The fact that saying OF is morally wrong can get you cancelled says a lot about the kind of world we are living in. Hats off to you for pointing that out Alex. Subscribed to your channel in 2017, proud of you and your journey.
You know what, alex. i liked the fact that you said it pretty much straight up, a woman who has only fans is a red flag, and not many would influencers or youtubers would say that based on backlash or lack of likes or views, so much appreciated alex
Great advice, dating has definitely changed even compared to ten years ago. Young men take these tips to heart and don’t be afraid to walk away from a toxic lady. Theirs plenty of quality and pleasant women out there don’t become a simp/slave.
Nice video. The fact that these red flags are so common in our society shows how truly lost we are as a whole. They are the tacit acknowledgment of the moral decay that has been enshrined by our society. The number one red flag is they don’t know the difference between right and wrong behavior. An inability or unwillingness to communicate is number two.
So much respect to you Alex for talking about OF, I feel like it’s not talked about a lot by other male influencers when they give dating advice. I just got out of a relationship and I’m also starting to open up to being with other females so this was helpful. Thanks man
Bro stay strong ik breaking up sucks but i belive coz of watching you over the course of several year you'll be alright .Be positive mate everything will be alright 😊
I faced the same things in my relationship and i tried my best to make it better, but at the end i had to save my sanity and leave. This video makes me feel that i was right and im not alone. Thanks Alex!
Thank you Alex for creating this video and addressing potential red flags in relationships. It’s so important for young people to recognize these signs and make informed choices. Your guidance is for youth specially. Keep up the fantastic work man!
Man refreshing to hear this. Guys dont fall for the game. Be real work on yourself. Give attention to the ones that give it back. Nice video men should see and adopt this attitude. To many brothers out there putting wayy to much energy in girls to upset the balance.
That makes me wonder, how do you (Alex) manage to go through a breakup? I suppose it ended in good terms, but still, what you do with the memories and the feelings of the moments?
Bars! You make a great point. Too many of us are dating just for self, that’s why our relationships are so temporary. You’d probably like the book “How to know a person” by David Brooks. It talks about how we should act in accompaniment to others, along their journey, each person of the other. How to really see a person and be seen. I’ll check out some more of your content. Keep up the good work!
hey alex i have been subcribed to your channel for almost a year and recently your videos have been a bit more serious than your earlier ones and i love as there is point where seriousness is required love from india👍👍
Yup I have learned to not waste time and effort on matches who play mind games or intentionally reply late. I smell these red flags from a mile away. You only need to text a few times to find out what your matches are like. Just put your energy elsewhere.
Tip for guys is low interest woman, if u find that she isn’t as interested as u are than she won’t treat u as good as guys she’s interested in Only deal with woman that CHOOSES YOU and I will have less problems and headaches
That #5 is actually a thing to discuss. There's a term in our language that translates to Hammering. So basically if someone does an action(doing/saying/thinking etc) enough times, then suddenly it becomes a part of him/her. If I'm doing something for money then committing to that thing without money is going to take an enormous toll. Also a personal project shouldn't be available in open-source, right?
Nah Nah, that is not controversial at all. It is wrong of course it is wrong and No “OnlyFans” girl can prove it right. Big hats off to Alex for pointing this out. These things can be resolved when pointed out. Love you Alex, massive respect! 🙏🏽
The only reason women will "play games" with you is that if they think you're rich, if they think they can get something from you BUT you're not really their type.
Stop generalizing people. My brother who is having trouble dating showed me your videos. Although it might be helpful you seem to generalize that every woman wants a certain type of guy. I for one and many other women don't like men who have abs or have beards, or dress in expensive clothes. I dont lie overly masculine guys. I actually prefer the nerdy types of guys. I love guys with glasses, guys who are sensitive and attentive to women. My preference and a lot of women like the K-drama type of guy. Korean men are so cute!!!!
You know there are open relationships, and also pornstars with relationships and so on... the onlyfans rly isn't the biggest problem. I understand, that you value the privacy and want the privilage of beeing the only man that has a sexual relationship with her and I wouldn't be far from that. Me my self wouldn't be happy if my gf is openly presenting her of. But saying "it's a red flag" only accounts for you. People can have healthy relationships, even if they are into sexwork. People who can live with that btw. Have a more healthy relationship compared to normal couples, just saying. But well. If you declare it a redflag, declare it your personal one. That's all I am saying.
Also, please stop teaching young men to be superficial. Most women I know dont like materialistic men. They want responsible and able men. Men who can make things. You dont have to be strong and have muscles. Maybe learn how to change a flat tire, learn carpentry, learn how to play an instrument or paint or something. Have an attractive pasion. Men who show off and brag about their expensive clothes, expensive house and expensive car most women usually stay away from. The only girls you're gonna get when you show off and brag that you're rich are gold diggers and the wrong kind of women who will just use you for money.
A woman with Onlyfans account is not available... She is too available! To everybody or anything! Also if your first dates does NOT include basic questions of your life and what you are doing, or like and she's telling you things only about herself... Then WALK AWAY guys! She is not interesting about you at all! She is propably Narcissist and that's a mentally unhealthy issue for you and a huuuuge red flag!
