😂 yep 👍 My Dad taught me about soft words but I never knew about the action thing until I watched your chanel. I have used it once or twice in my marriage since (not big actions, smaller ones) and you're dead right Mark, it works. I can't speak for other women, but I think my fear in taking action is that it will somehow hurt the guy or damage the relationship. I've found that the opposite is true, my husband seems to respect me more and there is more love between us. Thanks for your insight Mark 🙂
"Men prioritise things they value." A helpful reminder. Don't accept crumbs. Women who value themselves with healthy self esteem will happily and willing let such men go.
Not happily. Women like me have a REALLY hard time causing the same pain and rejection for someone else that we've been put through time and time and time again. It's exponentially harder being on that side of it, so to say a woman should "happily" reject someone suggests enjoying causing someone else the same pain and rejection as she's received in the past. Not okay, and not a high-value woman.
In speaking up at 6:04 1. Soft words, ruthless actions 2. Respect his freedom to say no Ex for new guy 6:48 1. Ask permission, sets frame 2. States interest in him 3. Respects his freedom to say no 4. Shares needs, standards
Mark please do more active dialogues!! They are helpful and well played and most dating coaches don't demonstrate their generic theories Best wishes from Greece
My relationship is hanging on by a thread because I never learned how to be a receiver. Constantly giving. Its exhausting, and I'm almost 50. I have two daughters. I don't want them to ever feel the way that I have in relationships, always. Your videos are helpful. Being a priority to me is what I think it is to most women, most people. Being 'the one.'
This was an amazing video! There are so many videos online where the coaches say to set your standards and stick to them but it’s so rare for examples of *how* to do this much less differentiating between new and established relationships! Slam dunk advice video here Mark! Well done 👍🏻
I think I brought the hammer down too fast at the end because he had no car and no license and no way to come and see me. I had to do all the work in the relationship to go and see him. Every time I mentioned it he gave excuses why and said he didn't want to talk about it and left me no choice to just end it after 2 1/2 years. It was an hour drive both ways and I took him to doctor appointments and grocery shopping, you name it. And I live in a really cool tiny house on wheels off the grid and he could care less whether he came to see me. I'm feeling really over it.
Actually, it is true. I have been there with my person. He was being slacking, laziness and such. I felt like 2nd option. It didn’t matter how I tried to explain him nicely couple of times. Finally.. know what shook him up? I explained him how much I can only do much. I can’t do more than I already do. I refuse do more. Ridiculous. So. I told him.. okay. It is entirely up to him if he wants to continue this relationship. He got to step up. Basically he has to put his effort in as much I do. To be fair.. we fought but it has more to do with communication issue. 2-3 months later.. I see him greatly improved. I personally know he wouldn’t put himself in a position to lost me. Can’t say I’m impressed. What changed? I tell him my standard/boundaries repeatedly even if he won’t listen. You can give him a choice by walk away. Let him decide. You will have your answer. I definitely did!
@@BrooklynBaby100 are you referring to my current relationship? We are good. Much better than it was! Just set the boundaries and have your own standards. Just walk away if you think you feel mistreated. Taking you for granted, I mean. Just being you. Don't do anything for anyone else. He will learn to come to appreciate you.
Very beautiful scenery and really reasonable advice. With my boyfriend who doesn’t prioritise me I tend to get emotional and nagging when he disappoints me again and again because I’m just procrastinating on the step five now as I’m scared of the break up 😣
Excellent video! Top quality content, and very helpful communication tips for many different contexts and relationship types. The roleplay where Jermia was asking to have one night a week without video games so you could talk and connect brought me right back to my last relationship. It was like pulling teeth to feel heard, seen, and appreciated, and exhausting trying to plan activities that we'd both enjoy. It's not surprising that relationship didn't work out. You have to figure out when the two of you have just stopped putting effort in and fallen into a lazy routine (which can be remedied), and when you're simply incompatible.
