How To Ask Your Crush Out (that works!)

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  • čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
  • Do you have a crush you want to ask out? Are you pretty new to asking someone out on a date? Where do you begin!? Well, there are a few ways you can approach asking your crush out - we’re going to break down a few ways on how you can! So, here are a few tips on how to ask your crush out.
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    Writer: Michal Mitchell
    Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
    VO: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
    Animator: Evelvaii
    CZcams Manager: Cindy Cheong
    References:
    Gee, C. (2021, March 12). How to ask your crush out in five minutes. wikiHow. Retrieved from www.wikihow.com/Ask-Your-Crush-out-in-Five-Minutes#:~:text=Ask%2C%20%E2%80%9CDo%20you%20want%20to,because%20they're%20taken%20aback.
    Gee, C. (2022, February 3). How to ask out your crush. wikiHow. Retrieved from www.wikihow.com/Ask-Out-Your-Crush
    Serai, V. (2021, December 3). How to ask your crush out: 15 steps to be brave, confident & cool. LovePanky. Retrieved from www.lovepanky.com/flirting-flings/get-flirty/how-to-ask-your-crush-out

Komentáře • 805

  • @weirdwen_
    @weirdwen_ Před rokem +1711

    It was a fail for me but I'll respect their decision. Also you're right it does take a lot of courage to confess so I'm proud of myself for doing it!

  • @AshleyBlackVA
    @AshleyBlackVA Před rokem +903

    I'm way too flustered to compliment my crush. When he just looks at me, I'm embarrassed even though we're good friends. He's too cute for this world! Someone, please! Tell this dork I love him!
    Update: I just confessed to him!!!!! He asked for time to think about it but I still feel happy for telling him how I feel.
    Update 2: HE SAID YES!!!!!

    • @buddy3635
      @buddy3635 Před rokem

      I love this🥹

    • @imawakemymindisalive13
      @imawakemymindisalive13 Před rokem +30

      you got this!

    • @thelegender110
      @thelegender110 Před rokem +97

      As a male, if I got asked out I would be surprised but also happy, and most guys if they get asked out will say yes pretty much no matter what.

    • @ensalver99
      @ensalver99 Před rokem

      just murder them. its easier

    • @blinkeuisaswiftie8397
      @blinkeuisaswiftie8397 Před rokem +18

      @@thelegender110 You don't know what he's up to though, especially because they're already good friends.

  • @peckspwnz
    @peckspwnz Před rokem +918

    1. Ask them to a particular event
    2. Compliment them first
    3. Get to know them better or befriend them first
    4. Give them hints you like them first with flirting
    5. Talk about something you both have in common and then tell them you want to continue the conversation somewhere
    6. Ask them out when they're alone in person
    7. Find your courage and stay true to your initial feelings

    • @rod6403
      @rod6403 Před rokem +6

      Thx, the video isnt loading to me for some reason

    • @georgeb5262
      @georgeb5262 Před rokem +11

      8. She/He says yes
      9. Release it was just a dream

    • @neizanmendez6317
      @neizanmendez6317 Před rokem +6

      8. If rejected, engage in a relationship with Pico instead, got it

    • @neurowolf7594
      @neurowolf7594 Před rokem +3

      @@georgeb5262 10. Do a funny depresso

    • @Weisior
      @Weisior Před rokem +2

      I guess someone looking for advice on how to ask someone to go on a date, will probably also have problem with all the other advices here xD

  • @retrodotexe
    @retrodotexe Před rokem +104

    As an introvert having a crush on an extrovert is scary.

    • @ejdolo
      @ejdolo Před rokem

      Every year around Halloween time, the thought of whatever girl im into at the moment going to a halloween party dressed like a sexy devil or some shit makes my stomach turn. Mainly because in high school, this girl i was talking to went to a party, got drunk and started hoeing around. My friends all roasted me for falling for a hoe who "sucked maad dicks at that party"... she had a bf but was still trynna hang out and drink w me late nights after work, so i always knew she had hoe tendancies (even tho i never hooked up w her behind her BFs back like she wanted to... i wanted her to be my girl)... so i just stopped talking to her after that and now im over party chicks. Got enough trust issues as is, a chick who is super social and goes out a lot is a lot for me to handle, i like a chill chick.

    • @Lil_Tan790
      @Lil_Tan790 Před 7 měsíci +8

      100% agreed man!
      That too, the fact were both the same gender is even more intimidating 😢
      And they are a different religion 😭💀

    • @The_electrohashira
      @The_electrohashira Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@Lil_Tan790 so update??? did it work out??

    • @Lil_Tan790
      @Lil_Tan790 Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@The_electrohashira SHE LIKES ME BACK BRO!

