How to PUSH during labor | Best positions to push baby out!

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  • čas přidán 15. 07. 2020
  • We've all watched that scene in any given movie where the mother is sweaty and screaming while pushing 3-4 times to deliver her baby, but what is that experience really like?!? How do you actually push at the end of your labor and get the baby out?!? This video covers that topic and so much more! Did you know there are actually positions that can help you get the baby out faster so you're not pushing for hours and hours?! Certain positions will help to open your pelvic outlet, so that the baby can rotate, come down and ultimately come out! On average first time mothers will push between 1-3hrs when delivering their first baby! Since I started implementing these positions as a labor and delivery nurse I have not had a mother push longer than about an hour! I've seen more vaginal deliveries and less situations where the mother pushes for hours and then either has to have a vacuumed delivery or go for a c-section. My goal is to give you mamas every opportunity to have the easiest and most enjoyable labor and delivery experience and I would hate after all the effort to get you to the point of pushing for the finale to end with you physically and mentally exhausted headed for a c-section. I want to equipped you to be proactive and empowered in your labor and delivery process! Go forth and push your baby into this world with confidence, less tearing, less operative deliveries and an easier recovery!

Komentáře • 936

  • @jaijaenious16
    @jaijaenious16 Před 3 lety +569

    Wow.. im watching this on the day before my delivery.. 😭 praying for a normal delivery.. pls pray for me..

    • @zubiafridi4247
      @zubiafridi4247 Před 3 lety +23

      Hi how was your delivery?

    • @echoverigan8825
      @echoverigan8825 Před 3 lety +10

      I’m praying for you and how was your delivery also I’m 29 weeks pregnant with twins and I’m due nov 21 2020

    • @veronica4652
      @veronica4652 Před 3 lety +4

      @@echoverigan8825 how are you 29 weeks due nov 21 if I’m 33 weeks due December 25? Should t you be due in January?

    • @veronica4652
      @veronica4652 Před 3 lety

      Is it because twins?

    • @veronica4652
      @veronica4652 Před 3 lety

      Wouldn’t you be like 30-31 weeks

  • @Michelle-oe7vr
    @Michelle-oe7vr Před 3 lety +138

    Great advice. I totally agree with you about asserting yourself about what position you want to be in. I gave birth to my first baby on all fours. It felt natural and opened everything up to let baby out, also no tear. Second baby came quicker and when i was ready to push the midwife and doctor started putting the stirrups in and I said "no I'm getting on my hands and knees like first time" and I just put myself in that position. They were a bit flustered but I didn't care because I was birthing my baby how I wanted. My partner was also supportive of what I wanted.

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +25

      Yes girl!!! You are the one birthing your baby! Everyone else is there to support you! Awesome job following your own needs!

    • @msllubin8
      @msllubin8 Před 2 lety +10

      U go girl...I originally started in all fours but was sooo exhausted I ended up on my back lol still got the natural birth I wanted 😎

    • @Wessica1234
      @Wessica1234 Před rokem +2

      GOOD JOB MICHELLE 👏 👏 👍 👌 🤣 😉 💪 👏 👍 👌 🤣

    • @Moshito_m
      @Moshito_m Před 6 měsíci

      My doctor said I don’t have a choice but to be on my back🙃

    • @dennisahlarson1584
      @dennisahlarson1584 Před 6 měsíci +7

      ​@@Moshito_mThrow the whole doctor away. You should push the way you want to. Not the doctor's choice. If the doctor does not respect your wishes on how to push, you have the right to fire them and ask for another doctor. 😊😊

  • @chauhuynh3705
    @chauhuynh3705 Před rokem +65

    38 weeks today. Wow this is the best demonstration on pushing, especially how you show this in a hospital setting. Thank you!

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před rokem +5

      You are so welcome! I'm definitely more of a visual learner, so I try to incorporate real settings whenever possible! Good luck to you!

    • @laurenbrim4012
      @laurenbrim4012 Před 2 měsíci

      I am so happy for you guys and I am so excited to meet my baby sister today

  • @ilamcdougal7121
    @ilamcdougal7121 Před 3 lety +61

    I’m 16 weeks pregnant, my baby boy is due November 2nd. I pray for a safe and easy birth🥰

  • @queenelizabee7246
    @queenelizabee7246 Před 3 lety +29

    Really helpful and encouraging. I’m having some anxiety rn not from thinking about labor just another mood swing. And this helped.

  • @a.g156
    @a.g156 Před 3 lety +445

    My due is nov 21 please pray for me to let it go fast and safe I’m a first time mom 😢

    • @bashar4678
      @bashar4678 Před 3 lety +20

      Mine is due 2nd nov and baby #2. Wish you all the best.

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +34

      I definitely will! And just to set up realistic expectations of a fast labor... Usually first time mom's labor on average 24hrs from start to finish, so if it takes a little longer than you were expecting please know that it's perfectly normal!

    • @saved0712nisha
      @saved0712nisha Před 3 lety +7

      I'm a first time biological mom as well. Becoming informed on the process is a positive step in the right direction. 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤👣👣

    • @FlourishAndDwell
      @FlourishAndDwell Před 3 lety +20

      You’ve got it! Once you’re in your 3rd trimester eat 6 dates daily and drink red raspberry leaf tea! Both are great for your uterus! I had a 5 hr labor with my first child and am praying for another speedy delivery for my second now that I’m 38wks!

