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Komentáře • 462

  • @zoeunlimited
    @zoeunlimited  Před měsícem +32

    💭which method of looksmaxxing stood out to you?
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    • @queenestherworld780
      @queenestherworld780 Před měsícem +4

      Heyy lol i luv ur vids i don't know how i feel about looksmaxxing yet u slay zoe

    • @watchtheworldburn6908
      @watchtheworldburn6908 Před měsícem +4

      It's pretty ironic when the whole trend is to help yourself and others improve your looks and confidence. Only to be told to ropemax yourself.

    • @ashtixs9796
      @ashtixs9796 Před měsícem

      www.youtube.com/@Orthotropics/videos I hope this link works but this is Mr. Mew. He is who popularized "Mewing" and he has research about it. I found out about it many years ago. But check him out and come to your own conclusion. It used to be considered just tongue suction/placement which babies needed to learn so they didn't suck on their thumbs or binkies as they got older. Also breathing through your nose and out your mouth is the right way to breath which is often taught to children in Physical Ed class during school. Your jaw can drop(causing the "unattractive" jawline) if you consistently have your mouth open (mouth breathing) and tongue resting at the bottom of your mouth (aka not mewing).

    • @zoeunlimited
      @zoeunlimited  Před měsícem +1

      @@watchtheworldburn6908 😔

    • @DesertNightCamouflage1982
      @DesertNightCamouflage1982 Před měsícem

      ​@@zoeunlimitedonly ga@s looks max back then guys didn't do that they gain muscle from hard labor or military,police,firefighting,and the looks max was getting protein in

  • @alexanderdelarosa5293
    @alexanderdelarosa5293 Před měsícem +707

    The manosphere needs to be explored, one of the biggest thing affecting women and men that is not being taken seriously. A lot of young impressionable men are being radicalized.

    • @serenityssolace
      @serenityssolace Před měsícem +15

      As a not so young man anymore I agree

    • @bexiexz
      @bexiexz Před měsícem

      interesting

    • @notaspeck6104
      @notaspeck6104 Před měsícem

      It’s honestly insane. Like some people hear the phrase ‘toxic masculinity’ and roll their eyes but like no, it affects young boys just as much as it affects girls. The boys being recruited into this weird manosphere cult were probably insecure and misguided by the cancer that is social media int he 21st century. It’s not an excuse for their behaviour, but it is the source of a lot of modern misogyny that needs to be rooted out immediately.

    • @ElenasDad
      @ElenasDad Před měsícem

      Manosphere tells young men that their looks don't matter and only that their money does. I think looksmaxxing comes from 4chan/white supremacists and eugenics.

    • @itsalwayshalloweenexceptwh5118
      @itsalwayshalloweenexceptwh5118 Před měsícem

      @@Bruhl-cb9wy They are being radicalized in a way. They were already raised with certain beliefs, that's true, and the manosphere confirms those beliefs but also pushes more extreme versions of those beliefs. It makes them hate everyone. Instead of being a support network for men it actually pits men against each other, making them see other men as either competition (and not friendly competition), or someone they look up to ("chad", but they hate chad and resent chad's success), an any other guy is basically irrelevant.
      They don't build each other up, they tear each other down. It's also an echo chamber with hatred/disdain/disgust towards women. They push the idea to see women as subhuman.
      There's also a belief in "bio essentialism" in the manosphere, but in their view men are capable of rising above their base instincts whilst women are not. They use this to justify the view of women as sub human, incapable of introspection and rational thought, and therefore should have never been granted autonomy of any kind.
      The manosphere is a horrible community that doesn't actually help anyone except for the guys making money from it. It's very predatory towards boys and young men.
      Supportive and healthy male spaces exist (outside of the manosphere of course), but there aren't enough of them and they don't have as much popularity as the manosphere.
      Our societies are the reason for that. It still looks down on men giving each other emotional support and sees it as weak.

  • @M0ebius
    @M0ebius Před měsícem +307

    I have mixed feelings about this topic. I’m a guy that grew up an overweight nerdy kid that dealt with bullying and rejections. During my teenage years I started working out religiously and packed on alot of muscles as well as grew to 6’2. The difference in how people (especially women but men as well) treated me was insane - all your character quirks that previously deemed as flaws suddenly became positive traits. Lame jokes are now funny, shyness became mysteriousness, what used to be creepy is now endearing, nerdy interests and hobbies became interesting and refreshing. It’s enough to change your entire view on people and caused a ton of cognitive dissonance for me in the beginning.
    And before people tell me that it might just be a change in my attitutude and confidence and not the physical transformation, I would say that I partially agree, but it’s really a chicken-egg problem. When you are attractive, you are inundated in positive reinforcements in all things you do - people root for you to win, prop you up when you lose, assume the best regarding all your actions, greet you with open body language, and actively go outta their way to help you out. And I don’t even think it’s a social media thing as a I came of age at the start of social media; it’s really just a human thing which I find myself doing as well despite having seen both sides.
    And my experience isn’t uncommon at all. Many people that has experienced weight loss or had a significant glow up can corroborate this. Social media may have exposed and exacerbated the lookism phenomenon, but it’s nothing new and ultimately just a part of the human condition.