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Thank you for watching and have a great week!
-AC
I'm single since my birth now I'm 28
Yo I gotta ask man. Where is that sweater from? Looks perfect
The fact that saying OF is morally wrong can get you cancelled says a lot about the kind of world we are living in. Hats off to you for pointing that out Alex. Subscribed to your channel in 2017, proud of you and your journey.
You know what, alex. i liked the fact that you said it pretty much straight up, a woman who has only fans is a red flag, and not many would influencers or youtubers would say that based on backlash or lack of likes or views, so much appreciated alex
Great advice, dating has definitely changed even compared to ten years ago. Young men take these tips to heart and don’t be afraid to walk away from a toxic lady. Theirs plenty of quality and pleasant women out there don’t become a simp/slave.
Nice video.
The fact that these red flags are so common in our society shows how truly lost we are as a whole.
They are the tacit acknowledgment of the moral decay that has been enshrined by our society.
The number one red flag is they don’t know the difference between right and wrong behavior.
An inability or unwillingness to communicate is number two.
So much respect to you Alex for talking about OF, I feel like it’s not talked about a lot by other male influencers when they give dating advice. I just got out of a relationship and I’m also starting to open up to being with other females so this was helpful. Thanks man
Sorry to hear your relationship ended but nice to see you holding strong bro! Whatever doesn’t happen, happens for the better💪
only singles are allowed to like..
I did anyways, watchu gonna do?
@@fre_thie7788he wants your address so you can catch him outside lol
I liked 😎
🤝
😂😂😂
We need more men to speak out about this. Great work
Bro stay strong ik breaking up sucks but i belive coz of watching you over the course of several year you'll be alright .Be positive mate everything will be alright 😊
I faced the same things in my relationship and i tried my best to make it better, but at the end i had to save my sanity and leave. This video makes me feel that i was right and im not alone. Thanks Alex!
Thank you Alex for creating this video and addressing potential red flags in relationships. It’s so important for young people to recognize these signs and make informed choices. Your guidance is for youth specially. Keep up the fantastic work man!
I completely agree with the only fans point.
Very sorry to hear about your breakup..you both looked great together..I have seen so many of your videos..
Great expectations to have and boundaries to set.
Man refreshing to hear this. Guys dont fall for the game. Be real work on yourself. Give attention to the ones that give it back. Nice video men should see and adopt this attitude. To many brothers out there putting wayy to much energy in girls to upset the balance.
when i subscribed your channel you had like a few thousand subscribers. It’s amazing that how far you’ve come from . ✊🏻🔥
Andrew Tate ❎
Alex costa✅
😂😂
Agree
Completely agree
That makes me wonder, how do you (Alex) manage to go through a breakup? I suppose it ended in good terms, but still, what you do with the memories and the feelings of the moments?
Bars! You make a great point. Too many of us are dating just for self, that’s why our relationships are so temporary. You’d probably like the book “How to know a person” by David Brooks. It talks about how we should act in accompaniment to others, along their journey, each person of the other. How to really see a person and be seen.
I’ll check out some more of your content. Keep up the good work!
You are just like our elder brother..♥️.. keep it up..😊♥️
Thank you so much!
thankyou so much Alex, helpful as always
You're very welcome!
hey alex
i have been subcribed to your channel for almost a year and recently your videos have been a bit more serious than your earlier ones and i love as there is point where seriousness is required
love from india👍👍
I just got out of the relationship of all the red flags I was done waiting for her to change I deserve better
You got this man!
@@alexcosta thanks brother 😊
Yup I have learned to not waste time and effort on matches who play mind games or intentionally reply late. I smell these red flags from a mile away. You only need to text a few times to find out what your matches are like. Just put your energy elsewhere.
Exactly the video I needed
thank you for the tip ...now i know whom to look for
Thanks for every tip bro it helped a lot
Can you do a video on how to get long hair
Early and thanks for advice you have made me a better young man,
Extremely nice haircut the one on your thumbnail? Have a video tutorial of it? At least the name of the hairstyle? ._. Thanks for the value provided
Congrats on 4mi subs bro, keep it up! Saudações do Brasil 🇧🇷
Muito obrigado!
This video is on point💯 Appreciate it.
Parabéns Alex pelo trabalho!
Didnt know you joined the club. Welcome brother and lets hope to find the right ones for us
Brother congratulations for 4 million subscribers ❤
Thanks a lot man!
Congo Alex for hitting 4M 🥂💯 Keep going
Thanks a lot man!
Tip for guys is low interest woman, if u find that she isn’t as interested as u are than she won’t treat u as good as guys she’s interested in
Only deal with woman that CHOOSES YOU and I will have less problems and headaches
Can we get a link to the grey suit and shoes you wore in the suit mistakes video
i just keep on trying
not giving up on her
Damnn, Alex started without any intro whatsoever
Nice video. Well done and very informative.
Great video and Happy New Year Alex!
