At my Age - Episode 13

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  • čas přidán 19. 11. 2018
  • At my Age is a show that aims to provide intervention for elderly people faced with a plight they can’t resolve because of age.
    Watch At my Age on SABC 2 every Tuesday at 11h00
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Komentáře • 154

  • @elizabethkoenane1383
    @elizabethkoenane1383 Před 27 dny +10

    Eish i always say treat your parents right... You will get the rewards when they leave... I'm so grateful every day because i know I'm getting blessings from my mom... I took care of her for 3 years when she was bedridden because i didn't want someone taking care of her from outside...
    My life is fruitful because i did my part.
    God bless all the parents who are going through a lot ❤🙏

  • @nelnel4127
    @nelnel4127 Před 3 lety +36

    UGogo was so beautful itjoooh🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @djvaughn2367
    @djvaughn2367 Před 5 lety +42

    The neighbours and Gogo Frieda are amazing 😭😭😭❤🙏

  • @leratomodutwane8730
    @leratomodutwane8730 Před dnem +1

    How can a child treat her mother in such a way..she heartless jooh..i can never treat my mother like that after everything she has done for me..i will forever be grateful..hope gogo gets to live in peace and harmony with her neighbours..she's truly blessed to have people like that around her...

  • @tshireletsothabangmorule8670

    Gogo Freida your suffering in this world certify you a big place in heaven. I hope your daughter can move out so you can live your life freely

    • @lolomdlalose4547
      @lolomdlalose4547 Před 27 dny

      Gogo Freda is one of the chosen Satan the only solution here is to take her to the elderly home, otherwise she will continue living this sad life for rest of her life, she will have peasefull life not in this world the kingdom of God is near

  • @thabothobejane6608
    @thabothobejane6608 Před 5 lety +12

    This is painful! God please intervene ,You are able to change hearts Lord! We leave everything in your hards ,change those we cannot change Lord!

  • @Smangi2012
    @Smangi2012 Před 23 dny +4

    How I wish my mom and grandmother was around tjo o tlo itshola gal oo sham 😢💔

  • @galaletsang-morenamogale8040

    If she thinks Gogo is bewitching her, then she should go find her own house maan NXA😠😠

  • @happinessmalaza1762
    @happinessmalaza1762 Před 5 lety +7

    Mama Freida’s story reminds me of how we used to live at home. My mom’s first born used to insult her saying she’s bewitching him & she must live her own house ‘cause he built it. Some people don’t love it when a family is filled with warmth, love and happiness

  • @earthy_12
    @earthy_12 Před 23 dny +9

    Dideka will never find peace for the way she treated Gogo. Gogo I am so sorry for what you went through, I hope you finally found peace 🥺🥺

  • @intrendingvlogs4365
    @intrendingvlogs4365 Před 5 lety +8

    Love your elderly people please.😭😭😭😭

  • @ThembisileJele
    @ThembisileJele Před 24 dny +12

    Names are very spiritual

  • @nicolettenonyane3252
    @nicolettenonyane3252 Před 5 lety +39

    I am so hurt that my mother passed on when I was very young 37 years later I stil miss my mother. Dideka does not know what she is missing. Treating your mother like this?

    • @ntsoakimaibelo9198
      @ntsoakimaibelo9198 Před 5 lety +1

      you can say that again

    • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
      @BusisiweGama-lk1pm Před 3 měsíci

      Yoo ngempela yazi

    • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
      @BusisiweGama-lk1pm Před 3 měsíci +1

      Lomntwana uyadelela akaphume endlini kagogo usile lontombazane ayekwakhe sis

    • @user-nw7fq9pf7q
      @user-nw7fq9pf7q Před 2 měsíci

      True

    • @Madirmodar99
      @Madirmodar99 Před měsícem

      Ey mfethu me too I miss my mom even though wayengishiya wonke umhlaba kodwa I really wish she was here to see me now n grandkids😢❤

  • @thepixiefairy4986
    @thepixiefairy4986 Před 3 lety +10

    her words at the end of the show melted my heart, with her soft smile. she has really been through the worst.

