Great advice Jay! I did not learn about speaking on the out breath until I saw your previous video on slowing down speech for better communication. That was so helpful for me. Thanks!
@@voiceandspeech hey if u are reading this, can u please guide me on how to breathe out while speaking. I realised that it doesnt happen natural for me. when I put my hand right in front of my mouth while speaking, I dont quite feel that column of air coming out as opposed to when I just breathe out without speaking. and then i try to consciously breathe out a column of air while speaking but it feels weird when I need to articulate different words in a sentence at the same time
@@dendi1076 That's a great observation on your part, and you're experimenting in exactly the right way, but starting with sentences is too big for a first step. Start with extended vowel sounds (ay, I, oh, ow). When you can move breath forward on single vowels, try extending simple words (way, why, whoa, wow). When that's working, move to phrases (go away, say hello, wave goodbye) and then short sentences. It will definitely feel weird at first but that's always true when you're learning a new skill. After a few weeks (months?) of practice you might be able to apply it to a conversation for brief periods of time. You've got the right idea, but you need to take smaller steps and give it more time.
Jay, thanks for this useful video. I found the mechanical explanation using the wind instrument metaphor really helpful. Great advice as always over the years! Thanks.
I struggle so much to have a generous breath while speaking, it's like I always trigger muscles to help it out, which causes me to become restricted. Is it an okay exercise to take the inhale, and then start to exhale first, then add voice a split second after the initiation of the exhale? I have found that it does help to encourage generous breathing. I just don't know if it's bad for my vocal cords or not.
I like the way you're approaching this, making observations and experimenting. That makes me very confident you're going to figure it out. When it comes to using a generous breath while speaking, I think that lip flutters czcams.com/video/AR-ow2e7lzE/video.html and straw phonation czcams.com/video/0zJEAemrubw/video.html are great ways to reinforce that feeling of using breath to produce sound/speech.
Good observation. It's impossible to vocalize without breath coming out. The problem is most people don't have enough breath flowing for optimal voice.
Hî helLø sir myself SHehßY kHaN I'm from Pakistan 🇵🇰 your Subscriber ☺️😊... Sir I have this problem That I'm a Cluttering patient..my rate of speech is very very fast . ... a fluency disorder.... sometimes people couldn't understand me and then say What's wRonG with you or what r u trying to say...I means to say that I m a clutter I don't know how to cure it there is a lot of videos and articles on the Google and CZcams but till now it didn't have worked ...I'm still clutter .....I'm so so worry about my this very fast speaking disorder..bcz due to this I couldn't be able to deliver my messages naturally while speaking I try my best to Speak clear and try to say all words clearly but then it take much time to speak a single word too while speaking and you know opponent haven't much time to wait for your message where u r in a problem to deliver it naturally like others I tryy my best but all in vain .... and then my confidence level become very low...sir I don't know what to do and how to do?😔😔
I've heard of cluttering and read a bit about it, but it's not within my area of expertise. I recommend getting some advice from a speech therapist. I do get the sense that you might be expecting results too quickly. You might want to go back to some of those exercises that didn't seem to work and do them daily for 3-6 months if you haven't already. It takes weeks and months of diligent practice to change the speed of your speech. There's no quick cure, unfortunately. You could also check out this free mini course ovyaea31.pages.infusionsoft.net/ Practice those exercises for at least a month and see if things start improving. If so, you might find a more complete course of training to be helpful.
You could start with this video czcams.com/video/QxpR2_gwUEY/video.html. If that makes sense to you, you could enroll in this free mini course for fast talkers ovyaea31.pages.infusionsoft.net/. Let me know if you have questions.
@@voiceandspeech I can't inhale while speaking, but can exhale only.... I tried dear tutor. It feels funny to me. This experiment is so soothing, bcs I do something for the first time. So when to inhale while speaking???
@@voiceandspeech Sir, doing so in a tense interview will reveal one's nervousness due to the fast heartbeat. Isn't it? So you mean I can inhale in an unnoticeable way too in bw phrases?
This is the simplest and yet the most powerful tip. I have started doing this and its effect is so powerful.
I'm so glad to hear that. Keep up your practice; it will only get better.
This man is gem in the field of effective communication...Thank you Sir Hats off for this knowledge.
You're very welcome. Glad it was helpful.
Great advice Jay! I did not learn about speaking on the out breath until I saw your previous video on slowing down speech for better communication. That was so helpful for me. Thanks!
You're welcome. It's always good to hear that.
So how to do this.""’
You make this simple and easy to follow. You’re engaging, and helpful. Thanks!
Thanks, Angie!
This is exactly my problem. Thank you!! Will practice this.
You're welcome! Good luck with your practice.
Great advice as always! Thank you!
You're welcome! My pleasure.
