Each One Teach One 5 - Eps 14: Forgiving your abusive parent

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  • čas přidán 26. 05. 2019
  • Today Each One Teach One shares a story of how a childhood of abuse can lead to unresolved anger and self-esteem challenges as the child enters their teens and young adulthood. Mamello has had a particularly rough time and although still only 24 has been the child of a teen mother who was never ready for the responsibility of a child and suffered because of it. Today she is trying to get her life together through studying while her son is raised by his father’s family in Lesotho. She does not want to be an absent or neglectful mother but still has many unresolved issues over her relationship with her own mother. With Sis Pula’s help Mamello wishes to break this cycle of children raising children and release the anger she feels about what happened to her so that she can have a clean start with her son untainted by her lingering feelings of hurt and rejection from her own mother.
    Join us as Each One Teach One returns with Life Coach Pula Matsaung as our guide and mentor on a shared journey of learning, for learners, parents and educators as we face the challenges reaching our best selves, learning from one another on a new season Each One Teach One.
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    Catch Each One Teach One Thursday at 10:30 on SABC 2 You Belong! Watch the full episode here, directly after the normal TV broadcast, at 11:00. Join us then!
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Komentáře • 76

  • @kananelomajoro5416
    @kananelomajoro5416 Před 4 lety +35

    She went through a lot. She is a strong woman and may she break the chain of absent mothers in her family. i hope she works on herself, stay strong and goes to get her child.

  • @nozikhumalo8076
    @nozikhumalo8076 Před 4 lety +10

    Parenting is not for everyone. Please, people, if you do not want kids, don't have them. Nobody is forced to have children.

    • @mookhoposo371
      @mookhoposo371 Před 4 lety

      Tse bohloko litaba tsena Mamello Morena Modimo oa o rata dear ke ea tseba oa rapela ka mehla. Etla fihla nako eo otla lebala ka pain tsena kaofela. Oa fuman seo se batlang loanela ngoana onale tokelo hore obe karolo bophelong ba hae. Modimo a bele oena ngoaneso ka nako tsohle.

  • @siyandamakeleni5945
    @siyandamakeleni5945 Před 4 lety +20

    I can relate to this story I'm also a victim of an abusive and negligent mother.

  • @miss_phudding3804
    @miss_phudding3804 Před 4 lety +39

    “If you don’t want to be a mother or don’t love children pleases do anything possible to prevent having a child” 💔💔. This is so hurtful 😭😭. Let’s protect our children please 😭💔

  • @mihlalimatanzima6642
    @mihlalimatanzima6642 Před 4 lety +45

    This made me realize that I have a lot to be grateful for. I'm so sorry you went through all this love ♥️

  • @isaacmolefenyokong7776
    @isaacmolefenyokong7776 Před 4 lety +11

    I know many strong people, including myself, but this beautiful soul is the strongest human being ever that I have seen. Please stay blessed, you're the light that shines for centuries to come. ❤️

  • @ladylover.tladylove1160
    @ladylover.tladylove1160 Před 4 lety +13

    Cc u strong . udlule ebunzimeni kodwa inkosi iyakuthanda my dear, coz abanye abantu bayazibulala kodwa wena ukhona , uyilwe lempi for ingane yakho, God bless you my dear.😢😢

  • @ZaneleTsibiyana
    @ZaneleTsibiyana Před 2 měsíci

    Its a circle of women who suffered abuse Nd pain am glad wena sisi u choose the right way I wish u to heal❤

  • @sinenhlahlamachiane1982
    @sinenhlahlamachiane1982 Před 4 lety +9

    My sister you are a CHAMPION,and you are strong

  • @sweetcandy834
    @sweetcandy834 Před 4 lety +10

    you went through a lot sis but you came out stronger

  • @ntombifuthinkosi3085
    @ntombifuthinkosi3085 Před 4 lety +21

    God help me to be a good mother

  • @paulinaspogter3931
    @paulinaspogter3931 Před 4 lety +18

    Oh sisi sorry u remind me of my mother who is also treating me the same way ur mom did she is still alive she does not want me until this day I am married now with two cute boys she does not want my kids but I have learn one thing in life is to serve God he helped my through my pain he can also help u I telling u he is the way the life he is my strength God bless.

