The Art of Not Caring: A Complete Guide To Living A Happy Life

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    In this video, we embark on a journey through time, unearthing the wisdom of great philosophical minds who have shaped our understanding of what it truly means to "not care." 📜
    Beginning with an introduction to the philosophy of happiness, we delve into the different philosophical perspectives on happiness and the role of caring in our lives. 💡
    We examine the Stoic teachings of Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, and Seneca, and how they approached the art of not caring. Their words continue to guide us today, shedding light on the path to a fulfilling life. 🏛️
    From the western shores of Greece, we journey to the East, exploring the teachings of Buddhism. We discover the profound wisdom on the art of non-attachment and how it can lead to inner peace and happiness. 🎎
    We then bring the spotlight onto Nietzsche, the maverick philosopher, and his concept of self-overcoming, drawing fascinating links to the idea of not caring about societal norms. 🔆
    Our philosophical journey also includes lessons from the existentialists, notably Søren Kierkegaard and Jean-Paul Sartre. These thinkers provide us with insights on personal freedom and the absurdity of life, inviting us to embrace the art of not caring about the inherent uncertainty of existence. 🌀
    Finally, we provide you with practical steps to apply these philosophical insights in your daily life. We offer tips to overcome potential challenges and share some mindfulness techniques to help you cultivate the art of not caring. 🌼
    This journey is just the beginning, and the art of not caring is a lifelong practice. As you watch, we encourage you to reflect on these teachings and consider how you might apply them to your own life.
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    #ArtOfNotCaring #Happiness #Philosophy

Komentáře • 512

  • @SUCCESSCHASERS
    @SUCCESSCHASERS  Před 10 měsíci +47

    Hey guys!
    Thank you so much for watching.
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    • @IamKai8947
      @IamKai8947 Před 10 měsíci

      If your a man,your alone. No one cares. Noticed while useful, then simply less than human almost.

    • @dorisperryman6304
      @dorisperryman6304 Před 10 měsíci +1

      K
      K
      )llll))p

    • @jagath8893
      @jagath8893 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@refatrabadi6656ev?? ?kqke?z 9e9

    • @chrish3720
      @chrish3720 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I was going to watch it. I very soon discovered. That I don't give a shit

    • @Clown-ng2bp
      @Clown-ng2bp Před 9 měsíci

      Q❤😊😊❤

  • @lessons8708
    @lessons8708 Před 10 měsíci +183

    What most people consider "happiness" is actually "excitement" and that feeling only lasts about 10 minutes. Contentment is the feeling that we think of when we say "happiness". Contentment is a calm feeling, not like excitement. Happiness isn't a huge grin on your face...it is calm and stoic

    • @recuerdos2457
      @recuerdos2457 Před 10 měsíci +3

      🤔When there is less suffer, happiness it is…

    • @emmettnorris851
      @emmettnorris851 Před 10 měsíci +3

      I like that

    • @scottytoohotty7617
      @scottytoohotty7617 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Happiness is not excitement, excitement may be a part of it though. Pure and perfect love brings happiness. You can only feel such things if you've truly forgiven everyone and everything that's ever hurt you.

    • @frederickphelaniii3733
      @frederickphelaniii3733 Před 9 měsíci

      Indeed, completely agree. Well said 😌

    • @scottytoohotty7617
      @scottytoohotty7617 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@WVgirl1959 Must feel good up there on that pedestal 😏

  • @AFMMarcelD
    @AFMMarcelD Před 9 měsíci +62

    “The better I get to know people, the more that I love my cat and dog.” - Mark Twain
    I’ve learned to stay away from toxic entitle and narcissistic people it has definitely helped and influenced my personal happiness and it makes me feel completely liberated, then I come home and my cats and doggo filled me up with their unconditional love and tender affection.

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Yeah that's right I'm thinking about that same thing my self

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Yeah that's right because a lot less stress and more time to get what I want to get done with out the bullshit from the others in my family circle and so I can concentrate on the things I want to get accomplished in my life

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 9 měsíci +6

      That's because a cat or a dog can't screw me over unlike another person 😂😂🤐😳

    • @KevinHall-yj9zc
      @KevinHall-yj9zc Před 8 měsíci +1

      Ha ha love all y'all comments !!! Makes me think !!😮😮😮

    • @mahkuntizitchy2083
      @mahkuntizitchy2083 Před 7 měsíci

      True! This is why men are staying away from women now!

  • @johnjohnson3709
    @johnjohnson3709 Před 10 měsíci +78

    Success is getting what you want. Happiness is liking what you got!

    • @iahmedkhaled7346
      @iahmedkhaled7346 Před 10 měsíci

      Great quote
      Is it by you?

    • @johnjohnson3709
      @johnjohnson3709 Před 10 měsíci

      @@iahmedkhaled7346 No, I heard it years ago somewhere and it’s sort of how I see life. And I like what I got. I’m an artist who makes chairs, art chairs. And I’m a musician. I make life good in spite of crap that comes along the way. And I’m not rich but my life is. You have to make your life rich without a lot of money until you get a lot of money. Did I just write a song?