This is sooooo true I’m working on it now. Thanks Jay have a good day
u save lives, thank u. u just pinpointed all my problems with 5mins
I'm so glad it was helpful
@@voiceandspeech hey if u are reading this, can u please guide me on how to breathe out while speaking. I realised that it doesnt happen natural for me. when I put my hand right in front of my mouth while speaking, I dont quite feel that column of air coming out as opposed to when I just breathe out without speaking. and then i try to consciously breathe out a column of air while speaking but it feels weird when I need to articulate different words in a sentence at the same time
@@dendi1076 That's a great observation on your part, and you're experimenting in exactly the right way, but starting with sentences is too big for a first step. Start with extended vowel sounds (ay, I, oh, ow). When you can move breath forward on single vowels, try extending simple words (way, why, whoa, wow). When that's working, move to phrases (go away, say hello, wave goodbye) and then short sentences. It will definitely feel weird at first but that's always true when you're learning a new skill. After a few weeks (months?) of practice you might be able to apply it to a conversation for brief periods of time. You've got the right idea, but you need to take smaller steps and give it more time.
@@voiceandspeech thank you so much! btw are u retiring anytime soon? I hope not :P
@@dendi1076 Haha, I wish I could retire tomorrow, but it will probably be a few more years.
You do the best explanations, Jay. So clear.
Thanks, Flloyd. That means a great deal to me, especially coming from you. I hope you've been staying safe and well.
@@voiceandspeech So far so good! You too, stay safe.
Jay, thanks for this useful video. I found the mechanical explanation using the wind instrument metaphor really helpful. Great advice as always over the years! Thanks.
You're welcome, Evan. I hope all is well with you these days.
This is complete different and unique tip. But it is very very useful. Thank you Jay 😊
You're very welcome. Glad it was useful. Watch for my next video on the related topic of finding the rhythm of breathing and speaking.
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Great sir.. U gave me very useful information.. Thank you.. I salute u. Love from India🇮🇳
You're welcome. Good to hear from you.
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I struggle so much to have a generous breath while speaking, it's like I always trigger muscles to help it out, which causes me to become restricted. Is it an okay exercise to take the inhale, and then start to exhale first, then add voice a split second after the initiation of the exhale? I have found that it does help to encourage generous breathing. I just don't know if it's bad for my vocal cords or not.
On second thought... after playing around with it. I think I have stomach-holding patterns/habits. Maybe that's what it is.
I like the way you're approaching this, making observations and experimenting. That makes me very confident you're going to figure it out. When it comes to using a generous breath while speaking, I think that lip flutters czcams.com/video/AR-ow2e7lzE/video.html and straw phonation czcams.com/video/0zJEAemrubw/video.html are great ways to reinforce that feeling of using breath to produce sound/speech.
When u hold tour breather, is that what causes nasal voice?
Nasality is caused by a soft palate that is too relaxed. Check out this video. czcams.com/video/7SYSFXsIdK4/video.html
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I noticed that if you hold your hand in front of your mouth and then try to talk/sing without breathing out, you notice you'll breathe out anyway
Good observation. It's impossible to vocalize without breath coming out. The problem is most people don't have enough breath flowing for optimal voice.
@@voiceandspeech I wanna learn to sing bass so breath control will be even more important for those juicy lows haha
Hî helLø sir myself SHehßY kHaN I'm from Pakistan 🇵🇰 your Subscriber ☺️😊...
Sir I have this problem That I'm a Cluttering patient..my rate of speech is very very fast . ... a fluency disorder.... sometimes people couldn't understand me and then say What's wRonG with you or what r u trying to say...I means to say that I m a clutter I don't know how to cure it there is a lot of videos and articles on the Google and CZcams but till now it didn't have worked ...I'm still clutter .....I'm so so worry about my this very fast speaking disorder..bcz due to this I couldn't be able to deliver my messages naturally while speaking I try my best to Speak clear and try to say all words clearly but then it take much time to speak a single word too while speaking and you know opponent haven't much time to wait for your message where u r in a problem to deliver it naturally like others I tryy my best but all in vain .... and then my confidence level become very low...sir I don't know what to do and how to do?😔😔
I've heard of cluttering and read a bit about it, but it's not within my area of expertise. I recommend getting some advice from a speech therapist. I do get the sense that you might be expecting results too quickly. You might want to go back to some of those exercises that didn't seem to work and do them daily for 3-6 months if you haven't already. It takes weeks and months of diligent practice to change the speed of your speech. There's no quick cure, unfortunately. You could also check out this free mini course ovyaea31.pages.infusionsoft.net/ Practice those exercises for at least a month and see if things start improving. If so, you might find a more complete course of training to be helpful.
I have so fast speaking habit how can i get rid of it please help
You could start with this video czcams.com/video/QxpR2_gwUEY/video.html. If that makes sense to you, you could enroll in this free mini course for fast talkers ovyaea31.pages.infusionsoft.net/. Let me know if you have questions.
@@voiceandspeech ok sir I will try
Hi Jay Miller
Are you also coaching on voice control and speech techniques, eg controlling fast talking.
Please share your contact details.
You can contact me at voiceandspeech.com/
So should one breath out while speaking….¿
Yes, that's the only way your voice can work. Have you ever tried inhaling while speaking?
@@voiceandspeech I can't inhale while speaking, but can exhale only.... I tried dear tutor. It feels funny to me. This experiment is so soothing, bcs I do something for the first time.
So when to inhale while speaking???
@@sohailafridi66 Before each phrase or thought.
@@voiceandspeech Sir, doing so in a tense interview will reveal one's nervousness due to the fast heartbeat. Isn't it? So you mean I can inhale in an unnoticeable way too in bw phrases?
@@sohailafridi66 correct