    • @sjejsj7615
      @sjejsj7615 Před měsícem +3

      So basically you don’t have mixed feelings about this topic but you actually like this topic

    • @M0ebius
      @M0ebius Před měsícem +76

      @@sjejsj7615 Specifically the part I have mixed feelings about is when topic presenters say things like “confidence comes from within and that’s true attractiveness” or things along those lines. In my opinion it is both oligatory but also trite. Confidence doesn’t happen in a vaccum, and the difficulty level for cultivating confidence is often inextricably linked to looks and the direction of the reinforcement you get in the feedback loop. A naunced take IMO needs to acknowledge this.
      The reality is unattractive people that act confident is often not well-recieved unless you are so exceptional at something that grants alot of status. People expect you to know your place so to speak, and deviation from that often results in people attempting to put you back into your place. In fact I would say I was pretty irrationally confident even when I was an overweight kid, which was what led to the bullying.

    • @sjejsj7615
      @sjejsj7615 Před měsícem +39

      @@M0ebius I actually agree with everything you said. I think confidence mostly works when you have good features otherwise people will bring you down.

    • @DanaJaneWriter
      @DanaJaneWriter Před měsícem +3

      You definitely have a point I didn't think about before..

    • @throwawae
      @throwawae Před měsícem +1

      Agree

  • @nathan8966
    @nathan8966 Před měsícem +213

    a lot of them forget that they are still growing, so obviously they will change over time even if they are 20-23

    • @alko_xo
      @alko_xo Před měsícem +2

      They won’t change.

    • @nathan8966
      @nathan8966 Před měsícem +18

      @@alko_xo they will lmao

    • @learn_reality
      @learn_reality Před měsícem +6

      that is just untrue, most guys who "change" after 20 is by their own efforts aka looksmaxxing. if you dont do anything it all just goes downhill after 20

    • @DesertNightCamouflage1982
      @DesertNightCamouflage1982 Před měsícem

      ​@@nathan8966I'm almost 19 💀

    • @DesertNightCamouflage1982
      @DesertNightCamouflage1982 Před měsícem

      ​@@alko_xo😑I don't have sympathy for ppl like u society is ruined by ppl like u

  • @cremefranglaise
    @cremefranglaise Před měsícem +330

    I stumbled on a looksmaxxing forum once (idk if it was the one in the video) and it was so depressing. In between the racism, the misogyny and just the overall cruelty the members had for each other... their aesthetic ideal was some weird blocky sim-looking face with ai-level uncannyness. It was like looking at a cult that broke down the self esteem of these guys that got sucked in. There's only so much pretty privilege can take you when you're trying to date women and refuse to see us as actual human beings, though.

    • @absolutelysolo
      @absolutelysolo Před měsícem +8

      not everyone wants chiseled *sob*

    • @sjejsj7615
      @sjejsj7615 Před měsícem +20

      I mean the members being cruel to each other doesn’t have that much of a effect than the women online being cruel to men

    • @Halo4beatsB02
      @Halo4beatsB02 Před měsícem

      You do realize women do the same thing right. I mean its not like the beauty industry is a billion dollar industry that profits off of womens insecurity.

    • @iCupcakeMelaniex3
      @iCupcakeMelaniex3 Před měsícem

      Why is that​@@sjejsj7615

    • @TetsuoTakayamaCyberpunk
      @TetsuoTakayamaCyberpunk Před měsícem

      If the guy can sleep with the woman and discard her then he is good to go. And I guarantee most women will give a lot of passes for beauty

  • @korniliapasc9603
    @korniliapasc9603 Před měsícem +107

    Mewing and pulling your jaw reminds me of the time when we were convinced we could have Kylie Jenner lips with a shot glass

    • @BijouCute
      @BijouCute Před měsícem +19

      Did you just compare mewing which is literally recommended by orthodontists all around the world to putting your lips in shot glasses and risking traumatizing your lips by scars and swelling?
      Please educate yourself about mewing before spreading things like this. It’s literally something most people should do naturally. Mouth breathing is bad for your health and jaw development. Having a well developed jaw is a sign of chewing healthy, solid food while young, also good teeh and dental care. It all has a link and many people mew naturally because it basically just means having the right tongue position in your mouth. I don’t see why some of you see this technique as something extreme.

    • @t-bonetyrone
      @t-bonetyrone Před měsícem +3

      ​@@BijouCute Don't bother, it's not like they're gonna change perspective.

    • @chubbycheeksgirl
      @chubbycheeksgirl Před měsícem +2

      ​@@BijouCuteAnything that is not scientifically proven should not be taken seriously

    • @skeletorlikespotatoes7846
      @skeletorlikespotatoes7846 Před měsícem +7

      Mewing is a legit thing. Holy fuck why don't you all actually look at the research

    • @chubbycheeksgirl
      @chubbycheeksgirl Před měsícem +2

      @@skeletorlikespotatoes7846 It only works or children.R you a child?It's not for adult.For adult there is surgery or fillers or chewing rubbers which you have to chew for 2 years to see significant changes

  • @cosplayergal
    @cosplayergal Před měsícem +51

    Fantastic, we’ve now repackaged Anorexia. I hate it here sometimes. As a therapist, I’ll be in business until I die… which is not the goal. The goal was for us to improve as a society so we don’t need therapy to this degree 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @spektree8448
      @spektree8448 Před 10 dny +1

      the starvemaxxing thing is a joke about ppl that take it too far

  • @moonbyeol9130
    @moonbyeol9130 Před měsícem +49

    17. Actually most eyebrow and eyelash serums on the marked are kinda dangerous. They can cause dry eye syndrome.

    • @marymurphy1877
      @marymurphy1877 Před měsícem +2

      thank you! I have sensitive eyes and tried a lash serum and it just made everything worse so please be careful out there!