  • @andyhlubi7
    @andyhlubi7 Před 24 dny +5

    This is heartbreaking, yo💔💔💔😭

  • @skangezilendhlovu2537
    @skangezilendhlovu2537 Před 3 lety +6

    Love u gogo kuzolunga umuhle futhi💖💖💖

  • @sibongilenhlapo7562
    @sibongilenhlapo7562 Před 5 lety +51

    How many lives have been ruined by Most sangomas? God I hope many will turn to you in prayer.

    • @moyahabothoka8634
      @moyahabothoka8634 Před 4 lety +4

      Sibongile Nhlapo then the pastor tells you that someone is blacking your blessings,is it not the same issue?

    • @Kutloanos
      @Kutloanos Před 4 lety +4

      same issue with christianity. in fact any religion is kak

    • @user-qz3ze9bd6b
      @user-qz3ze9bd6b Před 23 dny +1

      Not only sangoma’s even people. E.g neighbours, relatives etc

    • @hunadilentswana6962
      @hunadilentswana6962 Před 20 dny +1

      Sangomas are worse, but I don’t blame them, they need money

  • @refentsemokobe2105
    @refentsemokobe2105 Před 5 lety +19

    You would have to be a special kind of "broken" to treat an elderly like that.

  • @mabelmbatha
    @mabelmbatha Před 3 lety +5

    God bless the neighbors ❤️🙏

  • @thulanyoni249
    @thulanyoni249 Před 5 lety +21

    How can this Dideka treat her mother like this! She has no heart

    • @user-nw7fq9pf7q
      @user-nw7fq9pf7q Před 2 měsíci

      Her baby daddy chase her, now she is talking frustration on her mother.

  • @lufunotshivhase8076
    @lufunotshivhase8076 Před rokem +2

    Ohhh just found myself crying 😭😭😭

  • @thandolwethugama8818
    @thandolwethugama8818 Před 4 lety +9

    Imagine raising a child for her to treat you like this ? Yoooh l hope gogo is okay and happy now

  • @nthatijermina926
    @nthatijermina926 Před měsícem +3

    Kaskalla jwalo 😢 this lady otlosotleha all hef life for hosotla ka mama hae

  • @jenniferramoshaba7307
    @jenniferramoshaba7307 Před měsícem +1

    Am happy for you Gogo peace and love that you deserve

  • @lobelaletticia9491
    @lobelaletticia9491 Před rokem +3

    Ending is very heartwarming ❤️
    Gogo freda is a wonderful soul ❤️

  • @NPC6061
    @NPC6061 Před rokem +1

    Yhooo ibuhlungu ibuhlungu 😢 ibuhlungu!!!! I can't even finish levideo

  • @mamoseturumane2813
    @mamoseturumane2813 Před 5 lety +8

    This brought tears ... ...Dikeka you are evil!!!

  • @Lifewithmona_x
    @Lifewithmona_x Před 3 lety +4

    This breaks my heart💔.
    Im even crying while watching this

  • @Sebongile_Baloyi
    @Sebongile_Baloyi Před 20 dny

    Gogo has a very good heart, she is just like my mother 😍

  • @gogiphum915
    @gogiphum915 Před 11 měsíci +2

    I wish this woman long life so that she can endure 10 times what this gogo is going through cos her kids are going to show her flames

  • @jaytouch7214
    @jaytouch7214 Před 5 lety +18

    I wish Dideka lived in my hood in Tembisa, she wasn't going to do this rubbish she's doing to her mother. The community is not serious about throwing her out

  • @Kamo439
    @Kamo439 Před 18 dny

    This is heart breaking 💔💔💔💔💔😭

  • @tshepisAtricia
    @tshepisAtricia Před 5 lety +12

    This brought me tears (sleeping on the floor & hiding food ) thats a real struggle 😭..what kind of a person is Dideka pure evil

    • @kabelokhanye9704
      @kabelokhanye9704 Před 5 lety

      Tshepisaw Tricia it’s really sad 😔 hey💔it’s breaks my to think that we have such abusive humans towards their parents in their own home