    • @The_electrohashira
      @The_electrohashira Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@Lil_Tan790 omggg congratsddd. Can you tell me the "Love Story" (only if you want)

  • @jamesambrosini2860
    @jamesambrosini2860 Před rokem +539

    This came at absolutely the perfect time, I want to ask my crush out to homecoming next week and this is giving me the plan and confidence that I needed!
    Edit: SHE SAID YES!

    • @cheesi4632
      @cheesi4632 Před rokem +28

      hey man go for it!! its very scary, but no matter the outcome, its good in some way. i finally did it a couple months ago, and it didnt turn out as i hoped, but realizing that i had that confidence in me was a huge step in my life. so go for it! best of luck!

    • @cshade0886
      @cshade0886 Před rokem +18

      Thats awesome, good job

    • @cheesi4632
      @cheesi4632 Před rokem +26

      I JUST SAW THE EDIT THATS GREAT MAN!!! HAPPY FOR YOU

    • @Je11keng
      @Je11keng Před rokem +13

      My school's homecoming dance is this Saturday, I still haven't talked to them, but I will this week with the help of a friend, so wish me luck! 🙏❤

    • @clothcanopy
      @clothcanopy Před rokem +6

      gg:)

  • @alejandroreyes8878
    @alejandroreyes8878 Před rokem +357

    Year and a half into a relationship with the girl who was my "impossible" crush for eight years, the only thing I have to say, beside that this is very accurate... Is that I regret not having the courage to ask her out sooner
    She was in the same position as me, and we both put up walls because we were afraid we were going to be obvious and "ruin" the friendship
    Be courageous, be brave... What's the worst thing that can happen? If you get a no, you still end in the same spot you began in

    • @cray-zkat7664
      @cray-zkat7664 Před rokem +13

      Yes, but...
      So my crush is a friend of mine, and I'm afraid if I let them know and they reject me (which is most likely what's going to happen) then our friendship will be ruined and things will be awkward. Plus, I'm not sure if I'm allowed to date yet and I'm too afraid to ask if I am. So there's that. Anything you can suggest?

    • @justjasmine_
      @justjasmine_ Před rokem +7

      @@cray-zkat7664 I think you should tell your parents about the crush and they can help you. Good luck. I hope they like you back

    • @cray-zkat7664
      @cray-zkat7664 Před rokem +4

      @@justjasmine_ idk if I will. I think I'll give it a bit more time. But thanks!

    • @alejandroreyes8878
      @alejandroreyes8878 Před rokem +3

      @@cray-zkat7664 I'm so sorry for not responding your comment sooner, your response was lost among my notifications, I'm sorry
      If it's still relevant, I think you should talk to your parents, and make them listen to you, depending on how strict they are, you should phrase it around the basis of how mature and responsible you are, and what you are willing to make, to not neglect your responsibilities, you need to show maturity
      Now, as for your crush, I was on your exact same spot of doubt, and I and the fact that it worked out for me and my gf, doesn't garantes anything for you, unfortunately...
      However, I still think you should talk about your feelings with your crush, again, talk maturely, be responsible, clear, talk about what you find great about this person, be willing to listen to what they say, without taking it too personal, and above anything else, don't expect anything good or bad
      I know the fear of losing that friendship is paralyzing, but I have learned that, if they are mature, and their response a negative, they'll aknowledge your feelings and even if it's awkward for a while, they'll be there for you after the dust it's settled and you'll feel better

    • @cray-zkat7664
      @cray-zkat7664 Před rokem +2

      @@alejandroreyes8878 thanks! Also it's okay that you answered a while later. The thing is, idk how I'm going to handle this stuff yet because I've never been in a relationship before or been asked out (except for one person who... Was a terrible option). I think for now I'm going to wait a bit just to see what happens, and if I do confess... I'm probably going to give them a note at the end of the day telling them and saying to text me if they want to talk about it. Thanks for the advice!

  • @RealGTheKidFR
    @RealGTheKidFR Před rokem +208

    “Perhaps there’s someone out there crushing on you!” Yeah, no.

    • @avenger291
      @avenger291 Před rokem +7

      Same… #singleforever 😂😂😂

    • @Flightkitten
      @Flightkitten Před rokem +2

      @@avenger291 _you never know_

    • @alexloafofbread3255
      @alexloafofbread3255 Před rokem +1

      Bro, this made me laugh for a solid minute. Thank you :)

    • @RealGTheKidFR
      @RealGTheKidFR Před rokem +1

      @@alexloafofbread3255 jaja, i didn’t expect much people to see this comment!

    • @jacksonwhitaker8000
      @jacksonwhitaker8000 Před rokem +1

      SAME!!! 90% of the girls in my grade hate me and/or pretend I don't exist. I am the BOTTOM OF THE BARREL social ranking wise

  • @CalebPaulk
    @CalebPaulk Před rokem +177

    I've become great friends with my crush and gave her hints. I hope to ask her out sometime during these next couple of weeks. This video really helped me a lot.
    Update: She rejected me. :(

    • @crl122486
      @crl122486 Před rokem +20

      You’re already friendzoned bro. You took too long to make a move. You got to ask the girl out like within the first time of meeting her, maybe the second or third time if you know you’ll see her again.

