My Dad Rap*d Me For 7-years - Zizo

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  • @user-dv9mv9gt3g
    @user-dv9mv9gt3g Před 27 dny +408

    I am a father of 4 girls and I will never look at my girls as sex subjects actually it is disgusting to even think of such atrocities.😢

  • @nkosiphilempofu3798
    @nkosiphilempofu3798 Před měsícem +327

    A lot of people talk about healing from such trauma but I honestly don’t think someone ever fully recovers or heals I think they just learn to leave with it…

    • @LearnmoreDzidzai
      @LearnmoreDzidzai Před měsícem +2

      😢

    • @SamJalie
      @SamJalie Před 29 dny +20

      Is only God who heals that problem

    • @sifisodube4686
      @sifisodube4686 Před 26 dny +5

      People are different some are strong some are weak

    • @nabaayazaflavia7526
      @nabaayazaflavia7526 Před 21 dnem +7

      You can't heal, that's the truth

    • @CollinsNdira
      @CollinsNdira Před 21 dnem

      No healing people just hold themselves to strength and assume things are ok while burning inwardly 😢​@@sifisodube4686

  • @arcapidiaH.thuwarh
    @arcapidiaH.thuwarh Před 29 dny +225

    I don't understand how can a father have sexual feelings for his daughter,,,iam a young father same hight with my daughter looking at me and her we like siblings ,,she is 16 yrs doing grade 12 she chose to stay with me ,, it's only the two of us ,,,I hug her every day kiss her on her forehead ,,I have never ever have a sexual feelings for her ,,she is my blood , she is me , so how can I have a sexual feelings with me ,,,,??? Some fathers are not human , they are demons crual more than animals ,,,

    • @KamogeloTlaka
      @KamogeloTlaka Před 28 dny +13

      May god bless you

    • @user-fo4mb4mw5e
      @user-fo4mb4mw5e Před 26 dny +23

      I struggle to understand what goes through their minds. I have 2 daughters whom I love and adore they practically daddy's little girls 1 is 12 the other is 4 I bath my kids I don't have any sexual feelings for them they my blood how sick is this world

    • @ZeeInterpretations
      @ZeeInterpretations Před 26 dny +13

      Demon possession is real.

    • @nokwandasibongile5730
      @nokwandasibongile5730 Před 25 dny +18

      The family should have never allow the father to take her, remember initially she said that she did not know him up until she was 4 years when she was introduced to him because bekamphikile esemncane then he came back sekana 4, so nje this is a lesson to us women that a man who denies his child can never be a good father

    • @arcapidiaH.thuwarh
      @arcapidiaH.thuwarh Před 25 dny

      @@nokwandasibongile5730 that's was a big problem ,,,as she said he dined her ,,so he was just seeing her as a girl friend ,,,but even though how can you get erection for a seven year old child ,,,

  • @stephaniejohnson1972
    @stephaniejohnson1972 Před 26 dny +99

    She is so intelligent, so articulate. I admire her strength and I'm happy that she seems to have experienced healing.

    • @MotlatsoTshehla
      @MotlatsoTshehla Před 21 dnem +2

      😢😢this is painful 😢😢

    • @zizoizabelozamapleni7221
      @zizoizabelozamapleni7221 Před 19 dny

      Thank you ❤

    • @ellenmashburn6837
      @ellenmashburn6837 Před 4 dny +1

      She is an amazing woman! I can tell she's overcome because of the calm way she told about her situation. Plus, she has resolve in her voice not bitterness and hatred. She is a blessing to everyone who has been sexually abused. A truly courageous overcomer!

    • @JulietBrissett
      @JulietBrissett Před 2 dny +1

      That man is a vampire

  • @thumekanjani5745
    @thumekanjani5745 Před 29 dny +48

    The guy deserves life sentence in jail

  • @BongiMkhize-qn5dc
    @BongiMkhize-qn5dc Před 26 dny +92

    A 7 yr old daughter nkos😢kanjan to your own daughter?Ppl r evil.May God heal your hurt cc uye for therapy .You r one strong lady❤God iswith you.Thanks for sharing

    • @markcaa2942
      @markcaa2942 Před 10 dny +1

      The man just appears to her father but not biological father because spiritually biological father never have a desire for that sorry

    • @lissamcintosh1587
      @lissamcintosh1587 Před 6 dny

      😂😂🎉😢​@@markcaa2942

    • @thokomueller8852
      @thokomueller8852 Před 5 dny

      God bless you Sisi! There is nothing impossible with God! Just pray for yourself to heal well!!😘🤗

  • @sanelen_
    @sanelen_ Před 28 dny +72

    I just want to hug the little 7 year old Zizo❤. I'm sorry mntase, I have no words.