    • @luu_leratoluthando442
      @luu_leratoluthando442 Před 3 lety

      😭

  • @BusisiweGama-lk1pm
    @BusisiweGama-lk1pm Před 3 měsíci +2

    Siyabonga bo makhelwane ukungenelela nisizenabanye

  • @normantuli8770
    @normantuli8770 Před 22 dny

    This hurts alot, hope someone saves gogo😢

  • @hilmanipanda4808
    @hilmanipanda4808 Před rokem +1

    My goodness 😢. Dj
    Gogo is such s sweet soul

  • @gladyssimelane830
    @gladyssimelane830 Před 4 lety +2

    This daughter is going to suffer I swear😭😭💔.... nd I pray to God that she lives until she's old ahlupheke soh arg man this is a disgrace 😭😭😭 it's breaking my heart.... some of us are wishing to have mothers nd grannies yet yena o dlala soh ka motswadi, sies man she will suffer😠😠😠

  • @phosa7775
    @phosa7775 Před 3 lety

    God bless the neighbors 🙏😭😭😭

  • @jackiemoloi6406
    @jackiemoloi6406 Před měsícem +1

    U are right my sister Tembisa doesn't take nonsense

  • @nokuthulamdokwe4107
    @nokuthulamdokwe4107 Před 3 lety +4

    Dideka😭 I hope you've changed, I feel sorry for Dideka's kids too they are taught evil at young age

  • @elizabethjabulile3848
    @elizabethjabulile3848 Před 5 měsíci

    Im so hurt, sisi one day u gonna miss this woman😭

  • @Thato-tee
    @Thato-tee Před 23 dny

    What a touching story

  • @vhonaniramagwa2982
    @vhonaniramagwa2982 Před 3 lety +2

    TO BE HONEST THE ONLY WAY TO GET HELP IS GOING TO TV HAPPY FOR YOU GOGO WE LOVE YOU.

  • @EstherMofokeng
    @EstherMofokeng Před 5 lety +9

    Mama Dideka who is already 45 has given up on life and has nothing to lose that's why ale so. She is bitter and angry at the world and is making her mother pay for her struggles. She is still going to struggle habohloko Dideka eo🤞

  • @user-iy8wg3gs7v
    @user-iy8wg3gs7v Před 17 dny

    Thanks to 2 lady s and TV

  • @anelisanotyeke5327
    @anelisanotyeke5327 Před 2 lety +2

    Ndihlutshwa landawo Athi gogo makahambe bcz indoda yakhe yeza rhaaaa Sana awusazi isinqalekiso osibeka phezu kwakho nabantwana bakho ngalento yenza Mzalini wakho

  • @lungilesibiya2712
    @lungilesibiya2712 Před 11 měsíci

    This story breaks my heart 😭😭😭😭😭.

  • @KhethaniMbandlwa-jt4dq
    @KhethaniMbandlwa-jt4dq Před 11 měsíci +1

    Yhooo 😭😭😭😭😭Hai shem abantu💔💔💔

  • @emeliamokoena5221
    @emeliamokoena5221 Před měsícem +2

    Hiw can i get hold of Gogo Frieda? I know here very well and want to assist her.

    • @mlungisimazolo9986
      @mlungisimazolo9986 Před měsícem

      I also was wondering because I would also love to help her if you find any info please let me know.

  • @naomimotlhasedi4086
    @naomimotlhasedi4086 Před 4 lety +1

    Im so hurt to see this story. Im basically holding back the tears.

  • @rubylane9867
    @rubylane9867 Před rokem +1

    I fail to understand why the abuse of the elderly went on for so long without proper intervention relevant professionals. This is clearly a case of Safe Gaurding adult which needs implementing protection of the elderly. The abuse by her daughter is not a case of not accepting her mother's mental health issues. Gogo sounds capable to express her needs and the pain she is going through abusive daughter. Why the daughter was not charged and removed from Gogo's house immediately pending the meeting. They left her with the same daughter under the same roof so that the abuse continues till they decided a plan of action at the next meeting. There was all the evidence of abuse reported by the neighbours. But still professionals prioritised counselling for daughter and Gogo so daughter can understand Gogo mental health issues. That was clearly supposed to be an ongoing plan not a top priority. In my view Gogo was failed by authorities and not got protection she deserved. It's so sad to see such poor intervention. Please this is an embarrassment to the SW proffession . Can you imagine how many cases similar to Gogo's case that are handled in this manner.