    • @toucan_88
      @toucan_88 Před rokem +13

      You got it bro 💪

    • @weirdwen_
      @weirdwen_ Před rokem +44

      @@crl122486 That doesn't work on all girls tho, some girls like building a strong connection through friendship before trying to date someone. Other times they might see you as a friend first but then slowly catch feelings so confessing too early isn't always a good idea

    • @crl122486
      @crl122486 Před rokem

      @@weirdwen_ but it works for MOST girls. Besides, you weed them out right away too so you dont waste time. You’d be surprised

    • @jacobmitchell9659
      @jacobmitchell9659 Před rokem +4

      @@crl122486 nah bruh

  • @Marscompany
    @Marscompany Před rokem +213

    2:56 this animation ahahahaha I can't

    • @mankrip-
      @mankrip- Před rokem +8

      How did you comment 2 months ago in a video that was published today?

    • @irishboy06
      @irishboy06 Před rokem +6

      @@mankrip- It was unlisted back then. I think they had a link to it in some description

    • @Marscompany
      @Marscompany Před rokem +6

      @@irishboy06 no I'm a timetraveler

    • @irishboy06
      @irishboy06 Před rokem +3

      @@Marscompany I've just exposed your secret to your time travel illusion

  • @flamegamer3424
    @flamegamer3424 Před rokem +49

    At one point, I regretted not asking one of my crushes, especially when I had the chance and they were alone. Hopefully one day if there’s someone I like, I’ll not miss another chance.

    • @glitzygirl2412
      @glitzygirl2412 Před rokem +2

      When it comes to that it's just "now or never" coz u already have the chance and if you slipped that away, you won't get another, it may seems like, but as time goes by it'll harder for you...

    • @Manisha_421
      @Manisha_421 Před 3 měsíci

      @@glitzygirl2412 Same with me.
      But what can I do now?

  • @Captain_Thunder_Frog
    @Captain_Thunder_Frog Před rokem +121

    It occurred to me that videos like this may be more geared towards a younger audience, but I still feel like I have a lot to learn. For most of my life I have suppressed and denied my emotions for fear of rejection and I am only now realizing the effect and disfunction I've created for myself. These videos mean a lot to me because it helps me realize what changes in direction I may need in order to help myself.

    • @SuccessfulMentality94
      @SuccessfulMentality94 Před rokem +3

      Not really, they do a good job at directing to multiple audiences. Some of it you can tell it’s what teenagers go through, and other parts of the segment have a clear direction towards adults

    • @LilXancheX
      @LilXancheX Před rokem

      @@SuccessfulMentality94 what?

  • @stephenjoe453
    @stephenjoe453 Před rokem +49

    I am so happy I have an understanding that I had a crush, asked them after being friends for about 2 years, asked them out on dates and got a yes from them. And I asked her while she was in a group of friends. Her friends all know me too and really asked me when I was going to ask her... Now 6 years on, We are both engaged to each other, advice for anybody. Ladies and girls are only human too. Just be yourself and just have fun with each other. I always somehow make her laugh and she loves it. When she needs help, I will go help her. It really is a 60/40 give/take relationship. While both trying to be the 60 of it.

  • @diegogalvan1810
    @diegogalvan1810 Před rokem +81

    This is too cute, I really like how dynamic yet soft the animation is

  • @Electirc
    @Electirc Před rokem +95

    I have a question that I REALLY need an answer to:
    How do you get over a built up obsession over someone else, whom you will most likely never be with. I'm talking about a chronic obsession, one that is starting to affect daily life, health, etc.
    This is especially pertaining to people who require a very strong bond with the person of interest before wanting to have them as a romantic partner, such as a longtime friend. The reason why it's so difficult to let go is because you've known them so long, it's difficult to recreate the same type of bond with someone new.

    • @clementine9830
      @clementine9830 Před rokem +21

      i think i know how to help, for me i found myself highly fascinated over someone who became my best friend. apparently this person was just “that great” that i started having dreams about them (nothing weird, just us two vibing and having fun) and i was honestly annoyed with the amount of time i dreamt about this person and got it confused with a crush but every time i imagined myself and them in ANY romantic situation just made me internally cringe. the best advice i have is to make space from them, for me it took two years for me to stop dreaming about them or to stop thinking about them constantly, so:
      - make some space
      - find something else to fill that space
      - take some time to do things that you enjoy (drawing, playing a game with other friends, cooking)
      for me i eventually lost contact with them (just because we stopped being interested in the same things so conversation was difficult to keep up), im not sure if this helps, but just remember to find something else to fill the space otherwise you’ll go straight back to them :)
      (also i should mention that this person and i used to ft every day, every night and just chat about how our day went or we would just listen to music and laugh, so we were VERY close but like i said before we lost contact due to not really having anything to talk about to one another)

    • @Electirc
      @Electirc Před rokem

      @ٴ what do you mean by “reverse the roles”? Do you mean like, put yourself in their shoes?

