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  • It’s every parent’s worst nightmare, a child snatched and smuggled overseas. The number of children abducted by an estranged partner has doubled in the UK in the last decade.
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Komentáře • 649

  • @babayaga7027
    @babayaga7027 Před 5 lety +100

    I am heartbroken for Gosia. I wish someone would help her get her daughter back. She's basically being raised by strangers while the mother suffers.

  • @beauangele3033
    @beauangele3033 Před 5 lety +161

    The poor parents, the poor mother who lost her daughter at 3 months...so heartbreaking

    • @MyMscullen
      @MyMscullen Před 5 lety +12

      I can not stop crying over this woman she seems so heartbroken 😔 I wonder have she got her baby back I really hope she has

    • @texasjaco9385
      @texasjaco9385 Před 4 lety +12

      I'm just so sick in my heart for that women. I couldn't imagine only having my child for 3mos. I pray someone is kind enough to reach out to her, and help her to get the baby back.

  • @joangroulx8312
    @joangroulx8312 Před 5 lety +218

    My daughter was abducted in 1984 by her father she was 13 months......he took her to Greece...it took 10 years before we located them....it is a long story....when she had her first child in 2011 ....she realized how profound it was to become a mother and had to find me .....she found me through a website that we had created in hopes she would find me one day...we have been communicating for 8 years ...she still lives in Greece but would love to come to Her birth country Canada with her family....we are working on meeting one day soon.....I have two beautiful grandsons....

    • @Libbathegreat
      @Libbathegreat Před 5 lety +19

      Joan Groulx Damn...I’m an American living in Greece. I’ve been all over here and I can understand how easy it would be for someone who knows the country to drop off the radar if they don’t want to be found, even nowadays and even with a child. That must have been an absolute nightmare for you. I’m very glad that you’ve been reconciled with your daughter and hope you’ll soon be reunited for good.

    • @randomvintagefilm273
      @randomvintagefilm273 Před 3 lety +10

      So glad I never had kids because I would have killed my husband if he did that

    • @urashimahanako9965
      @urashimahanako9965 Před 3 lety +4

      I lived in Athens Greece exactly in 1984. I really liked it there and I had so much fun, Greek people were nice to me and I can’t believe sad thing like this was happening around me. I really hope you will reunite with your daughter in very near future.

    • @multifariousgemini
      @multifariousgemini Před 3 lety +1

      🤯🤯🤯

    • @amberdusk
      @amberdusk Před 2 lety +12

      My heart goes out to you. My own now ex-husband (Iranian in this case) abducted our then five-year-old daughter to Iran in 1987. I had gone to an out-of-state (I'm American) family funeral and had no idea he would do this. From Iran, he told me I'd never see her again unless I, myself, also went to Iran - but I had to promise to "behave" (ie: put up with abuse and be the submissive wife he felt he had been cruelly denied by marrying me). I said without hesitation I would go to Iran but had this crazy idea that I would be able to escape with my daughter in a year's time - I was a naive 27-year-old! It took 4 months to convince him to let me come to Iran - and it took ten years for me to escape with both my kids (my son was born there in '89). But there were many times he almost sent me back to the US without them, and he almost decided against allowing me to go to Iran in the first place. I experienced the heartbreak of my daughter being taken from me and not knowing where she was (she and my ex were missing for two weeks before he called me from Iran), not knowing if she was being treated well, if she was crying for me and confused, what she was being told, if she was being abused, and so on. But, I was reunited with her four months later. I could not imagine how painful it was for you all those years without your daughter, and especially her being taken when she was an infant!. I hope you are able to be reunited with her soon and you get to meet your grandchildren. Thank you for sharing your story and I hope for the best in this situation.

  • @NayLouise24
    @NayLouise24 Před 5 lety +46

    Wait, the dad was imprisoned, the kid left in a foreign country with grandparents and STILL NOT BROUGHT HOME? Thats disgusting. Thats on the British government.

    • @jadehuynh184
      @jadehuynh184 Před 3 lety +3

      @hollyapple777 I think what the comment above meant is that since the UK Is so well established and powerful, that there should be some kind of diplomatic relations to help bring back her daughter. You’re speaking about a corrupt government, why would they put in resources to hand over the girl?

    • @finnsnow2495
      @finnsnow2495 Před 3 lety +2

      @@jadehuynh184 Unfortuntaly the UK can't just use it's power and control to go do whatever it wants in other countries. That girl is also a citizen in Libya. Don't you think its a bit problematic if they stared doing that to all countries that didn't let them have say or power. I think its on the Libyan goverment for sure and the UK can't really do much when the country refuses to work with them. That's why you should of red with caution when in those countries or in relationships with people from there.

    • @marybeth1579
      @marybeth1579 Před 20 dny

      I had this risk as the other country involved was not a signatory to the child abduction treaty. So, I put lots of things in place to stop it incl using reunite as a preventative step

  • @gilliansanderson4830
    @gilliansanderson4830 Před 5 lety +42

    That poor guy not only loses his daughter but then has to pay 90k in legal costs possibly making him bankrupt. All because he lost in the high court fighting to see his daughter. This documentary is so powerful. Why does this happen in 2019. Highly disturbing.

    • @nora4981
      @nora4981 Před 4 lety +1

      Gillian Sanderson he should’ve stuck to marry a regular Brit girl... not some third world reject.

    • @nicolegonzalezmarrero629
      @nicolegonzalezmarrero629 Před 3 lety +8

      @@nora4981 you’re right, that comment will DEFINITELY erase all of the suffering....🙄

    • @frozenboot68
      @frozenboot68 Před 3 lety +3

      @@nora4981 let me tell you in words you can hopefully understand: that third world reject is a doctor. So she’s not the reject you are.

  • @Eveningwake
    @Eveningwake Před 5 lety +165

    How selfish of them to keep that little girl in Libya while a civil war is going on 😡

    • @waji78611
      @waji78611 Před 8 dny

      @@Eveningwake 🤔 .. what about the other children in Libya? Is it fair ? Or do we just normalise war and say “well .. thats life?”

    • @rebeccaloggs457
      @rebeccaloggs457 Před dnem

      @@waji78611 It’s unfair for children to be born into war; it’s just as unfair to abduct children and place them into a war torn environment.

  • @lilblacklamb222
    @lilblacklamb222 Před 5 lety +254

    This is so sad...children are not to be fought over like a toy..poor child will be so traumatized

    • @deepashinde4621
      @deepashinde4621 Před 5 lety +6

      Parents who commit such crimes are insecure to the core. These selfish people always have egos as big as a mountain. They just need to feel secured and their egos should be at rest that's all these bloody people want.

    • @ameenarahimi6460
      @ameenarahimi6460 Před 3 lety +5

      Actually the little girl turned out to be extremely happy to be with her daddy , you should think about how the mother snatched her and never let her to see her daddy again , just bc he’s the father he has rights too ... this little girl is so happy with her dad she told how she was abused by the mom and her grandparents...

