EMILY HAS A MAJOR SHOWDOWN WITH KOBE'S FRIENDS!
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- čas přidán 13. 06. 2024
- It was only a matter of time before Emily and Kobe's friends clashed, wasn't it? Emily's trying her best to build bridges and be accepted. But Kobe's friends have taken it upon themselves to try and school her into being the perfect Cameroonian wife. And Kobe is letting them do it! He says he's stuck in the middle. But I'm sorry Kobe, you're going to have to pick a side and stand up to your friends. Because their expectations and the way they're treating Emily is getting out of hand.
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This commentary is of Emily and Kobe from Happily Ever After Season 8 Episode 6
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Episode 2: EMILY TRIES TO EMBRACE KOBE'S CULTURE... • EMILY TRIES TO EMBRACE...
Episode 4: ARE KOBE'S FRIENDS TRYING TO SPLIT UP HIS MARRIAGE? • ARE KOBE'S FRIENDS TRY...
Episode 5: KOBE HAD A SECRET GIRLFRIEND?! • KOBE HAD A SECRET GIRL... - Zábava
They are not his true friends. I cannot imagine my friends behaving like this.
I think his friends want them to split up just to see him move back instead of being happy for him and his family.
It looks like they were mad at him for marrying a western woman so they said many things to sour their marriage
totally agree
His friends are shit disturbing Aholes.
Most of the cast member's friends are hired fakes.
Rude is rude in any culture. They never gave her a chance.
1. Kobe should have warned Emily not to host at a club. If it's a cultural thing, then he clearly knew it'd be a problem.
2. He is a coward for not stepping in when his wife was being disrespected. He left her to handle grown men all on her own.
100 xxx
Period pooh
It seemed cruel that he did that. The criticism he didn't intervene at all 😢
💯!!!!!!
He's a bit of a coward, to be sure.
His friends’ wife should be cooking and hosting them as they’re visitors. But do they have wives? 🧐
usually people who try to break up their friends’ relationships are single…
@@boosqueezy2418 Absolutely!
If they do they probably treat their wives like crap. Because he even said that basically the women there wait on the man. And they expect respect but they don’t have to give it cause their the “man” 🤦🏻♀️
Says a lot 🤡
Damn good question
I'm an African woman, and I completely disagree with Cobe's friends. The kind of woman they are describing is from our mother's generation.
Great post
Not my mother's or grandmother's generation. We are N&W African and I've NEVER witnessed any men in my family or loved ones behave like these misogynistic bigoted unattractive men.
Not even my grandfathers behaved like this. They cherished their wives & daughters.
I'm glad u wrote this I had a terrible experience also like Emily just couldn't win or be nice always the bad one 😔
@@chelsey8343 I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
Kobe friends see right thru emily. American women are bossy, munipulative, and vengeful
Emily may be bossy but Kobe's friends are massive misogynistic a-holes just waiting for their downfall and also how can they invite say that "you should invite them to their house" when THEY DON'T HAVE A DAMN HOUSE!!!
Like why even say that when it’s can’t happen like WHAT
Just waiting like heifers to just be feed on someone else's dime while they grade you😅😅😅.....kobe ditch these l*osers*....
😮
And how entitled.
Kobe’s “friends” are the biggest assh*les around, no matter what country they’re from. Rude is RUDE, & they’re nasty, mean spirited, & so disrespectful.
IDK why Emily is trying so hard to win these misogynistic morons over, (not that they’d accept her) no matter how much it means to Kobe. I wish he’d finally just tell them off.
I’d pick my wife EVERY SINGLE TIME I’d rather lose friends than a lifelong partner
Nah bro…..divorce rate is 70 percent in the USA wives are a dime a dozen now.
@@ConstellationCommunicationtrue 😂
Wife and mother of his children.
@@ConstellationCommunicationit's not that high.
You sound like a good man who wont end up included in the high divorce numbers. There is nothing better to fight for than your family. Enjoy the journey.
Emily is a lot of things but his friends (whew!) are disrespectful asf
Kobe should've defended her better
100 xx
Why is Koby choosing his old kid friends over his children’s lives? I didn’t expect him to do this!
Same
Seriously? 😂
I'm not surprised lol
There isn't a reason to expect he wouldn't...he is a rando stranger on a reality show.