Hi Mark & Mark's Team :) I don't have a special man in my life...... yet :) Mind you travelling solo is preferable to being with someone for the sake of it. But your wisdom, knowledge, awareness I will keep under my belt. Men can be like puppies :) you can train them but its up to us to not lower our boundaries & standards. Speaking up can take courage but things won't improve if you don't and their are skillful and respectful ways to do this. Jemima is adorable & always assists the message to get across in a relatable, learning way. Oh & I just love your shirt Mark! :) Keep smiling :) Annie
It's become a habit for me to watch your videos and listen to you at least twice everyday. You really get to the point and you know how to transfer the information. Thank you for all your informative and wise videos.
No flaky man/friend ever reacted this way. Instead they get defensive and come up with excuses why they were busy. I personally advice to not date such people anymore. Unless they explained upfront and not last minute that they couldn't make it and proposed next date to meet. This is common courtesy.
9:37 is what my husband calls "emotional threat". He warned me not to speak to him in that way again because it's emotional blackmailing. Same goes for 10:01.
Same here. It's gaslighting. It took a marriage therapist to help me realize I was married to a covert narcissist, and he was gaslighting me. A person should respond to this kind of communication in a healthy manner, if they are not a toxic person. Do you find he often makes things about how you communicated it instead of the problem you brought up? That's what toxic people do.
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thats more relatable and easy, not so forward even when you have low expectation like some help dialogs and such. it truelly feels centered and from a safe space and humble and not so forward to the partner. Thank you :)
I’m still baffled by people who think that men’s standards matte to me MORE than my own. They think that if the guy shows up or wants me, that’s all that’s important. Uhm, NO! What matters to me is what I want and how I am treated. Him wanting me or showing up isn’t a sign of how much values me. His effort and investment is. Last year, I had someone encourage me to be available last minute, for someone who’s wishy washy, doesn’t keep contact, hasn’t even shown interest and cancelled on me before. That makes no sense. I didn’t do it. I value myself too much.
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About to get rejected. I said i dont like to get to know a guy and get closer with someone who does ' the deed' with woman whenever he pleases.aka being in a loop of fwb. I value myself but this hurts, i really like him. We are about to call, pretty sure he is gonna reject me. 😢
Mark, I’m not into these kinds of videos/advice but I’m about to purchase your book purely because you can tell you have the most purest soul, you are very real and relate-able & a delight to watch/listen to. So obviously I’m purchasing through audible haha . I’m in my late 20s with children and had recently gone through a bad split when I came across your videos and they gave me so much confidence and energy in moving forward for what’s best for me, and getting back out there, so thank you! I would love your opinion on intimacy as we as women are always told to wait. But what if you’ve got a strong emotional connection to somebody amongst a lot of lust that you both mutually want to explore the s*xual connection. Is this a rookie mistake? Or can emotions/commitment come later? Not sure if you’re still doing the Ask Mark videos but #askmark
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Very good conversation examples. Unfortunately I cannot control my emotions like the girl. If I ask for something like connection and he is responds with - Do I have to? I will go insane. Like - why are you in a relationship, wtf I am sorry, I do realize that this is not the way to speak to a man, but this behaivoir is very triggering for me. I would explode and tell him Goodbye! And the day after I would regret my reaction and try to apologize. Which would not be a win for me. But I literally get so pissed off by that laziness and neglect. I know it is not the guy's intentions but wtf! Hopefully I will change and build my patience one day but now I break up with my bf everytime he says something rude. I cannot stand this behaivoir. It really triggers me. I don't want to loose him. He is my loving. And I try to withhold myself but I manage 30% of the time. This is very very hard for me
I’m glad you said something because I ABHOR when someone tells me to “respect” a man’s fragile ego when I have demands / expectations (that he’s clearly and continually not meeting). If I have to “be softer” in my approach to keep him from being upset, I DON’T WANT HIM. If a man’s ego is THAT fragile where I can’t be DIRECT with him, the universe can KEEP his ass. SO sick of the mindset that people think women need to be soft / cater to a man just to get what we deserve / need. FUCK THAT. I ABHOR that they teach women this and I ABHOR and instantly lose respect for ANYONE that says this to me!!!!
