My Issues With LGBT
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The title is probably going to lead some people to believe I don't like gay/trans PEOPLE, but my issue is with the community itself. Just FYI ;)
+Blaire White
I am kinda conflicted, I'm gay, and I usually like manly men, but there's something about Blaire...
Francis Dupont Creeper
Blaire White no, it's like a black dude speaking out against BLM, it's just common sense, great video Blaire!!
Francis Dupont yeah, well done mate. I'm sure she cares. Would you say that to her face?
Blaire White Hey I'm Jonathan Doe-Smith can I have a shout out
I also don't like when people use their sexuality to represent themselves entirely, as if it is all they are. This is coming from a bi guy
jay right? Like how boring are you if the most interesting thing about you are things you had no control over (i.e. sexuality, race, gender etc.)
jay yea. I go to a performing arts school and there's definitely some gay guys that are pretty much like "gaga gaga gaga. Dick dick." and it's really irritating. I'm a bi guy too, and sometimes I may act "gay" but most of the time I'm just a regular acting guy
Cato Gaming omg i go to a perf arts school too and people there are also like that. So obnoxious
I totally agree with this. I don't give a shit what your sexuality is - not in a mean way, I'm just fairly indifferent. That's because, surely, in order to respect someone - I should value their beliefs, knowledge and interests over their sexuality?
jay I think this is the case with every subject. I don't mind religious people, but if all you can talk about is your religion I won't talk to you. There is a problem with you if I can describe you in one word.
If all LGBT people were like Blaire, they would be the most liked and most respected demographic in America.
No they wouldn't. The entire left would hate and vilify them.
Michael Vander Wal the left wouldn't be as popular without them though
I don't really think so. Most LGBT people simply live their lifes and people don't even notice they are LGBT if they don't bring that up. However, this can happen because you can no longer incarcerate them because of their sexuality. Do you really think that the LGBT people who get murdered in muslim countries are even remotely similar to internet tumblerinas?? They are just normal citizens thate are caught having a relationship, and yet the countries where gay people are more silent and less extreme in their requests are the ones in which they get murdered. The western LGBT community is often very over the top and stupid in their ideas, but this is because most of them feel the need to bond with a community where they are accepted. This will happen less and less as society becomes more accepting, because LGBT people, like Blaire i this case, would grow in an accepting place already.
Speling Bee Champyon
I have had quite a few gay friends in my life. The ones like Blaire, that can take a joke like they take a dick, hard, dirty, and full of choking, usually stick around.
I've had a few that I have known closely for 10+ years. They are just like all the other friends I have but they don't TRY to be like everyone else, if that makes sense.
If all LGBT people were like Blaire I'm pretty sure cis women would become largely obsolete over night.
Everyone, say it with me now.
"Everyone is different, therefore, no one is special."
Amen to that
Preach
True
Very Nihilistic but true
I mean, I kinda disagree but it's up to one's point of view
I asked a tweeter why are parades always half naked? His response: “You’ve obviously never been to Rio.”
My response: “Yeah well we’re not in Rio.”
Lol nice
In a discord server I told some of them you don’t need to be over sexual to make a political stand and one of them told me “is it because we’re suppose to feel uncomfortable about it or is it because society wants you to? “ and another one responded “the moment you let someone tell you how to dress you’re allowing them to control you”
Hezekiah Duckworthy I hate that mindset, you aren't really being forced to dress a certain way lol we don't live in the middle East and we aren't being told by society to feel uncomfortable as much as we've just grown up in a place and time where that's not the norm and people tend to feel uncomfortable around things they aren't used too
Let’s be honest tho- Rio is way more fun than the U.S lmao
oatmeal Carnival is awesome!
The LGBT community seems to want to be both normal and special at the same time.
You can't have both.
Nymfia your fucking enter key...
use it m8.
my eyes are bleeding,the fuck, out.
Nymfia Gender is black and white. You're male or female.
Show me a study then that proves the gender spectrum.
Peasant Only 2 genders
Nymfia that's called preferences not gender. who you screw in bed doesn't change your gender.
As a gay man, my problem with the LGBT community is how most of them give that "in your face!" attitude towards straight people and continue to keep shoving it down everybody else's throats and then paint themselves as the victim when they get retaliated against in anyway. How can any of us be "tolerated" when they refuse to return the favor?
Exactly that is what I felt when I saw bunch of them flocking around and witch hunt cishets and heck even had the galls to call cishets as a breeder. Like wtf? It's like they can't let go of the past pain and moved on and just be normal. Like talk about double standards
I don’t see how it’s “forced”
@@teamtundra2619 Dunno about the entire community, but I have experienced lgbtq people that use their gender to make themselves feel “special”. And I’m not against showing that you’re gay, but sometimes people overdo it to the point where I think they’re just trying to gain attention.
Man you hit the nail on the head! I have no problem with gay people. I just don't like when they do exactly what you are talking about. Thanks for being honest! That's not always easy to do!
Exactly! It’s like now they want to make straights the “minority” and harass us about LGBTQ+ everything. Obviously, I can’t speak for the community 100%, as I don’t share the same experiences and I am well aware most people of the LGBTQ+ community are really sweet and cool people, it’s just that it almost defeats the whole acceptance aspect of the movement. LGBTQ+ wanted to be accepted (which they have every right to be! They’re human like all of us, and deserve the same rights), but then why shun our straights now (the exact thing you were fighting to change when it was vice versa). Anyways, I hope you all have a nice day/evening/night ❤️
Modern LGBT community: You should respect everyone for being who they are!
Also them: *getting offended when someone is straight*
that isn’t how it works i promise you
@@quantumgroovytime it kinda is
@@sunnyturtle0862 it’s really not though, unless a straight person is bigoted we have no issues
Facts
@@quantumgroovytime bruh have u seen gay TikTok and Twitter?
also calling it a "community" seems pretty weird to me. what do they all live in a big street with different colored houses and every morning everyone dances out singing YMCA
CarbonArcade hahahahaha this comment almost made me piss myself!!!!!
CarbonArcade I would live in that community just to be the cranky "old" neighbor 😂
They all have rainbow houses
OMG that image of them just coming outside singing YMCA like a musical cracked me up XD😂😂
CarbonArcade Directors to that place, please! It sounds awesome.
As a member of the LGBT i was very skeptical of the title, but this video is very truthful, raw, and she's obviously speaking from her heart. This should open dialogue in the LGBT community, it has become a platform of identity politics rather than one for accepting people with marginalized sexual orientations.
and i am saying this as someone who leans towards the left more,
and i dont think she is denying the leaps the LGBT community has had in allowing for acceptance, but she is criticising their role today which has changed
+elie el DIALOG? WE WON'T DISCUSS ANYTHING WITH ANYBODY WHO PROMOTES HATE SPEECH REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE-
elie el Yeah. It's like, we don't have to agree, but it's good to talk about things!
