This is the reason I want to raise my baby girl to be mentally and financially strong. The way these women were raised killed them slowly. No woman who loves and respects herself would agree to such nonsense. A man is not your be all and end all. Indoda akusiyena unkulunkulu wakho, stop hating yourself so much geez!!
sihle ndlovu I disagree with you ... I don’t think there is “too many women who are willingly accepting it, it’s manipulation. Most of the episodes that already aired they’re reasoning as to why the want polygamy is for their selfish reasoning, I want to grow my fathers legacy......utter nonsense. Let me know before hand at some point you will want polygamy, and let me choose to walk away or stay!
We don't need to watch these Man on national TV, disrespecting and using power to manipulate woman anymore. This show should not return. Man that are supposed to take care of their families are busy running around girls, cheating, lying and not using dual protection. NO THIS SHOW
that makes you think that a) You are not enough, so you have to accept whatever shows up b) Who you are and what matters to you isn’t important c) If you don’t accept this, accommodate this, tolerate this, you fear that you wont have anything or anyone You are enough and you can sustain through the pain of the healing process
I'm sure all he does is WHISPER(Literally) sweet nothings to them and they are taken 🤦♀️ And they probably like the fact that he can't scream at them 😂
Haibo ladies is marriage really that important that we are willing to let these men treat us like this??? Haibo ngeke ma e yazi umuntu nje Akashiye phansi amane ajole one way.
it painful when a woman have to come to a point where she say she got nothing to say coz shes a wife , eiiyyh u feel it the way shes defeated , stifle in a corner to agree , to accept the betrayal and be expected to move on from shock that your husband was cheating to accepting a mistress this is not good psychologically and ukuthi uthi awusithandi isithembu kungazwakali uze uvume ngoba i lokho okufunwayo kubi nje
This show is a definition of exploitation to woman ,it is weighing down women dignity,it shows how men disrespect women in the name of love .A real men is not define by how many wives or girlfriends they have but how they treat a woman ... This shows just puts emphasis that men do love love but use women to their satisfaction as they want a second wife for themselves not in the benefit of the family .In the name of equality WOMEN MUST BE ALLOWED TO HAVE A SECOND HUSBAND✊🤟
It's should be embarrassing indeed, in my Tswana culture we do practice polygamy however it's very rare, it happens when the wife cannot bear children and the husband discuss it with the wife and reach a conclusion.
I don't think it's weakness. I think these women look at the years of investment and decide it's better to stay. Walking out of a relationship, let alone marriage isn't an easy decision. And on this specific case, this man has emotionally abused this woman with his cheating to a point where she might be feeling like, having a second conjugal relationship for him is better because it can be controlled. I think when polygamy was thought of, it wasn't bad...it had it's purpose. I might not agree completely with it but I think there were conditions for it and proper protocols to it. What is happening here isn't culture, rather the perpetuation of someone's pain and condoning cheating, therefore in my view it's certainly not Zulu culture. You have nothing to be ashamed of as it's not representative of your culture but rather someone making money out of other people's misery.
@@nkosinathingwenya3327buti there should be a reason why you as a man has take a second wife, seriously you cnt go do your dirty deeds behind your wife's back and then bring your jezel to your wife, unless if you a narcissist, coz if you a narcissist you dont care about anybody's feelings but yourself, it's all the control, manipulation and betrayal hidden behind tradition...
Kubuhlungu yazi😩enjalo nje akayisebenzisi ne protection akakabi nawunkosikazi wakhe wesibili losisi but use pregnant,shuthi bebentshontshana usemveza ngoba esekhulelwe.
I find it so hard to get to the bottom of this show, marrying multiple wifes🤔for the why, as for the zulus I understand that my it's their culture bt tjo it's Har.. Am a tsonga lady, I once dated dis Zulu guy from kwamashu apparently he was arrested, we were always talking via phone dt tym so dis guy claims to loves m n he was saying as soon he be released he wanna marry m. Boom he said I loved u very much bt I Wil marry another women's as for am a Zulu men🤔like really dis guy his in jail n am waiting for him yet he wanna marry another lady, I told my self that let m run fast without looking bck. I don't understand this things
Tradition or not I will never agree to dis, what will stop him to bring the 3rd concubine, hai ke bofebe fela n the poor wife have to just agree cos it's tradition what about her feelings
that makes you think thata) You are not enough, so you have to accept whatever shows upb) Who you are and what matters to you isn’t importantc) If you don’t accept this, accommodate this, tolerate this, you fear that you wont have anything or anyone You are enough and you can sustain through the pain of the healing process
The fact that he doesn't even have a voice. I am livid.