    • @tommychappell6359
      @tommychappell6359 Před 10 měsíci +1

      you don't have to respect people, but you can respect their words. Even worst enemy can provide truths you don't know.
      you can continue hating that guy but use his truth to better mine/our own. but if you can rebuy respect then good.

    • @jennytilley3755
      @jennytilley3755 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Happiness is getting what you want,success is liking what you get.😊

    • @johnjohnson3709
      @johnjohnson3709 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@jennytilley3755 yeah but I prefer my way.

  • @tedsargent8905
    @tedsargent8905 Před 9 měsíci +52

    I have lived this way for years.. I wasn't always this way... I had to apply it.. and it saved my life over 40 years ago. Take it to heart.

  • @Michaelhateshandles
    @Michaelhateshandles Před 10 měsíci +189

    Good luck on your journey everyone. It’s so hard and things move so fast in the current society in general. All I want is love for everyone.

    • @migueldelapaz1864
      @migueldelapaz1864 Před 10 měsíci +3

      I don’t care

    • @Goodkidjr43
      @Goodkidjr43 Před 10 měsíci

      The most successful adherents to the belief in "The Art of not caring" are Hitler, Stalin, Mao and Pol Pot. They became the most successful, famous and powerful men in history with three out of four living out their natural lives. They did not "care" what other people thought. God bless

    • @Daneiladams555
      @Daneiladams555 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Love is not enough

    • @markofsaltburn
      @markofsaltburn Před 10 měsíci

      @@Daneiladams555If you mean romantic and erotic love, of course. If you mean grown-up love, of course not.

    • @darinroberts3528
      @darinroberts3528 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Love ❤

  • @tyroneenglish5248
    @tyroneenglish5248 Před 9 měsíci +8

    When you stop caring what people say about you, your on the way to awesome freedom

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 9 měsíci

      Your so right on that note

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 9 měsíci

      Your so right on that note my friend just always believe in your life and self being and you,ll always have something no can take from your self

  • @nancyhanscom1374
    @nancyhanscom1374 Před 10 měsíci +14

    I tried teaching, telling, helping people. It didn't work, my granddaughter still died in a car accident, my grandson still lives in a dump with his 3 children and wife. I'm 75...finally learned i don't live in the dump and he must like it so nothing i can do will help. I wanted to write " but the great Grandchildren " but I'm not going to write it, u see, I've grown 😢 😔 💔

  • @SadorRecaps
    @SadorRecaps Před 10 měsíci +9

    Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.
    Arnold Schwarzenegger

  • @gasmith7486
    @gasmith7486 Před 10 měsíci +29

    Sometimes you just CAN’T care, otherwise you’ll be destroyed!!
    My 3 adult kids are so abusive (like their dad) that I had to cut them out of my life.
    That being said, if I GAF it will continue to hurt me. Therefore, every day I choose not to care about them anymore and now my life is so much better!!

    • @recuerdos2457
      @recuerdos2457 Před 10 měsíci +7

      Agreed! We are no saints, we need to be selective and make good choices. Without inner peace, we can’t love ourselves let alone to love other ppl.

    • @latinaalma1947
      @latinaalma1947 Před 10 měsíci +6

      this is so sad I finally had to stop engaging with my adul daughter all the time spent nuturing, providing for , keeping her safe and giving her literally the world of experienced through our many travels made her sucessful but unloving and uncaring a narcissist liker father and I dont toss that word around lightly I was a professor of psych but it can be genetic and in case it was...Imput up with far too much.

    • @anneloving8405
      @anneloving8405 Před 9 měsíci +3

      ​@@latinaalma1947U did too much for her that's why,the stress on parents to make children have a perfect childhood is huge,Giving them too much is as bad as giving them too little

    • @melindasmith3713
      @melindasmith3713 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Those kids are only ours when we are responsible for them , if they choose , let them , you did your job . Can't controll them forever ! 18 and life .

    • @beverlyjordan3791
      @beverlyjordan3791 Před 9 měsíci +1

      I needed to hear all of this case closed

  • @alejandroquintana611
    @alejandroquintana611 Před 10 měsíci +17

    I stopped caring for many things including people that just gossip. I still need to work more on just being with me (my superior power) God. And seek as always virtue and wisdom.

  • @adwoasam9237
    @adwoasam9237 Před 10 měsíci +6

    People get so mad when you think of yourself instead of caring about what they think. Their attitude shows when they can no longer use you.

  • @_ClearConscious
    @_ClearConscious Před 10 měsíci +36

    You’re truly limitless. The only thing that binds us is our own minds! Love yourself and keep moving forward! ❤

    • @Potencyfunction
      @Potencyfunction Před 8 měsíci

      Stupidity is limitless. To arrive to love your self is first respect. If you have lost respect due the life surroundings, than what is your theory about ?

