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    ENGINEER YOUR LIFE - EPISODE 93 - Abongwe Mseleku
    Daughter of Ma Cele and famous polygamist Musa Mseleku joins us on Engineer Your Life and unpacks the dynamics of growing up in a polygamous family, the pain of your whole life being scrutinised on TV and finding her inner voice in a large existence.
    Hosted by: Lungelo KM
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Komentáře • 351

  • @EngineerYLShow
    @EngineerYLShow  Před 6 měsíci +81

    Exclusive conversation about the trials, the blessings and the ethics learnt as a young person raised in the most famous polygamous family.
    A lesson on humility and self-acceptance.

    • @nanazimkhize2149
      @nanazimkhize2149 Před 6 měsíci +6

      Lungelo!!! Wow! Your communication skills are second to none. Angfun' ukungasho . Keep up the good work.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Před 6 měsíci +2

      Thank you kindly MaMkhize❤

    • @nanazimkhize2149
      @nanazimkhize2149 Před 5 měsíci +4

      @@EngineerYLShow Kwathi cosololo bakithi, uma ungbiza nge-DNA code or should I say 'Utatakho code' or better yet ' Serial number'? 😊😊😄😄You are welcome, Lungelo. All the best in your current and future endeavours.

    • @nosimilomthethwa2812
      @nosimilomthethwa2812 Před 5 měsíci

      @@EngineerYLShow,,z

    • @nosimilomthethwa2812
      @nosimilomthethwa2812 Před 5 měsíci

      Z❤zzxx

  • @Sweetness1089
    @Sweetness1089 Před 6 měsíci +270

    Abongwe is such an exceptional child. The articulation 👌🏽

    • @vfabach2874
      @vfabach2874 Před 6 měsíci +6

      I agree with you Bontle....she's absolutely AMAZING , GROUNDED and so so HUMBLE ❤️

    • @kutullomankoko9640
      @kutullomankoko9640 Před 5 měsíci +1

      P

  • @thobekamrauli6895
    @thobekamrauli6895 Před 6 měsíci +285

    Love Ndlunkulu s kids very humble, respectful she raised them well❤

    • @happysehume
      @happysehume Před 6 měsíci +10

      One thing about u’MaCele!

    • @matshedisotsilo5231
      @matshedisotsilo5231 Před 6 měsíci +5

      Love them too, so humble shame👌👌

    • @siviwekula760
      @siviwekula760 Před 6 měsíci +5

      She's done a great job raising them👌

    • @lwaziehgumede6413
      @lwaziehgumede6413 Před 6 měsíci +7

      A job well done by MaCele this goes to show that she is not what she is portrayed to be on television. What we see on TV is ratings for the show.

  • @angiemakhubela
    @angiemakhubela Před 6 měsíci +199

    Macele’s kids are very humble. Kuddos to the parents ❤

  • @Khanyisa92
    @Khanyisa92 Před 6 měsíci +144

    I love the thoughtfulness, sensitivity and gentleness that was shown by Lungelo during this interview. I felt him literally respecting Abongwe’s boundaries, some of our podcasters could learn a thing a or two here❤

    • @nanazimkhize2149
      @nanazimkhize2149 Před 6 měsíci +8

      You couldn't have articulated it better! You are spot on. Well- said Khanyisa.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Před 6 měsíci +19

      Thank you so much. My heart appreciates this ❤️❤️❤️

    • @vfabach2874
      @vfabach2874 Před 6 měsíci +3

      ​@@EngineerYLShowI subscribed immediately after this interview. I have been watching for a while without subscribering...I connected with you today. Thank you for your genuine care and sensitivity.

    • @thinamakovere9007
      @thinamakovere9007 Před 5 měsíci +1

      I have also subscribed because of this interview.

