I cried at this episode so much because I know what it’s like to lose a Family member who was mean and neglected you. I relate to Claire. She had to hear out all those stories Mitch had about his amazing time with Mom while she had the worst experiences. I love how this show acknowledges stuff like this
@@Joeys4921 actually he won't. Because adult Mitch had now lots of great moments with Jay since Gloria and Manny came to Jay...they changed him for the better. Won't be as great as Claire's but it would be better now.
Eh not really if you aren’t as close to your dad as the other person I don’t see how it’d affect you much. Some people are emotional but for the most part people aren’t that affected.
@@Joeys4921Not really. Jay has changed a lot and fixed his relationship with Cam through the course of the show. Ultimately, Jay was the better parent than Dede; at least Jay stuck around and fixed his relationships with his kids. Dede never changed and never apologized to Claire for all the hell she put her through, and that’s how she died, crazy and toxic as she always was.
My sister reminds me a lot of Claire, only meaner. She's super uptight and has a whiny voice and she nags people constantly. She always laughs at very inappropriate times. I know it's a coping mechanism, but it's obnoxious.
I like how through out the series it feels like Dede does things to get on Claire’s nerves and then her final moment on the show is to die on Claire’s favorite holiday 😂😂😂😂
Ok can we say CAM!!! Always so extra but love his dramatic life!! He couldn't be himself without lily and Mitchell's support tho!!! All 3 are brilliant
@@EquestrianStrong123 well.... they're the children of the deceased. You'll understand it when your parents or close one died. I would totally make a joke about my father...but it's not fine if others laugh at him. It's just basic knowledge
Yeah, same. It's the contradiction between basic human decency vs what you deserve. If she was a stranger I would say she deserves a proper burial by her loved ones at least, as viewer I'm just glad I don't have to make choice because she's their mother and the only one they had until Gloria and having Gloria probably made their mother issues improve, but there's still love for a toxic parent that just doesn't disappear. And death just closes off that path to fixing it, it doesn't erase it, so you can always stand at that gate seeing what could've been not knowing how impossible improving your relationship actually was because you're looking at a post-mortem dream. And I think that's what they're feeling. The lost fictitious path. But she was awful, she laughed when Gloria got pregnant thinking Jay would have a harder life. Not realizing having children isn't bad but having children with people that didn't want to be together would make life miserable.
And nothing of value was lost. In all seriousness, they aren’t mourning the woman who died cause she was awful and deserves to be alone but they are mourning the possibility of a better relationship with her. And that is fine. It means they have not given up on the slight chance she might be a better person.
@@JennyJeong425 she discarded her family for a fast paced, 24/7 midlife crisis lifestyle. She deserved to be alone. She cared about no one but herself. People like her are better off dead.
DeDe always treated him better than she did Claire, and I think he latched onto her because he at least felt like he got the acceptance from her that he never got from Jay.
Remember when ABC did a campaign for this episode making it sound like a main character was going to die, and then when everyone found out it was just Dede, the world collectively said, WTF, that's all?
The mother who very selfish, never care about her daughter, and make her feel insecure, died on her daughter favorite holiday, the day she always excited for, and it’s so sad that she barely have any good memories with her to tell
I don't understand how dede got a full episode when she is one of if not the most toxic character on the show but Frank (and the actor who played him) died he only got about 2 minutes of grief for him and he was one of the most loved family members in the dunphy family (and I might add that the actress who played dede is still alive)
Do you do requests? Because I’m looking for the scene where this guy breaks the news about DeeDee’s death to the entire family by reading something on paper and as he kept reading, they kept assuming that whatever stuff was mentioned was the cause of her death only to be wrong and the last bit of the paper reveals that she died peacefully lying down on a nice bed. I’m looking for the death reveal. Also idk if it helps but I remember the guy being on the left side while the entire family was on the right.
This really hit me hard. My mother died on Oct. 28th and her funeral was Oct.31 Halloween. 33 yrs and Halloween is still a hard day for me. BTW I'm gay and Halloween was one of my favorite holidays. It took several yrs before I could celebrate it.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I had a really hard time when my dad died suddenly in 2015. I had a therapist who told me to do something fun or relaxing on the anniversary of my dad's death. It actually helps a bit.
@@sandraweisbarth4148 no she didnt she just didnt wanna play dede anymore. i think she said it's because she was tired of playing the same characater with no growth
Probably had a scheduling conflict and seeing that it’s the final season they decided it’ll bring more to the show if they killed her off and let the rest of the family reflect on her death instead of having one more Dede episode.