    • @mode4084
      @mode4084 Před 4 lety

      hey Paulina. I can relate with your story and the one of the lady that was being interviewed. God has done marvellous things for me as well.

    • @musamoses261
      @musamoses261 Před 3 lety

      Keep well dear

    • @nthabykhabanyane8868
      @nthabykhabanyane8868 Před 2 lety

      I also have the same experience 😥😥i wish everyone to recover as im and treat their kids in a proper way.

  • @lehakwelesetla1631
    @lehakwelesetla1631 Před 4 lety +16

    At the same time is what You Decide makes a difference in your life regardless of what you’ve been through!!

  • @fikiletshabalala6265
    @fikiletshabalala6265 Před 4 lety +8

    You have been through a lot sisi... I hope you find peace and more love. You are so beautiful ❤️

  • @HilariaMbono
    @HilariaMbono Před 4 lety +6

    Love the presenter, love mamello. Her name says it all. She is a perseverer. What a strong woman and she will be great and her coming generations will learn a lot from her. So, proud of you

  • @lumkambulali9056
    @lumkambulali9056 Před 4 lety +2

    Ya cc be strong abazali abaninzi abasinaki kodwa unkulunkulu ubanathi nakum impilo iyaqhubeka

  • @thokodilebo8098
    @thokodilebo8098 Před 4 lety +6

    The presenter is such a wonderful and full of life experience woman. This is a very sad story bathong. I'm deeply sorry for what happened in your life my sister. Hang in there and and act the women's advice, all will be well.

  • @deltaradiance9034
    @deltaradiance9034 Před 4 lety +1

    Good job to the presenter. She mentioned a lot of important things that most people Dont know dont have. Amazing. I had to create my identity. Black people we go through a lot of messed up backgrounds.

  • @thulimsimanga4281
    @thulimsimanga4281 Před 4 lety +7

    This is very sad 😰😭

  • @ntuwisenimafune2797
    @ntuwisenimafune2797 Před 4 lety +3

    God loves you

  • @zenandesicwebu2380
    @zenandesicwebu2380 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm so sorry my sister for what u went through it's so painfull,God plz help me to love my kids and learn to forgive

  • @lisaamoyo2378
    @lisaamoyo2378 Před 4 lety +5

    She’s pretty, stay strong 💪

  • @kealebogaramarumo4891
    @kealebogaramarumo4891 Před 4 lety +8

    she just opened a wound im finding it hard to heal i mean forgiveness is not immediate not forced

  • @ipmotlele1187
    @ipmotlele1187 Před 4 lety +3

    I admire you my sister, you’re very strong(and beautiful 🙂)
    I wish I could meet you...

  • @user-ee7rp2uf5e
    @user-ee7rp2uf5e Před 21 dnem

    Askies mmata hln o patuwe bohloko😢jwan uve been through alot ole mnyane askies iyooo e bhloko

  • @nomsamajor1701
    @nomsamajor1701 Před 4 lety +4

    Aish this is reminds me of my cousin after her father and mother divorced

  • @kgomotsocomfort1750
    @kgomotsocomfort1750 Před 4 lety +8

    she went through alot xem mamello

  • @jaftammalegodipilusa4253
    @jaftammalegodipilusa4253 Před 5 lety +7

    Ooooh my GOD 😢😢😢😢

  • @nomusapreciousbuthelezi22

    Thank you for this episode, I am going through alot at the minutes with my own mother and i am glad that i have been constantly forgiving her but there comes a time where only letting go will make life better.

    • @lordthatomosoma8162
      @lordthatomosoma8162 Před 4 lety

      Get beta

    • @gamegamu7382
      @gamegamu7382 Před 4 lety +1

      sorry to hear this love. l went through the same with my mother and l managed to move out of the house and now she cant control me, l know how it feels to be abused by your own mother. This is real but our society shy this away and live in silence. Depression is real.

