This Makes Any Man Treat You Well (Even If Men Haven't Before) | Mark Rosenfeld Relationship Advice
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Do you wonder why men seem to not treat you well? How can you make men treat you better? Will men ever treat you better? In this video, I will talk about how you can change this! I will share with you the one skill that you can master to inspire men to treat you better - to treat you the way you deserve! Master the art of receiving in this video! This will help you change your mindset about giving and receiving and will allow you to achieve a balance between them. Understanding the importance of receiving changes the way men perceive you in a positive way!
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Most of us either by our culture, upbringing, or experiences develop beliefs about giving and receiving. Some may be to out benefit, but most are hurting us in life in the long run. Beliefs like it is better to give than to receive, or receiving makes you indebted to the giver. Beliefs like these can hurt us in life and in love. It is one thing to be kind, but it is another thing to deprive yourself from receiving. The secret is in finding the balance between giving and receiving, and in knowing when to do so.
In this video, Iโll discuss the different mindsets we have about receiving and how it affects our chances in love. We also discuss what you can do to turn things around in your favor! Having a healthy perception of giving and receiving changes your vibe around people and makes you more magnetic and attainable. It also communicates that you are open to having other people in your life and getting help or tokens of affection from them. This video will show you how a high value woman receives without losing her dignity or value. You will learn how to balance the two and eventually encourage or inspire men to step up and treat you better.
This dating and relationships advice video is my comprehensive guide on the Mastering This One Skill Makes Men Treat You Well (even if they haven't before)! In it, I share with you the one skill you need to master to make room for men to step up in the relationship. This will raise your self-esteem, teach you how to embrace vulnerability, and help you open up yourself to your partner to promote trust and intimacy.
Enjoy the video! This is Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationships coach from Make Him Yours.
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As always leave your story below! and what are your thoughts on this video? I'd love to know :D
Im fed up when i do good i get bad in return what to do๐ฏ๐ฒ๐
Great video post
Such a great video
My 1st thought was "If someone brought me a 'pot plant', I'd be looking around for police or candid camera b/c this Must be a set up or a joke." Then I replayed the video so I could focus on your great content.
๐คทโโ๏ธ "Pot" ( marijuana) isn't legal here. ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
Fascinating to hear your point of view, Mark. Iโm struggling with receiving anything without any reason, because Iโm conditioned to receive only because I did something to deserve it first. I feel obligated to give back or do something in return, so most of the time I reject things from men because I think I will owe them something, usually in the form of sexual orientation, in return as a thank you. After watching your video and listening to how you explain giving and receiving, I realized that I need to learn how to just be in the receiving mode and not overthink things and not feel like I need to do anything in return unless I actually want to do something with this person. Thank you, Mark. ๐ค๐
I am in a new relationship and Iโve always taken turns paying for dates and opening doors. Like, whoever gets there first. But I noticed this guy seemed a little irritated about it. Finally, he just told me, nicely, โIf you keep opening a manโs door, heโll stop doing it for you bc he thinks you donโt need him.โ Now, even if Iโm at the door first, I wait and he opens it for me. Gotta say, Iโm all about feminism, but itโs amazing to be treated like a queen โค๏ธ He also always makes sure heโs attentive to me, but not smothering, and even walks on the outside part of the sidewalk. Heโs so awesome!
I'm married to a wonderful man we both love giving and receiving we are balanced. But I must say we both have had several relationships where this never happened. I'm so thankful to have him in my life at the age of 69.
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I'm a giver, so I got taken for granted. I've now learnt not to give so much.
Omg! I've spent the whole day wondering "Do I deserve this??" and also "Does he think I deserve this?! These questions were stuck iny head and I felt desperate. Thank you so much Mark! Really, thank you!
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I hope your in a better place xxxx
@@sidneyh11 Thank you Beckie! You made me realise how much I've grown since that video. I'm in a much better place now, thanks ๐
@@kiki59400 aww I was hoping so , I'm made up for you . Xx
Ive been listening to you more and more and really appreciate your clear way of communicating and sharing, plus speaking from real in depth experience, and can tell you have a heart to really help your followers.