"She was very educated, as she often told me." That both tells you he saw no evidence of it and that she was constantly having to defend seemingly dumb choices that a very educated person wouldn't need to because they wouldn't make those choices...
“I’d like to imagine DeDe’s surrounded by loved ones hearing…”
“ *WELCOME TO HELL* “
😂😂😂😂
MWAHAHAHAHA
The “Welcome to hell” had perfect timing LMAOOOOOO
🤣🤣🤣
It was perfect. I laughed so hard.
Definitely…😂😂😂
@@snkpresents8720 😅
I can't stop watching 😂
I cried at this episode so much because I know what it’s like to lose a Family member who was mean and neglected you. I relate to Claire. She had to hear out all those stories Mitch had about his amazing time with Mom while she had the worst experiences. I love how this show acknowledges stuff like this
He’ll experience what Claire did when their father passes. It’s sad that their parents had a negative impact on them.
Mitchell was so unfair to Claire in this episode. I really felt bad for her
@@Joeys4921 actually he won't. Because adult Mitch had now lots of great moments with Jay since Gloria and Manny came to Jay...they changed him for the better. Won't be as great as Claire's but it would be better now.
Eh not really if you aren’t as close to your dad as the other person I don’t see how it’d affect you much. Some people are emotional but for the most part people aren’t that affected.
@@Joeys4921Not really. Jay has changed a lot and fixed his relationship with Cam through the course of the show. Ultimately, Jay was the better parent than Dede; at least Jay stuck around and fixed his relationships with his kids. Dede never changed and never apologized to Claire for all the hell she put her through, and that’s how she died, crazy and toxic as she always was.
Cam dressed as Meghan markle is the most amazing thing I have ever seen 😂😂
It's Halloween. Meghan...shivers
@@varoonnone7159kindly get a life
I've never seen the full episode, but that is hilarious.
Bro I thought he was dressed as Princess Diana
This makes more sense though I was confused by the black hair
Is no one going to mentions cam and lily's entrance 😂😂
I laughed so hard 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
lmaooo I burst out laughing when he came out in that hat 😂 he had it down pat though
Cute
Hysterical! He could be her real mother, or her when she’s fifty
The one death Claire doesn’t smile at
@TJ I bet she liked phils mom more than her own
My sister reminds me a lot of Claire, only meaner. She's super uptight and has a whiny voice and she nags people constantly. She always laughs at very inappropriate times. I know it's a coping mechanism, but it's obnoxious.
I like how through out the series it feels like Dede does things to get on Claire’s nerves and then her final moment on the show is to die on Claire’s favorite holiday 😂😂😂😂
I love how for once, Gloria is the normal one 😂
Many times she normal and fr none of them like all not always normal
That Welcome to Hell at 3:05 end almost killed me with excessive laughing 😂😂😂
"So....not an edible arrangement"..one of the funniest lines of the entire series.
@TJ I though it was a pun on actual edibles
@TJ something that cannot be resoveld with pizza and netflix...
@@JulieTy94edible arrangements are from a company where they have cut fruit dipped in chocolate and are arranged like a bouquet.
Cam's speech interrupted with the doorbell's "Welcome to hell" was very hilarious timing. It was perfect timing!!!!
Cam as Harry's wife is hysterical!
Ok can we say CAM!!! Always so extra but love his dramatic life!! He couldn't be himself without lily and Mitchell's support tho!!! All 3 are brilliant
omg I just got it! Didn’t put 2 & 2 together with Mitchell having red hair like Harry.
i always liked how even though jay never had a good relationship with dede he still genuinely wanted to be there for his kids
"Remember when she got kicked out of Scientology" 😂😂😂 "Brains (sniff sniff) No."
“Our mother is dead, Phil.” 😂
@@justalex3525 they made jokes but when Phil made one they got all sensitive 🙄
@@EquestrianStrong123 chill out lmao
@@vampspears5249lol it’s just funny how they made jokes but when their husbands made jokes they got all mad
@@EquestrianStrong123 well.... they're the children of the deceased. You'll understand it when your parents or close one died. I would totally make a joke about my father...but it's not fine if others laugh at him. It's just basic knowledge
Underrated quote of the seen:
"*She had nice legs*"
😂😂😂😂😂
😭😭💀
Luke talking abt zombies to Hailey 'Brains...(realizes she has no brains) nope' then to Alex 'Brains'...😂
Which is ironic since Luke isn't much smarter 😏
The first time watching i didn’t realize it was also setup for Haley’s pregnancy.
I love how Gloria bring her expressions to change Marilyn dress
I almost thought that Gloria was going to be happy about Dede dying. She hated her after the wedding disaster.