  • @okuhledyomfana3707
    @okuhledyomfana3707 Před měsícem +181

    I’ve listened to this story before but every single time I listen to it I cry because what a horrible man who puts his daughter through so much pain and trauma. I’m happy you carry your story with so much grace and you didn’t let it kill you sisi❤️ you’re so brave

    • @LifeWithZukie
      @LifeWithZukie Před 28 dny +8

      What a warm and lovely comment. God bless you your heart

    • @khanyingosi9229
      @khanyingosi9229 Před 28 dny +5

      So happy you didn't let whatever happened to destroy you, wasn't your fault precious,may God continue to strengthen you and guide you always, the plant that the lord has planted can flourish even in the midst of the drought, love you so much, angel ❤❤❤❤

    • @nondumisoshembe5201
      @nondumisoshembe5201 Před 21 dnem +2

      This is traumatizing being crying since I started

    • @lucinevaughan2173
      @lucinevaughan2173 Před 20 dny +3

      You are such a beautiful person.
      God will deal with him

    • @lucinevaughan2173
      @lucinevaughan2173 Před 20 dny +1

      Yes. Let go and let God

  • @user-uc2lp9nc3y
    @user-uc2lp9nc3y Před 24 dny +51

    You speak perfect English and are very eloquent. I admire your courage and wish I can be strong like you. You are a strong woman and keep living your life.

    • @LESEDIMARVELLOUS
      @LESEDIMARVELLOUS Před 2 dny

      all you care is good English she speaks, are you serious. if speaking English is what you want to achieve make some efforts, go to CZcams and learn ways to speak English.

  • @mosetsanagapemokgosi9938
    @mosetsanagapemokgosi9938 Před 26 dny +78

    This interviewer is so insensitive, repeatedly asking irrelevant questions, some of which have been answered before. Also how is the victim supposed to know what was happening in the perpetrator’s mind, especially at that you age 😢

    • @marizechevo1843
      @marizechevo1843 Před 20 dny +9

      Agreed. He had no questions prepared and spoke as though it’s a story on a soapie and not someone’s life.

    • @chevvynfriends
      @chevvynfriends Před 16 dny +6

      Exactly, especially when he asked if she thinks her father was possessed. Extremely insensitive and lack of empathy.

    • @zashaworld2445
      @zashaworld2445 Před 15 dny +1

      He’s so wired with the questions

    • @especialTVrolls
      @especialTVrolls Před 13 dny +3

      Very annoying. Interviewing for gossip instead of information, education and empathy. So unprofessional

    • @especialTVrolls
      @especialTVrolls Před 13 dny +3

      He's comfortable listening to the gory taboo details of a father to the child of seven years old . Mr interviewer you are mean and insensitive causing this woman say too much abominable picture...She has told you she felt it was a normal secret experience not knowing it was wrong.

  • @user-qn7rq4fb1i
    @user-qn7rq4fb1i Před 19 dny +57

    My wife was also raped for 3 years by her cousin when she was 14 till she turned 16,she kept it a secret until 1day she decides to voice up,it really destroyed me emotionally,i get angry and cry Everytime i think about it😢

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 Před 17 dny

      @@user-qn7rq4fb1i I'm so sorry about what happened to your wife my bro I hope she did find help bcoz she needs it 🥰

    • @natahliak7691
      @natahliak7691 Před 14 dny +9

      I'm so sorry to hear of this. My cousin did this to me also from the age of 4 to 7. The only reason it stopped is because my parents moved us to another state. Years later, while I was in high school, we found out that he was arrested for abusing children at a school near his home.
      His own sister then came to our house to tell my parents what he did to both of us for so long.
      We ended up testifying against him in court.
      He received 15 years.
      When my parents asked why I didn't say anything sooner, my reply was, "I couldn't stand to see the pain in your eyes. And I was so afraid that my dad would snap and end up in prison."
      My poor dad was never the same again. He felt like a failure even though it's not true. My dad was a blessing to me.❤

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 Před 14 dny

      @@natahliak7691 I'm so about what happened to you may find help and healed sending you hugs love,♥️♥️♥️may the Lord strengthen you🙏

    • @VivianneZakhali-fw8yy
      @VivianneZakhali-fw8yy Před 13 dny +2

      Sorry my baby for going through such Your dad is a pervert I'm proud of you, you're very strong some people commit suicide for minor things not judging them wena you didn't let the situation to put you down 😢😢God is great askies babygirl

    • @user-tj6xr1mt3i
      @user-tj6xr1mt3i Před 8 dny

      ​@@VivianneZakhali-fw8yyreally

  • @homonaledi640
    @homonaledi640 Před 18 dny +36

    As a father, I have chills. Im struggling to process this

  • @user-vd5mk6sx7w
    @user-vd5mk6sx7w Před 21 dnem +40

    Mmmm Zizo I can't explain the pain I feel right now after listening to your story, may the lord bless you and give you all you want in life, you are strong girl and I love you for that ❤

  • @blossom6235
    @blossom6235 Před měsícem +513

    I can relate to her story, same thing happened to me, only difference in my case it was my elder brother, I never told anyone, It affect everything of me, I grew up making wrong decisions, allowing man to take advantage of me, choosing wrong man who abused me, My whole life was a mess, In and out of rubbish relationships, and I think It's because of what my brother did to me when I was a child.

    • @GaolatlheMonnanyana
      @GaolatlheMonnanyana Před měsícem +39

      😢💔So sorry you had to go through that, did you eventually tell someone?