    • @tshepisomatsunyane6360
      @tshepisomatsunyane6360 Před měsícem

      Well said I have subscribed to his channel because of this interview, heart warming indeed well done Lungelo ❤

  • @tozamamlomo665
    @tozamamlomo665 Před 5 měsíci +47

    This child is so so matured.I like the part where she says there are children who are orphans but they are extremely successful& some donot have fathers.I like it.Big up Abongwe

    • @IncreaseRakodi
      @IncreaseRakodi Před měsícem

      @@tozamamlomo665 grounded mature and respectful

  • @Cartoon_lifeTv
    @Cartoon_lifeTv Před 6 měsíci +135

    The most calmest podcadt in SA❤❤❤❤ maturity and respect😊

  • @keneilwemakakatlelo5397
    @keneilwemakakatlelo5397 Před 6 měsíci +133

    Macele, you've done very well, your kids are down to earth, soft spoken.

  • @Liz1418
    @Liz1418 Před 6 měsíci +93

    I kmow im going to watch this interview 3x if not 5 that's how much I luv Abongwe no Lwandle. Bigup to MaCele for raising them well.

  • @sontomtolo473
    @sontomtolo473 Před 6 měsíci +84

    What a sweet young lady, ingane ezthobile. Mama must be so proud😊

  • @PhiwayinkosiKhanyile
    @PhiwayinkosiKhanyile Před 6 měsíci +55

    Lungelo I understand your channel is not big as it supposed to be, but 1 thing i can confirm as a viewer of many podcasts ukuthi your questioning style is ncaaaa👌👌❤

  • @nokwazishezi7580
    @nokwazishezi7580 Před 6 měsíci +79

    MaCele's kids are so respectful and very humble ❤️

  • @ConnieRamasike
    @ConnieRamasike Před 6 měsíci +34

    Abongwe and Lwandle are really humble...must be a true reflection of their Mom ...kudos to you MaCele🎉

  • @gladysthusile6764
    @gladysthusile6764 Před 6 měsíci +41

    Waze wamuhle abongwe Macele kodwa ngikuthwesa umqhele ngezi ngane zakho uzukhulisa kahle❤❤

  • @leratomamabolo
    @leratomamabolo Před 6 měsíci +36

    Abongwe is calm, beautiful and respectful. Love her❤️

  • @dineonkatswang4791
    @dineonkatswang4791 Před 6 měsíci +47

    Wow Abongwe very matured, respectful, humble and calm your very good

  • @bongiwemakhaza1833
    @bongiwemakhaza1833 Před 6 měsíci +66

    An introduction of who she is, her parents and family structure would have been great for context but great interview though.

  • @mphihlengmagoro2957
    @mphihlengmagoro2957 Před 2 měsíci +26

    Maturity levels here 💯. Thoughtful, self awareness, knowledgeable and on solid ground intellectually. She is clearly well raised and grounded.

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh5755 Před 6 měsíci +74

    MaCele raised her children very well. They are so kind and humble. Abongwe! when you look at her in the side, she look exactly like his father. That was so cool Abongwe❤.

    • @annienai
      @annienai Před 6 měsíci

      True so kind

    • @sarahthulare4694
      @sarahthulare4694 Před 5 měsíci +1

      They are just humble beings ,, it has nothing to do with Macele
      My mom was a very humble person kodwa my sister on the other hand, you’d swear she was raised in a different way by different people Iyo

  • @mapulamaunatlala
    @mapulamaunatlala Před 6 měsíci +17

    She is so authentic , herself ,respectful wow I applaud her parents. That is so rich very big deal thank you abongwe well done.

  • @lusandafuthwa1928
    @lusandafuthwa1928 Před měsícem +4

    With MaCele's kids the first two are the best, respectful and humble.
    A job well done to Magaye

  • @gingertwala8474
    @gingertwala8474 Před 6 měsíci +31

    There's an epic level of wholesomeness & grounding that Ma-Cele instills in the growth of her kids, grandkids included.
    These kids have beautiful spirits. Such stability is commendable💞👏👏.