  • @viannebinoche
    @viannebinoche Před měsícem +67

    A few days ago two of my aunts told me they barely recognised me because they thought I looked so good. I didn't maxx anything, didn't gain or lose weight (like my aunts were thinking). I'm 'just' healing from a burnout caused by being bullied as a teen. What they saw was confidence and peace of mind ✌

    • @manee2412
      @manee2412 Před měsícem +10

      lmao women coping bruh

    • @My77rh
      @My77rh Před měsícem +1

      Confidence brings a whole new energy to the table tbh, good for you :)

    • @neurotic3015
      @neurotic3015 Před 24 dny +1

      They clearly want you.
      I hope this comment brought you great terror.

  • @mojit27
    @mojit27 Před měsícem +11

    Not everything is good about looksmaxxing but mewing is really something that works. Mewing is just a term and was named after an orthodontist mike mew. It’s basically just correct tongue posture, yes correct tongue posture where your tongue is at your upper palate and not laying down. And breathing trough your nose only makes sense too because mouth breathing probably makes your face, jaw recessed.

  • @Nebula0309
    @Nebula0309 Před měsícem +120

    Ugly is subjective as is pretty, gorgeous & beautiful. You can be ugly on the outside & have a beautiful soul/ personality on the inside. By the same token you can be pretty ect on the outside & be the ugliest person on the inside. Regardless what a person looks like on outside what's on the inside of a person will always rise & make it's self known. No amount of maxing, mewing, filters, make-up, skincare ect will ever be able to take the place of what type of person someone is on the inside. Looks/ appearances fade, fads die out but but a persons character & how one treats themselves & others is what remains.

    • @nayribara3036
      @nayribara3036 Před měsícem

      Ugly is subjective? Go say that to the 5’2 curry who gets rejected by everyone. Then compare it to the 6’2 hot white guy. Stop copping it’s all about looks.

    • @oasis808
      @oasis808 Před měsícem +4

      For them looks are not subjective, and anyone who's not conventionally attractive you're a "subhuman"🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @sjejsj7615
      @sjejsj7615 Před měsícem +19

      ⁠@@oasis808I mean… looks are mostly objective than subjective. Take a conventionally attractive face and the rating would be very similar while the few would be lower. Subjective is for smaller things like eye color, hair color, beard style etc. the drastic differences are very objective imo especially for men

    • @nokwandadlamini1703
      @nokwandadlamini1703 Před měsícem

      Beauty is not hard work it comes from the inside

    • @whokilledzee
      @whokilledzee Před měsícem +1

      ​@@sjejsj7615 That's not how it works. Objective and subjective are literal opposites so it's impossible to say something is both. Attraction in itself is based on emotion and opinions, hence why ugliness and beauty is subjective. I see your point, however just because a lot of people agree something is attractive (conventional attractiveness) doesn't make it any less subjective as at the end of the day it's still just opinions, albeit popular ones. Objectiveness is facts with no feelings involved.

  • @anhkhoiduongvu787
    @anhkhoiduongvu787 Před měsícem +3

    your voice is so smoothing omg!!!!! i think i’m in love 😊

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    @Bangtanslay__ Před měsícem +121

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  • @haunted_lunchbox
    @haunted_lunchbox Před měsícem +2

    I love you & your channel. Thank you for being so real. ❤️

  • @mahjabinkhan6993
    @mahjabinkhan6993 Před měsícem +2

    You are amazing .You helped me with my perception about different subjects. Thanks for sharing you knowledge with us and keeping us aware .You really helped a lot in building my mentality ❤

  • @snehalsaju3085
    @snehalsaju3085 Před 8 dny +1

    It is The Era of teaching people to not bully themselves. ✨

  • @Samz.
    @Samz. Před měsícem +17

    Your videos give me comfort❤❤

  • @dadsvanlife126
    @dadsvanlife126 Před měsícem +2

    Great message and presentation. Love your voice. You should do a tutorial on voicemaxxing. ❤‍🔥

  • @arabbithole5382
    @arabbithole5382 Před měsícem +10

    Social Media destroyed our society for real! When i was school i used to think myself as a good looking guy but after coming in social media i feel so ugly and insecure about my everything!

    • @user-zv8md9xv8c
      @user-zv8md9xv8c Před měsícem

      That's what you get for putting soy-face on a cute anime boy. Who's this guy trying to beat in a fight? Chris Hemsworth??

    • @AAb-wh5im
      @AAb-wh5im Před 29 dny

      Good. Selection pressure will force you to become more attractive to the opposite sex or your fitness probability decreases, this isn’t a bad thing

  • @johns8065
    @johns8065 Před měsícem

    very good video, i liked the conclusion especially

  • @overthinkingkpop
    @overthinkingkpop Před měsícem +4

    Great video. Greater outfit. That top is such a slay.

  • @ElBerto_
    @ElBerto_ Před měsícem +12

    Worth watching just to hear about "mogging" 🥰

  • @katerinamudrova7928
    @katerinamudrova7928 Před měsícem +38

    As far as I know, mewing was originally developed as an alternative to orthodontics treatment by Dr. Mew. Pressing your tongue against the top of your palate was working as an expander, preventing crowded teeth (that was just a part of that technique). But I believe it was intended primary for children, where the facial bone structure is still developing. Not sure what he's up to now or how he's feeling about this trend ..