  • @wonkydonkey8349
    @wonkydonkey8349 Před 5 lety +295

    first time i've ever seen a father's point of view. interesting...

    • @riverdeep399
      @riverdeep399 Před 5 lety +5

      Interesting point. I found it harrowing.

    • @larahilton7417
      @larahilton7417 Před 5 lety +20

      Loreena Fan Absolutely. When a relationship breaks down the children still need to have a relationship with both parents. Its got to be about what is best for the child. It’s wrong to whisk the child away without warning and deny the other parent of any relationship whatsoever. Thats not your decision to make. Unless there’s abuse of course. But to hide them away, somewhere like Pakistan for example, the father not knowing whether they are alive or happy, without any discussion, is extraordinary. Absolutely extraordinary. I can’t believe anyone would argue that was fair. Once you’ve had children with someone, unfortunately, whether you like it or not, you can’t just live where you want to live. It has to be somewhere where you can both have access to the child, so you can BOTH raise the child.

    • @YONCE8701
      @YONCE8701 Před 5 lety +1

      Very much so

    • @xyg6543
      @xyg6543 Před 5 lety +26

      Sadly, I think that too many father's stories are not heard.

    • @jasbirnicholas3876
      @jasbirnicholas3876 Před 5 lety +14

      It gets potential dangerous when people marry to Arab countries, or other Asian countries, easy to fled away , and very hard to get that kid back

  • @rozpillay6522
    @rozpillay6522 Před 5 lety +38

    This is a dangerous trend. Kids are NOT a possession!

    • @be6388
      @be6388 Před 3 lety

      that's true!
      'long long lost family' shows, what may happen later...

  • @ididntknow0587
    @ididntknow0587 Před 5 lety +102

    It’s heartwarming to see fathers who love their children when there are so many fathers who could care less about the children they brought into this world

    • @Sassydivaa1990
      @Sassydivaa1990 Před 5 lety +10

      Teresa Mcallister yeah and so many mothers whom could care less about their children

    • @gilliansanderson4830
      @gilliansanderson4830 Před 5 lety +3

      Hear hear... Far too many fathers who deny their children, casually continuing in some cases to have more then have the heinous audacity to pass the blame to the woman or anyone but themselves. To kill someone doesn't always include murder. The law should change.

  • @Kimmm1984
    @Kimmm1984 Před 5 lety +218

    If the other parent would have been violent or a threat to the well-being of the child, I can totally understand taking your child and run. But if this is not the case, how can you keep your child away from their own mother or father who love them and want to be there for them. I really believe this will backfire in the end and the child will resent the parent who kept them away from their other parent or sibling. Unbelievable and so heartbreaking to watch, there should be way more help for these people.

    • @Kimmm1984
      @Kimmm1984 Před 5 lety +12

      That's horrific. As a mom myself I can't believe a parent would do that to their own child. How incredible selfish.

    • @ThePatches08
      @ThePatches08 Před 5 lety +17

      You are bang on in my case Kimmy.
      My mother abducted my sisters and I. Telling everyone that the father was abusive.
      Thankfully the distance between my two parents ended up only being 8-10 hours driving distance.
      However growing up.. My mother attempted to brainwash us to convince us to hate our father.
      When the truth came out.. All 3 of us kids walked out and moved in with the father.
      This isn't just a UK/Europe issue. It's happening all over the world.

    • @valeriecarpenter4631
      @valeriecarpenter4631 Před 5 lety +8

      Kimmy ~ sometimes it will never backfire because the child is being fed lies about the absent parent that the parent did not want them and abandon them very sad

    • @fatcatfunnies6216
      @fatcatfunnies6216 Před 5 lety +3

      I feel bad things must be happening to this child. The father doesn't look mentally stable.@AI AC

    • @fatcatfunnies6216
      @fatcatfunnies6216 Před 5 lety +1

      @AI AC I feel really bad for this mother.

  • @shelbyregisterrn108
    @shelbyregisterrn108 Před 5 lety +67

    Gośka just really breaks my heart ❤️ I feel for all these parents. She was soul wrenching...all that raw emotion.

    • @larahilton7417
      @larahilton7417 Před 5 lety +5

      Shelby Register RN it had broken her. As you say, all the cases were heart wrenching but she was just on the edge.

    • @leece_6702
      @leece_6702 Před 5 lety +1

      absolutely heartbreaking, and just so wrong

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      @shawnafisher7812 Před 3 lety

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  • @josephine6382
    @josephine6382 Před 5 lety +95

    Talia's mommy is so sad. Terrible!

    • @Luubelaar
      @Luubelaar Před 5 lety +5

      I was fighting back tears for her at so many points. As a mother myself, I can't imagine what she's going through. Heartbreaking. :(

    • @thefuzzypenguin778
      @thefuzzypenguin778 Před 5 lety +6

      yes. her sorrow broke my heart.

  • @lv7118
    @lv7118 Před 5 lety +116

    In South Africa no parent may leave the the country with a child without documentation signed by the other parent...whether the parents are happily married or divorced,there must be documents signed before a commissioner of oaths presented at the airport.

    • @lv7118
      @lv7118 Před 5 lety +18

      Even for a vacation the forms must be signed...my husband(we're married)is travelling overseas for 10 days with our 11 year old son soon and I had to fill in and sign forms before a commisioner of oaths. But I am sure that if you want to take a child illegally there will always be a way.

    • @neisci
      @neisci Před 5 lety +15

      In Mozambique too. Doesn't matter the reason you are traveling for, parent consent is a mandatory document .

    • @reubenparies6678
      @reubenparies6678 Před 5 lety +1

      This was not the case 6 years ago when my ex left the country to go and crew luxury yachts with her husband and my then 18year old son. The South African 'justice system' is an apathetic abyssmal mess with no care for parental rights and especially for paternal rights where there is generally absolutely no f@#ks given except if you have money. It will be 14 years to the day on his b'day on 29 April 2019 that I will have seen and spoken to to him last.

    • @reubenparies6678
      @reubenparies6678 Před 5 lety +1

      He was 18 when they left the country. But she stopped me from seeing him from the age of 10 when they were still residing in SA.

    • @janetdonald9801
      @janetdonald9801 Před 5 lety +2

      Soulivanh Xayaphet no, they would have to commit forgery.

  • @Sara-pe2hv
    @Sara-pe2hv Před 2 lety +11

    This happened to my cousin. His daughter was taken from the US to China by her mother at 2 months old "just visiting family." She was homesick. They disappeared. He's suffered for years.

  • @venessalizabeth
    @venessalizabeth Před 3 lety +23

    Talia’s father is an evil monster. My heart breaks for that poor woman 😔 get her baby back to her for Christ’s sake!

  • @jmlnursing1084
    @jmlnursing1084 Před 5 lety +88

    This breaks my heart. People are disgusting.