+Harpy Eagle trouble is everything they disagree with is somehow labeled hate speech, it's actually a brilliant political tactic to shut down all opposition
Gay: “I’M PROUD TO BE MYSELF!”
Me: “Okay.”
Gay: “I’M PROUD TO BE GAY!”
Me: “Cool.”
Gay: “...Why aren’t you praising me?!?”
Me: “Cause I don’t really care.”
Gay: “BIGOT!”
Twitter basically
@@fingersinyourass9527 AAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! You are hilarious. The name, AND this sentence. You are awesome. And yes, I agree with both of y'all.
yes
Fr tho.
Out of all the language you could speak, you chose to speak facts
i'm gay myself and i don't like how the community just acts like just because someone says they don't care about what someone's sexuality is, it automatically makes them homophobic.
lmao yes
*"Non-binary anteater"*
FUCKING D E A D 😂😂
This one got me too. XD
same
My pet rock is potty trained lol that's what happens when people have too much time on their hands and have nothing else to do.
I identify as a non-binary anteater and I'm triggered. Stop offending me you straight cis white male!
(Before anyone gets mad, it's just a joke)
I am a gay guy, but do not identify or hang with the gay crowd at all. So many issues, so many self destructive behaviors. Plus my sexuality is like 15% of who I am. I dont base my identity on my sexual orientation, which many gay men seem to do.
I commend you for that.
amen, brother. being gay for me doesn't nearly cover the whole picture. it's just a piece to the puzzle.
Patrick OBrien Im pansexual and all my lgbt friends parents hate them so I need to be able to create these safe spaces for them to be open and feel good about themselves. most of them have resorted to self hard and have depression
Patrick OBrien dead on with that 15%. No one needs to know my sexual orientation. I am more than that, and if my sexual orientation needs to be discussed, I happily will discuss it if appropriate; it just doesn't have to be an obvious thing that everyone needs to know. But what if you want the right to marry (you have that right now, but it could be taken away?)- maybe being flamboyant is a desire to rebel against laws that limit what you can do? It wouldn't persuade someone to have your beliefs, but does it bond people together, like an act of bravery?
I'm bisexual, and I agree with the vid
There’s a girl at my school who was my friend (dropped her because of messages I saw about me) who would make everything about her being a lesbian and could not go a day w/o mentioning it. She even tried to get our lunch table to be referred to as “the gay table” even though half of the kids (including me) were straight.
Imagine being soo boring you have too make your whole "personality" as being a lesbian.... Wow lmao
Word Vomit wait are you from finland??
@@yesyouareright9800 nope
@@wordvomit2936 oh, i thought that you were one of my classmates bcuz the girl you're talking about is lit the same as the girl in my class
I had a co-worker like that! She was hella annoying! She made people hate her! That is so inappropriate at work!
If they drop you as a friend for political reasons, then they are not friendship material.
I believe more gay people are normal than the gay people like the ones she describes in the video. But we just don't notice them because well they are normal.
Camo yep, all i see at my school who claim to be gay or bi, are also calling themselves gender-fluid have multiple relationships, and dyed hair, but when I disagree with them, I'm sexist/racist/transphobic.
Camo agreed
it is the stupidest/most self-righteous ones who are the loudest.
(This reasoning can be applied to feminists, too).
Growing up a teenager in england, one thing that I noticed was that a surprising amount of other teenagers I knew are bisexual. Like, I'm saying majority. This surprised me as they didn't act a single bit different to what a "normal" straight person would act.
Jason Dicson Yeah, and Ganon destroyed the kingdom of Hyrule 100 years ago, go take your fantasy somewhere else
I'm a gay female & until this moment thought I was the only person who felt this way about the LGBT community. I refuse to identify with them. Tx so much, Blaire!
Nah plenty of us gay people feel this way, we just don't talk much about it lol
Loretta Moore Same! I have never felt comfortable in the lgbt community, and dating has always been weird because a few of my girlfriends have been very involved, like their lives revolved around the community. It's always been so strange to me, and most of my friends are straight. It's so nice to hear from other people who I can relate to in that way.
same!
same
''demigirl non binary ant eater'' now you say that as a joke but i bet you 5 dollars there is some one who actually identify as that........
Have you seen her 1000 genders video?
There are people that identify with that 😂
I am an apache atack helicopter, and I want this to be a thing!
Im a straight ant eater
@Carlos Magnayon Gray I'm Kurdish and this is my first time hearing something like this. I can't believe that this is a thing lmao
@Carlos Magnayon Gray Racism and offensive things aside. Saying you have a Kurdish gender just doesn't make any sense lol
I went to PRIDE with my dad and my life partner and I was horrified at the pure crudeness of it all. The hypersexuality makes me incredibly uncomfortable
Youre married to your dad!?
@@DakotaofRaptors, she said "with my dad -and- my life partner" though I can see why you'd be confused, no shame ❤️
I'm bi-sexual, and have never felt like a part of the community, ever.
Nicki Oh same here
Same.
Amen to that... wait... amen has the word men in it!!! PATRIARCHY!!!! Insert Shoe0nHead reeeee screech.
AwkwardPhangirl sigh I’m a lesbian but me too
Bisexual gurl here...and same
The hyper sexual thing kills me. I've known I was gay since I was 12 and only went to gay pride (NYC) once. My biggest issue was why are gays so damn hypersexual, yet want to be as 'normal' as possible. You ask a lot of questions and those are also the reasons why people dislike gay people (mainly the tumblr ones) who are loud, force laws to call them xir and say it's transphobic to not want to sleep with a trans person, even though it's called a preference. I myself don't associate with the community for this reason> i am not embarrassed to be gay, but I am embarrassed to think so many act out that way . It pushes us backwards, really...
Mika Rose please continue to preach. You're so correct and I agree 100%..
IKR. Calling transphobic a person who does not want to sleep with a pre-op transgender is the dumbest thing ever. It is like calling machist a gay because he does not want to sleep with women... LEL
Mika, I know, it's like they are re-introducing community shame on themselves, because their ridiculous behaviour is ostracising them all over again, but by them, not by straight people. We're OK with your choices, who the hell cares anymore who people chose intimacy with. We're not OK with the insane behaviour that has been offending good people such as yourself, and alienating our sense of tolerance and community. This desperately needs to end. I think it's the same for feminism too, it's like a revenge for past grievances that is illogical and detrimental for us today.
But the truth is that people who dislike Pride the way it is now will not like gays more if the parade was a bunch of men and women in office suits walking like priests and nuns. We will always be abnormal to those people, they would freaking hate their totally modest plumber and carpenter married neighbors because they're two men. Even if they don't hang a pride flag and seem to be as ordinary as possible, they will still be hated because they are two men who love each other and have sex with each other.
