will need to go.
Moving house is so exciting, initially. I start out with a vision of what my home will look like in a new place, and from there I decide whether the item I am holding is something I want in my new home. Big hugs, because moving is hard. We are still adjusting. ❤
The challenge is we don’t even know what the new home will be like. It could be a tent! It’s so hard right now.
@@MySemiSortedLife very true. For me it wasn’t necessarily a physical vision, but a functional one. They are somewhat connected, but imagining “the vibe” helped.
I think this is a really great comment. If we visualise what we want to achieve this is a big step in reaching our goal.❤
@@margaretsofocleous1999yes - I have written down my "wish list" in terms of what the house will have... there's the non-negotiable and then there's the "would be nice if...."
@@MySemiSortedLifeYou are frightened Mel but keep telling yourself that you are going to find a nice place to live. Pray .God is bigger than our hearts. You may be surprised. Dream big. Love you Mel. You,ve got this don't be scared. So many people are behind you
I know it will be hard, but I did this, not this last move, but the move before from Texas to Arizona in the United States, I went through every single bin that I had in storage, and I brutally threw away a lot of stuff. The fact that it had gotten wet in a leak we didn’t know we had from our washing machine made it a little bit easier for some of the memorabilia from our college days and some of our pictures because they literally were filled with black mold, however, it was still hard to part with. I had enough Christmas decorations for three houses… And so I gave away 50% of it before I packed away the rest. When I moved to Arizona, all of my stuff fit into the truck, I had rented to make the move. That had not always been the case… You will feel much better moving into a different house if you have way less stuff. Also, houses are so different from each other that the storage solutions you have in this particular home may not work in the new one. I did save all of my little bins that were plastic that I could move from here to there but I got rid of storage furniture. All in all I know it’ll be hard but it will be good for your well-being in your mind if you can make that kind of a cut for the next house.
I feel you on the clothes!! my size goes up and down and I have to keep a variety of sizes which is very frustrating. I wish I could just wear the same clothes forever! The things I really loved I’ve had to get rid of. I so feel this video in the clothing area.
I’m also so sorry that you have to move from a house you’ve been in for so long…that’s so hard. I’ll be checking in with you to watch your progress.
Also, a channel that has helped me through the decluttering process to not make a worse mess is Dana K White. She has a process of decluttering That’s a no mess process. That helped me a couple of times think through what I was doing with some steps that were easy to grasp.
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Hi, Mel...I'm here with you. Good job on the decluttering. This will definitely help your move. How does it work there for finding a new place? Do you work with a realtor? Biggest hugs
It's really hard at the minute because there's 100s of families looking - we have a very large refugee community in my town, as well as being a University town that attracts a lot of International students so LOADS of competition. Basically what you do is jump on a website and see what's available - all through multiple real estate agents and you book to view the place. Then you put in an application with your income and references and the agent weeds out any they don't want to present to the landlord and then the landlord is given final choice. Landlords naturally want stability - which on paper we look good - but with so much competition dozens of people could look like our application and some of the refugee families have government subsidies (rightly so) which make them an easy choice as it gives landlords a guarantee of rent being paid whereas average local families can be a bit of a risk....Then you effectively pay weekly rent to the real estate - two weeks in advance. You also have to have 4 weeks "bond" and the only appliances in a home is the oven and sometimes a dishwasher (maybe an air con?). Everything else you take to the rental. It's tough... but - it will be ok...
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Me again. I posted before I read and heard about the lease not renewing. I'm so sorry. Forget what I send below. Please take care of yourself first. I pray it will all work out! Your landlord won't let you stay there with a rent increase? It sounds like another place will be more rent also. I live in WNY in senior apartments and our rent is going up every year because we pay below the market value in NYS. The rent, I believe, will not increase in one lump sum but over a period of time. I was thrown when it was going to be $20 more per month. I feel for you and your family and I wish I could make an donation but being a senior, divorced limits my spending. Praying for you and your situation. 💙🙏 💙
You watching my content and cheering me on is more than enough help. Thank-you. We will be ok. We are looking at an increase in rent of $800/month. We’re hoping to keep it less than but that’s the going rate right now.
I don't understand how they expect a family to live today. It's the same in the US and so many other places. I know you will get thru this but it's harder with depression and anxiety. Love ya @@MySemiSortedLife 💕💕
The other problem you have is 3 dog’s 😬 in WA you need a kennel licence for more than 2 dogs. So just be aware when putting 3 dogs on your application.
Tragically - and I didn't want to say this on the video (I actually cut it out because it's hard to say much less hear.) We may need to consider rehoming the cats and one of the dogs... at least until we settle. Qld laws have changed in that landlords can't deny pets without reason (which would be not having them full approved by council)... but in this rental crisis they could deny our application without reason.
@@MySemiSortedLife I’m so sorry to hear this, I’m sorry if my comment triggered you more stress/brought it back to your mind. It’s a tough time for you. I know it doesn’t seem like it now, but you will get through this to the other side. And you never know - on the other side of this mountain may be something beautiful
@@kobiejane554 No that's fine - it's kind of the elephant in the room and I know it came from a place of concern. Everything will be ok - by May we will look back tat this time and be like "what were we even worried about".... but there's always that unknown and the rental crisis is so real and scary. I also work in an industry that makes me hyper-aware of how bad things are. I just have to keep reminding myself that I just have to do my best and that will be ok.
@@MySemiSortedLife Absolutely, change (and sudden change at that) is always so damn scary. And especially if you’ve lived there for 10+ years. It will all be over soon and it will all work out I know it. Housing crisis is insane. Where I’m from an old 2 bedroom run down house costs $550 per week. 3 bedrooms are $700 and a 4x2 can be 1000-1200 per week. I don’t know how anyone is meant to do it. Oh and somehow save for a deposit to buy 😂
I was reading the comments and this one stood out because we had to rehome one of our cats when we moved this past Oct too. It has ended up being a very happy situation for everyone! A family from my church has taken in our sweet cat Tsuki and they now want to keep her. She has adjusted to them and is happy! It will all work out, huge hugs!!❤
I’m so sorry about your non-renewal of your lease. Are there no protections for renters in your situation?
I guess it's the landlord's right to not renew a lease... the stressful part is that you can't break your lease early if you find somewhere based on their decision to not renew but you have to be out by the time the lease is up regardless of if you have somewhere or not...I feel sick at the worry of it.
Make room for the people not the stuff.
I’m not sure if you know this or not. But it might be worth you exploring ADHD.
Yes... I do know but I have chosen to just embrace my undiagnosed neuro-diversity and work on developing coping strategies and allowances for myself. Thanks for the suggestion though. x
Hey! The storage system you at building around the 1 minute mark. Is it from Kmart? What’s it’s called? Exactly what I’m after for my kids but don’t know what it’s called 🫣🫣 thanks! ☺️
Yes it was from Kmart. I’ll try find the name of it. It’s held up pretty well. It might also be discontinued as it’s several years old.
Oh I’m so sorry. I had a look on the website and it isn’t there. :-(
Thats ok!! Thankyou for looking!! 🥰🥰
Can’t wait to see you succeed in this journey Mel! 🫶🏼
Your words of encouragement really motivate me, thank you for believing in me!