    • @limitlesslizzie
      @limitlesslizzie Před měsícem +14

      Yeah you're exactly right. Mewing was meant to prevent mouth breathing and help CHILDREN develop a properly shaped jaw so they dont get overbite/underbite, literally not helpful for grown adults imo

    • @verica4b
      @verica4b Před měsícem +1

      But that only works for the upper teeth right? How does this method prevent crowding of the lower teeth?

    • @ashtixs9796
      @ashtixs9796 Před měsícem +6

      @@limitlesslizzie it does help adults because it is just the placement and suction of the tongue. Maybe depending on the person not CRAZY results but it does help focus breathing through the nose which is the technical right way to breath because nose hairs to filter the air for one. And for many people it can definitely change their jaw because consistently having your mouth open(mouth breathing) can cause a drooping jaw and having your tongue rest at the bottom of your mouth can cause the skin under your chin area ( I believe its called Jowls I could be incorrect) to loosen more as you get older. feel free to correct me about anything but that's what I know of. ALSO babies are supposed to learn to "mew"/ suction their tongue to the roof of their mouth so they don't such on their thumb or binkies as they get older.

    • @dlilwon
      @dlilwon Před měsícem +1

      @@ashtixs9796so you are a doctor? 🤧

    • @marymurphy1877
      @marymurphy1877 Před měsícem

      and wasn't dr.mewing a fraud as well? he tested this on his own children and it only worked on one of them. i think there is something to be said about facial developmental changes when breathing through the nose or open mouth but mewing donest have the scientific backing.

  • @biljam972
    @biljam972 Před měsícem +86

    Am I the only one who thinks all these "before" photos of men look much better, more human and cuter, thank those "handsome Squid" after photos?

    • @estrelaazul460
      @estrelaazul460 Před měsícem +11

      It's the same thing for woman about makeup (from a man perspective)

    • @biljam972
      @biljam972 Před měsícem

      @@estrelaazul460 for young women, yes, for us older than 45, really no. But minimalist make up is still the best bet. Too much, and you are a clown.

    • @estrelaazul460
      @estrelaazul460 Před měsícem

      @@Bruhl-cb9wy I'm talking about some haeavy and extreme cases, not light or medium.

    • @estrelaazul460
      @estrelaazul460 Před měsícem

      @@Bruhl-cb9wy I get it, but I knew too many young girls who used too think like that.

    • @Halo4beatsB02
      @Halo4beatsB02 Před měsícem +7

      Cope

  • @justwalkin1928
    @justwalkin1928 Před měsícem +18

    Can't believe men are just now starting to care about how they look. And of course, it's gonna go too far

  • @marymurphy1877
    @marymurphy1877 Před měsícem +15

    pretty sure the bone smashing thing started as a joke/satire in the community and since it has hit mainstream people dont realize its a joke anymore. but that's what I've heard from other esssayist on the topic.
    plus- chewing gum a lot can lead to tmj so like moderation is key. TMJ and popping jaw sucks a whole bunch.

    • @calmsine7767
      @calmsine7767 Před měsícem +1

      Exactly, most looksmaxxers aren’t into that extreme make believe shit

    • @ShikharDey-qz1ms
      @ShikharDey-qz1ms Před 20 dny

      @@calmsine7767 Most looksmaxxers are really smart. I have been on the forum and they are adept in biology, particularly endocrinology. They know like every bone and almost every biological process that may affect appearance. They know to heart how androgen receptors work. Its like a nerdy glow up.

  • @azuragoddess
    @azuragoddess Před měsícem +19

    Looks are everything.

  • @sp-cn8pm
    @sp-cn8pm Před 23 hodinami

    This is fascinating

  • @LouisaWatt
    @LouisaWatt Před měsícem +90

    People’s looks improve when they’re awesome from the inside, which doesn’t happen when someone is obsessed with their appearance, it happens when they’re genuinely interested in others and have healthy interests

    • @koteswarris8949
      @koteswarris8949 Před měsícem +1

      Thissssss

    • @sjejsj7615
      @sjejsj7615 Před měsícem +19

      You can be obsessed with your appearance and still be nice on the inside

    • @anthonycosta128
      @anthonycosta128 Před měsícem +5

      This is why I also don't choose unhealthy and obese people because I believe in healthy choice

    • @FencingMessiah
      @FencingMessiah Před měsícem +25

      Make believe bs. Some people are born gorgeous and others not so much. It has nothing to do with who they are on the inside

    • @badge5575
      @badge5575 Před měsícem

      This is 🐂💩 looks are mostly genetic

  • @MiniMich7
    @MiniMich7 Před 17 dny

    Loved this video

  • @manee2412
    @manee2412 Před měsícem +4

    its all about looks buddy boyos !

  • @evabruyninckx3936
    @evabruyninckx3936 Před měsícem

    Love love loveee your videosss

  • @missquinn9562
    @missquinn9562 Před měsícem +8

    I was actually always mewing but didn’t know what it was but for some reason when I became aware of what it was, I started to get self conscious and actually stopped mewing💀

    • @bruh-kl9sc
      @bruh-kl9sc Před měsícem +2

      don't stop. it's the proper tongue posture. a lot of people who don't naturally mew usually have allergies or other medical issues when growing up that makes them have congested nose and breathe through their mouth. breathing through your mouth doesn't only change your bone structure, it also reduces the amount of oxygen you breathe. the air you breathe doesn't get filtered through the nose.
      mewing when you're already an adult however doesn't really work. that's where the controversies come from

