Why Silence Makes Your Ex Come Back
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In today's video, you'll learn why silence makes your ex return to you after a breakup.
After our breakup, we all want to talk to our ex and make sure we can communicate together. But when you do that, you're showing your ex that you are becoming needy. Silence is so powerful, because you can ignore your ex, and this is what human beings hate the most.
We don't like to be ignored - even negative attention is better than no attention. Showing silence is what turns the tables around on your ex. Watch this video to learn more reasons why silence actually makes your ex come back!
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I want to just go away on my own and start a new life. Not because I am expecting anything to change but just for me to heal. I wish I could do that.
Silence is gold
No contact can give me work on myself in my own way.. Not expecting them to reach out.
Silence is a very powerful tool
That doesn't work on guys that sleep around. All guys don't want commitment. They want lot of bed warmers.
Maybe ex will come back maybe not but one is sure they will respect you as person as someone strong who is not depend on anyones attention.
The silence is deafening but it is also speaking volumes.... I'm done. It's me time. Happy .However he is, is not my affair đ
The first thing you should be silent after breakup is to help you move on.
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I left him.....I don't regret it and I don't want him Back.
I had Enough.
Both sides as a human will choose silence, then what????? Who is going to beg?
Better to move on and wait for the right man!!!
It's hard to move on sometimes and with the right actions it's possible to get someone you love back.
It's been 2 months he came back were talking again we both apologized
His voice is so soothing.
Great video. I followed your advice three years ago and never had any contact with my ex ever again. Now she has a one-year-old child.đ
Indortunately, you are one of the exceptionsâŠbut Life is not finished yetâŠ
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This is very true I was quiet on my ex for months and suddenly he called
Over the years i have learnt to be silent.never fight back.blocked no more calls following up.
He Ghosted me went back to his ex had a baby what I'm I suppose to do with that ?? Ghost him back and focus on myself Love myself I come first I've learned a valuable Lesson. SELF LOVE is the best Love đ
I don't know that I have it in me anymore. Sometimes the only winning move is NOT to play
No body with a self value wants the same again
Depends on the situation
If you ever loved at all? You must be a taster...
Again and again, marrying ...a new wife each time something goes wrong?
Garbage comment.
Not the same, evolve, an evolve version of you
You take her, she has known where I've been for 22 years,
true silence really works
Thank you for watching, Shuwisai.
Coach Alex
Hahaha, i did this almost 1 week and he start to calling me and texting me with lots of loveđ€Łđ Now he is mineđȘđ»đđ»đ€Ł
Itâs so true go no contact itâs been a month Iâm not calling or texting being silent with him
Me too.
Silence is Golden
I have given the silent treatment for 10 months.. It's a little harder to have zero communication because we have children together, so... I don't know what else to do... He knows I look after myself... I've gone on holiday and posted and everything else...
I told him that I will never take him back so I doubt he will try to again in the future
I told this numerous times to my ex he still tries!! For years now. But I don't love him anymore because he cheated on me at the beginning. If they really want you nothing you say will stop them
Pray for me coz i need her
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Coach Adrian
Not only exs can be anyone
Woow...I think all of this can happen when he is not in a new relationship....No .contact and silence take most of them away...
The best way is to move on
Which is difficult...
But surely what did not kill you will surely makes you strong.......
Thought of that too...kinda no room for him to feel anything if he is in a relationship. My case for instance he broke up with me since i wasnt ready to start a family. But he broke up at the same time some few days before break up we had plans of starting a family now! So now he has another woman who he claims she is pregnant
We're on a break right now. Have known each other for 6 yrs. We are both in our 70's so I don't have alot time to wait. I hope he calls.
Even he just say that we dont had a chance. Because he dont want me anymore..
Thank you for reaching out. Please take a look at this article, it will be helpful to you.
www.withmyexagain.com/blog/is-my-relationship-over-forever/
Coach Alex
What if he is seeing someone, after 4 1/2 years he walked out.. my silence has worked to some extent cos now he does not know anything going on in my life. I miss him dearly and pray for a miracle
Silence can be very noise.
My silence pushed my crush away even though he started his cold shoulder treatment. Oh well.
I dont think so, cuz shes talking to someone now đ
4 years I have been silent on my ex husband and just the other day I called to check him coz of Corona shit,his voice was shaking babe come home please &am well.đ
Good information but, I will never want him back, I left for a reason.
So true Silence good ideas.
Yes I believe the power of silence .....
I lost my love last few months so please please please pray for me his come back
Why do you want your ex, back in your life.their out of your life for you to move forward.,"word of wisdom ".
You are very good Alex. You really do know what you are talking about. Soraya x
Thank you, Soraya!
Coach Alex
That applies if you donât have any kids with them đ€·đœââïž
But no contact it's hard because I HV tried it, but I get attempted to text him. However sometimes I Text him and he ignores me. But currently I admitted to give up on him. though every day he is always on my mind. But I will be fine
Scrapped it yesterday night. Total silence now!!
Wow. Silence is gold.
Silence really it works
Silence is good but if he came back would not take him back because if he loved you he wouldn't of left in the first place! Single now and maybe one day a real man will love me!
Tanks a lot coach we are now together coz of your advices it works for me
There is no meaning coming back only for a while..then gone again
Lol I love ur accent..no contact rule 4days in ...so done. God has a plan for all of us & if dey walk away..let them go. Thank u for this video..needed to remember doing the right thing.
She ditched me for an ugly tomboy, OMG, i begged i cried. I am picking up myself now. i hate myself for doing that last yr.
I will stay away from love .