    • @Johansen1000
      @Johansen1000 Před 5 lety +2

      confictura j do you have kids? who says one parent has more right than the other, no one will willingly give up the rights to ever see their children again. and if it comes to it people will go to Great lengths to get them back.

  • @ketakigoraksha3613
    @ketakigoraksha3613 Před 3 lety +12

    Seeing the two sisters reunite is♥️🥺

  • @katjakittenland9689
    @katjakittenland9689 Před 5 lety +54

    In the Netherlands, when you are travelling alone with your child, you need to carry an officially signed approvaldocument from the other parent, ortherwise you're not allowed to board a plane. Sadly of course they can't check the travelling by car, but at least it diminishes the childabductionratings.

    • @larahilton7417
      @larahilton7417 Před 5 lety +5

      Katja Kittenland That’s such a good idea. The Netherlands are always ahead of the game with things like that.

    • @agricolaregs
      @agricolaregs Před 5 lety +2

      Katja Kittenland interesting. What if there is no other parent. Dead or single parents?

    • @katjakittenland9689
      @katjakittenland9689 Před 5 lety +3

      agricolaregs, you would have to show a deathcertificate if the other parent is dead or the certificate of sole-custody if you're the only caring parent.

    • @agricolaregs
      @agricolaregs Před 5 lety +2

      Katja Kittenland interesting. Is it common knowledge that one needs this, bc in America I would never think to have a death certificate on me to prove something like. It seems like a great idea though.

    • @katjakittenland9689
      @katjakittenland9689 Před 5 lety +1

      agricolaregs. Dutch people don't usually carry deathcertificates around in their handbags, haha, but, yes, it is common knowledge that you need prove that you're 'allowed' to take your child abroad, so in that case you should.

  • @pennysue8849
    @pennysue8849 Před 5 lety +33

    I really pray that poor woman gets her little girl back .. I can't imagine the pain also I don't know since her ex is in prison that she can't just go take her baby!

    • @pennysue8849
      @pennysue8849 Před 3 lety

      @HollyApple777 you could have made your point without the sarcasm and being so condescending?.. try and have a nice day

  • @helianabanes4875
    @helianabanes4875 Před rokem +19

    Snatching a child that doesn't know you at all, out of their known family's safe haven and everything they know, even if they are your child, and you have the court on your side, is absolutely monstrous. I feel terrible for Crystal, she will be traumatized for life.

    • @mikaeelb.
      @mikaeelb. Před rokem +7

      Blame the abducting parent. They put the child and the other parent in that position.

    • @helianabanes4875
      @helianabanes4875 Před rokem +2

      @@mikaeelb. I do, but who I blame doesn't change the affect it has on the child.

    • @mikaeelb.
      @mikaeelb. Před rokem +4

      @@helianabanes4875 do you know the effect parental alienation has on a child? Keeping the child away from their other parent? It has a huge emotional abusive impact on that child and the child will end up growing up resentful towards the abducting parent. You've seen how the child warmed up to her father immediately. He was no harm to her. You sound like you're siding with the mother who illegally ran from the law and stole the child from her father.

    • @helianabanes4875
      @helianabanes4875 Před rokem +3

      @@mikaeelb. I am not, it is a horrible horrible thing to do to a child, the mother was extremely selfish, if she cared about her child AT ALL, she would have never taken her away and not allowed the father to see her. It is sick and I feel horrible for the father. I don't think there is any good solution and regardless of who's at fault, the child ends up the victim 100% of the time. I am not saying there is necessarily a better way, I am saying, snatching a young child, when you are essentially a stranger is a SUPER traumatic thing to do to a child. If one parent decides to pull this BS and kidnap the child or alienate the child, no matter what happens next; the child is the biggest loser. I totally get why he would want to do that, it doesn't mean it isn't super harmful.

    • @mikaeelb.
      @mikaeelb. Před rokem +2

      @@helianabanes4875 I guess the father felt he had no choice. It's not like the mom was volunteering to meet at a restaurant or somewhere.

  • @m.k.wallner3145
    @m.k.wallner3145 Před 4 lety +24

    The judge who sentenced him to 6.5 years had no vision. Instead of sentencing him to a finite time, he should have sentenced him to spend 10 days in prison for each day his family in Libya refuses to return the child to its mother.