I like this a lot I think that I have found that I don't know how to express myself well... I told him I don't I won't marry him a year ago and he's still sticking around but he does not value me either because I he told me if you marry me you'll be higher on their priority list.. I prefer to hear if he will be my wife that I don't and I cherish and like where's the actions he thinks asking me to do things and asking him he asked me to go to places but all the tiny little detail that's involved in a passionate loving fundamental relationship that you know you want to eventually get married they aren't really there like leaning against the car and making out or just making out even if the kids are there maybe that's not appropriate if his son is around his son is not like me his son is not like my son and he's 11 years old his son I'm just turned off with this on there.... He has a son 4 days a week so now that his son's schedules changing for school then that means him and I have a different schedule because his son has different schedule.... My instincts telling me that I don't want to marry him. I just like him for intimacy but we don't really have that either because he is so good at flirting with me and inviting me over..it's hard to be honest with myself... Because what am I losing and not being with him what am I missing out on...(?)
I know this seems like a ridiculous question, but how do I know he's not prioritizing me and not me expecting too much? I'd like to know it's not insecurity on my part causing me to feel like I don't come first.
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Number 1. A big NO, end of story, thank you! My best self would not choose him... never!
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Here's my reasoning: If he's not seeing my value, he must be not intelligent. If he's not intelligent, I'm not attracted to them. If I'm not attracted to them, I won't take extra steps to make them see my value.
It's sad to see that so many of the comments are flipping scammers with spells and investment scammers. People really gotta think about getting real jobs
When a man take the responsibility of any girl it's obvious that he has chosen that girl for their life, but when a man take any girl as granted then it's not possible , and l have learned it from my life , my way as well life strategy is different, because l don't like to beg anything from anyone, lastly relationship word is very easy but maintaining a true relationship is too tuff, last but not the least l am not so cheap and easy so who made or making me as his priorities is not so very important , what l make and what l want is very important , honestly l don't believe in any relationship except one , l don't want to mention this as its too lengthy now , anyway thanks , always nourishing, adjusting with others , balancing these all things girls always do , can you please tell me why always guys take their step back from all these , however long discussion so not to waste time for one man to making as his priorities specially l haven't enough time for this. Anyway thanks Mark.
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Should I ask if he's dating another woman? It was very difficult to know what was on his mind. And I don't want to ask him many questions for fear that he will leave thinking I'm so obsessed which I'm not, I'm just this kind of person who doesn't want to waste my time. Do you know what I mean?
Oof! That video games part really ruffles my feathers a bit. LADIES, protip from a female gamer - NEVER INTERRUPT THE GUY when he's on a match, especially if it's ONLINE. Sometimes, it's life or death for him and his team. CHEER HIM ON, better yet, GET KNOWLEDGEABLE about the game he's playing, so he KNOWS you KNOW how important it is to him, THEN, he'll be more receptive to whatever YOUR NEEDS are. After the match is over, or there's some downtime in-game, like his character is in a queue or lobby, THEN ask him what you WANT. OR, "hey, babe, after that mission/match/boss battle, can I talk to you about something? Thanks!" Ladies, some games CANNOT BE PAUSED, some CAN but it ruins the momentum...then he has to recollect his thoughts...and now he's annoyed with your little girly needs cuz you ruined his groove.
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How about putting a video together for her on how to make her man a priority and put him first, not just in word but in practise to. She says you are important to me and love you and adore you, BUT the actions tend to make this questionable..
Awesome video!! I just started seeing this guy that I realllly like..we did already sleep together..he still likes me..but what do I do from here on? I just now found your videos and am learning so much but I hope I didnt sabotage this already!
Hammer time ladies! Am I right..?
😂 yep 👍
My Dad taught me about soft words but I never knew about the action thing until I watched your chanel.
I have used it once or twice in my marriage since (not big actions, smaller ones) and you're dead right Mark, it works.
I can't speak for other women, but I think my fear in taking action is that it will somehow hurt the guy or damage the relationship. I've found that the opposite is true, my husband seems to respect me more and there is more love between us.
Thanks for your insight Mark 🙂
I really love the way u explain could u pls make more videos on married couple
Oh my god. I have never asked for permission to be honest! Can one be TOO honest with a man??? Hahahaha
"Men prioritise things they value." A helpful reminder. Don't accept crumbs. Women who value themselves with healthy self esteem will happily and willing let such men go.
100% Deb!
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Not happily. Women like me have a REALLY hard time causing the same pain and rejection for someone else that we've been put through time and time and time again. It's exponentially harder being on that side of it, so to say a woman should "happily" reject someone suggests enjoying causing someone else the same pain and rejection as she's received in the past. Not okay, and not a high-value woman.