Sir I'm from MANIPUR but I'm very near to you because of your valuable messages to me.I like đ it â€
Don't want him back, because within 2 months, he got a new girlfriend. No one can see his face and say that he was in 5 years of relationship before
Such men don't make good husbands. You dodged a bullet sister
Guys plz pray for me that me and my ex getting back together.. I still welling take the risk and I changing myself just for her..
Y havenât I seen this video for long. Thanks for this video that is what am actually doing now. But if I lose him a better one than him is coming.
Thanks sir for the advice it worked and we are now together
Sometime I tell myself I'm not good enough or I'm ugly..because I give my all n it never enough.
I love the silence and quiet no more lies and acting no more love Bombing no more gaslighting or pretendingđ no more using my money from my bank account like it was all yours and not mine in the first place! No more Contact with dishonest narcissistic people who i unfortunately used to know! đđ
My ex finally unblocked me in wa. After 4 month. And after pray everyday. I hopefully this is good sign for us.
I tried no contact before and I guess I was the percentage that it didnt work with. Now I need to try it again.
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Coach Alex
I broke up with my ex but I am the one who is.hurt.I suffered depression, anxiety .He is very mad at me
I love you Alex you are the best i will surely apply this from Africa....i watch most of your videos and i learned a lotâ€
I learn a lot to your videos Coach Alex may God bless you
None of these videos comply with my ex...aint no way her hard headed ass will come back
Itâs hard to do no contact when you have kids together đ€ŠđŒââïž
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My boyfriend broke up with me over the weekend,He didnât tell me why but he just came to say it will be for the best.Just yesterday,I missed one call from him but he hasnât called again and I havenât called back either.
I want him back but I donât know what to do
I am listening from Kolkata in India
I believe at least I found my self from this
being needy is incurable
No contact donât work
Silence is your best friend...đ
Absolutely!
My ex came back and expected physical contact but I want him to be committed to me so I didn't go ahead in that expectation. So he said if we both are away from first marriage by divorce then v can think about future like that. But right now I want him with me and tell he is there for me.
I am at no contact period now for 12 days
Update soonâ€ïž
Sending you lots of positivity, Indah!
Coach Alex
She just texted me earlier today after 9 days of NC and said she had found my passport. Asked me if I want to go over or she could bring it to me. Also, asked how I am doing. I replied and kept it very brief saying I will go over and that I am okay and hope she is too.
Men just want to keep her from sleeping w someone else. Once u accept it's gonna happen u can let go easier .
yooh!!cracked the code
I av learnt dat silence is the best medicine am suffering it now he told me he want a break up i started begging him he didn't reply de reason for breaking up wat he said is only he is tired
What if he is confused and a coward? Will no contact still work? Will he still come back to me?
Doesn't it depend on the reason for the breakup?
I have tried it several times. Never worked. Women just moved on.
I think its true any matter happens if you silent the people shoud think many question in her / his mind what is your plan what you have now maybe you are happy and of course he or she got jealous,being silince many things can be question in mind ,,,
And if they are already talking to someone else?
Excellent brother thanks for sharing đđđđđđđđ
Thank you for watching. I appreciate your kind words!
Coach Alex
this channel saved me
Silence donât work if u have kids together đ©
My ex does not comebk during my total silence.. He got new after .. Though he said always he was broken hearted due to me.. He found someone new after few months.
My ex asked me to be his girlfriend on the 28th December, dated for 4 months before he asked me, then dumped me on new years day đ. I didnât even know I gave him the silent treatmentđ€·đ»ââïž but I was hurt and I didnât want to reply to his messges. Anyway cut long story short. He messaged me today 3 days after he dumped me and told me he made a mistake! Let him stew for a few hours and had a 2 hour convo on the phone and decided To gave him a second chance but weâre going back to the start clean slate and dating again and hoping he never does it again . Wish me luck đ xx
Ps... I love this guy and havenât told him yet and he hasnât used the L word with me but I think he does weâre just both not admitting it x
Hi Samantha, I am very pleased for youđ I am going through a similar situation with my ex and am hoping we can make it work this time....đ Good luck đ€ kind regards and best wishes, Toby xx
mine too.hard to handle her back she sees am diffrent everytime we meet ...am in dilema
Thanks powerful message.
That's right. I support this silence explanation
Thank u for the encouragement I'm tired of begging him
Thank you for watching. Please take a look at this video to understand why begging is the last thing you want to do.
www.withmyexagain.com/blog/begging-an-ex/
Coach Alex
Thank you for sharing this idea
Might help
You're welcome, Danica!
Coach Alex
My ex lied me he called me at morning and said he will come to meet me at evening but he didn't come and he didn't contact.
Me& My Ex Havenât Spoken Since He Ghosted Me 12 Years Ago. For A Third Partyđ€ŠđżââïžHe Requested Me On Instagram & He Still Hasnât Said Anything.That Was Dec 2017. Iâve Recently Deleted My Insta Account As His Posts Were Triggering Me.& The Fake Accounts Got Too Much..Weâve Got Unfinished Business But Heâs Too Scared To Say Anything.
what happen s if wife is dating while in speration but she wont give u divorce also getting gifts from the person and tell u no matter she loves y u want her back
My ex and I have broken up for more than a year now he still follows me on Facebook and he still has me on WhatsApp he doesn't communicate at all and I'm also doing the same when he sees me he pretends to not know me and avoids eye contact but then stares at me from a distance
This man stopped sex said he does not want to be with anyone.this as been going on 5 years he is a cheater a liar andcurel with his words. L need to walk away and not let him come back. Help
I really like your explanation it doth make a lots of Suns!!
Then what happens when both of you decide to keep quiet
You bask in the glow of peace and serenity, that's what you do!
what about when theres a baby involved and need communication