    • @weirdwen_
      @weirdwen_ Před rokem +8

      Have you confessed? I think confessing and letting all those feelings out can help. That way if you get rejected you'll know for sure that they don't feel the same and wont hold on to false hopes. Then maybe it might make it easier to slowly distance yourself, both for your own good and for theirs. Try focusing on yourself and the things you enjoy, keeping yourself busy, staying productive can help keep your mind off that person. Just know it'll take time but you can do it

    • @Electirc
      @Electirc Před rokem +1

      @@weirdwen_ I did a while ago, it’s pretty clear she didn’t feel the same.

    • @anthonytalks7018
      @anthonytalks7018 Před rokem +2

      @@Electirc yeah if they've made it clear the best thing to do is just accept it, and do your best to move on with your life. You kind of have to swallow your pride but over time if you just fill your mind up with other things gradually those obsessions will begin to diminish. And someone else will come along eventually, patience is super important. It's a skill I need to work on as well

  • @minty1312
    @minty1312 Před rokem +34

    I recently started questioning my feelings for a new classmate of mine. I kinda like him, but if someone asked me why I wouldn't really have an answer to that. When I first met him, his whole vibe made me uneasy actually, he acted like a gentleman but he also acted indifferent and uncaring. Idk how to accurately explain it, but how he was acting seemed like just a front. But the more I talked to him and joked with him, the more interested I became. Idk, I'm mostly doubting myself because I've never confessed my feelings before, so this is all new to me.

    • @So-Many-Orphans_.Husky.
      @So-Many-Orphans_.Husky. Před rokem +7

      Same. I’ve liked him for 6 months but now I don’t know anymore. He looks nice but sometimes he acts a bit like a jerk. Maybe that’s just because he’s around other people so he tries to keep the tough guy title or something. Now I have another and he’s much nicer, like to everyone.

  • @almostideal1306
    @almostideal1306 Před 11 měsíci +11

    I just asked my crush out. It was hard getting over that nervousness but it's better to have a yes (she said take things slow but yes :D ) or a no as opposed to that nagging sensation of never asking, that thing will eat you alive.

  • @rajveersinghdhillon1477
    @rajveersinghdhillon1477 Před rokem +16

    She said no. But don’t let the deaf of rejection stop you. I was scared of rejection but I still asked her out and I’m proud of that. I know it’s really hard to build the courage to ask someone out but it’s totally worth it. You probably end up crying and go out for a run at 1 am but you’ll feel much better (maybe she wasn’t the one meant to be, you’ll find someone else) and the ones who aren’t sure if you should ask ur crush out just go for it n all the best ❤❤ and the ones who got rejected WE GO JIMMMM 💪🏼💪🏼

  • @Bluple_studio_becreative
    @Bluple_studio_becreative Před rokem +118

    1. 0:20 Ask them to a particular Event
    2. 1:06 Compliment them first
    3. 2:07 Get to know them better or befriend them first
    4. 2:44 Give them hints you like them first with flirting
    5. 3:29 Talk about smth you both have in common, then mention how you want to continue the conservation somewhere after
    6. 4:09 ask them out when they‘re preferably alone & in person
    7. 4:50 find your courage & stay true to your initial feelings

  • @lisacostanza2482
    @lisacostanza2482 Před rokem +15

    I could’ve use this today… I asked him to go to homecoming with me, and he said no

  • @Thorns31122
    @Thorns31122 Před rokem +5

    I’m just going to say never be worried about being put in the friend zone. You may not go out with them but at least you still have a good friend. Their are plenty more people out there.

  • @shanw.2948
    @shanw.2948 Před rokem +75

    Thank you for the instructions :D
    I have a history with being too quick to confess, and although I've been pacing myself to do so slower and slower I still feel like I muster up that courage to ask too quickly. So thanks for the advice, I appreciate it 💜

    • @weirdwen_
      @weirdwen_ Před rokem +6

      Wow you have a lot of courage, that's awesome! It took me years to get the courage to confess so I guess I'm the opposite since I take too long

    • @KateJn
      @KateJn Před rokem +3

      @@weirdwen_ yeah same here

    • @glitzygirl2412
      @glitzygirl2412 Před rokem +2

      Being too quick to confess is a red flag. Once, a guy confess to me & asked me out, I'm shocked so I rejected him quickly though I don't want to do it, honestly I like him also. But having no signs first that he likes me gave me so much pressure & shock when he first confess, so it's like I'm stuck, and just rejected him coz I'm a little bit nervous

    • @weirdwen_
      @weirdwen_ Před rokem +2

      @@glitzygirl2412 Did you try letting him know that? Like talking to him and explaining why you feel the way you do?