This is the best video Iโve viewed on your channel. I cried and cried. Everything you said is how I have felt the last 6years but have never been able to put it into words. Thank you โค๏ธ Ive been a giver all my life, especially during the last 6years when I was constantly around a man who was solely a receiver, these events have left me feeling the lowest and emptiest I have ever felt. The man had no respect for me- he never took me seriously and never cared enough. Having an emotionally unavailable mother growing up didnโt help either. Iโll be watching part 2!
I so love this one, Mark โผ๏ธ
The thought about protection against the covert pseudo receiver....showed me how I have hard times receiving. I was raised to be a giver.
This video resonated with me on several levels! The analogies you gave about growing up were right on target with me, and the way you explained that giving is a control made me look at giving in a TOTALLY different light! Loved it! Also, I've lately been thinking about my reasons for giving.... I was raised "do unto others as you'd have them do unto you..." Which then makes me think of my giving is more selfish rather than genuine...?
When you date a guy who has a lot of money and very little expenses, yet that man makes you feel bad for giving anything to you or for paying for your meals, this is the biggest red flag.
Sheesh! You deserve better than this man! ๐
This is amazing. I've been a giver my whole life. I think it's from the teaching in religion that better give than receive but the context is to give wealth and be caring to poor and people who need most. But we tend to do it to all people we know and not realizing that they have to learn to be a giver too. I really have to set boundaries not only in relationships with men but also friends who trap me in pseudo receiving. I really have to learn to say no and walk away now. Thank you this makes me feel more understanding about what I'm feeling now
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Another great video, Mark. I've had to do a lot of work on this one, being an introvert. I grew up with little to no self-esteem. Not good enough. Not attractive enough. Wish I was more like... I was lucky enough to find a husband who loved me the way I was and made me feel better about myself. After he passed, I had to fight my way back through depression. I'd lost my friend, my lover, my cheerleader, the man who spoiled me rotten and made me feel beautiful. I got into counseling and began working on the grief and working on myself. It's been 8 years now. I love myself. I'm comfortable in my own skin. I'm comfortable in my own company. I'm quite a growing personal growth library and have 3 relationship coaches I respect and listen to on CZcams. I'm loving my journey of getting to know myself and to keep working on myself. So grateful to you and the others out there who encourage us to be our best self. I found another gentleman who treats as well as my husband did. I feel so blessed.
I can't believe how good this video is. Thank you so much for the great insights! I especially loved the part where you talked about conditioned giving as a way to show love and about the discomfort of receiving because it triggers a fear of being/feeling indebted. Those are things that can easily apply to friendships as well, which makes the information even more useful.
Thanks so much, Marina! Glad it resonated with you. I'm always happy to share my thoughts and knowledge with others, and I'm glad that you found it helpful. xx
This is an amazing video! I too am an avid giver raised on the principles that it is better to give than receive. As of recent, I can feel my soul starving to receive more as being an avid giver becomes exhausting. So that is what I intend to do. Start receiving more! Allow myself to be deserving & accepting of it all! Thank you Mark ๐๐พโค
Omgosh thank u so much for this Mark ! I feel like almost all the points you mentioned I struggle with! Especially about the pseudo receiving and it being a vulnerable action to receive. Thank u so much for explaining it in a way that i truly got it ๐๐ฅฐ
Brilliant Mark, I've learned so much from this and your other videos. Thank you.
Mark, this is probably one of your best videos. You sank deeply in psychology and opened a number of wow effects. I havent found anything similiar and covering this topic! Well done!
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I had the same thoughts
All great advice!!! I wish I had seen all this years ago, but Iโm still going to listen
I love your analogy about the potted plant debt, and especially the description of a boundary-less childhood creating an adult who gives too much because we didnโt receive enough love and affection from our family growing up.
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Thank you so much Mark. You have an excellent way of explaining. This video is helping me so much!
The part about giving being a control thing was a light bulb moment for me. Thank you for the vid
I love this video, itโs not just about how to get a man to treat you right its about friendships and family too
Yes this is golden! I've had to separate myself from my family in order to figure out my issues and how to resolve them. It was definitely affecting my dating life and I had to do a lot of inner work.