    • @MannyFresh-wm2xc
      @MannyFresh-wm2xc Před 3 lety +2

      Using my boyfriends account but I’m due on the 28th and I’m terrified! This was helpful to learn different ways that can be comfortable for us thank you so much

  • @yanirivera9255
    @yanirivera9255 Před rokem +9

    The last option with the bar for delivery seems the best route. Thank you!

  • @nosiphoduma8356
    @nosiphoduma8356 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I am due next month with my first baby and have been intentionally watching a lot of content on exercises to do to prepare for labour and vids like this one which talk about the difference positions one can opt for. Thank you so much for such educational content. I will be delivering at my local clinic which does have a good facility, but I have been realising that I should find out how versed are they with the different pushing positions because generally we know of just the one where the mom lays on her back. Thanks so much for these, I am super nervous but I must say that these videos comfort me a lot 🙏🏽.

  • @lindawestby8490
    @lindawestby8490 Před rokem +32

    Watching this as a Grandma to be! I sent the video to my daughter who is due July 10th for her firstborn. I never had this type of instruction, so this is a blessing for my girl to birth her daughter. Thank you!

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před rokem

      You are so welcome! 😊🥰💕

    • @sheenvlogz6981
      @sheenvlogz6981 Před rokem

      Same here mine due is also in July

    • @newlymade.8774
      @newlymade.8774 Před rokem

      Same here...but trying a vbac...all the best to us

    • @makashaddaad297
      @makashaddaad297 Před rokem

      As a dad to be with a wife(1st time mother to be) in November, I sent it too to her. I found it helpful and am sure it will be supportive.

  • @katherineb715
    @katherineb715 Před rokem +41

    3rd pregnancy, 2 natural births no epidural by choice 😅. Breathing techniques works it really ease my pain. Everyone is different, I’m very in tune with my body so focused breathing and concentration worked wonders for me. I pushed both pregnancies within the hour. my doctor was like “my goodness Katherine you’re a beast 😂” she delivered both babies. Baby #3 same process it will be another natural birth no epidural 😂

    • @entertainmentzone9125
      @entertainmentzone9125 Před 11 měsíci

      I literally want to know how?

    • @cecep7477
      @cecep7477 Před 5 měsíci

      Geesh 😂

    • @foreignmailed1849
      @foreignmailed1849 Před 4 měsíci

      Pls share how to make it better 🙏

    • @winry1028
      @winry1028 Před 7 dny

      I’m on my 3rd pregnancy as well. First came out 30min after water broke, no epidural. Second had some difficulty and was induced, no epidural. Plans for the third are to once again have no epidural and hopefully 🤞🏼 an easier time birthing.

  • @yeseniawantsme101
    @yeseniawantsme101 Před 3 lety +5

    36 weeks here and I am ready, thanks for this info 😘😘

  • @simonewade1406
    @simonewade1406 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Watching this as a new labor and delivery nurse, this is so helpful! Thanks 💕

  • @denisem35
    @denisem35 Před 2 lety +24

    I'm due with my 3rd in about 2.5 weeks and I'm nervous as heck. Thank God I came across this video for different positions I had no idea about. Will be trying some since I want to avoid the epidural at all costs this time. Thanks for the video! So much information 😊

  • @chaeeee8466
    @chaeeee8466 Před 3 lety +50

    I loce how she explained everything. Well said... thanks

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +5

      Thank YOU! PS. Your nurse should be explaining things she's doing and if she's not then ask lots of questions! 👍🏼😘

    • @mosesla1861
      @mosesla1861 Před rokem

      Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

  • @paigenatasha1448
    @paigenatasha1448 Před 3 lety +91

    This is EXTREMELY helpful information! I’m due in April so I’m glad to see all these different positions to birth in. I was worried about having to birth strictly on my back, but my provider says I can birth however.

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +9

      Yes Mama, you can move however you need to in order to cope and follow what feels natural to you!

    • @kay8698
      @kay8698 Před 2 lety +7

      squatting is the best way or standing up

    • @aliviashepherd2994
      @aliviashepherd2994 Před 2 lety +1

      Wow congratulations

    • @julialicht46
      @julialicht46 Před 3 měsíci

      Look for legasi birth, There you See real birth.

  • @maydamayda1240
    @maydamayda1240 Před 3 lety +6

    I live in Sweden and i give birth before 2 weeks I use all this position and it helps a lot . Thank you so much karolinska hospital Stockholm I really appreciate all the hospital stuff ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @LifewithMiracleandLegend
    @LifewithMiracleandLegend Před 2 lety +16

    I’m very nervous about labor 🥺 I’m a first time mom. A lot going through my head. I’m due any day now🙌🏼💕 keep us in your prayers. And I pray I have a fast delivery

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 2 lety +3

      When you find your thoughts spiraling turn your focus to your breath. The sensation of your chest rising and falling. Go for a walk. Write down your thoughts, fears, concerns and then write down specifically what you want to happen. Once you do that, see what you can control and what you cannot. Write each thing you can't control on a separate sheet of paper. Read it then crumple it up and throw it away because you can't control it and therefore you have to let your mind let go of your grip on it. Let me know if that helps!