    • @missquinn9562
      @missquinn9562 Před měsícem +1

      @@bruh-kl9sc I didn’t stop but I became self conscious of it, I would just randomly think “am I mewing?” and check myself

    • @glooo777
      @glooo777 Před měsícem

      same im still mewing till this day

  • @U_quintessential.K
    @U_quintessential.K Před měsícem +2

    Wow didn't expect a new one

  • @im_just_vidu
    @im_just_vidu Před měsícem +5

    Off topic but that dress looks soo beautiful

  • @Kasia-xl9gt
    @Kasia-xl9gt Před měsícem +7

    Tongue position is important in puberty when the body is still growing. If adults do mewing, that probably won't alter their looks. Honestly, I thought about surgery because I have been breathing through my mouth for years, now I cannot fully close it, my breathing through nose is more difficult, and I definitely have a receding jawline, which means less space for the tongue and thus problems with teeth positions, so I need braces. But surgery of this type is hazardous and expensive, and I probably won't do it, unless my dentists won't suggest it.

  • @rainiminiatures2184
    @rainiminiatures2184 Před měsícem +1

    first time i heard the word mogging, but i guess it's always been around since photography was a thing. Taking pictures should be an enjoyable thing, but I feel it stresses out a lot of people. We all have our bad hair days and bad angles, but sometimes we just have to forget about these flesh bags we live in and take a picture just for the sake of commemorating the fun moment, not for the sake of posting it on social media. It makes me smile when I realize I had the goofiest smile in a particular group pic. It might not be a flattering look, but the pure joy captured in the moment is also a form of beauty and it's the superior kind. These are the kind of pictures you look back at years later to remember the good times.

  • @indiradinah7715
    @indiradinah7715 Před měsícem +11

    I work at a school and the mewing obsession amongst the boys 13-15 is crazy!

    • @BijouCute
      @BijouCute Před měsícem +3

      And what’s so bad about it? If you do a simple search on the internet about mewing, you will find that all orthodontist recommended it for all people since it improves jaw development and simultaneously how well your teeth fit in your mouth. Also, many people are mewing naturally which basically just means having the correct tongue position in your mouth and avoiding mouth breathing which is, indeed, an issue.

    • @amanchoudhury8135
      @amanchoudhury8135 Před měsícem +2

      Its not that anything is bad about meowing. Its just was the positioning of the tongue they are mentioning is just the normal positioning of tongue. So idk whats so special about it

    • @Bobby_T_
      @Bobby_T_ Před měsícem +1

      Yeah they’re making their faces look normal, braces have been destroying our faces for years

    • @Mulmgott
      @Mulmgott Před měsícem +1

      That is awesome! Healthy posture should always be supported! Finally a trend that is actually positive for everybody involved.

    • @bloodyhell47
      @bloodyhell47 Před 10 dny +1

      Let them be lol

  • @hazyreality3610
    @hazyreality3610 Před měsícem +20

    F looks maxxing, situationships are FUELLINGGG the hot girl summer 😭

  • @alko_xo
    @alko_xo Před měsícem +1

    Live your life meaningfully - become handsome!

  • @67zillion94
    @67zillion94 Před 25 dny +4

    The thing is you did not look into looksmaxxing deep enough, looksmaxxing goes off the golden ratio, using harmony dimorphism, symmetry and averageness, these are all what makes an ideal face, which defeats the whole idea of “oh well hunter eyes is just a trend” yet people like Alain Delon had hunter eyes and was in a whole different generation from us and so was leonardo di caprio and yet they were considered attractive for their time, another thing you forgot to mention was that looks do play a role in society, someone like Jeremy Meeks was literally given an opportunity to model despite him being a criminal soley based off his looks, no average man would ever get that treatment, and speaking of criminals dont forget Richard Ramirez who did absolutely horrible things to people and despite his actions he was still praised for his looks, and before saying “oh they were just weird women” John Wayne Gacy didn’t get that treatment, so saying looks don’t matter in society is just being in denial.

  • @erykdenzel2155
    @erykdenzel2155 Před měsícem +18

    Women date for survivability fuck for looks men date for exclusivity fuck for looks/ whatever is available

  • @cfr9607
    @cfr9607 Před měsícem +7

    There is 'pretty privilege' (career, dating). so there must be a disadvantage when someone is looking ''ugly''.

    • @Halo4beatsB02
      @Halo4beatsB02 Před měsícem +2

      Pretty privilege, looksmaxxing, lookism its all the same thing.

    • @Angelo-pz7zp
      @Angelo-pz7zp Před měsícem

      it's simple as it is, but people need to believe redpill is false so the matrix goes on

    • @AddgFfghy
      @AddgFfghy Před 29 dny

      ‘Ugly’ just means perceived undesirable genes to pass to potential offspring

  • @iurycabeleira7990
    @iurycabeleira7990 Před 13 dny

    Love your voice

  • @watchtheworldburn6908
    @watchtheworldburn6908 Před měsícem +12

    Zoeunlimited speaking the truth on the benefits and harmful effects of self-care.

  • @crazymixedkid6362
    @crazymixedkid6362 Před měsícem +14

    Title made me choke on my water

  • @amniknezhad4178
    @amniknezhad4178 Před 16 dny

    Great video Zoe!❤️‍🩹 You really slayed hard🔥

  • @ghostie7790
    @ghostie7790 Před měsícem +3

    Your editing is phenomenal in this one. Every time you said bone smashing and added the explosion, I lost it 😂😂😂

  • @Evergladez
    @Evergladez Před měsícem +35

    When I heard the looksmaxxing scale of 1-10 doesn't consider anyone as a 10 since they would have to be perfect, it became invalid. I never take rating system(s) serious if there unwilling to give something a 10.