@@chelseajackman7730 you sound soooo young ......
1. Check in with your own standards
2. Be specific
3. Demonstrate you value yourself
4. Speak Up
5. Bring the hammer down
In speaking up at 6:04
1. Soft words, ruthless actions
2. Respect his freedom to say no
Ex for new guy 6:48
1. Ask permission, sets frame
2. States interest in him
3. Respects his freedom to say no
4. Shares needs, standards
Basically, "I'd like you to do X, but you don't have to if you don't want to. However, if you decide not to do X, I'll find me someone who will."
@@timscomfort9166 lol I'm good
Sometimes when you do value yourself the man disappears in a flash
“Gentle words, RUTHLESS ACTIONS” 🙃
Mark please do more active dialogues!! They are helpful and well played and most dating coaches don't demonstrate their generic theories
Best wishes from Greece
i love the demo's extremely valuable!!!
Hard finding some guy who will step up and choose me as a priority. Thanks for this video
Words have power to move, heal, nourish and transform ppl from outward to inward, from unpleasant to pleasant, from nothing to blessing.
Gee and where is everyone; all the sudden getting their wisdom from?
Me!!!!
My relationship is hanging on by a thread because I never learned how to be a receiver. Constantly giving. Its exhausting, and I'm almost 50. I have two daughters. I don't want them to ever feel the way that I have in relationships, always. Your videos are helpful. Being a priority to me is what I think it is to most women, most people. Being 'the one.'
I've found making myself a priority attracts others that prioritize me too😊🤗
You and i are the same
This was an amazing video! There are so many videos online where the coaches say to set your standards and stick to them but it’s so rare for examples of *how* to do this much less differentiating between new and established relationships! Slam dunk advice video here Mark! Well done 👍🏻
Love how you differentitated the approach between the new and the old relationship.
I think I brought the hammer down too fast at the end because he had no car and no license and no way to come and see me. I had to do all the work in the relationship to go and see him. Every time I mentioned it he gave excuses why and said he didn't want to talk about it and left me no choice to just end it after 2 1/2 years. It was an hour drive both ways and I took him to doctor appointments and grocery shopping, you name it. And I live in a really cool tiny house on wheels off the grid and he could care less whether he came to see me. I'm feeling really over it.
I am bursting at the seams over the relevancy of this topic (much like the sleeves of Mark's shirt)!
hahaha thanks Laura
Bravo!!!! For the role playing… Your content and delivery is superior to other coaches. Thank you ❤
You are so welcome! Thanks Tess!
Actually, it is true. I have been there with my person. He was being slacking, laziness and such. I felt like 2nd option. It didn’t matter how I tried to explain him nicely couple of times. Finally.. know what shook him up?
I explained him how much I can only do much. I can’t do more than I already do. I refuse do more. Ridiculous. So. I told him.. okay. It is entirely up to him if he wants to continue this relationship. He got to step up. Basically he has to put his effort in as much I do.
To be fair.. we fought but it has more to do with communication issue.
2-3 months later.. I see him greatly improved. I personally know he wouldn’t put himself in a position to lost me. Can’t say I’m impressed. What changed? I tell him my standard/boundaries repeatedly even if he won’t listen. You can give him a choice by walk away. Let him decide.
You will have your answer. I definitely did!
Have any updates?
@@BrooklynBaby100 are you referring to my current relationship? We are good. Much better than it was! Just set the boundaries and have your own standards. Just walk away if you think you feel mistreated. Taking you for granted, I mean.
Just being you. Don't do anything for anyone else. He will learn to come to appreciate you.
What a beautiful garden behind you! Wow 🥰
Very beautiful scenery and really reasonable advice. With my boyfriend who doesn’t prioritise me I tend to get emotional and nagging when he disappoints me again and again because I’m just procrastinating on the step five now as I’m scared of the break up 😣
Maybe try to reframe this instead of fear of losing something, you'll gain something much better: self respect.
I Appreciate the practical demo. Thank you, Mark
I so enjoy your practical advise, examples and that you put it in perspective of how much time they deserve.