    • @janettvillegas3985
      @janettvillegas3985 Před 2 lety +1

      Congratulations, Omg same here I'm due until January 9, tell me how it goes.

    • @unknowninvisible2519
      @unknowninvisible2519 Před 2 lety

      How was it?

  • @osistar14
    @osistar14 Před rokem +10

    Really love this video. The hospital I’m giving birth at as the squat bar. No other birthing classes I took showed me how to use it! Two thumbs up!!

  • @lalulu03
    @lalulu03 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I gave birth to 4 children using breathing, relaxation and massage techniques between 1982 and 1999.
    These are the techniques I used- thank you.
    I'm a grandma now and advising my 2nd daughter on how to use these breathing and squatting techniques to deliver her 1st baby, who's due to arrive early February. Not long now! 🙏🏻
    Thank you for your video ❤❤

  • @shaysplace1879
    @shaysplace1879 Před 3 lety +53

    I’m currently 34 weeks. I’m due June 10th. This is my first pregnancy. As my due date approaches I’m getting more nervous 😩 praying for a safe delivery 🙏🏾🤍

    • @shadowishl5396
      @shadowishl5396 Před 3 lety +2

      Wishing you a speedy and safe delivery!

    • @V33Mukoko
      @V33Mukoko Před 3 lety +1

      I'm due 22nd and I tell you, the nerves are really kicking in. But not to worry, you both will surely make it out safe and sound. Sending my warm hugs 😍

    • @withnybabii
      @withnybabii Před 3 lety +2

      Due June 10th too! You got this!

    • @buskybb8125
      @buskybb8125 Před 2 lety +2

      Im also due june 10th but we induce my labor and im having a baby today, like right now😂😂, i hope you have a safe delivery🤗🤗

    • @poppy6635
      @poppy6635 Před 2 lety +1

      Today is June 10th!! Did you have your baby yet??

  • @valoxsen6003
    @valoxsen6003 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Oh shoot, and here I had thought that the squat was one of the best positions. I didn't know it increased the risk of tearing! I will try to aim for the hands and knees position, or anything other than directed pushing on my back. I'm only 21 weeks along, but all this is good to know early on!

  • @Birth4Men
    @Birth4Men Před 3 lety +16

    Great inputs, Haley. Mothers who has you as an attending nurse will be forever grateful to you. Teaching them to properly breathe through every contraction is a way to relax the muscles down there instead of tensing up. Babies come out whether mother will push or not. FER, fetal ejection reflex is baby's part of the birth process. This is possible when drugs are not administered though. So guiding them to breathe deep and long in every contraction instead of fighting the wave will help them progress faster actually than any drugs. Kudos to your heart for the mothers.

  • @ArryetLove
    @ArryetLove Před 3 lety +35

    Thank you! 34 weeks today. This helped a lot, because I was thinking about squatting but really don’t want to, so these positions showed me that there are more easier ways than laying down other than just squats.

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +4

      You are so welcome!!! Yes, girl! You have options! 🤗🥰😘

    • @drzenkobilas7770
      @drzenkobilas7770 Před 3 lety

      Would you consider viewing CZcams video 'The free birth of our twins'. The vertical position ensures any poo in mum's bowel falls way to the ground, maintaining sterility of the opening to the birth canal. Avoiding tearing and cutting by 'Birth Canal Widening' to 10cm diameter prior to birth, by Aniball, Epi-no Delphine Plus birth facilitating devices or finger tips (Wikipedia UK 'Perineal Massage') or visit my CZcams channel. Thank you.

  • @miagirl531
    @miagirl531 Před 10 měsíci +5

    Currently 39 weeks and 2 days with my first baby and starting to get super nervous about labor and delivery :D this was really helpful! Thank you!

    • @Seddy22
      @Seddy22 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Had everything gone smoothly?

  • @melaniegrooms6556
    @melaniegrooms6556 Před 3 lety +5

    Hahahaha I love how you described the doctor coming in. That's great 🤣

  • @mmhh5579
    @mmhh5579 Před 3 lety +38

    I’m 39 weeks and 1 day. Can’t wait to get to this point!! This video is really helpful, thank you ❤️

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +1

      Congratulations!! You are SO close!!! 💞😍😘 And you are so welcome!!!

    • @cecep7477
      @cecep7477 Před 5 měsíci

      Did you do these techniques if so did they help?

  • @pattygiron-jones6930
    @pattygiron-jones6930 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you so much ladies!!

  • @o0xXxstaceyo0xXx
    @o0xXxstaceyo0xXx Před 2 měsíci +1

    Im 35 weeks and a day wuth my first and very anxious about the birth especially with my lack of movement due to my health issues. This video has been very informative and has shown me positions i didnt even know about, i only really knew of the first and the kneeling one and i know i definitely cant do the first. But the side one where you had your knees together but feet apart and possibly the kneeling one i may actually be able to do. So this has eased one of my anxieties relating to birth. So thank you for this video 😊

  • @meippoliti
    @meippoliti Před 2 lety +25

    I’m due with my 7th baby and I’ve had everything from hospital, water birth, home birth, posterior, to c-section with my 6th almost 6 years ago because of being breach.
    Now going for a VBAC at a hospital with a supportive team that will even deliver breach. Your videos have been very helpful! I tried spinning babies to flip my baby, but he would not budge. My other babies would always change from transverse to head down in active labor.
    Even though I am trained in birth education, your calmness, tips, and the reassurance that mother has the choice is incredibly comforting/helpful. Thank you for the great videos!

