Marital Series Video 03| How To Deal With Money Issues In Marriage| 02 Main Reasons For Conflict

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  • čas přidán 20. 08. 2024
  • In this video two main reasons for conflict over money in marriage are discussed.
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Komentáře • 99

  • @GirijaDD
    @GirijaDD Před rokem +24

    Your advice is very valuable. There are many families where men decide how much money they will give to run the family. Wife earns and spends her entire income even if she is earning half of what the husband earns and manages all the rest of the expenses. The husband has no interest in knowing what is the total expense required to run the house, and the wife keeps a tight upper lip for managing family dignity. The wife’s earnings are completely spent even if she manages on a tight string budget and she is not able to save at all. Wives in this situation have a very raw deal.

  • @rashmichaurasiya9091
    @rashmichaurasiya9091 Před 9 měsíci +6

    husband and wife both are working .. but husband expect wife to contribute equally in house expenses and also do everything as a housewife... and treat him the same as his father was treated ... like he came from the office tired and gives him tea... serve him food... also take care of his relatives .. parents -- meand everything what housewife does ... but all the finances of mine --my bills and personal expenses I pay from salary ... he never ever took me for shopping as well.... Please share your views on it...

    • @monikasehgal6055
      @monikasehgal6055 Před 7 měsíci

      Actually I also suffered this. But you can do one thing. Keep house help from his salary. And don't give him royal treatment if he does not give you the same. You are also working. Enjoy free time after job. Make him do some house hold chores.

  • @davidpaul8392
    @davidpaul8392 Před 3 lety +6

    You too uptight. It's very difficult to accept. You are 100% correct

  • @bindupalei
    @bindupalei Před 2 měsíci +1

    Keep making these type of videos sir... Hats of to your courage to speak on a public platform on these sensitive topics.. Which really need to solve..thankyou for share your life long experience..to aware people.. Just subscribed your channel... From-Odisha

  • @avanova11
    @avanova11 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Very good series. The Mumma’s boy syndrome goes much deeper than the surface level and is much sinister.Please do a video on enmeshment and the dynamics between mother and son. A lot of clarity will be achieved for struggling relationships.

  • @jaidevnegi3628
    @jaidevnegi3628 Před 3 lety +4

    Very practical approach, if followed, martial difference will not aries.

  • @officialswatichannel
    @officialswatichannel Před rokem +7

    amazing series. kindly touch on wife's financial contribution while going through pregnancy and post partum / nursing phase.

  • @dr.devendrasharma6367
    @dr.devendrasharma6367 Před rokem +12

    Hard facts. Very good content. Such a good dissection of every Indian household problems which nobody wants to talk about. The flow of talk is excellent. I am hooked.

  • @kuldeepshourya154
    @kuldeepshourya154 Před rokem +1

    You r the legend sir jo Kam ki bat par discuss kar rhe ho

  • @snehalwakharkar1380
    @snehalwakharkar1380 Před rokem +1

    Sir. I really regret that my parents didn't have this understanding. Yet. I'm so lucky tht it is you who really know wht happens..

  • @rakheek4010
    @rakheek4010 Před rokem +5

    Hi Amit, very nice videos. I really like the content. It’s very relevant to what’s actually happening in middle and upper middle class families.

  • @alpanapaul8210
    @alpanapaul8210 Před rokem +1

    Like this topic on marriage and money handling. I believe that girls should also follow some career and earn and not be fully dependent on their husbands..

  • @angad2710
    @angad2710 Před rokem +9

    Thanks for sharing this:
    Question: When you say ladki ka paisa ladki ka hai, aur ladkha ka paisa common hai(Rights)-
    How does this pan out when qualified working man and woman get together in matrimony?
    Because man is expected to contribute much in household(Responsibility) as we live in a so called equal world.
    But here rights are skewed towards the woman whereas responsibilities are expected to be balanced across both.

