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  • čas přidán 19. 12. 2023
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    Lots of guys waste time chasing after girls instead of working on themselves to make girls interested in them. It's a common mistake, and today we're talking about how to fix it and get them to notice you instead. Watch the video, and let me know if you learned something new!"
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Komentáře • 156

  • @Elonbuffet1512
    @Elonbuffet1512 Před 8 měsíci +278

    Focus on goals rather than holes😊

  • @benthomson632
    @benthomson632 Před 8 měsíci +32

    Junior year of high school, the summer before, I went to the gym, learned how to style my hair, found my style, figured out how to be confident and started to talk more. 5/6 of these I have used and all of them worked! Time and time again my friends come to me and tell me there is another girl that likes me that just builds my confidence. I’d have to say thank you to Alex for this progress.

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  Před 8 měsíci +3

      That is awesome! Thanks a lot, have a great school year

  • @alexcosta
    @alexcosta  Před 8 měsíci +22

    Don't forget to follow me on instagram.com/alexcosta
    Thank you for watching and have a great week!
    -AC

  • @young_gang7354
    @young_gang7354 Před 8 měsíci +10

    Used to not use skin products, workout or have good fashion in early 2021. That was until I found you around September 2021 randomly. Subbed ever since. Never regret that. Today seems like I'm more confident, manly, better looking and fun to be around.
    Big Thanks from South Africa 🇿🇦 🙏🏿 ❤

  • @ZHwilderness
    @ZHwilderness Před 7 měsíci +16

    Your confidence depends on how you feel from inside. No body's life is perfect. No one can be confident all the time. It's okay to be anxious sometimes. That's real and raw. Btw your videos are spreading positive vibes❤

    • @mess-f
      @mess-f Před 7 měsíci

      Agreed! I use these videos with the young men I coach, Alex inspires rather than makes guys feel like they are “less than”. As a woman it’s harder to impart this particular wisdom; Alex makes it easy to see how to be approachable and attractive using your own natural look and style.

  • @ssesangamelvin823
    @ssesangamelvin823 Před 8 měsíci +7

    I started listening to you in the lockdown and damn has my life changed for the better.
    I appreciate you Alex

  • @adityachampawat1414
    @adityachampawat1414 Před 8 měsíci +8

    Congratulations brother on reaching 4 millions subscribers!!! Keep up the great work and you’ll achieve much more! ❤

  • @gauravbhan
    @gauravbhan Před 2 měsíci

    I have spent years and years and years on self-improvement. Every time I reach a certain level, I realize that there is so much more. I am 40, and if I now look back to when I was 20 or 25, there is so much change.
    One thing I must work on is eye contact, which at the moment isn't consistent. I have also started acknowledging that not every day will be the same. It is ok to sometimes feel miserable, low, or underconfident temporarily. I mustn't beat myself up for feeling that way. Acknowledge and move on.

  • @nilimahossan3960
    @nilimahossan3960 Před 8 měsíci +9

    You transformed me from zero to a 7... Trying to improve everyday but the acne is my main curse😕😕.. I get noticed but not approached

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  Před 8 měsíci +3

      Thanks a lot man, fight the acne- it will go away eventually!

  • @ThisisEnzoman
    @ThisisEnzoman Před 8 měsíci +1

    Alex I'm here with you my brother , congrats 🎉 so happy for you , i can't imagine my life without you much love my reason of keeping things going ❤

  • @yoshiinasuit8160
    @yoshiinasuit8160 Před 8 měsíci +1

    After messing up my first interaction with my “crush” this week I’m going see her again,thanks Alex!

  • @lintianjun4115
    @lintianjun4115 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thanks for the advises all these years man, you've no idea how much I changed because of you! And I'm soooo proud of you that you hit 4M, literally discovered your channel at 600K!!!