    • @glitzygirl2412
      @glitzygirl2412 Před rokem +1

      @@weirdwen_ nope, I'm waiting for him again to reach me, but he didn't bother me anymore, I feel so weak & sad for days, I kept thinking about him. But I'm over it now. And if he comes back I think I'll give him a chance.

  • @RayPeng-07
    @RayPeng-07 Před rokem +54

    This episode was funny and super cute x3 Even if now not useful for me, maybe it can be in the future. Anyway I admire the humor of the animator who made this :D The text as well and Amanda's voice fits here perfectly as always x3

  • @steveconn
    @steveconn Před rokem +5

    The crumbling of my looks and finances helps the outcome of these encounters immeasurably.

  • @galletgaming
    @galletgaming Před rokem +8

    Me who only had one crush in my life: I don’t know what this, who you are, all I know is that I like you, in a different way.

  • @yokiweyy4770
    @yokiweyy4770 Před rokem +8

    I have an enormous crush on this girl I met at the gym. We met this January and to this day in October I still haven't found the balls to ask her out. We share the occasional chit chat and small talk, but nothing more. I'm dying to ask her out lately, but I don't see her regularly, don't know how to talk about something more interesting since we're there to workout of course, and also it's kinda hard to find a good moment when we can be alone a bit to ask her out without making it awkward in front of other people. But I have to try. Last time we spoke she told me some things that made me like her even more

    • @ahmadumeta4
      @ahmadumeta4 Před rokem +2

      Damn, bro. You'll have to just do it

    • @yokiweyy4770
      @yokiweyy4770 Před rokem +3

      ​@@ahmadumeta4 you come at the right time my friend. i asked her out a week ago. she obviously said no XD
      but i'm really glad i did it. before asking her i was obsessing over her, always thinking "i have to do it, i have to do it". now it's like i lost a heavy burden. i'm still a bit salty because i was very interested in her, but i don't obsess over this story anymore

  • @irishboy06
    @irishboy06 Před rokem +30

    Why is this unlisted?
    Update: They finally made it public

    • @nic5973
      @nic5973 Před rokem +10

      I don't know, it's been 3 months

    • @irishboy06
      @irishboy06 Před rokem +4

      @@__Someone__ Bc they made it public 7h ago, it was unlisted when we commented

  • @LadyAnuB
    @LadyAnuB Před rokem +8

    Got my crush after 3 years/3 dates. It took her consulting with her family to get to this stage but we've been together for the past 5 years so it worked. It probably helps that her dog absolutely loves me.
    Next video after this, how to overcome your own self and its tongue twisting to actually ask the person out. Even though I'd known my gf prior to asking her out on the second date, I still got into this state. (First date was through our mutual friend, who was my roommate at the time, having the three of us see Guardians of the Galaxy as the first date.)

  • @mankrip-
    @mankrip- Před rokem +9

    When you ask them out, the answer won't always be "yes" or "no". Lots of people are afraid of saying "no" because they fear it may offend or hurt your feelings, so they'll dance around the question instead of giving you a clear answer.
    And their positive answer needs to be clearly assertive because even a "yes" can be a "no" if they are sounding like they're scared of you. If they're scared they may be saying "yes" just to calm you down, but they won't show up at the date.
    The solution for this? Simply ignore anything that isn't a straightforward AND confident "yes." Otherwise, you should discard the date immediately and respectfully tell them "thanks, but forget what I said" and move on. Don't waste time with people who seems to be afraid of you.

  • @imgonnaputsomedirtinureyedabs

    Is it weird that I admitted my feelings but never asked to go out, got rejected, yet felt relieved?

  • @kinzakugaming976
    @kinzakugaming976 Před 9 měsíci +2

    I find these videos really helpful and i usually watch them a few times to help retain the information. My teen years were full of many mistakes that I don’t want to repeat. Sure it was full of a lot of heartbreak because I didn’t succeed once(or at all to this day), but I’m not gonna let that get me down. I’ve just gotta keep being me and I’ll find that special someone. Others who share my situation, please don’t be discouraged. I always hated hearing the cliche advice, but it’s cliche for a reason, it’s the truth. You have to learn to move past mistakes and heartbreak and embrace it as a part of your growth/journey.

  • @chiangkai-shek4248
    @chiangkai-shek4248 Před rokem +3

    Success! Was not expecting her to confess first but I asked her out immediately after she confessed to me. Gave me so many hints and I was kind clueless...