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 2 lety +3

      🥰💞😘 Thank YOU so much for that wonderful feedback!!! If you feel like the baby has flipped to head down or your provider does an external cephalic version and flips the baby, manually manipulating the baby by using ultrasound and hands on your belly, then wear a postpartum band (obviously a larger size than what you would need postpartum) to try to keep baby from flipping back to breach. Wishing you the best of luck Mama because you can absolutely do it!!!

    • @TheFamousMastersons
      @TheFamousMastersons Před 2 lety +1

      Great video. The lithotomy position is what I do during all my births. It feels good lifting my legs up while I push. With all the pushing you did in the lithotomy position, surprised ur water didn't break & the baby didn't crown

    • @queenaries8542
      @queenaries8542 Před 2 lety

      I love this video I am going into labor I am 40 weeks pregnant

    • @queenaries8542
      @queenaries8542 Před 2 lety

      I am having my baby boy tomorrow

    • @kangwamfula7521
      @kangwamfula7521 Před 2 lety +1

      7th baby!!! You’re really strong. Congratulations on number 7!!

  • @reginawilliams891
    @reginawilliams891 Před 2 lety +3

    Yes this is very helpful for me I'm a first time Mom I'm due in September 11

  • @kassandraavitua1246
    @kassandraavitua1246 Před 3 lety +1

    Love this ❤ i will definitely use these positions when i give birth 🤰❤

  • @AllAboutVina
    @AllAboutVina Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much i never knew there where other positions i could push im currently 16weeks day 3 with my second baby

  • @LiLisWorld_91
    @LiLisWorld_91 Před 2 lety +80

    This was very helpful and I never knew it was other positions besides the 1st. I’m 20 weeks with my 2nd baby but getting more educated this time since I’m a adult (was a teen with my 1st). Thank you for this video ❤️

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 2 lety +8

      You are so welcome! Congratulations! Education is so important, but make sure you're getting it from the right resources because the internet has a lot of misinformation out there! Check out www.spinningbabies.com and www.evidencebasedbirth.com

    • @irinaberseneva9635
      @irinaberseneva9635 Před rokem +2

      ​@@PregnancyBirthParenting101 Really sorry for the question, but... What if a woman makes umm... poop while standing her bum to the doctor's face? What will the doctor catch instead of a baby? It really bothers me 😞😞😞

    • @RichellePinsonBuddy
      @RichellePinsonBuddy Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@irinaberseneva9635one of the nurses I believe will come and clean up the poop, It's nothing to worry about, what to worry about is if your baby poops while you giving birth to it while it's still in the birth canal. I'm not an expert this is what I have learned from experienced mother's.

    • @rjames1425
      @rjames1425 Před 6 měsíci

      @@irinaberseneva9635 you can ask for an enema. Doctors don’t give it today, but they used to when my mom was delivering children. Knowing that I asked for one before contractions were bad. Knowing you’re clear of poo helps you to feel better knowing you’re pushing just the baby out.

    • @cecep7477
      @cecep7477 Před 5 měsíci

      Same here lol

  • @twilamanuel6542
    @twilamanuel6542 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you!!! I’m 38 1/2 weeks with my second and was not told about any of these besides the 1st position.

  • @lynnellebenallie802
    @lynnellebenallie802 Před 3 lety +10

    Great video I’ll try and use one of these positions. I’ll be a first time mom and my due date is February 8th of 2021. My husband and I are both very excited to meet our baby girl. 🤗❤️🤰🏻👧👣🎀

  • @emilycapusan9783
    @emilycapusan9783 Před 3 lety +11

    helpful info!
    delivering my 2nd child in 4 weeks, and scared 💩less. I think I have PTSD from the first delivery. and my 1st was a dream delivery! 5 hour labor 20 minute pushing. but still OUCHY, went all natural.

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety

      Wow, that's amazing!!! Just remember to focus on your breath whenever you feel sensations that feel overwhelming in your body. You got this!! 😘👍🏼💗💞

  • @letsgoalready5515
    @letsgoalready5515 Před rokem +5

    Due in April and already feeling pressured to do it on my back.. I think it would be better as a 1st time mom to use gravity to my advantage like you did in the video. I’ll just have to be louder about it.

  • @RitaGreen
    @RitaGreen Před 3 lety +34

    I'm doing embryo adoption. Praying we conceive through this miracle. And why I'm already looking at delivery videos is beyond me 😂

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +6

      Because you are excited and having faith that it will work! All good things! 🙏🏼💞😘

    • @RitaGreen
      @RitaGreen Před 3 lety +2

      @@PregnancyBirthParenting101 Amen to that! I'm looking forward to checking out more of your videos. Thank you!