  • @jaamtart3755
    @jaamtart3755 Před 5 lety +36

    the one with the polish woman is deep :c

  • @taemeister9302
    @taemeister9302 Před rokem +4

    This is a recount from a friend i had in college talk about his most dark, secretive experience of his life. Nobody believed his story in full, but he's glad he is still alive today.
    My friend was only 7 years old. He awoke bewildered and dizzy by himself in a clean, comfy, cozy room with teddy bears imprinted on peach walls in a bed plush with pillows and velvet blankets. Next to his bed was a tray with Oreo cookies, a big ham sandwich, and a glass of milk. The milk was still cold and the sandwich was tasty. He could hear children laughing distantly downstairs.
    When he finished his sandwich, a nice old woman with plumo features walks in and lovingly congratulates him for finishing his meal and gently takes the tray away and asks him to come downstairs to meet his friends.
    My friend goes downstairs and sees about 10 other children in front of a huge tv screen and were playing Super Mario Bros 3 on a Nintendo. Each kid had a tray of snacks and chocolate milk next to them as they gleefully played Nintendo. He was still pretty tired from the ordeal he experienced hours ago when he felt a hand with a cloth clamomped over his nose and mouth as his consciousness faded away.
    After about an hour, my friend started to let go of what happened in the morning and started getting into the fun atmosphere with his new buddies as the housemaid said it was time for dinner.
    There were 6 girls and 4 boys in total including himself. Dinner was a delicious-smelling plate of meat and soft veggies drenched in a brown sauce. He didn't know what it was, but everyone loved what they were eating. The kids talked about the games they played and asked my friend where he came from. They told him tomorrow they will watch movies and play nintendo all day and maybe go to the beach later. They were doing all the things my asian friend rarely got the privelage to partake under his stict parents. His anxiety quickly started melting away as he wolfed down the delicious food laid before him and listened to the excited chatter of the other children. It seemed everyone was so happy to be where they were. Maybe his abduction was really that bad. Maybe his parents knew about all this and that he was at summer camp or something because school was out for two weeks and it was early July.
    My friend enjoyed everyday of his life at this strange new home. It was more of a comfy mansion designed for children, it seemed. There were swings, slides, jungle gyms, and many ither recreational stuff you would see in parks. The ocean was calm and peaceful. The only thing that seemed to be of stark contrast to all this was that the entire property had a tall white wall surrounding it. The ocean area had two green fences on it's sides stretching a good distance into the ocean.
    It must've felt like an entire summer that he was there. Everyday involved nothing but fun activities, good food and snacks, and daily sleepovers with the other kids. More kids joined the ranks almost every day. There were abut 30 kids in total by the time he ended his story.
    Although newcomers came nearly daily, about half of that number of kids left the premise and never came back. Nobody knew where these kids took off to, but they just simply were gone when the kids gathered to have breakfast in the spacious kitchen area surrounded by ornate furnitures with strange frames of symbols on the walls. Other than the pictures on the walls, everything else in the mansion seemed like nothing out of the ordinary.
    The kids at night usually got together in a room under blankets with flashlights and told ghost stories. After his first night, my friend stayed in a huge room with 5 other kids in spacious bunk beds with frames shaped like the moon. Most of the stories were about the kids that were gone from the home. Everyone wondered where their new buddies went. Most of the kids thought they went back home, which further fueled their optimism that everything was fine and that this was a special treat from their parents.
    One night, my friend woke up in the middle of the night heard a child screaming from a distance. It wslas a blood curdling scream that ended in something slamming. Most likely the sound of a car door being shut. He thought for a moment, and decided yo shrug it off and go back to sleep. Maybe one of the kids had a nightmare.
    One night, someone turned on the lighrs in the middle of the night and gently told him to get dressed and come outside. My friend got dressed and followed a huge man dressed in a black suit downstairs and was led in front of what he remembered as a cadillac in front of the mansion. The mansion stood by itself on a cliff overlooking the ocean with no neighbors.
    When the door opened, there was a strange, creepy-looking old man in a dark brown suit and hat at the rear passenger seat. The man adoringly encouraged him to sit beside him. My friend got spooked at that point. In his mind, he wanted to know what's going on before he got in. The vibe was very disturbing. My friend reluctantly got un the car. The old man put his arm over my friends shoulder and kissed him on the right side of his head and kept caressing his head and shoulders. My friend said he was getting very nervous and anxious and wanted nothing more than to get away from this man.
    The only thing my friend remembers after this was that he awoke by himself naked in a forest somewhere in northern california. He didn't remember anything that happened after he got out of the vehicle. He had bruises and little bloody scars all over his body. Most notably his genitals. A group of surveyor happened to discover my friend early when it was still dark. One of the surveyors were frantically telling the police something while giving my friend a reassuring look every now and then while telling his story. My friend's devastated parents rushed up to hug him, crying. They lo a ded him in their car and they drove home.
    My friend says that his parents told him nothing other than the fact that he was abducted and missing for 3 months. They didn't tell him exactly what happened and who his abductors were. Whenever he asks, his parents would hush him up and angriliy tell him that it's over and he doesn't have to remember anything.
    It seems to me that my friend's parents, the surveyors that discovere him, were silenced from speaking out aganist what happened to him. Over 100,000 kids in the US alone go missing every year. Some, like my friend, are lucky enough to be found. Many are never seen again.
    My friend says he considers himself very lucky to be alive today and he's thankful that his parents never told him what happened. Maybe it was for the best that he didn't remember what happened to him to prevent any PTSD. I learned one thing from my friends story: Some people are completely exempt from the law no matter what they do.

  • @jomama5186
    @jomama5186 Před 5 lety +13

    This is so sad. Adults are so cruel and never stop to think what's best for the kids. It seriously messed them up. They have to know both parents to know who they are or they are only half a person. I never kept my 1st child from her father OR his family-they were half of her-part of her. I couldn't deny her that no matter what I thought personally about her father. His parents-were wonderful and I still have a close bond with them to this day. He passed a couple years ago.

  • @tonyaboggs5367
    @tonyaboggs5367 Před 5 lety +32

    I dont get why anyone is aloud to leave the country with a child unless the right documentation and if they do it illegally....they should be able to gef the children back!!!!!

    • @Libbathegreat
      @Libbathegreat Před 5 lety

      Tonya Boggs Getting them back is a diplomatic and legal minefield, and frankly just not a priority for the various governments involved. The important and relatively simple thing would be, as you say, to prevent them getting on planes out of the country in the first place. It boggles my mind that there’s no alert system in place to prevent parents getting on an international flight with children they don’t have custody of. They make it so simple for them and then cry about how often it happens.

  • @creamycreamu2843
    @creamycreamu2843 Před 5 lety +7

    NOBODY ever wins in the end... Once a home is broken the child/children suffer in the END!

  • @donnamarie783
    @donnamarie783 Před 5 lety +30

    Omg it broke my heart watching this.
    I am so glad Craig got his daughter back and I cried when he finally got her. If only all dad's we're like him. You have 2 very beautiful daughters ❤️

    • @Pau1ina21
      @Pau1ina21 Před 3 lety +7

      what about the mom they both need to know how to work together for the kids no matter what country they choose to live in

    • @finnsnow2495
      @finnsnow2495 Před 3 lety +3

      @@Pau1ina21 That's true but remember she made the choice to leave and run with Crystal. Instead of be a good parent she was selfish and wanted them for herself as it makes it easier no long travel or coparenting. She has to face consequences for that. Unfortunately her daughter's will also face consequences of not having a mom. Cass literally has no seen her mom in years and will likely not for very long. I agree, both parents should be involved but it's going to take even longer and be more painful due to her choices. The best thing is for the dad to give them a stable life together and eventually the mom get to see and visit them

    • @mareek2007
      @mareek2007 Před 3 lety +3

      @@finnsnow2495 Did you see the update?She was telling the truth about Craig and he has two other sons prior to his daughters that he abandoned.

    • @finnsnow2495
      @finnsnow2495 Před 3 lety +2

      @@mareek2007 Where are these updates?

    • @jasz6797
      @jasz6797 Před rokem

      @@finnsnow2495 You do not know the mother's reasons. She claimed that the father was abusive. What I saw, the way he kidnapped his daughter, who did not even remember him makes me believe that she was right. But that does not really matter, the little girl was about 4 years old when her own father decided to traumatize her. Since she was 14 months old when she left Cyprus, she simply could not remember neither her father or Cyprus- given her young age. He also presented her as a present for her older sister. Just listen to how he presents her to the older child 'Look what I got for you'. The "father" only thought of his own needs and interests, not the young child's. I was deeply disturbed by what I saw, and how shocked the little girl was when she was literally snatched from her home and family. That "man" is filth and a real child abuser.

  • @poopsydo8052
    @poopsydo8052 Před 3 lety +6

    As someone with children & their father does not want a relationship with them I cannot understand what someone gets out of shutting the other parent out. A child deserves the right to both parents if it’s safe to do so & you cannot just erase a parent for whatever reason

  • @oxyjenn8089
    @oxyjenn8089 Před 5 lety +21

    This is heartbreaking. I would lose my mind if my child was abducted even by the other parent. I wouldn't stop until I got her back that's for sure. Prayers for you all.

  • @poppyfield1619
    @poppyfield1619 Před 5 lety +30

    no one asked crystal if she wanted to go...omg how harrowing for that child to be grabbed in the dark away from the people she loves and knows..poor kid

    • @finnsnow2495
      @finnsnow2495 Před 3 lety +5

      Yes the two year old CAN make her own descions. And I was also really concerned for her adjustment but literally in a few hours she was sleeping and smiling kissing her dad. I was happy he also spoke her language and she must have recognized him. It sad they had to go to such extremes because of a selfish mother

    • @frozenboot68
      @frozenboot68 Před 3 lety

      I have to agree that it looked awful, hopefully she will forget. Children don’t have memories before two or three anyway.