    • @technicaltreasures7297
      @technicaltreasures7297 Před rokem

      You live in india right? Look around you and ask yourself are women given equal dignity of life? Do we have a concept of male infanticide in india?? Do we hear of men being used in sex trade? Is it an equal society?? Use your brains

  • @sumanamitabh
    @sumanamitabh Před 3 lety +3

    Very nice video; completely agree that every girl needs to earn

  • @FauziaPires
    @FauziaPires Před rokem +1

    Very true nowadays 25k should be given to hard working wife's

  • @jamesstephen1516
    @jamesstephen1516 Před rokem +2

    Very nice point , Please cover about midlife crisis of a couple and of their both side parents, n children ... especially teenagers children

  • @sudhatanwer8971
    @sudhatanwer8971 Před 7 měsíci

    100% right 👍 sir apki sari videos baut helpful hoti h

  • @apoorvchauhan4707
    @apoorvchauhan4707 Před 2 měsíci

    Bahut badia content

  • @abhijitpathre4996
    @abhijitpathre4996 Před 2 lety +3

    Plz make a video with some examples about the way in which women above 40 yrs can earn a living... what kind of work they can do..

  • @amneetsingh5908
    @amneetsingh5908 Před 3 lety +4

    very nicely covered

  • @vaijoyantakundu9670
    @vaijoyantakundu9670 Před 3 lety +4

    Sir
    The marital series deals with issues which affect every single one of us..u may like to consider the age difference issue for marriage for deliberation...

  • @RushikeshRUgale
    @RushikeshRUgale Před rokem +1

    Eye Opening Perspective

  • @improvelivingandlearning

    True said ladies ki b zarorat hain sirf roti kpra la dene kafi nai hai

  • @behalsaab7311
    @behalsaab7311 Před rokem +1

    Boht h solid videos hai 🔥🔥🔥

  • @suchitakale215
    @suchitakale215 Před rokem +1

    Really good video, you provide practicle solution to every program

  • @reenananwani9054
    @reenananwani9054 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Hello sir. Very good relevant video. Pls make video on NRI boys who work abroad n their parents think that son getting handsome salary as they compare with converting in Indian currency whereas in abroad people clean house on their own n living standards is also expensive. The in laws every time keep unwanted demand of getting things from foreign country whereas more variety avbl in India. I have never seen your any video on NRI Indians. Pls make on them also. Thank you

    • @shubhamjoshi8762
      @shubhamjoshi8762 Před 4 měsíci

      He is against foreign settlement

    • @RajeshIyer
      @RajeshIyer Před 4 měsíci

      Uske liye NRI hona bhi to chahiye uncle ji ko

  • @nikitafernandes461
    @nikitafernandes461 Před 2 měsíci

    Veey nyc video sir 👍👍

  • @sahilagnihotri5284
    @sahilagnihotri5284 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks for the great video sir . Waiting for some view on husband wife earning equal, decent income .

  • @seemaagrawal5506
    @seemaagrawal5506 Před 3 lety +2

    Great job sir 🙏 just find out ur vlog very EYEOPENING n extremely needed n no one in family n society talking about all this trying to watch all ur videos with speed n all are truly informative n can be easily understood by everyone UR ULTIMATE N GENUINE EFFORT helps to understand n improve the way of thinking
    Thanks a Lot for such helpful vlogs for changing n improving all aspects of life in such a Firm Friendly n True way in the society👌🙏💐

  • @seemasehrawat807
    @seemasehrawat807 Před 3 lety +1

    Ek dum sahi baat boli sir

  • @rishib2694
    @rishib2694 Před 3 lety +7

    Under this merital series - share your wisdom thoughts about when husband and his parents are not taking/demanding/expecting any money/monetary help from their working Bahu (Govt officer) but even then they are going through with her dominance

  • @BeingLife2024
    @BeingLife2024 Před 2 měsíci

    Please make a video on marital issues where husband expects that his wife should ask her mother and brother for compensation of difference of amount spent in their wedding and her sister's wedding. His wife was a bank officer and his sister-in-law is not working. Despite earning herself she never got the independence to even spend Rs.1000/- according to her wish, so she left the job and now this husband asks for both her job and also money from in-laws

  • @user-mo4nd8ck6z
    @user-mo4nd8ck6z Před 3 měsíci

    Nice very nice❤

  • @DeepikaTripathi-cy4hk
    @DeepikaTripathi-cy4hk Před 3 měsíci

    Bahut useful hai sir

  • @vipinjeetkaurgillgrewal5703
    @vipinjeetkaurgillgrewal5703 Před 11 měsíci

    I religiously follow all your videos as soon as they are posted.I sincerely appreciate your level of depth in understanding human psyche.
    Yet when it is said that NO housewife in middle class household does "jharoo pocha"...it seems like a derogatory task.
    In my House I do one and all kinds of chores...at times engage my kids too when they are free...to inculcate dignity of labour .As a hobby maintain a beautiful terrace cum kitchen garden which is nourished with homemade compost...my rental income though not too much but is enough to maintain sanity 😅

