The Cycle Of Narcissistic Abuse

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  • čas přidán 9. 03. 2023
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Komentáře • 71

  • @lauren_739
    @lauren_739 Před rokem +34

    How do every single narcissist have the same behavior? It’s like they have a secret manual or something.I find it amazing how they all do the same thing.I mean how is that even possible

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před rokem

      They are not capable of love and lacks empathy, they are takers who only breadcrumbs others ‼️Narcissists are predators, who abuse others to regulate their false narrative and self, they put others below themselvs so they can be abowe ‼️Without light and empathy, a person can do alot of harm to others ‼️A Narcissist feeds off on others pain, they waits to see you fail, bcs they are pure evil‼️🎯JazzyT.

    • @tchem6796
      @tchem6796 Před 11 měsíci +3

      I’m wondering this too

    • @Angelcutiepie
      @Angelcutiepie Před 10 měsíci +1

      samee

    • @Kamilasfunvideos
      @Kamilasfunvideos Před 9 měsíci +5

      Demons lives inside them.

    • @DD-yq1tj
      @DD-yq1tj Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@Kamilasfunvideos,... I have come to the same conclusion over the last year that,.. NARCISSISTS are just covert DEMONS.

  • @soeumsoeun4646
    @soeumsoeun4646 Před rokem +20

    It's over for me. I waited patiently for a year and my divorce was finalized!!! He wasted 15 years of my life while abusing me. I am free.

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před rokem +3

      Ppl get Ptsd after Narcisstic abuse bcs it is so stressful, others even get Fatique and that's a total burn out, take your time to heal ‼️🎯JazzyT.

    • @Noname11364
      @Noname11364 Před rokem

      Congratulations, I pray to be free soon.

    • @brendabartlett9920
      @brendabartlett9920 Před 11 měsíci

      I’m not married to him, I broke our engagement, I continued to live with him, I don’t know how to leave or which direction to go😢

  • @kendramckenna3628
    @kendramckenna3628 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Only way to get out of the cycle is to get away from that person, see it in my housemate so I am moving away.

  • @Shivani-Spectrum
    @Shivani-Spectrum Před 6 měsíci

    Gosh! This is so accurate!

  • @benjamin734
    @benjamin734 Před rokem +4

    I'm putting on my war Paint, 🎨 it's about to get real , Real Mohawk, up in Here , and I AIN'T Go N NOWHERE, 👊

  • @mercy7640
    @mercy7640 Před rokem +12

    Thanks for this. If not for the info you share on your channel I would have still been with my toxic family.

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před rokem +1

      Quora Digest has a lot about Narcissism ‼️🎯JazzyT.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci +1

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    • @mercy7640
      @mercy7640 Před 9 měsíci

      @@RebeccaZungEsq thank you!

  • @joygriess2591
    @joygriess2591 Před rokem +5

    Toe the devaluation stage does the most and then the gas lighting or the smear campaign almost makes you invisible until you realize what's going on

    • @joygriess2591
      @joygriess2591 Před rokem

      The devaluation stage is the most damaging you don't seem to realize it's going on

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 4 měsíci

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  • @cynthiathomas5754
    @cynthiathomas5754 Před rokem +2

    Sometimes my codependent fauning can look like narc lovebombing...Usually in response to a toxic person. I get a bit disgusted with my programmed behavior. But, the Narc has this definite behavior...Which has the effect similar to rats being pushed into learned helplessness and sugar water addictive behavior.

  • @ericwinston9121
    @ericwinston9121 Před rokem +6

    That Part. In just that order! They're sad on so many levels!!

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před rokem +2

      Sad on every level, predators ‼️🎯JazzyT.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @Unapologetically_Brittney
    @Unapologetically_Brittney Před 6 měsíci

    So sad, yet so true!! 😢❤

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem +1

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  • @porterhouse5095
    @porterhouse5095 Před rokem +4

    Unbelievably abusive with the games and dishonesty

  • @trina1962
    @trina1962 Před 6 měsíci

    Yep. So exhausting and the cycle gets shorter and shorter.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 4 měsíci

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  • @tovenrvik6336
    @tovenrvik6336 Před rokem +3

    Yes, ppl wait for the lovebombing, and thinks a Narcissist can change and be good, but it's the opposite, Narcissists gets worse as older they get and some kill their partner ‼️🎯JazzyT.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

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  • @Shivani-Spectrum
    @Shivani-Spectrum Před 6 měsíci

    Those who don't know hoovering..... hoovering" refers to a manipulation tactic used by narcissists to draw a person back into a relationship or interaction.