    • @doyouhearthepeoplesing2
      @doyouhearthepeoplesing2 Před rokem

      That is wrong on so many levels

  • @iamkamarla
    @iamkamarla Před rokem

    I am 39 weeks, 2 days pregnant and i am so nervous. Thank you so much for the info and demonstration it's
    really helpful.

  • @sanyunorah4297
    @sanyunorah4297 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for the lesson

  • @miriamcontreras8489
    @miriamcontreras8489 Před 3 lety +3

    This was extremely informative! Thank you

  • @mrsbokwriter
    @mrsbokwriter Před 3 lety +15

    Thanks, Haley! I'm writing a novel and needed some information on the birthing process (since my births were c-sections). Your descriptions were excellent! The book is scheduled for a Fall 2022 release. Let me know how I did.

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +1

      I'd love to get a copy to read! 💞💗

    • @mosesla1861
      @mosesla1861 Před rokem

      Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

  • @tymom9313
    @tymom9313 Před rokem +1

    Wish my nurse was more like you! My hospital experiences have not been great!

  • @MsInescruz
    @MsInescruz Před 19 dny

    This video was very helpful, as I'm due in 3 weeks and my doctor doesn't seem to be very receptive of non-traditional positions, but I think I can suggest certain compromises that I've seen here so we can both be more comfortable.

  • @breannatatel_
    @breannatatel_ Před 3 lety +19

    Currently 35 weeks with our 5th, I’m super ready for L&D as you can imagine. I personally have loved all my nurses I had while in labor, ya’ll are super hero’s.

  • @rosesankey6100
    @rosesankey6100 Před 3 lety +11

    Thank you for the video! I'm super nervous already 😜 27 weeks left to go 😁 Fun fact tho, my last born is going to be 17 soon. This is going to be #5☺️. Such a blessing and a surprise

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +1

      You are so welcome! That's the best kind of surprise! Congratulations!!! And I bet that 17yr old will be a lot of help!

    • @simplebloxfruits7837
      @simplebloxfruits7837 Před 2 lety

      Well it’s probably been out I hope u and ur family are happy and it’s a blessing to have kids every kid is beautiful

    • @mphokhumalo6122
      @mphokhumalo6122 Před 2 lety

      Me & you same whatsapp group my first born is 15 years already n m sooh nevours ☺️☺️☺️

    • @mosesla1861
      @mosesla1861 Před rokem

      Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

  • @arpithajain8472
    @arpithajain8472 Před 8 měsíci

    Thank you.❤

  • @bungarosmastura409
    @bungarosmastura409 Před rokem

    thank you for sharing this .i'm two times deliver my baby using technic position to the left and I push baby out when contraction... it's really help me ..I also two time incomplete misscariage...now I'm 41 and pregnancy 10w... please pray for me I hope I can deliver soon safely....

  • @saved0712nisha
    @saved0712nisha Před 3 lety +9

    Thanks for sharing. I'm trying to prepare myself and this has helped me alot.

  • @nonnielove2238
    @nonnielove2238 Před 3 lety +3

    Im gonna be 22 weeks tomorrow and this is helpful for im a first time mom. Im nervous though and hope that the birth is short and easy

  • @eminegulceozel
    @eminegulceozel Před 2 lety +1

    Amazingly helping video! Thank you🙏💕💐

  • @Ayecuzzo_
    @Ayecuzzo_ Před 11 měsíci

    Amazing I'm pregnant wit my second one n praying for a healthy n safe delivery

  • @shernellebertin4405
    @shernellebertin4405 Před 3 lety +4

    I am 32 weeks, and I am nervous about the pain and not knowing what and how to take control. I felt you were talking to me from the position where you faced the bed, held on and push and as well as the squat bar. I will be asking my Dr. at my next visit, if they have that in the hospital room. Thanks this was really informative, especially because you are pregnant , and in the field and very clear explanation. Thanks 🥰

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +1

      Girl, YOU GOT THIS!! Trust your body and know that on the other side of each contraction is a nice break!

  • @offgridaz22
    @offgridaz22 Před 3 lety +5

    Being a first time and this video appeared on CZcams I want to say it was very helpful and I didn’t know there were a lot of positions for delivery

  • @abegailraman6752
    @abegailraman6752 Před 2 lety +2

    This is very helpful! I'm on 31st wk and a first time mom too!

  • @fariaiqbal4568
    @fariaiqbal4568 Před rokem +1

    Wow. This is so inspiring!❣️

  • @thefryinator7774
    @thefryinator7774 Před rokem +4

    I'm due April 25 with my first!! I'm just barely 7months/28weeks! This is so helpful to get to see. I've definitely been wondering about being able to squat for my birth. Seeing this video is awesome

    • @jessicaunderwood-cox575
      @jessicaunderwood-cox575 Před rokem +1

      due April 23rd, also video did really help a lot as I've heard people say some labour and delivery nursers only allowing to push on there back

    • @thefryinator7774
      @thefryinator7774 Před rokem

      @@jessicaunderwood-cox575 yeah, I haven't done a ton of research, so idk if my sources are the best, but I've seen a doctor or two say that lying on your back is one of the worst positions to be spending majority of labor in