Excellent video, thanks!โค
Great advice! Thank you!
Very true, and I really struggle with receiving. In fact, I push gifts away because I donโt trust that there wonโt be a debt to be repaid (childhood and former marriage trauma). But it makes sense that you need to be able to receive because if you donโt, the only people youโll attract and feel comfortable with are the chronic takers who wonโt give you anything. Nobody wants that.
Looking forward to the next video. Thx so much ๐
Right, Christine. Keep working on it. ๐ Thanks for sharing! x
Felt like you were taking to me. I am a great giver and I do get taken advantage of. I grew up in the very house you used as an example-you should be glad you have a roof over your head. โGiving is better than receivingโโฆ..Iโll be working on changing my mindset. Thank you for this video.
Thank you so much for sharing!! Youโre very informative!
Thanks so much for the comment, Paula! Means a lot! x
BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE!! ๐๐โค๏ธโค๏ธโผ๏ธTHANK YOU SO MUCH!!
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This is me! I'm the Giver in most of my relationships. Then when men turn into takers, I'm turned off! Receiving is vulnerable, it put you out there!
Thank you for this!!! I was raised by a narcissistic mother, which thatโs all I did was give to her and take care of her, my emotions, needs, wants, opinions didnโt matter. So I am thankful you made this video. Coming from that upbringing, it feels wrong receiving, but I have been undoing the programming in counseling and watching your channel to know that is NOT wrong. Thank you so much, and I appreciate you. ๐โค๏ธโค๏ธ Keep doing what you do best! Thank you Mark! ๐โค๏ธ๐๐
Great video, thank you!
One of my favourite videos so far. Thank you! :) x
Interesting video. As a child my mum was on her own and working 2 jobs. I learnt very early that helping out kept things sweet. Have spent my life 'giving' by looking after others and find it hard to accept kindness or even compliments and affection.
This is so true Mark. I used to give all the time and receive nothing till the day I ended that marriage. It was unhealthy relationship.
Great video, thank you!
Looking forward to the next video!
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This is a really useful and great video!!!
Well said, thank you
I have noticed that in my 2 marriages, I gave too much and I was not loved. I have noticed that I have continued doing that. I am stepping back and want to receive, if he chooses to give.
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Your videos are so helpful! Thank you so much! I was wondering if you currently do a podcast? Would be amazing to listen!
Sooo good!! Thank you.
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Wow! Super insightful
This is the one of the best videos you've made connecting more psychological reasons into your content. I know you do this a lot and that is a lot why you are one of my aboslute favorites on relationship psychology and advice. But still in a very easy clear format. Great work on the rethoric. Much appreciated!
That's a beautiful comment, Emma. Thank you! Means a lot! x
@@Markrosenfeld You're truely welcome! You deserved it :)
Thank you!!
I appreciate you clarifying about giving and receiving. Great and useful info. I got a kick out of the reference to bringing the neighbor a pot plant. I live in Hawaii and here we refer to pot plant as Marijuana but I had a sense you meant โpotted plantโ. Very cute! Or did you mean MJ?
ThAnks for all you videos.
I grew up as a trained giver... and have been plagued with doing and giving too much for most part of my adulthood :( But I have learned lots and have improved significantly and videos like this are super helpful reminders!! Thank you for your great work and for not choosing to stay at home with your cat instead ๐
Awesome video, Mark. โค๏ธ
this was very helpful!! thank you ๐๐ผ
Thank you, Kathrine! x
Such valuable information, Mark; thank you so much!
Glad you liked it, Marilyn. Thanks for the lovely comment! x
I felt like that โyou are beautiful!โ was just for me ๐ฅฐ๐
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This is a FANTASTIC video! Thank you ๐
I over give and Iโm terrible at receiving. Wow thatโs eye opening.