Mika Rose The loudest voice always gets the attention unfortunately.
It was literally a trend at my school to come out as bi. Wtf is happening to the world lmao
Same at my school
Sadly, some people think being gay is a new trend to feel 'unique, different and special'.
Well, lads don't worry its all gonna go with time , true leftism and this victimhood mentality has fucked up the society .
How do they even make that a trend-
Because people think it's a trend, then they start treating you like the king of France in the 18th century or some s**t.
As a gay boy, I think it’s so annoying when people tell EVERYONE about their sexuality...like we don’t care, it’s irrelevant. They think they can get attention. At school people keep telling each other that they’re “pansexual”. I know some people actually are “pan” but 99% of them just say it to get attention.
👏👏👏👏👏Thank You! Everybody wants clout for their sexuality! They bring that shit up from left field! SO UNNECESSARY! UGH!
In the bio of social media hahah
I have people in my school who scream and shout and cry if you say LGBT and not lgbtqqiapd+ like WHY
I purposefully say LGBT to annoy people
How are you going to remember every word? It's more easier to remember the words as lgbt+
I'm a straight white man (good lord, I'm just PURE EVIL!), but I don't care who people are attracted to. You do you, and I'll do me. If you respect me, I'll respect you.
Glue Huffing shut up
Yes
@@mistydog6941 uhh ok? Get a life?
you're not evil for being straight, white, or a man my dude! I love cis white hetero men ;)
Let me guess, you’re a minority right?
The community as it is, is flooded with narcissism
And a lllliiittttllle biittt sexist.
That’s rich coming from your comment.
@@lemonade_011 LOL okay no pfp
@SweetChick10101, exactly, Keahi's stating facts.
also the community is really sensitive, or at least the part of the community i talk to. I get into a shit ton of controversies in almost all the lgbtq servers I'm in from my obvious jokes that were never meant to be serious. I once said "ngl girls with glasses are 🤓" and a bunch of ppl from the lgbtq community says it's insensitive to girls who wears glasses. I already apologized but yet they still threatens me and mass pinging me in the servers and in the dms
So if i make a joke, I'm insensitive, but it gives you the rights to harass somebody? You're the bigger douchebag here at this point.
I think lgbtq is a good thing, the community is just really... unique in a bad way
The thing is its fine to be gay, straight, lesbian, bi, but it gets annoying when the LGBTQ slaps it into your face and forces stuff onto you
i agree wholeheartedly man
Exactly.
As a lesbian I agree. I used to identify with the lgbt community but I don't anymore because of that reason and other reasons.
It aint ok where im from and im glad
Such as the comment section
story time
so at my college there is a lounge for the lgbt community and it's flaboiant as hell during the day and actually over all a nice place to be at night.
so a preacher comes in trying to talk to us, being respectful, understanding that the church had done the lgbt community wrong, and he came in to honestly learn about the community and understand. he wanted us to let someone who was calling him a homophobe and spreading rumors about him, know that he wasn't and he actually wanted to learn more about the community. when he walked in the lounge several people got up and walked out of the room, once the preacher left most of the room started talking about how because he is a preacher he doesn't belong in here and they were rude about it.
I feel like the way they acted could have possibly put lgbt rights even more behind, it really saddens me that they were so disrespectful.
That's horrible, and frankly there's no excuse for that. As a gay man and also an atheist...seeing a priest come in and actually treat me as an individual human being, as someone who matters, as someone who he KNOWS has been victimized by his own religion...I would've welcomed the discussion. That is after all how you create connections and allies.
That's EXACTLY it they don't give what they want to get which is..respect!
Hence why so many people continue to secretly resent them.
being gay/lesbian and changing your gender (BTW your gender is how god CREATED YOU.. Why change it) is against God if you're a christian
If lgbt people want respect from Christians and wanted to be treated like normal people to them, why don’t they respect them, while they are even apologizing to them?!
That's discrimination on their part. They were treating him negatively based on his membership of a specific group. Lol. And, they're sooooo into equality and inclusion. What a joke
as a homosexual, I don't like the leftist lgbt.....
Jason Rodriguez Same my dude.
I'm a hetero cis woman and sometimes feel like these days I almost have to be ashamed for that. Some people seem to think that being anything but hetero and cis is super special and awesome but then again, they want everyone to be equal and say that sexuality doesn't matter - how does that go together?
@methjuice And you're feeling sooo 'special and unique' being gay, huh? ;)
They want to be special a lot of them not all.
I Just can't stand ppl being so proud of their sexuality, like, nobody cares honey
Fr
@Glory ForFreedom Nah, they dont really do tbh
@Glory ForFreedom It's not like that anymore, you ppl are a bunch of cry babies
@Glory ForFreedom stop crying already
@Glory ForFreedom And what are you gonna do about it? Fuck all, to be honest. If he's a homophobe, then he is. Calling someone homophobic isn't an insult, unfortunately you people don't seem to understand that.
I've been to some pride events and I felt totally shunned. It's crazy to me how so many LGBT people scream love and tolerance but most of them are hateful and very intolerant.
Lauren Purnell I’m in
Lauren Purnell I’m in
I feel like the community just kinda shoves it in our faces and not everyone is going to agree with the fact that you want to marry/be with the same gender so what the point.
Your name is Stop sinning and obey Jesus, what did you think would happen?😂
Well, society constantly panders to them so it's not a surprise. Just like the people who come up with bullshit like "i'm not a man or woman." It's like... What the hell are you then? A cat, dog, alien, another species... what.
LGBT people made fun of me when I was walking past the pride parade. one yelled at me for not buying anything celebrating or staying and another called me useless and stupid for being straight! I just went home after that! all of that just because I said I was straight
Aaron Eats! wow that's fucking horrible. I've never been to a pride parade but when I go if anyone says anything like that I will walk away. there's nothing wrong with being straight, take that from a gay person. xx
awe.
Aaron Eats! This is a clear lie xD
welp, if it wasn't for straight people like you, there wouldn't be any gay people. You need straight people for babies, and you need gay people for cute couples (lol)
Outertale Sans stfu
Here’s the main problem: If you are part of the LGBTQIA+ community, that’s cool. If you aren’t part of the LGBTQIA+ community, that’s cool too. I don’t get why it matters
yeah me neither
LGBTQIA shbusbhusbhjsgus or SHIT OIKE THAT IS SOFT AF
It's gotten to the point people mock me for not being gay, it's becoming a joke.
Fr!
as a gay I apologize on their side
@Glory ForFreedom that doesn't make it right at all
@Glory ForFreedom This is just my own personal theory but maybe it started with young teenagers who joined the community and thinking they have privellege cuz their special somehow for being in the community, ofc not every teenager is like that but i noticed that most of the toxic members of the community are young but it was just something i thought of in the shower
crybabys they are
You know, as a bi man, I never really felt very welcome in the LGBT community. Lots of gay men seem to not like people like me. That's fine. I prefer not to be in groups or organizations, Though the best gay men in my experience are average joes who just like men. They aren't the stereotype or some social activist. They're just living their lives.