    • @blossom6235
      @blossom6235 Před měsícem +35

      @@GaolatlheMonnanyana , No I never did, this secret has been bothering me all my life, It's almost like this heavy burden hanging over me, for years I've been hiding this dirty secret, wondering If he did it to his own daughter too.

    • @nkosinamandlagama2309
      @nkosinamandlagama2309 Před měsícem +13

      So sad 😢😢

    • @user-ib4tc6vx3n
      @user-ib4tc6vx3n Před měsícem +18

      This is said 💔 your brother he is a cruel man😭

    • @ketie_
      @ketie_ Před měsícem +41

      Please speak up , tell your mom or just someone you trust or u can even go for counseling… Speaking out will free the burden, it’s really not fair on yourself to still be carrying the burden. Proud of you for this comment, it’s the 1st step towards healing ❤…

  • @mathapelomahlophe2990
    @mathapelomahlophe2990 Před měsícem +220

    This is the person who healed, speaking fluently without sharing a tear😢

    • @ItsJoeyskates
      @ItsJoeyskates Před 28 dny +2

      Fr

    • @universalenterprises6552
      @universalenterprises6552 Před 28 dny +6

      You do you love seeing others shading tears.....we have gone through things and healed so mean we should cry all our lives.....shame on you

    • @mathapelomahlophe2990
      @mathapelomahlophe2990 Před 27 dny +29

      @@universalenterprises6552 I was not saying it in a bad way actually if you ready correct I was embracing her that she's very strong, and to show that she has healed she doesn't share a tears, she made peace, before you come for people seek for understanding please.

    • @AffanKhan-zb6bm
      @AffanKhan-zb6bm Před 27 dny +6

      ​@@universalenterprises6552Why are you bitter . please heal.

    • @universalenterprises6552
      @universalenterprises6552 Před 27 dny +3

      @@AffanKhan-zb6bm I don't remember that reply being sent to you coz actually the person I sent too understood and 4replied accordingly......

  • @JoyceThapedi
    @JoyceThapedi Před 7 dny +9

    I can't belive you have healed so much that you even able to speak about this and I see no tears in your eyes 😢.. .you are so brave mylove .

  • @winniechipoya
    @winniechipoya Před 26 dny +22

    What i find upseting is how his family refuses to believe her

    • @fortunatengobeni2393
      @fortunatengobeni2393 Před 26 dny +5

      Maybe they all did that to their kids, why would they support such behaviour.

    • @sherryshah1797
      @sherryshah1797 Před 17 dny +1

      Maybe they think it will go away,if they are in denial

  • @bonganimalepe4191
    @bonganimalepe4191 Před měsícem +39

    We need to protect our woman 😔😔😔😔

  • @noludweqwabe7011
    @noludweqwabe7011 Před 23 dny +14

    So so painful but Zizo you are so strong❤. THIS IS A LESSON TO ALL SINGLE MOMS NOT TO TRUST DADDIES WITH THE LIFE OF THEIR KIDS. THANK GOD FOR MAKING YOU THIS STRONG AND HEALED YOU IN SUCH A WAY THAT TODAY WE HEAR SUCH PAINFUL JOURNEY OF YOUR LIFE.
    JUSTICE IS JUST A WORD IN SOUTH AFRICA.... ONLY JUSTICE AVAILABLE IS CRIMINALS TO COMMIT MORE CRIMES AND THAT BE IT

  • @Wenzy_Royal
    @Wenzy_Royal Před měsícem +31

    Not every person deserves to have children, because how evil can you be to do this to a child or human being. To violate someone so deeply and continue with life as if it's normal. These stories make me realise there's humans who have no sense of empathy or humanity, their behaviour is more closer to an animal than a human.

  • @charmainecharmystelemundok3882

    I wishes my story can be so open I was 9 yrs and my mom and uncle was in control of my life and family kept this a secret why 😢😢😢😢its still hurting my uncle was abused me hitting me and my mother said nothing why I know I didn't look like my own siblings 😢😢😢😢 now finding out I've got other siblings and it's my mom's cousin why I've been getting hurting all the time this woman talked it's brings bad moments back my mouth closes and the uncle on top of me I've got 3 children of my uncle 😢😢😢😢God helps me out now my mom passed and biological dad stepped dad passed away also now there's no older family members only in Australia auntie who know and cousins 😢😢😢😢wow this woman is brave 😢😢😢😢 I'm a granny but it hurts too😢😢😢😢😢from cape Town I thought it was my fault 😢😢😢😢

    • @sherryshah1797
      @sherryshah1797 Před 17 dny +3

      😢😢😢

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před 16 dny +4

      @charmainecharmystelemundok3882 Lord Have Mercy 🙏 🥺 😫 😩 😪 😭 🙏 Sister, I'm Sooooooo #Sorry🙏

    • @lucykagoru6060
      @lucykagoru6060 Před 16 dny +5

      Be strong beautiful lady,prayers for your healing, am sorry.