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 7 měsíci

      Amen to that note my friend and you can be free to think more about what you want to do with your day and life

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 7 měsíci

      @@Potencyfunction to find that inner peace of mind for your self

  • @Vanessabobessa10
    @Vanessabobessa10 Před 10 měsíci +406

    This prob works really well when your basic needs are met

    • @DaTechn9cian
      @DaTechn9cian Před 10 měsíci +49

      Yea I'm very sex deprived and very deprived of feminine presence

    • @Othlete
      @Othlete Před 10 měsíci +78

      If you’re doing all you can to get your basic needs met, that means the rest is up to chance which is completely outside of your control. You can be happy in knowing that you’re doing all you can instead of relying on your happiness to be predicated on things like chance which is random. As chance is random, therefore so will your happiness be. It’s better if you leave your happiness to yourself. The only thing you can control. Chance fluctuates in all of our lives. When chance is not on your side, it maybe on mine. But when it is on your side, maybe it has turned against me. Both good and bad is the journey of life for all. Don’t focus on avoiding the bad, but instead work on understanding that it is here and will be back again. For all of us. Embrace it Learn from it. The best lessons are taught in our darkest moments so don’t let them go to waste. May chance be with you.

    • @davvydivine
      @davvydivine Před 10 měsíci +4

      My thoughts exactly 😊

    • @TheJamie6666
      @TheJamie6666 Před 10 měsíci +29

      The trouble is people think greed is the way to happiness.

    • @BEKrustie
      @BEKrustie Před 10 měsíci +29

      If you're able bodied and willing then any issues obtaining the "Basic Needs" is 100% on you.
      If you're not able bodied then that's something you can't control and that's exactly what the videos talking about

  • @bodhidarma2
    @bodhidarma2 Před 10 měsíci +43

    Not caring in my life means forgetting ALL the DREAMS I have of EVERYONE & and I truly mean EVERYONE. For I and God have grown weary of watching mankind's ignorance.

    • @worldofameiso5491
      @worldofameiso5491 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Wow! So you know the mind of a god?

    • @bodhidarma2
      @bodhidarma2 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@worldofameiso5491 I do, I've met "God" before. It's fact no fiction

    • @worldofameiso5491
      @worldofameiso5491 Před 10 měsíci

      @@bodhidarma2 pure fantasy.

    • @coatingkings
      @coatingkings Před 9 měsíci +1

      ​@@worldofameiso5491you live a sad life myfriend I hope you get better.....

    • @worldofameiso5491
      @worldofameiso5491 Před 9 měsíci

      @coatingkings first thing, I am not your friend. Secondly, I am not at all sad.

  • @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984
    @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984 Před 10 měsíci +17

    We have to find happiness from within. Spiritual also help us in very immense way.find your peace and happiness from within everyone 🙏

  • @PhotoAmbrosia
    @PhotoAmbrosia Před 10 měsíci +10

    There is no way to happiness...happiness is the way.

  • @user-it7vn4yb3l
    @user-it7vn4yb3l Před 10 měsíci +32

    It is true that not caring makes the discomfort of an unsatisfying life easier to take. It is when people feel passionately about things related to their lives that they in turn have strong emotional responses to the disappointments of their lives. Not caring allows for more neutral reactions with less strong emotions attached to the responses by way of less passion about the situations, circumstances, and interactions of life in general.

    • @omargenewilson6209
      @omargenewilson6209 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Well said

    • @fotomotoxxiii
      @fotomotoxxiii Před 10 měsíci +6

      You said it so well and this resonated with me. I'm extremely passionate and that's how I enjoy things. Anything short of that I simply don't care and then it's meaningless. When I withdraw and simply observe I get depressed by the lack of anything happening. Lack of feeling alive. Hard to explain but everything i love and enjoy is driven by fiery passion for me.

    • @user-it7vn4yb3l
      @user-it7vn4yb3l Před 10 měsíci

      It is not only you whose firey passion fuels their love in life. That is pretty much a universally human trait. Passion fuels love, hate, interest in life in general, for humans in general. War is fueled by passion.@@fotomotoxxiii

    • @SkyePhoenix
      @SkyePhoenix Před 10 měsíci

      I agree, and after experiencing so many disappointments, I'm almost at the point of not caring. What is the meaning of life without love and passion?

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 9 měsíci

      So right 🙂

  • @evekult
    @evekult Před 10 měsíci +20

    Everything is temporary, even your body. Life is about going through it until you expire 80-100 years. some don't make it, some regreats. your soul is the only thing experiencing it.

    • @refatrabadi6656
      @refatrabadi6656 Před 10 měsíci +3

      One third of your life is sleeping That is 25-30 years of sleeping … another 25-30 third is working . That last third 25-30 years is time you spend after work and before you go to sleep….

    • @SkyePhoenix
      @SkyePhoenix Před 10 měsíci

      Yep! Well said.