Gloria had too much class for that
She’s not that bad
As much as they made Gloria to be a “crazy Columbian”, you would think they would’ve made Dodo scared of her.
@@reirei7851 Deedee was not ascared of anybody or anything.
@@jamesha175 ain’t that the truth. Now that lady was 50 shades of craycray
So many more important things to discuss, but honestly Cam looks fabulous
The first thought that comes to mind is- good riddance. I don't know if it's because Dede was a horrible mother or because of my own mommy issues.
Probably both
Honestly Dede was hands down the most toxic character on the show, so I think you’re right
Probably both. I have a terrible relationship with my mother. I love Diane Chambers, but I couldn't stand Dede.
Good riddance
Yeah, same. It's the contradiction between basic human decency vs what you deserve. If she was a stranger I would say she deserves a proper burial by her loved ones at least, as viewer I'm just glad I don't have to make choice because she's their mother and the only one they had until Gloria and having Gloria probably made their mother issues improve, but there's still love for a toxic parent that just doesn't disappear. And death just closes off that path to fixing it, it doesn't erase it, so you can always stand at that gate seeing what could've been not knowing how impossible improving your relationship actually was because you're looking at a post-mortem dream.
And I think that's what they're feeling. The lost fictitious path.
But she was awful, she laughed when Gloria got pregnant thinking Jay would have a harder life. Not realizing having children isn't bad but having children with people that didn't want to be together would make life miserable.
claire’s little spider arms moving the whole time lmao
“welcome to hell” LMAOO
"Brains...*sniffs*, nope, Brains" lol
Lily breaking character Lmfaoo you can tell they had fun making this show
"she was very educated, as she often told me..."
That welcome to hell had me DEAD😂
Jay really has no words. She literally a bad person.
She may bad person to Jay and Gloria, but she still Mitch and Claire mother.
@@DinoTechTurboCharge she was bad to them too tho
@@franpham9455 how
@@Enriquejunior.18 watch all of Modern Family and it’s clear
@@Enriquejunior.18 watch the bloody show?!
Seeing a beautiful woman dressed up as an enormous spider is my new definition of "mixed feelings."
This was their usual family Halloween hilarity, but with a very somber reality that we all must face.
We can trash talk our parents but nobody else can not even husband or wife is so true lmao
Cam: “It just feels inappropriate being dressed like this.”
Phil: “Yeah.”
Cam: “I should be in something darker with a cap sleeve…”
Phil: 😐
And nothing of value was lost. In all seriousness, they aren’t mourning the woman who died cause she was awful and deserves to be alone but they are mourning the possibility of a better relationship with her. And that is fine. It means they have not given up on the slight chance she might be a better person.
I don't think she was that bad. Few people truly deserve to be all alone.
@@JennyJeong425 she discarded her family for a fast paced, 24/7 midlife crisis lifestyle. She deserved to be alone. She cared about no one but herself. People like her are better off dead.
Lmao! The Prince of Canada’s and his wife. 😂😂😂
“Welcome to Hell”… I was drinking soda and it totally went to my nose while I laugh in pain…
Mitchell got hugged with all of the spiders arms XD
“Remember when she got thrown out of Scientology?”😭😭😭😭😭
“Our mother is dead, Phil.”
@@knowledgegathererdraftsave1979 Phill and Cam don’t know how to read the room 😭😭😭😭
I never understood Mitchell's unhealthy obsession with his cruel, insensitive, selfish mother💀 I mean, she kept using him too
DeDe always treated him better than she did Claire, and I think he latched onto her because he at least felt like he got the acceptance from her that he never got from Jay.
Cause jay wasn’t the best father to him growing up. He changed but before he wasn’t and it’s hard to forget that
"She was a wonderful woman". Why do people lie just cuz she died. Lol.
Remember when ABC did a campaign for this episode making it sound like a main character was going to die, and then when everyone found out it was just Dede, the world collectively said, WTF, that's all?
Gloria actually looks great in the costume!!!
With how crazy their Mom was, I thought it was a 50/50 chance she faked it.
So I wasn't the only one who thought Mitch resembled Prince Harry
Gloria looks exactly like Marilyn Monroe
No I think she looks more like Anna Nicole smith
Nope. Madonna in Material Girl.
She’s is Marilyn Monroe’s character Lorelei from gentlemen perfect blondes and in the diamonds are girls best friends dress
@@effooo2000 Then Why is Jay dressed like Joe DiMaggio?
The mother who very selfish, never care about her daughter, and make her feel insecure, died on her daughter favorite holiday, the day she always excited for, and it’s so sad that she barely have any good memories with her to tell
4:06 Wait, so Dede gave Lily a well in Africa?