    • @verjanhamilton6287
      @verjanhamilton6287 Před 15 dny +2

      I'm so sorry ❤💞💫💖

    • @FebbyMuma
      @FebbyMuma Před 12 dny +3

      Sorry my baby girl,already God has healed you in Jesus name 🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @BMJ_JUSTICE
    @BMJ_JUSTICE Před 14 dny +12

    Very sad story and this type of rape happens in plenty families but they rather keep it silent.Thanks for sharing.

  • @zeeelove9259
    @zeeelove9259 Před měsícem +61

    Eish i know her mom and her family i wish you can heal zizo that was not your fault baby girl sendin love to you ❤❤❤❤ .ukhohlakele lomfana wase Mqanduli seissss maarn

  • @Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshanda
    @Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshanda Před 16 dny +8

    I saw the episode coming up two weeks ago and since ive been trying to gain courage to watch it. 😢 it breaks my heart at the same time i admire her courage to speak up. People are soo heartless i know personally i strugle to share my r*pe experience because i chose to terminate for my own sanity and I was called a liar . Uphole mntase you're more than your pain. Stay blessed❤❤

  • @greatestchoice1883
    @greatestchoice1883 Před 17 dny +12

    Zizo Thank you for speaking in order to help a little girl, a young girl or a little boy to be able to talk without fear, so that justice is done... I salute the strength, your courage, the peace, with which God clothes you... May God continue to bless, strengthen & equip you for the work you do... To God be all the glory...

  • @mmapulengletsoalo1648
    @mmapulengletsoalo1648 Před 21 dnem +10

    My dear you are such a brave young woman,you are loved and iam happy you are healed,all the best and may the good Lord carry you through and bless you,God is your strength 💪

  • @armiedz2375
    @armiedz2375 Před 23 dny +41

    May Karma deal with such fathers.... instead of protecting your very own daughter...you mess up her life.. disgusting 😢

  • @malebogomolefhe747
    @malebogomolefhe747 Před 19 dny +15

    She's an extremely beautiful, intelligent and above all BRAVE young woman; that's all l will say. God has her and her power remains in her VOICE🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @user-dz4lz6df6l
      @user-dz4lz6df6l Před 17 dny

      So where was god when her father was violating her, he just got her after the fact🙄

  • @merciedejoie4249
    @merciedejoie4249 Před 16 dny +5

    I never saw my dad’s private parts growing up, until he had a stroke. That time I was already married with 4 kids, I had to clean him. I thought that situation killed him faster, cause he was a very private person.

  • @ziphomajova9032
    @ziphomajova9032 Před 26 dny +48

    The interviewer handled this interview so poorly. These are not the type of questions you ask a rape survivor. "Do you think he was possessed"? is a crazy question to ask a survivor. Otherwise, Zizo's ability to tell this traumatic story is so admirable. May the Lord continue to warp you in his arms of complete healing.

  • @juliasarkadi
    @juliasarkadi Před 20 dny +9

    Watching this from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪. I pray for you dear. May God bless you and help you heal

  • @gixoupa4898
    @gixoupa4898 Před 29 dny +133

    My little sister and I was abandoned by our parents and we ended up staying here and there with the relatives. No one was keeping an eye on us. We ended up doing sexual things. I was 8 she was 6. It went on and on until I was 11 and I realized that were growing and this can't keep on happening. I started regretting it and decided to leave home and separate from her since then. Today I am 30 and I still regret every bit of it and I hate my self for it. I did apologize to my sister on my early 20s and she said she forgave me a long time ago coz she understands that I was a kid but it still eats me till this day. I wish one day I can break free from these chains the devil hung me on

    • @fifitakapisa
      @fifitakapisa Před 29 dny

      @@gixoupa4898 Please free yourself from regret and guilt associated to what happened when you were a child. Nobody could ever blame you for the choices you were forced to make under such traumatic circumstances. Both you and your sister should have been loved and protected by the adults who cared for you, especially your parents. Those adults who neglected and abused you are the ones to blame for everything. You could write a letter to the child in you, who went through all those horrible things but survived. Include every detail of what happened that still haunts you. Pray over everything and ask God to release you from it, then burn it. The fire will symbolise getting rid of the old and starting a new life. Love, happiness and light to you.

    • @praise-tehilam3167
      @praise-tehilam3167 Před 29 dny +21

      Maybe also look for Professional and spiritual counseling. You will heal and take her with you. It takes acknowledgement to start a journey of correction and healing

    • @portiamagaqa1536
      @portiamagaqa1536 Před 28 dny +17

      If she has forgiven you please forgive yourself and seek counseling to talk about it. I also grow up hard you know staying here and there with people and I was accused of things and one of those things was that I groomed a young boy sexually but I had no remembrance of those things. But I understand because a lot happened when I was young but I'm never going to feel guilt for something that happened when I was a minor that knew no right from wrong. forgive yourself you were both kids

    • @bontleNhlanhla
      @bontleNhlanhla Před 28 dny +14

      You are a good person, if u were evil u were not going to see anything wrong

    • @universalenterprises6552
      @universalenterprises6552 Před 28 dny +9

      Find peace brother......it's well the lord checks the heart if you are truly remorseful from the depth of your heart he has forgiven you

  • @GnA_000
    @GnA_000 Před měsícem +68

    I hope he's rotting in jail right now. Disgusting what he did to his own daughter.