😂😂😂Voice for who...
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
A man with a baby voice and cheating at the same time I can't tolerate it , nooooo
Precious Noko 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
We cannot fully blame men for what is happening here because there is a woman behind him supporting him to break another woman.
Thru
True
Well said!!! 🙌
True
He is inviting women into his marriage, he is absolutely to blame for alles
Hi mr Musa Mseleku,it will be much better if you were teaching or advise those men about Hiv /aids/STI.🤔
Yp
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣wow I couldn't stop laughing lol..
It's true
plus KZN is leading in the states of people with HIV .. now i understand why
Labobaba bayagula strue
This is the reason I want to raise my baby girl to be mentally and financially strong. The way these women were raised killed them slowly. No woman who loves and respects herself would agree to such nonsense. A man is not your be all and end all. Indoda akusiyena unkulunkulu wakho, stop hating yourself so much geez!!
Me & you we think alike i don't want my kids to suffer from the man becoz their have nothing to fall back on
Say it loud ooooo🔊bezwe. I saw this happen and I said to myself. That curse stops there hayi kum
Power
HAIBO NKOSI YAMI WHERE ARE THEY FINDING THESE WOMEN THAT AGREE TO THIS NONSENSE OVER AND OVER?
Hey U can ask that again,me I can't accept this nonsense
Ungabuza futhi yazi,why mara bevuma
@@ramatsobanemphahlele3319 lapha ngat kudlalwa ngathi
@@mightytshongogwe8534 nami ngibona kanjalo kudlalwa ngathi lapha nangu no Dulas uthena bebe actor
My question exactly.. like really
What annoys me is that he does not use protection with these mistresses. Honestly... I would leave cause I don't wanna get sick. SORRY!!
Yes I will live him too
Uhlalele imali uyabona ukuthi ikhona la
@@phiwokuhlemazibuko68 I couldn't have said it better myself.
Yoh i rather die single single
This is pure manipulation, even if they don’t agree they still going to see them behind their backs. I hope they will be no Season 2 of this show
sihle ndlovu I disagree with you ... I don’t think there is “too many women who are willingly accepting it, it’s manipulation. Most of the episodes that already aired they’re reasoning as to why the want polygamy is for their selfish reasoning, I want to grow my fathers legacy......utter nonsense. Let me know before hand at some point you will want polygamy, and let me choose to walk away or stay!
We don't need to watch these Man on national TV, disrespecting and using power to manipulate woman anymore. This show should not return. Man that are supposed to take care of their families are busy running around girls, cheating, lying and not using dual protection. NO THIS SHOW
The disrespect is just on some Kilimanjaro tip
With this voice.. how will he manage two women
😂😂😂😂
Hahahahahahaha out of order comrade
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@ayandanokubongamdhluli4813 🤣🤣🤣
that makes you think that
a) You are not enough, so you have to accept whatever shows up
b) Who you are and what matters to you isn’t important
c) If you don’t accept this, accommodate this, tolerate this, you fear that you
wont have anything or anyone
You are enough and you can sustain through the pain of the healing process
Ishuu she’s already pregnant 🤰 🥺🥺😲😲 they look so alike
Kanye Msimang he definitely has a type!
They do look alike..even the jackets are almost the same lol
Laleeeeeela! 🤰🏾🤣
Voice yalendoda😂😂😂
Cabanga ma sekashouder😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💃
He sleeps around, without even protection
Uyabona kwale voice ingangenza ngimlume ngamazinyo kqala.. Dlithi dlithi stru🤞🏽
😂😂😂
I wish I can hear this man singing🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
please stop🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🔥💔
😂😂😂😂
So ladies, when he jokingly says he wants another wife, take him dead serious 🤦
Parents ensure that your girl child is educated so that she has options and doesn’t have to put up with this nonsense
😂 meaning she will be dunusing for a new man every few years, as almost all men want multiple women. So either uyamazi or ufihliwe.