Thanks so much, Gwen! Glad you enjoyed it. x
I love how Mark plays the guy so right. He's even laying back on the couch.
Hahahahahahhaha
Thanks for the encouragement Mark. It's definitely hammer time 🔨
Bonk 🤪🔨
🔨🔨
Excellent video! Top quality content, and very helpful communication tips for many different contexts and relationship types.
The roleplay where Jermia was asking to have one night a week without video games so you could talk and connect brought me right back to my last relationship. It was like pulling teeth to feel heard, seen, and appreciated, and exhausting trying to plan activities that we'd both enjoy. It's not surprising that relationship didn't work out. You have to figure out when the two of you have just stopped putting effort in and fallen into a lazy routine (which can be remedied), and when you're simply incompatible.
This was SO helpful Mark! Especially the skits… Helps so much! Thank you!💕
Thank you, Flygirl! Great to know you liked it. x
Hi Mark & Mark's Team :) I don't have a special man in my life...... yet :) Mind you travelling solo is preferable to being with someone for the sake of it. But your wisdom, knowledge, awareness I will keep under my belt. Men can be like puppies :) you can train them but its up to us to not lower our boundaries & standards. Speaking up can take courage but things won't improve if you don't and their are skillful and respectful ways to do this. Jemima is adorable & always assists the message to get across in a relatable, learning way. Oh & I just love your shirt Mark! :) Keep smiling :) Annie
It's become a habit for me to watch your videos and listen to you at least twice everyday. You really get to the point and you know how to transfer the information. Thank you for all your informative and wise videos.
Great stuff, very useful and well laid out. Bonus: doggie head rubs!
I love the conversation examples.
No flaky man/friend ever reacted this way. Instead they get defensive and come up with excuses why they were busy. I personally advice to not date such people anymore. Unless they explained upfront and not last minute that they couldn't make it and proposed next date to meet. This is common courtesy.
Thank you for the advice and words of encouragement. Your videos are always informative and provide relevant, practical techniques 😊
9:37 is what my husband calls "emotional threat". He warned me not to speak to him in that way again because it's emotional blackmailing. Same goes for 10:01.
He doesn't understand what emotional blackmailing is, Hazel.
Same here. It's gaslighting. It took a marriage therapist to help me realize I was married to a covert narcissist, and he was gaslighting me. A person should respond to this kind of communication in a healthy manner, if they are not a toxic person.
Do you find he often makes things about how you communicated it instead of the problem you brought up? That's what toxic people do.
Your best video to date. Thank you A great perspective with valuable examples.
I'M SAVING THIS! I found the demo to be very helpful - thanks!
Love your videos! Always to the point and helpful. Your book iss is the best. 👍
Heya Jacquelyn! Thanks for the support and for leaving a nice comment. Means a lot to me! I appreciate you! xx
The examples are truly so helpful! Thank you both!
Glad the video helped. Thanks so much, Melinda! x
Congrats on the book and especially audio! You look younger and happier Mark! Really happy for you :)
Spot on, living my best life xx
Thanks for writing in, El!
Wow! That's a lot of bicep ❤️
You’re so cute and sincere, Mark! Btw - I’m married and watching these to figure out how to make my husband want to spend time with me 🤣
Aww thanks so much, rahmanforever! Hope the video helps. x
These examples are excellent by the way 🙌🏽
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He really help me that why I am referring him to you.advice you seek his help now Thanks.
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Hello it's work I can't believe
Wh@tspp him
thats more relatable and easy, not so forward even when you have low expectation like some help dialogs and such. it truelly feels centered and from a safe space and humble and not so forward to the partner. Thank you :)
Examples are so helpful
A very teaching moment again. Wrote down all for myself 😊 thank you Mark. You did very understandable role play together 😳👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Mark, I'm making you a priority! 🤗❤️😘
You're the best!
@@Markrosenfeld No, you are and you make me wanna be better! 🤗
Great video mark 👍 and I love the demonstration by Mia and you. It helps a lot. Thanks 😊
You just fell from the sky for me!
😘😊😊
I’m still baffled by people who think that men’s standards matte to me MORE than my own. They think that if the guy shows up or wants me, that’s all that’s important. Uhm, NO! What matters to me is what I want and how I am treated. Him wanting me or showing up isn’t a sign of how much values me. His effort and investment is.