  • @Lillyfin576
    @Lillyfin576 Před rokem +3

    i have returned to this video to say that it worked. i am very happy :)

  • @lilfloxy7881
    @lilfloxy7881 Před rokem +24

    All i can say to this channel is
    "You made my day π°π"

  • @gabeyang9197
    @gabeyang9197 Před rokem +7

    Been a year and finally had the confidence to talk to her, and for a week straight we talked and I got to know her more and just found out she has a boyfriend. I don't know what to do.

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 Před rokem +4

      Do what you did, but in reverse: progressively talking to her less

  • @witherblaze6415
    @witherblaze6415 Před rokem +4

    This is a really good animation, it was very pleasing to the eyes 👀

  • @robloxcreator4376
    @robloxcreator4376 Před 2 lety +34

    You have a nice animation style :)

  • @asadickens9353
    @asadickens9353 Před rokem +11

    It's all true, I will go out with anyone who compliments me :3

    • @wiseguy240Winston
      @wiseguy240Winston Před rokem +3

      That's hard to believe, especially since most of them men who compliment often are doing that to compensate for being less desirable.

    • @Gokaruto
      @Gokaruto Před rokem +5

      that is more of a bad than a good thing..

    • @asadickens9353
      @asadickens9353 Před rokem +1

      @@wiseguy240Winston That's true, if a man compliments me I know there is an ulterior motive to look out for!

    • @asadickens9353
      @asadickens9353 Před rokem

      @@Gokaruto It's okay, I don't get complimented that often so I generally have to rely on, getting to know the person, understanding and comparing core values and overall their moral compass to determine if I will go out with them.

  • @asleepawake3645
    @asleepawake3645 Před rokem +9

    This animation is too cute ❤

  • @Yttio
    @Yttio Před rokem +3

    Are u stalking me, everytime im thinking of something you make a video about it

  • @1wayroad935
    @1wayroad935 Před rokem +4

    Backflip towards them confidently

  • @LiverpoolEnjoyerF
    @LiverpoolEnjoyerF Před rokem

    Loved the sarv cameo!

  • @kenrickbautista6141
    @kenrickbautista6141 Před rokem +1

    I'm gonna definitely do what was listed.

  • @NoName-ny1bt
    @NoName-ny1bt Před rokem +6

    Just don’t wait too long or you’re gonna be in the friendzone and then it’s an uphill battle that’s not worth it. Don’t go the friendship, then relationship route because when you break up, you lose a valuable friend too. Ask them out within a week or two and reject the friendship consolation prize.

    • @JasonJia11
      @JasonJia11 Před rokem +10

      Uh why would you reject the friendship consolation prize? That's literally the 2nd best option. Even if a potential partner is out of the question, you can still gain a valuable friend. Unless of course you're too down on your feelings to consider that choice.

  • @lving_under_a_rock
    @lving_under_a_rock Před rokem

    woah PSI! you are a lifesaver

  • @Marcy_323
    @Marcy_323 Před rokem +2

    :o I love that you used CAVETOWN as the band!

  • @carmenbae5876
    @carmenbae5876 Před rokem +2

    i just see him at school. it's been a month. but i find him attractive and he seems like a really nice person. i wanna know him. so i decided to ask him out.

  • @swellestgaming2340
    @swellestgaming2340 Před rokem +4

    Tysm for the advice! I’ve never been able to build up the courage to confess tho

    • @glitzygirl2412
      @glitzygirl2412 Před rokem +2

      It takes a lot of courage, like a lot. You'll overthink first about the rejection, but I tell you, if she reject you once, ask her again after some time....

    • @swellestgaming2340
      @swellestgaming2340 Před rokem +2

      @@glitzygirl2412 Ty!

    • @glitzygirl2412
      @glitzygirl2412 Před rokem +1

      @@swellestgaming2340 no prob! :)

  • @LilRaptrDude
    @LilRaptrDude Před rokem +3

    The day I was going ask my crush out, one of my mates got with her. And every day she told me how much she likes him, to me... When I liked her... Pain...😭

  • @Lynn-ju5zs
    @Lynn-ju5zs Před rokem

    OMG I DO THE LOOK AND LOOM AWAY SO MUCH😭😭😭 I JUST CANT HELP BUT SMILEEEEE AND LOOKKKK

  • @connorthompson7147
    @connorthompson7147 Před rokem +9

    LMFAO I brought a crush to a Cavetown concert not too long ago! 😂

  • @TreetonTheTree
    @TreetonTheTree Před rokem +3

    I love how they used FnF Bf and Gf to show the tips and it kinda works too

  • @ThomEber
    @ThomEber Před rokem

    Great video!

