Toxic “Dating Coach” TikTok Compilation Vol. 2 | @speechprof
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When the guy said he only dates women between the age of 18 and 28, I thought thank god for me being 33 😂
same exact thought 😂
I'm almost 42... i'm blessed ;)
He flys to the Philippines to date "18-28" year old women. If you're already flying that far to date, there's nothing you'd stop at.
I know. I've never been so happy to be 44. 🤣🤣
Me who’s 19: *panik*
Me remembering I’m a trans guy and not a woman: *kalm*
Me remembering a lot of people like that would view me as such: *panik*
“Masculine men don’t care about a woman’s opinion.” Believe me, buddy, we don’t give a flying fork about yours either
Lol my dad cares VERY much about my mom’s opinion.
He’s also a Marine 3rd recon who fought in Vietnam and did martial arts.
But sure…not masculine…
God forbid a man can just... care about women? Even if they're just friends? I mean, that seems like something even a slightly decent person should do. Like that's literally the bare minimum
A lot of these guys aren't friends with women. And they don't let their girlfriends have friends who are men. Idk how deep their misogyny goes.
I know it was just a turn of phrase, but listening to a lot of conservative Christians, you'd think God literally does forbid that.
@@Nerobyrne I mean, the Abrahamic God basically does forbid it
@@thomasdendtler4077 where?
@@Nerobyrne "girl slaves are worth half that of boy slaves" "take the young girls for yourself" "dude gives his daughters to a rape mob" "women cannot be teachers" "women cannot be leaders" "women are to be subservient to their husbands" "if a woman being assaulted doesn't scream loudly enough to alert bystanders, she'll be considered an adulterer and killed" " if a woman is assaulted the rapist has to pay a fine to her father and then he gets to marry her"
Should I go on? The only thing conservative Christians get right is their religion is as bigoted as they are
I find it so ironic that guys are hating on a married man who actually was successful in finding a wife and instead are trusting guys who can never keep a relationship going
Those men are not looking for relationships mind marriage. They are looking for prey.
@@caddieohm7059 true
@Caddie Ohm The sad part is that young, impressionable boys/teens are finding the toxic information, too.
@@caddieohm7059 Exactly. They've zero interest in having a relationship with a woman.. They're looking to find women, plural, whom they can exploit.
EXACTLY
“Looking for a partner instead of property.” You just summed it all up perfectly. Thank you for your channel…
It's like these "men" share 1 thing in common. Lack of common sense. Interestingly you can find them all over the world it seems regardless of ethnicity, religion, geography...and they all seem unable to grasp the simple concept of woman as partner not employee/underling
Just remember, if he views you as property, he will probably View your children as the same.🚩🚩🚩
@@BigHeartNoBSIt took me 27 years to figure that out 😢
Ooo, and the shade he threw over his wrinkled shirt. 👀
@@gingerfellah5665same. Ended up with Complex PTSD
Why I got pepper spray, emotionally fragile boys. My husband of 12 years resembles NOTHING like these man boys and YES he cries when his son paints a picture for him , loves cats and isn't afraid to drive my little car. These men envy the love and friendship hubby/dads have with their wives & children.
You're right, they envy and try to destroy what they can never have.
@@vangu2918
Or rather what they could have if they put the effort into being a half decent individual, but that's women's work, right?
❤️
Old guys like to date very young women because those women are so inexperienced that they have no points of reference for relationships. They probably (hopefully) don’t know what gaslighting, toxic love bombing, aggressive boundary pushing or flat out physical abuse is (
Word 💯
A lot of the time they know exactly what they're getting into, in male circles we tend to glorify youth, and equal it with beauty and show it as a proof of virility like "yes I can still keep up with their energy and please them"
But aside from that toxic view and reduction of women to a trophy, is also that they don't want to deal with a mature person, they don't want a relationship, they want admirers, and like you said large age gaps do come with certain power dynamics in their favour. Which isn't any less sad, and a lot creeper.