    • @brendadickson9583
      @brendadickson9583 Před 28 dny

      He is out now unfortunately 😢

    • @Nami43391
      @Nami43391 Před 25 dny

      ​@@brendadickson9583 whaaaat

    • @tl3482
      @tl3482 Před 24 dny +1

      In jail? Did you listen to her

    • @GnA_000
      @GnA_000 Před 24 dny

      @@tl3482 of course not. I don't have the stomach for this. Didn't even make it 10 minutes in.

    • @tl3482
      @tl3482 Před 24 dny +2

      @GnA_000 The man is out walking with no remorse and absolutely no guilt. He also gave a speech on how she has ruined his life like really?

  • @TebogoLloydMashitisho
    @TebogoLloydMashitisho Před měsícem +8

    Thank you for uploading this episode some men out there are so evil how can he do this to her beautiful daughter eish this world has come to an end serious

  • @nomalungelongcete5875
    @nomalungelongcete5875 Před 24 dny +12

    Ohhhhhh Zizo I remember listening to your story kuMhlobo Wenene 😢😢😢
    I'm happy you are healed and strong

  • @blinkym21
    @blinkym21 Před 29 dny +51

    He wasn’t possessed , he was a disgusting paedophile that should not have been let anywhere near kids. To this young lady, may your healing be complete . Please live your life fully and well and do not give this monster another opportunity to steal your life❤️

  • @user-lc9wf7hg6k
    @user-lc9wf7hg6k Před 23 dny +6

    Thank God that you are completely healed dear.
    You are loved this side!!!❤❤❤

  • @fatmatasesay7387
    @fatmatasesay7387 Před 23 dny +15

    You are amazing and the Lord will continue to bless you.

  • @nomsamdluli1963
    @nomsamdluli1963 Před 24 dny +6

    I love your answer about forgiveness ,thank you girl ❤

  • @donnadred2940
    @donnadred2940 Před 21 dnem +37

    God is the main judge. He still has his punishment to come.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před 18 dny +2

      AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @stephenmaloney5906
      @stephenmaloney5906 Před 16 dny

      ​@@KM-oy5yh1

    • @phelolexx9165
      @phelolexx9165 Před 13 dny

      Damn man that's evil

    • @meshonabickram273
      @meshonabickram273 Před 10 dny +1

      so evil oh my god. i thank god for the father and male relatives i have . never would do such evil act. they were so protective of us growing up. i feel so sorry for her 😢 god will punish your dad

    • @delorisrobert8462
      @delorisrobert8462 Před 10 dny

      Such an intelligent young lady..sorry for your past

  • @official_6tusmusic642
    @official_6tusmusic642 Před 20 dny +5

    May God keep strengthening you with lots of joy and peace of mind throughout the rest of your life and relationship my dear, you're indeed a strong woman...

  • @lilitasingata
    @lilitasingata Před 25 dny +8

    thank you for sharing sis Zizo, strength, love and light to you

  • @ugboodum6759
    @ugboodum6759 Před 7 dny +2

    Zizo! You are Heroic, a Winner! I feel your brilliance and smartness; be a force to reckon with, a voice the world cherish to hear and become a resounding success in your chosen field of study/practice.
    Trust me, God is definitely with you.
    Gone are the years when such events would silence or stigmatise the victims. Now, society knows better and must appropriately present sexual facts/ awareness to our innocent kids!
    Well done, girl!
    Grace upon Grace. Blessings. Amen. 🙌

  • @DeepMokoena
    @DeepMokoena Před 29 dny +40

    The universe will punish him. Stay strong sweetheart, you the most calm and sweetest person ive seen.

    • @nomalungelongcete5875
      @nomalungelongcete5875 Před 24 dny +1

      Of course he will be punished 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před 16 dny +1

      @@DeepMokoena AMEN AMEN AMEN,I #Hope So🙏♥️

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před 16 dny +1

      @@nomalungelongcete5875 AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER 🙏 ❤️ 🙌 👏 ♥️ 💖

  • @gracenimushaba381
    @gracenimushaba381 Před 22 dny +5

    Yhoooo, so beautiful may God gives you a good bright future and produce children ❤

  • @MsLolo_SA
    @MsLolo_SA Před 23 dny +12

    What an incredible human being may she be blessed from now on..

  • @diannataylor1406
    @diannataylor1406 Před 19 dny +4

    U r so strong, n compassionate, thnx for sharing, may God bless u

  • @drjustineojok3085
    @drjustineojok3085 Před 23 dny +4

    God bless you young lady ! Your story is so touching !