Last year, I had someone encourage me to be available last minute, for someone who’s wishy washy, doesn’t keep contact, hasn’t even shown interest and cancelled on me before. That makes no sense. I didn’t do it. I value myself too much.
Soft words ruthless action 7:15
Yep! 😊
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He really help me that why I am referring him to you.advice you seek his help now Thanks.
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He really help me that why I am referring him to you.advice you seek his help now Thanks.
This Makes Me Think Of The Film 'The Ugly Truth' Great Video!
Amazing!! Found it very helpful. Thanks so much Mark! ☺️🙌💕💕
This video was great!!! Yep - hammer time!!!
LOL
Thank you, Leolady811! 🙏
About to get rejected. I said i dont like to get to know a guy and get closer with someone who does ' the deed' with woman whenever he pleases.aka being in a loop of fwb. I value myself but this hurts, i really like him. We are about to call, pretty sure he is gonna reject me. 😢
Mark, I’m not into these kinds of videos/advice but I’m about to purchase your book purely because you can tell you have the most purest soul, you are very real and relate-able & a delight to watch/listen to. So obviously I’m purchasing through audible haha . I’m in my late 20s with children and had recently gone through a bad split when I came across your videos and they gave me so much confidence and energy in moving forward for what’s best for me, and getting back out there, so thank you! I would love your opinion on intimacy as we as women are always told to wait. But what if you’ve got a strong emotional connection to somebody amongst a lot of lust that you both mutually want to explore the s*xual connection. Is this a rookie mistake? Or can emotions/commitment come later? Not sure if you’re still doing the Ask Mark videos but #askmark
Wow a seriously good video, very simple to understand and easy to follow advice ,thank you 🙌
Examples start at 6:50. LOVE EXAMPLES & GUIDELINES!!!! 😁😁
Thanks Random! Hopefully the rest is still valuable too aha xx
Excellent strategies Mark...thanks
Thank you Mark, I love ur videos, so easily understandable 💗
this is really helpful!
Right on point. Amazing video. Thank you ❤️
Thanks so much, Lulu! 🙏
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He really help me that why I am referring him to you.advice you seek his help now Thanks.
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Hello it's work I can't believe
Wh@tspp him
Thank you mark , this video was a bomb ! 🙏🏻💕
Why the heck am I trying so hard to be the number priority of someone who isn’t my standard in my best self? Could it be I’m being manipulated?
Great advice Mark, thank you!
Great video with great knowledge❤thanks Mike
Love your mind Mark
That's nice of you to say, Lee. Thanks so much! x
Hi Mark you are a good coach
Thank you Mark!! ❤
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Great video. Thanks. Love the demos.
Very good conversation examples. Unfortunately I cannot control my emotions like the girl. If I ask for something like connection and he is responds with - Do I have to? I will go insane. Like - why are you in a relationship, wtf I am sorry, I do realize that this is not the way to speak to a man, but this behaivoir is very triggering for me. I would explode and tell him Goodbye! And the day after I would regret my reaction and try to apologize. Which would not be a win for me. But I literally get so pissed off by that laziness and neglect. I know it is not the guy's intentions but wtf! Hopefully I will change and build my patience one day but now I break up with my bf everytime he says something rude. I cannot stand this behaivoir. It really triggers me. I don't want to loose him. He is my loving. And I try to withhold myself but I manage 30% of the time. This is very very hard for me
I’m glad you said something because I ABHOR when someone tells me to “respect” a man’s fragile ego when I have demands / expectations (that he’s clearly and continually not meeting). If I have to “be softer” in my approach to keep him from being upset, I DON’T WANT HIM. If a man’s ego is THAT fragile where I can’t be DIRECT with him, the universe can KEEP his ass. SO sick of the mindset that people think women need to be soft / cater to a man just to get what we deserve / need. FUCK THAT. I ABHOR that they teach women this and I ABHOR and instantly lose respect for ANYONE that says this to me!!!!
Great video! Thanks, Mark :)
What if he’s valuing himself and looks like he’s not prioritising you?
Even in friendships???Yep.
A great video📹 with excellent advice. 👌👍😊
Should I try to train him or find a guy who truly values me?