They are also looking for a free live in nurse/housekeeper, as they fall apart.
And there IS a small percentage of women, usually without an education or wealth, who appraise likely length of life left, and what he's worth, and calculate.
But hell's bells, there were some men that belong only in nightmares, in that lot.
Except those ladies who have learned about this stuff. We're not stupid. I knew this kind of stuff when I was that age.
When I was sixteen, my uncle pinched my butt. My hand slapped backwards reflexively and hit his hand, and I followed up with a finger held up to him and a glare that as a laser would have reduced him to ash. He responded by raising his hands up, and he _never_ laid a hand on me again.
Hopefully these young women have older women friends
I have difficulty understanding how any woman would want to sleep with a man who only texts them when he wants to sleep with them. I would refuse to be degraded in such a way.
Right? Like, I've sexted with guys over Steam a few times but one dude never even bothered to say, "How're you?" before demanding I give him more smut to read. Perverted muppet couldn't understand why I couldn't be arsed to even say hello within two months of meeting him.
Yeah, I don’t know how TF they think the “meeting up for sex” part is going to happen if the woman literally doesn’t know you at all because you don’t talk with them??
@@jasperhernandez7364 and?
@@jasperhernandez7364 you're not?? 🤢
@@jasperhernandez7364idiot
I dont understand how more people arent mad about the guy who didnt know women dont pee from where they put the tampon. WHY DID HE ONLY BELIEVE THE OTHER MAN IN THE ROOM AND NOT THE WOMEN WHO HAVE THOSE PARTS
He could have understandably thought that the girls were messing with him.
**his wife. the peeing one is his wife!!!
Perhaps he was looking for one of them to provide proof!
@Nova he's married
Exactly what I've been thinking since I saw that video. Even if he thought they were messing with him, he could have googled it, not asked the guy, he could have also been messing with him.
a grown man dating 18 year olds is like jobs paying minimum wage- they would go lower if they could
Love your stuff. As a happily married (42+ years) woman, you are so right. My husband would be more described as a teddy bear than super masculine. We share "the pants in the family" because it is too much work for one person. He got my attention all those years ago by being genuine. Women can spot fakers. They give relationship advice because they aren't in relationships.
"We share 'the pants in the family ' because it is too much work for one person". I love that statement SO MUCH ❤️ 👏🏼
The part I like is the word "GENUINE!"
Oh, the texting one!
I'm a single mum (with tattoos, so these guys wouldn't want me anyway, although I am debt-free) and I will need at least a week of regular texting to vet you, feel you out, decide if I feel safe meeting you, decide if I think you are worth the effort and cost to arrange childcare...
My free time is limited. You have to show me you are worth some of it first.
And I don't want you to be at my beck and call, I don't want you to dance attendance on me. I want you to have a conversation with me, to listen to what I say and decide if you think I'm worth your effort, too. Because you should also care who you're meeting up with and whether or not you'll actually like them.
They would want you regardless of your tatoos or children. They are too desperate to choose. The thing is ,YOU wouldn't want to date them bc they are too unstable to treat seriously as a partner. That is why they reject you first so they can live in a delusional state that they have any options.
Whatever works for you, but texting just seems like such a limited medium for growing a relationship. Wouldn't talking be better?
@@davidmorgan6896 Texting is just the first stage, before moving on to calling and/or meeting up, but it's a stage I for one am not prepared to skip (for the reasons stated above). If a guy refuses to go through that stage and pushes for meeting in person before we are both ready, that is a red flag.
@@BinturongGirl sorry, I would have assumed that you would have already met or you wouldn't want to get to know the other person.
Love what you said.! You covered all the bases.
“Me see you NOW” made me cackle. And as a woman yes we agree with you 100%. You actually get it. You actually see us as humans and respect us.
