Living Abroad: The Worst Case Scenario for Expats in the Philippines
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- Living Abroad: The Worst Case Scenario for Expats in the Philippines @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
Juells in the Philippines CZcams Channel
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Julian Grigsby
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Last Video with Juells
• The Ultimate Nightmare...
Praying for the family! I heard he was gone now. 😢
Yes, he passed yesterday
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 sorry
May he rest in peace@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
He’s in a better place with no pain. Condolences to the family. RIP 🙏
😢😢I’m so sorry for your loss😢😢
I spent my career as a nurse. You would think that my best memories are of the lives I have helped save. No. My fondest memories are of those who were actively dying, that I could provide comfort to. Just being there with them, holding their hand, letting them know they were not alone, and someone cared. Julells is blessed to have his family that loves him by his side.
I think a better title for this video would be "A tribute to a life well lived." Juells was among the very small percentage of us that manned up, and did get on that plane in search of a better life. He ended up with a loving wife and family.
Guys, please listen to Paul about playing Juells CZcams videos, I think it is a great idea.
God bless you
Thank you. May God guide this family in this difficult time. Amen.
My heart goes out to Jules and his family for what they are going through, truly heart breaking.
Dear Paul, my Philippina wife and I just wanna say… Thank you very sincerely and kindly for sitting down with Juells wife and daughter Princess on your CZcams channel… I’m an American who’s married to a Philippina wife since 2019… As for myself, I’m currently a retired California Licensed General Building Contractor and Fence Contractor living peacefully in the Philippines with my lovely wife… If I may say, the bungalow house with the beautiful rectangle swimming pool is just awesome LQQKING… If you wouldn’t mind, please give Juells family our love and heavenly blessings… We’ll definitely be praying for Juells and his family… May God bless Juells, wife and children as well… Sincerely Pietro and Rosa!!!
🙏🙏❤️😇❤️🙏🙏
RIP Juells! Every video he shared included his love for his family and life.
Paul you are such a good man. This world needs more people like you.
the glory holes would be full
hes scum
We need to be LIKE Paul!
@@rolandetoh yeah , make a video asking support for a sick friend and keep most of the money . Dirty Paul strikes again
@CIRCLEofHATE very suitable CZcams name you picked indeed. Very classy to make such comments under such circumstances as well. Truly an outstanding human being...
He lived life on his terms. He married the love of his life and togther they raised three good kids who will grow up, undoubtedly, to be fine adults. A life well lived.
So sad, I pray the family finds peace. Jules loves his family so much. It showed on his videos. Thanks for the update Paul and Jules family.
God bless you all! He’s not gone! It’s temporary! We are going to see him again! Praying for the family! Thx for the video
My Filipina wife died late last year of breast cancer. I know what your going through. It is a hard time. All my love and hugs to Jules wife and daughter.
I am going to miss his "alright, alright, alright".
It was very kind of them in this difficult time to keep us updated. Praying for the whole family.
I will send Juells and his family an email, But this is for Paul. Paul, you are such a gift to the Philippines, you went there to retire, but you are working your butt off serving the community. My wife is from Leyte, and we are here in the states, but if I was to move to PI, I would love to meet you and shake your hand. You are truly a wise, and good Man. Thank You for all you do, and for all the good info you give us.
I'm in tears!! Blessings to the family!! This is a reality check for all of us!! Love hard and enjoy life! Let people you know you love them and show them love because tomorrow is not promised!! Thank you Paul for this powerful video!! Blessings to you and Baby Mae for being there for them and being a shoulder to lean on!! 🙏
Thank you Paul you are a good friend. Prayers to the family.
Paul, your a good man to be there to help Juells, his wife and family. It's hard to find words but I hope they can find the strength to get through this, God bless you all.
Praying for Juells and his family. Crying now.
Very sad, he’s such a nice guy. My thoughts are with him and his family.
I have been a subscriber the past year watching Juells and his amazing family. I lost my Filipina wife to cancer and know how hard this is...May the peace of God Bless you all
God bless you..I am a nurse and was Hospice nurse...it's a very difficult time for all of you. ❤❤❤
I lost my best friend two months ago to the same thing. His wife is a Filipina. My ex mother in law passed a few weeks ago from the same thing. I'm aware of all the challenges and emotions they're experiencing. God bless all of you.