  • @adam_a923
    @adam_a923 Před 10 měsíci +18

    21:24- 21:57 . The most heartfelt and genuine understanding of the way life really is and how all of us have negative thoughts, emotions and genuine discontentment towards ourselves and everyone around us. However, it would be unwise to not think about every action, reaction or remark because then you would never have your own choice at a right or wrong path.

    • @percubit10
      @percubit10 Před 10 měsíci +6

      This society kills your soul and crushes your spirit. Going back to self. The best wisdom is being like a child.

  • @arpitpatel5814
    @arpitpatel5814 Před 7 měsíci +3

    As one grow older, one should appreciate the importance of being content than being happy 🙏🏻

  • @lesliemurphy830
    @lesliemurphy830 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Instead of saying "not caring" I think its more accurate to say "not minding" I think we all care.

    • @recuerdos2457
      @recuerdos2457 Před 10 měsíci

      If we already know things and ppl are out of our control, why and what are we care about for?!🤔

    • @worldofameiso5491
      @worldofameiso5491 Před 10 měsíci

      @@recuerdos2457Well, we should certainly care about the correct use of language... you ought to try it sometime.

    • @Myway165
      @Myway165 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Look in the mirror, and you will see God❤

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 9 měsíci

      We need to, to a certain point but it's only of a certain level of it then I'll say that enough is enough put on the big boy pants and take a stand for your own self

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@Myway165not really and don't think that you are God for a minute either

  • @Studyminds19
    @Studyminds19 Před 10 měsíci +9

    I love this speaker how he explains.
    👍🏻

  • @afrobian1
    @afrobian1 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Please make more video Sir. Played this on loop all night.

  • @Michaelhateshandles
    @Michaelhateshandles Před 10 měsíci +10

    Humankind’s greatest strength is our ability to come together and work together.
    I’m certain that we are in a period unknown before. Not to dismiss the past.

    • @Novastar.SaberCombat
      @Novastar.SaberCombat Před 10 měsíci +1

      "Reflect upon the Past.
      Embrace your Present.
      Orchestrate our Futures." --Artemis
      🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
      "Before I start, I must see my end.
      Destination known, my mind’s journey now begins.
      Upon my chariot, heart and soul’s fate revealed.
      In time, all points converge, hope’s strength re-steeled.
      But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain,
      We must see all in nothingness...
      Before we start again."
      🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
      --Diamond Dragons (series)

  • @cavoblade6935
    @cavoblade6935 Před 10 měsíci +16

    This is such an amazing video - nice work! Keep the content coming.

  • @TLW369
    @TLW369 Před 10 měsíci +6

    My superpower is that I’ve never given a f**k what others thought of me or my actions.
    Which is why I’m liked by so few people.
    (…And I’m totally okay with that.)
    👑

    • @melindasmith3713
      @melindasmith3713 Před 9 měsíci

      Fake people suck . I'm nice , but it isn't good enough , nice gets you used and abused . I'm 46 and give up on people . Pets now they will use ya , but don't have thumbs to do for themselves , plus people force them to be dependent.

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 9 měsíci

      I hear you on that note my friend 😅

  • @micahmonrow7645
    @micahmonrow7645 Před 10 měsíci +4

    So true when you stop care ing it makes things alot better and less stress full just focus on you

  • @realStoicBond
    @realStoicBond Před 6 měsíci +1

    “To be everywhere is to be nowhere.”
    ― Lucius Annaeus Seneca, Letters from a Stoic

  • @abelgiz7350
    @abelgiz7350 Před 9 měsíci +3

    "you only lose what you cling to" 😮😮

  • @andrewniles1
    @andrewniles1 Před 9 měsíci +4

    This helped me to feel so much better.

  • @mayakatreeza6087
    @mayakatreeza6087 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Love this ❤ This is one of the best on this Subject.

  • @bunnalong79
    @bunnalong79 Před 10 měsíci +9

    All problems in life are relative, there are people who has it worst than you do, be happy with with you have, while inspiring to to better. Thats is all we can do. Just my opinion

    • @thadtuiol1717
      @thadtuiol1717 Před 9 měsíci +1

      True. You could always be dying in a muddy trench in Ukraine as the shells rain down.

  • @Jennypenny3467
    @Jennypenny3467 Před 2 měsíci

    Such a beautifully crafted and well-made video..! Great job! I learned a lot from it! Thank you! 🙏

  • @cdmorrissy3692
    @cdmorrissy3692 Před 10 měsíci +33

    I've always structured my life according to my own "code" and I don't care how anybody "feels" or thinks about it. I've done fine in life, and I really have no problems, except the usual
    "day to day frustrations" encountered while dealing with the public. Otherwise, I have no emotional, financial, legal, health or personal problems, and I live my life free, with very
    little stress and in control.

    • @johnjohnson3709
      @johnjohnson3709 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Will you marry me?

    • @gnasher688
      @gnasher688 Před 10 měsíci

      @@johnjohnson3709- 😂😂😂😂

    • @cdmorrissy3692
      @cdmorrissy3692 Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@reneeparsons I wouldn't know, I haven't seen any of my family members in 45 years.....