The Bullet So true. For all the talk of hatred and bigotry, the people who have been the most hateful and bigoted towards me are gay men.
You could probably get away with saying shit like "I'm genderfluid" or whatever-fluid. So like depending on whom you're with, your gender changes. They'll probably accept that more than actually being bisexual.
subwayvesubscriber I've tried that on dating sites and was ignored or got called out so no it doesn't work. Bi works
Vonda Thurian I said that more in jest than anything. I don't think anyone would even WANT to date someone who would accept such a ridiculous statement instead of bisexuality.
+1 . They say "you just don't want to realize you are a real gay", or "you are just in the middle of the path of becoming gay", etc. I just use their dark rooms, from time to time, and nothing more.
Man, I really do feel bad for LGBT people like you Blaire. I actually met a guy (now we are really good friends) and he is gay but he totally hates the SJW-esque attitudes of gays and told me he experienced something similar when he participated in lgbt groups. I showed him who Milo was and he also found out who you are and really likes the conservative side of LGBT-ness
As a gay man, I just want to hold the hand of my husband and live like everyone else does.
Not going around in a parade...
That's it.
I just want to love him and be loved from him, nothing more or less.❤
Hehe that's nice 😊
Sammy Tigger yes! i just want straight people to treat the lgbt community like they treat straight people!
Hannah Beeson Green Hannah Hannah literally we're the conservative LGBT community here. We don't hate straight people -- we were **made** by straight people.
This is what I call real normalization, beautiful :)
I'm genuinely sorry things are so complicated and for many as yourself, things are becoming about fetishes and hate.
There used to be a thing called staying out of people’s personal business. I miss it.
Yeah I get why gay pride events are often sexualized, but I think there is something to be said for "family friendly" gay pride events. As someone who attended a gay pride event outside of the US, it was way more fun because it was take enough that half the city was able to participate and have fun. Hell couples were able to bring their kids to watch the parade because it was so tame. I think because of the way the event was conducted, it built a bridge between the LGBT community and the rest of the city populace rather than reinforcing existing stereotypes and stigmas about gay and trans people. I'd even credit it as one of the reasons that country, and that city especially, are so LGBT friendly
@Barna Bop What country was it?
Barna Bop omg yes! And they are after children
Denmark has one of the best pride parades.
I feel that one of the biggest reasons why many still dislike gays are those degenerate parades they do. I don't give two shits who you wanna fuck but I don't wanna watch you act like a degenerate in public.
polish pride parades are great
As a bisexual man, I completely agree with everything you said here. I have disdain for the LGBT..... "community".
You have no idea of the difference between a community and people, now do you?
Yusuf. You should think about learning your definitions, Hun.
Lol. Someone's triggered. Shouldn't you be getting your diapers changed or something?
I was attacked by these communities when I said I don't care and I don't wanna be involved with this.
same i just told them ok gues im a homophbe now
LGBT: it's LGBTQIA+
Me: imma just say LGBT
LGBT: NO that is homophobic
Me: every day your adding a new letter
LGBT: you say LGBTQIA+ 😠😡🤬😡😤😤
Me: might aswell say the whole alphabet in that case
😹. Thanks, I died.
@@WolfgangXP65-67 no worries bro 😂
Lol
Lmao
lol im gonna use this when ppl complain about it
They... they call us... breeders? I am not sure how to feel about that.
The Man Your Man Could Drive Like. Sounds like something an alien race that enslaved us would call their breeding stock
Gosh, reminds me of that 1894 book. Nuts.
I know right, what in the hell?!!!
Heh. I had a kid before I transitioned. Am I a "breeder" too then? This is the first time I've ever heard of that.
Isabella S 1984*
I'm not LGBT so I feel quite shocked reading how many of you don't feel quite comfortable in the community. I honestly didn't like it for the reason that I don't like making communities based on one aspect of our identity that doesn't even mark our personality, but I thought everyone loved it tbh
Yearly parties are fun, for people that don't get too deep into it it's not too bad, but a more open minded community would be more fun.
Their sexuality isn't the problem. They can be attracted to whom whoever they like. Their personalities are. Hate to be real- but having been around the community a lot- instead of the love and acceptance and integration to society that I thought they championed for- I was met with passive aggressive narcissists.
I am sorry you had to see that side of our community, it’s sad.
@@astxrism8236 Honestly, I don’t think we’ll ever get to see an actual good side in that community…
@@mello.1483 it honestly doesn't exist/ is as prevalent. 😅
i went to pride parade once and people kept asking me for my pronounce whenever they wanted to talk to me and honestly i was super offended. it felt like they were stripping me from my femininity and treated my appearence like it was i thing, not attached to me and not a part of my whole being.
why- just say your a girl lol
@@teehee5700 no but she means she no longer has her femininity well it's being taken away lgbt accepting all the genders and stuff is what is damaging true feminism, feminists fought for years to be proud of being women and such and now a movement you support is highly against traditional feminism? It sucks man
I’m a straight dude and your videos make me realize that there are some sane people in these communities. Keep doing the damn thing.
I'm straight to
I'm a carrot.
Arminius of Germania I’m an attack helicopter
@@insertsomethingcreativeher5319 vegetables are good for you. Lead isn't.
I win.
Arminius of Germania lead tastes delicious
I’m not gay or anything but I used to go to the GSA (gay straight alliance) during lunch and I stopped going because of how sensitive and rude they were. If you didn’t agree with them or didn’t even know what something was they would just be the meanest people. And honestly their was one kid who pissed me off so much because he gave me like 40 names to describe his sexuality and his “gender” but after looking it up I saw he was contradicting everything he said. At one point he was gay but he’s not attracted to any gender. K? You do you bro just get your story straight.
GSA sounds like a clan alliance name you'd see in a rts strategy or RPG game
Sara Moon I’m so sorry you experienced that...
They can't keep their story straight, they're gay obvi
Sara Moon they encourage that shit in my middle school. I joined for one reason
To stir shit up. I got in trouble because I wrote a speech about why they are terribel
sounds like dude just wanted an interesting label
yeah like srysly AM I NOT ALLOWED TO BE STRAIGHT WTF?! and then they're there like "eww straight ppl r so weird" ppl will be agreeing. once someone straight says "lgbtq is kinda weird bro" then they will just start attacking 4 no reason-
They be like forcing their ideology to people and like " there's more genders !" And " You have to teach this in school !" " WHAT YOU DON'T WANT TO DATE LGBT PEOPLE? POLICE!!!"
I strongly dislike being referred to as part of this community honestly for pretty much the exact reasons you gave
Likewise. Never took any part of Prides and Lgbtq events.