I unfortunately HAVE met a man when I was in college who said he wouldn't date me because, "although you've changed your life now, you have an impure past and I want to date a girl who is pure even though I also made mistakes in my past." Ignoring the fact that he also to use his own words was "impure" in the past.
You dodged a bullet there
It sounds like he wants a little girl. It's good that you cut him out of your life
That's the thing I don't understand about these guys as far as they don't want a real relationship with someone they can relate to. They want a trophy or prize they can trap in a closet.
You dodged a bullet there.
Not so unfortunate. I wouldn't want to qualify for someone like that, and would be grateful he was so quick to reveal himself for the double-standard a-hole he is.
I, a woman, will point out one of the best lines in this video: "Looking for a partner instead of property" (pretty much everything you say makes me have some hope in humanity. Thank you for your content)
IKR? I think that possessiveness and possessive jealousy are disgusting from men, women and any other being.
May I add : “He’s not wrong ! As a grown man, he should be texting women”
I'm not even interested in men (in case my pfp didn't make that obvious) but i have a strange fascination in how they approach dating women in general, so its always nice to see a mature man calmly being confused about the chaos that these 'dating advice' 'experts' seem determined to spread :)
I think there has always been bad/toxic dating advice, I'm 54 I didn't have the internet growing up I had old heads (older men) and SGT in the ARMY telling me how I should approach women. Needless to say much of it was garbage and actually hindered me.
It wasn't until I found who I was and started to accept myself that I started having "success" with women in the beginning it was still tainted by toxic elements that I had to purge.
I think bad advice can attributed to insecurities that men have been conditioned to suppress instead of saying this situation is uncomfortable or I get nervous when approaching women they are told to man up. They are told not to pu$$? they are told f that b.
I could calmly tell young men be yourself, it's OK if you're scared, you'll be awkward your first few (dozens) of times asking someone on a date.
I could go on about learning to love yourself, it's if a woman wants to be friends but not an intimate relationship with you.
All of that goes out the window when a shirtless idiot smoking a cigar, and wearing sunglasses indoors screaming about being alpha when talking to a lonely 16 year old boy.
Calmly being confused kinda made me chuckle 🤭
@@osonhoustonye I understand what ur saying, but see the “it’s if the woman wants to be friends and not an intimate relationship with you” ,that’s the painful part, especially if she Does want an intimate with some other dude. Cuz on one hand u understand that it’s not her fault, she doesnt do it intentionally to hurt u, it’s just the chemistry and stuff like that, but on a deeper level it still bugs you, u know?
I have a strong dislike for the concept of virginity. I was raped regularly when I was a child and most of the time it was by my father. He taught me that I wasn't allowed to reject a man who wanted to use my body. He taught me that I was property to be owned and used. He taught me to fear rejecting men. I allowed a lot of men to use my body because if I didn't provide the person with my body, that I was a terrible person who deserved to suffer. I have spent my entire life considering myself to be defective due to the act that was forced on me. Virginity is a toxic and harmful concept.
As if virginity is a valuable and a thing that can be lost or can be taken from you and without it you are worth very little. It is only harmful
I’m so sorry you endured that pain. I hope you have everything you need to heal🦋
My heart goes out to you 💓
You deserve an amazing life and you are absolutely right. ☀️😊
Thank you 😀@@avril.227
There isn't even a standard medical definition. It's a cultural shibboleth.
So ok I’m confused. Women are being told by men to let men do the “hunting” because it’s in their nature to want the challenge and men are being told by men to not chase women. Hmmm. 😂😂😂
I think no one should chase someone, just make one step and let the other one do the next.
No wonder why nobody's getting anywhere, perhaps we can compromise and take turns?
I do love a challenge, but if I was going to hunt something, I'd want it on my dinner plate, not in my bed.
The only time that was ever cool was in The Godfather.
Welcome to incel-ville.
Which men tell women 'not to do the "hunting"'?
Personally, I think things are much more clear and safe if I let women hit on me.