Because he’s spineless
The truth of the matter is that Kobe is not a traditional Cameroonian man and he doesn't want a traditional Cameroonian woman. The fact that Kobe hasn't talked about his culture to his wife and she's having to learn these things from other people while she's in Africa should tell you just how much he cares about his Cameroonian traditions
He says nothing because "she is an American woman" as she puts it. She doesn't listen to her
Agree and to add to that Kobe has had his mind opened up and perspective changed by living in other countries. his friends have not and hence still have their unchanging cultural perspective
@@cheery-hexThis needs to be pinned
he does care about his culture i remember him trying to feed his baby cameronian food to introduce him to his culture peoole just make these blanket statements
100%
Kobe can literally watch this video and prove those aren’t his “real friends”
Even without watching the video. He was there when it happened.
His friends are trying to ruin his marriage...jealous much....how can she host a get together when they are in a hotel? Shouldn't his friends be hosting them?
Guarantee you if she did figure out a way to host something like that, they have something to say about that too
Bingo!@@lourdesmercedes
Exactly why aren’t THEY hosting the visitors 🤦🏾♀️
Don't yall know she is supposed to slaughter a goat outside of the hotel room. Then a cow and cook it for those AFRICAN MEN.
Emily is married to Kobe not his friends 😡not matter what she does its never going to be good enough for them! grow a pair Kobe time to step up for your wife!!!!
Kobe should protect your wife
Wait, why mine??
There’s no pleasing Valeri. I can’t imagine being married to a guy like that!
Friends can be jealous too. Judging by 90 days history it's accurate to 99%.
Emily has a lot of patience!! I'm impressed with her growth
She’s more patient than me! I would’ve walked out way earlier 🤦🏾♀️
My ex's friends isolated me at a party. He said, "Let's go." Amd we left. They can't accept your wife they don't accept you. Valery is a hater that hates seeing Koby shine
Friends isn't the word to describe them...
What does Kobe see in his friends? I hope for his sake that TLC orchestrated this drama and told everyone to play along
Yeah, it's so obvious they want to sabotage his relationship. Think they are jealous because Kobe and Emily have something solid. I think they just hate how much say Kobe gives Emily in their marriage. They literally mad that they have an EQUAL union.
@@StephanieD-xq9qq Agree. Did you see that Kobe posted on Instagram defending Valerie after this? Kobe is really seeking his approval for some reason
@@sailorVenus225 I didn't see that. I can't believe Emily is the reasonable one between them lol
My friend is going through the exact same thing with her Cameroonian husband. It’s the disrespect for me and how silent Kobe is. Ridiculous.
Props to Emily. I wouldn’t have the patience for someone trying to tell me what to do, what I’m “supposed” to do as a woman.
Imagine trying to break up a marriage that’s already stable and functioning 🤦🏾♀️ what do they want from Kobe? To leave his wife and 3 kids in the states 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Kobe's friends are on a mission to destroy that marriage, those are snakes not friends 😮
Kobe, Kobe, what are you doing? Defend your wife, man. Don't you see that your friends are jealous of your life now and are trying to destroy your marriage. Wake up man!!
i thought female friends were jealous and catty but these guys are outrageous. if i were emily, i wouldn’t want them at my wedding either.
His friends are being aholes!
They can't talk about an African wife because Africa is an entire continent with many counties, nations, ethnicities and traditions. These guys are just misogynistic. Even if what they say was true, she doesn't owe them obedience because she's not their wife. Ridiculous.
🚩 🚩 🚩 her husband is being a bit of a red flag to me just in the sense he knows his wife better then anyone else he had children with her and yet hes taking the side of men who keep ganging up on his wife and keep talking smack about her
As a husband a “traditional “ you’re supposed to defend your wife’s honor and your family the family you ask for and build with a wife is the only family that should come first you cant pick and choose what parts of being traditional you like
Emily is not perfect no one is but I really admire people who take self accountability and she's really trying here
Emily the way she talks like she wants to kiss everybody 😂
@@wisdomsakala1477 She has a lisp.
13:36 what house can she invite them to! She out in another country hahahaha 🤦🏾♀️
With friends like that , who needs enemies. And even if Emily did invite them to her hotel and cooked for them , they still would of complained . They are small minded and prejudiced against Americans.
Kobe needs to grow a pair and stop letting his friends talk to his wife crazy. They are literally just trying to provoke her as a form of exercising power in some form because they feel like Kobe doesn't do it. But what goes down in Kobe marriage is his business not theirs.
Kobe is starting to come off as push around to me, and I'm losing the little respect I had for him.