  • @neerajbharali619
    @neerajbharali619 Před 8 měsíci

    Alex jst wanted to tell u i have been watching ur videos since about a year nd i can say my looks have improved a lot nd i have dated plenty of girls bcuz of this glow up thnx to u

  • @joaoIsousa
    @joaoIsousa Před 8 měsíci +5

    “Yaa… this is the new me” 😂
    Isso foi muito engraçado! Abraço de Portugal! 🇵🇹

  • @AlexPenn.DatingCoach
    @AlexPenn.DatingCoach Před 6 měsíci

    Great insights! Your personal experiences resonate, especially the transformation through unique hairstyles and the impact of physical fitness. It's refreshing to hear practical advice on standing out and making a memorable first impression. Your tips on style and footwear are spot-on. Also, the emphasis on confidence, eye contact, and being vocal is gold. As a fellow dating coach, I appreciate the practical wisdom you're sharing. Keep up the excellent work!

  • @paytongreen13
    @paytongreen13 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Lots of love Alex, Congratulations on the success of 4 Million Subscribers❤️🎉
    I haven’t gone to the gym because I couldn’t afford the monthly payment however luckily my new insurance plan has a benefit of a free Gym Membership so I’m definitely going to start going to the Gym quite often starting New Year’s 2024. I’ve been watching your videos I think for 4 years now. Keep up the great work man.

  • @aakashsankhla9511
    @aakashsankhla9511 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Congratulations 4M❤ ALEX I FOLLOW U SINCE 2013.LOTS OF LOVE FROM INDIA 🇮🇳MAN✨

  • @giladmintz3877
    @giladmintz3877 Před 8 měsíci +8

    Alex before I watch your videos I was also a little confused and didn't even know my style my hair but then I started watching your videos and it was like a game-changer you really helped me learn about my personal style my hair and everything even to my skincare thank you so much for helping me you are like the big brother I never really had thanks bro❤❤❤❤

  • @sunitachari8888
    @sunitachari8888 Před 8 měsíci +3

    thanks Alex! this video was really helpfull
    much love bro❤❤

  • @emersonuayan5851
    @emersonuayan5851 Před 7 měsíci

    wayback 2020 it's only around 1M now 4M what a milestone! congratulations alex you deserve it!

  • @salmanelazmani16
    @salmanelazmani16 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Bro I love your comtent , Again good video . Congratulations for 4m

  • @pratikpanwar999
    @pratikpanwar999 Před 8 měsíci

    Every videos on youtube I switch 1॰5x but your videos I love to watch at normal speed because ur way of talking and editing I love so much
    Love from india tq for this type of help

  • @mohamedwazeer4071
    @mohamedwazeer4071 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Bro i love your aston martin i really love your videos

  • @rohanwable751
    @rohanwable751 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Congratulations Alex on your 4M.

  • @dragonlore7237
    @dragonlore7237 Před 8 měsíci +4

    A day without hearing Alex feels like 24 hours!!

    • @thedarkknight0710
      @thedarkknight0710 Před 8 měsíci +2

      wonder what other days feel like 🤣

    • @dragonlore7237
      @dragonlore7237 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@thedarkknight0710 I really miss Joker (Heath Ledger), dude!!

  • @khapip
    @khapip Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you alex ❤

  • @rinkeshgokulchandani4181
    @rinkeshgokulchandani4181 Před 7 měsíci

    You put 4M subscribers thing at 4:00. Nice little detail. Love your channel btw. Really good content.🍻❤

  • @Ghost1218
    @Ghost1218 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Congratulations on 4 million

  • @CarlosJosueGonzalez2223
    @CarlosJosueGonzalez2223 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Hello from Chicago Illinois Pilsen !!!! 🇺🇸

  • @Nipu-km8hn
    @Nipu-km8hn Před 8 měsíci

    Make a video of skincare routine and products to use for combination skin pls

  • @eugenendungu4062
    @eugenendungu4062 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Dude after I started working out, the amount of looks I never once got is just SHOCKING 😮 especially women no matter what age 😢

  • @likesh-fn6ii
    @likesh-fn6ii Před 6 měsíci +1

    00:01 Stand out to make women notice you
    01:16 To be noticed, you need to be unique.
    02:28 Physical transformation and garnering attention
    03:43 Unique style is crucial for making a great first impression.
    04:51 Dress to represent the man you want to be seen as
    05:59 Facial hair can enhance your attractiveness and create a more masculine look.
    07:14 Walk with confidence and make eye contact.
    08:33 Engage in interesting and funny conversation to catch her attention.