What a voice that cheats
I'm sure all he does is WHISPER(Literally) sweet nothings to them and they are taken 🤦♀️ And they probably like the fact that he can't scream at them 😂
😂😂😂😂😂🤣
Haibo ladies is marriage really that important that we are willing to let these men treat us like this??? Haibo ngeke ma e yazi umuntu nje Akashiye phansi amane ajole one way.
Once👊
Baya actor laba akunamfazi ophila kahle ekhanda ovuma udoti kalula nje ndawo
Oksalayo isthembu nami ngzosthola😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🥱💔
Omw can these women wake up nkosyami 😂😭 they make me mad & sad at the same time
it painful when a woman have to come to a point where she say she got nothing to say coz shes a wife , eiiyyh u feel it the way shes defeated , stifle in a corner to agree , to accept the betrayal and be expected to move on from shock that your husband was cheating to accepting a mistress this is not good psychologically and ukuthi uthi awusithandi isithembu kungazwakali uze uvume ngoba i lokho okufunwayo kubi nje
This woman just agrees to everything. Yooo. This is torture. I would rather be alone.
Y’all worried about them STDs Bru!!!! The witchcraft that is attached to such situations. I feel so sorry for her.
This show is a definition of exploitation to woman ,it is weighing down women dignity,it shows how men disrespect women in the name of love .A real men is not define by how many wives or girlfriends they have but how they treat a woman ...
This shows just puts emphasis that men do love love but use women to their satisfaction as they want a second wife for themselves not in the benefit of the family .In the name of equality WOMEN MUST BE ALLOWED TO HAVE A SECOND HUSBAND✊🤟
Baze bahlukumezeka odade bethu ngalombhedo westhembu
Bona bavumelani? Haybo abasisi
@@andiestastykitchen6203 njengoba ungumuntu wesfazane nawe umuntu wesfazane unalento yokuth mayedikila usuke elindele kuth njengendoda ngizobuyengimncenge ngixolise entweni engamphathi kahle not kuth basuke bevuma
Haibo why this men always enjoys treating woman like this. Totally unacceptable. Nna nka se dumele never
rena mapedi are dumele tshila tse
@@seboyejubilent6481 ka nnete dear ke nore Ee go di txhila txe di jwale ka morago ga dilo txeo nyatsi txa gagwe E di dirileng I never
How can another woman do this to another mara,we should stop saying amadoda izinja while they ddnt force us into anything.just my 2cents
🙄
U Mseleku yena wazelaphi ukuthi lona wesbili angeke azilethe izichitho , uyasazi kahle ischitho ukuthi siyini noma uzwe besho nje...aai bazokuxaka oMseleku.lendoda enezwi elincane kanje nayo ifuna isthembu impela nokungena donsi kuyatinyela 😂😂😂😂
I'm Zulu ND this show is embarrassing. Why is it Zulu man only who want isithembu. Eish this looks lyk us Zulu woman r weak
It's should be embarrassing indeed, in my Tswana culture we do practice polygamy however it's very rare, it happens when the wife cannot bear children and the husband discuss it with the wife and reach a conclusion.
@@patriciasehako7817 we are no tswana.... keep your tswana things
This looks staged 🚮
I don't think it's weakness. I think these women look at the years of investment and decide it's better to stay. Walking out of a relationship, let alone marriage isn't an easy decision. And on this specific case, this man has emotionally abused this woman with his cheating to a point where she might be feeling like, having a second conjugal relationship for him is better because it can be controlled. I think when polygamy was thought of, it wasn't bad...it had it's purpose. I might not agree completely with it but I think there were conditions for it and proper protocols to it. What is happening here isn't culture, rather the perpetuation of someone's pain and condoning cheating, therefore in my view it's certainly not Zulu culture. You have nothing to be ashamed of as it's not representative of your culture but rather someone making money out of other people's misery.