I thought It was odd of them to address her and not Kobe. If that’s their way than Kobe should’ve been held accountable .
I agree. but Kobe looks confused. I don't think he recalls that part of his culture!.
Team Emily and all women everywhere!!!
Emily is bossy and Kobe's friends are misogynists, but I will say the friends didn't like her from the start. They were just waiting for her to screw up in any way so that they could jump on her.
Bad juju dog !! No haters allowed . She has that right . I'd want an apology from them .
Kobe is so desperate for their approval, yes she can be annoying but you always choose your wife! DUHHHHH
They need to know the difference between being bossy and just being a caring wife. His friends are jealous of him. Bottom line.!!
His friends are absolute trash... I'm hoping this was all just scripted bc his friends are way too much. If that was my friend group, i would cut them off immediately for disrespecting my partner. Kobe needs to man the f up
I can bet everything I own that his so called friends envy him so much and their "critics" are just the way their jealousy manifests
So just because in their Culture the Women has nothing to say doesnt mean she have to obey him they dont live there
And if Cobe doesnt accept her personality he should considered before having more kids
His Friends dont like her period
They live in America none of their Business
Kobe your wife doesn't want your friends at your wedding because your friends have been trying to sabotage your marriage since you have gotten their dude open your eyes these are not your friends
They're stirring the pot hoping that they can get Kobe back home.. Kobe needs to tell them to knock it off
Kobe's friend is very confrontational and argumentative. He enjoys making Emily feel uncomfortable.
Koby…if they are trying to sabotage your happy marriage…they AREN’T your best friends. Period
No sleeping dogs, only because if the ex girl says no they weren't together than he realllllyyyy needs to think about who he's calling a friend and if he was still with the ex still,why would you tell on kobe if he's your "friends" so yay or nay he needs to side eye Valery.
exactly
Question….
Are any of his friends married? Because I don’t see why they are commenting on his relationship if they aren’t in a relationship of their own. Also, Kobe married an American. He clearly doesn’t want a ‘traditional’ Kameroon woman. Smh. Friends need to respect the relationship or be cut off (although it’s not like they will have any of these issues when they go back to America being that the friends aren’t there).
They claim they are or from the way that they were talking. It sounded kind of like they were but I doubt they are married because no woman would allow her husband to disrespect her like that and be a coward. You are either a man or you're a little boy and they are little boys to the max. Nobody wants to marry children. I don't care what culture you're in.
Kobe..when you watch this you owe your wife a big apology!😊
BTW you friend is creepy
They want Kobe to leave Emily and the kids and go back to his ex. I really want to see the wives, why weren't the wives and kids at the ball game or the club so Emily wouldn't be the only woman? One of the 3 Stooges said his wife has his bath ready and dinner waiting when he gets home. I guess that's all a wife means to them. Btw, 14 out of 1,000 marriages in America end in divorce. Not the 70% someone on this thread said. 🙄
Kobe,open your eyes,your friends are toxic.
His chuckle when she said that she doesn't want people who don't want him to be married to her. Made me think none of his people want him to b married to her.😅
I talk to her once in awhile...WTF KOBE😮😮😮.....
It's staged, but if not I'd get on a plane and go home. If his friends are so important stay there. He'd be back in the US in two minutes. He loves her but his priorities are seriously skewed right now.
They're not Kobe's real friends they should have been nice to his wife and not rude
I think his friends have a crush on him
They are jealous of him
As a south Sudanese woman, Kobe’s “friends” are the worst. They’re secretly envious that Kobe married an American and is living in the US. They want him back down to their level. Any woman who marries them wouldn’t be out of love but because that’s all they can find and women are shamed for not being married.
I lost a lot of respect for Kobe during his trip home a lot of respect I used to I used to root for a boy but after seeing his behavior towards his wife and his friends and him siding with his friends instead of taking up for his wife dude kudos to you Emily for going off on their behinds I would have done the same thing
I'm not gonna lie, I'm Really Not a fan of Emily's but Kobe's friends are BRUTAL, Valerie is a veritable a-hole, he should watch this vid and see what a Fool he made of himself
I feel like the people who are really disrespectful to Colby are his friends because, they aren't respecting his choices, they don't trust him to make sound decisions for himself which in this case was marrying emily. They're the ones second-guessing him and putting him in a position of incapable. That's how I would address it..... Like you don't trust your friend's choices? You don't trust that he could find a wife that is caring and loving and make a life for himself in another country, be a good father and husband to us? You don't trust him
They aren’t real friends if they can’t accept that you’re happy. If they truly care, they would suck it up and keep their mouth shut.