    • @vfabach2874
      @vfabach2874 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Amen🙏🏾

    • @palesamhlambi8478
      @palesamhlambi8478 Před 6 měsíci +2

      True ❤

    • @Mbalings
      @Mbalings Před 5 měsíci

      I think MaCele is also humble and grounded but she has been through a lot. I feel i have misunderstood her as well. Otherwise, who are the kids taking after? ❤

    • @gingertwala8474
      @gingertwala8474 Před 5 měsíci +1

      ​@@MbalingsTrue hey, sometimes we're victims of our own circumstances, it's in how we choose to not allow such to alter who we are, guess Ma-Cele chose sereneness hence her very grounded kiddies😉.

  • @user-uf5sd4oi7r
    @user-uf5sd4oi7r Před 3 měsíci +6

    I love Abongwe. Kamseluku she's my favourite. I'll name my child abongwe. I hope she'll or he angaba humble and smart like you. M not even pregnant 😢

  • @DaphneyLuthuli-nw4oc
    @DaphneyLuthuli-nw4oc Před 6 měsíci +32

    Ma Cele "s kids are very very humble uyakwazi ukufundisa ingane inhlonipho I love Ma Cele"s family God continue bless them

  • @mariangambi883
    @mariangambi883 Před 6 měsíci +43

    U are famous world wide even here in the USA 🇺🇸

  • @NosihleKate-l1s
    @NosihleKate-l1s Před měsícem +4

    Does it ever happen that she goes to places where people get a chance to meet with her I really love her. Her heart's pure. Keep going Abongwe, you're loved this side💗🥹

  • @LizekaNtsebeza
    @LizekaNtsebeza Před 3 měsíci +8

    U are the reason why I watch Ethan do nesithembu I luv u abongwe rhalel ba sibez freinds

  • @joycebuthelezi3601
    @joycebuthelezi3601 Před 6 měsíci +13

    Look exactly like Mpumelelo truly brother and sister❤

  • @NomsLoots
    @NomsLoots Před 6 měsíci +19

    MaCele’s kids are so grounded my word. Such humility is inspiring. Humble yourself by the side of the Lord and He will lift you up 🥹

  • @thabelanglawrencenthako2024
    @thabelanglawrencenthako2024 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Wow! the maturity of this young lady is on another level 💯❤️ shout-out to the Mselekus

  • @mahlozinibasi9560
    @mahlozinibasi9560 Před 6 měsíci +10

    She articulates herself so beautifully ❤

  • @bongiwengowapi5412
    @bongiwengowapi5412 Před 5 měsíci +7

    It's my first time to watch this,she seems intelligent and mature,I love this interview,it's like I am watching an adult,she is lovable and smart!

  • @cynthiamavasa2785
    @cynthiamavasa2785 Před 6 měsíci +14

    The dude doing an interview his so sweet hle 😊😊😊... Abongwe is an amazing soul hle

  • @La_Mbingo
    @La_Mbingo Před 6 měsíci +11

    Ndlovukazi Macele you have done exceptionally well when raising your. May they all follow in Abongwe & Lwandle Steps.

  • @brendamlaba3587
    @brendamlaba3587 Před 6 měsíci +10

    So humble and well spoken ingane zamaCele ziyahlonipha bandla. We love u Abongwe ❤️

  • @tshepisomokoena4149
    @tshepisomokoena4149 Před 6 měsíci +18

    Such a great interviewer I love how you made her feel at ease in terms of asking the question of her sexuality

  • @phathiwephakathi1327
    @phathiwephakathi1327 Před 6 měsíci +17

    All mamkhulu's kids are so humbled ❤❤

  • @neosjournal_
    @neosjournal_ Před 6 měsíci +26

    Abongwe is the coolest sibling

  • @tshepisolijane2452
    @tshepisolijane2452 Před 6 měsíci +8

    Ma Cele is avery deep woman. Very wise aswell. Its no womder she has kids like ones she has. ❤

  • @jannety100
    @jannety100 Před 5 měsíci +3

    macel is a good woman, look at how her kids are, kind, compassionate and humble! she did a great job raising them.