  • @akhild69
    @akhild69 Před rokem

    Please make a video on explaining about psychology of Man and women - How they think, which is very much required for new couple

  • @shaguftanasreen662
    @shaguftanasreen662 Před rokem +2

    If husband and wife are both earning and husband is working from morning to evening in office and wife is home at lunch time then how the money of both and work in household can be distributed between them

  • @mahimakatyal7436
    @mahimakatyal7436 Před 2 lety +1

    Sir plz make videos for issues faced by double income group
    Superb series

  • @sanskrutiswain4487
    @sanskrutiswain4487 Před rokem +1

    Please make a video how to manage money when both of the partners are working

  • @chetnakatyal5625
    @chetnakatyal5625 Před 9 měsíci

    Very informative....
    Great job!

  • @piyushmittal3659
    @piyushmittal3659 Před rokem +1

    👌its v nice

  • @nri18
    @nri18 Před 3 lety +3

    Very nicely covered... 👌
    Please make a video on work - family balance and how to manage time so can keep both boss & wife 😊

  • @renukajoshi8001
    @renukajoshi8001 Před rokem

    Very clear and genuine

  • @aishwaryasrivastava1048

    Nice content.Sir please ek video banaiye jis main husband and wife working kaise apna ghar chalaiye.

  • @dharamvirmalik8094
    @dharamvirmalik8094 Před 3 lety +1

    I am your big fan..sir 🙏

  • @priyankashrm55
    @priyankashrm55 Před rokem +1

    Right sir I agree with u

  • @jahanvibishnoi1744
    @jahanvibishnoi1744 Před rokem +1

    Very good

  • @seemachaudhary4311
    @seemachaudhary4311 Před rokem +1

    Sir ji, you are very right 👍 complete 💯

  • @rakheek4010
    @rakheek4010 Před rokem +4

    Can you also do a video on family of 2 brothers where older one does inter community/language (same caste though) marriage and younger one marries same community. Older one is abroad and younger one is at fathers house. Both brothers r well educated and so are the bahus. What challenges can arise in this family situation. 😊

    • @TheSanatanaMantra
      @TheSanatanaMantra Před rokem

      if i am at your situation.. would have call amit ji and ask for personal counseling

  • @payalgupta5618
    @payalgupta5618 Před 3 lety +3

    Sir please make a video on double income group

  • @Sanju-Sir1000
    @Sanju-Sir1000 Před 3 lety +1

    Nice video 👍

  • @chotiphalke9401
    @chotiphalke9401 Před rokem

    Excellent content

  • @akhild69
    @akhild69 Před rokem

    Please cover Managing Financial Issues for Double Income Spouses, Can equal contribution in joint account for family expenses be part of solution

  • @divyaalok5538
    @divyaalok5538 Před 2 lety

    Awesome Inc

  • @anurajagopal357
    @anurajagopal357 Před 9 měsíci

    You are awesome !

  • @dmguru67
    @dmguru67 Před rokem

    please make video on issue of working husband and wife after marriage,Sir.

  • @Sai-rp2pw
    @Sai-rp2pw Před rokem

    Amazing

  • @deepshikhasingh5978
    @deepshikhasingh5978 Před rokem +1

    Pl make video on working couple

  • @redguitarwarrior2179
    @redguitarwarrior2179 Před rokem

    Facts facts facts 👌🏼

  • @sudhasharma4212
    @sudhasharma4212 Před 2 lety

    Waiting for next vedio of yours

  • @shobhakalra2444
    @shobhakalra2444 Před rokem

    Satik baat...

  • @dr.s.choudhury8089
    @dr.s.choudhury8089 Před měsícem

    I have seen my mom earning and running the house along with managing chores. Marriage is the worst deal for women in india.

  • @grhub4935
    @grhub4935 Před rokem

    Sir pls make more videos on this topic.

  • @carajsreeghosh3580
    @carajsreeghosh3580 Před rokem +1

    Double income issues ka video please

  • @narendrasharma8867
    @narendrasharma8867 Před 2 lety

    Thanks sir

  • @swatitashu6889
    @swatitashu6889 Před rokem

    Yes

  • @kunumishra3515
    @kunumishra3515 Před rokem

    Working women issues with saas and husband. Want a video understanding on this topic.