I love the fact you're finding it difficult to keep a straight face, the last man dating between 18 - 28 year old girls/women well what describes him is a word beginning with p and ending in ile.
Every time I see the last guy, I’m not sure if he’s a serious “dating coach” or a sarcastic one. Tho that clip in particular just makes me think of Leonardo DiCaprio
@@rosaliamoon4525 It does explain why he would have over 140 relationships and none of them permanent.
Almost like people in that age range are still developing. 🤮🤮
also another word starting with gr and ending in mer
@@eternallustformedusa4844 a gr-mer would put more effort and time in it. He doesn't mold them to fit his needs, he discards them as soon as he gets bored.
That last guy, he is a pedophile let's call it like it is. I bet he's one of those who go to these south east Asian countries to pay for little girls.
Lol "Don't text girls". I've blocked and unmatched so many men who insist on meeting up immediately with no text.
I'm not meeting a man I haven't even spoken to extensively.
You know how many women get kidnapped or worse? No thanks.
I'm old-fashioned enough that I dislike texting and prefer to talk on the phone for a bit. But for sure, anyone who wants to rush to schedule a coffee date based on just my profile pic (and the ad text they often show no signs of having read) is not interesting to me.
That's funny, I have absolutely no interest in wasting time endlessly texting someone when I could just have a coffee with them to find out if there's match
@@jadecoolness101that's terrible of you. Stop treating men like they're dangerous predators. Ever heard of the golem effect?
@@thijsg8549 maybe I'll stop when men stop treating women like they're prey ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ don't hate women for having basic survival instincts. That has to be the biggest red flag one can display.
I have several friends who are girls, and I'm a guy. None of us want to be in relationships with each other, and that's ok, we're still very close friends with a lot of stuff in common. Viewing everyone as a human being will do wonders for your social life.
I started getting sucked into the red pill world for a bit. I've had a lot of trauma at the hands of a couple women so I'm an easy target.
It only took seeing 1 or 2 of these "gurus" to come to my senses
That sucks. I don't know if the women were related to you or someone you're dating. But, if it is dating, it's normal to go through a hating phase after a bad breakup for everyone. The point is that it's just supposed to be a phase and is temporary. Things can be more difficult when you are being raised by toxic people.
@xejelah agreed. They were 2 actually pretty horribly traumatic ends which is what opened things up I think. They weren't regular break up angry phases.
Still, made me susceptible but I only kinda followed briefly, heard peterson spout his shit and was at first taken in, quickly made skeptical by listening to him a bit more. There walsh and tate types popped up and I realized "wtf no this shit is stupid"
You learning and that’s the best point here. 😊
I have two sons and a daughter. I ask them if they learned something when something goes sideways for them. If they say yes, I say good and we discuss what was learned. If they say no, we discuss what can be learned. 😊
Oh… they’re 15, 20, and 22. 😊
@@timgil7830Critical thinking and introspection will save you from a lot. I hope you recognize how great it is that you pulled out of that. Well done. Seriously.
@@timgil7830I’m impressed that you wanted better for yourself. That shows so much maturity. Thats the kind of thing that attracts a healthy woman.
sexiest man i ever met wasted no time to text me "hey there cutie" within 24 hours of exchanging numbers. we're married now. thank you for calling out these terrible toxic people who clearly hate themselves. i am so sick of "dating coaches" whether male or female who are not married.
Honestly the dude talking about preferring debt-free virgins who don't have tattoos just gives me the urge to get a new credit card to pay for my first tattoo. Maybe my mortgage is enough debt to keep such people away, because I'd rather not have the credit card.
no you're mortgage is enough - they do sound like those fundamentalist type republicans tho.
Debt-free virgin without tattoos? Soooo he prefers dating minors then...
@accamartin6 my thoughts exactly, that's what most of these grifters would like to do openly.
3:10 the fact that this guy had to ask the other guy in the room if this basic fact of women's anatomy was true
Utterly maddening. And bless that man for his ethical response, because I would've said it wasn't just to make the moron look worse.