@@nkosinathingwenya3327buti there should be a reason why you as a man has take a second wife, seriously you cnt go do your dirty deeds behind your wife's back and then bring your jezel to your wife, unless if you a narcissist, coz if you a narcissist you dont care about anybody's feelings but yourself, it's all the control, manipulation and betrayal hidden behind tradition...
uyabona ke that's why ndingafuni isthembu noba ungafuni usebenzisa umuthi sekumele nawe usukume yoooo Jesu amadoda
As a man I repeat lento ihlukumeza abantu besimame
Siyabonga Shenge😊
Besicela iFull Episode bakithi noma eyodwa,
Iminenke, amaxoxo namasongololo🙆😭😭😭
I really wonder what happens after the cameras are gone,,, life after polygamy, are they still together, I honestly don’t think so
tiisetso ratshefola , my thoughts exactly, l wish there will be a follow up
This guy want multiple wives cause he is a cheater nje, he's doing It for the wrong reasons... He will cheat on both of them
qonywa abathakathi enjalo nje
Kubuhlungu yazi😩enjalo nje akayisebenzisi ne protection akakabi nawunkosikazi wakhe wesibili losisi but use pregnant,shuthi bebentshontshana usemveza ngoba esekhulelwe.
To think there are women who fall for this man's voice 😂😂😂 ha.a yi mali qha
Uyalizwa kodwa 🤣🤣🤣
Nolitha Nganase
Sizoshawa🤣🤣
ngithi mina akacule🤣🤣🤣🔥
I find it so hard to get to the bottom of this show, marrying multiple wifes🤔for the why, as for the zulus I understand that my it's their culture bt tjo it's Har.. Am a tsonga lady, I once dated dis Zulu guy from kwamashu apparently he was arrested, we were always talking via phone dt tym so dis guy claims to loves m n he was saying as soon he be released he wanna marry m. Boom he said I loved u very much bt I Wil marry another women's as for am a Zulu men🤔like really dis guy his in jail n am waiting for him yet he wanna marry another lady, I told my self that let m run fast without looking bck. I don't understand this things
Is it possible for him to cough just to clear his throat
Uyanya lo nge voice engekho
😅😅
Rha! Unganyiwa!!😤 I'd be long gone. This is insane. Cheating disguised as polygamy.
Soze ndivume lonto Mina, or ngasuke ndihambe bahlale ke besenza lonto yabo,
Ai nalendoda voice encane ngath valelwe thinen but uyasho Mama kuth belethelwa isichitho kodwa man khathali tjoooh 😯😯🙄🙄
He is selfish mxm
Ucc besekhulumile eqedile uMseleku omcindezele kuthi avume ngoba uthi akusibo laba ababemfaka izichitho lo abazomveza la ucc besephunyulile ngoba nomhlengimali ngimboni ehla ekhomba kuvuma nansi lendoda yagoqa umama
@@boogienkwanyana9231 ngcono phume cc wabantu cz zoze afele ubala into ngaphuma thole haw phela isichitho asidlali bantu tjoooh kekho ngamela laba 🐸🐸 uxolo ngeke haw sifelan kant
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@@winniehesewu2556 😂😂🤣🤣🤣 umntu ngaz ngath qoqo mama lakhaya eva voice ncan kant yindoda 🚮🚮
Futhi Jesu haibo 😂😂😂😂😂siyaqoma kodwa.
I voice ka hubby 😂😂😂😂
@@nokuthulaluthuli4426 Ngiyakutshela mina ukhulumisa okwa boy, kodwa ufuna isthembu 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Izwi lakhe elidinayo 🙄
Qomani asinamamona🙆
Tradition or not I will never agree to dis, what will stop him to bring the 3rd concubine, hai ke bofebe fela n the poor wife have to just agree cos it's tradition what about her feelings
that makes you think thata) You are not enough, so you have to accept whatever shows upb) Who you are and what matters to you isn’t importantc) If you don’t accept this, accommodate this, tolerate this, you fear that you
wont have anything or anyone You are enough and you can sustain through the pain of the healing process
Mr squirrel hayi bo I'm dead😂😂😂
Ingculazi ngiyibekile qhubekani kuyoqothuka amasingili ekhanda lendoda ehambe imithisa wonke umuntu wesifazane ehlangana naye soon
Ngoba esevele sewu sixteen nje
Into engiyibonile emhlabeni mangabe uwunkosikazi ongasebenzi uhlala nje ekhaya wenzelwa izinto indoda ikuthatha kancane ize ikucabangele nesthembu into ongathi mawibhekisa kuyo angeke iyivume
I can't beleive he is cheating with that voice 🤔🤔🤔🤔
😄😄😄😄😂😂😂😂😄😄😄😄
Jho... this is so heartbreaking
I like the Zulu language...ngizeyilahla la kuwena...hawu kanjani ukuyilahla?