  • @lindiswatyokela2951
    @lindiswatyokela2951 Před 29 dny +9

    I forgiveness angekhe aybone from me shame I'd rather find other ways to heal.. than forgive him for this unotshe. 💔😭

  • @Amieivy-id8tm
    @Amieivy-id8tm Před 18 dny +17

    Sadly a lot of girls pass through this but they keep it a secret 💔 70% of girls 💔 but they can't speak up it be secret forever

  • @sipandrelax
    @sipandrelax Před 29 dny +10

    I can never get tired of listening to you sis, knew about you on Relebogile show ❤️

  • @dboston1166
    @dboston1166 Před 18 dny +4

    So very sorry you had to endure such horrificordeal with your father. He's a very sick man. May God grant you continued strength and mental peace.... God bless you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Siphokazi_H
    @Siphokazi_H Před 28 dny +32

    The interviewer's approach to this story was disappointingly insensitive. He consistently asked inappropriate questions, prioritizing the perpetrator's perspective over Zizo's experiences and the impact on her life. To improve, I suggest he conducts thorough research on sensitive topics like this or reconsider interviewing women altogether, as he currently lacks the ability to create a safe and supportive space for their stories.

  • @lalimangokoane8769
    @lalimangokoane8769 Před 22 dny +16

    Girl you are so strong, forgiveness it's not for him it's for yourself that's where you are because of you have forgiven. I love you stay strong.

  • @Mamesh92
    @Mamesh92 Před měsícem +13

    i know Zizo from Centtwins Podcast
    such a humble yet scarred hearted ♥️

  • @wendydlamini1486
    @wendydlamini1486 Před 22 dny +2

    Tnk u cc for ur bravery it’s only God who helps us to heal and to learn to forgive bcoz without forgiveness moving forward is an impossibility. May God help others with the same misfortune to find a way to heal completely so their lives may move forward

  • @IvyrakgadiRakgadi
    @IvyrakgadiRakgadi Před 29 dny +4

    Askies,I feel pain for you because is not easy to talk about it or tell anyone because especially if is a close family they are not believe you.U are brave in pains❤

  • @missg7906
    @missg7906 Před měsícem +58

    Bro how the heck can you ask if anything was wrong with him…if he was possessed… so you’re basically trying to justify his actions??? That’s so low bro! I’m disgusted

    • @ngqaphelindwandwe9452
      @ngqaphelindwandwe9452 Před 29 dny +9

      He's is trying to get sisters' opinions on what she thinks about her dad's doing. Like the route course

    • @poeletjosebata9480
      @poeletjosebata9480 Před 27 dny

      Am so pissed, he tried to cry but the fakes tears didnt come mxm

    • @poeletjosebata9480
      @poeletjosebata9480 Před 27 dny

      ​@@ngqaphelindwandwe9452he is asking the wrong person, how the hell should one know why he rape?

    • @mfundomsusa2632
      @mfundomsusa2632 Před 25 dny

      😂😂😂​@@poeletjosebata9480

    • @truedymodise997
      @truedymodise997 Před 24 dny

      I hated that too 😢

  • @tsholofelomvala7110
    @tsholofelomvala7110 Před 18 dny +2

    These happens and sadly even in this era still happens.
    We need as parents to teach our kids about sex education from age 5 or 6. Obviously it should be age appropriate.
    We should never think it will never happen to your children. Teach them to speak up to you or to someone they trust like a teacher.
    Big Ups to you Zizo for speaking up about this even that you have gone through this. A whole lot of woman went through this and even today can’t speak because of various circumstances.
    Your story is a brave journey of healing and will heal others as well.
    Sometimes the perpetrators also went through some sort of abuse that they never healed from and end up doing the same if not worse. However this doesn’t justify what they did in anyway. Hence healing is critical as it has a good chance to break the circle.
    I respect you so much my sister for being vocal and public about your journey. And God bless your mom for standing by you when she learned of your ordeal.

  • @angelinemwikali3691
    @angelinemwikali3691 Před 23 dny +2

    This is so saddening and sickening as well.May God give you strength to put these traumas past you.

  • @user-rc8oy6cz7o
    @user-rc8oy6cz7o Před 20 dny +8

    I just wanna use this opportunity to let you people know that it can happen to little boy. Though I'm 46years old man now but It happened to me when I was 5 or 6 years old whereby our house help will rape me uncountable times when my parents is not around. Though the incident happened about 40years ago. This particular video has thought me the reason why I have been struggling to keep a relationship. I never knew that it will have an ugly impact in life as I'm growing older. I have been struggling with panic attacks and short tempered. Always getting angry with every little thing's 😢😢. I have to live with it and make peace with myself by God grace

    • @barbaranewell3838
      @barbaranewell3838 Před 19 dny +1

      @@user-rc8oy6cz7o yes people tense to forget, it can happen to male has well. So sorry to hear about what happened to you. Keep praying for accepting things u cannot change. Bless up x

    • @user-im3nt9ks8b
      @user-im3nt9ks8b Před 18 dny

      ​@@barbaranewell3838so sorry may you continue walking under the Lord's wings

    • @angeltexas3208
      @angeltexas3208 Před 9 dny

      Thank you for your testimony. Prayers going up to help you with your trauma🙏❤️🙏

  • @NorthWay-o6i
    @NorthWay-o6i Před 28 dny +23

    How can someone rape a minor ,,, and only serves 8years wtf is that. The justice system is a mess for sure

    • @gladys673
      @gladys673 Před 5 dny

      They are sick and have a small willy

  • @oumahlaba512
    @oumahlaba512 Před 22 dny +4

    Hi Z , may our God be with you forever, you are more than strong, I like your strength. Good luck Z❤ to your entire life girl ❤.