  • @KgosigadiMarumo-bk2dd
    @KgosigadiMarumo-bk2dd Před 23 dny

    Iam touched

  • @shirleynkgadim360
    @shirleynkgadim360 Před rokem

    Heart breaking

  • @nomusaphala3485
    @nomusaphala3485 Před měsícem

    My king I salute you ukhona lo uzongena it's true 😂uzoputshuka it's honest man

  • @serve932
    @serve932 Před rokem

    She was really beautiful

  • @letschatwithkeam3820
    @letschatwithkeam3820 Před 5 lety +1

    My heart broke by listening to this. Yah nehhhh...#sigh

  • @thabangprudie1249
    @thabangprudie1249 Před 5 lety +3

    it is so sad how how their relationship got destroyed just because of that sangoma. dideka how can u treat you mom like that mara?. nithaidzo musidzana

  • @mmakabelomahapa1750
    @mmakabelomahapa1750 Před 10 měsíci

    Modimo o ho hlohonolofaditse Gogo🙏🏽❤️

  • @hlologelonchabeleng686
    @hlologelonchabeleng686 Před 3 lety +1

    As for namanyana feela 😂😂

  • @nollzdee1488
    @nollzdee1488 Před 28 dny

    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 My heart is bleeding, can we donate for uGogo please

  • @gladyssimelane830
    @gladyssimelane830 Před 4 lety +4

    Yabona sangomas must be burnished in this world especially in S.A. man these ppl are cruel 😠

  • @thembelangcobondwana3952
    @thembelangcobondwana3952 Před 5 lety +3

    This is so sad man... 💔

    • @angapichy1261
      @angapichy1261 Před 5 lety

      very sad story indeed. how can one do such to their own mother? esp by judging your mother you've been with for years by something a stranger just told you? hay khona this Dideka lady is really confused

    • @thembelangcobondwana3952
      @thembelangcobondwana3952 Před 5 lety

      This Dideka is sick man yhoo

  • @MoTee1
    @MoTee1 Před 23 dny

    This just broke my heart... no elderly person should be treated like that. At some point these sangoma's need to take responsibility for feeding lies to people and breaking up families. They are irresponsible with their consultations.

  • @filinadube6081
    @filinadube6081 Před 5 lety +5

    How can you do this to your mom.Dideka wake up find your own place

  • @hlologelonchabeleng686
    @hlologelonchabeleng686 Před 3 lety +1

    Freda🥰🥰😍

  • @thembimaseko4756
    @thembimaseko4756 Před rokem

    Please T V s a b C , continue with your good work don't stop please.

  • @koketsoboshego8337
    @koketsoboshego8337 Před 5 lety +1

    💔💔💔😢

  • @mapulaledwaba9373
    @mapulaledwaba9373 Před 24 dny

    My heart breaks for Gogo Freida 💔. This is cruelty

  • @lifewithanita1937
    @lifewithanita1937 Před 4 lety +4

    I am so hurt yooh i am extremely hurt ndinesngqala this is evil man

  • @tsholofelorebecca1837
    @tsholofelorebecca1837 Před 4 lety +2

    Im very disappointed by my fellow social work colleagues...They are only intervening because media is involved..If they felt that the case needs referral why didnt they refer her to relvant resources and keep contact regarding her development...Elderly and children should be their first priority

    • @Art4Fun937
      @Art4Fun937 Před 22 dny

      An embarrassment to our profession

  • @user-jy3rt9yx1u
    @user-jy3rt9yx1u Před 22 dny

    🥲😭😭this story though cuts deep i wonder where is gogo now

  • @BlackwolfAN
    @BlackwolfAN Před 2 lety

    😍😍😍😍

  • @hlonelambiko2494
    @hlonelambiko2494 Před 20 dny

    😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @user-cj5je6vb8f
    @user-cj5je6vb8f Před 23 dny

    xhosa guys always get what is ungetable syawina

  • @merriammokgothu8361
    @merriammokgothu8361 Před rokem

    😭😭😭💔💔💔

  • @mapasekaclara4689
    @mapasekaclara4689 Před měsícem

    Sis mara lontombazane why ahlukumeza umama wakhe cha guy's dineo plz help this granny ,,,abuse in her house no ,guy's