I once got that same question and face of disbelief from a woman, a grown ass adult professional woman, she laughed at me for pointing the correct amount of holes, misgendered me and went "I know a woman's body better than you" while the men at the table collectively went "idk". The night went down from there and it was the last time we did boardgames night with those people lol
Edit: later we got to talking about the hymen and she had the wildest puritanical beliefs. Please people, sex-ed is important.
"The mayonnaise rainbow" is one of the most genius things I've ever heard
I laughed into my coffee at "me see you now" 😄
Just makes me think of something very hairy beating his chest saying "ugg, me see you now" - where's a sabre tooth tiger when you really need one.
Thank you for making these posts critiquing these guys.
I went through a divorce a couple of years back, and funnily enough, my now ex-wife sent me a clip to one of them. I went down the whole rabbit-hole of it all and entertained it for a bit.
But none of it ever really sat right with me at all, and honestly looking into the situation like that really only left me more confused and hapless.
Your content here is good content, because it gives a good sane articulate voice to that feeling I had, which couldn’t be so articulate. Thank you
That last dude. He scares me. Therapy is a good thing.
Yeah that last guy screams pedophile. Among other things but Christ almighty
A jail cell would be better
The last guy on the compilation, oh God
"I am a forever boy" - fancy word for Pe*ophile
Yeah, physical goosebumps from the ick.
OMFG. The dude at 3:13 literally shows how bad the education system is if he doesn't know how a human organ works.
Is all america this bad at school?
Not all, but enough of it is so bad that that situation isn't even surprising.
This isn't even close to the worst thing out there, but yeah, some of the schools are really bad. There are still SO MANY PEOPLE who believe the hymen is an indicator of virginity (a PERFECT indicator at that) it's honestly tragic. Mind you, at least we don't use it over here to determine hiring ability or marriage eligibility, but it has been used to attempt to disprove rape before in the states, which is... horrific.
@@g.s.651 it sounds trully horrific. God forbid you ride a bike or do sports
A lot of times the schools give the parents the ability to not allow their kid to do a sex ed class, for religious or other reasons. So… there’s prolly quite a few of those dudes.
Well, sometimes the kids (me) don't pay attention enough in class, and then a few years later you'll come to wish you had.
It seemed like "common sense".....I mean....mine does. This brought back some embarrassing memories.
The mayonnaise rainbow. Omg. Dude. You’re the best.
They took the “those who can’t do, teach” to a whole different level. 😂
I’m teaching my boys that following content like this and taking their advice is a sure way to have women avoid you!
Omg FINALLY, a real man who gets it. Can we clone you? I’d love to meet someone with your mindset and attitude towards women. Thank you for calling out all this awful stuff guys believe. And giving us hope there’s still good men out there.
There are plenty guys like this. I'm sorry to say, you must be looking in the wrong spots. :/
There out there! I took one off the market and got engaged to him
so glad i found your channel, it's nice to see there are actual counterweights against these genuinely harmful ideas. i wish more young men caught in this vulnerable state due to failed relationships/rejection would flock to you, instead of these alpha podcasts that just give bad advice and spread myths about women and how to get them, in order to keep the men watching them out of relationships so they won't lose a source of revenue.
You sir deserve more views!
I just got my sister hooked on him! They're a gender-queer school speech therapist, so this is right up their alley!
Make sure you spread the word about him to your friends:)
What the hell? Allowed to HIT THEM!? I better not see that twerp irl at any point, it'll be drop on site.
😆🤣🤣
As I grab my shank.
and yet - assault is a punishable offense....
That last guy 🤣🤣🤣 "I'm a forever boy"-
No, you're not. You just like to date women who are within the age bracket that's statistically more likely to be violently abused and even murdered by their partners. Because they're young. And inexperienced. And haven't necessarily had enough life experience to develop a jerk radar. That's pretty frightening. I hope his videos go viral in the Philippines so that women know to avoid him like the plague.