    • @candacesturtevant7139
      @candacesturtevant7139 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Kudos. Happy for you.

    • @tencentpistol1
      @tencentpistol1 Před 9 měsíci +2

      @cdmorrissy3692. 45 years?!?! Were you adopted at birth or something?? If not, you gotta be around 60-75 now..And that's a LONG time to not have any type contact with family, either intentionally or unintentionally.. I'm not gonna pry but I find it difficult to believe. Unless you're adopted and are using the word family in a context of biology and not social or societal. And what is your plan for your health history?? Genetic and familial/hereditary diseases are pretty much requiring some sort of genetic history. What if youncarry a recessive gene for some type of horrible defect?? Would you chance producing offspring that further that genetic disadvantage?? I'm not being accusatory just realistic..

  • @kdon4113
    @kdon4113 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Good job on this thanks man

  • @365InnerPeace
    @365InnerPeace Před 7 měsíci

    Your video is the peacefull place for my heart! Thank you!

  • @LaylaLuv8
    @LaylaLuv8 Před 10 měsíci +2

    My first tattoo was a symbol of happiness on the small of my back.
    And this is a really great insight on different perspectives and it’s exactly what I needed at this moment.
    Thank you.

    • @goombah226
      @goombah226 Před 10 měsíci +4

      My first tattoo was a rattlesnake saying "Bite Me." Namaste.

    • @EnCroissant427
      @EnCroissant427 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Ahhh... A bullseye 🎯

    • @lynnbaynes2128
      @lynnbaynes2128 Před 10 měsíci +1

      ✝️I don’t give a fuck🦩 My only tattoo on my forearm. Be well

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 7 měsíci

      Yeah it was an arrow pointing to my ass because it needed a date

  • @user-wd7mk2px8j
    @user-wd7mk2px8j Před 8 měsíci

    happiness is everywhere, when things go bad, I ordered some art of not caring books & was cured

  • @AmericanAnxiety-ep9wd
    @AmericanAnxiety-ep9wd Před 8 měsíci

    Excellent work, Amir!

  • @cocraic_crypto
    @cocraic_crypto Před 10 měsíci +11

    This was extremely well done and insightful. Thank you for making this such an easy way to rethink one’s path in life.

  • @EB-ch1ih
    @EB-ch1ih Před 7 měsíci

    Just discovered your Channel i absolutely love it 😊

  • @BasedRightTrans
    @BasedRightTrans Před 9 měsíci +1

    We mastered this in the 90s with the help of grunge rock, Neat video guy :)

  • @scaryhours2220
    @scaryhours2220 Před 10 měsíci +14

    The only way to truly not give a F is if you honestly love yourself and are loved by others. If this is not the case then your insecurities will eat you alive and your happiness will be solely based on how you feel the world sees you and will be miserable.

    • @SkyePhoenix
      @SkyePhoenix Před 10 měsíci +7

      If you honestly love yourself, it won't matter if you're loved by others.

    • @scaryhours2220
      @scaryhours2220 Před 10 měsíci

      @@SkyePhoenix well we all have different perspectives on this issue but I feel you must love yourself and also be loved. Not by the world but have a core few, group or at least one person that truly cares about you, if so you can't be stopped. If you have absolutely no love coming from any outside source then Idk can you truly be whole? Only you know the answer to that but I think eventually you will feel hollow inside.

    • @annafielder7418
      @annafielder7418 Před 9 měsíci

      I have this book. It's just as good.

    • @tencentpistol1
      @tencentpistol1 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @scaryhours2220 when we're born we have no knowledge innate or otherwise that tells us what love is. We have no baseline to start at. Which is where mothers and family nurturing comes into play. It's a learned trait. Which means you have to be loved first to even know what love is. You cannot love yourself without first being loved. It's not a chicken and egg issue...

    • @simonshura9144
      @simonshura9144 Před 8 měsíci

      @@tencentpistol1 exactly

  • @wachiravichamorndachaphon5257

    Thank you, I'm from Thailand and even i'm not understand this 100%. But this remind me a lot about the meaning of life

    • @Aaron-hv7oh
      @Aaron-hv7oh Před 9 měsíci

      Does it happen to do with the fungi spores fliating around lije in this video?