Non Alcoholic Fatty Liver disease is a horrible silent killer with non-existent symptoms until the liver is severely impacted. I'm stage 2, knocking on stage 3 of the 4 stages of liver disease. It's a terrible disease.
I've experienced several people diagnosed with Cancer. It's doesn't matter if your rich or poor.
The best advice I can share is that the body is shutting down but hearing is still strong until the very end. So talk and provide comfort the best you can.
Liver disease is a horrible silent killer. Millions of folks have no idea the risk they have of liver disease. It starts with NAFLD-non alcoholic fatty liver disease.
When out in public, the folks you see with large bellies (kmown as beer guts for men) and extra fat around the waste also have a fatty liver. The symptoms of liver disease can be nonexistent until the latter of the 4 stages.
Thank you , lovely family
This message is for Julian, Paul. Tell him he did everything I wish I had the courage to do. Tell him we never had kids, “my” biggest regret and I will leave here never having experienced fatherhood and family. I admire him, Paul, even as he lay dying. Godspeed.
Prayers For the Family
Oh my, I am one of his followers. Praying for his family, I knew the situations like that, I lost my husband too with colon cancer. I lost everything to the point that we had nothing to eat. Please tell his wife and the kids to be strong.Thanks Mr. Paul for showing and support to the family.God bless them and you as well.
His( ammonia levels )are high that’s why he’s (hallucinating ) please get a prescription of (rifaximin and Lactose) as he’s experiencing (Hepatic Encephalopathy) when you give this to him daily the hallucinations will stop. He will still experience a decline in his health as it’s a slippery slope at this stage. I hope his wife will read this as at least once he’s on the medication he will be in his right mind.God Bless sending my prayers.
seems all he is going to get is a Video from these people what selfish people we have become and shame on Paul because these same folks have the means to do there own Video .
He can not swallow anymore, he is actively dying. He just needs some music at the background to relax his mind.
@@Golden9MM you're funny. I wonder if you listened attentively on Paul's introduction. If not, go back at the very start of this video.
Golden 9mm... just your email address says alot about you. You have no idea what these people are about. Thanks, Paul, for all you do in your vidios!
Breaks my heart. I've been watching Juells for a while so I know how much he loves his family. Seeing someone's health decline is tough. Prayers for his family and friends. Thank you Paul, for doing this and sharing the news.
Prayers for him and his family😊
Lovely family
God bless this family . 🙏🙏🙏
I’m so sorry . You all are in my prayers .
Sending love and prayers to Juells and his family. Thank you Paul for being the good soul that you are and standing by them and helping Juells.
I am so sorry and God Bless to the family .
You're a good man Paul. Jules you're sorrounded by love and support. God bless to you and you're beautiful family.
so sad to hear it has come to this point. our prayers are with him and his family. :(
Hospice is a very difficult thing to see and deal with 😢. My father was in hospice care for 5 days from lung cancer. Even though I don’t know Juells his family has my deepest sympathy.
Nope They want to do a Video , as pathetic as i have ever seen on a Man's death Bed there not in Prayer They want a CZcams Video . Poor Man My God be with him and Shame on Paul as well .
This is the most difficult video to come up with a comment. But after watching the last video on Juells I remember the closing scene from the movie Pride of the Yankees. Where Lou Gehrig says he been given a bad break but he feels that he is the luckiest man in the world. One should contemplate what this means in Juells’ situation. I think it applies here.
I also went through this with my wife, who passed away in 2013. I was lucky that my two kids were by my side to help. God bless you and your family 🙏🙏😢. Paul this must of been very hard for you too
My prayers go out to you all
Since i heard about his situation, i included him in my prayers. My dad died of liver cancer 7 years ago. Sending prayers to the family.🙏❤️
It is definitely painful to watch this video but glad to hear the update. I am on the same boat taking care of my dying husband , he is not hospice yet , he is palliative care and had 3 cycles of chemo. We are aware his time is short and taking it one day at a time. I know what they are going through Richie and the kids , as long as Juelles is comfortable and not in pain that's all that matters at the end of life. Sending prayers❤🙏
I feel your pain🥲
When my Dad was dying from prostate cancer in Canada, his last wish was to die in his homeland (Philippines). The doctors didn’t want to release him from the hospital so my cousin took time out of his practice in Pasadena, CA to come to Canada and sign my father out of the hospital. My Mom and cousin flew him to Manila where an ambulance was waiting for him at the tarmac and drove him directly to St. Luke’s Hospital where he passed away 4 months later😭
When you see someone in constant pain, you know deep in your heart that they will be better off in the next life.
That’s where I might have the honour of meeting Jules. I believe we’ll all be reunited in the next life with our loved ones and friends.
May God always keep you in his heart…….God Bless you Brother🙏🏼
Paul you are a true friend with a golden heart..this video was very emotional to me and my heart goes out for him and his family..I am praying for all of you guys trying your best to ease all of their pain and suffering ❤
My love goes out to Jules and his family. Prayers being sent. Thanks for making this Paul.
Peace be with you Juells. I wish I had an opportunity to meet you in person and work together. You will be greatly missed and not forgotten.
GOD be with each and every one of you.
I just went through this TWICE with my partner who died of cancer and I Solely took care of her for a year, and my mother who passed earlier this year. I was their sole caregiver for 10 years. What I experienced afterwards in the US was shocking. No one called or came by. Not even family. I had to build myself from the bottom. I realized the gift of life that I have and my clock is ticking. So I retired and took 3 extended trips to SE Asia to redefine my life. My experiences in the US around death was so bad I decided not to die there. If I wasn’t there for my partner and mother no one would visit. I want to die in SE Asia. Be very gentle, tender, kind to yourselves. I attended grieving groups. That helped tremendously. Talk to people who are available. Most people had no idea what I went through. Life is a precious gift. Carry on your father and husbands love for life. His life will continue to live through you. That’s what I chose to do
Bravo!! you speak courageously the Truth --
Sadly that's the case in many countries in the world. Mine as well.
My Filipina wife here in Cavite has been caring for her bedridden mom for 10+ years and supporting her dad. This while working a full time demanding marketing job with lots of travel. She moved her dad up to our area from Bicol in January. He passed away less than a week ago. I married a real angel whom I'm not worthy of but strive to be everyday. It's my privilege to make her and her family's life better. Life is short... I just got back from Texas after a rushed medical trip last November so I know to make the most of every day.
@@telcobilly It's why FIlipinas are caregivers in most advanced countries all over the world. UAE, Singapore, HK, US, Canada, and so on. They can tolerate more than anyone can handle.
@@jacked6 That's the truth. They make her rest nurses too. My oldest daughter in Texas is a RN and works with a lot of Filipina nurses. They get a kick out of hearing about her dad living here in the Philippines.
Juells is definitely a rock star! Amazing attitude in all his videos! Amazing dad prayers for Juells and his family! Princess has his beautiful smile that will live on !
Paul, you are a straight up 100 percent genuine friend. You introduced Juells to us, so it almost feels like we know him. I give my heartfelt condolences to your very special friend. Thanks for sharing this information about this incredible person. May god bless!
So heartbreaking. God Bless Juells and his family. 😢😢🙏🙏
My heart aches for the family 💔 God, please give this family peace and comfort in this time. We are all here for this man and his family
Thanks Paul for your caring and update on Juelles , Juelles is a great human being, it just shows us how vulnerable we really are ! ❤ Thanks so much for this
God Bless the family
“Right On, Right On, Right On”
Gonna miss Jules. I just loved his style. What a great human being.
I feel for his family. It’s gotta be the worst feeling in the world for a child to lose their parent. 🙏
Sendung prayers for Juells and the family❤❤
I lost my Brother from liver cancer back in January 2010. I was blessed to have been with him from hospital to hospice and on to his final breath. I remember the process the changes in his physical body and eventually after the cancer took his mind. I pray for his soul and family. God bless them and I pray that you remember how he lived and not how he left you. God bless you all 🙏🏾🙌🏾♥️💪🏾🙏🏾
Paul, we were watching this video and sharing our tears for Jules and his family, GOD will reward you for all you do Paul
I lost my first Thai wife in Thailand to liver cancer 9 years ago.
I understand your pain.
My thoughts and heart are with you all.
There is no easy way.
Love to you all from the heart.
Thank you for the update. Prayers and best wishes to the family.
Paul your a angel you go out of your way to meet and help people in there time of need the world needs more men like you your videos have helped so many people god is looking down on you Juells amen🇦🇺🇵🇭
God bless this family and of course the man going through this. He is blessed that his family is there and helping him through everything. When my wife was dying of cancer. My kids and her family were not there to help me. I know what this means and I felt the pain all over again watching this video. I go to church every Sunday here in the Philippines. And you can count on me adding you to my prayers. I am alone now and always will be. But that doesn't mean it's all about me. God bless you on your journey. It is unique and I will never understand your pain just as others won't understand mine. But ... I wish you all blessings. Truly. Take care. Peace.
That's crazy that your wife's family and her own kids weren't there to help you. That's terrible.
@@jasoncatron1039 Well... they were dealing with pain in their own way. It is only a wish I had at the time as I knew that me alone was not close to being enough. I don't hold that against them in any way. That was 8 years ago but this video... makes it feel like yesterday. Take care
"alright alright alright" how i'd like to see him be able to say that again. The first time I watched one of his videos I thought man, this guy's a little off, but then I realized it wasn't him it was me that was off in my first opinion of him. He's just a really good dude and I wish I could be more like him.
We are praying for Juelles.
Such sad news, and wishing the family the strength that they will need
I've had several loved ones pass from cancer and the only good thing about it was that it gave you time to prepare for their passing and come to terms with it, before they left.
Seeing them shrivel up from what they had been, is still very hard, but it's not like you didn't know it was coming, like if they had just been hit by a bus out of the blue.
I see you passing the TP on the vid, and cracked a grin through my blurry eyes, as I remember talking to my brother/best friend on the phone for the first time after his diagnosis. We were each in our individual basements, TP in hand, coming to terms with his situation. We both had a chuckle through the blubbing, that we were handling things in the exact same manner...
God bless this man and his family and may they continue to flourish in the future.
Praying for juelle and his family 🙏🙏
Paul thank you for sharing this. For Richie, Princess and siblings you are facing this far more bravely than you realize and more anyone I can think of. My thoughts are going out to Jules and family and their tragedy is held deeply in my thoughts. 💗
There is no comparison between dying at home in the Philippines and dying in hospice that take’s Medicaid (insurance for the poor) in the US. Things worked out for the best with the passport situation.
I believe so. It was already too late. He would want to be with his wife and all his kids and in the home he built for them. I saw him deteriorate so fast in the last two to three weeks I was so worried for him. But he was reading his Bible and making his peace with the Lord. He will forever reside in the hearts of his family now. And his friends. He raised such a beautiful family. Such good people. That is the best legacy he could leave behind.
Thank the Lord for the time he gave you all to be with one of his sons. Amen.
I'm so sorry 😢god bless family and friends. My hart go's out to all of you.
I will watch their videos ❤ no skip ads! That is the least we can do for this family!
Remember it is never "goodbye," but "see you soon" 🙏🙏🙏
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Thats right! The best is to come.
That is how I feel too. We are all just passing through
Life is simply a journey
I told him to let me put him in touch with my doctor, that trains other doctors on all mineral and alkaline diet. Has treated numerous celebrities, athletes as well as everyday people. Nothing more for me to do but pray for him and his family.
Thank you for sharing and letting us be a part of this difficult inevitably. We are here for you in this trying time. You give us all hope that we all can be cared for and cared about as much you all care about Juells.
god bless your family Jewels and family. Prayer for your family
No word to describe how much I or we subscribers appreciate Jules happy days to remember, memories that we have this lifetime & next. Thank you & God bless your family & Jules ♥️ 🙏🏼
Paul, You will be known an remembered for all of the good an positive things you have contributied to all of us, an the common sense is just hard to beat. I saw a grown man cry. A REAL man is not only tough, but he also has a heart.
Thank you Mr. Paul for the update and your compassionate heart. Thank you for your courage to face such an emotional interview and helping this family to ask for what they need..encouragement,prayer, and peace.
What we have once enjoyed we can never lose... memories are forever.....bless you all
A sad story, but thank you for letting us know
I'm so sorry to hear about this. My prayers go out to him and his family. Thanks for sharing. 😔🙏
Very Good Video. Thanks. Have only followed Juelles for around a year, but always enjoyed his charming, fun and outgoing personality..