I am a gay man and when I came out I really thought the gay community was going to be my people. Much to my surprise I had WAY less in common than I did with just everyone else that I might come across in my life. No one ever bullied me or bothered me growing up either. I was always well liked and taking to old friends. They all knew but never pressured me or bothered me. I also agree that it makes us look bad when pride events are basically an outdoor club. It doesn’t have to be sexual it should be about real pride.
I once accidentally went to gay pride as a teenager because I won tickets and had to go before they expired. I was so ashamed of my community because they were so disrespectful to families and anyone else who just wanted to go to the them park. It was purely sexualized. That’s not how I represent myself, or want to be viewed. I have been in a 10 year monogamous relationship. Being gay doesn’t mean being sexually perverse. LGBT people don’t represent me and I don’t want anything to do with them.
Okay, I'm going for a moment here so forgive me for using broad brush terms when speaking about ANTIFA, oh shit sorry, i meant Westboro Baptist Church, damn, okay, I'll get it right "Acronym Community" Blah! Close enough. Just know that I do not mean 100% of the community. There are some good people, but NOwhere near enough.
As a 50 year old American man who just happens to be gay and survived the 80s, which just about wiped out my age group. I can't believe still, to this day, the G's in the acronym that's starting to mimic ANTIFA, have learned nothing from history. Still crudely having unsafe sex with as many men as possible. Oh yeah, there's Prep now. Sorry, forgot about the miracle medicine.
Thank god I was never into the open relationship thing. It's bad enough when you had a close tribe of friends that were always together, odds are you broke off a relationship with one, only to see him hooking up with your bestie the next day. So on and so forth till you've all slept with each other, and their ex's, yet still remain friends. I mean, it is normal for one friend to step on the "bomb" and the others take the shrapnel, right?
If I were a heterosexual, I wouldn't be very accepting nor tolerant. Hell, I'm gay and can't tolerate it. I know, at this point you're thinking, "This dude is gay, and a homophobe. Either that or it's internalized homophobia" Neither of which is true. Just because a person doesn't want to be associated with a certain group of people, due to nothing more than lack of interests or commonalities, doesn't make one homophobic. Just smart!
The majority of the community is heterophobic, a lot a L's are G-aphobic and same goes for the G's being L-aphobic. And shit, every letter besides 1 in your loving, accepting, tolerant acronym is B-aphobic. The hypocrisy is maddening!
Here's a tip, find someone who compliments you, who shares some common interests, passions, values and goals. You would be shocked at how accepting others are of a married gay couple living a normal American life. Raise an American flag on your property. Leave the fuckin rainbows for water droplets to refract, reflect and disperse.
The community says, "but you can't live openly gay and have all neighbors accept it" WTF does truly live OPENLY gay mean? Please tell me. Maybe fly the rainbow flag while simultaneously fucking in the front yard? Our lives DO NOT revolve around our sexuality. Do we fuck? Hell yeah. In the privacy of our home. Yes people in our neighborhood know we're gay. Being gay is what we are, not who we are. What we are has very little to do with how we live our lives. It's about doing and being good to others. Put out what you want back. Like respect, tolerance and understanding for others who may not understand? I mean "The community" screams for these things, yet are actually the least tolerant, least understanding and accepting? Laughable! Just ask the B's how accepting they are. If they can't be accepting or tolerant of the 3rd letter of their acronym, B. How the hell do you think they can accept anyone else?
PREACH
Italia 458driver I am glad you have respect for yourself! Just be who you are and know there are people like you too!
@@dfitz0413 Good points, but I do wish you'd lean to make paragraphs!
It makes me glad I don't go to pride events I'm a lesbian but I'm very ashamed at how many people in the community behave at pride events its very wrong to say the least
I'm a gay male who leans conservative, and I couldn't agree with you more. I just want to live my life. The gay community is just so sad to me, and I can't stand gay pride days and parades. We are not all alike, and the exhibitionists freaks do not represent me, and I'm not particularly proud of them. You are a rational THINKING person, and I love it.
PREACH IT MANG
Les go bro!
congrats u have a mind
Honestly, after I came out, the most criticism that I got was from the gay community. In fact, it was ALL from the gay community. Never once have I had a single person discriminate against me because of my sexuality and I've been lucky of that, but oh lord.. when it comes to the community, I got called so much shit and made to feel bad about my body and myself. I did a whole video on it.
What did they say? Are they body shaming? If yes it means it's not because of their Sexuality but because of the people
The problem with the community is that most of the people who consider themselves to be a part of it think they are someone special for being gay/lesbian/bi/trans... They need to realise that they're not special. Just another human being, so please walk along and don't shove it down everyone's throat.
This is so true on another level. They act like they special and owed everyone else
Clara K I’m going to be real is not the community feeling special there just proud of being them selfs and yes the community just feel like another human
@Anastacia Simpson you're so right, this person is very a conservative member
Depressed Gay Because most people don't want to see gay films you dipshit so film studios don't waste money on films that no one's going to watch. Why don't you go and make a gay movie if you want it so much and stop whining.
At least lgbt people are accepting of people like them we do not think we’re special we are proud of who we are.At least some of us don’t shove our tounges down each other’s throat and then brag to our friends that have a boyfriend people brag about being a heterosexual if you think about it
As an intersex, they worship me like a trophy.
Like, why?
What is that?
Bruh, how many sexuality’s are there. I sound really rude and should prolly do my research but I’m flabbergasted
@@theresamaninthewoods9639 Being intersex is a birth deformity. It's when you're literally born with girl and boy parts, or have something wrong with your chromosomes. It's not really a sexuality, but a gender...kinda. It's a physical combination of the two.
The kid WAS my son Thank you for the explanation
@@thekidwasmyson4339 intersex isnt a gender.
As a Bisexual, I decided I wanted no part in Pride events this following month. I've been harassed and shamed more by the LGBTQ community in the past few years than people outside of the "community", whom actually accept me more who I am as an individual. I've been called "transphobic" for simply wearing makeup as a male, and thrown at with so many homophobic and racial slurs from the said "Neopronoun" people. And the moment I share these experiences out, I get shunned down by the "community". Yeah so much for "tolerance".