    • @jasz6797
      @jasz6797 Před rokem +1

      She was literally screaming that she doesn't want to go...:(

    • @CJLopez-
      @CJLopez- Před 11 dny

      I found it hard to watch and hear the horrendous screams, ripped from her happy safe environments, in the middle of the night by a random man (to her). Mummy’s gone, grandparents gone, home gone. Just beyond horrific.

  • @MummaMia5
    @MummaMia5 Před 2 lety +5

    I realise I sound like a jaded person when saying this and my heart breaks for these parents, but this is why I did NOT end up continuing my relationship with a man from the Middle East. This has been a very real problem for decades and will continue to be.

  • @avi10000
    @avi10000 Před rokem +6

    If one parent abducts a child back again, then the child is still lacking a parent. Not only that, the child is snatched out if the environment they got used to. OMG, what a mess...

    • @CJLopez-
      @CJLopez- Před 11 dny

      Exactly, but this wasn’t thought about. The child’s true needs and best interest in that time no matter what happened prior were not thought of. Horrendous.

  • @jewelkim6374
    @jewelkim6374 Před 5 lety +10

    Holding back tears while watching. It breaks my heart that a spouse has to abduct their child for personal reasons that doesn’t even include the child. Culture or divorce aside, we should learn to accept each other or each situation’s fate. Let’s think of the rights of our child not ours. I do hope the polish mother will meet her baby soon. I am a mother myself and seeing her fighting back the tears during the interview makes my heart bleed.

  • @Nassim2fun
    @Nassim2fun Před 5 lety +12

    Its so sad.... these babies could have had both parents in their lives if it wasn’t for one selfish parent taking them away!!!!

  • @elegantlywasted5447
    @elegantlywasted5447 Před 5 lety +35

    Goshia is so heartbreaking

  • @opdjasin
    @opdjasin Před 3 lety +6

    So the Polish mother who kidnapped her child has received multiple court orders to asking her to return the kid to the father. She refused and nothing happened to her. Damn justice system in Poland must be really really bad.

    • @jasz6797
      @jasz6797 Před rokem

      So is the one in Cyprus that gave custody to an abusive father of two children- one only just 14-months-old...

  • @deborahnieling2315
    @deborahnieling2315 Před 5 lety +7

    How hard is it to try to talk to the mother of the abductor in Lybia, no chance...HER SON IS EVERYTHING, that is the culture there! The mum have no chance! Sad and bad!!!!!

    • @farawla9465
      @farawla9465 Před 19 dny

      You old white Karens always make these wide sweeping comments. You don’t know anything. Old bag.

  • @christineclarevilgos-mitch1955

    Awww, did Crystal remember him right after she calmed down? She looks so happy to be with her daddy

    • @anjab4475
      @anjab4475 Před 5 lety +7

      Because it's fake. She wouldn't even say a word in English. And in the car; she is not speaking Polish properly. Just three words repeated with very strong English accent.

    • @bisexualsmoothtalker1270
      @bisexualsmoothtalker1270 Před 5 lety +1

      Anja B Maybe because she’s been in Poland for 2 whole years and was pretty small when she was abducted? Of course she might not know a lick of English!

    • @anjab4475
      @anjab4475 Před 5 lety +5

      You missunderstood. She spoke English too well. But not Polish. Too fake

    • @fatcatfunnies6216
      @fatcatfunnies6216 Před 5 lety +7

      Yes something is very wrong. She kissed that man that was helping the father get the daughter back. That was just out of no where . Like what child does that? What child kisses a complete stranger and smiles....@@anjab4475

    • @anjab4475
      @anjab4475 Před 5 lety +1

      @@bassettt3660 You missunderstood. She didnt speak Polish in the car. She sounded like an English actress pretending to speak Polish.

  • @leelila8379
    @leelila8379 Před 5 lety +16

    And why does marta only want custody of crystal and not her other daughter?

    • @finnsnow2495
      @finnsnow2495 Před 3 lety +4

      She did. Remember she tried to come back and abudct her but the father stopped it.

    • @saram2446
      @saram2446 Před 3 lety +2

      she wanted for her other daughter too they said. She also tried to abduct her but it did not work out

  • @skunkrat01
    @skunkrat01 Před 5 lety +12

    Jesus Christ, I don't think my heart has ever thumped as hard as it did when they were grabbing Crystal.
    This is so evil, and they sad it right at the start, it's using the child as an object to punish the other party. Sick, sick people.

    • @hearme4581
      @hearme4581 Před 2 lety +3

      Exactly that’s why the mother left in the first place. The dad went too far, which shows his extreme personality.

  • @cccc72
    @cccc72 Před 5 lety +11

    To see Goshia pain is extremely sad.

  • @DebraBing
    @DebraBing Před 3 lety +3

    I just pray that these children will one day be able to access social media and will know the truth about how hard their parents fought for them. It matters.

  • @jacquelinenack573
    @jacquelinenack573 Před 5 lety +59

    We need a no fly list for kids🤔❤

    • @valeriecarpenter4631
      @valeriecarpenter4631 Před 5 lety +1

      Jacqueline Nack well it is that away if you have a child and the other parent is actively and their life and on their birth certificate and it's established that they're the parent you cannot take that child out of the country without the other parent's approval. That is how it is in America anyway

    • @crispydyslexic6628
      @crispydyslexic6628 Před 5 lety

      That is true with the USA. One European woman wanted to travel to USA with her teenage grandchild and needed even a clearance letter from both of the parents to get the teen a flying ticket. Very good. They had a nice two week stay and came back accordingly.

    • @atlflgirl9634
      @atlflgirl9634 Před 4 lety

      In the United States some states will keep from parents from crossing state lines!

    • @finnsnow2495
      @finnsnow2495 Před 3 lety

      @@valeriecarpenter4631 See that's the issue with these international relationships because a lot of them have split custody or visitation so they are approved to leave by both parents so they can visit one. But, what usually happens is that the parent goes into hiding and refuses to bring the kid back or flees to another country while in another forgin one. That's why these abroad relationships are such a risk. Because you want both parents to be involved but every time you send your kid to see your ex they might never come back, it's all on trust.

  • @Senura101
    @Senura101 Před 5 lety +136

    Wow just wow 😮 Humans are a pure mix of demons and angels but the problem is the angels are outnumbered 😞

  • @irinagrimble2813
    @irinagrimble2813 Před rokem +4

    My heart breaks for Gosia 😢 not sure if it’s a possibility for her but at this point I’d have gone to a “child recovery” ..3 years is just too long… a child needs her mother

  • @katytaylor681
    @katytaylor681 Před 5 lety +7

    And Talia's bereft mother - simply heartbreaking.