  • @Funny.Babajee
    @Funny.Babajee Před 3 lety

    Nice 🙏🙏

  • @pratibhachaudhary8610
    @pratibhachaudhary8610 Před rokem +1

    👍🏻💯💯

  • @ayuship2022
    @ayuship2022 Před rokem

    True sir i agree

  • @its2easy563
    @its2easy563 Před rokem

    Sir bataiye kse ladies kma skti h ispe bhi banaiye vdo

  • @SanaKhan-pb8eb
    @SanaKhan-pb8eb Před 8 měsíci +1

    Sir main ek Sufi singer hun pati ki kam nahi karta tha Sara ghar ka aur bhr show karana bacche ko dekhna ys k maa baap aur rishtedaro sab kuch dekhti thi nager woh fir bhi Sara privar mujh e har baat pe judge karta tha aur mar peer bhi hota tha bank se bhut se loen le rakhe the un sab ka emi bhi main deti thi jab baat haad ziyada barh gai to jab maine paise ka hisab pucha to mujhe gher se mar peer kar nikal diya or carecter less bol k badnam kar diya na mera beta diya na property se kuch diya mummy papa ki death ho gai bhai aur bhabhi ne bhi un ki baton main akar Mera sath nahi diya or mujh se teen lakh rupe udhar le k mukar gye please Jo ladkiyaan akele gher chali hain working ahin aur un ki phir bhi koi kadar nahi us par zrur vidio banaye

    • @RajeshIyer
      @RajeshIyer Před 4 měsíci

      Bhagwan aapko achche insaan ki sangati de 😊

  • @orchidorchid9324
    @orchidorchid9324 Před 2 lety

    Pls make video on double income cases

  • @TheCoolrockstar13
    @TheCoolrockstar13 Před rokem

    Sir touch upon who n how the kids will be taken care off if both are working.. none want to leave job to take care of kid.. already living separately from in laws

  • @englishtalks8395
    @englishtalks8395 Před rokem

    Reality

  • @Iamshifali
    @Iamshifali Před rokem

    Pls sir video on how to earn money.

  • @DESWAL1983-q1z
    @DESWAL1983-q1z Před 3 lety

    Sangwaan ji jaroor bnaye double income wale group ke liye

  • @Ramkishanraj290
    @Ramkishanraj290 Před 3 lety

  • @speciallife2900
    @speciallife2900 Před 3 lety

    Sir plz work from home k liye videos bnaye 🙏

  • @avideepful
    @avideepful Před rokem +1

    Double income couples ke issues pls

  • @shaguftanasreen662
    @shaguftanasreen662 Před rokem +1

    Agar larki and larka braber hai pair dono kama ker ikathay gher ka kharuch chalaen and gher ka kama bhi mil Jul ker karain

  • @MP-lb1bv
    @MP-lb1bv Před rokem

    20 se 25 hazaar jiske baare mein kuch hisaab nahi hoga...ajeeb baat hai, kitne logo ki tankhwah hi sirf 50,60 hazaar hogi.

  • @lalantop8600
    @lalantop8600 Před 3 lety

    Sir, paise kaise kama sakte hain? Mei abhi 3yrs se kaam nahi kar hoon, mujhe paise kahaan se aayege??? Husband se meine kabhi nahi leye hain, mujhe mera kharcha niklna hain, and my husband has got used to not giving me money. He has never said no but he doesn't give me anything. He operates all the bank accounts, whatever I earned he told me it is gone in our son's education. I don't have a right over my own earned money.

  • @doctorj5968
    @doctorj5968 Před rokem

    Tha

  • @smitabhatnagar1054
    @smitabhatnagar1054 Před rokem

    Mai to kisi marriage counselor ko nahi janti. Bete aur hone wali bahu ko milwana chahti hu, kya aap marriage counselling kerte hain. Agar haan to please address n pH no share kijiye.

  • @its2easy563
    @its2easy563 Před rokem

    Namaskar sir ap se kse mil.skte h

  • @dreamhouse911
    @dreamhouse911 Před rokem

    Double income husband and wife sir manage life

  • @anshudeep7426
    @anshudeep7426 Před rokem

    I want to talk with u how can i contact u