  • @AbiGbemi-wv2hd
    @AbiGbemi-wv2hd Před 20 dny +5

    Thanks your story will help other people to protect their children
    Thanks

  • @goldink2813
    @goldink2813 Před 26 dny +3

    I love the empathy the interviewer shared.

  • @dikelediletsoalo823
    @dikelediletsoalo823 Před 14 dny +3

    99 % of mothers never accept or listen to their girl child if they tell them that they are abused by their fathers.Only now is good because the schools teach them about this and thus they can report themselves or tell their teachers.BE strong girl!!

  • @kennyngwane3500
    @kennyngwane3500 Před měsícem +16

    People are sick out there

  • @nontsikelelomzayiyasharon4559

    Zizo you are so beautiful inside out.Your voice Your aura.
    Your story will heal so many women and children.
    Love you❤

  • @sinothizitha1280
    @sinothizitha1280 Před 19 dny +4

    Sad story. And she is genuine in her revelations.

  • @sarahmhlongo6729
    @sarahmhlongo6729 Před měsícem +6

    He is a heartless monster, So sorry you had to go through thus ordeal

  • @sarahthavela6054
    @sarahthavela6054 Před 7 minutami

    Mmmm it's heartbreaking I can't hold my tear. Got bless you for sharing. It will help others.

  • @pinkyndlovu6621
    @pinkyndlovu6621 Před 29 dny +37

    My 16 year old niece is carrying her father's child. I was so hurt when i found out the truth, I will always blame my sister for living her daughter with her father for 16 years, not checking on her nakhona she was called by the neighbors that her daughter is being abused. alone to find the child is impregnated by father 😭😭😭😭

    • @tianagradesofficial
      @tianagradesofficial Před 29 dny +3

      Yoh😢😢

    • @SamJalie
      @SamJalie Před 29 dny +3

      What did you do with your father after the incident?

    • @brendadickson9583
      @brendadickson9583 Před 28 dny +1

      Hope is he arrested now

    • @honestmachirori4484
      @honestmachirori4484 Před 24 dny +6

      @@pinkyndlovu6621 Sometimes we just need to point fingers at the devil. There is no rule which says a dad can not stay with his daughter. Some did it very well, so this brother in-law of yours was just evil. He is also a parent just like your sister.

    • @user-bs3sc1bj2i
      @user-bs3sc1bj2i Před 21 dnem +3

      You all need to inform the police what is happening to that child

  • @kabulaimmaculate3010
    @kabulaimmaculate3010 Před 19 dny +3

    I don't have words to speak here.l mean no words enough to express how i am feeling about this as a mother of now 2 daughters.

  • @barbaranewell3838
    @barbaranewell3838 Před 21 dnem +3

    This is so hurtful and heart breaking..my god 😢

  • @bhekibhengu337
    @bhekibhengu337 Před 25 dny +1

    I am sorry to hear such horrible scene happened to u,i know how hard your life might have been and forever will never forget,but i wish you to forgive him but not the devil in his spirit who pushed him to do such thing,i wish that forgiveness also to your self to heal and be free from the clutches of devil not to win you in hate ,shame and grief of pain caused,i wish you all the best in God mighty amen

  • @especialTVrolls
    @especialTVrolls Před 13 dny

    Great lady. May God remember you for good. Let go. Yes. May this weakness from some relatives be exposed and cured.

  • @SomXee
    @SomXee Před měsícem +12

    It's a sorrowful story. Our justice system is exposed every day. I applaud you for choosing forgiveness and letting go of all bitterness. I pray that you get healed even more. May all your dreams come to pass. You are a beautiful and strong woman. Let your success comfort you.

  • @alwayswell2162
    @alwayswell2162 Před 21 dnem +15

    He was not a teacher, but a monster.

    • @JoyWhitter
      @JoyWhitter Před 18 dny +1

      What a wicked man 😢 5:28

  • @JasmineToffa-u3u
    @JasmineToffa-u3u Před 7 dny

    This is such an important narrative of a situation that needs to be looked into by our families, communities and governments when it comes to the placements of children. What is it that we can do to safeguard our children's rights welfare and lives. This story should not just end here on this space lets use it to improve and safeguard our children both boys and girls in our communities, they are innocent. Food for thought. Thank you so much for sharing this it has shaken me. I have seen and heard of quite a number of these situation of a similar fashion. We cannot allow this to continue I could see the presenter trying to have an appreciation of what was being said. this world is sick.