Heart breaking to watch, love from the UK to all of you there.
God bless
The Lord is with you all in this situation and always 🙏
I am one of those lurkers on your channel and Juells'. I of course have enjoyed both. Juell reminds me of friends of mine and I was just devastated to hear of his liver cancer and liver failure. I know more about his disease process than I would care to; I speculate that his bizzare Guillame-Barret syndrome (GBS) was a pareneoplastic syndrome caused as his body ramped up his immune system to try to fight the cancer. (there are case reports in the literature). It is generally a bad sign however. I am hopeful his passing will be as peaceful as possible. I will contribute to the family directly.
God or any beliefs you have be with you
Peace & Love to the family
My father in law died of cancer . From Singapore.
Remember to celebrate his life. Thank God for the time we have with loved ones.
I've been binge watching Weird History on CZcams and Dazed and confused came on. The guy said, all right, all right, all right and I thought, hey! It's Juells! This is just way too sad. I've been in Bohol for 16 years and have been to many funerals but bless you all!
I cried along with you all here. I am sad also. Thank you and Juells wife and family letting us know where he is at. Blessings to all.
Prayers and Christian love for the family. God bless.
Prayers 😢❤
My deepest sympathies to the family, Paul. Thank you for sharing this video.
Thanks for the update Paul, Praying for the family 🙏
The worst case scenario is if an expat would pass away alone without loved ones present, in any country, and even in your own country.
When i hear that he was thrashing about, i cant help but believe that in the United States that would have had him in an induced coma to control the pain and discomfort.
That's what I was thinking
Thanks for posting, Paul. All the best thoughts and prayers for Jules and family.
Dear Paul. I knew Juells from you, as I seldom watch expats channels. That time when his house was still under construction and you both were full of laughter. I admired his outlook in life and love for his family and subscribed to help him. The next video I watched when he was hospitalized from paralyzed leg, the third when he’s got the liver CA. With his warmth personality this video touched a lot of us . Thanks in guiding us how to get in touch with his family. I pray for him. Thank you for such a kind person. May God Bless you all. 🙏🏻
Please do not hydrate Julells. Any hospice nurse should know that. For the love of God stop all liquids.
Yes, so important
Is this common knowledge? How is it that doctors in the Philippines do not know not to hydrate? Or, is there a special reason for hydrating at this time?
Thank you so much Paul for the update ❤ Me and my husband has been following you guys and Juelles story and feeling so sad about the whole thing😢Actually my husband is in the same situation battling cancer Leukemia diagnosed in January 😢. He has been watching you tube videos of you guys in Dumageute and very fond of Juelles. Praying for everyone and really grateful for you Paul. God bless❤ I am a filipina living here in the US since 2005. Husband is from NH.
Thanks for respectful understanding of this family ❤.
My condolences. Prayers to his beautiful family!
My brother just passed away because of cancer. I was in denial up until he died. I wasted time that I, while my other brothers and sisters kissed him and hugged him I just said y’all tripping ain’t nothing wrong with Man, my brothers name was Man (nickname) every time we went to visit him they all acted like the world was coming to an end and me I was just waiting for him to get better and get out of the hospital. I was in total denial, to make it worse I work in healthcare and I knew what comfort care meant and still blocked it. So I missed out on giving him hugs and kisses before he left.
I did this with my Dad if anything believed he would outlive me...tgus Video sure brings up alot of Emotions..
Sadly I have not said good bye to all my deadly departed and less sadly, unlike Jules, there will be no one to say good bye to me.
That is not uncommon to be in denial..to carry a false type of hope. It happens.
I hope someone helps you out the same, in kind.
He's still with you brother, sending you hugs to get through this difficult time 🫂
Paul, thank you for taking the time to update us on his situation. It’s very sad and I feel empathy for him. I pray that his family will be blessed with blessings after his passing so that they won’t have to struggle or suffer very much. I’m sure he would want them to be strong and carry on. You are a good guy Paul.
Thank you Paul and Juells' family for posting this update. I always enjoyed Juells' vlogs. I knew Juells was having health issues and always sent him positive thoughts & prayers. When the moment comes soar with the eagles my friend.
can they raise funds for his medical check and propers meds