  • @user-ui5uf8dt1g
    @user-ui5uf8dt1g Před 6 měsíci +29

    Macele your kid's are humble sisi good job on raising your kid's ❤❤

  • @teboJoh
    @teboJoh Před 6 měsíci +24

    Abongwe is smart matured well mannered respectful open minded almost well rounded character. This podcast also Big ups Lu🎉

  • @favour664
    @favour664 Před 5 měsíci +3

    This child is amazing, his disposition wow! May God use you to impact the world , ur mannerism is at another level

  • @NomathembaNgxola
    @NomathembaNgxola Před 6 měsíci +22

    Love u baby...beautiful aura
    Respectful.Matured..Humble
    The list is endless...What a coothed Soul

  • @user-wm1ro4cn6w
    @user-wm1ro4cn6w Před 5 měsíci +3

    Such a wise young person ,I love how she takes time to respond ,bless her ❤️ 💗 💕 ♥️

  • @mbandazayoyolisa5849
    @mbandazayoyolisa5849 Před 6 měsíci +12

    Macele did a good job raising her kids

  • @sohbayeni6666
    @sohbayeni6666 Před 4 měsíci +2

    This interview just made me respect Babu Mseleku and MaCele even more.... Woooooow naze namkhulisa kahle umtwana wenu...Ingane oyibuka ufise ukuthi neyami ingane ngathi ingakhula ibe nenhlonipho kanje... Love you Ayabongwe❤ and u will go very far in life because of the person you are❤❤

  • @camagumagubeni9145
    @camagumagubeni9145 Před 6 měsíci +13

    Wow! Abongwe mntanam... RESPECTFUL KID...

  • @nombulelofakudze6513
    @nombulelofakudze6513 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I loved it when she responded to the question of having a present father and said it solely depends on you, on your determination in your journey of life even though having a father could maybe make things easier for you. That was beautiful and true.
    I have never had a father figure in my whole life and have pushed through life to be where i am and i have done a good job even though the past few years it has been hitting me hard kuts where would i be if i had my father in my life
    It all depends on you ☺😍

  • @bongiwesithole9376
    @bongiwesithole9376 Před 6 měsíci +10

    I love you Abongwe you are a humble girl.Big up to my angel.💥💫💫

  • @user-zq8sy8gs5x
    @user-zq8sy8gs5x Před 6 měsíci +7

    Oww bethunani maCele abantwana bakho they are so humble

  • @nomcebosokhela8279
    @nomcebosokhela8279 Před 6 měsíci +9

    Abongwe has her head screwed on right. Her parents did a great job raising her.

  • @user-uz1nl2mx2c
    @user-uz1nl2mx2c Před 5 měsíci +2

    Nontombi ungumzekelo omhle kwiintanga zakho. Uqhubeke njalo uku demand(da) attention yabazali bakho xa bengakuhhoyi.
    God bless you sthandwasam

  • @phelosikhakhane
    @phelosikhakhane Před 6 měsíci +9

    So articulate and beautiful.

  • @lettyjanemahlangu1152
    @lettyjanemahlangu1152 Před 6 měsíci +18

    MaCele, you are blessed to have polite humble kids, siyakubongisa. It's definitely the way you brought them up. Congratulations Ndlunkulu

  • @pinky4636
    @pinky4636 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Oh! Abongwe. What a beautiful humble soul. I just love you nana❤keep shinning 🙌🙌🙌 what a great interview.

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I love her. She's so humble ❤❤ She represented her family very well. Kudos to the Mseleku family to raise such a humble soul.