  • @kyivwithgeofftanya5546
    @kyivwithgeofftanya5546 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I was amused to discover that for thousands of years far greater minds than mine have spent their time considering this. I naturally do not give a feck about societies rules or in general any rules and had thought that I was sociopath then I discovered the sigma theory which seemed to describe my persona. It did not explain that I genuinely do not care about what I have no control over whether it is wealth or death, which has labelled me as cold, heartless, unemotional but I deal with my emotions internally, privately and do not need loud weeping wailing to garner sympathy from peers.
    This attitude has helped me cope with many situations in life and amazement from friends & neighbours when I combine it with my fatalism approach.
    Many have asked why I live in Kyiv when, as a British/Irish citizen, I with my wife could leave. Why when air raid sirens sound do I sit on my balcony enjoying an old fashioned.
    Well as I sat sipping in my home in comfort some who fled to safety where huddled in a dark cellar with many strangers in fear of death, as some people rushed for safety they where caught in a missile strike and lost their lives.
    When missiles are falling we increase our chance of death by moving across the city and if it is my time then on my balcony with my beautiful wife enjoying an old fashioned as I smile and watch the city I love seems a far better end than scurrying desperately trying to cling onto our life filled with fear worry confusion.
    I have stayed throughout the current war and have many videos about my travels
    Regards Geoffrey Dowey
    Remember when we genuinely don’t give a feck then it comes that we live without fear without urgency, desperation, confusion and can just breath and enjoy what we have stop living for what we desire

  • @jessalyn4672
    @jessalyn4672 Před 7 měsíci

    your channel helps so much

  • @Serg_vlogs
    @Serg_vlogs Před 10 měsíci

    my dad sent me this to help and it did tysm.

  • @mauricioramirez9744
    @mauricioramirez9744 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Life is good if you think it is.

  • @user-bb4dn6eq7x
    @user-bb4dn6eq7x Před 5 měsíci

    Beautiful!!

  • @shreyas908
    @shreyas908 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Thank you

  • @Thumpermad
    @Thumpermad Před 10 měsíci

    Excellent Video thankyou ❤

  • @DonaldMurphy-fq9pk
    @DonaldMurphy-fq9pk Před 5 dny

    “When you first rise in the morning tell yourself: I will encounter busybodies, ingrates, egomaniacs, liars, the jealous and cranks. They are all stricken with these afflictions because they don’t know the difference between good and evil. Because I have understood the beauty of good and the ugliness of evil, I know that these wrong-doers are still akin to me… and that none can do me harm, or implicate me in ugliness-nor can I be angry at my relatives or hate them. For we are made for cooperation.”

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 Před 9 měsíci +3

    When I stopped giving a F life has become more liberating

  • @u563rick6
    @u563rick6 Před 8 měsíci

    Wonderful video!

  • @wildchild1682
    @wildchild1682 Před 10 měsíci +4

    I look not for Happiness.
    For I am Happiness.
    I have found Myself.
    (You may quote me) 😄😜

    • @worldofameiso5491
      @worldofameiso5491 Před 10 měsíci

      You have found yourself? Were you where you expected yourself to be? I would rather not quote you if it’s all the same to you. I’d rather not have people believe me to be a fool.

  • @LJyoutubing
    @LJyoutubing Před 10 měsíci +1

    Amazing video wow

  • @S.H.A.D.O.999
    @S.H.A.D.O.999 Před 10 měsíci

    Well done! I subscribed for more...

  • @scottyigar9009
    @scottyigar9009 Před 10 měsíci +3

    The great awakening is happening thanks to videos like this.

  • @user-mg3hq3jb7e
    @user-mg3hq3jb7e Před 9 měsíci

    Wow thank you so very much

  • @Myway165
    @Myway165 Před 9 měsíci

    Beatiful presentation ❤

  • @marcthompson9281
    @marcthompson9281 Před 9 měsíci

    truly awesome

  • @cherylpink1544
    @cherylpink1544 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Yes..your right cause right now my problem is to care others than mine

  • @mkbestmaan
    @mkbestmaan Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you.

  • @MrTetsukobu
    @MrTetsukobu Před 10 měsíci +6

    Happiness cannot be found as long as you are looking for happiness. Happiness comes as a byproduct of an intense life of questioning, brutal honesty with yourself, a tremendous curiosity. intellectual capabilities and many other things.
    I asked my late master: ¨Please sir, I beg you to show me the way to happiness.¨ And he came down from his seat and moved his arms imitating a crane in flight. Suddenly he stopped his movements and turning to me asked: ¨Well, have you learned how to fly?¨

    • @recuerdos2457
      @recuerdos2457 Před 10 měsíci

      What do you think your master meant?!

    • @MrTetsukobu
      @MrTetsukobu Před 10 měsíci

      @@recuerdos2457 I honestly do not know the meaning of what he said, however, I learned how to fly. When I walk I have the sensation that I am 3 inches above the ground. When I go uphill I feel that is the hill that pulls me up. Does this answer your question?

    • @TheJoker6789
      @TheJoker6789 Před 9 měsíci

      I have often said pursuing happiness is what gets you in trouble. Happiness is supposed to be a BYPRODUCT of living a good, descent life and following the golden rule. Guess that isn't what always happens, though.

    • @MrTetsukobu
      @MrTetsukobu Před 9 měsíci

      @@TheJoker6789 Certainly!

    • @Starlightndust
      @Starlightndust Před 8 měsíci

      I think happiness can't be a goal. It's a state if being. Surrendering to things one can't control. Accepting things but working towards a life of goodness, inner peace, and having just the fundamentals.