Thank you! Happy 2024!
@@alexcosta You are very welcome!
I agree with your first point!
Great video, Alex! Thanks a lot. Hope you find someone great, hopefully red flags free hah
How come you & Robbi brokeup man? You were so great together!
Favorite character Alex Costa
Lots of love and respect from Pakistan ❤️🇵🇰🇦🇿❤️
Much love!
You're actually watching this video? Hope your relationship gets healthy
It didn't and I left
Real talk!!
You should've personally listen to these signs before you got dumped down bad.
That #5 is actually a thing to discuss. There's a term in our language that translates to Hammering. So basically if someone does an action(doing/saying/thinking etc) enough times, then suddenly it becomes a part of him/her. If I'm doing something for money then committing to that thing without money is going to take an enormous toll.
Also a personal project shouldn't be available in open-source, right?
Straight up facts
7:03 Wait you're single now? Last time I was subscribed to your channel, you were dating someone. What happened there if you don't mind me asking?
Hi alex , i wanna know tips about long term relationship
This applies to all of them, but will work on more of these for you guys
OF is definitely a red flag in a relationship.
Agreed!
Nah Nah, that is not controversial at all. It is wrong of course it is wrong and No “OnlyFans” girl can prove it right. Big hats off to Alex for pointing this out. These things can be resolved when pointed out. Love you Alex, massive respect! 🙏🏽
Love from india..alex❤
Much love!
I think you can make better video,I miss last year your winter videos ,they were awesome
Going down based zeus (benjamin seda) route
Hi Alex, I love your new video style with these animations and stuff! But I think these stock videos are killing the vibe. Better leave them out
❤ nice bro keep it up 👍
Thanks man!
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH THE ONLY FANS PART. I don't want my woman to be seen n ked by thousands of men.
Love from India 🇮🇳
Much love!
Isn’t it always split the bill on a first day?
Happy new year Alex ❤ enjoying Dubai??
Yes, I loved it! Happy 2024
how's your point of view on the people dating celebs who had history on movies of series with nudity scenes ?
Im sorry With your breakup with robbi
Hey Alex please make a haircut videos
The only reason women will "play games" with you is that if they think you're rich, if they think they can get something from you BUT you're not really their type.
Stop generalizing people. My brother who is having trouble dating showed me your videos. Although it might be helpful you seem to generalize that every woman wants a certain type of guy. I for one and many other women don't like men who have abs or have beards, or dress in expensive clothes. I dont lie overly masculine guys. I actually prefer the nerdy types of guys. I love guys with glasses, guys who are sensitive and attentive to women. My preference and a lot of women like the K-drama type of guy. Korean men are so cute!!!!
She was having 5 of them she was green flag for me but she left 🙂
My brother going red pill Sheesh🔥🔥
Love from India Alex bruh ❤️
Would you ever tell us why your single again?👀
The girl was high maintenance
You know there are open relationships, and also pornstars with relationships and so on... the onlyfans rly isn't the biggest problem. I understand, that you value the privacy and want the privilage of beeing the only man that has a sexual relationship with her and I wouldn't be far from that. Me my self wouldn't be happy if my gf is openly presenting her of. But saying "it's a red flag" only accounts for you. People can have healthy relationships, even if they are into sexwork. People who can live with that btw. Have a more healthy relationship compared to normal couples, just saying. But well. If you declare it a redflag, declare it your personal one. That's all I am saying.
Ill persue an of but not for a relationship
What happened to your exgf Robbie?
The last red flag is the biggest red flag of all. Just run away if u find that flag.
hi alex love from india!!!
"She may need the money or have a good reason for having an OF, but I just dont care".
King Me Statement
did he have this red flags?
Love u from india ❤❤
Also, please stop teaching young men to be superficial. Most women I know dont like materialistic men. They want responsible and able men. Men who can make things. You dont have to be strong and have muscles. Maybe learn how to change a flat tire, learn carpentry, learn how to play an instrument or paint or something. Have an attractive pasion. Men who show off and brag about their expensive clothes, expensive house and expensive car most women usually stay away from. The only girls you're gonna get when you show off and brag that you're rich are gold diggers and the wrong kind of women who will just use you for money.
OF is one of the biggest downfall of modern women. Change my mind.
Cadê o MW3 kkkkk abraço.
You need to do a podcast with Rollo Tomassi.
Zgadzam się OF to gówno dziękuję, że to powiedziałeś❤
A woman with Onlyfans account is not available... She is too available! To everybody or anything!
Also if your first dates does NOT include basic questions of your life and what you are doing, or like and she's telling you things only about herself...
Then WALK AWAY guys!
She is not interesting about you at all!
She is propably Narcissist and that's a mentally unhealthy issue for you and a huuuuge red flag!
Reasons why you kicked your ex out?😅
What happened to your girlfriend Alex?
Summary guy slacking
Single now???😢😢😢 robi????
Become an of manager make 5k yr
First view
Firtssssssss
free palestine
If she has a Lonelyfans link on her dating app profile, believe me, she's not on there looking to date. 😂