  • @ninoxninox3883
    @ninoxninox3883 Před 8 měsíci

    5 years with you, keep going

  • @RichardChips
    @RichardChips Před 8 měsíci +1

    alex you are an influence. i have the best hair of any guy i know know because of you.

  • @kingdark5899
    @kingdark5899 Před 8 měsíci

    Congratulations on hitting 4M Alex

  • @teojovanovski1189
    @teojovanovski1189 Před 8 měsíci

    The best video about women on youtube by far. Love this content but I miss the fashion videos a little.

  • @seemahasan8316
    @seemahasan8316 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Love u from india but when are your forte series products come to india.Really can't wait for them plzzz dude so something ❤❤😢

  • @Vytablade
    @Vytablade Před 8 měsíci +4

    Hey Alex, Congrats on the incredible milestone! Glad I could be here to see you come so far!
    I have 2 questions if you don't mind.
    1st: I'm an introvert. I don't get much social interaction, and often when I meet new people it's always awkward or quiet. Please, if you can, help me to remedy this?
    2nd: Yours and many other CZcams videos have gotten me out of dark times. I noticed, however, that a lot of men around me struggle with what I did. I wanted to try and help by creating a social media platform to help men be better like you do. I wanted to know, if possible, how to gain social media influence, enough to get started on climbing high?

  • @Gyatttmunch
    @Gyatttmunch Před 8 měsíci +2

    Man I don’t even really care about women anymore, I just wanna be happy again. No hate though, keep doing what you do.

  • @user-uu9vl8dh5p
    @user-uu9vl8dh5p Před 8 měsíci

    Amazing and helpful as always ✨

  • @peace.85
    @peace.85 Před 8 měsíci

    Totally unique video it's helping. Appreciate you brother

  • @aleksapribicevic3951
    @aleksapribicevic3951 Před 8 měsíci

    I just want to say thank you u halped me abput style with this videos. Just keep going and help others like u helped me and I succed in the goal to find a girlfriend all because of things that I learnd here

  • @MakesYouGentleman
    @MakesYouGentleman Před 8 měsíci

    I'm from Bangladesh and I'm watching your videos to learn something new and it's really helpful to me Thank you Alex

  • @theclasher427
    @theclasher427 Před 7 měsíci

    Perfectly explained

  • @order9216
    @order9216 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Does anyone have this problem like you make eye contact with a girl then then they smile at you then you don't know what to do

  • @Rajutrs7
    @Rajutrs7 Před 7 měsíci

    You are always besttt😭💗

  • @user-vh5ps4tr1s
    @user-vh5ps4tr1s Před 8 měsíci

    I see you with the OM-JM 28 in the background👀

  • @jonshawunited
    @jonshawunited Před 8 měsíci

    This video is great thanks Alex. :) Jon

  • @mianusama28
    @mianusama28 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Hi bro, Make video on "How to fix bad posture" Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰❤

  • @xealzy944
    @xealzy944 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Yo Alex I see the new Martin 20th Anniversary John Mayer guitar in the background there! Do you still play?

  • @dimmadome7609
    @dimmadome7609 Před 8 měsíci

    I just clicked on the video to say that the thumbnail is very relatable

  • @mohamedwazeer4071
    @mohamedwazeer4071 Před 8 měsíci +2

    What is the best hairstyle for an oval face shape I am 19 plz

    • @ali8804
      @ali8804 Před měsícem

      Try side part it’s awesome

  • @waldalf8930
    @waldalf8930 Před 8 měsíci

    great video. btw What is your beard length?