  • @ant5611
    @ant5611 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Beautiful. Thank you

  • @rian.segarra
    @rian.segarra Před 10 měsíci +1

    This probably helped me understand to know life by backward and live life by moving forward.

  • @user_ym7xr7mq5-fe6dm
    @user_ym7xr7mq5-fe6dm Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you very much

  • @contemplatingwithamaster
    @contemplatingwithamaster Před 10 měsíci

    Wonderful 😊

  • @CRUZCONTRL
    @CRUZCONTRL Před 10 měsíci +2

    It’s complaicated when you have young children and the other parent is creating chaos and making you unhappy becuase sometimes they are unhappy and mentally unstable. I’m not in charge of her happiness.

  • @LoneKuroRaifu
    @LoneKuroRaifu Před 9 měsíci

    Oh. Thought this was the audiobook. I recommend that one too.

  • @JayEss414
    @JayEss414 Před 10 měsíci

    great video

  • @jacobmartinelli7496
    @jacobmartinelli7496 Před 9 měsíci

    i need to get back to that

  • @arounmean8961
    @arounmean8961 Před 10 měsíci

    Thanks

  • @Sealust50
    @Sealust50 Před 10 měsíci +1

    The part about the things you can versus can't control - that's a big one, and the reason is that there are only a select FEW things you can control or have control over, so if you decide to continue caring about the boatloads of things you can't, you will be miserable and never at peace within yourself, and peace equals happiness.

    • @candacesturtevant7139
      @candacesturtevant7139 Před 10 měsíci +1

      No news watching helps.

    • @Sealust50
      @Sealust50 Před 9 měsíci

      @@candacesturtevant7139 Totally true. I stopped watching broadcast news on the television about two years ago.

  • @user-kk3ns4qb7b
    @user-kk3ns4qb7b Před 7 měsíci +1

    I’m 54, I smoked weed for the last 3 years everyday. I haven’t got even one f to give!

  • @finitewizdumb7115
    @finitewizdumb7115 Před 7 měsíci

    Learning to love without possessing ❤

  • @lannymendenhall2660
    @lannymendenhall2660 Před 8 měsíci +1

    After watching most of this video I couldn't finish it because I understand it and don't care

  • @lucaseternalspirit777
    @lucaseternalspirit777 Před 7 měsíci

    When you stop comparing yourself only then do you find contentment in one’s own evolution.

  • @neilgonzalez551
    @neilgonzalez551 Před 9 měsíci +1

    It all starts with humility. Once you understand what it is and how to truly achieve it, your life will be free and happiness. Humility wants to spread happyiness, positively, and inner peace. Humility understands that superficial things have a hold on your inner peace. Humility understands to be greatful for the simple things in life and be satisfied with what you have. Humility it helps you let go of unnecessary negativity which always interrupt your inner peace and spiritually. Humility forgives and asks for forgiveness. Humility understands truth will set you free. Alway seek truth. One you understand what the truth is and you live in it, you will experience true freedom in this superficial world. Humility understands imperfection is reality and perfection can become vanity if it makes you judgemental. Humility understands that wisdom comes from truths their are no such thing as false wisdom. False wisdom are called lies. Live in truth and you will achieve wisdom. Without sharing what you know and only caring about your own wellbeing is selfish and lonely. Humility always wants to share. Humility knows the power of faith over fear and the power of meditation (prayer). Humility knows it is better to give than recieve. Humility knows there is a God Almighty and that religion is a business.

  • @cherylpink1544
    @cherylpink1544 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Now its time for change not to care so much with others

  • @AnaLi760
    @AnaLi760 Před 9 měsíci

    I like to think so 🤔 💜

  • @master-n-teachvirgo8557
    @master-n-teachvirgo8557 Před 10 měsíci +1

    The title is💯😎

  • @robertengland8769
    @robertengland8769 Před 10 měsíci +2

    I practice the art of not giving a f**k daily. Fact is, I never gave a f**k. Lol.

  • @user-ig2vb8gh5t
    @user-ig2vb8gh5t Před 9 měsíci +2

    Do just normal and you do already crazy enough, it is not normal if you are not a bit crazy, it is crazy to be bizzy with things what takes time off my precious life and not letting me being just normal

  • @Starlightndust
    @Starlightndust Před 8 měsíci +1

    I think happiness can't be a goal. It's a state if being. Surrendering to things one can't control. Accepting things but working towards a life of goodness, inner peace, and having just the fundamentals. Basically, Non-attachment. Nothing is permanent except death. 🙂

  • @fourtwenty5986
    @fourtwenty5986 Před 10 měsíci

    I have mastered this art.