Thanks for watching and writing in, Tiffany! x
I am loving your videos and Iโve been binge watching Markflix ๐ This video convicted me to look at how I receive instead of constantly being a giver. Thank you Sir! ๐๐๐ฝ๐
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@@Markrosenfeld I knew it wasnโt you Mark, I reported it anyway ๐
I am being "taught" by a friend, I reconnected with after 20 years, that yes! I deserve compliments and being told nice things and to accept them as being honestly meant . And you know what? I am learning that ! That not everything nice someone does/says has a price or is a lie, that there are some people that are real and that it is nice and good to just receive , and damn a heartfelt compliment really accepted lifts ones spirit! ๐๐am rambling, but I hope I made what I meant understandable
Actually youโre perfect and you didnโt ramble at all
@@rebeccahjohnson9339 thank you so much, I am blessed to have such a friend, even if there is an ocean between us.
Thanks Mark! So many light bulb moments ๐กNever thought of giving as a control thing before ๐ฌ Look forward to your next video ๐๐ป๐
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Very insightful
Brilliant, thank you Mark! Iโve been a giver all my life, and the men Iโve attracted is proof of my fear of vulnerability! I am learning so much from you... and enjoy all the eye candy as well!
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Of course. I ignored it. Thank you for your work. Iโm in the biggest growth period of my life. You are so knowledgeable Mark. I really appreciate all of your help! โฅ๏ธ
I Enjoyed Watching This Video itโs Help Me Out Lot Thank you ๐นโค๏ธ๐น
Great reminders! ๐น
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Mark, this video is phenomenal. Brilliant work. Thank you
Awww means a lot, Sunny! Thanks so much! xx
Who gives this a thumbs down? It is stunning advise.
Very helpful! Thank You
Thank you, Dolly! x
I received,thank you!โฅ๏ธ๐๐
Love this video. โค๏ธ
Wow! You explain things in such easy and impactful ways, Id love to have you as my coach! I was trained to be a giver and thus receiving is hard for me. Need to work on that.
Interesting ! Im gonna
Take this to Heart !
This I'll look at again
To get the concept .
Thanks keep Teaching .
That's a beautiful comment, Lorrie! Thank you! Glad you got something from the video. x
I'm a giver. Always have been as far as I can remember. It got me used and taken advantage of. I was manipulated and emotionally/verbally abused and bullied. This led to low self esteem and not being able to accept compliments. I've 'grown' since those days and I love to give to those who appreciate it and have learned to take compliments. Its about self respect, self worth as you said Mark. And I can be independent and still lady enough to enjoy having doors opened for me etc.
"And I can be independent and still lady enough to enjoy having doors opened for me etc."
I agree with you. I'm more independent now, yet I appreciate a man who will treat me like a lady and open doors, pull out my chair, help me with my coat,and even keep me to the inside of the curb. Yes, ladies! They do still exist! I've had two.
Thanks for the message. Working on being a better receiver. Sorry. Got distracted -
"Pot plant " may have a different meaning in the US vs Australia. ๐
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I got a good chuckle ๐คญ!
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@@Quntah888 a pot plant in the US is marijuana!
All this pot plant talk is pretty standard on the west coast.....pretty funny though :)
Great advice as always Mark! I grew up pseudo-receiving by a narcissistic mother and having a hard time with relationships as an adult.
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
Thanks Mark. You made some very good valid points. I resonated with about 4 of them. Ouch. I grew up being like an emotional empty bucket with holes in it. So I was taught about giving more than receiving and it really felt uncomfortable because how can you give when you have nothing to give in the first place. Fortunately when it came to my two sons it wasn't a difficult thing to do as I made sure they got the love and attention they deserved. Outside that I felt depleted.
@@user-io7pn4vl1g Thanks for asking. I'm having psychological help. Can only take it day by day. See how things go.
Fabulous insight. Particularly regarding receiving. Going on a first date today. Will be open to all the ideas here. Thanks Mark
Ooh, lucky you! We are just opening up where I live- it's weird to think about socialising!
I really love your videos is good and it has really changed my perspective i am happy to learn.....thank you I deserve better๐
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
Gosh this video is definitely for me!
Can't wait for your next video about this topic!!! Thanks Mark โบ๏ธ๐ค
Thank you, baby1! Glad you got something from the video. x
@@Markrosenfeld ๐โบ๏ธ
This video made alot of sense.