  • @alishajennings2013
    @alishajennings2013 Před 2 lety +9

    When I was in labor my SIL brought my son to the ER and my husband walked down to be with him until he went back home. So I was laboring alone for a few hours and at one point I was leaning on the head of the bed and the nurse came in to up my pitocin and she kind of mumbled but I still heard her. She said "oh great, one of THOSE MOMS" I looked at her and asked what the heck that was suppose to mean. She looked at me with a shocked/surprised look. I told her she wasn't my nurse anymore. She said there wasn't anymore nurses available. Then I told her I'd take no nurse over her and that she wasn't allowed back in my room. I was going to leave a review, but I wasn't in labor for long and had such amazing post partum nurses that I wasn't thinking about it when I left and I had forgotten her name.
    If she had asked I would've told her that I was having alot of back pain and leaning forward helped a little.

  • @mikat6026
    @mikat6026 Před 6 měsíci

    This is so helpful!! Thank you🙏

  • @Theecamille
    @Theecamille Před 3 lety +8

    i'm currently 6 months pregnant with my first baby and this video was really helpful and detailed, because i will be so nervous once that day come😩.

  • @ashne9889
    @ashne9889 Před 3 lety +196

    Yes this was very helpful but I am still scared shitless 😩

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +23

      Girl, you GOT THIS!!! Know that you are fully capable of doing this and that your body was made for it!!!

    • @arnoldotrejo5178
      @arnoldotrejo5178 Před 3 lety

      I’m not going to have a baby it hurts

    • @Forevermally
      @Forevermally Před 3 lety +5

      Girl I’m 10 weeks pregnant and I’m feeling the same way. 😭😩

    • @Mmolesy
      @Mmolesy Před 3 lety +11

      😂😂
      Pregnant with bub #11 here. I've found on my hands and knees made Labor a LOT easier. But every woman is different.
      My tips are:
      1. Remember your body was built for this. Yes, it'll hurt. But only for a short time in the scheme of things. We have extremely good medical care only a call away.
      2. Breathe slowly and try to relax as much as you can. Breathing too rapidly will wear you out faster and increases your risk of needing intervention. (Forceps, vacuum etc)tensing up your body will also wear you out more quickly and increase your pain. Gas and air can be a great way to help you have something to focus on other than the pain.
      3. Choose carefully who you want in the room with you when you give birth. The last thing you probably need is umpteen people in the room,tension or arguments breaking out. Don't be afraid to leave people out if they have the ability to make you tense up.
      4. While I recommend trying to give birth without pain meds, don't be a hero. If you are struggling to cope with the pain, it's ok. You're not a failure or less of a woman, speak up!
      5. Be kind to your partner and the medical professionals looking after you. While it's difficult, some of these medics have delivered hundreds of babies and have learnt a thing or two. Try and listen to their instructions and follow through. But speak up if something doesn't feel right. And as for your birth partner, husband's etc. Often they can't stand to see you in pain and don't know how to respond. 😊

    • @echoverigan8825
      @echoverigan8825 Před 3 lety +4

      I am 39 weeks pregnant and ya I agree and I’m still scared shitless

  • @vanessarichard726
    @vanessarichard726 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing! This is very informative. My due will be on April 5, 2021. Thanks

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety

      Congratulations!! That's right around the corner! 💗🙏🏼👍🏼

    • @mosesla1861
      @mosesla1861 Před rokem

      Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

  • @elisemarks1761
    @elisemarks1761 Před 3 lety +1

    thank you

  • @britneygehrts722
    @britneygehrts722 Před 3 lety +8

    I am one of the lucky women who can push babies out no problem. My first pregnancy, my water broke at 1:15 AM and my daughter was born at 3:34 AM. I didn't have any contractions until my water broke and they started at 3 minutes apart. The Doctor barely made it into the room in time, but the L&D staff was amazing! I'd definitely recommend having a birth plan printed out so you can just relax and focus on your delivery with minimal interruptions. Also have a couple back up plans in place, just in case things dont go as planned.

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +2

      You are what we in the field call a unicorn 🦄!!! Every now and then we see a first time Mama have this experience and it's so amazing! However, it's not the norm. Most first time Mama's are in labor from start to finish for 24hrs on average.

    • @8-BitPlayz
      @8-BitPlayz Před rokem

      @@PregnancyBirthParenting101Hi! When I turn like 20-25 years I’ll get pregnant

  • @lindsyparra
    @lindsyparra Před 3 lety +16

    29 weeks first pregnancy and twin girls 😭I was thinking of doing the squatting good to know I should lay off towards the end to prevent excessive extreme tearing

  • @lysalscott
    @lysalscott Před 3 lety +1

    I really really really really love your video''💕

  • @kirandeep5744
    @kirandeep5744 Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you to make this video,,, I have also delivery few days now only, plz pray for me I could do this, 😊

  • @AKfamily71522
    @AKfamily71522 Před rokem +4

    I had my 4th baby 3days ago but I couldn't push lying on my back so I decided to push while on knees 2min push the baby was out because it was my baby my body with the support of oxygen. So far was the best decision I made happy with my son and some stiches

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před rokem +1

      Way to listen to your body and advocate for yourself!!! And congratulations on the birth of your sweet baby!