Lmao I don't even go out that much, I stay mostly at home not only cuz of Covid but I was always like that, so I never went into these events and tbh after everything I saw on media I don't plan to go, so I always felt a bit weird because I wasn't sexual like other gay men, I am glad there are people who think like me
You can wear make up, i have to admit to me the idea is somewhat unusual but i don't see how it hurts anyone so there's no reason people should bash you for it. It's probably hard to be shunned even in a place where you are supposed to be accepted and understood, sorry you went through that dude. Hope you have someone to support you
Are you doing alright? It’s been 6 months 😕
The gay community is very exclusive and can be toxic. The racism is very real. Hope you’re ok. Keep being you and do your own thing ❤️
Wait why were they calling you transphobic for wearing make up??
tbh i dont get why ppl in the lgbt community gets the "special treatment" but straight and cis ppl are just like "hi ur boring" like can there be no seperation lets just be a whole circle witjout having to seperate gay people from straight people
fr you're are speaking facts
I grew up in the gay "community" but it's more like the gay Stazi now. It disgusts me. I don't even use the word gay anymore....I'm just a man. That's the only word that is applicable or relevant to me anymore. And honestly, when I stopped having to call out to every person I see that I'm gay, my life changed in such a more positive way. I can actually have meaningful real relationships with people that I would have never even spoken to before. I love that you have the audacity to speak reality Blaire. Keep it up!
rkellum35 "that's the only word that is applicable or relevant to me anymore." Goddamn I can't relate more intensely than I am right now.
it's the Gaystapo!
dag mcdour that is one of the funniest jokes I've ever seen XD XD
I've gone to a gay youth group before, and oh my god they all hated me because I didn't act gay enough, I know it. My friend got along perfectly (he's trans, of course he would get along better with the genderfluid and agender kids there), to the point where he even got a boy/girlfriend (dude I don't fucking know what term to use) there, while I couldn't even make a friend because I didn't act enough like a typical lesbian. I don't fit into the "community" at all, because I don't act like my identity is my whole personality.
I totally feel your pain! I left my LGBT campus group for the exact same reason AND, since they mostly consisted of freshmen, a large majority of them were highly liberal. I felt like a complete outsider in a room already full of 'outsiders.'
and thats why identity politics is toxic
You didnt act gay enough? That cant be right. I have never heard of that in my country (not saying it doesnt happen). What is acting gay? Im gay, I dont get it.
What on earth is 'not gay enough' or 'act enough like a typical lesbian'? What is 'enough' then? I don't understand why there's measurement.
iAnimeGuy! .....Being gay doesn't mean that you're into anal. There are plenty of straight couples that do anal, even though the woman has a vagina. Also, there is a species of lizard, where all of the males died out and the females reproduce by themselves.
I'm so happy I have found this video, it let's me know I'm not alone. I'm 17 and bisexual, a lot of my friends are in lgbt and I can't ever share my opinions with them. I agree with this video and your courage to put it out there :)
I remember watching this video two years ago, when I was 16/17 years old and felt offended by it bc I thought Blaire was attacking the community, but now at 19 years old I can totally see her points and agree with everything, thanks for the change
Yeah technically I’m LGBT but I don’t associate with the community.
oof
Not me
Same here.
Same
same.
I'm gonna start a new LGBT community with everyone that identifies as Patrick, when someone asks what gender we are we'll just say "no, this is PATRICK!"
Blue Tube 🤙🏼 aye I'm down xD
Blue Tube I'll join
im in
Blue Tube OK
Lmao this comment. I already identify as Patrick though. No need for your community ;)
I’m happy the Twitter users have not littered this with dislikes
XD
Well before CZcams censored the dislike button, there was like 1.2K+ dislikes for whatever reason
I agree with you so much I am straight and I am also Christian and I know I'm going to get a lot of hate for this but why does the lgbt community act as if straight people are so bad and mean. They act as if they want want everybody to be gay or whatever. How are human being suppost to be made when everybody is with the lgbt.
We don't all act like that because at one point in our lgbtq+ life we were all straight before we found out
Yes, That's what Im actually talking about. Sometimes I wanted to type comments like this but im afraid i will get tons of hate. Like come on tho.. Not Supporting dosen't meant I hate your community.
@@galaxyckk I agree, although I have different beliefs because I'm a Christian doesn't mean that I want the worse for them. I care about their well being in both ways. 1. If someone attacks them based on their sexuality, that's wrong. But also, 2. I believe that God created man and woman to be together. Although I don't believe what the lgbtq community does that doesn't mean that I'll come at them full force telling them how much I disagree with them. They are still made in the image of God. That's why it makes me sad when people call them disgusting based off their sexuality.
Yeah I agree with you. I'm bi with a preference for girls but I can't stand the lgbt community. Some of them (not all of them) are the reason why alot of people don't take the lgbt community seriously. Also I'm an atheist and I respect your beliefs :)
i personally don’t think it’s a problem. when people make these jokes (they are jokes!!) they are trying to show how stupid homophobes sound by saying things like “ew gay people” and they switch it up and say “ew straight people” i personally hate when people think that we are trying to say we are better but all we are doing is making jokes.
It's amazing how fast the LGBT community went from closet to oppressor.
Who are they oppressing im lost
Pretty much anyone who disagrees with them
FRANK OCEAN MAKES ME ORGASM anyone that tells them no
Not really oppressing since not the whole world accepts LGBT right? I mean LGBTQ individuals still get marginalized and oppressed around the world. But more like some (maybe more in the western society) wants more than what the community is really established to be, to be equal to straight peers.
Sigvulcanas ......are u god?
I'm gay, and i think the Lgbt community gives us a bad reputation, i've also been to a gay pride parade and i'm not going back either lol
Daniel Lätth they make gay guys look like sluts who just want sex from guys
Daniel Lätth hahaa gay
Daniel Lätth same pride made me feel like I was part of something worthless, thousands of people came to march and the only opposition was 7 bags of dust that'll probs die next week.
People were jeering and chanting and the atmosphere makes it feel like you're protesting, but protesting against what??! Some fuckin oldies that you shouldn't be giving a shit about?
Anyways I got home and realised how dumb it was and felt embarrassed af, so I'm never going again
Daniel Lätth it's not the community it's the particular people that does it.
M. Anonymous Yeah, well some people are of course more pervert than others but they're making it look like all we gays are perverts, and that's not true
I'm a lesbian and I totally agree with this video 100%. Thank you
I’m on the complete opposite side of the political spectrum to you but still listened and think many of the points you made were very valid and changed my mind on some things. It’s okay to listen to other people viewpoints!! Don’t be so terrified of being wrong or having your mind changed people!
I've watched a lot of your videos, and I must say: thank you for helping me begin to accept myself as I've explored my gender. Seeing your videos has helped me to know that I don't need to suddenly turn into a crazy SJW/special snowflake to be true to myself. I totally agree with the points you've brought up in this video (and many others you've addressed in others). Keep being awesome!
That's amazing, it makes me so happy I could help you in that way! Love you!
if only more people would watch these videos instead of living in their own secluded world
Bechemel Sauce TRUTH.
BLAIRE LIKED U LUCCKYYYY
same
Ant-eater kin? I can get behind that.
i can get behind it and in front of it
+Mads Rasmussen but what are their/zer/zim/whatever pronouns?