3:08 I can't with cam's facial expression
Nobody else finds it a little crazy how DeDe does on Claire’s favorite holiday 😂😂
0:58
The precise moment Alex starts to sound like Claire.
I don't understand how dede got a full episode when she is one of if not the most toxic character on the show but Frank (and the actor who played him) died he only got about 2 minutes of grief for him and he was one of the most loved family members in the dunphy family (and I might add that the actress who played dede is still alive)
Fred Willard didn't die until after the show was over and most of the characters barely knew Frank.
“I’m sad, shut up”😂😂😂😂
Mitch’s face at 3:10 Priceless!!! 🤣🤣🤣
4:22 This scene just gets me. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
“welcome to hell” LMAOO BEST PART 💀
I think the figurines of Dede were symbolic for even after she’s long gone, she’s always going to be there with her grandchildren.😢
Cam as Meghan Markle 💀💀💀
Gloria (Sofia Vergara) looks so *gorgeous* and *sexy* as Marilyn Monroe in her Halloween costume 😍
Cam looks slim in Megan's outfit😂😂
Lol that modern family program was very funny 😁 😂
I loved Princess of Wales formal dress with those black gloves 😍 ♥️
Bruh, how do you get kicked out of Scientology? 😂 Cracks me up the more I think about it 🤣
Luke, really strikes like a rattlesnake :D
Do you do requests? Because I’m looking for the scene where this guy breaks the news about DeeDee’s death to the entire family by reading something on paper and as he kept reading, they kept assuming that whatever stuff was mentioned was the cause of her death only to be wrong and the last bit of the paper reveals that she died peacefully lying down on a nice bed. I’m looking for the death reveal. Also idk if it helps but I remember the guy being on the left side while the entire family was on the right.
czcams.com/video/pCvfX98NPd0/video.html
Unrealistic, she didn't smile when she said she died lol
Why was I expecting the Welcome to Heck to end on Bish
RIP
I don't like spiders but Claire's costume so cute.
In Cheers Diane constantly reminds Sam that she was well educated, seems fitting that she would remind Jay the same thing in this show.
I want that doorbell ring. 😂
That "when"
Oh my goodness. Cam is perfect as the Duchess of Sussex.
What a cute couples costume idea
Thank you Phil and Claire and Jay and Mitchell it is my come true
Mitchel and cam 😂
This really hit me hard. My mother died on Oct. 28th and her funeral was Oct.31 Halloween. 33 yrs and Halloween is still a hard day for me. BTW I'm gay and Halloween was one of my favorite holidays. It took several yrs before I could celebrate it.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I had a really hard time when my dad died suddenly in 2015. I had a therapist who told me to do something fun or relaxing on the anniversary of my dad's death. It actually helps a bit.
That birds got a Scots Guards Tunic on...
"BRAIIIIIINSSSSS"
"Nope" lol
the hugging lmfao
The brains joke got me
Of Course haley will survive a zombie apocalypse cause you can't lose anything if there nothing there
" . . . So not an edible arrangement."
The costumes here are hilarious 😂
Dede died?? and here i thought only Phil lost his parents
The actress Shelly Long died in real life
@@sandraweisbarth4148 no she didnt she just didnt wanna play dede anymore. i think she said it's because she was tired of playing the same characater with no growth
@@brr2918kinda a weird take from her considering she had like what? 5 episodes?
It’s the South Park outfit 😂😂😂😂
Usually when a cast member dies they die in real life but Shelly lee long who plays Dee Dee is still alive so I wonder why they killed her off
Probably had a scheduling conflict and seeing that it’s the final season they decided it’ll bring more to the show if they killed her off and let the rest of the family reflect on her death instead of having one more Dede episode.
2:50 was so funny the other halves always 😅😅
*”She had great legs.”*
Mitchell as Prince Harry is gold
Shame because DeDe was just so awful.
Lily is such a vibe🎉
3:03 start till it hits welcome to hell got me crying 🤣
Wow young Sofia Vergara would be a very good Marlyn Monroe.
Claire look cute with that costume
The tissue from the braa come on Cam
Brains joke was epic.
Gloria looked AMAZING
Cam nailed it
The Scientology part 😂
my brother died on halloween too :( this show is too real sometimes
Well. I thought I was the only one thrown outta that bus... 🤔 Seems thats gonna come up with my Irish family when I'm dead...or now...
"She was very educated, as she often told me."
That both tells you he saw no evidence of it and that she was constantly having to defend seemingly dumb choices that a very educated person wouldn't need to because they wouldn't make those choices...
Cam.... looks like.... my mom.... oh my goddddd