  • @mfundisozuma5810
    @mfundisozuma5810 Před 6 měsíci +11

    So well Spoken😻

  • @asandakhathi
    @asandakhathi Před 6 měsíci +36

    She's so well spoken my word

  • @mondemdakane161
    @mondemdakane161 Před 6 měsíci +13

    Maceles kids are very respecting very humble, well done Macele

  • @user-nd4kc9vw4w
    @user-nd4kc9vw4w Před 2 měsíci +2

    You gained a follower from Botswana because of this interview❤️I love how considerate you were with your questions towards Abongwe because Social media is so rotten.I watched till the end and i really enjoyed it.

  • @user-xs4mv4zq5f
    @user-xs4mv4zq5f Před 6 měsíci +17

    Unfortunately we don't choose the families we are born in they choose us❤

  • @NonhleLanga-xb7zc
    @NonhleLanga-xb7zc Před 6 měsíci +11

    Abongwe love her spirit 🌻💚

  • @user-nd4kc9vw4w
    @user-nd4kc9vw4w Před 2 měsíci +2

    I think Musa will be happy to see this interview 👏👏👏👏

  • @MorolongWaMorakile
    @MorolongWaMorakile Před 6 měsíci +4

    Abongwe is going far in life. God bless her. ❤

  • @nolitham
    @nolitham Před 6 měsíci +12

    Enjoyed this ☺️, she's very intellect.

  • @mashadimokgata871
    @mashadimokgata871 Před 6 měsíci +11

    🎉🎉So beautiful Abongwe sis. I love you girl

  • @NtombethembaNtosh
    @NtombethembaNtosh Před 3 měsíci +3

    I love her please, I enjoy listening or watching her.

  • @NcamisileMtolo
    @NcamisileMtolo Před 6 měsíci +6

    Big up maCele you teach your children's very well congrats (ngyakubongela it mean even you come from a good familly well done again❤

  • @NomathembaNgxola
    @NomathembaNgxola Před 6 měsíci +8

    Big Ups MaCele...your kids are wellgrounded.

  • @PhumzilePatience-lx2qe
    @PhumzilePatience-lx2qe Před 6 měsíci +10

    Luv her she's so humble ❤❤❤

  • @mabongixulu6705
    @mabongixulu6705 Před 2 měsíci +1

    i really love this child, shes so matured and respectful

  • @mayumimolotv8523
    @mayumimolotv8523 Před 5 měsíci +1

    MaCele's kids are so well mannered. I love how they carry themselves, they're a reflection of their mother.

  • @Renei145
    @Renei145 Před 6 měsíci +12

    Love her spirit❤

  • @user-nk4fg5ri7l
    @user-nk4fg5ri7l Před měsícem +4

    Abongwe is the son Mseleku never had.

  • @thembelihlembatha27
    @thembelihlembatha27 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Wow...Lungelo you had the best of the best guest❤ Abongiwe is so privilaged but her humbleness is out of this world, ❤ May he grow up to be the best person in the world. So much humble ❤and love that about him....inhlonipho siyibona ngaye that shows ukuthi uMaCele's Teachings are good to her own kids ❤❤

  • @Nokbonga_Sibiya
    @Nokbonga_Sibiya Před měsícem +1

    Wow Macele raised you well. I like what she said “I don’t get involved in my parents business”. Uyambona umuntwana owazi izandaba zabantu abadala. Eg Mpilo…that one she is phakathi inside😞😞😞

  • @YolokaziChagi
    @YolokaziChagi Před 6 měsíci +10

    I love her soo much ❤❤❤❤

  • @annienai
    @annienai Před 6 měsíci +2

    She looks so much like her dad beautiful mind indeed

  • @CynthiaMthimunye
    @CynthiaMthimunye Před měsícem +1

    I Love her she's so quiet

  • @_COCOgal
    @_COCOgal Před 5 měsíci +2

    Abo is beautiful....her smile is out of this world ❤❤

  • @geebono4925
    @geebono4925 Před 5 měsíci +2

    This kid is very smart and humble ❤❤❤

  • @llt4726
    @llt4726 Před 6 měsíci +3

    ❤❤❤She is such a breath of fresh air...very intelligent.