  • @Udaypuvvada
    @Udaypuvvada Před 8 měsíci

    Lots of love towards your words And Works

  • @kowshikkush9998
    @kowshikkush9998 Před 7 měsíci

    0:07 They always look 😂🎉

  • @isaaczavalza4464
    @isaaczavalza4464 Před 8 měsíci

    Loving that JM guitar 😮‍💨

  • @Egypt0001
    @Egypt0001 Před 8 měsíci

    Make a best perfume that girl like most I have Versace Eros

  • @TreAloisio
    @TreAloisio Před 8 měsíci

    Teach this hack please 🙏🏽 How do you hide your shoelaces like you did with the dress shoes? Sometimes I can tuck my lsces under the tongue of my sneakers, but for boots and all shoes, how to get the "no bow tie laces" look?

  • @kyleelkin
    @kyleelkin Před 8 měsíci

    Great video~ I tried ordering the BM shoes but the link must be broken and wouldn't let me check out :(

  • @azharmunief491
    @azharmunief491 Před 8 měsíci

    Alex I have an oval shape face and was wondering does facial age matter when choosing a hairstyle?

  • @Edwin582
    @Edwin582 Před 8 měsíci

    Hey Alex, where are those carpenter pants from in the video at around 6:00

  • @youssefelsayad2080
    @youssefelsayad2080 Před 7 měsíci

    What do you mean exactly by a girl noticing me, do you mean like looking at me for a second or two or longer than that or do you mean another thing

  • @mohamedwazeer4071
    @mohamedwazeer4071 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank you soo much

  • @dominickgiannotti
    @dominickgiannotti Před 8 měsíci

    Do you have that winter look book coming soon?

  • @BobRoss-wm3lc
    @BobRoss-wm3lc Před 8 měsíci

    Hey Alex what length is your hair in this video?

  • @chandlerbing2210
    @chandlerbing2210 Před 8 měsíci

    Man you skin is looking better, what's up?

  • @defining_moments
    @defining_moments Před 8 měsíci

    Alex question, now what about if every time there is a hot woman passing by and obviously with all your videos I always dress good they always look at me. Always! I mean I just pause at times and I don’t say anything but in general they always look at me at times a small smile. They always make eye contact!

  • @vasudevanpurushothaman2557
    @vasudevanpurushothaman2557 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Love from india Alex

  • @henrysabie09
    @henrysabie09 Před 8 měsíci

    Im a teen and there's a girl I really like and I think she likes me. But I don't how to tell her. How do I do this?. I really want to tell her.

  • @nmxgamer8271
    @nmxgamer8271 Před 8 měsíci

    I confessed to MY CRUSH that i liked her , but she was in a hurry and I stopped her without warning. She was surprised by what I said and then she said, “We will talk about this later,” but she did not come and I did not go to talk to her again, but I noticed that she was shy when I caught her looking at me, and her friends began to look at me a lot. do I stop liking her and look for another one, please tell me alex costa 😔😔

    • @ItsJustBoneBro
      @ItsJustBoneBro Před 8 měsíci

      Probably scared you bro.

    • @nmxgamer8271
      @nmxgamer8271 Před 8 měsíci

      @@ItsJustBoneBro no, i thought that to but she talked to me with no guard and open body language too this is what confused me

  • @simanasibalatani4283
    @simanasibalatani4283 Před 8 měsíci

    How about a collab video with Teachingmensfashion Alex it's about time

  • @mallikjan2180
    @mallikjan2180 Před 8 měsíci

    You are like big brother ❤

  • @ikiing._0722
    @ikiing._0722 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Alex Costa 🔥

  • @Don-da-ke
    @Don-da-ke Před 8 měsíci

    She wants to fish guys. She wants to go fishing 😂

  • @idkaffanidk2359
    @idkaffanidk2359 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Im overweight please help me
    Make a video on this please

    • @zx1nyy
      @zx1nyy Před 8 měsíci

      Theres a lot of weight loss videos and channels

  • @kdskumara7422
    @kdskumara7422 Před 8 měsíci

    Love alex ❤❤❤

  • @goviljoson5192
    @goviljoson5192 Před 8 měsíci

    Sir my forehead has very low hair density, and hair fall increase day by day as my father is also bald ,so please suggest a way so that my hair fall will reduce, please help I'm in depression....
    From - new Delhi India

  • @shuvojit7146
    @shuvojit7146 Před 8 měsíci

    Im am from india alex love your videos big brother ❤

  • @jcransome5616
    @jcransome5616 Před 5 měsíci

    Still. Not working

  • @Geogian_
    @Geogian_ Před 8 měsíci

    Hello Alex, I hope you are doing well, I don’t get many compliments from women.

  • @daralop
    @daralop Před 7 měsíci

    Did Alex brake up with his girlfriend? I haven’t seen them together in a while

    • @twmax6525
      @twmax6525 Před 3 měsíci

      You mean pump the brakes on his relationship? That kind of brake up? Much better than an actual break up. Lol.

  • @Udaypuvvada
    @Udaypuvvada Před 8 měsíci +1

    Hey Hi Big Fan Brohhhh

  • @CYB-J3RRY
    @CYB-J3RRY Před 8 měsíci +1

    before US , where u live? where r u from ???

  • @aliyayay1228
    @aliyayay1228 Před 8 měsíci

    Hi Alex, you may not see this comment, but i struggling with a girl in my university which i can't forget, it's been 2 years, now i have her in a same class in this semester, but i can't approach, only thing I've done so far is just helping her through out the question she asked in WhatsApp. And that's all.. ❤

    • @drroble.gurhan3594
      @drroble.gurhan3594 Před 29 dny

      So, did you get her yet??

    • @aliyayay1228
      @aliyayay1228 Před 29 dny

      @@drroble.gurhan3594 well, term has finished, i assume maybe i see her next term( start in 3 month) and maybe not..

  • @atharvadhotre6365
    @atharvadhotre6365 Před 8 měsíci

    Love from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @Soorian_
    @Soorian_ Před 8 měsíci +1

    Hi alex

    • @alexcosta
      @alexcosta  Před 8 měsíci

      Hey!

    • @Soorian_
      @Soorian_ Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@alexcosta how u doing?

    • @eddieagui1554
      @eddieagui1554 Před 8 měsíci +1

      ​@@alexcostabe clean.dress well.smell good.manscape.dress well. Have decent tool size.

  • @Geogian_
    @Geogian_ Před 8 měsíci

    Is there a way you can help me out please?

  • @Adityasm27
    @Adityasm27 Před 6 měsíci +1

    video thumbnail, WTF Lol

  • @AdityaSingh-ot8vu
    @AdityaSingh-ot8vu Před 8 měsíci

    In my gym there is cute girl buti didn't start talk to her .I want her to notice me at least give me a glance so that I can talk to her . I want to talk to her but I am scared to talk her please can anybody help me . Please tell me how I can talk to her at least how can I make me notice to her so that I can start conversation with her

  • @alimian840
    @alimian840 Před 7 měsíci

    jnnay ntc kna ay kr le gi jinnay nhi krna o ni kre gi

  • @senthilbalajiv4920
    @senthilbalajiv4920 Před 8 měsíci

    How to talk to my girl I feel difficult

  • @maxrozario7988
    @maxrozario7988 Před 8 měsíci

    fat to fit guidelines video plz

  • @cwrichardson3
    @cwrichardson3 Před 8 měsíci

    Your hair grew long in 6 months from those pictures you showed. The ones when you talked about your license and planet fitness membership. I think those pictures are longer than 6 months apart.

  • @divinealex2
    @divinealex2 Před 8 měsíci

    Tbh i disagree on this one because if tou try to get girls who dontblike you you are going to dive yourself crazy and even if you do get her it will be alot of headaches.

  • @Kira2991
    @Kira2991 Před 8 měsíci

    What happen to the fashion content ?

  • @kingdark5899
    @kingdark5899 Před 8 měsíci

    Bro can you help me transform myself

  • @upgrader24
    @upgrader24 Před 8 měsíci +1

    When the night has come...

  • @Hamzashah_15
    @Hamzashah_15 Před 8 měsíci +2

    ALLAHUAKBAR

  • @markgeorge2200
    @markgeorge2200 Před 8 měsíci

    lol alex didnt you recently shave

  • @AmanYadav-pk8kz
    @AmanYadav-pk8kz Před 8 měsíci

    Focus on your goals you will get many holes😀