As a man that loves Jesus Christ, isithembu siwumbhedo
Uyalufunda u Bible mzalwan?
Kakhulu and funda iTestiment elisha. It's the new covenant
I love this show stru bhobho
This is totally oppression,yeeer maan kuthi ndiphambane ,this is so annoying
Iyoh usathi ubaba
Only Zulu nation that agreed on this rubbish yesthembu, this Zulu man badelela abantu besfazane nje
I agree
True
His voice box is full of cheating
Never hlee monna wa voice ekareng ya basadi
Greatest show ever 👌👌
Ai mina ngek nj ungbone ngvumel lodoti...thath omunye mina ngyahamb nj fullstop
feel free cc, kuhle ngoba nani niyabona akuphoqwamuntu la
The must go kwandebele I Goma iyaphuma😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bathong !!!!!! How desparate are this girls for marriage onga nayo uthando at all. I'm good being a single mother.
Ayike kunzima lapha cela lesosibindi bafazi KKK ngoba ngeke ngilunge shuwa like phela lelo eliyobe lingilanda ngizihlalele kanti istembo lesi ngesamazulu kuphela na
so these men cheat on their wives and have kids outside the marriage, on top of that they force the wife to accept the new woman?? I'd leave. Divorce
This is so painful nje😢😢😢isthembu for ini nje
Manyala wonkhe lawa
ukhalelani🥺🤣 Mhlengimalu
Yooo kwaze kwanzima ke kodwa Musa Mseleku lezizifo ezingaka ozimikisa emizini yabantu uthini ngayo
Mna ndingu Mxhosa 🤔kayi one ngabe sendi call uber🚙 ........going home 🏘..sing the song Jerusalem undilondoloze uhambenami🎶🎶
Ngoba ungenazwi uzobakhuza kanjani labafazi mase belwa😂😂😂😂
Soprano 💯✔
Ne voice yobufebe
Yin yona le 🙄
Haw kodwa Mvelase umletha esezithwele pho? 😯
Hha the voice....I'm sure bazomdelela
Polygamy makes my heart bleeding 😭😭😭I hate it 💔
I'm with you in that😭😭
Kukhona izinja ezinemilenze emibili la kulomhlaba kaJehova
Bjanong my bra, ka voice wa Bo ausi mara onyako tsena ko sthepung. Bahlabe bagorasetsa moh, otsamaya wayonyaka omongwe. Haaaai wamphetsa my bra
😃😃😂😁
Aibo kwenzekan ngempela lamafaz bazalwa umuphi umfazi anisho, ngyavuma kifikifi akukho engzokusho aibo ubufebe obenziwa ilamadoda why buPromoteka ngombhedo no is no , if ujola jola le eZoo ngeke phela
Why kufuneka amaZulu ebenesithembe thina ma Xhosa we believe indoda xa inamantombi amaninzi sisifebe qha...yinja😂😂😂
Usigqokeleni isigqoko endlini kodwa lobaba?
Cha angeke nje ngikhone yey angamane angiyeke
Hebana 🙆🏽♂️🙆🏽♂️🙆🏽♂️
Babazani🙈
Impela umuntu wesfazane obekelelayo yhooo
Most of them they say ngiyindoda yomZULU, ladies take notes
@@sfundothathokuhle1718 since the show started if u watch dear which other tribe did u see beside Zulu men?
@@sfundothathokuhle1718 😂😂😂😂 Hayi no comment
Imagine him shouting🙄🙄🙄
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I will kungaphakama umama oyedwa je abenamadoda mabili sibone ukuthi kuzothiwani no
UMhlengemali umlandeli ka Maskandi kusho uhlelo lwamabhinca lolu
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ngyabonga ukuthi ucacise ngolombhemu bengimbuka ukuthi ufanelwe ukuba umaskandi insizwa zikamaskandi iningi lazo sengathi azimi ngomlenze owodwa
Futsek wena with that voice
Ivoice dololo ngokuhamba eqomisa,hay ngeke shem.
This guy's voice🤣🤣🤣🤣
kuza kanjan laba bantu besifazane bavume konke ?
ingamanga lento
voice ka Bhutia😂
His voice Kodwa🙆🙆😂😂😂
akacule🤣🤣🔥
Beautiful wifes man you have a choice
Voice bakithi