    • @wizardhacker2887
      @wizardhacker2887 Před měsícem +2

      Because no one is ever going to be rated 10/10 by everyone. Once a man is an 8/10 any more improvement is just subjective. Fixing your recessed jaw, crooked teeth, balding, width of your jaw, or even fixing your eyelid exposure are objective ways to make yourself more beautiful. After you fix the big details then smaller more subjective stuff like eye color, hair color, beard or no facial hair come into play so no technically a 10 can’t exist.

    • @Evergladez
      @Evergladez Před měsícem

      @@wizardhacker2887 if someplace advertised having every ice-cream flavor but they don't carry vanilla then do they really every flavor? If no one can be a 10 then the system is really only 1-9

    • @moaen1
      @moaen1 Před 22 dny

      Lmao why,literally no one is perfect so naturally no one is 10

    • @Evergladez
      @Evergladez Před 22 dny

      @@moaen1 then it's truly only a 1-9 rating system perfect should be an 11 or off the charts. Imagine if no one gave movie 5 stars since no film is truly perfect.

    • @ShikharDey-qz1ms
      @ShikharDey-qz1ms Před 20 dny

      @@Evergladez Someone can be a 10 but no one will ever be. 10 means perfect. Perfect wont exist. If the scale was 1-9 no one would be 9.

  • @skyrisesenpaiii678
    @skyrisesenpaiii678 Před měsícem +12

    0:12.. I’m not sure which one is the better version of his.

  • @romivi196
    @romivi196 Před měsícem

    This is just crazy, I'm quite schocked

  • @Epiphanystone
    @Epiphanystone Před měsícem +14

    The men are not ok.

  • @Zombie-gd6fw
    @Zombie-gd6fw Před měsícem +6

    Did anybody tell those men that once grown bones cannot be changed by thumb massage?

  • @Avax123
    @Avax123 Před měsícem +30

    A zoe unlimited video a day keeps the sadness away

  • @Juliodax
    @Juliodax Před měsícem

    She is beatiful girl!

  • @queenestherworld780
    @queenestherworld780 Před měsícem +3

    Heyy lol i luv ur vids u slay zoe

  • @minheehee4683
    @minheehee4683 Před měsícem +1

    u can open the intermaxillary suture and it is used in orthodontics but it will get u no where if u put unmeasured forces on ur bones as a grown up. it needs time and growth so if u don't seek professional help when u are still growing it will get u no where.

  • @nonosquare259
    @nonosquare259 Před měsícem +6

    I laughed so hard on Carrotmaxing. 😅
    One time my family bought a juice machine and we started to drink lots of fresh apple, orange and carrot juices. My mom forced us to drink some every day. I really loved chugging carrot juice and after 3 weeks only 3 my already peach skin started to look yellow. After that they won’t me to drink carrot juice 😢.
    Bonus: At that period of time my nickname was “Indian” (From India not indigenous).

    • @nonosquare259
      @nonosquare259 Před měsícem

      Like 400ml one big glass of fresh carrot juice. 😋

    • @marymurphy1877
      @marymurphy1877 Před měsícem +1

      @@nonosquare259 my brother as a baby only liked the carrot and sweet potato baby food... he was an orange baby and my mom was freaking out taking him to the doctor. I think it's really easy for babys to get it.

    • @amanchoudhury8135
      @amanchoudhury8135 Před měsícem +1

      I am sorry but does the carrot juice thing actually work 😅. I thought that was some joke . Well look i am Indian and i just don't understand the point of changing skin colour because whatever the skin colour a person has actually suits them better atleast that what my thoughts are .

    • @marymurphy1877
      @marymurphy1877 Před měsícem

      @@amanchoudhury8135 it really does change skin tones- i think it usually happens to babys bc they are so much smaller (like it happened to my brother as a baby) i didn't know people actually sought it out on purpose though.

    • @amanchoudhury8135
      @amanchoudhury8135 Před měsícem +1

      @@marymurphy1877 o.I mean it's understandable that someone likes carrot juice or like you said added to children diet but purposely doing it to change the colour of the skin it's bit weird of concept to me

  • @tangerineslice
    @tangerineslice Před měsícem +2

    I got jaw sugery for health reasons (it was freeee hhe) and it hurts SO BAD they literally SAWED my BONE, caused temporary nerve issues aka sensitivity loss (normal) and REARRANGED my MUSCLES .
    all that for me to hate my face after. Like esthetic wasnt the point but whyyyyy

  • @zyyl1949
    @zyyl1949 Před měsícem +17

    Looksmaxxing is great. At the root, sexual selection boils down to the sexy son hypothesis, good genes theory and Fisher’s principle when sex ration nears 1:1 so obviously becoming physically attractive is a no brainer.

    • @apocalypse.is.near.
      @apocalypse.is.near. Před 29 dny +1

      wth bruh

    • @zyyl1949
      @zyyl1949 Před 29 dny

      @@apocalypse.is.near. Along with the 4 intersexual competition strategies of self promotion, competitor derogation, mate manipulation and competitor manipulation obviously.