Harpy Eagle aunt or uncleeater
I'm sorry I'll leave
roy koopa I love you already after that one joke. 😂
Hmmm, I ate ants when I was like 3, does that mean I'm an anteater kin? Or does that mean I transitioned from being an anteater kin, and I am therefore a trans bi human kin?
Sad that the community has changed so much that Good and intelligent People are being run out and shunned. The Community is Literally becoming Everything we fought against in the 70s-90s.
Fr, and it’s sad to see *some* people say “WE FIGHT FOR OUR RIGHTS, WE ALMOST DIED AND INJURED OURSELVES” when all they did is sit on their phone doing nothing. You guys deserve more respect then hypocrites like them.
Kinda the same deal with feminism, it was a good cause a one point, but nowadays dumbasses use it to make themselves feel special.
@@sirargz_ and I like how some of them think they know it all. I’m a girl, and most of them are ANNOYING.
I have friends in the lgbtq community, both in real life and online. They know that I don’t like someone shoving stuff about them being gay (etc) down my throat. This video is exactly what I feel with the community. The community itself can sometimes be… rude, and this goes with people outside the community too. Thank you for explaining what I feel about them :)
@𝙰𝚛𝚒𝚏𝚞𝚖𝚒 Fr, some are since I know some people online and in my school, their nice but yeah. They can be kinda hypocritical
@@ApoIIo_ I don’t think it’s forced personally
@𝙰𝚛𝚒𝚏𝚞𝚖𝚒 because of anti gay people!
@@teamtundra2619 true. But it just depends what side you’re at. I know some people who are gay or part of it that seem and are really cool, but some I have met that are annoying and show off-y
I'm unable to understand how some people don't get your thoughts and opinions because you are describing everything so clearly and comprehensively, there is no way an intelligent human being won't get it. You are so right about almost everything and I support your opinions as well as others. ❤
Eternal Iridia cause a lot of what she says can very much be disproven? (Not to menttion theres loads of misinformation but go off i guess) Ya know if you do a bit of research and whatnot
You aren't alone Blair. I swear to god I've never been so embarrassed to be a lesbian as I have in the past five or so years. I have no idea what the fuck is going on but people have lost their damned minds and I want no part of it. I tend to *partially* agree with your videos for the most part and I enjoy the parts where I have disagreement, it makes me think and everyone these days is so against being challenged and thinking, but I can't disagree with any of this. Frequently I do find myself wishing we could sit down and discuss. I'm interesting in a deeper understanding of some of your past points. Anyway...
Seriously, why are American Christian bakeries more important than Islamic murders? Why is one religion constantly cited as being 'the worst' and another is protected? You know what racism is? It's when you treat one group differently solely based on their perceived race. HMMM? Why are our major lobby groups tacking ridiculous 76 gender bullshit in with basic ass employment rights, causing employment rights to be passed over because no sane person is going to vote to force 76 genders on everyone else? Where are peoples priorities? There are lots of places one can still be fired or made homeless because of their status as trans or gay. Gey people are still being murdered for being gay. Pulse wan't even the only gay/lesbian murder that year so why the fuck are we more concerned with where people change at the pool, making sure late transitioners can compete against women in sports, literally coming for peoples children and getting those damned lesbians to learn to love girlcock already, dammit you fucking transphobic cis scum? Lgbt people these days deny science worse than anti-vaxxers and chemtrail freaks.
Seriously though, I just took a fuck load of lgbt heat for stating how I legit don't care that youtube recently starting age restricting lgbt content. My twitter is a tire fire rn. Like, do people know what crazy shit people are saying/doing out here? Queer Kids Stuff, anyone? Being bi is GREAT! Way better than being a boring straight, kiddos! Jfc. People like Tyler Oakley and Tegan and Sarah will be minorly inconvenienced before they get their restrictions lifted but yes, I'm GLAD CZcams cracked down on this child-brainwashing shit. People like Milo and Riley are spouting straight up classic 'unlearn your sexuality' homophobia to teens (who last I checked are also still children until their brains stop growing around 25). Do I care if Milo's stupid videos get restricted? No. No I do not. Cry more, MIlo. And this type of shit is exactly what youtube intended to target. Good for them.
Echo's Farm - intheweedsTO You should never be embarrassed of your sexuality, simply remove yourself from the toxicity. This subject seemed liked it made you extremely angry. Never be embarrassed of yourself because of others.
Thanks. Yeah it does make me really angry. I think it makes a lot of sane lgbt people angry. There are still many lgbt people out here with real problems.Thanks for your words.
Echo's Farm - intheweedsTO Your welcome. Don't ever be embarrassed or let the enemy win. We need to be prideful. That is what the lgbt community is ACTUALLY for. It somehow went extremely south. Just like Blm. It was a good thing in the beginning, but all the wrong people got involved and destroyed all it's meaning. Never ever question who you are or feel bad ever again.
Your kind spread 3rd wave intersectional feminism during Stonewall girl.
heathen27 What? My kind, what do you mean by that?
I would love to adress LGBT community issues as well but i'm straight so i kust be homophobic for saying stuff based on facts and true events
same i tried saying some things on twitter but i got ALOT of hate and they called homophobic
New to your channel. As a gay man, so far I don't think I've ever agreed with anyone so much as I have with you on so many things. I've stayed clear from the LGBT community for so long and have kept my thoughts and believes to myself because I thought I was the only one out there.
And here I thought LGBT stood for Let's Go Bowling Tomorrow.
Cousin! Let's go bowling!
I can't, Roman! I'm not gay!
Her reasons are some of the major reasons why I believe Trump was elected.
zacmangaming I assume he's talking about how lots of leftists pushed centrists to the right by being silly. Which is stupid, no matter how you slice it.
*his
I respect the LGBTQ+ community, but it gets annoying when people just straight up assume someones gay because they held hands with a girl or boy they could be friends or maybe they are lovers you don't know,but that's not the only problem with lgbt, and it also gets frustrating when someone assumed your homophobic but some straight people assume your homophobic to, but not all lgbt and straight people do that.
I like how you pointed out that not the whole community is like that. I can respect your opinion.
I have my own issues with the LGBT community too. When I told everyone on Wattpad I didn't support LGBT, everyone attacked me and harassed me just because I didn't support them.
That's how it usually goes.
=/
exactly, i hide it as a secret and its just a opinion.Opinions should be respected
they attack straight people
yet whine about homophobia
@@ratvis6863 because they didn’t support it so stfy
And then they want equality but you bash other straight people and people who don’t support? (Not all lgbtq+ people)
As a bisexual woman, I fucking despise the LGBT community. I'm a moderate liberal but since I'm not an SJW, I'm shunned. Almost everything to do with the LGBT community these days is all left wing politics. As a result, I keep myself away from almost every gay event, support group etc. Everything you say in this video Blaire is true. Thank you so much for making this video.