  • @Libbathegreat
    @Libbathegreat Před 5 lety +14

    One thing I don’t understand: when the abducting parents show up to the airport with these children, without their legal guardian, how is there not some alert not to allow them to board a plane? It seems like when there’s a divorce where one or more of the partners is a foreign national, it would be very simple and sensible to put some sort of alert system in place to not allow a parent to abscond with a child they don’t have custody of, especially in this age of national security mania and no-fly lists. I really wish someone would enlighten me about this.

    • @jadaiswhatimcalled
      @jadaiswhatimcalled Před 3 lety

      Usually because both parents are on the child’s documents. All of these kids were born in “loving” families & homes before being abducted and taken abroad. You can’t predict that your child will be abducted and taken literally thousands of miles away...

  • @roxannevugts672
    @roxannevugts672 Před 5 lety +5

    So sad, children are not possessions they deserve both parents. I can't imagine what they go through.

  • @janylabuck5652
    @janylabuck5652 Před 5 lety +60

    This is so sad

    • @julianbell9161
      @julianbell9161 Před 5 lety +3

      justjanylathings love
      Alexa can you play Despacito

  • @gina2190
    @gina2190 Před 5 lety +4

    so sad when this happens, my partner he never even got to see his baby the lady ran away just b4 the child was born, all because the nan {girls mum} never liked him. Its caused a never ending pain for my loving kind hubby. A truly NEVER ending source of heartbreak.

  • @carrieparamore-mccannon6332

    If my husband and I were to separate, I could never not allow him to see our daughter. She's his daughter too. She loves him very much and he feels the same for her. The only way I could keep a child from their father is if it was for the child's safety...like if he was abusive or something like that.

  • @picelbud
    @picelbud Před 5 lety +9

    It’s super traumatic for the child so I’m split between him having a relationship with his child and his child being traumatized because all she’s ever known in life is now gonna change.
    But now seeing the end of the video she’s super happy realizing she’s with her daddy.

    • @CJLopez-
      @CJLopez- Před 11 dny

      Those screams were horrific, snatched in the night by somebody she doesn’t know. She must be so hurt and confused about where her mama and grandparents are. This was hard to watch. I just wish Goshia gets her baby back.

  • @painfreesunrise
    @painfreesunrise Před 5 lety +13

    I hope somebody who sees this will be able to help Talias Mum! I feel deeply sorry for her. And I would let the ex husband rot in prison until she gets her daughter back ! Girls, better think twice if you wanna have a child with a man from certain cultural backgrounds!!!

  • @juanitarichards1074
    @juanitarichards1074 Před 3 lety +5

    If I was Mr Khan I would refuse to pay the 30 grand. He is the custodial parent and his daughter should have been returned to him forthwith.

  • @theo9743
    @theo9743 Před 5 lety +2

    These documentaries are amazing

  • @Barbara-vk8gf
    @Barbara-vk8gf Před 3 lety +4

    I am so tense waiting for Crystal and the grandparents to come back and I have looked at the comments and I know how it turns out. I cannot imagine how the dad is handling it.

  • @moya9331
    @moya9331 Před 5 lety +6

    So touching

  • @RamonaRayTodosSantosBCS
    @RamonaRayTodosSantosBCS Před 5 lety +9

    There's a fine line between giving up and letting go. Sometimes one is forced to let go.

    • @angielagou
      @angielagou Před 5 lety +3

      Ramona Ray like the biblical story where the king knew who the real mother was simply because she let the baby go to relieve it from feeling pain.

  • @OakleyGamerGirl
    @OakleyGamerGirl Před 5 lety +31

    The mother who wrote that letter need get the guy who had saved crystal to do same for her. Same with the father who still don’t have their daughter.

    • @larahilton7417
      @larahilton7417 Před 5 lety +3

      CosmicSoCraftie Absolutely, but where her husband had taken the child they favour the father. It’s a different ball game getting a child out of a country like that.
      She was unrecognisable from those pictures, it had almost broken her. There should be more help for parents in this situation. Thank god for the charities like REUNITE.

    • @dawntaylor4210
      @dawntaylor4210 Před 5 lety +1

      Yes I totally agree ,that should happen ,poor woman !!!

    • @hypatiaserena5695
      @hypatiaserena5695 Před 3 lety +1

      No, she doesn't. I feel for her, but this isn't the way to do it. Not only will the child be scarred for life, they may also end up with the wrong parent. Read this update on Craig, Crystal's father, and judge for yourself: www.news.com.au/entertainment/tv/drugs-and-desperation-in-60-minutes-case-as-lebanon-saga-continues/news-story/6dcda4e6997c93022c7595e46be9c056

  • @brooks3545
    @brooks3545 Před 5 lety +4

    Children should never be a pawn this is horrible

  • @TheHighPriestessStudio
    @TheHighPriestessStudio Před 5 lety +5

    This is heartbreaking, I am divorced and have children, I have never ever prevented their father contact, sadly by his choice he chose to chase other women rather than spend some quality time, let alone contribute one cent toward them.

  • @SJ-lt6yf
    @SJ-lt6yf Před 5 lety +8

    This issue caused by not sharing custody and using the child for revenge

  • @YONCE8701
    @YONCE8701 Před 5 lety +12

    Her children are her life? Yeh ok.......sisters are so happy to be 2gether! All that matters

    • @chassaucer4995
      @chassaucer4995 Před 4 lety +2

      i was wondering that too... she is still fighting for crystal in cypress well what about cassie this whole time?and she still isnt bothered.. she has two daughters but for some reason is ok with only having the one and could care less if the father keeps the other.. well the father has it correct he has 2 daughters and he wants them both and wants them be together... the way it should be..
      abd they are sooooo very beautiful btw!!!

  • @chassaucer4995
    @chassaucer4995 Před 4 lety +4

    i feel gutted for those parents missing their babies.. its so sad.. Gotchia is so pittiful.. id like to know what happened with her and the other dad (omina's father)

  • @suzetteslinkard3432
    @suzetteslinkard3432 Před 5 lety +3

    My heart goes out to these families and the one's trying to help them

  • @user-oq2po4mj5i
    @user-oq2po4mj5i Před 5 lety +4

    My child have been abducted on 29/08/2017 in Russia. I never had any private time again with my son.i never played with him alone, I never had any moment with him private, I am always victim of violence. I wish him health. He will understand...

  • @SKC193
    @SKC193 Před 5 lety +12

    Anyone ever see the movie with Sally Field, “Not Without My Daughter”? It’s old but based on a true story.