    • @marktate7618
      @marktate7618 Před 29 dny +3

      Intersexually the 4 strategies of self-promotion, mate manipulation, competitor derogation and competitor manipulation too

    • @zyyl1949
      @zyyl1949 Před 29 dny

      @@marktate7618 Yeah, but these are intersexual competition strategies to achieve the underlying principles I mentioned. Although you’re right, they’re not the base of sexual selection

    • @Pikiaaa
      @Pikiaaa Před 28 dny

      I’d argue looksmaxxing is actually a Fisherian runaway

  • @sionnach.1374
    @sionnach.1374 Před měsícem +1

    Mewing works as does face pulling. The skull is designed to grow in that way. In youth it is most effective

  • @hyck.
    @hyck. Před měsícem +1

    I feel so called out with the whole hand soap to wash your face thing 😅

  • @k.t.7507
    @k.t.7507 Před 29 dny +1

    Never heard of this term before, then again, I'm not really "hip" when it comes to the fashion and beauty culture nowadays(idk if that's good or bad for a 25yr old). I don't believe that this is a bad thing, just like with anything, as long as done healthily and naturally. There are extremist in every group that give the group the negative stereotypes('a few bad apples tend to make the tree rotten', is wheat people believe).
    I feel as though i need a degree, just to keep up with the lastest "beauty" trends and terminology!!

  • @IfYouAreReadingThisILY
    @IfYouAreReadingThisILY Před měsícem

    I agreed sm with you

  • @spektree8448
    @spektree8448 Před 10 dny

    hunter eyes isnt only positive canthal tilt. It is also low upper eyelid exposure and ppl always show pictures of that one specific siren eye shape idk what its called

  • @raymoon8147
    @raymoon8147 Před měsícem +1

    Я така рада що знайшла ваш канал! Ви тепер еталон стилю для мене і ви дуже красива😊

  • @jiminsgurl5528
    @jiminsgurl5528 Před měsícem +4

    I LOVE YOU BESTIE

  • @ands_t
    @ands_t Před měsícem

    so craaaaaazy

  • @tsigaraki_arvyla_xasan
    @tsigaraki_arvyla_xasan Před měsícem +4

    yo i was NOT prepared for ropemaxxing 💀💀💀💀

  • @brownFlower53
    @brownFlower53 Před měsícem +7

    i've been keeping this inside me. i don't want to tell my girls about this too. my mom indirectly called me ugly because I cut my hair short and my skin's been breaking out for over a year now. she said I'm using too much product and she said I won't find a job in the future because of how I look (I'm 21).
    this is just so awful because I felt insecure upon looking at myself with uneven skin tone because of sunburn, bad skin due to break out, and my hair that flys away :

    • @user-pc2pm7xl3y
      @user-pc2pm7xl3y Před měsícem +3

      Honestly, I don't think any smart employer would let go of you for your looks. I know it's easier said than done, but be confident in your own skin

    • @t-bonetyrone
      @t-bonetyrone Před měsícem +3

      Lookism at its finest lol

    • @Batmans_Pet_Goldfish
      @Batmans_Pet_Goldfish Před měsícem

      ​@@user-pc2pm7xl3yI think you underestimate how much employers care about looks, or rather, how much customers care about seeing someone who's "presentable."

  • @Lacoste7-6-7
    @Lacoste7-6-7 Před měsícem

    No one is ugly, but their actions can be.

    • @bloodyhell47
      @bloodyhell47 Před 10 dny +1

      Ugly people exist lol whether physically or mentally stop being delusional

  • @1starfalco1
    @1starfalco1 Před hodinou

    damn.......................this vid almost made me break my mewing streak

  • @DemureNevermore
    @DemureNevermore Před 10 dny

    My beef with maxxing is all too niche. I have always had a sharp, thin, prominent bone structure. Although I’m quite attractive, I have no cheekbones or cheek fat, the only features that are soft lips and bum. I WANT more facial fat/plumpness/roundness- I WANT a softer jaw(slightly not much 😭).
    So I’m kinda jealous there’s not something like THIS for ppl like me other than gaining, which I'm trying. No facial exercise is gonna give me cute, girlish cheeks 🥲

  • @Simply_Delilah
    @Simply_Delilah Před měsícem

    333rd like!!❤
    Love ur videos Zoe!!❤

  • @mewinghater
    @mewinghater Před měsícem

    15:04 YES THATS WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT

  • @jimmyjohnjingles6266
    @jimmyjohnjingles6266 Před měsícem

    Damn Zoe you broke ur mewing stewak 😡

  • @sarajamal9578
    @sarajamal9578 Před měsícem +1

    I was eating in the kitchen alone at 4AM and having airpods on, I was concentrating on my food and the sound effect at 6:38 got me jumping on my feet T^T
    Gotta tell y’all it wasn’t fun..

  • @fornana
    @fornana Před 3 dny

    I’m a guy and have always been ugly and hated myself. I have done maybe everything I can to be more attractive. Working out, good skincare, good style (small) amounts of filler etc. And I guess I look better (low body fat and stuff) But bruh I’m still so ugly everyday I think about ending my life. I do have a therapist who knows this, but like everyday I feel like there is no hope for me. I’ll never be a person people and to be honest especially girls like. Meh. Also I just can’t possibly understand why I would be confident? Like it feels so detached from reality.

  • @reinesya9407
    @reinesya9407 Před měsícem +5

    Ur telling compeletely trues. But it doesnt mean anything for a bullied and 'real ugly' person. Ugliness exists and for me i can deal with it but when i go out, get contact with other people that doesnt know me, they will be annoyed by not even knowing me well. Ugliness annoys people. They will belittle u and idk. When u argued with people they will say inside or outside that you already look ugly so ur lower status no matter how ur character was.