  • @kywoodrd1
    @kywoodrd1 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank you for this super helpful video!!! Expecting baby #2 in 8 weeks and planning for a VBAC!!!

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +8

      Get it girl!!! I just had a vaginal birth after 2 c-sections! Spinning babies (link below) is a great resource and if you scroll down past the decision making part you'll get to videos and ways to help increase your chances of a successful VBAC!!! spinningbabies.com/learn-more/vbac/

  • @jemillaabu-yusuf1720
    @jemillaabu-yusuf1720 Před rokem

    Beautiful presentation of how to push

  • @michellelopez5595
    @michellelopez5595 Před 3 lety +29

    40 weeks today ! My first pregnancy 🤰🏻 So anxious to meet him . These look good positions for first time mommy’s 😭😩

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +3

      Happy due date mama!!!! 💞❤️🥰😘

    • @mosesla1861
      @mosesla1861 Před rokem

      Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

    • @HannHio-kv1ky
      @HannHio-kv1ky Před 8 měsíci

      Weirdo

  • @umuinara9113
    @umuinara9113 Před 3 lety +5

    My daughter is 6month labor is very painful but when it comes to push time you will push hard onces you hear here is the baby that the most beautiful moment may God easy for all the pregnant mothers

  • @queenaries8542
    @queenaries8542 Před 2 lety +3

    Hi I am 23 and you helped me a lot

  • @HappyMonday777
    @HappyMonday777 Před rokem

    That’s really helpful Thank You xx

  • @pretty1ofgermany813
    @pretty1ofgermany813 Před 2 lety +1

    This is so helpful

  • @deeyakhanal111
    @deeyakhanal111 Před 3 lety +68

    I m 38weeks pregnant😭😭😭😭😭scared so much😭😭😭n its my 1st pregnancy

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +10

      You got this Mama!!! Just take it one day, one moment or one contraction at a time! And think about holding your sweet baby in your arms at the end of it all! 🤱

    • @nayellycasillas7453
      @nayellycasillas7453 Před 3 lety +3

      I’m pregnant with my second baby boy
      I’m getting induced for the second time In two weeks and I’m still scared/nervous
      But you got this momma and congratulations

    • @echoverigan8825
      @echoverigan8825 Před 3 lety +4

      I am a mom of 2 and soon to be a mom of 4. I am pregnant with twins and I’m due on nov 21st and I’m scared but we all know it will be ok.

    • @Shahzainhassan412
      @Shahzainhassan412 Před 3 lety +2

      Mine too.i dnt knw wat will happen.😭😭 i m 38 weeks nd 5 days pregnant

    • @echoverigan8825
      @echoverigan8825 Před 3 lety +1

      Guys I have had 1 false labor but idk if this one is real but I feel contractions.

  • @helperal8802
    @helperal8802 Před 2 lety +4

    I wonder why the doctors and the nursing stuff never mention about these different positions. At least they should also guide in the same manner.
    Very informational 👍🏻

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 2 lety +2

      They're not all trained in them unfortunately

    • @mejnyle168
      @mejnyle168 Před 9 měsíci

      Because supine position is the only position they are comfortable with in monitoring the babies. 🥺

  • @shampidas9148
    @shampidas9148 Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks 🙏

  • @benazirshaikh7454
    @benazirshaikh7454 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you this will help me and I will deliver baby normally

  • @iveyknight3140
    @iveyknight3140 Před 3 lety +13

    “...your mailman, whoever!” 😂 I loved that!

  • @Bimbo20
    @Bimbo20 Před 2 lety +4

    Lol that looks so easy I’m still so nervous though I’m due in May with my second baby. My first one was c section I had no pain at all throughout the process until later when I got out of the hospital. But this one I want to be natural and I’m chickening out lol I got this I know but I’m too small and is just too much comments that don’t help at all.
    Good luck to all mommy’s to be 🥰

    • @mosesla1861
      @mosesla1861 Před rokem

      Hi baby how are you doing now i hope you are really doing good you are awesome looking at you baby makes happy when I look at your picture it is beyond my imagination that a creature like you really exist like a rose you make the garden so beautiful You are a diamond to any man that have eyes to see goodness of a womanhood Baby am Ben easy going person very understandable Am a civil engineer and a contractor I work at so many places like Asia Europe and Africa I love art craft and I write music I like ideal people when I see your picture am impress I want a good woman that understand what real love is all about who will understand me and perfectly be for me So we can build our world strong enough to care for each other I want you to be mine and I hope to hear from you soonest thanks

  • @shirleypatterson2786
    @shirleypatterson2786 Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks

  • @PeninahEsther3550
    @PeninahEsther3550 Před rokem

    Well explained

  • @anmolpari4429
    @anmolpari4429 Před 3 lety +10

    I'm 33 weeks and 4 days today, due date is 25 December and 2nd time mum after 10 years , I'm so nervous
    Please pray for me.

  • @karlasilva3681
    @karlasilva3681 Před 3 lety +4

    Thanks a lot for all the info i need to know about pushing! I’m 3months preggy and i will apply all of those when it’s time to push!