They're jealous of him because he's had social and economic upward mobility and they have not
It doesn't matter what she does; they will not come around to liking her. At least not until Kobe says something to them.
Kobe, you need to put your foot down. That’s your wife and the mother of your children. Man up and put your friends on their place.
Your insights are so refreshing in this twisted world.
Friends dont have to like her but they must respect her even if only out of respect for Koby.
I love your channel sooooooo much!!! I can't wait to come home from work and have my dinner "with you" 😅🤭🤭😍😍😍
talking to his ex “once in a while”
Only 4 minutes in but YES. she should talk to this ex and you saying it’s HER dragging up the past when she just wants truth to continue her life is insane to me.
These so-called “” friends “are despicable.
He keeps in contact with the EX?!?!?!? Wtf
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Kobe dropped the ball on this one. He needs to step in and defend is wife
I love this couple . She is hosting them , to the best of her ability . And shes being a good sport after they were rude and meddlesome .
Koby must be an Aquarius, they are the only people who will choose their friends over their partner 😂
Such useless loser friends he has
Coby and emily seem like a happy couple. If your a true friend u are happy for a friend to be happy
Cobe is weak and never stood up for Emily.
Kobe's friends secretly hate him or they are jealous of him for sure
Well done video!!!
Emily's lisp drives me bonkers 😭
IDK….the way Kobe’s friends are prying into his marriage & relationship with a “American” woman seems like they may be low key jealous. Like, since they such experts on what a wife is suppose to be, where are their wives?
“I feel like I’m caught in the middle” no dude your wife should be first
They're trying to drive a wedge...and they are not his friends
His hair style looks like Sonic the Hedgehog Hog. LOL
His friends are disrespectful to him by being disrespectful to his wife especially right in front of him! He is no man and has no backbone either.
Even her parents said that she was bossy.
And she is no denying that!
I don’t like Emily and I do think she’s bossy, but his friends are so wrong for this, Kobe is happy with Emily and they are in no place to meddle and call it out
I wouldn’t even bother trying to get to know his judgmental friend’s 😮💨 they are rude and arrogant
Wife comes before everyone . God is absolute first, then wife and kids. Friends come and go
they’re jealous they are living the American Dream
I love this couple
He's not deaf or stupid so he can see it. I just think that must be what he wants. For his friends to do his dirty work.
I can’t believe that Kobe sat there and allowed his friends to say such rude words to his wife. I believe that Emily and her family has treated him so well. WOW! Shame on you, Kobe!
Je n’en reviens pas de voir le comportement de Kobe et de ses amis
Émilie est très courageuse sur ce coup
Emily is just doing too much to prove herself to his friends. Their opinions will never change if anything just have a worse opinion on her as she keeps going. She’s only there for a short period of time I don’t get why she doesn’t just play the role and go home and life goes back to normal
Kobe should be a man and stand up for his wife.
That's what happened when u don't listen to your husband, here in Africa a woman always submit plans to her husband for approval those who don't like Emily end up inviting wrong people
Kobe needs to check his "friends" their out of line , they have outrageous expectations for her. when all and all she does not live there or plan to live there. Im not the biggest fan of emily but its crazy when she seems the most level headed out of everyone. Kobe got to get it together because no other man should ever be able to dictate how things go with your wife that is also the mother of your children.
With friends like this you don’t need enemies
Kobe and his friends better chill the F out, at the end of the day Kobe has to go home with Emily and her kids. The friends are being hateful, they are not good men.
I actually love this couple
He never should have married her, this will end badly
If Kobe believes these guys I don't know what to think of him. Emily does need to chill on the hitting part while playing totally not acceptable.
I think Kobe didn't see a problem with inviting his friends to a club. Kobe has traveled and experienced other cultures. He is a well-traveled man and I don't think his friends have been exposed to much or that they've experienced anything more than Cameroon or other African countries.
If Jealousy was a group of men would be his friends
I honestly cannot wait for the tell all, you know for sure they are going to have them on a facetime or even there on set. I really want to see Kobe step it up for his wife because his friends are P.O.S., and he has children with Emily and that's his family now. Her parents have welcomed him with open arms and have done so much for him, he seriously needs to grow up. Emily will always be the mother to his children and when things get rough, I highly doubt his friends will be there for him.