  • @mmakabelomahapa1750
    @mmakabelomahapa1750 Před 10 měsíci

    These social workers use the book and titles and not humanity. So called ngwana is not ngwana anymo pls 47🙆🏼‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️still at home and abusing motswadi…. Imagine back room 🤦🏽‍♀️she must just Go..😡

  • @lungisilekhambule6538
    @lungisilekhambule6538 Před 3 lety +1

    Social development is failing older people😢

  • @thegab_7
    @thegab_7 Před 9 měsíci

    What on earth would make a daughter switch up on her mom like that? Sounds like there is more to this story than we know. But def won't tolerate abuse and the daughter actually needs to be arrested for that. The fact that she absolutely refuses to be interviewed to give her side of the story is curious

  • @phumlazulu5191
    @phumlazulu5191 Před 5 lety +1

    💔💔💔💔💔

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi Před měsícem

    Government is to slow I'm so hurt yaz

  • @nkonkontozonke5035
    @nkonkontozonke5035 Před 5 lety +1

    my God I will paint my house nd buy hart pots nd meat😢

  • @thitikwanemokgadi6271
    @thitikwanemokgadi6271 Před 5 lety +1

    But God😢😢😢

    • @mphomogane4531
      @mphomogane4531 Před 5 lety

      Thitikwane Mokgadi shuuuu this is sad and gogo is so cute 🥰

  • @mammokokobos7554
    @mammokokobos7554 Před 5 lety +1

    PAINFUL

  • @MondliMhlongo-db9vd
    @MondliMhlongo-db9vd Před 5 měsíci

    Umuntu usazoguga ubuhle buphele iyo😅

  • @siphesihlerichard4614
    @siphesihlerichard4614 Před 3 lety +1

    The sangomas kodwa

  • @choeneolive3085
    @choeneolive3085 Před 5 lety +1

    😓😓😓

  • @DuduzileSukazi
    @DuduzileSukazi Před měsícem

    How mara 💔 haai

  • @daphneyhengstberger4018
    @daphneyhengstberger4018 Před 5 lety +1

    Mxm, I couldn’t finish this I hate watching this nonsense. Our government is failing old people...

  • @ramokonelanga8275
    @ramokonelanga8275 Před 5 lety +1

    I am so disappointed in our social development and police system and our government in general. It's nonsensical to only do their jobs when cameras expose them. Dideka is also wicked, how do you treat your mother like this? Parents are very godly she should know better because she is also a mother

  • @tshepocyprel9448
    @tshepocyprel9448 Před 5 lety +1

    Dideka get your house in order u will miss her one day. Stop bealivng tht crap u were told buy yo so called sangoma u wll regret it one day sangoma cn bring havoc in families

  • @igletmolatudi3321
    @igletmolatudi3321 Před 5 lety +2

    This Dideka rubbish needs to go to prison

  • @blessingmatsomane5088
    @blessingmatsomane5088 Před 4 lety +4

    Magogo Ne a chesa joo

  • @rayenelevid1270
    @rayenelevid1270 Před rokem

    She left may she never come back ever cos she's just waiting to inherit it the house fela

  • @glendamasoeu5417
    @glendamasoeu5417 Před 29 dny

    At 47that lady must find herself accom.

  • @jackiemoloi6406
    @jackiemoloi6406 Před měsícem

    That sangoma needs to be punished because he profesies twak

  • @sallynhlanhla
    @sallynhlanhla Před 8 měsíci

    People must stop going to sangomas and trust in JESUS, that's it! Look at what that initial trip to the sangoma did to this once happy family.

  • @thembimaseko4756
    @thembimaseko4756 Před rokem

    The daughter with her children out.

  • @user-mx3fk3fr6w
    @user-mx3fk3fr6w Před měsícem

    This dideka is evil 💔💔💔💔

  • @Thapang
    @Thapang Před 2 měsíci

    Tjo poor gogo