  • @vickyntombi2832
    @vickyntombi2832 Před 20 dny +3

    Sithandwa sam ndithandela ukub brave yhuu sana lam eish stay positive and strong ❤❤

  • @nomzamokhuzwayo3793
    @nomzamokhuzwayo3793 Před 26 dny +2

    Yhooo I can't hold my tears, this is so sad

  • @kwillyful
    @kwillyful Před 19 dny +12

    You are so well spoken, poised and very well articulated. Love from Cameroon.

  • @MiMoNa-NL31
    @MiMoNa-NL31 Před 14 dny

    Very brave to tell your heavy life experience, the pain is unbearable, even the whole world hears your story. Only God can help, to bear the unbearable pain. Many victims are out there, you are the voice for many of us. Thank you for sharing your life story.

  • @dorothyosbourne5958
    @dorothyosbourne5958 Před 8 dny

    I respect you soooo much and the route you take in forgiveness of yourself. It's a sad story but at the end he got al the hurt thank God you are free God is good

  • @kgalalelomakgana634
    @kgalalelomakgana634 Před 19 dny +4

    It's a wake up call to most ladies...never give a child to a stranger..it is not save at all.

    • @KM-oy5yh
      @KM-oy5yh Před 16 dny +1

      @kgalalelomakgana634 it's the #BIOLOGICAL father..Alot of this is going on..I #Know some ♥️

  • @siphiwenkosi5714
    @siphiwenkosi5714 Před 23 dny +3

    Wishing you well with life,relationship and God bless you ,I'm very sorry for what to you ❤❤❤

  • @user-hm8py2xf9v
    @user-hm8py2xf9v Před 26 dny +2

    Oh God! I'm Speechless.

  • @neolehana4070
    @neolehana4070 Před 14 dny

    God bless you and protect your heart. No one deserves such, may your voice speak for you!! Yhooo , healing ✨️

  • @lilannemutombo7168
    @lilannemutombo7168 Před 24 dny +3

    Good morning brethren. My dear u are breve and the Almighty God Jehovah continue to strength u. Fr yr dad is not seak is just poses by a demon that he incapable to control himself. He must just get deliver by a real man of God, if he goes to a wrong person for deliverance, that will be worse. Remain blessed in Jesus Christ name

  • @DineoKobedi
    @DineoKobedi Před 23 dny +3

    Yho 😢😢😢n he was in jail for only 8 years after what he put you through, there's no justice here ,Zizo am sorry for everything 😢 you went through

  • @mbunguzintle6600
    @mbunguzintle6600 Před 26 dny +1

    I'm crying on her behalf lets do better as society , you mean neighbours really could not pick up anything .YHOOOO so sorry sisi you went through that

  • @faithomogwa1168
    @faithomogwa1168 Před 15 dny

    Sending you love sist from Nigeria 🥰🥰
    Your really did mess you up but thank God you are healed and better now😘

  • @ugoeziegwim1552
    @ugoeziegwim1552 Před 27 dny +4

    Intelligent young lady, God is your strenght.

  • @zannemasiza9644
    @zannemasiza9644 Před 18 dny +3

    This was such a very sensitive and painful interview. A father is supposed to love and protect his children especially girl kids, to even blame her on destroying his life, that's a life of a pervert, he wanted to get away with his evil Deed. She's strong and I'm glad she went through counseling. His wife was probably gone bcz of the things he'd been doing.

    • @user-im3nt9ks8b
      @user-im3nt9ks8b Před 18 dny

      Well, if you think about it...any human being of sound mind...can not do such a thing, however anybody who does attempt to do suçh sin, is usually a victim of such....

  • @Zanele-e7t
    @Zanele-e7t Před 17 hodinami

    You are brave my sister your story is painful I can not say I understand cause I've never experienced that but I can say I'm proud of you and you inspire others who experienced this❤

  • @eliasmukhwana9089
    @eliasmukhwana9089 Před 22 dny +1

    So sad to hear of the inhumane brutality by a father to his daughter.Forgiveness usually takes time and healing is a process.Lets continue to speak out on the same as we advocate for better society

  • @tshegofatsotlhoaele1530
    @tshegofatsotlhoaele1530 Před měsícem +4

    Mara😭🥺
    Love and light baby❤

  • @nothandolubengo7908
    @nothandolubengo7908 Před 27 dny +7

    STOP SAYING HE WAS POSSESSED CAUSE HE WASN'T

    • @user-im3nt9ks8b
      @user-im3nt9ks8b Před 18 dny

      My dear, noooo man especially sober minded can do such animosity!!! Its a cowardly act of pure evil...he was probably raped as a child or in his lifetime somewhere coz how do you explain this!!! I know of other men who say the girl isn't my biological daughter so he goes ahead and attempt to do the unspeakable 😢😢😢shame shameful society we live in Lord have mercy upon us all!😢😢

    • @user-im3nt9ks8b
      @user-im3nt9ks8b Před 18 dny

      Na juju be dis ooo sinful pure evil...

  • @sarahnaidoo2953
    @sarahnaidoo2953 Před 15 hodinami

    Strong young woman, thank God you overcame this horror that happened. May the Lord continue to keep you strong. 🙏

  • @margaretsekinobe2428

    Your story is powerful. may God heal you…thanks for sharing