Not going to lie, the amount of women in the comments saying "yes, this is what I like and want in a man" and then expanding further on the topics is one of the best features of the channel.
Okay, so the last guy that dated all those women and only dates girls that would be his daughter's age.
1) Paying for it doesn't count as dating.
2) You say you're only dating between the ages of 18 and 28 because admitting you date younger can get you arrested.
You pull more women without even trying…it’s the caring voice and eyes, and the fact you make way more sense!
I LOVE texting. It lets me pause and gather my thoughts before I say anything, allows me to keep a conversation going & I can look back over stuff we talked about which I can use to expand on the topic if I have something to say about it later.
The world is always going to be filled with noise of ignorance and hate, aka people spreading ideas before they're thought out or backed by any proof because they like to hear themselves talk and feel heard. But we always, always, always need others to also fill the space with resistance to those dumbass ideas. We need other people in the same group to be like, "Nah, that's not true. That's dumb. Sit down." so that the unthought out voices aren't the only thing we hear from that group. Thank you very much for providing this push back!!!!
“Poo Bear Attorney”??? A “forever boy”??What the heck is up with that last video!! Lol gross and so weird..
It was used by Jung, from the Latin Puer aeternus, forever boy = arrested emotional développent. LOL, it's NOT a compliment...
Poop boy,skip bear attorney.....forever ...surely
I'm PHYSICALLY shuddering
As as a debt free Virgin with no tattoos, can confirm men do not want to date us. OK, kind of kidding. Literally no one knows that I am a debt free virgin because that is not something you discuss on a first date, or even a 5th date. People are attracted to you or not attracted to you way before they find out these facts about you.
Just found you and I’m very upset that it took me this long love your content
Same
I actually did know a guy that expected to find a woman near his age (30-ish), that had no tattoos, virgin… or in the very least, never married or had kids and extremely low (1-2) partners in their life. My husband told him that he needed to reevaluate his thoughts on what kind of woman he should be looking for. 😂 That guy wasn’t all that either. 😂
"Mayonnaise rainbow" - you killed me with this one, dear Speech Prof, I'm dead. 😅🤣😂
See, I'm gay so I generally stay away from men as a habit because I don't find them attractive and they generally make me uncomfortable a lot of the time, but to me, there is nothing that makes me respect a man more than one who is in touch with his feelings and knows how to respect others and their boundaries. My best friend is a guy and he's absolutely one of the kindest people I've ever met. Just genuinely cares about how I'm doing. And he's married and I'm not exactly attractive so I know that's not why he cares. Some men are just capable of being good people. I wish more of them made videos like this to drown out the Andrew Tates of the world.
I am regularly upset that schools (but also parents) don't give good education about biology and the proper hygiene and care for those parts. How many infections could be prevented by good education? Instead they want to teach other redundant things?
If every young single guy who watched these toxic videos turned to you instead for dating advice, I'd actually be interested in a man. The good ones are all married.
The thing I find funny is that all these guys with bad advice on women are single men alone in their videos. I’d rather take advice from someone successful in what they are giving advice on.
That last guy, when he said “let me tell you why I only date women between the ages of 18 -28”. Before he answered I said (out loud) “because you’re a fucking preditor?!”
This video made me laugh so hard! Thank you. If only the boys who think they are men would start paying attention. 😅
Amen to that!
I am so thankful you popped up in my suggested videos. You give me much needed adult laughs in a world of diapers and toddler music.
Thank you for the work you do shining a light into toxic culture.
“They all blend into the mayonnaise rainbow” 😂😅
After you said invest in an iron I had to rewind a bit..
And LMFAO
The last guy is so proud that despite being an American (money) who flies to an impoverished country, is so dysfunctional that he cannot maintain a relationship with women his own age, nor with women half his age or younger! They'd rather starve/ live in poverty than deal with him! But pooh boy (Mr. Sad and Creepy) hasn't caught on yet and is openly bragging about his shortcomings on the internet! Tell me you need therapy without telling me you need therapy.