  • @mintycereal2574
    @mintycereal2574 Před 2 měsíci +2

    My crush is that person who I don’t get to talk to much…he’s very kind, but he’s in a different class most of the time and I only get to see him during music class 💀

  • @rileyfairfull2548
    @rileyfairfull2548 Před rokem +5

    I've had a few people ask me why I smile at them then immediately look away when they look at me, and all I tell them is that it's just my Tourette's. I mean, they're still confused about it, but I'm not lying to them lol

  • @b4rvyy.1
    @b4rvyy.1 Před rokem

    hey psych2go! i really enjoyed this, i'm thinking for your next video, can you do a video about video addiction and how to deal with tilting in video games, because i suffer from it a lot and i'm not very proud to say so :(

  • @hienable6933
    @hienable6933 Před rokem +6

    I had a crush, but I hardly knew her and she probably didn't know I existed. One day I just went and tried to confess, which.... failed, horribly.

    • @bhumikaroy2739
      @bhumikaroy2739 Před rokem +5

      Look for someone else then.
      You may not always get what you want. Sometimes, you may get something that's even better 🙂

  • @irishboy06
    @irishboy06 Před rokem +2

    For those of you who wonder why there are comments from months ago on this vid which was published today: *this video already existed months ago although it was unlisted, they just made it public today*

  • @DarrianYates
    @DarrianYates Před rokem

    I love these animations

  • @williamfrieden1
    @williamfrieden1 Před rokem

    Greet video, nice as always, keep it up!

  • @perfectgamermcyt
    @perfectgamermcyt Před rokem

    Thanks for this video existing

  • @amberbobean1277
    @amberbobean1277 Před rokem +2

    YOU COULD HAVE POSTED THIS YESTERDAY BEFORE I CONFESSED MY FEELINGS TO MY BEST FRIEND-

  • @cabecadeprego8772
    @cabecadeprego8772 Před rokem +2

    They deserve someone better

  • @evek5019
    @evek5019 Před rokem

    I love the fnf references!! Honestly this artist is the best, all of their animations are amazing

  • @The_Ultimate_Agent
    @The_Ultimate_Agent Před rokem

    Okay. I’m gonna try this.

  • @skull_playz8845
    @skull_playz8845 Před 2 měsíci

    Im gonna ask tomorrow keep yall updated

  • @wandrespupilo8046
    @wandrespupilo8046 Před rokem +2

    some times i'm grateful i live in brazil and we don't have to make it cristal clear that it's a date, you just hope they got it, it's more "natural"

  • @ria4393
    @ria4393 Před rokem

    I love the reference to Cavetown!

  • @boywithcards6876
    @boywithcards6876 Před rokem +2

    I don't know if anyone is going to read this but I don't really care.
    If I could give you one tip, it would be this one:
    I know it sounds stupid and too obvious, but you just have to talk with them. You can send them also a message if you want.
    If you don't talk to them, nothing will happen.
    I asked my crush, and now we're together since 4 months!
    Hope I helped someone with this little text :D

    • @CipherionYT
      @CipherionYT Před rokem

      POV: you’ve been talking to your crush for 2.5 years but haven’t asked them out bc they most likely don’t like you

    • @boywithcards6876
      @boywithcards6876 Před rokem

      @@CipherionYT well, that's interesting. I would ask them tho

  • @shreedesai4684
    @shreedesai4684 Před rokem +9

    Just forget about it, focus on your life goals and achieve something in life. My advice😂

  • @mimik6414
    @mimik6414 Před rokem +2

    Well isn’t this the perfect sign and timing.

  • @Arvl.
    @Arvl. Před rokem

    dude i love the animations lol

  • @paulroy6316
    @paulroy6316 Před rokem +1

    I agree with the ask your crush out in person and when they're alone its worked on the few girls in my life I have dated except for my ex I did things a little differently I asked her out through Facebook at the time and then redid the asking out in person when I finally got to see her after learning her and I's schedules would link up at work and she gave me a yes so I think it was successful

  • @JustAperson02
    @JustAperson02 Před 29 dny +1

    I'm just debating on giving them a note

  • @bluethelucario6194
    @bluethelucario6194 Před rokem +14

    I love how you used the FNF characters to make your points 😂 Great vid!

  • @indoraptorspyce8310
    @indoraptorspyce8310 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Boys, I just asked out my crush and she said yes. I'm so flipping happy!!!!!!!

  • @adnaheganovic7302
    @adnaheganovic7302 Před rokem +4

    My problem is that my crush has a girlfriend. I am not afraid to ask him out. How do I deal with this situation? My mental health is going south and it's awful 😞

  • @lifeasniya2
    @lifeasniya2 Před 9 měsíci

    I'm excited 🥰🥰

  • @myeramimclerie7869
    @myeramimclerie7869 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Can you make a video about how to befriend a crush who's not that easy to approach (highly intelligent introvert kinda type) without scaring them off? 😅

  • @STARLIGHTSUPREMACY
    @STARLIGHTSUPREMACY Před rokem +17

    pov:they have a freaking partner

    • @awookieandagerman
      @awookieandagerman Před rokem +4

      I’m the words of a very wise Jedi master: Don’t try it.

  • @writer_surabhi_singh
    @writer_surabhi_singh Před rokem +4

    Not for doing this in practical, but your videos help a lot when I'm writing my novels!

  • @justsomedragonwithinternet7366

    this video’s visuals are hilarious

  • @Airhawkspersonal
    @Airhawkspersonal Před 4 měsíci +1

    How do I know I'm not going to scare them away? My biggest fear with a relationship is scaring them away when I ask if they want to go out.

  • @vilikesbees2433
    @vilikesbees2433 Před rokem +4

    the game references make my brain go brrr
    SHUT UP I LOVE CAVETOWN

  • @NicholasPR
    @NicholasPR Před rokem +8

    One of my favorite crush stories: there was a girl at work I thought was cute. She was kinda quiet, never said much, until one day she adopted a dog and just came to life. Showed lots of pics, smiled with her eyes. I thought it was so charming and endearing. One day later on, she popped up on a dating app - so I shot my shot cause I had her number. She turned me down, said she was flattered but that she didn't want to mix up personal and professional life, which didn't bother me. I thought she was just being nice, but our dynamic changed later on. She started being much nicer to me, smiling and being flirty without being so flirty I got the wrong idea. She was a really classy girl and really knew how to make a guy feel good, kinda like: "if circumstances were different, I'd be all over that idea cause you're pretty cute" 😊

  • @braedenfullam7936
    @braedenfullam7936 Před rokem +26

    Me and the girl I like are always doing that look-don't look thing. I'm usually really good at making eye contact, but I can feel myself getting a bit flustered when I'm looking at her too long. It sounds weird I know but she's adorable please help

    • @AshleyBlackVA
      @AshleyBlackVA Před rokem +4

      Understandable my friend. Our crushes are too cute to handle.

  • @monsterunderyourcouch

    This video was awesome but that little "we believe in you" at the end was everything. Thanks Psych2Go :D

  • @AWESOME338
    @AWESOME338 Před rokem +2

    I have a crush on someone, and this video is perfect for my plan. I was planning to confess with her this week. Let's just hope it goes well.

  • @Kamanda010
    @Kamanda010 Před rokem

    This is great

  • @cathycasinger3197
    @cathycasinger3197 Před měsícem

    I have the amount of courage to ask him out, I'm just nervous about the reaction, what i would say and people around us. I've never dated before, so it's new, and yes i am friend's with my crush, I think we like each other... ❤❤❤❤❤ AFTON IF YOU ARE READING THIS I LOVE YOU MAN!!! YOUR THE BEST GUY I'VE EVER MET IN MY LIFE!!! 😊😊😊

  • @izanas_leftearring5191

    I’ve taken this as a sign🧘‍♀️

  • @RunOut25
    @RunOut25 Před rokem

    My crush left to Hawaii for a week, and on the day she was getting back, I left to travel across my state to see family. I’ve missed her, and stumbled upon one of these videos, and realized I have feelings for her. I’m currently debating between telling her soon after I go back home, or waiting until a dance in January. I’m luckily alone with her most weekdays, so going for the sooner time could work. When I get the courage, or just have the ever so powerful 3 AM motivation, I might just text her about it, go to sleep and hope for the best. It could work, but that’s just a theory.

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 Před rokem

      Don't ask them out at the 3am pls. In person would be best, and it can be to go do something casual just the two of you

    • @RunOut25
      @RunOut25 Před rokem

      @@alexandred.4248 Yes, I’ve learned my lesson

  • @GamerBoy.1761
    @GamerBoy.1761 Před rokem +6

    I will totally use it when I crush on a girl, since I finally made girls a priority of mine's since I'm also making some friends and connections.

  • @MysteryMaske
    @MysteryMaske Před 2 měsíci +2

    i have been scared to ask somone out bc last time i did i got rejected but know after this video i will do it tomorrow at school wish me luck

  • @Mr.Goofyglasses.
    @Mr.Goofyglasses. Před 6 měsíci +2

    Im best freinds with my crush, and they like me back, we told each other we like each other, but aren't dating, any ideas where to go from here?

  • @mason4615
    @mason4615 Před rokem

    Thank you very muchhh

  • @crimsonamogsus7351
    @crimsonamogsus7351 Před 6 měsíci

    I love the FNF references being so subtle yet so obvious, I love this channel

  • @capalottyslimalini2878
    @capalottyslimalini2878 Před 4 měsíci +2

    In the middle of befriending.

  • @lyndseystrait1513
    @lyndseystrait1513 Před rokem +2

    4:02 LOL That conversation isn't the best of a non-creepy way of asking someone out. Other than that, great advice and video!

  • @cosmicstriker689
    @cosmicstriker689 Před rokem +2

    I blush just being around him , i cant even make a sentence without my whole face becoming a tomato

  • @WolvarkUnknown
    @WolvarkUnknown Před rokem +1

    I love how many times they said "dont stare"