  • @janselidogru7898
    @janselidogru7898 Před měsícem +3

    0:18 wtf he has a new eye 👁️ colour

  • @navimavimori
    @navimavimori Před měsícem +3

    well- idk if it’s because of my overbite, but my tongue naturally likes to stay on the roof of my mouth. 😭 though, i don’t understand why it’s so popular 😀

    • @damlakacmaz8743
      @damlakacmaz8743 Před 13 dny

      It's helpful for people with opposite condition to you, they say.

  • @fineapple9299
    @fineapple9299 Před měsícem +4

    ah yes, teens relying on sources from the 1800s, famously known for its medically accurate information😭

  • @k.t.7507
    @k.t.7507 Před 29 dny +1

    these people really think their on to something, just because the "rename" techniques that have already been proven to be effective(gym maxxing, skincare maxxing). Youre literally just taking care of yourself in order to be a healthier person 🤣🤦‍♀🤦‍♂🤦

  • @shethegurl_shurl4964
    @shethegurl_shurl4964 Před měsícem +2

    "Everything about you is ugly" 😌💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽

  • @Born_Prestige
    @Born_Prestige Před měsícem +6

    People need God in their lives fr

    • @amanchoudhury8135
      @amanchoudhury8135 Před měsícem +1

      Na bro they need brain first

    • @Born_Prestige
      @Born_Prestige Před měsícem

      Well then who creates in order to have the brain and think

    • @amanchoudhury8135
      @amanchoudhury8135 Před měsícem +1

      @@Born_Prestige God left that part in them

    • @Celestial_Cryptid
      @Celestial_Cryptid Před měsícem

      So they can take part in wars that leave millions dead for their religion

    • @fck404
      @fck404 Před měsícem

      They need beauty ur fck asshole​@@Born_Prestige

  • @amanchoudhury8135
    @amanchoudhury8135 Před měsícem +2

    I once came across these looksmaxximg videos . Its was all about blue colour eyes, hunter eyes , white skin and ways an extremely hollow cheek bone structure.
    Look i have green eye , black hair and pretty tall (6'3). Once i commented why are all these looksmaxxing men always just white men with just blue onces . Some biys git mad saying you are Indian thats why you are mad 🤣🤣.
    Look people it was just straight up disrespectful because they were just straight up mentioning in theur caption that these skins colours and eye colours can't looksmaxx which mate me uncomfortable. And i hope people understand that as quickly as possible

    • @amanchoudhury8135
      @amanchoudhury8135 Před měsícem +1

      And i forgot to mention the amount of guys in the comments absolutely calling asian men gay for no reason 🤦‍♂️

  • @ands_t
    @ands_t Před měsícem

    gum go directly against teeth mastering

  • @raydaveed
    @raydaveed Před měsícem +1

    Margo being mid is a meme at this point 😂

  • @vikm1341
    @vikm1341 Před měsícem

    I didn’t even know this was a thing im glad im off tik tok lol

  • @katerinamudrova7928
    @katerinamudrova7928 Před měsícem +4

    Kidology has a great video on the toxicity of this community, pretty awful place to find yourself

    • @azuragoddess
      @azuragoddess Před měsícem +2

      They're rude and toxic, but at least they are honest unlike normies.

  • @XOAFRODITEXO
    @XOAFRODITEXO Před měsícem +1

    Mewing came from Doctor Mew he LITERALLY HAS A CZcams CHANNEL

  • @damlakacmaz8743
    @damlakacmaz8743 Před 13 dny

    Y'know, only beautiful people can dismiss how looks affect people's views on you. I think premise part of that website was true. Medhods are mixed bag with suspicious, solid and unreasonable...

  • @kfcunt
    @kfcunt Před měsícem

    You are so pretty zoeeee

  • @Zelibobakun
    @Zelibobakun Před měsícem +1

    It's interesting how it is in reverse. It's not a skyscraper on the sand. Your looks are the foundtion. Yes, you of course need to accept yourself, sure. But it shouldn't turn into a denial of physical and social reality of things. So accept your 5/10 self, but what are you going to do about it? And a lot of times, answers is "It's currently impossible". Why? Well, until our medicine is capable of molding a person's face and body as if it's an RPG game or a Meta Human, someone will get left behind. So, please, donate to research if you have money. What research? There are plenty of fields! Plastic surgeory, CRISPR, AI, BCI etc. There are a lot of fields that might directly or indirectly impact problem in question.

  • @Klasik616
    @Klasik616 Před měsícem +4

    "Alain Delon looks average"
    -Incel rotter with 300lb and 0$

  • @DesertNightCamouflage1982
    @DesertNightCamouflage1982 Před měsícem

    I am a man that has nothing to lose thanks society 💀💀

  • @PhoenixFromYoutube
    @PhoenixFromYoutube Před měsícem

    bruhh soo many are just so scarryyyyyy wtf

  • @Miyah-yo
    @Miyah-yo Před měsícem +1

    mewing 🤫

  • @Celestial_Cryptid
    @Celestial_Cryptid Před měsícem +3

    19:08 I wonder how delusional and self important you have to be to pretend that everyone getting judged by looks isn’t the most important factor in sociology and that you don’t do it yourself

  • @RavarsenBlogspot
    @RavarsenBlogspot Před měsícem

    It spooks women to think that it's not only women only hiding behind appearances to increase appeal. It's gonna be a lot harder to filter the 2 percent men now