Edit: deleted the word attorney after the word American.
Haha, he's not an attorney. He said "puer aeternus", that's a term out of Jungian psychology and it's basically is just a fancy way to say "manchild"
@@RoonMian you're so right! I was reading the captions.
Thank you for standing with women and trans folks
Holding The Speech Prof's gaze for 3 seconds was lovely. He is so dang adorable!
The fact that the guy at 3:14 had to turn to his male buddy to ask if that was true. Definitely trust a guy on women's anatomy, very smart.
I think it's more of a "are they pranking me?" situation. Like "surely you, another boy, will be on my side."
The mayonnaise rainbow😂 that's gold!
This video is HYSTERICAL. 😂 Great to a pause in the work day to let some steam out.
Oh gawd…the edits! The end had me….😂😂😂😂😂😂
Had me wondering if I should call the FBI or the psych ward ^.^
There was a boy who went to my elementary school. He was a teacher's kid, athletic: basketball and football; and fairly good looking. Very popular kid. And he had a new girlfriend every other month - they were all popular girls. One day in seventh grade world history, we got off topic and he started trying to give me advice on boys. I looked at him and said, point blank: "Says the guy who can't keep a steady relationship." The whole class, even the teacher, lost it. He was still a philanderer, but he didn't try to give me any more dating advice. And I was one of the only girls he never played.
That "as a grown msn you should be texting women" comment got you a like and sub good sir.
I have had people straight up argue with me that my very close male friend is just after something. That no man can be friends with a woman without wanting to bone. We just have perfect friend chemistry. When we went out to diner it felt just like hanging out with any of my closest friends. No different than a night on the town with the girls. He's like a brother. Kind of literal because I'm thinking of leaving everything to his kids someday since I won't be having any. We're just perfect friends.
"stop texting girls" no dude. I struggle with getting comfortable with people and so does the girl I like. Text is easier so it's a great way to break down some of those discomfort barriers so we can be closer in person (and it's working). I text this girl and show her a lot of interest (whether she knows it's romantic or not I don't know but I haven't told her yet) and she really seems to like me! She smiles at me this huge smile, is talking more with me, and is slowly coming out of her shell. If I didn't text her, if I didn't show her any interest or put in effort for our friendship, I'd never get anywhere with her. This is such stupid advice because how am I ever gonna get anywhere in life especially dating if I pretend not to care and put in no effort? All that's ever done for me is left me drifting apart from friends because I forgot to maintain the friendship. If I want to move further than that - if I want this girl to love me - I can't keep my distance. I have to try, and I think so far that it's working
Keep speaking, keep educating, keep commenting, and thank you so much. Seriously, just thank you.
Your channel is the best. I wish I had had you as a teacher when I was still in school.
That three second stare had me choking with laughter! That coach is a fantasist. Never even met a woman in real life !
Thank you for standing up against these cancerous ideas that lead to trh mistreatment of and endangerment of women.
Woww these guys are crazy, great content! Thanks for making my day better with validating content
It's frustrating to listen to those "men", but your reaction and editing make me laugh so hard! Thank you !!
Now I want to go to the Philippines to talk to the lucky ladies who dated that guy.
Tell them i'm sorry for them
Here is my formula for eye-holding:
1/4 of a second= they don’t care about you in the slightest or possibly even don’t want your attention or feel uncomfortable.
1/3 of a second= pretty neutral
1/2 second= friendly and courteous
1 second= heartfelt, they probably care about you or are a caring and observant person.
1.5 seconds= they have noticed you. Probably the best flirting option in my opinion but it depends on the context.
2 seconds= they are definitely studying you. Possibly attracted to you. Not normal exactly but not creepy either.
Any longer than two seconds in my opinion is awkward and creepy.
His gaze for the three seconds had me going, "Where are the exits" after two. And I'm home.