    • @poppyfield1619
      @poppyfield1619 Před 5 lety +1

      yes I have seen that story it was very sad but the girl grew up to be a very strong woman and did not hold a grudge against her father for abducting her

    • @kimmy4714
      @kimmy4714 Před 3 lety +1

      @ bchlovr oh yes I actually read the book before I even watched the movie & reading the book was even more intense than the movie portrayed. The deep descriptions of torment, torture, fear & so much more was so heavy to read & especially given that you're reading a reality that so many women& children have endured & continue on doing so left me heartbroken for those who have found themselves suffering the same experiences.😢😢

  • @rankispanki
    @rankispanki Před 5 lety +44

    2:50 omg clean up your desktop ahhhh

    • @BhappyD
      @BhappyD Před 5 lety +9

      I don’t know how I didn’t see that until reading your comment. At first when I saw your comment, I thought you were referring to the top of her actual desk, and I was thinking that was strange because it didn’t look that messy to me, and then I looked up at her *computer* desktop... Holy cow! That would drive me mad! I don’t know how she can work like that. The file icons aren’t even organized into rows and columns, it’s just a jumbled mess. I just don’t understand how it even gets to that point...🤨

    • @foxylady9110
      @foxylady9110 Před 5 lety +5

      Hahaha ...glad I'm not the only one that thought the same thing..

    • @riverdeep399
      @riverdeep399 Před 5 lety +1

      Justin Rankin OCD?

    • @bobos07
      @bobos07 Před 5 lety +1

      lmao

    • @ownerofshop844
      @ownerofshop844 Před 5 lety +3

      thank goodness someone said it

  • @Kryptongurl84
    @Kryptongurl84 Před 5 lety +18

    I’m so glad the father got Crystal back.

    • @larahilton7417
      @larahilton7417 Před 5 lety

      Kryptongurl84 So am I. She destroyed the trust you need to co parent. It’s so sad. You’d be unlikely to share custody with someone that effectively tried to remove you from your child’s life. The father would, quite rightly, be scared she’d try it again.
      I watched a documentary years ago about Fathers for Justice. One of the saddest documentaries I’ve ever watched. One father watched his son sleep all through the night as he hadn’t wanted to miss a moment of the time he was allocated with his son. His sobs as he tried to speak were unbearable. His wife had remarried to an Australian and so she had taken the children there. Effectively leaving him cut out of their lives and a new husband raising them. The courts were so steeped in favour of the mother that his role in their lives had been seen as a mere footnote.

    • @annaconway313
      @annaconway313 Před rokem +1

      I'm not, look into his background

  • @starlight_44
    @starlight_44 Před 5 lety +9

    Awful parent being selfish and stupid to another parent😞, only the children suffer, from not knowing the other parent.👎👎👎

    • @lk4429
      @lk4429 Před 5 lety

      That is the best reply, no one is thinking of the kids, I know my parents ruin me for the rest of my life.

  • @antoshkin_domik4511
    @antoshkin_domik4511 Před 5 lety +7

    Look at these heart-broken devastated parents, who can barely hold their tears in front of the camera. And then look at Madeline Mccains parents...

  • @marcianaanthony1798
    @marcianaanthony1798 Před 5 lety +12

    I would die if someone took my son he is 10 I would travel to the ends of the earth till I found him

  • @curlyjen350playsroblox6
    @curlyjen350playsroblox6 Před 5 lety +34

    Who’s cutting the onions?

  • @lynkent677
    @lynkent677 Před 5 lety +13

    That ittle girl must of been very unhappy with her mother ? 6hours and she is kissing her Daddy who she hasnt seen for 2years.....She looks so happy with her sister and Daddy....One story with a happy ending.....Very sad for any Mother/Father who have their child taken.....

  • @UsernamesForDummies
    @UsernamesForDummies Před 5 lety +1

    Just heartbreaking. This is so very sad.

  • @chriscook460
    @chriscook460 Před 5 lety +4

    they need to get an international private investigators

  • @Angie_Slay
    @Angie_Slay Před měsícem +2

    I was assaulted and kidnapped stabbed and jumped from a car going over 55mph to get away in 2016 by my ex boyfriend which left me permanently disabled. And I almost killed my self after this happened but then I met someone just 3 days before I planned on taking my own life and he was a great friend to me actually my only friend and still is my only friend . Now he’s my husband. ❤ He saved me

  • @Danielle97165
    @Danielle97165 Před 5 lety +7

    What !!!!!! This is heartbreaking why would anyone do this 💔

  • @randomvintagefilm273
    @randomvintagefilm273 Před 5 lety +3

    It's safer to date within your culture, same religion and raised in same country. With divorce over 50% it is too high a risk to have kids.

  • @kaarntaylor306
    @kaarntaylor306 Před 2 lety

    Such a sad situation either way! Heart wrenching!

  • @celineho5213
    @celineho5213 Před 5 lety +20

    I really hope the court will give the full custody of two girls two the girls father in my opinion. Not all mothers is angels .

    • @larahilton7417
      @larahilton7417 Před 5 lety +1

      celine ho She’d proved herself to be completely untrustworthy. Completely. You couldn’t co parent with someone that had effectively tried to remove you entirely from your child’s life like that. However much it would benefit the children to see their mother. There’s nothing to say she wouldn’t try it again. When asked for a comment by the documentary makers at the end, it was all about HER needs, HER devastation. But it was no different from what she’d been comfortable putting her child and their father through. He’d been devastated too.

    • @sewsed
      @sewsed Před rokem

      Agree. Seems she was being brought up by the grandparents anyway mum was hardly there!

  • @bisexualsmoothtalker1270
    @bisexualsmoothtalker1270 Před 5 lety +4

    Who abducts their own child to a country in war/civil war?! That person just sees their kids as property and not their children!

  • @BhappyD
    @BhappyD Před 5 lety +3

    This is just heartbreaking. The children, the parents, the families, nobody really “wins” in the end. Especially the children. I can understand a parent wanting to protect their child if the other parent is abusive, but with no proof, the last thing you should be doing is abducting your own child and hiding them in another country, away from everything familiar to them and away from everyone they know and love. That’s abuse in and of itself, and is no better than what you claim to be protecting them from. Nothing good comes from child abduction. A child doesn’t deserve to live a hidden life of fear and lies, forced to be separated from one of their parents. That is no life for a child. The only thing this comes down to is selfishness on the abductor’s part. If you decide to have a child with someone, you have to accept the fact that you will be closely connected to that person for as long as you or or child is alive, even if you decide to end your romantic relationship with them. In the case of abuse, there are protocols that need to be followed to ensure you obtain the proper evidence needed to keep your child safe and secure. *Never* take the law into your own hands. If you’re truly trying to protect your child from abuse, you need to think about the fact that you can’t protect your child when you yourself end up in a prison cell. Your child deserves so much better than that. Every child deserves to have their mother and father in their lives, as long as both parents are capable and willing to love and care for that child. As a parent, it doesn’t matter what your feelings are about your ex. They may not have been a good romantic partner to you, but that doesn’t automatically make them an unfit parent. So many of the worlds biggest problems would be solved if adults just started acting like adults. A child is not an object you possess. They should never be tossed around and used as leverage between feuding parents in a tug of war, like a piece of meat in a dog fight. It is absolutely infuriating that parents, *grown adults,* behave this way. Children always come first. *Always.* There are no excuses for child abduction. God bless those precious babies, as well as the parents they were taken from. I also pray for the other family members caught up in the cross hairs. There’s nothing easy about a situation as complex as this. Ultimately, the full blame should be placed on the abductor. While I don’t necessarily agree with the other family members assisting in the abduction and hiding of the child, we also have no idea what they have been told by the abductor. They may not even realize the gravity of the situation at hand, and probably feel that they are doing what is best, based on the information/lies they are being fed. The screams of the grandmother when Crystal was rescued said it all. That was chilling. And again, I reiterate that *nothing* good could ever come of this. Nothing but pain and heartache for everyone involved. I’m glad that there are people like the man in this video who are fighting on the front lines to physically be the one to bring these kids back home. The fact that he pled guilty and spent 10 weeks in prison, just to immediately return back to the same line of work just tells you how genuinely passionate he is about it. God bless him, as well as the other organizations fighting to reunite these children and bring them back home. They are the real heroes.💕