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
Thanks mark!
My pleasure!
Youโre a great coach Mark! ๐๐
Aww thank you, Negar! x
The Bible in Acts 20:35 states that โIn everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: 'It is more blessed to give than to receiveโ which teaches that there is joy in the act of giving when it is done with pure motives.
exactly. its about being human
Thanks , thatโs depend on the relationship between the giver and receiver
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
Learned so
Much that I never knew about my self.
Wow...enlightening
Great Video!!! โค๏ธโ๐ฅ
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
this was an interesting video Mark
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
Better to give than receive is Biblical. Acts 20:35 "In everything I did, I showed you that by this kind of hard work we must help the weak, remembering the words the Lord Jesus himself said: โIt is more blessed to give than to receive.โ โ It has taken many years to deliberately think differently, allow myself to receive, with this verse stuck in my head in my childhood. Thank you for acknowledging this related to feminine energy
Yes, i love this ๐ฅฐ
Very interesting
I can do nothing else but thank you for your great advice. It helps me a lot :-)
thank you
More videos about long distance relationship mark please ๐๐ปโค๏ธ
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
Hello! My name is Mary and I would like to thank you for this video. Recieving was a difficult thing for me as I had been conditioned to think of receiving anything with the attachment of nothing is for free. After watching your video I decided that I would try receiving keeping in mind your video. I was an older music store looking for sheet music. The owner offered me some old music he had and when I went to pay for it he said just take it. I thanked him and as I left I immediately got the urge to do something for him. I told myself I didn't have to, got in my car and went home. I struggled with that for the rest of the. It was wonderful to better understand myself a little more. Thank you!
Some of us are brought up to be a giver and trained to look down at selfishness. It can be difficult to distinguish for some people, especially if you came from an ethnic religious cultural background. Your videos are amazing, light hearted at times yet it hits the cores! Would you have an office or team where a follow up can be referred? Thank you.
Very true....the shirt is good
This is video is IMPORTANT. Not kidding, it is. Thanks Mark!
Thank you, Judith! x
this is gold
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I actually have a problem in receiving, it has been difficult for me, because i have always been a giver... And i don't know, how to receive, as somebody does something for me, i feel extremely overwhelmed, i guess because of childhood upbringing, thank u mark, such a great advice, i definitely need to work upon it
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
Thank you
You're welcome, Pink! x
Thank you! Ageee!
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
Yep! That's ME! A sucky receiver! Love this video! GREAT shirt btw!
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
Very well explained Mark, selfishness or self fulfilled, ๐, the feminine, open to receiving, the masculine, giving, we are both, yin/yang
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
Lovely Mark
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
As a native English speaker living in a Latin culture, I observe that native English-speaking women tend to go after love by Giving, whereas Latin women tend to go after love by Receiving (with a few exceptions, obviously). So there's a cultural aspect also. Maybe cause in many Latin countries, women don't have the same financial leverage/purchasing power as women in English-speaking countries, so they have no choice but to receive. How ironic then that women in English-speaking (and Germanic also) countries tend to have superior career opportunities and financial independence, and, yet, often, are so busy giving, being in their masculine energy I guess, that they find it harder to receive and be vulnerable. Another super important issue is motherhood. Women who are mothers learn to be giving, to put others first, and to control. Difficult then to learn how to be a bit selfish, receive more and be vulnerable. (Am writing a book called "The Selfish Mother".....) But, hey, it is only by receiving that we can allow our male partners to give, which they SOOOOO yearn to do, but they sometimes find it difficult with self-sufficient women like ourselves..... It is indeed an art to be (re-) learned! Looking forward to concrete suggestions/tools for cultivating that ! One of your many strengths as a coach, and a great feature of many of this channel's videos! Cheers
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.
Latinex
SO SMART MARK!!! โคโคโค
โ๏ธโ๏ธโ๏ธ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐: I would never ask for any kind of payment other than products and services relating directly to relationship coaching with me personally (or an online product I've built and branded; example, my book).
๐๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ง๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ.