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  • In the final episode of Season 2, Carrie shows up after Mr. Big's engagement party and asks him the important question we were all wondering: ""Why wasn’t it me?""
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  • @HBO
    @HBO  Před 3 lety +127

    Stream Sex and the City on HBO Max: itsh.bo/get-hbomax

  • @Kristin2885
    @Kristin2885 Před rokem +5175

    Ladies, when your ex is getting married, resist the urge to be whimsically dramatic and show him how untameable you are. Don't put on something semi-bridal, do your hair and stalk him outside his engagement party with that look. Just don't do stuff like this. This is how you reveal yourself to be a crazy person.

    • @MsLemon1971
      @MsLemon1971 Před rokem +123

      Lol😂😂

    • @EstherRimert
      @EstherRimert Před rokem +100

      😂😂😂 so good and true

    • @AkireMaru
      @AkireMaru Před rokem +207

      Or the one who he’s glad got away. It wreaked of desperation.

    • @Maya-ig9kx
      @Maya-ig9kx Před rokem +127

      This is great! Well said! You should write advice columns - not Carrie Bradshaw!

    • @c.c.6930
      @c.c.6930 Před rokem +35

      I love this comment!Precious!

  • @missbubbles8367
    @missbubbles8367 Před 3 lety +9334

    This should have been how their relationship ended.

    • @aszak8654
      @aszak8654 Před 3 lety +411

      Yes and I hope Carrie was not so forgiving towards him . So many chances .. in a way I lost respect for her. And I wonder always is it Big she loved or his status?

    • @Alena-xoxo
      @Alena-xoxo Před 3 lety +442

      Agreed! He seemed like a child in a man's body lol ...Aidan was sooo the one I wanted her to end up with

    • @HealingQuest777
      @HealingQuest777 Před 3 lety +154

      The mystery of life and relationships not always rationnal

    • @KishBish
      @KishBish Před 3 lety +18

      no..

    • @chriscyjimflores2326
      @chriscyjimflores2326 Před 3 lety +31

      it did not happen because Carrie is dumb

  • @amormio4293
    @amormio4293 Před 2 lety +5082

    Carrie: I need to run free and be wild.
    Also Carrie: I will never stop trying to get Big to settle down with me.

  • @Mrs.Currie
    @Mrs.Currie Před 9 měsíci +937

    Very rude and hurtful of him to leave his fiance waiting in the car while he chats with his ex, and very rude of Carrie to seek out a chat with her ex when she knew his fiance was waiting in the car. At their engagement party. It probably ruined her day.

    • @dianakistaubaeva9321
      @dianakistaubaeva9321 Před 7 měsíci +98

      and the HAIR STREAK!!!! the audacity

    • @pearpo
      @pearpo Před 7 měsíci +34

      People show you who they are though. If that was Mr. Big’s priority, it’s good Natasha saw it. And it will be clearer onward that he may not have his priorities aligned with her.

    • @TrueWalker88
      @TrueWalker88 Před 7 měsíci +25

      Both women knew full well what kind of guy they were getting involved with.

    • @Mrs.Currie
      @Mrs.Currie Před 7 měsíci +39

      @@TrueWalker88 Carrie, yes, but Natasha, I'm not so sure. We didn't really see their relationship.

    • @imtheprize
      @imtheprize Před 6 měsíci +26

      When it came to dating and relationships Carrie's morals weren't the best. She did what she wanted without regard to how it would affect others. This the same Carrie that cheated on Aiden and began an affair with that woman's husband. So rude is an understatement.

  • @josefinebliss2801
    @josefinebliss2801 Před rokem +2492

    This here says it all. I think that Big really liked Carrie all along but she was too difficult. Carrie is the type of woman she'll never be satisfied, and Natasha she's more independant so she won't act needy with him. It's pretty simple. Then he got bored because deep down he craves drama too because he's not as stable of a person as he thinks he is. Needless to say Carrie and Big are a perfect match, but for all the wrong reasons. Really they both needed therapy instead of chasing relationships.

    • @cloudsurfer73
      @cloudsurfer73 Před rokem +172

      You’re speaking the truth. Seen this happen in real life with people who complain about crazy ex but then never realize it’s them that likes drama

    • @georginahollifield5669
      @georginahollifield5669 Před rokem +4

      Literally

    • @jessethepersiankitty2377
      @jessethepersiankitty2377 Před rokem +18

      If you'd seen the movie The Way We Were you would have got it.

    • @glorias.2930
      @glorias.2930 Před rokem +7

      Well said! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @calisha1889
      @calisha1889 Před rokem +9

      @@jessethepersiankitty2377I know that’s the reference but I feel like even if you haven’t seen it, this analysis isn’t wrong, right?

  • @ND-nx1nt
    @ND-nx1nt Před 9 měsíci +340

    It's giving "pick me,choose me, love me"

  • @sparkynutters690
    @sparkynutters690 Před 3 lety +4276

    “I had no intention of going in but it was on my way home”...... naah I think you just wanted your daily drama fix 😅

    • @BriEntAnderson
      @BriEntAnderson Před 3 lety +153

      Well it wouldn’t be the first time she stalked him.

    • @liams4728
      @liams4728 Před 3 lety +86

      It’s always got to be about Carrie or she just ain’t interested

    • @TheGo0nberg
      @TheGo0nberg Před 2 lety +94

      Then why she walking the other way when she finished talking to him 🤔

    • @Mexicobeanpole
      @Mexicobeanpole Před 2 lety +66

      Yep. It was a low class thing to do showing up there.

    • @CleopatraSelene11
      @CleopatraSelene11 Před 2 lety +134

      The way she made eye contact with Natasha and then touched his face, she totally did it on purpose.

  • @jasresearch7218
    @jasresearch7218 Před 8 měsíci +600

    It is sheer desperation. If a man does not want you - LET GO. Let him go. And do not turn up to his engagement party.

    • @ingada
      @ingada Před 5 měsíci +4

      Want to marry, and want you physically is different

    • @MadalinaU22
      @MadalinaU22 Před 2 měsíci +1

      But what would we be talking about now if she would have done all the right things??

    • @selvinortiz3962
      @selvinortiz3962 Před měsícem

      HE invited her?????

    • @HeidiAtuafulMJ
      @HeidiAtuafulMJ Před měsícem +2

      He clearly does want her if he’s leaving his fiancé to go talk to her

  • @lisal7291
    @lisal7291 Před 2 lety +2304

    If my man talked and was touched by a woman like that right after our engagement, the relationship would've over then and there🤣

    • @lindseyz8757
      @lindseyz8757 Před rokem +93

      I KNOW RIGHT

    • @susanparsons9365
      @susanparsons9365 Před rokem +27

      Why? He didn’t do anything.

    • @naty_327
      @naty_327 Před rokem +9

      That part 😂💯

    • @EughhBrothereughh
      @EughhBrothereughh Před rokem

      @@susanparsons9365 then go marry someone who accepts that and doesnt do anything to stop a woman from touching him. You have low standards

    • @AyaEgbuho
      @AyaEgbuho Před rokem +8

      Period. ❤

  • @piatmal49
    @piatmal49 Před 2 lety +417

    THIS is an example of what a woman should NEVER do...

  • @DarlingEbony
    @DarlingEbony Před 2 lety +3788

    This should have been the end. However, think of all of the times after this that he disrespected her, including leaving her high and dry on their wedding day. I always wanted her with Aidan because he was healthier and nicer. I think Hollywood does women a disservice by always pushing these "struggle love", "against all odds" romances that never work like this in real life. We are programmed to accept dysfunction from men.

    • @barboralitvanova5111
      @barboralitvanova5111 Před 2 lety +97

      But Carrie didn’t love Aidan. She settled for him because she could not have Big at that moment. Would you rather the message was women should settle for the nice guy and hope to cheat with the guy they actually love and want to be with when they can but stick with the nice guy for security?

    • @DarlingEbony
      @DarlingEbony Před 2 lety +278

      @@barboralitvanova5111 I would have preferred the message be that healthy relationships can be beautiful and romantic versus a codependent relationship filled with narcissistic abuse.

    • @pinkunicornbeliever2007
      @pinkunicornbeliever2007 Před 2 lety +13

      So true. I agree.

    • @barboralitvanova5111
      @barboralitvanova5111 Před 2 lety +75

      @@DarlingEbony Dear god people need to stop overusing the term narcissist. Just because someone doesn’t do what you want from them doesn’t mean they are abusive.

    • @DarlingEbony
      @DarlingEbony Před 2 lety +36

      @@barboralitvanova5111 If you looked up the traits of a narcissist, you would see that Big fit the bill.

  • @zazilicious
    @zazilicious Před 3 lety +3433

    I must say that she looks stunning in that scene like wow 🤩🔥💯

  • @mada7393
    @mada7393 Před 3 lety +512

    Oh Carrie... he disrespected her SO many times!

    • @veganrunner5634
      @veganrunner5634 Před 3 lety +67

      That is because she had no respect to herself she should have left him the first time he disrespected her. Women should never run after men.

    • @SleepIntoTheDiamondLife
      @SleepIntoTheDiamondLife Před 3 lety +43

      @@veganrunner5634 no one should run after anyone who doesn't show them respect.

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat Před 2 lety +2

      🙂 Mmmm. Not sure you think about that, when crazily obsessed with the MrB who flits through your life. In hindsight comes into play here..

    • @susanparsons9365
      @susanparsons9365 Před rokem +1

      I don’t think he disrespected here. She wanted more and pushed.

  • @nschone7492
    @nschone7492 Před 2 lety +1448

    Great writing on the show... all of her epiphanies about love were self centered, jealous, comparative, insecure. She tried hard to believe her own hype and to be strong. But really she was just a little girl and hoping this guy would love her back the same way. She became consumed with it because he didn't. Just like a real person in real life.

    • @MelissaJoyArtistry
      @MelissaJoyArtistry Před 2 lety +37

      Well said

    • @loveswintertrees
      @loveswintertrees Před 2 lety +21

      Beautifully said

    • @the1whereIwatch
      @the1whereIwatch Před rokem +54

      I agree! Carrie is such a well-written character. She’s completely rooted in reality.

    • @Devina210
      @Devina210 Před rokem +1

      Spot on!

    • @rebelraccoon9018
      @rebelraccoon9018 Před rokem +29

      Well Carrie's dad abandoned her when she was a child so it's understandable that she dealt with insecurity etc.

  • @floatingsara
    @floatingsara Před 9 měsíci +113

    "He's just not THAT into you" ❤

  • @cazzalyric
    @cazzalyric Před 2 lety +460

    Can you imagine this happening to you on your engagement? She couldn't just let Natasha have her day...Who does that? They're both as bad as each other🙄

    • @cazzalyric
      @cazzalyric Před 2 lety +4

      @universal Oh yes..I forgot🤭 Same sentiment though. Thank-you

    • @cazzalyric
      @cazzalyric Před 2 lety +1

      @universal Corrected 🙂

    • @ChristieAdamsKangoo
      @ChristieAdamsKangoo Před 2 lety +69

      This just shows how toxic and selfish Carrie is. She shows up (in a white dress, no less) to his engagement party and demands to know why he didn't choose her? UGH

    • @cheriejones4782
      @cheriejones4782 Před rokem +3

      Speak now or forever hold your peace

    • @nnnnnnnnnnn7292
      @nnnnnnnnnnn7292 Před 9 měsíci +11

      Actually it was Natasha who didn't act right.
      She saw that Big and Carry had loooooooots of unfinished business between them.
      Carry was abused by Big for a long time. And got discarded after years of stringing on.
      She felt hurt, and naturally had a surge to find out why he did it.
      Big didn't cut their cord either. He damaged both Carrie and Natasha. Typical narcissistic triangulation.

  • @amandabre
    @amandabre Před 2 lety +559

    I loved her look in season 2. Her long blonde curly hair always caught my eye everytime she was on screen lol. I remember how much I wanted that look. Still do.

    • @neshwhat702
      @neshwhat702 Před 2 lety +17

      I permed my hair because of her. Boy, did I get the praise! People still talk about my curly hair.

    • @amandabre
      @amandabre Před 2 lety +9

      @@neshwhat702 I did too! 🤣🤣 I have really long black hair and it costed me 200 to perm it. But I loved every second of my big curly hair. I miss it alot haha

    • @neshwhat702
      @neshwhat702 Před 2 lety +2

      @@amandabre me too.

    • @thewokeabout
      @thewokeabout Před rokem +1

      Didn't everyone

    • @Jimminityjabooboo
      @Jimminityjabooboo Před 10 měsíci +3

      Then go do it

  • @costaa5344
    @costaa5344 Před 3 lety +494

    Interesting how she has a white dress on, kinda bridal looking. But at this point this should've been the end for these two

    • @KishBish
      @KishBish Před 3 lety +20

      yes.. usually it's Natasha who is in white (on purpose), but this time, it's Carrie..

    • @chriscyjimflores2326
      @chriscyjimflores2326 Před 3 lety +18

      @@KishBish never thought of that, despite watching the series many times

    • @bettyrivers5503
      @bettyrivers5503 Před 2 lety +10

      @@KishBish I noticed that too. Also Natasha appears to be wearing black when she always wore white.

    • @KishBish
      @KishBish Před 2 lety +1

      @@bettyrivers5503 yes!

    • @KishBish
      @KishBish Před 2 lety +2

      @@chriscyjimflores2326 I hadn't noticed either until I heard MPK's commentary on the DVD set.. I was like ahhhh okay.. they wanted her to appear "beige", like Big said..

  • @jeets2052
    @jeets2052 Před rokem +40

    Big always thought Carrie was not enough for him, he never introduced her to his mum or friends.

  • @mimim6857
    @mimim6857 Před 2 lety +513

    The more I watch this show the more I realize how toxic Big and Carrie’s relationship was.

    • @Oliveira.251
      @Oliveira.251 Před rokem +3

      Me too !

    • @lauraroman5186
      @lauraroman5186 Před 11 měsíci +12

      They are the worst 😂😅

    • @AnnaSpatar
      @AnnaSpatar Před 11 měsíci +21

      She had massive daddy issues and he called her ‘kid’

    • @Pinkranger87
      @Pinkranger87 Před 11 měsíci +3

      So were all of her relationships

    • @Alloniya
      @Alloniya Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@AnnaSpatarwe all have mammy or daddy issues

  • @bw6148
    @bw6148 Před 2 lety +268

    Wow the caress on his cheek after his fiancé was clearly watching from the car 😂

    • @msmilano7091
      @msmilano7091 Před 2 lety +73

      So disrespectful

    • @zoeevans6410
      @zoeevans6410 Před 2 lety +50

      Such a (lame) power play.

    • @townsendagency6780
      @townsendagency6780 Před rokem +15

      its a reference to a movie from the 70s lighten up ppl

    • @drknow1997
      @drknow1997 Před rokem +5

      Carrie is a bad mind gal

    • @Chrisy0850
      @Chrisy0850 Před 10 měsíci +8

      ​@@townsendagency6780it's from the way we were with Barbra Streisand and Robert Redford, she called him Hubble

  • @bedtimestoriesforkids9755
    @bedtimestoriesforkids9755 Před 9 měsíci +179

    "Maybe some women aren't meant to be tamed"... Seriously Carrie? You were hoping he would tame you, you were begging he tame you and when he didn't, you "accidentally" went to his wedding to catch him and ask why he didn't tame you when you were so ready to be tamed.
    This, my friends, is a perfect example for cognitive dissonance

    • @thuridpeine7616
      @thuridpeine7616 Před 2 měsíci +1

      It's a phantasie! An entertaining show for ladies, get a grip!

    • @luisnavas230
      @luisnavas230 Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@user-os2gm6hv9lwell said. Very dismissive and if tables were turned, they would have cried FOUL… incessantly 😂

    • @sedakuday610
      @sedakuday610 Před 2 měsíci +2

      No, that's desperation.

  • @tiagarner8923
    @tiagarner8923 Před rokem +71

    No hate, but this scene is where Carrie LOOKED HER BEST. I’ve been enchanted by her in this scene since I was like 10. She’s fierce.

  • @surfergirljen
    @surfergirljen Před 3 lety +957

    What a scene. One of my favorites of the whole series.

  • @Pacifica74
    @Pacifica74 Před 8 měsíci +70

    "Your girl is lovely, Hubble". She's saying the line from the end scene of "The Way We Were".

    • @DuckyB
      @DuckyB Před 2 měsíci +4

      It was such a great line!

    • @Pacifica74
      @Pacifica74 Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@DuckyB Similar scenery too. The marquee looks very similar to the one behind Hubble in the Way We Were. I wonder if they actually shot this scene from the same location!

    • @DuckyB
      @DuckyB Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@Pacifica74 My favorite line was “He was like the country he lived in, everything came too easy for him. But at least he knew it”. Also “I’ve got pie”. Great movie!!!!

    • @ladykfirst
      @ladykfirst Před měsícem

      I never knew Hubble had another girl. Need to watch TWWW again

  • @brontiq
    @brontiq Před 2 lety +729

    Carrie was sooo kidding herself here. If he dumped this young hot chick he in fact chose over her and ask her to get back with him she would jump at him so fast he couldn't even blink. She simply created the explanation for herself so it wouldn't hurt that much

    • @RTCPhotoWork
      @RTCPhotoWork Před 2 lety +55

      That's exactly what a lot of people do. They either lie to themselves making the other the bad guy, wallow and read into everything to make themselves the bad guy, or have a healthy grieving process.

    • @luzmaya7787
      @luzmaya7787 Před 2 lety +7

      This is literally the only episode I've watched of the show. (I was surfing channels and stayed because of the movie references) Yesterday I saw posts on how Carrie was upset about Big leaving his ex-wife a million dollars and my thoughts went back to this episode along with a rather scathing sentiment: Carrie Bradshaw must have been full of herself to believe that she was in the same league as Katie Morosky.
      Or course, perhaps it's an unfair feeling to have, I don't watch the show after all.

    • @fayepatrice1672
      @fayepatrice1672 Před 2 lety +51

      She has a point though. He dated Carrie, even when he had access to a thousand young hot women, so he had to be attracted to her. That was never the issue. It was more about conflicting personalities and goals. Carrie is saying that if she was more complacent and "easier" for him to deal with, he might have chosen her. Sounds plausible to me.

    • @potato-whiz
      @potato-whiz Před 2 lety +29

      @@fayepatrice1672 she was also needy and created drama all the time. They were a mess. He was distant, she pushed too hard and wouldn’t never let the little things go. This is just her convincing herself that she wasn’t the problem. “It wasn’t that Big couldn’t handle my bs anymore. It’s that I was too free and independent and cool for him to handle so he ran off to someone who was way more boring than me. I’m amazing and better and everyone knows it.”

    • @fhp9017
      @fhp9017 Před 2 lety +9

      And she’s right

  • @blackirishrose4040
    @blackirishrose4040 Před 2 lety +322

    She's toxic he's toxic they are complete match.

  • @kantik2118
    @kantik2118 Před 11 měsíci +86

    Such an awful moment for a woman: how Can you chase a man like this?
    You didn't choose me, ok! I would've change city or even planet and completely erase your name from my memories ! Who do you think you are ?
    Ladies, have self respect and always choose yourself over a man's attention.

    • @MargaretAnderson-ti1sw
      @MargaretAnderson-ti1sw Před 4 měsíci +6

      I' wouldn't be caught dead crashing his engagement party to another woman. Makes her look desperate and needy.

    • @regaliaretailfashionmerch4314
      @regaliaretailfashionmerch4314 Před 3 měsíci +1

      It must've taken some guts though and strong will to even go there, couldn't have been easy, sometimes just keeping away would have been the easier choice, maybe
      My problem is that she ends up forgiving him later, that should've never happened

    • @subratanandy2142
      @subratanandy2142 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Why bother changing city or planet ?? Just living my life would've been enough .

  • @swagatapathak
    @swagatapathak Před 2 lety +121

    She should have left him here forever. This scene was bold and good. All the things with him afterwards were mistakes and destroyed her inner peace

  • @AA-qb7ni
    @AA-qb7ni Před 3 lety +1600

    He never really loved her until the final episode. It took him years to realise how good she was to him.

    • @theCatsitter878
      @theCatsitter878 Před 3 lety +282

      @Psychology major yeah, also she became successful with books and Vogue so he wasn't embarassed anymore

    • @c4rmen.
      @c4rmen. Před 3 lety +254

      they are both terrible people, they deserve each other

    • @jacquiew.9165
      @jacquiew.9165 Před 3 lety +18

      @Psychology major Considering she had left the country with another man...You're wrong.

    • @KishBish
      @KishBish Před 3 lety +66

      he definitely loved her years before.. he just didn't know how to show it.. and she wasn't ready to receive it back then anyway.. they both had to separate to grow..

    • @liams4728
      @liams4728 Před 3 lety +9

      @@c4rmen. I’m glad other people see this too

  • @Amanda-pz1rr
    @Amanda-pz1rr Před 2 lety +781

    what they did in front of Big's wife is very disrespectful to her...

    • @MysticDivinerLJ
      @MysticDivinerLJ Před 2 lety +59

      YES! I just noticed that she did that right in front of her!

    • @cmlewis6447
      @cmlewis6447 Před 2 lety +20

      RIGHT!

    • @christinavb355
      @christinavb355 Před 2 lety +87

      Big was always disrespectful to carrie but nobody talks about that. People only blame her.

    • @Nirobiscloset10
      @Nirobiscloset10 Před 2 lety +3

      Yup

    • @justamop9395
      @justamop9395 Před 2 lety +10

      Well that is mostly his mistake for being confused and complicated with all his choices. And mainly confusing Carrie.

  • @likeit2nerdymusigirl
    @likeit2nerdymusigirl Před 3 lety +76

    This dress, mama mia!!

  • @user-qz7yq7bq6e
    @user-qz7yq7bq6e Před 3 lety +592

    He never really loved her and she was too much into him, also they r from different social levels, for some ppl that means a lot. So it's nothing about being wild, what's wild in Carry? She's always forgiving, waiting him, ready to run as soon as he gives a sign and say "wanna have fun, I'm single again". She's also not complicated character, maybe a bit too dramatic😅, but nothing extra, so it's not like he couldn't understand her, he just didn't want to. But that's not nice truth, so she's choosing to believe in different ideas, kind of psychological protection. That's just not meant to be, no love, no good connection, only romance mostly in her imagination, and immature behaviour. He never thought about her serious and she created whole story in her head. But for series romantic line this dialog is much more matching, of course 😀 just not trustworthy for me.

    • @qvdohaus7531
      @qvdohaus7531 Před 3 lety +53

      omg yes that's the truth. big was just not into carrie.

    • @jacquiew.9165
      @jacquiew.9165 Před 3 lety +27

      @@qvdohaus7531 He was so not into her that he traveled to Paris to get her. Yep. That's not being into someone. Lol!

    • @SanFranDentist94301
      @SanFranDentist94301 Před 3 lety +46

      A guy that was "into" would have NEVER taken so many chances at losing her to 1, 2, 3 other eligible men.
      Lets not count the flings between Aiden, Aiden, Berger, and The Russian.

    • @loveswintertrees
      @loveswintertrees Před 3 lety +14

      Are you a therapist? You probably should be

    • @WacoBeautyQueen
      @WacoBeautyQueen Před 3 lety +37

      @@jacquiew.9165 lol he wasn’t into her he was just trynna get his working mule back, the only woman who would stand his bull for years.

  • @liluhaas
    @liluhaas Před 3 lety +110

    her body is popping bruh

    • @amelieb1013
      @amelieb1013 Před 4 měsíci +5

      and yet her rationality is floppin

  • @gypsydoratarot8441
    @gypsydoratarot8441 Před 3 lety +154

    This scene really stuck with me.

    • @azaar2386
      @azaar2386 Před 3 lety +1

      Can we talking sweetheart

  • @eylulayberk
    @eylulayberk Před 3 lety +203

    That would have been great if their realionship had ended after this scene.

    • @msmilano7091
      @msmilano7091 Před 2 lety +2

      In the real story, it did end like this.

  • @mariea82
    @mariea82 Před 2 lety +411

    Mr big was an awful guy…Aiden was gorgeous and treated her well

    • @tariktokalija452
      @tariktokalija452 Před 2 lety +24

      and that's what you get from treating people good, perfect example

    • @paranoidandroid1997
      @paranoidandroid1997 Před 2 lety +62

      Carrie was awful to Aiden.

    • @SwimmerPrince
      @SwimmerPrince Před 2 lety +21

      Aiden just doesn't have that spark

    • @GGggG-yz2uk
      @GGggG-yz2uk Před 2 lety +3

      upper tier 9’s and 10’s dont want nice guys. Once I learned that, my dating life went from zero to hero status.

    • @kim_fd8938
      @kim_fd8938 Před 2 lety +17

      The heart wants what the heart wants

  • @jordanlake471
    @jordanlake471 Před 3 lety +75

    This is one of my favorite Carrie looks

  • @Introvertsan
    @Introvertsan Před 2 lety +62

    I was never into them Carrie did too much to Bigg and Bigg always got up and ran away like a magical elusive princess. She always was more into him than he was into her.

  • @avalangrin4904
    @avalangrin4904 Před 2 lety +225

    I was on Carrie’s side until she cheated on Aiden with Big. It was at that point that I didn’t buy all her “I’m looking for love.” BS. SITC really promoted toxic unstable relationships. It was an entertaining series for many reasons, but those female characters were not good examples of women looking for mature stable relationships.

    • @Natalia-pc7fm
      @Natalia-pc7fm Před 2 lety +9

      I agree full on! I think some mistakes I made had to do with watching SITC.

    • @rebelraccoon9018
      @rebelraccoon9018 Před 2 lety +8

      @@Natalia-pc7fm who takes advice from a fictional show?

    • @Natalia-pc7fm
      @Natalia-pc7fm Před 2 lety +20

      @@rebelraccoon9018 Oh, we've all been young and foolish at one point or another...

    • @cameliamihaila222
      @cameliamihaila222 Před rokem +1

      Big was the love of her life .

    • @Oshiiiiiiiiiiii
      @Oshiiiiiiiiiiii Před rokem +6

      ​@@rebelraccoon9018 why be rude??

  • @red515ify
    @red515ify Před 10 měsíci +30

    Well that was embarrassing… never let a man tell you 2x he doesn’t want you

  • @auremybenamor
    @auremybenamor Před 2 lety +52

    Only death could set Big free from Carrie.
    And that's exactly what happened in "And just like that"

  • @micheleking3160
    @micheleking3160 Před 2 lety +168

    Mr. Big was a snob. Carrie wasn’t pretty enough for him and didn’t come from his type of people.

    • @vegasgirl3538
      @vegasgirl3538 Před 2 lety +58

      I always thought the same. To Big, Carrie was a "good-time girl" but not wife material. I remember that episode where he didn't even want to introduce her to his friends

    • @Honeybees1005
      @Honeybees1005 Před 2 lety +16

      @@vegasgirl3538 or his mother. She had to stalk him at her church

    • @vegasgirl3538
      @vegasgirl3538 Před 2 lety +5

      @@Honeybees1005 Oh, wow, I'd forgotten about that one. And didn't he introduce her as a "friend" or something like that? He gave no indication that they were dating.

    • @mariadoloresmartinezmembri1089
      @mariadoloresmartinezmembri1089 Před 2 lety +2

      I agree with you

    • @GinaSigillito
      @GinaSigillito Před 2 lety +6

      This is really the truth. The series rewrote the ending to make it otherwise, but he even hesitated on their wedding day.

  • @emilyjane5797
    @emilyjane5797 Před 2 lety +24

    Carrie is absolutely stunning here

  • @requiemoftruth
    @requiemoftruth Před 2 lety +155

    The HD remaster is amazing. Watching the original three seasons in widescreen HD is such a trip. It’s like a brand new old show.

  • @chai848
    @chai848 Před 2 lety +277

    The original series was so artfully written. High brow art. Nothing like AJLT.

  • @grgn7786
    @grgn7786 Před 7 měsíci +17

    I think the answer is that Big was never really into Carrie. She was his friends with benefits thing, a fling. There were many signs early on that he was not into her, but she ignored them all. For example, when he took her to a Chinese restaurant, where not so many people would see him with her, or the fact that he did not stop dating other women, after starting seeing her.

    • @MissTia777
      @MissTia777 Před 7 měsíci

      They married

    • @grgn7786
      @grgn7786 Před 7 měsíci +12

      @@MissTia777 Their marriage is a pure fantasy. That is why their relationship is criticized by the critics as it shows an unrealistic scenario and projects unrealistic expectations for viewers. It is that women will think that a man, who does not value them, will magically change their behavior and marry them. They just need to wait long enough (actually for years) and forgive a man everything. In real life, Carrie and Big would have never ended up together.

    • @MissTia777
      @MissTia777 Před 7 měsíci

      @@grgn7786 The whole show is fantasy. But it with all the roller coaster episodes between them, they still got married!

    • @grgn7786
      @grgn7786 Před 7 měsíci +7

      @@MissTia777 I understand your point. The thing is that in the first seasons the writers showed quite realistic character dynamics and struggles in their relationship, while the happy ending was forced and unnatural. There were no back story or character development done to make their marriage look less unrealistic and believable.

  • @wanted0307
    @wanted0307 Před rokem +42

    I don’t know how she managed saying it without crying hysterically. 😅

  • @digitallyshelby
    @digitallyshelby Před 2 lety +21

    Loved her hair like this

  • @gwynnielsen5081
    @gwynnielsen5081 Před 9 měsíci +60

    Even though it is derivative, this is still a classic moment on the screen. They tell you they want easy, but they always return to the tough ones.

    • @CC-2020
      @CC-2020 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Can you elaborate further please

    • @gwynnielsen5081
      @gwynnielsen5081 Před 6 měsíci +7

      @@CC-2020 Men will tell you they want women who are "trouble free," but they tend to keep returning to women who are "trouble." "The trouble with trouble is that it starts out as fun." Men keep remembering the "fun" and not the "trouble," so they stick out the relationship, living for the fun moments no matter how brief they are.

    • @gwynnielsen5081
      @gwynnielsen5081 Před 2 měsíci

      @user-os2gm6hv9l Yes, I have been through therapy and even dated a therapist who was a big help, but he had his own issues. Don't we all? My music (on CZcams) is therapy for me. Best I've ever had. Take care!

    • @subratanandy2142
      @subratanandy2142 Před 2 měsíci

      That's wrong. They marry the good ones and cheat on those poor women with the dramatic ones . And that stems from not truly accepting themselves , and their troubled past . They need therapy.😊😊

  • @ketop
    @ketop Před 2 lety +83

    “I don’t get it”
    “And you never did” 💀💀

  • @aann7132
    @aann7132 Před 2 lety +41

    Carrie was SO desperate. Men flee from desperation every time.

    • @GoWithDaFlowMo
      @GoWithDaFlowMo Před měsícem

      Women too... I just realized how much Carrie is like my ex..... And nooo that's not an attractive thing..... 😅

  • @publicidadout
    @publicidadout Před 2 lety +105

    20 years later and I'm still crying with that scene, and the phrase at the end

    • @thinkmirror8507
      @thinkmirror8507 Před 7 měsíci

      That’s it I was reading the comments yes that’s it!

  • @l.m.stewart
    @l.m.stewart Před 2 lety +40

    That was one of my favorite scenes in that entire series.

    • @chai848
      @chai848 Před 2 lety +2

      Me too!! Masterful and seem less metaphor!

  • @verakukic243
    @verakukic243 Před 2 lety +48

    I just now realised how incredibly creepy Carrie is. She is wearing a white dress. I mean, I remembered it already, but I didn't think about the meaning. We don't make gala engagement celebrations in my country, but I've seen a lot of wedding portals, all suggesting that the future bride should be wearing a white cocktail dress. Someone as fashion-aware as Carrie, was very aware not only of the symbolism, but also of the fact Natasha might be wearing the exact same dress. And while Natasha is shown waiting in the car, Carrie is touching him! I mean, how creepy would it be if the genders were reversed! If the bride's ex boyfriend showed up uninvited to her engagement party, asking her questions about their relationship, touching her... her fiance would probably hit him in the next scene! And here we are supposed to root for Carrie!

    • @mystaminacantakethis
      @mystaminacantakethis Před 2 lety +5

      You know that the character doesn’t choose the symbolism but the writers? They chose to portray her as the jilted bride, to drive the message home to the viewer. It was subtle enough, she didn’t show up in a long gown and a veil lol.

    • @someoneyoudontknow7705
      @someoneyoudontknow7705 Před rokem

      @@mystaminacantakethis No 💩😒. Your comment doesn’t change anything.

  • @_PURAVIDA
    @_PURAVIDA Před 2 lety +63

    My all time favorite episode. The essence of SATC :clever, funny and real emotions

  • @luisagreen9394
    @luisagreen9394 Před 2 lety +51

    I loved that show. Didn't get into it till later..some people have had a mr BIG in their lives.

  • @Chrstne81
    @Chrstne81 Před 2 lety +51

    I can relate to how Carrie feels in this scene.

  • @averydifferentperson3765
    @averydifferentperson3765 Před 2 lety +27

    why wasn't it me? What a hard question to ask ourselves about it if we weren't chosen.. By the way she looks amazing!

  • @kath1193
    @kath1193 Před 2 lety +30

    This scene gives me major "pick me" vibes from Carrie

  • @scarletlady3727
    @scarletlady3727 Před rokem +114

    The way Carrie looked at the fiancée and made sure she was looking when she caressed Bug’s face was savage!!!

    • @champagnexoxo1198
      @champagnexoxo1198 Před rokem +78

      More like ridiculous

    • @Lavender_dazed
      @Lavender_dazed Před 11 měsíci +7

      ​@@champagnexoxo1198 yep, ridiculous

    • @mariafortino3450
      @mariafortino3450 Před 10 měsíci +19

      more like weird and gross

    • @hayaglamazonluxe
      @hayaglamazonluxe Před 10 měsíci +35

      Not savage, more like desperate and stalkerish.

    • @bessieinoti9381
      @bessieinoti9381 Před 6 měsíci +7

      No, it just showed how crazy and desperate she was. It achieved nothing. Fiancee went on and lived her life and din't give a hoot.

  • @watsongr1363
    @watsongr1363 Před 2 lety +24

    The only time Carrie didn't take a taxi to go home.

  • @georginalewis837
    @georginalewis837 Před 2 lety +38

    Deep down Big preferred Carrie but he married Natasha cause she is more model looking and therefore a "status symbol" for him. I live in Kensington in London and the same thing goes on even today - rich men marry model looking, tall and skinny women because they are seen as the ultimate accessory - and then often cheat on them behind their backs - exactly like Big did!!!

    • @franz3810
      @franz3810 Před 2 lety +3

      you should write a book

  • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
    @user-yk9sk7pg6v Před 2 lety +19

    Carrie looks so beautiful here.

  • @JustCallMeAnnie
    @JustCallMeAnnie Před 2 lety +18

    That was such an iconic scene and phase.

  • @alemscbcr
    @alemscbcr Před 2 lety +30

    Carrie looking "empowered and liberated", and she ends up marrying him 🙄🙄🙄

  • @cris_here
    @cris_here Před 2 lety +7

    That Dior dress is everything

  • @catsrule1343
    @catsrule1343 Před 2 lety +10

    This hits different now

  • @kalliopipapadatou1244
    @kalliopipapadatou1244 Před 3 lety +15

    The last scene of “the way we were”

  • @kurlykaitlyn
    @kurlykaitlyn Před 2 lety +30

    I love the way he walks away. I feel him kind of loving her and how she is

    • @msmilano7091
      @msmilano7091 Před 2 lety +12

      He was fond of her, but he wasn’t in love with her at this point

  • @jennifergilder-farooq9540
    @jennifergilder-farooq9540 Před 2 lety +57

    This is so touching and moving the music plus the acting. Love it think a lot of us can relate to this scene and Carrie looks beautiful her dress and her hair are stunning

  • @blackirishrose4040
    @blackirishrose4040 Před 2 lety +13

    Casper the friendly Ghost who appears and disappears....yup.
    That's Big

  • @Thepriestessdeath
    @Thepriestessdeath Před 2 lety +24

    I think it’s interesting how Natasha is always seen wearing white but in this scene carrie is wearing white and Natasha is wearing black…wonder if they were trying to say something with that…

  • @lizze490
    @lizze490 Před 2 lety +120

    "I don't know, it just got so hard"- understatement of the year. She just HAD to stop & stare and he just HAD to go over to her, probably afraid that she would create a scene. And then Carrie has to get up in his face while Natasha watches her fixing his hair while staring into his eyes. Oh yeah she's a real prize, that one.

  • @batgurrl
    @batgurrl Před 3 lety +33

    I LOVED that The Way We Were homage❤️

  • @lizkozlowski9358
    @lizkozlowski9358 Před 2 lety +56

    That poor horse has sores all over her neck they should have gave her a break from that holster let her heal

    • @sleepybubbi9638
      @sleepybubbi9638 Před 2 lety +14

      I agree- this is the saddest thing about the whole scene by a long shot!!! 😞

    • @EB-tr2ly
      @EB-tr2ly Před 2 lety +1

      That horse is already dead

    • @cabooseabs6864
      @cabooseabs6864 Před 2 lety +3

      @@EB-tr2ly I think we would have heard if Sarah Jessica Parker had died.

    • @hei9856
      @hei9856 Před 2 lety +4

      @@cabooseabs6864 just wanted to say that this comment made me laugh out loud after a horrible day. thanks stranger

    • @ertfgghhhh
      @ertfgghhhh Před 2 lety

      Comment is rude

  • @frfr-ps3qg
    @frfr-ps3qg Před rokem +6

    She looks perfect.

  • @jasmindragneva6500
    @jasmindragneva6500 Před 2 lety +20

    this scene makes me want to be a single

  • @lovestruckcow
    @lovestruckcow Před rokem +2

    This particular moment was the essence of the show for me.

  • @geotyr3868
    @geotyr3868 Před rokem

    such serendipity literally brought tears in my eyes :p

  • @viktoriestepankova3229
    @viktoriestepankova3229 Před 3 lety +30

    I know this does not not have to do anything with this video, but i have a question! Does anyone have moments they hate carrie? Like the moment she brought mr big BIG MAC before he was about to move to frace and stared yelling at him when he was honest and said somenthing like,, I would not like you to move with me and changing your life and depend on this relationship in case somenthing happens?

    • @GaelinW
      @GaelinW Před 3 lety +12

      Yes. Ultimately, Carrie was no better than Mr. Big. Both were childish and superficial and fed off or relationship dysfunction.

    • @anwyn9846
      @anwyn9846 Před 2 lety +22

      I hated her when she needed money for her apartment and came at Charlotte for not offering her any. Especially when she realized she spent tens of thousands of dollars on shoes. She could have owned her apartment for that. She likes to imagine that she's free spirited and unique, but she's a total conformist drama queen. I still like the show though, lol.

    • @viktoriestepankova3229
      @viktoriestepankova3229 Před 2 lety +3

      @@anwyn9846 wow... SO TRUE

    • @aubreyjames8795
      @aubreyjames8795 Před 2 lety +2

      Who wouldn't yell? Are you serious. That would make her more likable.

  • @bovasj161
    @bovasj161 Před 11 měsíci +8

    Classic scene, I love the Barbara Streisand reference in the episode. The show is eternal...

  • @vonnii1013
    @vonnii1013 Před 2 lety +1

    I like that last line... good quote

  • @sagqueen1984
    @sagqueen1984 Před 8 měsíci +5

    This one scene was better than both seasons of And Just Like That.

  • @shabrinaz9877
    @shabrinaz9877 Před 2 lety +247

    "Maybe He couldnt tame ME" 🤣
    is the biggest lie ever come out of Carrie's little hypocrite's mouth.
    Stalked him to his mother's church, stalked his ex wife, stalked another of his wife, cheated on her boyfriend with him and humiliated his ex wife!
    Yea! Totally Youre so NOT wanna be tamed hahahah

    • @natalieeubank4533
      @natalieeubank4533 Před 2 lety +12

      He had plenty of issues too not just her

    • @townsendagency6780
      @townsendagency6780 Před rokem +8

      tamed doesnt always mean monogomy or straighten up...carrie is crazy and he couldnt keep up with her thats all so he married someone more tame is what shes trying to say

    • @SandraLopez-ll2ob
      @SandraLopez-ll2ob Před rokem +1

      I mean that’s someone who needs to be tamed. She was “too much”

    • @SandraLopez-ll2ob
      @SandraLopez-ll2ob Před rokem +3

      @@townsendagency6780 Yeah they didn’t mean tamed as in settling down, but tamed in her needy, desperate and crazy ways

  • @IsaiahCarroll95
    @IsaiahCarroll95 Před 2 lety +4

    0:17 She looked absolutely STUNNING

  • @susanevans3865
    @susanevans3865 Před měsícem +1

    One of my favorite scenes of the series.

  • @elkaydoug8863
    @elkaydoug8863 Před 3 lety +32

    The Way We Were

    • @jacquelinec.6785
      @jacquelinec.6785 Před 3 lety +1

      But No Crying for Me!

    • @omarm9368
      @omarm9368 Před 3 lety +1

      All i hear is
      "Memories, Light the corners of my mind"

  • @christianruiz5385
    @christianruiz5385 Před 3 lety +60

    These two hurt each other time and time again most of us would of walked away but sometimes theres a gravitational pull that you cannot control and the heart is a tricky thing at the end these two ended up together and married so that goes to show you no matter what can happen when you love someone if it was meant to be then it is meant to be.....funny every time I pass this fountain on 59 and 5th by the plaza on my way to go run in Central Park I always think of these two lol

  • @nnnnnnnnnnn7292
    @nnnnnnnnnnn7292 Před 9 měsíci +8

    It was Natasha who didn't act right.
    She saw that Big and Carrie had loooooooots of unfinished business between them.
    Carry was abused by Big for a long time. And got discarded after years of stringing on.
    She felt hurt, and naturally had a surge to find out why he did it.
    Big didn't cut their cord either. He damaged both Carrie and Natasha. Typical narcissistic triangulation.

  • @abigail1023
    @abigail1023 Před 10 měsíci +12

    Oh, yeah - Carrie is so wild and independent, acting like a fool, clinging to BIg like a limpet, always crying and nagging and trying to force him to pledge undying love. Actually, they deserved each other.

  • @kimberlysantana5976
    @kimberlysantana5976 Před 8 měsíci +3

    She look so stunning in this scene!

  • @Duma39
    @Duma39 Před 2 lety +66

    I love this scene. But the one before it makes me wanna cry. The scene in the pub where they start singing together- that’s the real love story.

  • @azulaaaxx3876
    @azulaaaxx3876 Před 2 lety +6

    Omg She is sooo gorgeous in here

  • @theodoras6946
    @theodoras6946 Před 3 lety +10

    I cry everytime I watch this scene....

  • @michaelgeorge1737
    @michaelgeorge1737 Před 3 lety +13

    We need the Blu Ray collection in 16:9 asap! I already own the DVD box set but just so you know, there are people ready to buy a remastered collection.

  • @CarrieV9
    @CarrieV9 Před 2 lety +26

    Brilliant. One of my favorite scenes from the show.

  • @TheSunshinefee
    @TheSunshinefee Před 3 lety +117

    you were chasing him and were available. that turns rich men off. they want to 'buy' a girl

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 Před 2 lety +4

      Always control ✍🏻🍷👑🤑

    • @huntsman145
      @huntsman145 Před 2 lety +5

      Lol, maybe in India... Good luck gold digging you two 😂

  • @tehilovely
    @tehilovely Před 3 lety +146

    Men like mr. Big are so dangereouse