    • @kealebogaramarumo4891
      @kealebogaramarumo4891 Před 4 lety

      @@gamegamu7382 an we always wrong in their eyes hey #breaking

  • @user-ee7rp2uf5e
    @user-ee7rp2uf5e Před 21 dnem

    😢😢😢😢😢lebitso la hao le buwa tsohle mommy 😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @Karabo_Mokori
    @Karabo_Mokori Před 3 lety +1

    Yooooh this is so heartbreaking 💔😭

  • @kwenzakwenkosimkhize9715

    Each one teach one is COSAS what is being said about the COSAS and the ANC in this broadcast

  • @thabomotatinyane5774
    @thabomotatinyane5774 Před 4 lety +1

    Very painful

  • @the_backstreet_boys_bw815

    Ah life in RSA Is not so simple like we thought. This is too much. I can relate this. I thought we are strugling here Botswana but i can c were are ok

  • @tsungaimukarati9737
    @tsungaimukarati9737 Před 4 lety +2

    Eish so painful

  • @user-ee7rp2uf5e
    @user-ee7rp2uf5e Před 21 dnem

    Mme oo hana kelello a kgola ha utlwa peini ya hao bthon lyk really 😮😮😮hake btle nx ka ngwanaka nx mme oo hano bna lehodimo iyeeer

  • @mthokozisithokzan3343
    @mthokozisithokzan3343 Před 3 lety +1

    Wish l could meet Mamello

  • @matselisompasi6222
    @matselisompasi6222 Před 4 lety

    Sad the poor lady went through a lot.....

  • @obakenglehutso4214
    @obakenglehutso4214 Před 4 lety +1

    😢😢😢

  • @sanelisiwelurai6031
    @sanelisiwelurai6031 Před 4 lety

    This is painful to listen to so sorry sisi yhoo😭💔

  • @nomsasongela3716
    @nomsasongela3716 Před 4 lety

    😭😭m very sorry dear yooooooh🥵💔💔💔💔it breaks my heart m so torn

  • @karabothaba124
    @karabothaba124 Před 4 lety +1

    😢😢😢😢😢

  • @winniesitholesithole563
    @winniesitholesithole563 Před 4 lety +1

    Strong women

  • @ayamhlongo2765
    @ayamhlongo2765 Před 2 lety

    Yho 😭

  • @agnesmkhuzangwe7308
    @agnesmkhuzangwe7308 Před 4 lety +8

    Mamello dm me

  • @vusmuzidavid8370
    @vusmuzidavid8370 Před 4 lety +2

    Jha kubuhlungu xem

  • @smangelemsibi4607
    @smangelemsibi4607 Před 4 lety

    Ayiiiiii Cc kunzima

  • @dorothymookeletsi4498
    @dorothymookeletsi4498 Před 4 lety +2

    Aowww 😰😰the only child bathong

  • @koketsomolatela8787
    @koketsomolatela8787 Před 4 lety

    💔💔😭😭

  • @user-vw7ip7zl7m
    @user-vw7ip7zl7m Před 9 měsíci

    💔💔💔💔ppl are heartlesss

  • @user-sw1vl4cn2w
    @user-sw1vl4cn2w Před 7 měsíci

    Sorry

  • @comfortsadieq
    @comfortsadieq Před 4 lety

    Very sad hei

  • @sibongiledladla8206
    @sibongiledladla8206 Před 4 lety +5

    this is so depressing

  • @sillyme8185
    @sillyme8185 Před 3 lety

    Stop forgiving. Cut them off for the rest of their lives. You have to get even that’s the only way to make the karmic slate even.

    • @phumulambhamali5077
      @phumulambhamali5077 Před 2 lety

      There's nothing wrong with forgiving, it' a good thing and it will heal her. However, it's good practice to cut toxic off people out of your life no matter how much you love them and have forgiven them

  • @thekamercury7150
    @thekamercury7150 Před 5 lety +1

    i want his lady

  • @thekamercury7150
    @thekamercury7150 Před 5 lety

    this

  • @clarionphilips2556
    @clarionphilips2556 Před 4 lety

    Speak English