Personally I don't believe in labels, it's quite restrictive on a person since many people confine their interests based on their labels and preferences. It also limits their friendships and thinking because of that. If I love a person I love them for who they are underneath, simple as that :) doesn't matter what gender or background they have.
It would seem that a lot of bisexual people are being ostracised from the community, which is an irony in itself since it's supposed to be inclusive and supportive. I have a lot of bi friends who say they leave the community because they feel unwelcome and prejudiced against. The community is just crumbling on itself with all its contradictions and prejudices.
The community tends to forget what the B means. Some stupid fucks even tried to replace it with Babadook. Bisexuals, such as myself would be better off joining a community that actually supports the idea that we have the capacity to fall in love with both genders.
gay community is about being gay.
Jamie Spencer Yes, but the LGBT+ community is (allegedly) about being LGBT, which includes bisexuals and transgender people, which can include hetero relationships.
Truthfully, now it's really just about being a sjw.
the only people claiming its about inclusion are sjw who are excluding everyone in the name of equality
Understandable
NoahFinnce have a good day
Dang it you beat me to the meme lmfao bruh
*have a nice day
Have a great day.
Have a fantastic day.
I'm a straight woman and I enjoyed your video. Keep it up
Your channel is my new favourite. It's so difficult to find a space for people who think like us to open up without being harrassed. This is a real problem.
I have so much respect for Blaire. She deserves more subscribers.
PewDiePie should donate some of his subscribers.....I wonder if he bought a lot of them, which some websites actually offer such a service.
She is getting there. Almost 300k
+John James no, hes just been around forever, popular with kids and all these controversies help him get even bigger.
Yeah I know that most 'full-time' CZcamsrs use the latest trends and controversies to gain more subscriber but im sure he mustve cheated along the way aswell to have nearly the population of my country subscribing to him. Makes no sense otherwise plus its like how do (socially popular) celebs manage to gain so many followers on Twitter.
Sheryl Lynn So do people like FrozenBinaryStudio.
The more I watch Blaire, the more I respect her. She makes a lot of sense.
Ali Robins Travel same, I've been a follower since 2016, and I'm just binge watching her videos for like hours and it's like almost 7 am
Ali Robins Travel Same. I couldn’t agree more.
I agree, the first video I watched of her I thought “oh just another one of those stupid youtubers trying to be controversial and trendy” but no. I’m glad I watched more of her vids. I may not agree with everything she says, but she makes sense and she states her reasons well
I love her too! She’s a hero!
Ali Robins sameee
Hey guys I just came to apologise for being a straight white male. I didn’t mean to offend or hurt anyone. I will think twice before choosing my sexuality in my next life or heck I’ll even change it right now. I am now one of those 2-spirit penguins that Piers Morgan claimed he was idk
fuck these people im with you
Same here, even as pan myself.
“Make sure to change your race too”
-the community, probably
Not those unfunny jokes _
Honestly I’m straight and what annoys me is when some LGBT people act like they are somehow special and all straight people are boring.
(Saw a post on insta where it showed a crowd of people and all the straight people were in black in white and were all wearing the same cloths hairstyle etc. while the 3 gay people were completely colored in and it had a caption like “don’t be like everyone else, ur gay, ur unique!”
And then the same persons complains about heteronormativity like wtf?
I’m bi and I don’t really consider myself part of the LGBT community I have a mix of liberal and conservative views
I have more liberal but I don’t hate conservatives yet others do when in the end of the day...it’s just an opinion ::
@@Error_-ct2vp so long as nobody is getting hurt, who cares? At least most of us can agree that pedophilia and zoophilia is disgusting tho.
Most people have a mixture of liberal and conservative views. It's just we don't scream about.
I'm part of the LGBTQ+ community but I don't shove it in people's faces or get triggered over everything.
me toooooooo!!!
Arctic Piløts Same. Thank god I’ve found someone who had the guts to say this!
Arctic Piløts *lgbt
Not So Negative Wat
Arctic Piløts She said that this didn’t apply to everyone in the lGBT community. She knows that not all people act like this.
I'm gay, but I never came out (I'd just introduce boyfriends to friends and family, like straight people do), went to pride events (though I do acknowledge the significance of it as long as discrimination exists) or anything. I'm not proud to be gay, I just am. Sadly, as long as discrimination exists, people will continue talking about it. I'm tired of it, too. I guess you just have to try to see both sides until it finally becomes a non-issue. Hopefully, that'll be in our lifetime.
I was literally attacked not only by people online, BUT BY FRIENDS, for being straight. Called Linear, Breeder, teased and asked if I attended that dumb straight pride march that happened in the US. Like, this needs to stop. Why is it that you feel the need to bully me because I'm not apart of the community? I mean, if it was the other way around, wouldn't they get attacked? Equality isn't putting down one person and praising the others. At this point I'm finding myself having a deep rooted hate for the community, and I don't know what to do about it..
It they don't respect you, they don't deserve your respect. For me, remembering the people like Blaire exist helps not to fall into the "fight hate with hate" rabbit hole
literally just cause they are "diffrent" they think we are just boring and not interesting as a straight person a lot of mean things were said to me like leave us alone dude.
Did you do something bad?
Call them out, then ditch them.
I feel the absolute same way about the LGBT community. I really can't stand the majority of them. For the exact same reasons you stated.
As an Anteater I'm very offended.
National Nationalism it’s 1am and i laughed so hard at this i accidentally scared myself oops
National Nationalism Its her own opinion
Floria Msp this comment was a joke...
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I came out when I moved to the US (LA) for a decade. Initially I was happy to hang out with all the gays in the community until I started seeing how much bad attitude is involved. In my whole life I have never seen such hatred for everything different. The racism, body negativity, exclusion, sexism, all that from a community that is all about “acceptance” and “tolerance”. I have cut ties with most of the people I met and hanged out with, it was just waaaay too toxic. The constant back stabbing, vindictiveness, I sometimes felt I was in a real life version of “Mean Girls”. Even though I agree that not liking black guys for example is a preference, I had so MANY gays in LA associate it with something “dirty”, even had guys telling me they would seriously be upset (not the word they used) if they knew I would hook up or be involved with someone black. It was a disgusting attitude.
I'm so confused, honestly. Straight people are being called "breeders", but that's not considered a slur?? And what the heck do my beliefs have to do with anyone? I'm a " Christian", and I believe that God made women to be with men, that's just that. But I don't believe that gay/bi/pan/whatever the heck should be bashed for liking the opposite gender. I still love everyone, but I shouldn't be getting hate for not agreeing with something. I swear, opinions only apply for certain groups of people. Everyone is allowed to feel a certain way, except for people who don't agree with LGBTQ+?? Okay, make it make sense...
Okay but no one talks about the hate other people get for disagreeing with christianity.
@@sheevpalpatine6139 and no one talks about how many hate Christians get for just believing in god.