  • @Novastar.SaberCombat
    @Novastar.SaberCombat Před 10 měsíci +3

    "Wise is the warrior who carries a weapon, but rarely reveals it." --Master Dupree'
    🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
    "Before I start, I must see my end.
    Destination known, my mind’s journey now begins.
    Upon my chariot, heart and soul’s fate revealed.
    In time, all points converge, hope’s strength re-steeled.
    But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain,
    We must see all in nothingness...
    Before we start again."
    🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨
    --Diamond Dragons (series)

  • @Luckystoic
    @Luckystoic Před měsícem

    As a 60 years old man who broke each and everyone of these rules, I can tell that they are true. Advice for the young: do not be fooled by anything else. Follow these rules by the letter. If it means losing somebody, so be it. They were not worthy.

  • @chadsexinton
    @chadsexinton Před 10 měsíci +4

    Most people are still trying to find themselves late in their lives.

    • @TheJamie6666
      @TheJamie6666 Před 10 měsíci

      They don't want us to find ourselves or our own uniqueness they want us to be sheep all the same so we are easier to control...

    • @willcoacher1711
      @willcoacher1711 Před 10 měsíci

      The people around you contribute to what you think about, having a go to how to think makes it easy to understand things. The second girl was really into rocks, astrology, also had two cats, talked to her in middle school never met in person, then she moved to North Carolina and back to kansas in 2020, even told her she should make an only fans for herself she did for herself I mean she took good pictures why not post then don't have to show your face and get $. Went to college and met hope they were both okay it for almost 2 years, I asked. They followed eachother and commented on eachothers instagram every post. Grace lived with her gradpa who worked every night moved away from her mom and hope had a coked up, drunk dad who's wife took meth after 3 kids jackson, last one emery she drank while caring reported his illegal medical LLC became a single dad. His mom hopes grandma has the world record collection of Santa Clauses decorations was on the news, two pitbulls one with 3 legs the pitbull across the street would escape then hers would attack eachother in the backyard of the duplex she lives in, they got a new idian neighbor with like 5 people in a 1 bedroom 1 floor 2 garages 1 for each side of the duplex then when hope moved in just them two. The indian dad would park in there grass sideways but they both only had one car it was wack he'd do it differently every time it was like your driveway parking spot of grass in the duplex housing was like if thats what they had done on the new street at my house in shawnee. 😂

    • @rasulsamad5860
      @rasulsamad5860 Před 10 měsíci

      True

  • @KevinHall-yj9zc
    @KevinHall-yj9zc Před 8 měsíci

    Hey !! Thank you everyone !!! Love your comments !!!

  • @cashcheckorcredit7
    @cashcheckorcredit7 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Perception is everything. The mind is your life think it wisely. 🤔 Creation is what we are as a whole mind collectively as one. Happiness is your mind's choice to choose. Outside of your mind what really exist? We will never know. So enjoy your mind.

  • @michaelsiengo1
    @michaelsiengo1 Před 8 měsíci

    I’m pretty sure I’ve got it mastered

  • @rsharney1111
    @rsharney1111 Před 10 měsíci +24

    May God reveal himself to me and everyone who watches.

  • @YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he
    @YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he Před 10 měsíci

    😊i love this art, why bother do your craft enjoy your life create search be kind be gratrfull 😊🎉 all is well!)😊

  • @BYTRUBOSS
    @BYTRUBOSS Před 9 měsíci

    Be Legendary 💠

  • @rodneyhopper22
    @rodneyhopper22 Před 10 měsíci +3

    It comes down to when you get tired of hearing about other people's problems and you have to stop and say that I just don't give a good fuck about your own life and I'm sorry for you and that I have enough of my own personal things to deal with 😅

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 9 měsíci

      Yeah that's right I know you on that point of it

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 9 měsíci

      Fast car's good pussy good friends and good pile of stuff to smoke brother party on fellow brothers

    • @rodneyhopper22
      @rodneyhopper22 Před 7 měsíci

      A dog or a cat can't stab you in the back they don't have arms long enough 😂😆🤔

  • @percubit10
    @percubit10 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I think I would adhere to Epicurious. These are importance.

  • @HTBP1888
    @HTBP1888 Před 9 měsíci

    This is the core of a utopian society, peace of mind equals world peace. First we must disassemble not disassociate. Hail the Black Phoenix.

  • @elliottstough5088
    @elliottstough5088 Před 9 měsíci

    If anyone sees this chime in. For me I have a real bad anxiety disorder for years and years and one thing it stripped me of is love for video games like I just can’t sit down and play anymore it’s like my brain registers it as a threat or danger but I k ow it’s not and it’s just heart breaking that I used to love it and play video games everyday. Now I’ve lost my will to even try and play and I want that back so bad as it was a good release and a lot of fun for me. Has anyone experienced this? I don’t want this disorder to take anything else I love from me like it already has🥺😭

    • @sacredrain7757
      @sacredrain7757 Před 8 měsíci

      Darling, perhaps you have outgrown childish things. I can’t watch all the awful on tv anymore. My being just doesn’t have an appetite for trash when there is so much human treasure available. Find a new magnificent obsession. Gaming is just so much mental masturbation. Nature opens me as though I am a flower, and leaves me stronger and more at ease. Good luck. I hope you bloom.