Just gonna say, regarding "don't text" boy, I am not a man, and if the only texts I get from a man are trying to meet up, I'm gonna block a number. Texting is a great way to chat, and get to know people and generally keep up with one another, especially if you have severe anxiety issues around talking on the phone, which is extremely common in all gender groups.
The only reason he's "dating" at all is because he's paying
That last one had me giggling for a good while 😂
They're all headaches but that last one almost gave me an aneurysm 😣😵💫
"3-holes bro" be lookin' like he just found out Santa's not real. LOL
I'm convinced that I'm doing the right thing by staying away from these social media platforms. My brain is fried. By BP is sky rocketing, and my jaw is broken from the number of times it hit the floor.
My biggest pet peeve with these types of guys is how they almost always refer to women as 'girls'. We could give them the very dubious benefit of the doubt that they are targetting an audience so young that the term 'girls' really fits best, but like... just say 'woman'. It's not a bad word. Also the way the guy at 0:58 over enunciates his words drives me nuts. You're making a TikTok, not teaching proper pronunciation.
The guy that didn't seem to know how women's bodies work is just sad, and I fully blame the education system. I thought it might be scripted but he looked genuinely shocked and ashamed.
The "Puer Aeternus" is a legend in his own mind, but a blatant massive dating failure to anyone with eyes and ears.
"What do you do when...?" OK, the FIRST thing is to stop calling us girls. I'm a 49-year-old grown-arse WOMAN. So are the 29-year-olds. "Gals" is borderline and I'll allow it.
Such an interesting video you have created, and it’s great to see it coming from a happily married man. As a dating coach, I see so many coaches on TikTok, CZcams who don’t have a clue.
I never believed in the old adage: "Those who can't do, teach." Until now that is. These guys just......can't. They aren't giving advice on how to date, they're giving advice on how to take advantage of what they believe to be a lesser species. As a man I hate it when people like these pretend to speak for an entire gender. I hope they get canceled.
Keep on making your great content, prof!
Y'all... We need to be protecting our boys.
Our girls too, obviously. But we can't be letting our nephews, sons, etc turn into... _that_
I love that your page exists
I hate it when online guys say smth like “no text discussions, let’s only meet irl, only irl, I wanna see you in person”.
I read it like “I’m not interested in your personality and what you say, primarily I want to see how you look like so that we could move it or not move it to the bedroom”.
He's dated over a hundred women in the Philippines. Did any of these relationships not involve an exchange of cash for services?
I'm certain the answer is no 🤔
Super rapey vibe.
"Me see you now" startled a loud laugh outta me LOL!
I have never been so grateful to be more or less out of the dating POOL. Everyone so often i think it would be nice to go out with someone around my age but most of them are in nursing homes. Or they want to take their grandkids along on a date. The guys I enjoy talking to and enjoy talking to me are Are 30 years Younger. I like contemporary music and everything from the seventies and eighties. I Follow football and baseball. Love to read all kinds of stuff. Basically what I'm saying is we need to have you cloned.
I hope the Filipino police end up catfishing that last dude and put him away, the predatory vibes are too strong with that one
For some dating “coaches” it’s not clear, if they actually believe their shit or actively mislead their followers to have less competition in real life.
0:21 The fact that these guys always go straight to the violence-scaling angle - they _always_ head directly there, do not pass Go, do not collect $200 - alerts me that they would really _like_ to be able to legally strike women with uncalibrated force. If they show you that _that particular_ double-standard is the primary thing they're resentful of, they could not more clearly be indicating that they _desire_ that prerogative.
No-one gets so grumbly + thwarted over having something "unfairly" withheld from them that they didn't want anyway.
I was shook when the guy with the glasses at 4:20 said that he dated women. My gaydar was off the charts with that guy.
I have seen this several times and it somehow makes it’s way back into my feed. They make me sick each and every time.
Ahhhhh how refreshing is this channel 😍