Guys for the most part don’t change.
I like this a lot I think that I have found that I don't know how to express myself well... I told him I don't I won't marry him a year ago and he's still sticking around but he does not value me either because I he told me if you marry me you'll be higher on their priority list.. I prefer to hear if he will be my wife that I don't and I cherish and like where's the actions he thinks asking me to do things and asking him he asked me to go to places but all the tiny little detail that's involved in a passionate loving fundamental relationship that you know you want to eventually get married they aren't really there like leaning against the car and making out or just making out even if the kids are there maybe that's not appropriate if his son is around his son is not like me his son is not like my son and he's 11 years old his son I'm just turned off with this on there.... He has a son 4 days a week so now that his son's schedules changing for school then that means him and I have a different schedule because his son has different schedule.... My instincts telling me that I don't want to marry him. I just like him for intimacy but we don't really have that either because he is so good at flirting with me and inviting me over..it's hard to be honest with myself... Because what am I losing and not being with him what am I missing out on...(?)
Another great video! Love it
taking notes!
Thank you, Laili! 😊
Thank you that was very helpful. I have to put the hammer down more quickly in the future. xD
Good video!
I know this seems like a ridiculous question, but how do I know he's not prioritizing me and not me expecting too much? I'd like to know it's not insecurity on my part causing me to feel like I don't come first.
Thanks very much mark!
You're welcome, Mahdi! Thanks for watching! x
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Number 1. A big NO, end of story, thank you! My best self would not choose him... never!
Here's my reasoning:
If he's not seeing my value, he must be not intelligent. If he's not intelligent, I'm not attracted to them. If I'm not attracted to them, I won't take extra steps to make them see my value.
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When a man take the responsibility of any girl it's obvious that he has chosen that girl for their life, but when a man take any girl as granted then it's not possible , and l have learned it from my life , my way as well life strategy is different, because l don't like to beg anything from anyone, lastly relationship word is very easy but maintaining a true relationship is too tuff, last but not the least l am not so cheap and easy so who made or making me as his priorities is not so very important , what l make and what l want is very important , honestly l don't believe in any relationship except one , l don't want to mention this as its too lengthy now , anyway thanks , always nourishing, adjusting with others , balancing these all things girls always do , can you please tell me why always guys take their step back from all these , however long discussion so not to waste time for one man to making as his priorities specially l haven't enough time for this. Anyway thanks Mark.
Lol I tried this and it was in one ear and out the other
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Should I ask if he's dating another woman? It was very difficult to know what was on his mind. And I don't want to ask him many questions for fear that he will leave thinking I'm so obsessed which I'm not, I'm just this kind of person who doesn't want to waste my time. Do you know what I mean?
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Oof! That video games part really ruffles my feathers a bit. LADIES, protip from a female gamer - NEVER INTERRUPT THE GUY when he's on a match, especially if it's ONLINE. Sometimes, it's life or death for him and his team. CHEER HIM ON, better yet, GET KNOWLEDGEABLE about the game he's playing, so he KNOWS you KNOW how important it is to him, THEN, he'll be more receptive to whatever YOUR NEEDS are.
After the match is over, or there's some downtime in-game, like his character is in a queue or lobby, THEN ask him what you WANT.
OR, "hey, babe, after that mission/match/boss battle, can I talk to you about something? Thanks!"
Ladies, some games CANNOT BE PAUSED, some CAN but it ruins the momentum...then he has to recollect his thoughts...and now he's annoyed with your little girly needs cuz you ruined his groove.
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How about putting a video together for her on how to make her man a priority and put him first, not just in word but in practise to. She says you are important to me and love you and adore you, BUT the actions tend to make this questionable..
OMG! "You have to teach him how to do it". It's not my job. If he doesn't know how to treat a lady he's not a man yet.
Mark are you back home and not in Vegas anymore? Did you break up?
Awesome video!! I just started seeing this guy that I realllly like..we did already sleep together..he still likes me..but what do I do from here on? I just now found your videos and am learning so much but I hope I didnt sabotage this already!
Same shoes meet someone I really like but first date we did the dirty now am not sure if I already sabotage the relationship ughh
Mention how you’d like to wait and stop sleeping with them.. or just don’t sleep with themz
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