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety

      Congratulations!! You are so welcome!! 🥰😘

    • @jackieesther2447
      @jackieesther2447 Před 7 měsíci

      Thanks for that information dear am 4months pregnant waiting for that day to come.

    • @chatgpt4135
      @chatgpt4135 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@PregnancyBirthParenting101But in my country, doctor coerce to lay flat on table and bend knees, and even lay a long 'Fabric sheet on belly till knees' ony gynac can see our parts from other end while we are coerced to lay flat and look at ceiling whole time and not question anything, doctor only puts hands inside our birth canal, does not tell us anything abt pushing or baby progress instead lock our feet in stirrup and 'Strongly press belly unnaturally some kind of painful fundus pressure', pull baby, cut our vag with scissor and do all medical procedure directly on other end tge moment we lay flat on bed upon their coercion, that We cannot see progress of baby crowining, they will scold us, and shout with abusive vulgar words about our sexuality if we demand autonomy and self-dignity
      Women here think that doctors pull out babies from women's still body, and not know that woman can do hard work to eject baby, when I say women need to move in labor to faciitate baby moving down canal, even 'Doctors' show disbelief, forgwt abt mother

  • @mirjammnwadigo6358
    @mirjammnwadigo6358 Před rokem

    Thank you ☺️

  • @Pak2Germany
    @Pak2Germany Před rokem

    Thanks for all the moves 🤣😂

  • @ruthmulugeta818
    @ruthmulugeta818 Před 3 lety +3

    Cool thanks for sharing. My due is on February 2021....some how excited.

  • @misssweetpeachez
    @misssweetpeachez Před 3 lety +6

    1st time mama here. Due next week.. lol scared of tearing especially severe tearing... so i want to make sure I'm understanding this, you recommend side pushing the most to prevent tearing? So the old school on your back with legs up, or squatting is more likely to tear the perineum? Thank you for all the information

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety +2

      Squatting once you're crowning is more likely to cause more tearing, but is a great position to help get to that point and then you could be on your back or side to actually deliver. Being on your back doesn't increase the likelihood of tearing. Being on your side helps to open the exterior pelvis, so you make more room for baby to move down and under the pelvic bone and at that point you can turn to your back if you want because the hardest part of pushing is getting the baby under the pelvic bone.

    • @drzenkobilas7770
      @drzenkobilas7770 Před 3 lety

      Cochrane Collaborate of specialist from around the globe produced a Report and advised painless 'Birth Canal Widening' to 10cm prior to birth, which should be achieved gradually and painlessly with birth facilitating devices 'Aniball' - Birth Canal Widening to 10cm diameter Wanda Klaman first baby 4.4kg born normally no episiotomy, 'EPi-no Delphine Plus' or using finger tips as described by Oxford (Wikipedia UK 'Perineal Massage') using the Plastic Surgeon's technique called 'skin tissue expansion' over 6-8 days. CZcams video 'Opening Doors For Baby to 10cm' is on my CZcams channel. Please view and share.

  • @liuci19
    @liuci19 Před rokem +1

    If you have an epidural, is it possible to do the hands and knees and the squat position?

  • @RichellePinsonBuddy
    @RichellePinsonBuddy Před 8 měsíci

    Im coming up on 22 weeks pregnant with my third and watching your videos to help me to be prepared on what my options would be in a hospital and I know every hospital is going to have different rules like I can only birth my child on my back but they will allow me to move around before and while labor is happening and they will allow me to have a birthing ball so thats good but I still need practice on the birthing ball cause I haven't used one before but still want to try it on this round.

  • @randoms8105
    @randoms8105 Před 3 lety +4

    This is very helpful but with my anxiety I can't see myself feeling better 😭😂am 18weeks today and am freaking out ash

  • @tevans5929
    @tevans5929 Před 3 lety +4

    I am almost halfway to d-day and I want to have a natural birth on my own terms. I have scoliosis however not to the extent that I would need a c-section. What position would you recommend

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 3 lety

      Any of these positions! And here's something I think you might find helpful 🤗😘. www.spinningbabies.com/scoliosis-and-spinning-babies/

  • @streamzwtf6508
    @streamzwtf6508 Před 3 lety

    thank you so much this video was very helpful! :)

  • @kgsweets2000
    @kgsweets2000 Před 3 lety +1

    thank you for this video.

  • @ReadalongswithChelsea
    @ReadalongswithChelsea Před 3 lety +4

    Question... does the side position work for first time moms? This is my first, I’m 27 weeks 😊 thanks so much for this video!

  • @erinarmstrongmusic
    @erinarmstrongmusic Před 2 lety +8

    You should not hold your breath when pushing. This can cause tearing and damage to pelvic floor. Breath through pushing.

    • @PregnancyBirthParenting101
      @PregnancyBirthParenting101  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you for your comment. Are you a pelvic floor specialist?!? If so, I'd love to pick your brain and collaborate!

  • @alyxxrose3956
    @alyxxrose3956 Před 3 lety +1

    Tysm for this i always thought how do u push the baby out?

  • @shi9288
    @shi9288 Před 3 lety +8

    Omg I would love u to be my L&D nurse !

  • @hamdimohamed6625
    @hamdimohamed6625 Před 3 lety +3

    I wish someone tell me before then it would be very help