  • @wallsign4575
    @wallsign4575 Před rokem +1

    This information is vital to stop 🛑 the abuse

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @elizabethbrown8833
    @elizabethbrown8833 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I feel sorry for them. Must be really lonely.💔🦋🐛

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @IAm-3_6_9
    @IAm-3_6_9 Před 6 měsíci

    From my personal experience and many others that experienced this evil cycle, the typical cycle was usually about 2 weeks.
    If my observation is not accurate, please let me know. I would really appreciate it

  • @user-fg4ji3qy5k
    @user-fg4ji3qy5k Před 5 měsíci

    They dont , sometimes they do revrae this one, they are sucking vampires,and always find new ways to Crush, so the cycle goes any direction
    Thanks be Gid that I was saved from her ❤❤❤

  • @calmdowngurl
    @calmdowngurl Před 11 měsíci

    thank you for posting this.

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @ruthslater6364
    @ruthslater6364 Před rokem

    Absolutely the circle jersey game they play. Its a vicious game they play.

  • @mariannesdp
    @mariannesdp Před rokem +3

    😢 just right!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

      By following my 4 Step plan, you can win when dealing with narcissism! Learn more >> slaythenarc.com 🌟

  • @nv_chino
    @nv_chino Před rokem

    Crazy because it was in a cycle year after year so in the beginning of the year towards the summer the lovebombing or baiting happens then during the summer towards the fall the devalue and harassments starts but it really happens in the beginning too. Then towards the end of the year it sorts of dies of but not really then it would restart the same way the next year for this one female and it was really strange

  • @patriciaanderson9283
    @patriciaanderson9283 Před rokem +1

    Honey moon period
    Idealisation
    Devalue
    Discard
    Repeat

  • @lindagleason6412
    @lindagleason6412 Před 9 měsíci

    How about 1 that is blind I going thru hell need to get him out

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @Badm00nrRising
    @Badm00nrRising Před rokem

    Exactly what’s happening..

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @jill4268
    @jill4268 Před rokem

    That's it!

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 9 měsíci

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  • @n-joytravelranong1266
    @n-joytravelranong1266 Před 5 měsíci

    Not being vindictive, legally speaking, As narcissistic abuse is massively damaging psychologically, How plausible do you think that the abuser should be punished in the court of law or even registered much like sexual offenders?

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před 4 měsíci

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  • @saragracie5554
    @saragracie5554 Před rokem +1

    What's Hoover. Can't you post a link to an explaination in comments or make a full video explaining this???

    • @realbulldogs7545
      @realbulldogs7545 Před rokem +1

      They make sure to try and keep their hooks in you

    • @dianecolumbus477
      @dianecolumbus477 Před rokem

      Great question

    • @ThatoneLisa
      @ThatoneLisa Před rokem

      They keep trying to “suck you back into their orbit”. Every time you try to get away from them or start to become stronger and aren’t needing them anymore, they will do everything they can think of to suck you back into their life. They are like the “Hotel California”. You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave.

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před rokem

      It's like sucking you back in, as in vacuming, so they can finish their work wt destroying you‼️🎯JazzyT.

  • @Avila-1111
    @Avila-1111 Před rokem +2

    What fi you love bomb them but they followed the rest of the cycle? I was definitely the love bomber but I see the abuse she put me through now

    • @tovenrvik6336
      @tovenrvik6336 Před rokem +2

      They are predators, not capable of love and lacks empathy ‼️🎯JazzyT.

  • @mary-or5zv
    @mary-or5zv Před rokem

    What does hoover mean? That is a brand of vacuum cleaner . Do you mean hover? (Huv'-ver)..

  • @porterhouse5095
    @porterhouse5095 Před rokem

    Hoover?

  • @NurseCandyYTC
    @NurseCandyYTC Před rokem

    Can this happen within 1 day? As in within 24 hours???

    • @RebeccaZungEsq
      @RebeccaZungEsq  Před měsícem

      It's Time to Break Free for Good...Let's Do This! Sign up for our free webinar and start your transformative journey- slaythenarc.com 💪

  • @maryhudson6788
    @maryhudson6788 Před rokem

    What is Hoover? Do you mean hover?

    • @123gie4me
      @123gie4me Před rokem +1

      Hoover is narc speak for the times when like a vacuum they pop back in to take the proverbial temp of the situation, seeing how you are so they can come back for more blood and start the bloodsucking all over again, it is the time taking more life force if you let it but in a more subtle way after having discarded or gone quiet, or if you’ve discarded them