  • @mashudumikosi3272
    @mashudumikosi3272 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Wow such level of maturity. Mseleku did very well 🎉

  • @user-zv7yr5nf6u
    @user-zv7yr5nf6u Před 6 měsíci +4

    This Podcast is very calming. All about love and positivity .😍

  • @rethabilekhumalo6054
    @rethabilekhumalo6054 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Wooo ngaze ngayithanda le ngane I've never notice ukuthi ngiyayithanda ,umuhle ngane futhi uthobekile, thank you Lungelo for this interview with Abongi ❤❤❤

  • @nosiphooqaah6771
    @nosiphooqaah6771 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I like this child so much

  • @user-eh3kf7fz6k
    @user-eh3kf7fz6k Před 6 měsíci +7

    Mme Macele more and more grace dear

  • @MelodyMelz126
    @MelodyMelz126 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Your parent's has done a wonderful to raising you Abongwe.
    ❤❤❤

  • @Faith_Jehovamystrength
    @Faith_Jehovamystrength Před 5 měsíci +1

    Muhle Abongiwe...ziyathandeka izingane zaMacele... ❤❤Zithobekile zifundisekile zzifuze umama wazo... ❤❤🎉🎉

  • @ayandal4744
    @ayandal4744 Před 6 měsíci +2

    An interview full of laughter, just refreshing. Well done to the interviewer.

  • @lindiswatyokela2951
    @lindiswatyokela2951 Před 4 měsíci

    What a beautiful guest to have.. well articulated, respectful and very humble.. may she never change I enjoyed this.

  • @user-fs9ll9wg2c
    @user-fs9ll9wg2c Před 5 měsíci +2

    Wow Lungelo just gained a subscriber liked how you interview her and it's my first time seeing your channel

  • @KgothiThatso
    @KgothiThatso Před 6 měsíci +7

    A beautiful interview right there ..wow Abongwe you are so loved my girl

  • @portiajakoba9574
    @portiajakoba9574 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Abongwe ❤, i love MaCele & her family, she is doing a good job

  • @Marthashiningstar
    @Marthashiningstar Před 6 měsíci +5

    Very humble kids must say

  • @ephraimmotho887
    @ephraimmotho887 Před 6 měsíci +17

    I'm a few minutes in.... I'm enjoying the conversation but the cadence is a bit off. Lungelo, you are outstanding but today, you are a "little hype"... Please pay attention to your guest. Abongwe is a slow speaker. She will answer your question, but give her some time to digest... It's okay for a little silence to linger before she answers.

    • @pastorswifempowerment.
      @pastorswifempowerment. Před 6 měsíci +2

      You took words from my mouth while i was looking for how to put them together to make sense😂🤭 All in all Beautiful work.

    • @leratomamabolo
      @leratomamabolo Před 6 měsíci +2

      I get you but I don’t blame him, it looks like he genuinely likes Abo

  • @kedibonelehong635
    @kedibonelehong635 Před měsícem

    Abo she's very humble person, and she has been a bigger person in every situation she come across with. I love her so much ♥️♥️

  • @mahlozinibasi9560
    @mahlozinibasi9560 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I didn’t realize Abongwe is this short, inyawo azifiki phansi 😅

    • @thee-po3my
      @thee-po3my Před 5 měsíci

      And it looks like her shoe size is 3/4🤔

  • @pinkymtambo7978
    @pinkymtambo7978 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I wish you were a boy and continue your father's legacy and the surname I love you so much God bless you

    • @cici.ngxenge
      @cici.ngxenge Před 3 měsíci

      She's a girl and she's enough . And she can carry her father's legacy . Stop with the misogyny