  • @neisci
    @neisci Před 5 lety +9

    Having children with immigrants is a huge risk. When you split or if the other parent wants to go back home, nobody knows what can happen. I live in a 3rd word country and I would never have a child with an immigrant who has not saddled in my country. By saddle I mean having a good job or business things like that. People who don't have nothing to lose are capable of anything.
    Ps:In my country you can't take a child out of the country without the other parent's consent. I don't understand how those parents are pulling it off.

    • @persethea6611
      @persethea6611 Před 5 lety

      foreign or not having children with someone is such a risk anymore.. relative of mine cried out for help as her bf the father of her baby was abusive to her. her and the baby was rushed out of the home middle of the night in pjs nothing more.. cps got involved and took her son away from her and placed him in his grandmother on dads sides care.. she has been fighting over a year they tell her all these reasons why she cant have him back which she either proves she met all there requests or that their information is wrong.. she had a woman who was running the parenting class tell her even if she did everything she was asked they wouldnt even think of returning him till he was 3 or older and then they would argue that hes well adjusted to his new home and if she loved him she wouldnt tear him away from the only family hes ever known so they would try to convince her to give him up :(

  • @angiemarie1667
    @angiemarie1667 Před 5 lety +6

    My heart is crying

  • @simonesimone1101
    @simonesimone1101 Před 5 lety +6

    Omg how evil 💔 I would go to their house and bring all of my family and not leave that country until my baby was in my arms. Absolutely disgusting . That poor women writing a letter to her mother in law that she should not have too, she is the mother not the gran. Horrific !

  • @mariebelle3493
    @mariebelle3493 Před 3 lety

    I totally understand!🙏🏼 it take alot of courage

  • @milenaivanova6062
    @milenaivanova6062 Před 5 lety +5

    So sad ;(

  • @JaydeLarue
    @JaydeLarue Před 5 lety +12

    How did the mom of3month old get picture of her standing and sitting up? So confused

    • @crispydyslexic6628
      @crispydyslexic6628 Před 5 lety +7

      A form of torture? Sending her pictures she both wanted and was heartbroken to see.

    • @larahilton7417
      @larahilton7417 Před 5 lety +13

      Crispy Dyslexic she was quite unrecognisable from her wedding photo. The loss of her child had broken her. I found it quite traumatic to witness her devastation tbh. Really upsetting.

    • @lisaemilyfox6848
      @lisaemilyfox6848 Před 5 lety +7

      I think the Father’s family was quite sympathetic to her before he was put in prison and was sending her updates and pictures it seems like

    • @larahilton7417
      @larahilton7417 Před 5 lety +10

      Lisa Emily Fox I’ve just rewatched that bit back. I thought the mother in law was so incredibly cruel not to have replied to her letter. It spoke volumes of her torment, loss and the yearning for her child. Having read it, she must have realised the suffering she was putting the mother through. So at the very least, given that the child is not hers, and knowing the child was a small baby when she was virtually ripped from her mothers arms, a reply just letting her know that her daughter is safe wouldn’t have been too much to ask. Makes you wonder what sort of a woman she is. Wonder what she felt as she read the letter. Wonder if she has a faith. If she questions her actions as the child grows up without her mother. What a strange, perverse kind of love she has for her grandchild that’s for sure.

    • @larahilton7417
      @larahilton7417 Před 5 lety +8

      Does anyone know if there’s an update?

  • @aureenzaka8991
    @aureenzaka8991 Před 5 lety +5

    My baby daddy is Brit, he dint ever wanna see our girl being born....so i hope he doesn't one day come and kidnap my little one here in the US.

    • @Libbathegreat
      @Libbathegreat Před 5 lety +1

      aureen zaka I think I can put your mind at ease there. In the US there are measures in place to prevent parents getting on international planes with children they don’t have custody of, whereas it seems in Britain they make it very easy for them. Not saying it wouldn’t be possible to happen some other way, like illegal border crossing or something, but that would take far more of an effort than your baby daddy seems to have exhibited up to now.

  • @thefuzzypenguin778
    @thefuzzypenguin778 Před 5 lety +2

    It's sad that these parental abductors aren't thinking how their actions can traumatize their child. If they truly cared, they wouldn't put their child through such stress. Even though I understand why he did it, it still breaks my heart.

  • @adelerhead8928
    @adelerhead8928 Před 5 lety +2

    another heartbreak. how traumatic for the kids

  • @TheSavage3.6
    @TheSavage3.6 Před 5 lety +9

    desktop organization -10/10

  • @Stalaxian
    @Stalaxian Před 5 lety +1

    70%?! Wow, that is something I didn't know. It is sad

  • @angML1
    @angML1 Před 5 lety +3

    Don’t have a child with some if you plan to leave the country. If you have a child, you owe it to that child to stay close even if you are not with the other parent. Each parent should stay close together while apart because the child deserves that. Don’t take the relationship between either parent away from a child. If you are not someone strong enough to do that, don’t have any children at all. In the end, that poor baby is the one that will be most hurt and that hurt will come back to bite when they’re older. Somehow, someway. If you love your child, find enough love in your heart to make sure they are able to know both parents.

  • @CherieDeDieu
    @CherieDeDieu Před 3 lety +3

    I am a family lawyer who sees a lot of this every single day. It's sad that when a couple disagree or separate, the greatest victims are the children. 😥
    I have one where when the father was given custody, he sexually assaulted the child. #Horrible

  • @laurenjones8080
    @laurenjones8080 Před 5 lety +2

    Children aren’t meant to be used as “collateral”. When a parent keeps a child from a parent bc they are angry and want to hurt the other person it is incredibly selfish, when you have a child you have to get over yourselves and learn to co-parent. So very sad!

  • @roxannevugts672
    @roxannevugts672 Před 5 lety

    Heart breaking

  • @katieg7718
    @katieg7718 Před 3 lety +5

    thank you for showing the fathers side. fathers are scrutinized by media and the general consensus is that moms can take better care. thats not true. i have so much respect for these people, and especially the fathers in this situation that dont get the help they deserve just because they're men.